«Ndaida rubatsiro
musoro, kwete muviri wangu.

Maererano ne iyo yazvino data UK neUS, 10-30% yevanhu vachangochinja vanomira kushanduka mukati memakore mashoma ekutanga shanduko.

Kuvandudzwa kwemafambiro evanhukadzi kwakapa kukurudzira kuumbwa kwechinyorwa chepseudoscientific che "chechikadzi", icho chinotaura kuti misiyano yezvavanoda uye kugona pakati pevarume nevakadzi hazvitariswi nekusiyana kwavo, asi nekurerwa pamwe nekufungidzira uko kwakatemerwa nharaunda yemadzitateguru. Zvinoenderana nepfungwa iyi, "murume kana mukadzi" "kusangana kwepabonde" kwemunhu, izvo hazvitsamiri pabonde rake rekubereka uye hazvireve kuti zvinowirirana nazvo, zvine chekuita neicho murume wekuzvara anogona kunzwa mupfungwa semukadzi uye kuzadzisa zvinzvimbo zvevanhukadzi, uye zvinopesana. Vafambi vedzidziso vanoshevedza chiitiko ichi "transgender" uye vanoti zvakajairika. Mukurapa, kusagadzikana kwepfungwa kunozivikanwa se transsexualism (ICD-10: F64).

Pasina mubvunzo kutaura, iyo yose "yechikadzi dzidziso" yakavakirwa pane zvisina musoro zvisingabvumirwe fungidziro uye isina hwaro hwedzidziso. Inoenzanisa kuvepo kwezivo mukushaikwa kweizvozvo. Zvisinei, mumakore achangopfuura, kupararira kwe "transgender", kunyanya pakati pevechiri kuyaruka, rave denda. Zviri pachena kuti kusvibiswa munharaunda mukubatanidzwa nehutano hwakasiyana-siyana hwepfungwa uye hwemutsipa kunoita basa rakakosha mune izvi. Huwandu hwevechidiki vanoda "kuchinja bonde" hwawedzera mumakore achangopfuura gumi uye yasvika padanho rekodhi. Nechikonzero chisingazivikanwe, 3/4 vavo vasikana.

Munyika dzekuMadokero, nzira yekusimbisa chete inobvumirwa kune varwere vane dambudziko rekuzivikanwa kwevakadzi; kusatenda kwekunzwa kwemurwere kana kuedza kumuramba kunoonekwa se "kutyora kodzero dzevanhu". Vanachiremba vanokanda mubvunzo "wechikonzero" vanoteerera kurangwa kwemuenzaniso uye varasikirwe nemabasa... Naizvozvo, vashandi vehutano vava kunyora mahara-echisimba-bonde mahormone uye kuendesa kune hutano hwekushandira kune wese munhu pasina mibvunzo.

Panguva imwe chete, veRussia masayendisiti Chirevokuti chete 13% yeavo vakanyorera ye "shanduko yebonde" yakanga isina kana chirwere chepfungwa (izvo hazvireve kuti havapo). Muna 87%, transsexualism yakabatanidzwa ne schizophrenic spectrum kusagadzikana, kusagadzikana kwehunhu uye kumwe kusagadzikana kwepfungwa. sei inobvuma Walt Heyer, uyo aka “shandukira” kune murume wake chaiye makore makumi maviri neshanu apfuura, kana matambudziko aya akatanga kugadziriswa, chishuwo chekuti "shandure murume kana murume" chinopera. "Gender dysphoria inofanira kurapwa ne psychotherapy, kwete nechikwambo."- ane chokwadi.

Muna 2017 muna chirevo PaStonewall University yeCambridge, zvakaonekwa kuti zvikamu makumi mapfumbamwe neshanu zvevadzidzi veScotland vanozivikanwa se "transgender" vakazvibata nenzira yekuzvikuvadza uye makumi mana muzana vakaedza kuzviuraya. Zviverengero zvakafanana zvakawanikwa mukunzvera muUnited States, uye kunyangwe muSweden inoshivirira zvakanyanya: mukana we "transgender vanhu" wekuzviuraya unosara 19 nguva dzakakwirakupfuura muhuwandu hwevanhu, kunyangwe mushure mekuvhiya kwomuviri.

