Female homosexuality is known as lesbianism (less commonly known as sapphism or tribadism). The term derives from the Greek island of Lesbos, the birthplace of the ancient Greek poet Sappho, whose poems allude to love between women. Compared to male homosexuality, female homosexuality has been little studied. Same-sex relationships between women are inherently less destructive and pose far fewer problems, so there is little need to focus research efforts in this area. However, the little known about women who engage in same-sex relationships paints a far from rosy picture. Homosexual and bisexual women are more likely to suffer from psychiatric disorders and display a range of lifestyle-related problems, including short-lived relationships, alcohol, tobacco, and drug abuse , partner violence, and an increased risk of STIs. Older lesbians are at higher risk of obesity and breast cancer than their heterosexual peers, and are more likely to report arthritis, asthma, heart attack, stroke, increased rates of chronic diseases, and poor overall health.
Etiology
Lesbianism by D. Nicolosi
Lesbianism by A. Sigler-Smaltz
Lesbianism by E. Bergler
Statistics
HIV and STDs
Mental disorders and addictions
Violence
Cancer and obesity
Possibility of change
Etiology
It is important to distinguish between homosexual behavior and homosexual attraction, as one is not necessarily accompanied by the other. Homosexual emotional attraction is always a symptom of mental pathology , while homosexual behavior is not necessarily accompanied by homosexual attraction and, therefore, does not allow one to conclude that the practitioner has psychopathology. The reasons that lead a mentally healthy person to same-sex sexual activity are extremely varied. They can be substitutive in nature due to the unavailability of a partner of the opposite sex, committed out of curiosity, selfish interests , excessive lust, and sexual promiscuity , yet be devoid of any homosexual experiences and emotions. Some teenage girls, influenced by the media, now decide they are lesbians because they have never experienced emotional intimacy with men and feel more comfortable interacting with women. This is undoubtedly a hasty and erroneous self-condemnation, as any heterosexual woman experiences a greater sense of trust, intimacy, and understanding with her female friends than with men. Furthermore, it has become fashionable for young people to declare their "bisexuality," and some girls experiment with their own gender largely because of cultural trends. Such episodes are not the focus of this article: it will focus on homosexuality, characterized by a persistent, intractable, and sometimes even compulsive attraction to the same sex. The presence of such an attraction indicates that an event occurred during their psychosexual development that disrupted its normal course and prevented them from reaching the final stage—heterosexuality. Thus, libidinized homosexual feelings are a symptom of emotional immaturity and neurosis.
Let's take a brief detour to better understand what neurosis is from the perspective of depth psychology. In his work "The Basic Neurosis," Edmund Bergler describes neurosis as an "anachronistic (i.e., not related to the present) disease of the unconscious ," rooted in a conflict of infantile desires, fear, guilt, and defense mechanisms . In other words, it's a relatively mild mental disorder, manifested by maladaptive and self-destructive tendencies, but without a loss of touch with reality (although its perception may be significantly distorted). Clinical experience shows that neurosis only progresses with age.
The cause of neurosis is external or internal stresses that cause psychological trauma, which is subsequently forced out into the unconscious. In the case of same-sex attraction, this can be molestation, imaginary or real rejection by peers or parents, inability to establish close relationships with members of the same sex. The patient is not aware of the essence of the underlying conflict, and only an unconscious defense against the repressed problem is visible on the surface. The neurotic is constantly on the lookout for a person or situations that allow re-experiencing of his neurotic pattern. He can be compared to a man who carries a gramophone record with him everywhere and is constantly looking for a turntable on which he can play his only record - his basic unconscious neurotic tendency.
It should be noted that virtually all people have neurotic tendencies, but not everyone has them exaggerated to the point of developing neurosis. This is a question of quantity, not quality (although, as Hegel noted, there may come a point when quantity turns into quality). The crucial difference between a normal person and a neurotic one is that the former has overcome their childhood conflicts to a greater extent and has a more objective view of reality, while the latter abuses reality to unconsciously repeat their childhood conflicts.
