ʻ Josephlelo aku ʻo Joseph Nicolosi, ke Kauka o ka Psychology:
Ma ke ʻano he psychologist e mālama ana i nā kāne homosxally orientally, ke nānā nei wau me ka pīhoihoi i ka neʻe o ka LGBT neʻe i ka honua i ka manaʻo o ka "gay" e koi hou i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana o ke ʻano o ke kanaka.
ʻO ka poʻe o nā psychologists ka mea nui loa e hoʻopiʻi no kēia hali o nā manaʻo. Ma mua, ua ʻae like nā poʻe a pau ke kumu "ʻo ka mea e hana e like me kona ʻekekehi." ʻAʻohe mea i like me ka "ke kanaka pelekane," no ka mea ua koho ʻia ka lehulehu kanaka a me ka heterosexual maoli. Ma koʻu mau makahiki o 30 no ka hana lapaʻau, uaʻike wau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia ʻike anthropological mua.
ʻO ka makeʻana o ka male, i koʻu manaʻo, he hōʻailona maʻamau o ka trauma wahine. ʻO kahi kaʻao kanaka i ka maʻi he hōʻailona hōʻailona e "hoʻopili" i ka hōʻeha mua, hoʻowahāwahā i ke keiki mai kona male aku ma kahi o kāna kāne, ʻaʻole ia i hōʻike. Hōʻike kēia i kēia ʻano hana mai ka heterosexual, ka mea kū maoli i ke kaʻina hana o ke ʻano hoʻohālikelike o ka ʻike wahine. ʻO ka hakakā nui i ka hapanui o nā hihia o ka male i ka pelekōne e like me kēia: ke keiki, ʻokoʻa a paʻakikī loa a paʻakikī i ka trauma hōʻeha ma mua o ka awelika, ke manaʻo nei i ke aloha a me ka ʻike mai ka makua mai o ia ʻano like o ka wahine like ʻole, akā ʻo ka manawa like ka manaʻo me ka huhū a huhū iā ia, no ka mea ʻike ʻia ka makua e ke keiki e like me ke nānā a i ʻole ka luhi. (Nānā e ʻike ʻē paha i nā hoahānau a me nā kaikuahine o kēia keiki.
ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa i nā loina e hana hou nei i kēia aloha aloha-aloha. E like me nā mea hoʻokalakupua, nā ʻano like o ka wahine i loaʻa i kahi papa o ka huhū. ʻO wau e hoʻohana i kēia huaʻōlelo, ʻaʻole e hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi, akā ma ka manaʻo ke "perverts" hoʻomohala ʻia, ʻo ia hoʻi, "hoʻohuli i nā kānaka" mai kahi kikoʻī e pili ana i ka pili o erotic.
Pēlā, ʻo ka moekolohe ke kumu me ka hakakā: ʻo ka hakakā ka ʻae ʻana i ka wahine kūlohelohe, kahi hakakā i nā pilina makua-keiki, a ʻo ia hoʻi ke ʻano o ka hakakā ʻana o nā hōʻaole e nā hoa like o ka wahine like ʻole. A ʻo kēia ke ʻano e hōʻike ʻia kahi hoʻohālike pule-submission e loaʻa kahi hopena i pili i nā pilina like like. No kahi kāne, ʻo ka moe kolohe ke hoʻokaʻawale i ke kanaka ʻē aʻe. Hoʻohālike ia he "ʻona" nona ke kanaka ʻē aʻe, a hoʻopili pinepine ʻia ma mua o ke aloha.
Nui ka nui o nā kāne i ʻōlelo ʻia e ke moe kolohe ʻia e nā kāne i ka wā kamaliʻi. ʻO ka hana ʻino i ka moekolohe hoʻi ka ukiuki, no ka mea ua hoʻohālikelike ʻia lākou i ke aloha. Eia kahi mea e hōʻike ai kahi mea maʻi e pili ana i kahi ʻōpio ʻōpio nāna i hoʻohāukiuki iā ia:
"Makemake au i ke aloha a me ka nānā, a ua huikau nā mea āpau me ka wahine. I loko o kēlā manawa, ʻaʻohe oʻu hoihoi i ka moekolohe i nā keikikāne ʻē aʻe. Ua manaʻo wau he ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia (ka mea hoʻopunipuni). ʻAʻole ʻo ia i nānā iki iaʻu, ke makemake wale ia e leʻaleʻa me aʻu. I ka moekolohe ʻana o kā mākou pili, he mea kūikawā ia, pīhoihoi a ikaika hoʻi, me he mea lā aia kahi hūnā ma waena o mākou. ʻAʻohe aʻu mau hoaaloha ʻē aʻe, a ʻaʻohe mea kōkua koʻu pilina maikaʻi ʻole me koʻu makuakāne. Ke ʻimi nei wau i ka pili aloha ... (akā) pili kēia mau hoʻomanaʻo iaʻu ... inaina wau iā lākou. Hoʻowahāwahā wale kēia mau mea āpau, hewa .... ʻO kēia ke kumu o koʻu hoihoi i kaʻu wahine.
