Pamusoro pe ngano dzakabvumikiswa pamusoro pechinyakare uye zvakajairika zveungochani, vanoita zveungochani vakakwanisa kuburitsa ngano yekusabatika kwayo. Iwe unogona kazhinji kunzwa kuti kuyedza kuchinja maitiro ezvepabonde kunokuvadza nekuti tungamira kunyadzi, kushungurudzika, uye dzimwe nguva kuzviuraya (izvo zvisina kusimbiswa nekutsvaga). Semuenzaniso, kufa kwaTrans kunowanzounzwa kwatiri se "kuzviuraya" kwakabatana neyehomoni mushonga. Sekureva kwe bbc science department, shanduro yekuzviuraya kwake haina kubata mvura, uye zvakanyanya, akazviisa pangozi necyanide, iyo yaaigara achishandisa electrolysis. Maererano ne Kuedza Biography Nyanzvi Muzvinafundo D. Copland: "Akaita nekurapa kwehomoni nekuseka kukuru, uye basa rake raive repamusoro pamashureji ehungwaru. "Aive mune mushe mushe mazuva aive asati afa, uye akatoita mabiko ekufara nevavakidzani vake."
Chero zvazvingave zvakadaro, kurapa kwehormone (makemikari kukandirwa) hakufanane nekuenzaniswa neye psychoanalytic reparative therapy, iyo ine chinangwa chekuvandudza kuzivikanwa kwechikadzi kwevakadzi uye kubvisa kushungurudzika kwepfungwa kweudiki. Kushungurudzika nekuda kwekuedza kusingabudirire kwekuchinja maitiro kunogoneka, sekumwe kutadza, asi kutaura chokwadi kuzviuraya kwakawanda kunokonzerwa nekutaura zvisirizvo kwakaparadzirwa nevatungamiriri veungochani kuti kutungamira hakuchinje. Semuenzaniso: http://www.bbc.com/news/world-…
NYAYA Yakasungwa PASI PSYCHODYNAMIC REPAIR THERAPY.
Mune simba psychotherapy, ungochani hunoonekwa se "chinhu chinonzi neurosis", i.e. chirwere che psychogenic chechimiro chakachinjika chakakonzerwa kubva kune isina kunaka mhinduro yekunetseka kwakadzama kwepfungwa kana kukuvara. Kukuvara kunogona kupfupikiswa, sekushungurudzwa kwepabonde kana kwepamoyo, kana kugadzirwa nezvimisikidzo zvezvimiro zvisina kunaka zvinosangana nemwana wese. Dynamic psychotherapy inozivisa, inosarudzika uye inogadzirisa zviitiko zvinoshungurudza izvi, zvinotungamira mukudzikisira uye dzimwe nguva kubviswa kwekusada hungochani.
Sangano reNational Association for the Study uye Therapy yeungochani (NARTH) rinotsanangura maitiro anotevera ekukwezva-vanoita zvepabonde:
Mumwana ane hypersensitivity, kushushikana kwakasimba mupfungwa kunogona kukanganisa kukura kwehunhu hwake hwechikadzi, izvo muzviitiko zve8 kubva ku10 zvichatungamira mukukwezva iye pabonde rake, rinozoita erotic munguva yekuyaruka. Isu tinodzima izvo zvisina kubatana.
Kushaikwa kwekubvumirwa, kutariswa, uye kufarirwa kwevanhurume vechirume kunogona kuripwa kuburikidza nehukama pamwe navo. Mune chimwe chiitiko, wechidiki anonyara wechikadzi anoongorora munhu akashinga, anozvishingisa uye akakurumbira wezera - iro remukati rechinhu chaanoda chisingawanikwe, uye mukuda kwake kuve nehunhu hwakafanana, anotanga kuita zvepabonde muridzi wavo. Iko kukwezva kwake kunokwezvera kuedza kuve nehunhu hunodiwa, kunyangwe muchimiro chekufananidzira. Dzimwe nguva kudanana nemurume wechikuru kunoitirwa kugadzira kushomekana kwehukama hwababa.
Kudzokorodza kurapa kunoita kuti munhu akadai ave murume, amunongedze kwaari zvechirume uye zvinomubvumira kuchengetedza hushamwari nehukama newaanobata naye pasina bonde rake.