Hurumende Yekuenzana Bureau inofungidzira kuti kune pakati pe200 ne500 "transgender vanhu" muUK, asi hapana chaiwo manhamba. Huwandu chaihwo hwevanhu vasina kugutsikana nehunhu hwavo hutsva kana vakasarudza kudzokera kune bonde ravo rekubereka hazvizivikanwe. Walt Heyer pawebhusaiti yake sexgoregret.com inoti pane makumi maviri ezviuru zvavo uye nhamba yavo iri kukura. Vanhu ava vanozvidaidza kuti "detransitioners".

VaDetrans vakasarudza iyo salamander sechiratidzo chavo nekuda kwekugona kwayo kugadzirisa nhengo nemitezo. Uye kunyangwe vanhu vakanyengerwa ne transgender propaganda avo vakaita "shanduko" yekuvhiya vasingazombokwanisa kumutsiridza nhengo dzavo dzakarasika, pane tariro yekuti vachazogona kuwana zvirinani kutendeseka kwepfungwa uye kwepamoyo muhupenyu hwavo hwakaoma. Muchikamu chino, tichatarisa nyaya dzevakawanda vavo.

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Sinead, 29 makore. Mutsara wezviitiko zvinorwadza uye zvakaoma zvakaitika kwaari muhudiki hwake zvakamutungamira kuti arambe hukadzi uye chishuwo chekuva murume. Iye zvino anonzwisisa kuti "shanduko" haina kugadzirisa matambudziko ake uye kunetseka. 

"Unoenda kukiriniki yechikadzi uye mushure memwedzi yakati wandei unotanga kutora testosterone, - anodaro Sinead... - Chiremba wepfungwa akandiudza kuti ndiri transgender. Ndakafunga kuti kana ndikatemerwa testosterone, saka ini ndiri transgender. Kunze kwemibvunzo yakajairika, hapana akaongorora mukana wekuvapo kwezvimwe zvikonzero. Ndakaedza kutaura nezvematambudziko angu nachiremba, asi Gender dysphoria yakarumbidzwa sechikonzero chematambudziko angu, kwete chiratidzo... Kutaura chokwadi, ndinofunga nyaya dzangu dzebonde dzakakonzerwa nenyaya dzehutano hwepfungwa, kwete imwe nzira. ” 

Pakutanga, Sinead akafarira mhedzisiro yekutora testosterone - mafuta dhipoziti akagoverwa patsva, izwi rakadzikira, bvudzi kumeso rakaonekwa, uye varume vakapedzisira varega kuzviteerera. Akanzwa kuti shanduko ndicho chinhu chakanakisa chaakange aita. Asi haana kumbobvira anwa doro rakawandisa sezvaanoita iye zvino. Akanga achiri kuvenga hunhu hwake hwechikadzi, uye aigara achiora mwoyo, nekuda kweizvozvo aifanira kunwa kusvika pakuziva. Pakupedzisira, zvese izvi zvakaguma nekutya kwekutya, mushure meizvozvo kuziva kwakasvika kwaari kuti aive mukadzi, uye aisafanira kutsika munzira yakaipa yekukuvara kusingadzoreke. 

Iye zvino Sinead ari kuyedza kudzidza kugamuchira muviri wake wakaparadzwa uye wakashatiswa. Asati abuda mumba, anonyatso kuveura kumeso uye pachipfuva uye anogara akapfeka ngowani yekuvanza bvudzi rake rave kudzikira. Ari mumapoka ehurukuro pamwe nevamwe vanokanganisa uye pachezvake anoziva vangasvika zana vakaita saiye. Asi kune mamwe akawanda asiri kushanda online. Sinead anotenda kuti ichi chingori chidimbu chechando, uye pachave nekuwedzera uye kwakawanda kwavo. Anoda kuti vanodzingwa vazive kuti havasi vega uye kuti vanokwanisa kuwana vanhu vekutaurirana nekutsigira. 