Lesbianism by D. Nicolosi
As the founder of the National Association for the Study of Homosexuality explains, Dr. Joseph Nicolosi, the main conflict underlying lesbianism is the girl's unconscious rejection of her femininity. Often, this rejection is based on psychological trauma, which prevents the establishment of a connection with the mother during a period critical for the development of feminine identity. Even if the girl does not exhibit overt masculine behavior, well, she will still have symptoms of gender conflict. In other cases, girls who turn to lesbianism subconsciously decide that being feminine is undesirable or unsafe. Some mothers unknowingly present their daughters with an unattractive image of femininity, presenting a weak or negative object for identification. By rejecting mothers as an object of identification, girls also reject the femininity that their mothers personify. For example, observing a passive subordinate mother, submissively enduring humiliation and violence from a man, a girl subconsciously decides: "if this means being a woman, then I do not want to be one." Sometimes a similar reaction is triggered by sexual abuse by a man at an early age. From the girl's point of view, her femininity somehow provokes sexual violence and, therefore, in order to protect herself, the girl considers it necessary to abandon the “problematic” feminine part of herself. Women who are sexually abused or raped during childhood and adolescence are almost impossible to trust in men. Therefore, they can turn to women for satisfaction of the need for love and sexual desires.
Often, such women appropriate masculine manners and even appearance. This is a primitive psychological survival mechanism, equivalent to the statement: “If someone offends me, I will become like him - so that I will not be hurt. I will be among those who rule. " Many girls with gender disorder are preoccupied with strength, aggression, and fantasies in which they play a protective role. In adulthood, such women may practice sadomasochism, domination, or the "leather" theme. These practices release the subconscious attraction-repulsion conflict in gender matters. The girl who could not identify with her mother suppresses anger against her, because, on the one hand, she wants her, and on the other, she is wounded by her.
Some lesbians suffer not so much from a failure of the identification process as from an unmet need for maternal care. These women retain an unconscious need to reestablish a fragile connection with their mother, personified in another woman. The appeal of lesbian relationships lies in the fact that a woman is "filled" and reconnects with the part of herself she was forced to renounce—her femininity. She borrows it, as it were, from another woman, but this neurotic solution to the problem does not bring healing to the soul. A union with another woman provides only an illusion of wholeness, which must be constantly maintained through complex mechanisms of self-deception and distortion of reality.
Lesbianism by A. Sigler-Smaltz
Therapist Andria Sigler-Smaltz, a former lesbian, currently married, describes the the nature of lesbian relationships.
Lesbian prefers people of her own sex to satisfy her unconscious aspirations and is afraid of intimate communication with the opposite sex. In lesbianism, a woman is “stuck” in development and therefore cannot advance towards healthy heterosexuality. When exactly and how the violation of healthy development occurs, determines the degree of its problems with gender identity.
The driving force in lesbian relationships is the lack of emotional connection and concern on the part of their gender, which, as a rule, are not as sexualized as in male homosexuality. One client, realizing that her lesbian relationships recreate her need for maternal love, explained to me:
"When I meet a woman I'm attracted to, something inside me says, 'Will you be my mommy?' It's an overwhelming, powerful feeling that I can't help but feel. Suddenly, I feel small. I want her to notice me, I want to be special to her, and this desire takes over my mind."
Some lesbians experience negative feelings and internal conflicts with men, which contributes to their inability to accept heterosexuality. Moreover, some of them firmly identify with radical feminism, where women are seen as gifted and desirable, while men are seen as inferior, sex addicted and somewhat useless. It is by no means uncommon that women who have been involved in a lesbian lifestyle for a long time begin to experience a growing disgust for heterosexual relationships.
The main fundamental difference between men and women is that sex and sexual attraction are not necessarily key components of lesbian relationships. For homosexual women, “emotional attraction” plays a more important role than sexual attraction. Cases in which sex is a critical component are related to the fact that it symbolizes emotional intimacy.
Lesbians often experience the feeling "I can not live without you" in relation to each other. At first glance, there is potential for particularly strong attachment in these relationships, but a closer look reveals a behavior that indicates a fragile bond full of fear and anxiety. Key conflicts appear in recurring themes related to identity formation. For example, we see the fear of being abandoned and / or absorbed, the struggle for control and power (or anarchy), as well as the desire to merge with another person to get a sense of security and significance.
