ʻO ka loli a me ka maikaʻi o nā kāne

HE HAAWINA 'E A'E I KA PONO A ME KA PALAPALA O REPARATIVE THERAPY

ʻOiai ke kau nei ka poʻe kālai'āina i alakaʻi ʻia e LGBT i nā kānāwai e pāpā ai i ke kōkua therapeutic no ka poʻe i ʻike i ka homosexual i makemake ʻole ʻia, ua puka mai kahi noiʻi hou ma US e hōʻike ana e hiki ke kōkua ʻia kēlā mau kānaka.

ʻO ka American Psychological Association (APA) a me nā hui olakino noʻonoʻo ʻē aʻe e paipai i ka poʻe psychologists e hoʻonāwaliwali i nā mea kūʻai mai ka hoʻololi ʻana i kā lākou moe kolohe ma ke ʻano he "ʻaʻole i hōʻoia maikaʻi ʻia nā ʻano hana i hoʻohana ʻia." Ma ka haʻi ʻana i ka "sampling bias, indequate methodology, incorporate classification of participants, and self-reported estimates," ke hoʻohewa nei ka APA i nā hōʻike e loaʻa nei no ka holomua hou ʻana ma ke ʻano he "kūpono ʻole" no ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā hopena empirical paʻa.

Eia naʻe, ma ka moʻomeheu maikaʻi loa o nā kūlana pālua, hoʻohana ka APA i ka noiʻi me nā hemahema like e hōʻino i ka "conversion therapy" a kākoʻo i ka "gay affirmative therapy." He mea pono e hoʻomaopopo he 4 wale nō nā haʻawina empirical a quasi-empirical i nānā i ka hopena o kahi "gay affirmative" i ka maikaʻi o ka mea kūʻai aku. ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hui pū ʻia nā hopena o kēia mau haʻawina, a ʻaʻole maikaʻi nā ʻano hana, hōʻike ka APA i ke ala "gay affirmative" ma ke ʻano he kiʻekiʻe loa a ʻo ia wale nō ka mea i ʻae ʻia. Wahi a ka moʻolelo i ʻae ʻia inā loaʻa ke kanaka i ka hoʻohihi like ʻana i ka kāne, a laila pono ʻo ia e ʻae i kahi ʻano homosexual a i ʻole bisexual paha, ʻo ia ke kumu o kona ʻano holoʻokoʻa a me kona nohona. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ʻae ka nui o ka poʻe i kēia alignment a ʻaʻole makemake lākou e wehewehe i ko lākou ʻano ma ke kumu o ka ʻike pilikino.

A no laila, i Nowemapa 2021, ua paʻi ʻo ke kaukaʻi ʻo Arizona Christian University ʻo Carolyn Pela a me ka psychotherapist Philip Sutton i nā hopena o ʻelima mau makahiki o ka hana e hoʻopau ai i nā koi manipulative o ka APA.

Ua hahai nā mea noiʻi i nā mea kūʻai aku 75 o Reintegrative Therapy, kahi ʻōnaehana psychotherapeutic e pili ana i nā ʻano hana maʻamau i hoʻohana ʻia i ka mālama ʻana i ka trauma a me nā addictions. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i komo mai he poʻe hoʻomana keʻokeʻo ma ka makahiki 18-35 i ʻike i ka hoʻowalewale ʻana i ka kāne hoʻokahi akā makemake lākou e hoʻopau iā ia, no nā kumu hoʻomana a i ʻole e komo i kahi male kuʻuna.

He mea kupaianaha nā hopena: i ka wā o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, ua emi ka hoihoi o ka poʻe komo, ua hoʻonui ʻia ka hoihoi heterosexual, a ua neʻe ka ʻike i ka heterosexual. Ua hōʻike pū ʻia ka ʻikepili "he hoʻomaikaʻi koʻikoʻi a me ka helu helu i ka maikaʻi." Ma ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa, hōʻoia nā hopena o kēia noiʻi ʻana e hiki ke hoʻololi i ka hoʻoikaika kino i ka maikaʻi, pono, a me ka pōʻino.