Iyo yakashinga mhando yeungochani ine pfungwa yakafanana yekushaiwa kwekushinga kuzivikanwa semhando yechikadzi, paine musiyano wega wekuti nzvimbo yekutanga yekunyadzisa zvakanyanyisa yakamudzidzisa kusaratidza kushaya simba uye kuvanza kutyisidzira kwake panjodzi yemurume akasvinura. Iko kune yekudzivirira maitiro e "maitiro ekuumbwa" iyo iyo isingabvumirwe kukurudzira inokurirwa nekuwedzeredza maitiro anopesana. Sezvo kuchinjika kwakadaro kwehunhu kusiri iko kwekuita kwekuvandudzwa kwechisikigo, iyo, sekutonga, ndeye grotesque uye hypertrophic parody yeanofungidzira muyero. Saka kune caricature barbel mune micheka yematehwe uye transvestites, neyekugadzira kwavo uye magirama zvakanyanya kunge machira kupfuura vakadzi.
Iyo yakashinga mhando yeungochani inonyaradza mukomana anotya mukati make nekutsvaka hukama neudiki uye asingashande mumwe wake, anomiririra chikamu chakaora mwoyo chaiye chaifanira kurambwa muudiki kuti ararame.
Therapy mune iyi kesi ichave yekuramba iyo yenhema hyper-masculine facade uye kuburitsa pachena kwayo echirume chaiyo. Maitiro aya anodawo kugadziriswa kwekutambudzika kwevacheche kushungurudzwa pamwe nekutyisidzirwa, izvo zvinobvisa kukosha kwekudzokorora kwavo kwekufungidzira zvepabonde.
Shanduko kubva paungochani kuita ungochani haifanirwe kuonekwa semubvunzo we "chero kana mumwe." Kune kumwe kupfuurira, ndiko kuti, kuderera, zvishoma nezvishoma kuderera kweungochani kutyaira uye kuwedzera kwehukadzi humwe hunhu uye mikana, iwo danho rekuratidzira iro rakasiyana zvakanyanya. Izvo zvinofanirwa kucherechedzwa kuti kune zvakawanda zvikonzero zvakasiyana zvinotungamira kumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana siyana umo kukwezva kwehukama hwako kunogona kuitika. Muenzaniso uri pamusoro unorondedzera humwe chete hwehumwe hunhu hweungochani uye hunoti hunhu. Munhu anogona kubatanidzwa muhukama hwehukama nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana, kubva mukuremara kwepfungwa kusvika pakuyaruka. Manzwiro ake eungochani anogona kunge akatadzika mukuda kwekugamuchirwa, kutenderwa, kudiwa, kana kuratidzwa kusurukirwa, kusurukirwa, kana kungoda kuziva. Wechidiki anogona kuita humwechete-hwepabonde maitiro nekuda kwechitambi, mari, nekumanikidzwa nevezera rake, kana pasi pesimba rezvenhau. Ichi chingave chiratidzo chetsiva kuvabereki, kuvengana kuvarume, kana kusangana zvakare nedambudziko rekunetswa kwepabonde.
KUZVINESESA KWA REPAIR THERAPY.
tsananguro data yekuyedza, kiriniki mishumo, uye kutsvakisisa kwakapfuura makore 135 makore anoratidza zvinonzwisisika kuti vanokurudzirwa varume nevakadzi vanogona kubva paungochani kuenda kuchirikadzi. Nzira dzakasiyana siyana dzave dzichishandiswa kurapa ngochani, kusanganisira psychodynamic, kuchenjera-maitiro ekurapa uye hutungamiri hwevafundisi. Pane humbowo hwekuchinja kwega pasina kupindira.
Ko ivo mudzidzisi vanoti chii nezveizvi.
