Vazhinji vaongorori vanofunga ungochani munyika yedu sechirwere chepfungwa-mune zvepabonde muvarume (nevakadzi), mhedzisiro yacho irwo kuratidzwa kwekufarira zvepabonde uye kukwezva vanhu vanoita zvebonde.

Muzhinji, chikonzero chekusimudzira kuratidzwa kweungochani chiitiko chinoshungurudza panguva yekuzivikanwa pabonde. Iyi nhanho yekuvandudza psychology inoreva zera ramakore mashanu kusvika matanhatu uye rinoti "dambudziko ramakore matanhatu." Panguva ino, mwana anotanga nhanho nyowani yekushamwaridzana, uye nechekare kubva mukuyaruka (kuyaruka uye kuputika kwehomoni inobatana) inosarudza maitiro ake kune ake echikadzi. Kuputsa kwezvechikadzi-kuita basa mumhuri, kana zviitiko zvinoshungurudza mumhuri uye kunze kunotungamira kuumbwa kwekutsauka kwetsika (kutsauka), iyo inosanganisirawo ungochani.

Kusvika nguva pfupi yadarika, zano rekuti hunhu hwehukama hwaive hwakashingairira muWestern Europe neAmerica, asi dzidziso iyi haina kuwana kurudziro yesainzi, uye kufungisisa nezvekurongeka kwezvematongerwo enyika mumushonga hakuna kuringana. Muchokwadi, sezvo hunhu hwepabonde huchiumbwa pane imwe nguva uye mune imwe mamiriro (nhoroondo, tsika, nzanga, nezvimwewo), zvinofanirwa kutaurwa kuti zvakawanikwa uye, semugumisiro, zvinoshandurwa. Kana kuti kwete, zvinokundika, sezvo danho reungochani rinoenda kuburikidza chero mwana anogamuchira ruzivo nezvavo uye vamiririri vevasikana. Kufarira chinomiririrwa chaizvo nehunhu idanho rechingochani rekukura kwemwana. Nhanho inotevera ndeye kufarira mumwe bonde, "zvisizvo", "kwete seni." Mwana asina hunhu hunhu anopfuura anoenda kune ino nhanho nguva yekunetseka kwamakore matanhatu, kana zvishoma gare gare, asi chaizvo pamberi pekuyaruka.

Kuona ungochani senzira yakajairwa kwakaringana mune zvematongerwo enyika, asi hazvina musoro, nekuti kudyidzana kwevanhu vane hungochani kunogara kwenguva pfupi uye kazhinji kunogumira pakugutsa zvinodiwa pabonde (tisingatauri hutano hwakakomba).

ZVINOFANIRA KUTI HOMOSEXUALISM KUSIMBISA

Pachine fungidziro yekuti kukwezva ungochani kunogona kuve hunhu hwekuzvarwa nahwo, asi hapana kana imwe yadzo yakasimbiswa musainzi. Iyo "Gene yeungochani", mukutsvaga iyo yakawanda mari yeungochani yekushambadzira yakashandiswa, ndeyokuwana zvakundikana.

Pakati pezvikonzero zvekuumbwa kweungochani hunowanzo kunzi:

• yekutanga zvepabonde chisimba;
• kuzvipira kweungochani kuonana (kazhinji kazhinji mukuyaruka);
• kuchecheudzwa, kugadzirwa pamatanho ekutanga ebudiriro kana kudzoreredzwa kwavari;
• kusarudzika kubva kuna baba mumhuri, kana kusavapo kwake ((kwevakomana, kana zvimwewo, amai kwevasikana);
• kuwedzera kunetseka, kunyanya kune hukama nevanhu vakaroora;
• kushayikwa kwemhando dzakajairika dzebonde-kudyidzana pakati pemurume nemukadzi (mhuri imwe-yebonde yekurera mwana);
• kuremara kwekuzvarwa, vabereki vasingabvumi bonde remwana (kana vaitarisira kuberekwa kwemwana wevakadzi / murume).

Sezvauri kuona, zvese zvikonzero, kukosha kwazvakave kuchiratidzwa kwekuumbwa kweungochani, zvinoenderana nepfungwa yepfungwa. Unhu hwechingochani hunogona kuperekedzana nedzimwe pathologies, kunyanya, kushungurudzika, sociopathy, phobias, kupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka, schizophrenia.

Zviratidzo zveungochani

Muchiitiko ichi, zvakanyanya, zvingave zvakanyanya kurongeka kukurukura zviratidzo zveungochani, nekuti ungochani sekunetseka kwepfungwa uye hunhu hweungochani hwakafanana zvachose. Vamwe varapi vepfungwa vanoratidza zviratidzo zveungochani muvana, izvo zvisiri izvo musimboti, nekuti, sezvatambotaura, mwana mumwe nemumwe anoenda nenzira yerudzi rwechingochani, nekufarira vanhu vehukadzi. Uyezve, vanhu vakuru vazhinji vanochengeta kufarira pasina kuratidza chero maitiro eungochani - semuenzaniso, kuungana kwevanhurume "mugaraji".

Asi kushushikana kwakawedzerwa uye kutaurirana kwakaputsika nevezera ravo uye kwevakomana kana vevakomana kana vari vachiri kuyaruka yatove chikonzero chekunetseka kwevabereki. Uye poindi yacho haisi mukurumbira "ungochani", asi kushaya hunyanzvi hwekutaurirana, kutya kwehukama hwepamoyo. Vachiri kuyaruka vanogona kuratidza hunhu hweungochani, nekuti muukama hwavo nevezera ravo vanopinda munzira yekushora zvishoma, vachitora chinzvimbo chemunhu anenge achitora chikamu mukubatana. Kuti abatsire mwana akadaro kukunda matambudziko ane chekuita nezera, anoda rutsigiro rwevabereki vake, pamwechete naamai vake nababa vake.