"Pēlā," wahi a nā mea kākau, "ʻaʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻohe hōʻike ʻepekema e pili ana i nā pōmaikaʻi a i ʻole nā ​​pōʻino o ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka moe kolohe. Eia kekahi, ʻo nā ʻōlelo aʻo mau a ka APA a me nā hui ʻē aʻe e pili ana i nā mea kūʻai aku e ʻimi nei e hoʻololi i ko lākou ʻano moe kolohe, he alakaʻi hewa ia, ʻaʻole ʻoihana, a ʻaʻole kūpono hoʻi e pili ana i ka hālāwai ʻana i nā pono kūpono o nā mea kūʻai aku no ka hoʻoholo ʻana iā lākou iho. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka hōʻole ʻana o ka APA i ke aʻo ʻana i nā mea kākau kānāwai e kūʻē i ka "conversion therapy," ʻaʻole kākoʻo ka noiʻi ʻana i kona pōʻino, a ʻo nā psychotherapy kuʻuna āpau e lawe i ka pōʻino, ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia. Ma muli o kāna hoʻolālā ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, ua hōʻike ʻia ka noiʻi ʻana e hiki i nā poʻe me nā hiʻohiʻona like ʻole i makemake ʻia ke manaʻolana i nā pōmaikaʻi ma mua o ka pōʻino mai ke komo ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau.

Pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻia ua kūʻē ikaika nā mea kākau i ke kapa ʻana i kā lākou ʻōnaehana "conversion therapy", e like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei he huaʻōlelo paʻakikī, derogatory a hoʻonāukiuki e pili ana i ka ʻauʻau hau a me nā haʻalulu uila, i hoʻohana ʻia e hoʻoweliweli i ka poʻe me ka makemake ʻole o ka homosexual attraction. Kāhea nā mea kākau i kā lākou methodology SAFE-T (sexual attraction fluidity exploration in therapy), ʻo ia ka consonant me ka huaʻōlelo "safety" a unuhi ʻia ʻo "ka aʻo ʻana i ka ʻokoʻa o ka makemake moe kolohe i ka lāʻau lapaʻau."

Ua hoʻokumu ke kino o ka hana ʻepekema i ka "fluidity" (ʻo ia hoʻi ka ʻokoʻa, fluidity a i ʻole ka neʻe ʻana) o ka makemake moe kolohe i nā poʻe he nui, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe i ʻike i ka homosexual attraction. ʻOiai he ʻano kāne kāne, bisexual, a heterosexual paha ka poʻe, ʻaʻole kūpono ko lākou mau ʻike i kēia mau ʻāpana, akā hana i kahi continuum kahi e neʻe ai ka manaʻo o ka hoihoi i nā ala ʻelua. ʻO ka ʻenehana SAFE-T hiki i ka mea kūʻai ke ʻimi i ka ʻokoʻa o kona makemake moe kolohe a hoʻololi i ke ala āna e makemake ai.

No ka "pōʻino a me ka pono ʻole", ʻo kēlā me kēia ala psychotherapeutic, ʻoiai ʻo ka mea i ʻike ʻia a maikaʻi hoʻi, hiki ke lilo i mea maikaʻi ʻole a pōʻino paha i ka mea kūʻai. No laila, ʻo ka hapa mau o nā pākeke (a hiki i 10%) a me kahi hapa kiʻekiʻe o nā keiki (a hiki i 24%) e hōʻike ana i ka hōʻemi ʻana o ko lākou kūlana i ka wā o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, a ʻo 45% o nā mea kūʻai mai ke kaumaha ʻaʻole i ʻike i ka hoʻomaikaʻi nui.

Hāʻawi ka haʻawina a Pela lāua ʻo Sutton i nā hōʻike ikaika e hiki ai i kekahi mau mea kūʻai aku i makemake e hoʻomalu i kā lākou makemake ʻole a me kā lākou ʻano hana i hiki ke kūleʻa. Hoʻopiʻi kēia i ka manaʻo o ka APA e kūʻē i ka reparative therapy, a me nā hoʻoikaika kānāwai e pāpā i nā koho therapeutic no nā mea kūʻai aku. ʻO ka poʻe i makemake e hōʻemi i ka makemake like ʻole a i ʻole ka nui o ka hoʻohihia ʻana i ka kāne like ʻole, he kuleana ko lākou e ʻimi a loaʻa i ke kōkua ʻoihana e hoʻokō i kā lākou mau pahuhopu, a he kuleana ko ka poʻe ʻoihana olakino noʻonoʻo e hāʻawi i ia kōkua.