ʻO kahi pilina ma waena o ka hana ʻino i ka wā mua a me kēia ʻano hana i ke ʻano o ka mea maʻi i kahi hoʻohālike i ka hana hou ʻana. I ka ʻimi ʻana i ke aloha a me ka hoʻomaopopo, ʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho i loko o ka hoʻi hou ʻana o ka hanana e kū ana i ka luku ʻana iā ia iho a me ke kūloko ponoʻī ʻana, me ke kōkua o kahi ʻike ʻole ʻole ʻo ia e loaʻa ka lanakila hope a ho'ōla i kāna mau hōʻeha. ʻO ka hoʻohaʻoha lima ikaika i ʻekolu mau mea: 1) i ka ʻohi ponoʻī, 2) kekahi ʻano o ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana iho, 3) i ka haʻalele ʻana o ka hakakā i lalo.
No kēlā mau kānaka, ulu ka makemake i ka manaʻo pilikino ma o ka hoʻonaninani like ʻana me ka makaʻu e hiki ʻole ke hōʻoia i kā lākou kāne kūʻokoʻa i ke ʻano o ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa. Ke koho nei lākou i kahi kuana o ka hana hou o ka ʻike ma mua me ka manaolana, ʻaʻole like me nā hihia ma mua, "ʻoiai kēia manawa e loaʻa iaʻu ka mea aʻu e makemake ai: me kēia kanaka, e loaʻa iaʻu ka ikaika masculine noʻu" a "ʻo kēia manawa nā manaʻo haʻahaʻa o ka pau ʻole o loko. pau ka hope. ”Akā, hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka mana o ke kanaka e hiki iā ia iā ia iho e hiki iā ia ke hōʻole iā ia, hilahila iā ia, a hoʻohilahila iā lākou. Ke hoʻokani hou ʻia nei kēia ʻano hoʻohilahila e hoʻohilahila hou ʻia, e hoʻoikaika wale ana ia i kāna mea i kūʻiʻo ʻo ia i ka mea hopohopo ʻole a aloha ʻole ʻia ke aloha.
Hōʻike pinepine nā kāne male i ka make wai no ka "adrenaline rush", e hoʻoikaika ana i kahi mea o ka makaʻu mua. Aia kahi ʻōlule holoʻokoʻa kahi e hana ai i ka wahine ma nā wahi ākea, e leʻaleʻa lākou i ka hana ʻana i nā wahi e like me nā paka, nā keena lehulehu a me nā wahi kaʻa. Hoʻonui ʻia kā lākou ʻano erotic e ka makaʻu e loaʻa iā lākou i ka unuhi i ka ʻulaʻula.
E hana iā ia iho sodomi ischiani kikchistic. ʻO ka moʻo samal, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hōʻino ʻana i ka pahuhopu o ko mākou kino, he pōʻino ʻole ia a me ka luku ʻia a anatomically, a hoʻokomo i ka hoʻopōʻino i ka ʻāʻī a me ka laha ʻana o nā maʻi, no ka mea, ua palupalu a me ka poʻohiwi nā palaka. I ka noʻonoʻo, hana kēia hana i ka hanohano o ke kanaka a me ka masculinity. ʻO ka hana hoʻohālikelike hana hana, me kāna kiʻi a pau a hoʻohiki i ka ʻoluʻolu, hūnā i kahi makemake hohonu aʻe, e hoʻomaka mua ka makemake e loaʻa ka hoʻopono maoli. Ke wehe nei kēia i kahi puka no mākou e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke kumu e hoʻomau nei ka hoʻokaumaha ʻia o ka hui kuʻuna, ʻoiai nā pōmaikaʻi hoʻomaikaʻi ʻole ʻia ua kū ʻia ia i ka lehulehu.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hōʻole ʻia ka luhi ʻana o ke kāne male. Ke hāʻawi nei ka noiʻi iā mākou i nā hōʻike no ka hoʻohālikelike ʻole ʻana i ka manaʻo hoʻohālikelike me nā kāne heterosexual:
• ʻO ke ʻano kūpono o nā kāne i ʻoi aku ma mua o ʻeono mau manawa i ʻoi aku.
• Hana pinepine nā kāne i ka wahine i ka hōʻailona o ka hoa kāne.
• Hōʻike nui nā kāne i nā kāne i nā mea hou aku.
• 'O ka nui o ka luhi a me nā pilikia hopohopo e aneane' ekolu mau manawa nui loa.
• Pilikia pinepine ka maʻi panic i nā manawa ʻehā.
• Bipolar ʻano maʻi - heʻoi aku iʻoi aku ma mua o ʻelima.
• He ʻano Antisocial - kokoke i ʻehā mau manawa.
• agoraphobia (makaʻu i ka hele ʻana ma nā wahi ākea) - ʻeono mau manawa pinepine.
• nā maʻi hoʻomāiʻi i ka hopena - ʻehiku mau manawa pinepine.
• Hiki iā lākou iho e hōʻino iā lākou iho (i nā manawa suicidal) a hiki i 10 mau manawa pinepine.
• Hoʻopili me ka Nikotine - ʻelima manawa pinepine.
• Meaʻoi aku ka nui o ka hoʻoilo alakaʻi i ʻekolu manawa kiʻekiʻe.