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Lucy, 23. Kurambwa kwemuviri wake kwakatanga achiri kuyaruka. Pakutanga, akaedza kumuchinja nedhayeti uye nekuramwa nzara, izvo zvakamuita kuti ave neanorexia. Pakarema huremu hwaLucy kusvika pa39 kg, vabereki vake vakamutumira kunomanikidzwa kurapwa. Pakupedzisira, uremu hwake hwakagadzikana, asi akakurira bulimia, izvo achiri kunetsekana nazvo. Zvisinei nenyaya yekuti mazamu aLucy akange atove mashoma, aida kuvabvisa. Akatsvaga pamhepo kutsvaga ruzivo uye akawana saiti yaitaura nezve transsexualism. Lucy akatanga kuverenga nyaya nezve "trans varume" uye zvishoma nezvishoma akazadzwa nekufungidzira kwekufunga kwekuchinja. At 20, akatanga kutora mahormone. Mwedzi mitanhatu gare gare, mastectomy (kubviswa kwemazamu) zvakaitika. Kwakazouya mukana weiyo hysterectomy (kubviswa kwechibereko) uye oophorectomy (kubviswa kwemazai). Zvese izvi zvakaitika nenzira yekumhanya chaizvo. 

"Kana iwe uchitsvaga ruzivo rwekuchinja-shanduko, iwe unogona nyore kuwana rondedzero yevanachiremba vanoshanda nevanhu vanotapurirana - Anoudza Lucy... "Vanozotsigira zvirinyore chishuwo chako, uye kunyangwe padosi rekutanga unogona kuwana mushonga we testosterone." 

Lucy anoti kukurukurirana neshamwari dzake dzinotambura kwakanyanya kumubatsira nekuti akarega kusurukirwa. Asi zvaive zvakare zvakaoma, nekuti vamwe "vanhu vane transgender" vakamuti murevi wenhema, mutengesi uye vakamunyadzisa nekuvashoresa - "real trans vanhu". 

“Nechimwe chikonzero, hapana munhu anopomera vanachiremba kana vanovhiya Anodaro Lucy. “Ndatove ndarasikirwa nedzimwe nhengo dzemuviri wangu, saka mazwi evatengesi haakwanise kukuvadza chaizvo. Zvese zvinhu zvakashata zvavanotaura kuvanhu vanovharira hapana kana zvichienzaniswa nekurwadziwa kwandinonzwa kubva pakurasikirwa nemuviri wangu. Ndiri kutya, ndichiziva ikozvino kuti pandakaenda kunovhiya chibereko, hapana munhu akanditsanangurira kukosha kwemitezo iyi. Kunonoka kwazvo ikozvino. Ndine makore makumi maviri nematatu uye ndave nekuguma kuenda kumwedzi, nezvose zvehutano zvevashandi. Ini handikwanise kuona kuti vanachiremba vakabvumidza sei izvi - havangambobvumidze kuve neiyo yakazara hysterectomy pamusikana ane makore makumi maviri nemana asina zvikonzero zvekurapa. Asi kana musikana uyu akatanga kuzviratidza nevarume - nekukurumidza oparesheni yakadaro inogona kuwanikwa zviri nyore kwazvo. Ndikatarisa shure, handinzwisise kuti sei pasina munhu akambotarisa nezve dambudziko rangu rekudya, manzwiro andakaita kunge ndiri pfambi uye zviratidzo zvechirwere chekumanikidza. "..