Relations between women gravitate more toward social exclusivity than inclusiveness, and it is not unusual for a lesbian couple to gradually reduce contact with family members or old friends. Such distancing provides control over the partner, preventing its autonomy, and serves as protection against alleged threats to their fragile alliance.
Despite the fact that lesbian partnerships are usually longer than male ones, they are often filled with emotional tension and hold on to the “paste” of jealousy *, over-possessiveness and various manipulations. In these respects, emotional ups are very high, and conflicts are extremely aggravated. The excessiveness of spending time together, frequent phone calls, disproportionate giving of cards or gifts, hasty moving under one roof and combining finances - these are some of the ways to protect against autonomy. In such relationships, we see a counterfeit of healthy attachment - emotional dependence and extreme interweaving.
* The pathological jealousy characteristic of lesbians was noted in Krafft-Ebbing's classic 1886 work, "Psychopathy Sexualis" : "This forbidden friendship flourishes especially in women's prisons and is accompanied by both wild jealousy and ardent passion. One prisoner only has to see another prisoner smile at her lover, and a scene of intense jealousy, even to the point of a fight, ensues." This is confirmed by a warden of a modern women's prison: "Such couples need to be closely watched, because terrible scandals occur between them: she looked at the wrong person, smiled at the wrong person, and that's it—fights and fistfights break out. They also break up in a way that everyone knows about—with loud scandals and the division of their meager property." And according to another article about women's prisons: "The most brutal, bloody showdowns, sometimes with fatal outcomes, occur in women's prisons in the post-Soviet space, and mainly because of the jealousy of the "kobls" (active lesbians)."
Lesbianism by E. Bergler
The genesis of female homosexuality is identical to that of males: an unresolved masochistic conflict with the mother from early infancy. During the oral phase of development (the first 1,5 years of life), the budding lesbian experiences a series of complex ups and downs with her mother, preventing a successful conclusion to this phase. A distinctive feature of the clinical lesbian conflict is that it represents an unconscious three-layered structure: a masochistic "collection of injustices," which is covered by pseudo-hatred, which is covered by an exaggerated pseudo-love for a representative of the infantile mother image (neurotics are capable only of ersatz emotions and pseudo-aggression ).
A lesbian is a neurotic with a triad of unconscious concealment, leading to a rather tragicomic quid pro quo , a joke on the naive observer. First, lesbianism, paradoxically, is not an erotic but an aggressive conflict: the basis of the mental masochism of an orally regressed neurotic is an unresolved aggressive conflict, which boomerangs due to feelings of guilt and is only secondarily libidinized . Second, the mask of a "husband and wife" relationship conceals a neurotically charged relationship between a child and mother . Third, lesbianism gives the impression of a biological fact; the naive observer is blinded by their conscious enjoyment, while underneath it lies a curable neurosis.
The outside world, in its ignorance, considers lesbians courageous women. However, not every courageous woman is homosexual. On the other hand, an outwardly courageous lesbian imitating men in clothing, behavior and relationships only shows camouflage that hides her real conflict. The confused observer is unable to explain the “passive” lesbian or the fact that lesbian sexual practices, demonstrating infantile direction, are concentrated mainly around cunnilingus and breast sucking, and mutual masturbation by dildos is concentrated around the clitoris, which is unconsciously identified with the nipple.
My 30 years of clinical experience has shown that lesbianism has five levels:
1) masochistic affection for the mother;
2) veto of inner conscience prohibiting "pleasure from displeasure";
3) the first defense is pseudo-hatred;
4) a repeated veto of inner conscience prohibiting hatred of any kind towards the mother;
5) The second defense is pseudo-love.
Thus, lesbianism is not “female love for a woman”, but the pseudo-love of a masochistic woman who created an internal alibi that she does not consciously understand.
This protective structure in lesbianism explains:
a. Why lesbians are characterized by tremendous tension and pathological jealousy. In inner reality, this type of jealousy is nothing more than a source for the masochistic “gathering of injustices”.
b. Why violent hatred, sometimes expressed in physical attacks, is so subtly hidden in homosexual relationships. The pseudo-love layer (fifth layer) is only a protection covering pseudo-aggression.
a. Why lesbians resort to oedipal camouflage (farce of husband and wife) - it disguises masochistic relations of mother and child, rooted in pre-oedipal conflicts, heavily burdened with guilt.