Mu1956, chiremba wepfungwa anoshamisa wenguva iyoyo aive Edmund Bergler akanyora zvinotevera:
"10 makore apfuura, sainzi yakanakisa yaigona kupa kwaive kuyanana kweungochani ne" mugumo "wake, nemamwe mazwi, kubviswa kwehana yekuziva. Zvichangoitika zvechiitiko chezvepfungwa uye kutsvaga kwakaratidza kusingafungidzike kuti fungidziro yekufungidzirwa kweungochani (dzimwe nguva kunyange inofungidzirwa kuti isingavepo yemweya nemamiriro emahormone) chiri chikamu chekurapa chiri kusiyanisa nerosis. Nhasi, psychoanalytic psychotherapy inogona kuporesa ungochani. Tinogona kuporesa chero ngochani here? - kwete. Dzimwe prerequisites inofanirwa, uye kunyanya, chishuwo cheungochani kuchinja. Uku kusagadzikana, pakutanga kutarisa zvepabonde, kwakasangana kusangana pamwe nekuzvikuvadza kukuru kuzviuraya, izvo zvinoratidzika zvisingaoneki kuchizviratidza kunze kwechikamu chebonde, sezvo ichifukidza hunhu hwese. Muvengi chaiye weungochani haazi tsananguro yake, asi kusaziva kwake kuti anogona kubatsirwa, pamwe nemeso ake epfungwa, ayo anoita kuti arege kurapwa. "Kusaziva uku kunotsigirwa nevakaita nevatungamiriri veungochani."
Pamakore 30 emakore ekudzidzira, Bergler akabatsira zvakangoita 100 ngochani kuchinja maitiro avo. Iyo inotsanangura kubudirira kwakazara mu33% yemhosva.
Irving Bieber, achipedzisa mu1962 makore mapfumbamwe kudzidza 106 ngochani dzakataura kuti 27% yavo yakava murume nehukama semhedzisiro yekurapa psychoanalytic, kusanganisira avo vaimbove ngochani zvachose. Mu1979, akataura kuti nezve 1000 ngochani varume vakatendeukira kwaari nguva dzose uye kuti iyo data iri inoenderana nekutanga kudzidza.
"Kutsungirira kwekutsungirira pamusoro pemakore anotevera e20 kwaratidzwakuti vakaramba vakasiyana-siyana, uye mitengo yekudzokorora kubva ku30% kusvika ku50%. "
Daniel Kappon mu1965 yakashuma nezvemhedzisiro yebasa ravo rekiriniki nevarwere ve150: 50% yeungochani, 30% yevanodanana nevarume uye 90% yemabisexourse yakave echirume.
Iyo APA payakasiya ungochani mu1974, akataura izvozvo "Nzira dzazvino dzekurapa dzinobvumira chikamu chakakosha chevaya ngochani vanoda kuchinja maitiro avo ezvepabonde kuti vadaro".
Mushure mekunge APA yashanduka kuita sangano rezvematongerwo enyika rine zvinopesana nesainzi zvevanochinjisa mune zvaro zvinyorwa zvepamutemo, haringoregi kuferefeta iripo nezvekuchinja kwemaitiro, asiwo rinoshingairira kutsva, sezvo mhinduro pasina mubvunzo zvichizopesana nehurongwa hwazvino. Izvi ndizvo chaizvo zvakaitika muongororo yakaitwa naSzydlo naSchroeder, iyo yaifanirwa kunyora kukuvadza uye kusagadzikana kwekudzoreredza kurapa, asi ichokwadi yakawana humbowo hwekutsigira kushanda kwayo kwevamwe vanhu.
Mu2004, aimbova purezidhendi weAPA uye nhengo yedhipatimendi rake gay uye lesbiales, Robert Perloff kupiwa mhosva APA kusazvibata kwakabatana zvematongerwo enyika zvinodaidza kuti kudzikisira kurapa kwakadzora "kusazvibata, kusaziva, uye kushaya njere."
Perlof akacherekedza muviri unokura wekutsvagudza unopokana nekuzivikanwa kwekufungidzira kwekusagona kuchinja maitiro ekuita zvepabonde uye wakatsigira NARTH chinzvimbo.
Imwe APA Ex-Mutungamiriri, Nicholas Cumings, pa2005 Musangano weGore yakashumapakati pe1959 - 1979 18,000 ngochani dzakauya kukiriniki yake nematambudziko akasiyana siyana, ayo anenge 1,600 aine chinangwa chekuchinja maitiro avo. Nekuda kwe 2,400 kurapwa, ivo vakakwanisa kuita izvi.