Kune mukuru ane dambudziko reungochani, hunhu:

• kusazvidzora pakuda kurara pabonde nemitezo yemitezo;

• chishuvo chakanyanya (kusanganisira kuparadza) mafambiro ezvepabonde, ayo anoratidzwa, pakati pezvimwe, mune yakatarwa mafungiro eWadhi yako, sarudzo yezvipfeko zvakasimbiswa zvepabonde;

• anogara aine godo pakumarisana nemudiwa wake, dzimwe nguva anodzora moyo;

• kuvapo kweiyo inodhaka kupindwa muropa (narcotic, ine chepfu, isinganyanyi kudhakwa);

• kudzokorora kwenguva nenguva kwekudemba pamusoro pehupenyu hwako, zvichiguma mukuumbwa kwehumwe nyowani, hwakasimba hwokufungidzira nezvako.

KUTAMBUDZWA KWAHOMOSEXUALISM

Yeuka kuti "zvinetso kune wega" ungochani hwakanyorwa pasi pemutemo F66.x1 muInternational Classifier of Diseases yeiyo 10 edition, muchikamu "Psychological uye Behavioural Dissociated inosangana neBudiriro yeBonde uye Oriental". Kurapa kweungochani, kana murwere aine kukurudzirwa kwakaratidza, anogona kuwana mibairo yakanaka. Nekudaro, kunyangwe kana zvaive zvisiri kukwanisa kuchinja zvachose kuzvishungurudza kwakanyanya-munhu mufananidzo, kurapwa kunomubvumidza kuwana chiyero chemasimba mukati make uye nekuvandudza kunaka kwehupenyu hwake, kuzvigamuchira iye neyemuviri wake, asi kwete hunhu hunoparadza, kusanganisira hunhu hwepabonde.

Pakati penzira dzekugadzirisa maitiro eungochani, psychotherapy inogara munzvimbo yakakosha. Sezvo varwere vazhinji vaine nhoroondo yekushungurudzika, zvinodikanwa kuti uone chiitiko chinoshungurudza chave chigumbuso chemurwere. Ichi chiitiko chinoda kuwanikwa kutsva, kudzidza, pekugara, kudzokororwa. Kune izvi, nzira dzekunyepedzera, hunhu hwekuuchinja kwemukati, kurapwa kweboka, kurapwa kwemunhu, psychodynamic uye kurapa kunoshandiswa.

Aimbove Mutungamiriri weAmerican Psychological Association, Dr. Nicholas Cumings yakashumaiyo panguva iyo 1959-1979 makore. kiriniki yake yakasvikwa nematambudziko akasiyana ne 18,000 ngochani, dzayo dzinenge 1,600 dzakanangana nekuchinja maitiro avo. Nekuda kwe 2,400 kurapwa, ivo vakakwanisa kuita izvi. 

Munguva yekudzvinyirira kweungochani mu APN 1974 yakabudiswa gwaro, iro rakati "nzira dzazvino dzekurapa dzinobvumira chikamu chakakosha cheungochani vanoda kuchinja maitiro avo ezvepabonde kuti vadaro." 

Mu1979, muongorori weAmerican uye psychotherapist Irving Bieber, kuburikidza nemaoko ane anenge 1000 varwere vanoita zveungochani akapfuura, akataura kuti zviyero zvekusimuka kubva ku30% kusvika 50%. Kutsungirira kwekutsungirira pamusoro pemakore anotevera e20 kwaratidzwakuti vakaramba vakazara humurume.

Anoremekedzwa Chiremba weRussian Federation, chiremba wepfungwa Jan Goland anorondedzera matanho matatu mune psychotherapy yechirume varume ngochani:

1) Iko kushaya simba kwekumanikidza uye nekumanikidza kwehunhu hwechingochani nehurevha hwavo hwakazotevera. Iko kusimudzwa kwesimba rakadzikama, rakadzikama, risingafarire vanhu vechisikana chavo uye nekubviswa kwakazara kwechinhu chekufungidzira kubva muhukama uhwu.

2) Kubvisa kwekunze kwekunyepa mukadzi. Kuumbwa kwemafungiro eruvara rwevakadzi, ese ari maviri maererano nekunaka (kutaridzika), uye maererano ezveMweya. Kuvandudza nekusimbisa kwehunyanzvi hwekutaurirana nevakadzi.

3) Iko kubuda uye kusunganidzwa kwehutungamiri hwechirume. Iko kuvandudza kweanoramba achikwanirisa erotic kukwezva uye, pakupedzisira, kuramba uchiita zvepabonde nemukadzi, uzere ne yakazara yakazara-erotic sensions.

Iyo mamiriro ekupora anofanirwa kusangana nezviratidzo zvinotevera:

• Kuramba uchienderera mberi kukwezva mukadzi kune izvo zviri zvese zviri zvepabonde uye zvekunakisa zvikamu.

• Anoronza maitiro ako ekare kunge asina kukwana, achirwadza.

• Maonero kune varume, musangano wemahostereti.

• Kuziva kukosha kweumwe, zvese zvega, zvemagariro, uye zvepabonde.

Kutevera (kurapa-kurapwa) kuongororwa kwevarwere ve10 kunogara kubva kumakore 1 kusvika kumakore 7 kwakaratidza kuti varwere vakabudirira kuona zvakajairika hupenyu hwevanhu uye vakanyatsobvisa kwavo kwekutanga pathological kukwezva.

Chinhu

Zvimwe pamusoro pemaitiro Jana Golanda

Iyo nyanzvi yepurofesa Aron Belkin akatsigira maitiro aJan Goland. Mamwe maficha: 
https://med.wikireading.ru/51366