Mr. Why is it useless to expect satisfactory human relations within the framework of lesbianism. A lesbian unconsciously seeks constant masochistic pleasure, therefore she is incapable of conscious happiness.
The narcissistic lesbian substructure also explains why the infantile conflict with the mother never goes away. Under normal development, the conflict with the mother is resolved by the girl through splitting: the old “hatred” remains with the mother, the component of “love” is shifted to the father, and instead of the duality “baby-mother” (preedipal phase) a triangular oedipal situation “child-mother-father” arises. The future lesbian tries to do the same, only to be thrown back into the original conflict. The oedipal “solution” (itself a transitional phase that the child abandons in the course of his normal development) is that lesbians use the husband-wife (father-mother) disguise as a protective cover.
It is necessary to distinguish between two forms of unconscious identification: “leading” (leading) and “leading” (misleading). The first represents the suppressed desires of the individual, crystallized into the end result of the infantile conflict, and the second refers to identification with people who are chosen to deny and reject the rebukes of inner conscience against these neurotic desires. The “leading” identification of an active type of lesbian refers to preedipal mothers and "leading" to the oedipal father. In the passive type, “leading” identification refers to the child, and “leading” to oedipal mothers.
All of the above, of course, is justified by clinical evidence, described in detail in the books of E. Bergler.
Statistics
According to the latest data from the American Medical Association (AMA), lesbians are more likely than heterosexual women to report psychological distress, poor health, multiple chronic health problems, alcohol abuse, and heavy smoking. Other sources add to this list an increased risk of breast cancer, depression, anxiety, cardiovascular disease, gynecological cancer, obesity, intravenous drug use, and all the risks of unprotected sex with multiple men.
HIV and STDs
A number of studies [ 1 , 2 , 3 ] have established a reliable correlation between homosexual behavior in both sexes and the absence of a father in early childhood, with a greater correlation among girls than boys [ 1 , 2 ] . One possible explanation suggests that the presence (or absence) of a father in the household is perceived as an indicator of the stability and security of relationships with men. According to another explanation, girls who experience parental divorce in early childhood begin having sex earlier and have a greater number of short-term sexual partners.
Research has shown that uninhibited sexual behavior is positively correlated with homosexuality. Sexually uninhibited women have a higher number of sexual partners, many of whom are statistically likely to be women. According to a recent study , women with multiple same-sex sexual partners have even more opposite-sex partners.
According to the US Centers for Disease Control (CDC), up to 97% of lesbians have had sexual intercourse with men (28% in the past year), with 86% engaging in vaginal intercourse and 48% engaging in anal intercourse. Women who have sex with other women (WSW) were found to be more likely than heterosexual women to engage in anal or oral sex with an opposite-sex partner, and were 350% more likely to have had more than 50 sexual partners . The more partners, the higher the risk of infection. Overall, WSW are more likely to engage in sexual activity with homosexual men (partially because they feel more confident with "like-minded" men), further increasing their risk of contracting HIV, hepatitis C, and other STIs common among MSM (men who have sex with men).
Compared to 32% heterosexual women, 44% WSW сообщили About the previous diagnosis of one or more STDs. The most common STDs transmitted between women include bacterial vaginosis, chlamydia, genital herpes and the human papillomavirus, which is pathogen cervical cancer.
Over the past two decades, the lesbian community has become more sexualized . Erotic magazines, sex toy stores, and lesbian-oriented pornographic film companies have proliferated. Lesbian clubs advertise "I Love Pussy" nights and proudly boast of their "activity" in restroom stalls. Lesbian BDSM organizations exist in most major US cities, and polyamory is also becoming increasingly common. Some lesbians have recently begun emulating MSM sexual practices, including fisting, rimming ( 35% ), urolagnia, and anal insertion of objects ( 25% ). Such behavior is undoubtedly associated with serious health risks.
Mental disorders and addictions
Many sources [ 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 , 7 , 8 ] note that WSW are 2-3 times more likely to report depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation. The situation is particularly dire for those women who identify as "bisexual." Moreover, there is a tendency among WSW to delay and avoid seeking medical help. Another negative trend is that some women who initially identified as lesbians subsequently change their identity to "transgender," which puts them at risk of irreversible damage from taking male hormones, disfiguring surgeries, and further psychological suffering.