Anotungamira musayendisiti Jeffrey Satinover mu1996 akanyora nezvebudiriro ye50% muyenzaniso yakasarudzika, uye nezve 100% budiriro mu "boka rakanyatsosarudzwa revanhu vakakurudzirwa kwazvo."
Robert Spitzer, uyo akasarudzika hungochani kubva kuhurongwa hwekunetseka kwepfungwa mu1974, yakaunzwa mu2001 kudzidza, ichisimbisa kuti kuchinja kwete chete ungochani maitiro uye kuzvizivikanwa, asiwo kuita zvepabonde kunogoneka. Spitzer akawedzera kuti kana mwanakomana wake chaiye achingova ngochani uye achida kuchinja, aimutsigira mukutsvagirwa kurapwa uye mukuedza kuchinja maitiro ake kubva paungochani kuenda kuchingochani.
Scott Hershberger, anove musayendisiti akasarudzika uye nyanzvi pakutsigira LGBT, mushure mekutsvagurudza kwaSpzer akagumisakuti chiratidzo chakasimba kuti kudzokorora kurapa kunogona kubatsira vanhu kuti vadzore maitiro avo eungochani.
"Zvino vese avo vanokahadzika kurapa kwakadzokorora vanofanirwa kupa humbowo hwakasimba hwekutsigira chimiro chavo."
Mimwe mishumo yekubudirira kwakabatanidzwazve mune psychoanalytic nzira inopfupikiswa mu tafura:
American College yeVanachiremba pa2008 yakashamiswa zvinotevera:
“Kunyangwe kukwezva ungochani kusiri sarudzo yekuziva, ndeyevanhu vazhinji. Kurapa patsoropodzwa kunogona kubatsira. ”
Muongorori wezvekuvandudza psychology, lesbian Lisa Diamond mu indavhiyu 2015 yegore yakati zvinotevera:
“Bonde harina kumira mushe. Yave nguva yekusiya pfungwa ye "kuzvarwa nenzira iyi" kumashure. Kodzero dzengochani hadzifanire kuenderana nekuti munhu akazova ngochani sei uye tinofanira kubvuma kuti bonde rinogona kushanduka.
Profesa Camilla Paglia, chikadzi uye lesbian, anoti chinhu chimwe chete:
"Kuita zvepabonde kunoyerera uye kunogona kuchinja."
Iko kusiyana kwekuita zvepabonde kunosimbiswa nekutsvaga. Saka vanenge hafu yevanhu vane hunhu hwakasiyana-hwekuita zvepabonde vaimbove vanofarira bonde kana kunyangwe ivo varume, uye nezveiwo huwandu hwakafanana hwevak Ngochani vakave bisexual kana kunyangwe vari ngochani. Shanduko yakafanana mukufarira zvisizvo inowanzoitika pakati peungochani kupfuura varume. Neil Whitehead mukati research 2009 yakaratidza kuti humhandara kunyange pazera remakore 16-17 makore angangoita 25 yakagadzika kupfuura bisexuality kana ungochani.
Freud munguva yakafanira Tarira, zvisingazivikanwe, ngochani ane chinokwezva ichocho chevakadzi sevanhuwo zvavo, asi nguva yega yega anokara mafaro ake kuchinhu chechirume. Tsvagurudzo yemazuva ano yakasimbisa huvepo hwekuita zvepabonde muhurume varume kuti vanoona mukadzi kukurudzira.
Chirevo chizere mumapeji e128 anotsanangura nyaya dzakabudirira dzekudzoreredza dzichavepo kune avo vanoda kuverenga pano: https://vk.com/doc8208496_4467…
Mukupfupikisa humbowo huripo nanhasi, tinogona kutaura kuti paavhareji, chetatu chevanhu vakapinda muchirongwa chekudzokorora vanoreva shanduko yekupedzisa ungochani, mushumo wechitatu mushanduko wakakura mukuita hupombwe uye kuvandudzwa kwakawanda mukugara kwepfungwa uye kushanda munharaunda, uye rechitatu mushumo kushomeka mhedzisiro. Kuzivisa kwezvikonzero zvekukwezva kwavo zvepabonde uye zvinodiwa pasi pemanzwiro, nekuvandudzika kwakatevera kwevasina kurara nevarume vavo vepabonde, zvakaratidza kuti ndizvo zvinonyanya kubatsira mukuchinja kuchinjika.