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Lee, makore makumi matanhatu nemaviri. Iye, saLucy, aive nezvinetso nekufunga kwemuviri wake kubva pazera diki. Aizviona seakakora uye achivenga madhirezi aakange "akaiswa" maari. Amai naambuya vakanamata munun'una wavo, saka aida kupfeka mbatya dzakafanana uye kugadzirwa musoro seyavo, asi haana kubvumidzwa. Paakasvitsa makore gumi nemashanu, mushure memakore mazhinji ekusavapo, baba vavo vakawedzera kuonana navo. Akatora vana vachifamba, akatenga zvipo, akapa mari. Ipapo akavakoka kuti vagare kumba kwake; amai vacho vaipokana nazvo, asi havana kutaura kuti sei. Li akaenda, uye pahusiku hwekutanga baba vake vakamubata chibharo. Mangwanani zvese zvakadzokororwa ...

Paaive nemakore makumi mana nemana, akaona paTV chirongwa chemumwe mukadzi akaita "shanduko yebonde". Iye akafunga kuti aigona kuve ave munzvimbo yake. Zvaitaridza kwaari kuti iyi ndiyo yaive mhinduro. Lee akaita musangano nachiremba muLondon. Munguva yekushanya kwekutanga, iye akamuudza: "Ngatirege kutambisa nguva" uye nekumubaya ne testosterone.

«Ini ndaida ipapo, asi ikozvino ndinofunga kuti yakanga isiriyo - anodaro Lee... - Chandaida chaizvo kwaive kurapwa kwepfungwa. Musoro wangu waida rubatsiro, kwete muviri wangu... Asi ini ndaifarira testosterone. Kwemakore akatevera, ndakaitwa hysterectomy uye oophorectomy, testicular implants uye metoidioplasty, iyo yakafanana nediki mbichana kubva ku clitoris. Asi yangu yanga isina kukura zvakakwana - ingangoita 7 mm. Mukupedzisira, ndaive neine vaginectomy (kubviswa kwechikamu chemukadzi) uyezve phalloplasty. Micheka yakatorwa kubva mumaoko angu. Mavanga acho achiri kuoneka. Iyi nzira yakakomba uye yakaoma uye ine nguva refu yekudzora. Ipapo ndaifanirwa kutora maantibiotic kwenguva yakareba. " 

Lee akapedza nguva yakawanda nevanoongorora nezvepfungwa uye akasvika pakuziva kuti akazvidemba "shanduko" yake. Anoda kudzokera asati aenda kunobvunzurudzwa nachiremba nezve "jekiseni". Akafunga nezvekuchinja, asi akafunga kuti muviri wake waisazomira.

«Handina chokwadi chekuti ndinogona kurarama nekuvhiya kwese uku, ”anodaro Lee. - Ndicharwa nemuviri wangu kweupenyu hwangu hwese. Ndichafanira kuzvigamuchira sezvazviri ikozvino. Kunze, vanhu vanoona mukomana achimhanya, asi mukati mangu ndiri musikana mudiki akarwadziwa. Kunyangwe iye zvino ini ndinozvigamuchira ini kupfuura nakare kose. "Ini ndangoshuva kuti dai vandibatsira kuzvigamuchira pachangu."

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Thomasin, ane makore makumi maviri. Kubvira pakuyaruka, ainzwa kuti vakomana havana kumukwezva pabonde, uye zvaive pachena kuti mune izvi aive akasiyana nevamwe vasikana. Mukutsvaga mhinduro, akatendeukira kuInternet, kwaakawana izwi rekuti "asexuality". Thomasin akasarudza kuti kana asina kukwezva vakomana, saka anofanira kunge ari "asexual." Ipapo akabva atamisa manzwiro ake nezvebonde kune "jenda" - “Ini handidi vakomana, ndinofanira kunge ndakabatana nemurume; "Ini handisi kunzwa sevamwe vasikana, ini ndinofanirwa kunge ndichirema." Nenguva isipi akafunga kuti pachinzvimbo chekuona matambudziko asiri einternet zvaizove nyore kutaura kuti aive mukomana, uye mukati memakore mazana maviri nemashanu akazvizivisa se "transgender", achishandura zvinyorwa zvese.

Thomasin haakwanise kutsanangura kuti sei manzwiro ake achinja, asi paakave nemakore gumi nemasere, akangoerekana aziva kuti angangoda kuve nevana. Akatanga kuona kukanganisa kwake "transgender" kuzivikanwa uye akatanga kusahadzika zvakare.