According to the American Psychiatric Association, women with disabilities are three times more likely to suffer from substance use disorders and are more likely to abuse alcohol and hard drugs. As before, "bisexual" women lead these grim statistics. The Office on Women's Health (HHS) at the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services confirms :
"Drunkenness and drug addiction appear to be more common among lesbians (especially young women) than among heterosexual women ... Bisexual women are more likely than others to have injected drugs and are at a higher risk of sexually transmitted infections."
Violence
A major study found that lesbians and bisexual women experienced disproportionately "prevalent and persistent violence" in childhood . For many lesbians, the abuse does not end in childhood and continues with their partners. In same-sex couples, lesbians are more likely to be victims and perpetrators of violence than gay men.
An APA study found that 47,5% of lesbians had experienced physical violence from a partner. The CDC reported similar data : 40,4% of lesbians had experienced physical violence from a partner, with 29,4% experiencing serious violence, including hitting, burning, or being slammed into something hard.
The Journal of GLBT Family Studies reported that 70,2% of lesbians experienced psychological abuse in the past year. Another study found that 69% of women in same-sex relationships report verbal aggression, and 77,5% report controlling behavior from their partner. According to a recent CDC survey, an average of 63,5% of lesbians experienced psychological aggression from their partner, most often manifested as isolation from family and friends, humiliation, insults, and assurances that no one else cares about them.
Lie and colleagues note that aggression in lesbian relationships is most often mutual. In their sample, 23,1% of lesbians reported forced sex from their current partner, and 9,4% from their former partner. Additionally, 55.1% reported verbal and emotional aggression. Another study found that, compared to 17,8% of heterosexual women, 30,6% of lesbians had sex against their will, and according to Waldner-Haugrud (1997 (1) ) , 50% of lesbians experienced forced penetration from their partner.
A 1994 article in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence examined issues of conflict and violence in female same-sex partnerships. Researchers found that 31% of respondents reported experiencing at least one episode of physical violence from their partner. According to Nichols (2000) , 54% of same-sex women reported experiencing 10 or more episodes of violence from their partners, with 74% reporting 6–10 episodes.
According to a study by the government of Canada:
“…spousal violence occurred twice as often among same-sex couples as heterosexual couples: 15% and 7%, respectively” ( Measuring Violence Against Women: Statistical Trends 2006 , p.39).
The National Violence against Women Survey found that "same-sex cohabiting relationships have significantly higher rates of violence than different-sex relationships. Thirty-nine percent of respondents reported physical and psychological violence from their partner, compared to 21,7% of respondents in different-sex cohabiting relationships" ( CDC 2000 ). The significantly higher rates of violence among WSW undoubtedly contribute to their psychological distress.
Cancer and obesity
Women who have never given birth are at higher risk of cancer. The Office on Women's Health (HHS) notes that hormones released during pregnancy and breastfeeding protect women from breast, endometrial, and ovarian cancer. Women who have never given birth are at higher risk for these cancers because they are less likely to become pregnant, and if they do, the chances of it ending in abortion are higher. Studies have demonstrated a link between abortion and breast cancer and psychological disorders . Polycystic ovary syndrome, a risk factor for endometrial cancer, is much more common among women who have never given birth.
Numerous studies [ 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 , 7 , 8 ] have shown that lesbian and bisexual women have significantly higher rates of obesity (3/4 vs. 1/2), which increases their risk of cardiovascular disease, certain cancers, and early death. A growing body of scientific evidence links cardiovascular disease with an increased risk of certain types of dementia, including Alzheimer's disease and vascular dementia. Compared to other types of marital status, women in same-sex partnerships are the group with the highest mortality rate , which has continued to rise in recent years.
Possibility of change
It's important to know that there is indeed hope for people experiencing unwanted homosexual attraction. Numerous cases of successful therapeutic correction of not only homosexual behavior but also attraction are described in detail in the professional literature. Edmund Bergler, who treated nearly 100 homosexual patients over 30 years of clinical practice, notes that in most cases, lesbianism, like male homosexuality, has an excellent prognosis with psychodynamic therapy. A report by the National Association for the Research and Therapy of Homosexuality presents a comprehensive review of empirical data, clinical reports, and scientific research from the late 19th century to the present day, convincingly demonstrating that interested men and women can make the transition from homosexuality to heterosexuality.