Wikiō piha


ʻO ka ʻike hou aku e pili ana i ka psychotherapy no ka makemake ʻole o ka kāne like ʻole:
https://pro-lgbt.ru/category/articles/therapy

10 manaʻo e pili ana i ka "Maʻi like ʻole a me ka maikaʻi o nā kāne"

  1. Mahalo mākou i nā mea noiʻi pono. Ua hana ʻia ke kanaka e ke Akua, a he mālamalama ke Akua, ʻaʻohe pouli i loko ona. Amene!

  2. Pioloke oe ia oe iho, aole pono e paʻi ʻia ka lapuwale a me ka naʻaupō. ʻAʻole hiki ke mālama ʻia ka male kāne a me nā leʻaleʻa moe a pau. Maopopo paha iā ʻoe kāu mea e kākau nei. ʻAʻole heluhelu ʻo psychology. Ua lilo ʻoe i naʻaupō a i ʻole nā ​​​​manaʻo o ka poʻe i hana i kēlā mau Nazi "hoʻomoana hoʻokolohua" a i ʻole ka hoʻomana hoʻomana i lilo i ʻepekema nou. ʻAʻole hiki ke "mālama ʻia" kēia mau kuhi.

      1. ʻAe, pono e mālama ʻia. Ma keʻano he kūlana, hele mai nā mea a pau mai ka wā kamaliʻi. Mahalo iā ʻoe no kāu hana nui! A makemake nō hoʻi au e nīnau: no ke aha ʻoe e kākau ʻole ai ma nā wahi āpau e pili ana i ke kākoʻo kālā no kāu mau hana? Manaʻo wau he nui ka poʻe e kōkua kālā i kāu papahana

    1. ʻO kēia mau kuhi ka hopena o kekahi mau kūlana o ka hānai ʻana a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana, "hoʻololi" i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o ka psyche, a no laila hiki ke hoʻoponopono.
      ʻO ka makemake e hōʻoia i kēia ka mea maʻamau, akā naʻe, e alualu i kāna mau pahuhopu.

    2. "ʻAʻole hiki ke" mālama ʻia kēia mau ʻano.
      ʻAe, ma ka liʻiliʻi e ʻike ʻoe i kēia mau mea he deviations ... Ma nā kahua hoʻomoana Nazi, ʻokoʻa nā mea āpau. Ma laila lākou i hōʻike pololei ai i kou manaʻo, e Konstantin, he mea maoli nā mea āpau a mai nā genes, a ʻaʻole hiki ke mālama ʻia a / a i ʻole ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ka hoʻoilina "ʻino", no laila ua luku wale ʻia nā mea makemake ʻole. Akā ma ka laulā, ʻo ka nui o nā hewa grammatical, stylistic a me nā punctuation e hōʻike wale ana ʻoe i heluhelu liʻiliʻi loa.

  3. Pololei, ua maopopo ia mai kinohi mai. ʻO ka mea nāna i hoʻokumu i kēia manaʻo i loaʻa kālā maikaʻi, a ʻo ke keikikāne i hānai ʻia ma ke ʻano he kaikamahine, ua ʻeha wale ʻo ia i kona ola a pau a pepehi iā ia iho.
    ʻO kēia ka moʻolelo kaulana ʻo David Reimer, ke keikikāne ʻaʻole he kaikamahine. ʻO ia ka mea i hakakā i ka wā makua me kahi ʻepekema nāna i hoʻohuli i nā mākua e hoʻololi i ke kāne o ke keiki.

    1. Ke nānā nei i ka ʻāina hea. Inā he ʻāina hoʻomanawanui me ka homofascism paʻa, e ʻōlelo ka poʻe akamai ʻaʻole lākou he homophobic. Akā ʻaʻole kēia ka loulou ma waena o ka homophobia a me ka IQ. Aia ka pilina ma waena o ka hoʻonaʻauao Komohana a me ka lokomaikaʻi, a me ka pilina ma waena o ka naʻaupō a me ka naʻauao haʻahaʻa. Akā, ʻaʻohe pilina pololei ma waena o ka naʻauao haʻahaʻa a me ka homonegativism.

  4. ʻO ka manaʻo maʻamau e hōʻike ana ʻo ka male kāne ka hopena o ka propaganda a me ke ola a me ka hānai ʻana me ke Akua ʻole

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