Saiti iyi yakaunganidza zvinopfuura zana ezvibvumirano zvechinyakare - vanhu vakasiya mararamiro eungochani uye vava ngochani. http://testpathvoc.weebly.com/
Zvizhinji nezve 80 zvitupa kubva kune imwe saiti: http://www.ldsvoicesofhope.or…
Saiti yekudzivirirwa kwekare-ngochani kodzero (ivo vanodzvinyirirwa zvikuru neinoshivirira LGBT nharaunda): https://www.voiceofthevoiceles…
YAVA NGUVA YEKUSIYIRA GAkava rekuti “KUZVARWA NEZVINHU”.
Mushure memakore mazhinji ekutsvaga, mumiriri we APA neLBBT nharaunda, Dr. Lisa Diamond, vakataura chirevo chekuti zvido zvepwere zvevakawanda ngochani zvinogara zvichichinja, uye kuti vazhinji vacho vanonyatsoda vakomana kana vakadzi.
"Mhando dzeLBBT dzinopokana uye hadzina chinangwa," anodaro Diamond. Ivo vanoratidza iwo mafungiro aripo mutsika medu, asi usamiririre zviitiko zvinowanikwa mune zvakasikwa. Isu takashandisa izvi zvikamu sechikamu chechirongwa chedu kuwana kodzero dzevagari, uye zviri kuramba zvichioma ikozvino nekuti toziva kuti ichi hachisi chokwadi.
Kuti rimwe boka revanhu rikwanise kuwana chinzvimbo chakachengetedzwa muchirongwa chepamutemo, chinofanira kunge chiri chepakutanga uye chisingaperi. Veruzhinji veQuer havasangane nemaitiro eDare Repamusoro nekuda kwechimiro chakadai, nekuti zvinosiyana siyana uye zvisingaenderane: vamwe ngochani zvachose, vamwe muchidimbu "mumwe aive ngochani gore rapfuura, gore rino angangove asiri iye, nezvimwewo."
Chirevo ichi chinopesana zvachose nemitemo ichangoburwa yakadzikwa mumatunhu akati wandei eUS inorambidza "kurapa kudzoreredza" nechikonzero chekuti "hungochani" inofungidzirwa kuti ndeyekuzvarwa uye yakagadziriswa, uye nekudaro kuedza kuishandura hakuna maturo chete, asiwo hutsinye.
“Vanhu veLGBT vanofanira kumira kuti, 'tibatsirei, takazvarwa takadai uye hatigoni kuchinja.' Zvepabonde hazvina kugadzikiswa - ndezvemvura, uye vadzivisi vedu vanoziva izvi sezvatinoita. Naizvozvo, yave nguva yekusiya pfungwa ye "kuzvarwa nenzira iyi" kumashure uye nekutsvaga zviri nani kupokana kwekuwana kodzero neropafadzo, zvikasadaro zvichadzoka kuzotishungurudza."
Zvinotyisa kuti vanhu vakadaro vanogona kugutsikana kuti izvi zvakajairika kana zvakanaka, panzvimbo pekurapwa. Hunhu huchafa zvakadaro ...
Teorias velhas e ultrapassadas sobre a questão da homossexualidade continuam a ser desenterradas para tentar se dizer o que é eo que não é normal em termos de orientação sex. Basta reconhecer que o ser humano, no início dos tempos fazia sexo com quem bem desejasse e isso nunca foi motivo de exclusão ou discriminação, pois não havia a regra da heteronormatividade, tudo era natural. Depois que a heterossexualidade foi colocada como regra, vieram estudos e teorias para tentar justificar essa regra que, no fundo, tem raiz religiosa. A sexidade humana é diversa e não cabe em rótulos e definições restritas. Enfim, não existe o que é é normal, em orientação sex, portanto, nada tem que ser corrigido.
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