The Voice(s) of Hope website contains nearly 80 video testimonies from women and men who have left homosexuality and are now leading fulfilling heterosexual lives. Even if faith is the motivation for most of these changes, religion is not the primary requirement for change, although it is undoubtedly a valuable aid, as it provides a clear direction and strengthens one's will to confront the dark side of one's personality.
Based political ideology, Western medical institutions oppose the treatment of unwanted same-sex attraction under the pretext that it is "potentially harmful", but in fact, they deceive the publicwithout explaining that:
(1) All psychiatric services for all personal and interpersonal problems can be harmful;
(2) Responsible science has not yet shown whether the risk of harm in the treatment of an undesirable same-sex drive is greater, the same, or less than the risk of any other psychotherapy.
And while APA publicly condemns therapeutic attempts to reorient, in its internal highly specialized literatureintended for professionals reported following:
“Recent empirical evidence suggests that homosexual orientation can indeed be therapeutically altered in motivated clients, and that attempts at reorientation therapy do not produce emotional harm.”
This is not a revelation: back in 1973, in a document proposing to exclude ego-syntonic (i.e., patient-acceptable) homosexuality from the list of mental disorders, the APA noted that “modern treatment methods allow a significant proportion of homosexuals who wish to change their orientation to do so . ”
It should be noted that the problem of homosexual attraction is no different from any other therapeutic problem: “change” does not mean at all that the problem disappears once and for all. For example, if a person successfully got rid of depression, this does not mean that he will never have it again. Also, people who get rid of drug or alcohol addiction will face old temptations, but to a much lesser extent, and stumbling and sliding back is a matter of one wrong step.
The transition from homosexuality to heterosexuality should not be seen as a question of "either one or the other." There is a certain continuum - that is, a slow progressive decrease in homosexual tendencies and an increase in heterosexual qualities, the degree of manifestation of which varies widely. Many of those who got rid of homosexual addictions with the help of psychotherapy, regretted only that they had not done this before, because they were convinced that they could not or should not try to change.
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From Tomboys to Lesbians (J. Nicolosi) .pdf
In this interview, two women in a lesbian relationship talk about the reasons that led them on this path. Their narrative fully echoes the rich clinical experience detailed in the professional literature, which indicates that lesbianism is often based on severe trauma received from men. This trauma can manifest itself in paterophobia (fear of the father) and / or androphobia (fear of men in general). The fathers of women who later enter into homosexual relationships, often callous, abuse alcohol or resort to violence.
The American Psychological Association notes that the absence of one or both parents, mainly the parent of the same sex with the child, may be causally related to homosexual attraction. For girls, the death of the mother in childhood plays an important role in this. Such girls have an unmet need for custody and a desire to restore a fragile bond with their mother, whose prototype they are unconsciously looking for in another woman.
There are beautiful lesbians in life, the author of the article specifically found such terrible photos. Lesbians are ordinary women and they can be completely different as well as straight! Do you think heterosexuals look like Angelina Jolie all the time?
Club lesbian poets:
Beauties lol
Interestingly, do they know anything about makeup? No wonder they are lesbians
Real lesbians look exactly like that, as shown in the article. You probably read this article through your fingers. Homosexual behavior and homosexual attraction are not the same thing.
Why not first familiarize yourself with the content of the article before writing comments off topic? Everything is explained in it.
Yes, there are "trendy" lesbians - teenage girls who experiment with their gender and declare themselves "lesbians" or "bi" more because of the current cultural trend than because of the disturbed femininity that underlies lesbianism.
Until I was 20 years old I didn’t use makeup and dressed so that on the street I often heard “young man” addressing me. Closer to 25, she let go of her hair, began to competently use cosmetics and even wear dresses / skirts.
Gender dysphoria and sexual orientation are not the same thing!
You are a vile homophobic propaganda portal and will be blocked. Required.
Well said.