• Aia ma mua o ʻehā mau manawa i ka mea maʻamau ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau.
Hōʻike maikaʻi ʻia nā moe kolohe Erratic i nā loea maʻamau o McUirter a me Mattison, ka mea i kākau ma kā lākou puke ʻo The Male Couple (1984) o nā pilina o 165 i ʻike ai, ʻaʻole he mau kāne i hiki ke noho mau me kaʻoiaʻiʻo no nā makahiki ʻelima. ʻO nā mea kākau, ʻo lākou iho he mau kāne kīwaha, he mea haʻohaʻo ia i ka manaʻo ʻo ka moekolohe ʻaʻole he meaʻino wale nō ia no ka lōʻihi o ka pilina, akā pono naʻe, e pono no. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa lākou: "ʻO ka mea nui i hiki ke hui pū i nā kāne ma hope o nā makahiki he ʻumi o ka noho ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hemahema o ka waiwai o kēlā me kekahi" (p. 256).
ʻAʻohe ʻano o ka male i ka male ma ke ao kūlohelohe, koe wale nō he mau hōʻailona a me ka hopena o nā hanana ʻino. Inā ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole kēia he mea o kēia ao, kahi moʻomanaʻo i hana ʻia mai ka moemoeā a me nā kukoʻole. Akā me ke kōkua o ka poʻe uka, ʻo Hollywood a me nā luna politika (ʻoi aku ka nui o ka mahalo i ka alakaʻi ʻana Obama) ua hoʻolālā ʻia kahi wehewehe hou o ke kanaka kanaka. Ua hana ka mea hoʻopunipuni nei i kahi moʻoolelo, ka helu ʻana o nā moemoeā a me nā kilokilo erotic, ka mea i paʻa i ka manaʻo maoli. Ua hoʻohuli ʻia ke ʻano anthropology ʻano haʻahaʻa, a ua hoʻolālā ʻia he kanaka hou. Ke hoʻokau nei ke kanaka i ka inoa o ka "gay", hoʻokaʻawale ʻo ia iā ia iho mai ke ao kūlohelohe a waiho iā ia iho i ke komo piha ʻana i ka hopena o nā kānaka.
Mai ka makua kāne i ke keiki, a i mua hoʻi i ka moopuna, hiki i ka moopuna a kāua moʻolelo, ʻo ka hua o ke kanaka ka mea pili i nā hanauna āpau. Ma o DNA, ke hoʻomau neiʻo ia e ola ma hope o ka make. I ka manawa hoʻokahi o ka ʻōpū o ka wahine, hana kāna hua i kahi ola kanaka hou. Akā me nā moe kolohe, ʻo ka hua o ke ola e nalowale wale i ka pala a me ka make. Ma ke ʻano kūlohelohe, mālama ʻia ke ʻano kanaka, a hoʻomau ke kanaka i nā hanauna i hope. Akā i loko o kahi moekolohe pili i ka trauma, ka mea i pale i ke kumu kumu o ko mākou kino, ʻo kona ikaika kūlohelohe e alakaʻi i ka make a me ka luku. Pēlā, ʻo ka hoʻonohonoho pono o ke kino e hōʻike i kēia kūʻokoʻa: ola hou a pala paha a make.
ʻAʻohe mea kupanaha a ʻike mākou i ka leʻaleʻa nui loa i ka honua pelu, ʻaʻole wale no ka mea i ʻāpono ʻole ʻia e ka lehulehu, akā, no ka mea e ola nei ka mea e noho nei ma kēia ao me ka lapuwale o ka ʻike pilikino. Hoʻokomo ʻia i ka hoʻolima ʻana o nā kūpuna o nā kūpuna o nā kūpuna o nā kūpuna, ka mea i hui pū ʻia me kekahi ma waena o nā male maoli no nā kenekulia. I ka honua maoli, ʻaʻole kūpono ka ʻike maoli. ʻO kahi homosexima he hōʻailona wale nō ia o ka uku erotized no ka nalowale o ka hoʻopili ʻia.
ʻAe, heftig stigmatiserende kikokikona. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia ka mea. He aha ke kumu o ka pilikia o ka fetish hebben, o? Oh wacht.. ja, dit is toch echt wel .ru :(. Laat mensen alsjeblieft met rust, laat ze, alsjeblieft, en ga met je eigen onvrede en heersdrang om. herkenning te vinden omdat ik verstoting meemaakte door geaardheidt. en discriminerend te zijn, toch jammer. En bij al die tegenwind, Ja dan gaan mensen de pijn verdoven, ik ga me verder niet verdedigen. Laat elkaar, laat elkaar met rust.
laat de kinderen met rust. je bent gevaarlijk. heteroseksuele fetisjen merken geen normale seks op. geef toe dat je abnormaal bent en laat de kinderen met rust met je propaganda. het maakt ons niet uit hoe je seks hebt, maar je wilt de kinderen van normale mensen hersenspoelen en de normalisatie van hun deshiadatie opleggen. je bent ziek en gevaarlijk. je hebt het Westen al in de stront veranderd, maar je kunt niet stoppen totdat je de hele planeet infecteert.