Cat de handicapați sunteți, dacă cine vă spune adevărul în față gata e homofob, sunteți cretini?! Asta e părerea autorului din sursele din care a extras, vă supăra adevărul? Atunci asta este, adevărul nu poate să fie inâbușit niciodată, aștept răspunsuri de genul "homofobule"
same cí věci.Homosexualita je zcela normální jev.Autorka je mimo
I know (or have come across in life) a LOT of lesbians with the appearance of almost models! I understand that the purpose of the article is anti-propaganda, and even so naively stupidly written (for the natives from the island). Instead of all this nonsense, we would have seriously figured out the reasons and possibilities of "what to do"!
Here is another model for you:
Pretty guy)))
An ordinary obese woman over 40. Straight straight all the top models!
It would be more correct to say not "natural", but normal / healthy. The Lescicon of the Sodomites is internally wounded.
In this case, the terminology "disease" is not appropriate. Homosexuality is a kind of norm.
Fool, do you even understand the meaning of what you wrote? Anti-propaganda! Based on the term you use, you acknowledge that there is LGBT propaganda as a phenomenon. Is it naively silly written? Seriously? On the statistics and experiments of scientists?
You yourself are anti-propaganda. What exactly is wrong? Only poop know how to throw? Essentially, as usual, there is nothing to argue.
Only you are throwing poop here, dear. Her comment is more than appropriate.
To podrzuć nam kilka fotek tych lesbijek
And none of that detracts from what the article states.
How do you know those models aren't lesbians due to trauma? (In fact there is a beautiful Polish girl in a lesbian relationship with Taiwanese girl, both of whom seem to indicate a case of emotional copendence and a lack of parental affection and attention).
They literally (unbeknownst to them) repeated the reasons for their lesbianism from this article.
Also, as pointed out, a lot of young girls are having emotional support from female friends / associates confused with romantic / sexual attraction.
They're actually seeking out emotional attention; and in today's perverse society a lot of young girls are being goaded into turning emotional bonds with other girls into sexual relationships. This is especially prominent among girls hitting puberty, which results in them becoming sexually disoriented.
Heck, in the UK, they now say that only 1 in 2 young teens consider themselves to be thoroughly heterosexual. The YouGov report indicated that 23% of British people choose something other than 100% heterosexual - and the figure rises to 49% among 18-24 year olds.
This is awful, and you're seeing it more and more as especially young girls are roped into thinking they need to be bisexual or lesbian to fit in with their peers. Women are also more likely to acquiesce to peer pressure more than men, even if it's not something they inherently see as beneficial to them. Hence, you see a lot of young, fertile, beautiful women being chained into toxic lesbian relationships because the media told them that heterosexuality is a "social construct" and a compulsory element of a patriarchical hierarchy.
These poor young girls will be ruined almost for the rest of their lives unless they seek therapy ASAP, because otherwise they will simply become a statistic like the ones mentioned in the article above.
Horrible article
Horrible comment
It's a great article
What kind of wretched nonsense is written in my commentary e̶t̶o̶y̶ ̶s̶t̶a̶t̶e? O_O
Good article. Though the truth about homosexuality is written somewhere.
LGBT girls, come to your senses! You are living a fake life. Don't be fooled that orientation cannot be changed. Believe me, if you want to truly live, find true happiness and a full-fledged family, you can change and you will be very happy in a new role for yourself - women in the full sense of the word.
God give you family happiness with a loving and beloved man!
Yeah. Islet of sanity.
fake life? It's quite the opposite, actually
The fact is that lately there are almost no men who love it…. Now you have to be with an ideal figure to please them, and you must cook and wash. Most people don't want to be in a relationship like a bondage.
Thus, you bring your slavery closer
Homosexuality is a kind of norm, it is not a disorder. There is no evidence to the contrary. Others are more than enough.
Homosexuality is by no means the norm, but a psychiatric disease, a disorder of human sexuality. He was removed from the list of psychiatric diagnoses strictly for political reasons related to the pressure of sadomites dissatisfied with the truth, which has nothing to do with medicine and real science. And to make people believe that homosexuality is normal, they are able only by force, which is clearly expressed in modern violent prohibitions in society. As they say, if you are not able to compete with the truth, silence it, which was done in Western society.
I am a lesbian, and I agree with the author. Most (but not all) lesbians are unsympathetic, afraid of men, unable to endure loneliness, have difficulty establishing long-term relationships, with increased anxiety, are able to plan and make long-term plans with great difficulty. I disagree that this is easy to fix. Maybe, if caught in adolescence, it can be corrected in some cases. But they do not want to correct, they believe that the whole world offends them, and if you change the attitude towards them, then everything will work out for them. But, alas, and oh, mental health is not added. It is a pity that instead of competent psychological help they are being drawn into the community of the same, in fact, losers.
You are correct, you said everything. I also agree with you. We all need to be treated. You are such a great fellow. And it's hard for me to admit I'm a failure. You are probably already straight and married.
This is the thing I fear the most.
A lot of Gen Z kids being lured into the dangerous occult-like lifestyle of the Rainbow Reich and then being unable to escape from it in a healthy manner, or wasting away all their good years stuck in a trauma-inducing cycle of physical or emotional abuse.
It's scary to think about how many innocent kids will be lost to this LGBT pandemic.
Olga, have you yourself tried to change something in yourself and work on yourself, for example, become a heterosexual woman, have a husband, a family, and children? Or do you live by the principle of come what may and go with the flow?
No, why? To what? To face other problems, this time of a heterosexual nature? They have enough of their own problems. I have complete acceptance of myself. Yes, there are some peculiarities, something went wrong. So what? And are all straight people healthy and happy? Don't make me laugh. To live with a man because it is necessary - whoever needs it, let him live. To sleep with someone to whom there is no attraction - no, thank you, I love myself. I have a child, we also reproduce through *isyu. Everything is fine with me. Thank you for caring about my existence)
I hate lesbians with passion.
You are correct, you said everything. I also agree with you. We all need to be treated. You are such a great fellow. And it's hard for me to admit I'm a failure. You must be straight and married already, Olga.
Let them treat you, and leave us healthy homosexual people alone.
I immediately remembered the comedy "and they will cure me", although there was no talk about political lesbians as in this article
You did not give more than one argument refuting what was written in the article, which people from the Science for Truth group tried to refute with all their love and research, where research was taken into account, both older - before all this LGBT hype, and relatively new. Supplemented and the words of Freud, where he did not say that homosexuality is an absolute norm of human sexuality, but only said that it is the cause of delayed sexual development and upbringing. So come on, Lizok, stop licking pussy and read the professional medicine of early sexology, and not the bullshit written in Intrigue dating from Fomina's sofa expertise.
Of course, it's hard to admit that something went wrong at some stage, I understand perfectly well.
For my part, I will say - I am bi. And I absolutely agree with the author about the psychological causes of non-traditional orientation. But I don’t agree that this is a disease, it needs to be treated, otherwise it’s a disaster, etc. and that's it. Yes, I had big problems communicating with boys at school and some problems with my dad. But they are long in the past, I resolved them and forgot. There is a woman who I incredibly like as a person, she is tender and fragile and there is a subconscious desire to support her, protect her, stand up for her, protect her .. I don’t know why. There is a deep relationship between us with a similar outlook on the world and hobbies. There is some sexual overtones, there is, but nothing more than something spiritual and subtle anyway, and I don’t fucking understand why this is bad? If the Lord so provided... I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. Despite the fact that I am going to build a long romantic relationship with a guy one day, and sexual relationships too. But the guy is ONLY the same. I do NOT experiment with my sexuality. I am very glad that I am bi, because the reality for me is different, much brighter and deeper.
In short, it just annoys me when the rainbow community is attacked. Let people love who they want to love and get on with your life. Just.with.my.life. If you don't like it, don't pay attention to it - it's simple
Nastya! Please tell me you want to start a family, children and be a beloved wife in the full sense of the word and build a relationship with a man. The path of a woman after a man.
No, she obviously doesn't want to. Stop imposing your wives, children! Happiness is different for everyone.
great article dave! your wife mentioned it last week and we decided to check it out over family dinner tonight. I recently vaxxed my youngest Jude in fear he will be caught in the LGBT pandemic. if only my wife's lesbianism were caught in adolescence, we wouldn't be living a lie. I hate also being a gay man who was not treated efficiently because sometimes i still experience thoughts and fantasies which can be hard to control at times, especially while visiting.
And who the pancake should shake, who meets with whom!
it's just very Ugly and for them to adopt children that's just child abuse