"Zvino ndinotenda kuti ndakange ndisina chirwere chepamuromo, asi ndakazongozvishingisa ndikanzwa kurwadziwa, - anogovera Thomasin... -Zvino ini ndinobata muviri wangu wechikadzi zviri nani kupfuura pakutanga uye ndadzidza kugamuchira mazamu angu. Pandaitenderera, ndaimbogeza kana kugeza kamwe chete pamwedzi - ndaivenga muviri wangu zvakanyanya. Ndogona kugeza izvozvi zuva nezuva - uye uku ndiko kugadzirisa chaiko! Ndakabvuma kukwezva kwangu vakadzi. "Ndiri kunzwisisa kuti kune vanhu vane dysphoria yakanyanya, asi ndinofunga chimwe chezvikonzero vakadzi kuita shanduko ndeyekuti havakwanise kugamuchira chokwadi kuti vanoita zvevakadzi."..

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Mushure memakore makumi maviri nemasere ekuBritain Charlie Evans, uyo kwemakore gumi akazvitora semurume, asi akazotora zvakare murume wake chaiye mukadzi, kuziviswa pachena yake nyaya, ainyudzwa nem meseji mazana vanhu vanonzwawo saizvozvo iye Izvi zvakamukurudzira kuti aumbe chirongwa. Iyo Detransition Advocacy Networkuyo anobatsira vamwe "kuvharisa" vanhu kuti vakwanise kuvengana nekushungurudzwa kubva kune vasingateereri LGBT nharaunda, iyo inovaona sevatengesi.

Evans anodoma hunhu hukuru hwevanhu vanoita "detransition": vanowanzo kuve makore makumi maviri, vanowanzove vakadzi, kazhinji ngochani, avo, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, vanowanzoonekwa vaine hutachiona.

"Ini ndinotaura nevane makore 19 kusvika makumi maviri nemashanu vakambovhiyiwa zvepabonde zvakare vanozvidemba. Dysphoria yavo haina kupera, havanzwi zvirinani uye havazive chekuita izvozvi, " Evans anodaro.

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Imwezve "kudzoka kubva kuvarume" wechikadzi wechidiki anonzi Dagny anoti midhiya ndiyo inonyanya kuita basa rekunyengerera vana kuti vasarudze "murume kana mukadzi", asi achimutsamwira, zvinyorwa zveChristian zvinongofarira nyaya yake, asi achisiya nhau dzakakurumbira dzakamupfuura. kunyarara.

Munguva yekuyaruka, achisangana nekuvhiringidzika kukuru kubva pakutanga kwekuenda kumwedzi uye mazamu anokura, Dagny akagadzira positi pane yeahoo mubvunzo webasa nemusoro wenyaya "Ndiri musikana ane makore gumi nemaviri, asi ndinoda kuva mukomana," uko "vanyowani-zvakanaka" vakamuudza nezve kubudirira kwakadai kwekubudirira kweWestern. se "murume nemukadzi". Mushure mekugadzira Tumblr account uye kunyorera kumapoka ePSBT, akatanga kubatwa nekunzwisisa kuti aive "asiri-bhinari," uyezve iko kugutsikana kuti "aive murume wekutapurirana". Apesvedzerwa naTumblr, akatanga kuona vabereki vake sevayenzi nekuti ivo vaisazomutendera kutanga "hormone". Akavengawo uye akadana somuvengi chero munhu aimuudza semukadzi. Dagny aive nechokwadi chekuti nekuti aive "achinja," akasungirwa mutsika kuita "shanduko," "uye kusava nechokwadi chero kwake kwaikonzerwa ne" Internal transphobia ".

Iye zvino pamakore makumi maviri nemaviri, Dagny haachada kuita "shanduko" uye anoona zvakakosha kuti vana vane dysphoria vazive kuti vane sarudzo.

"Isu takapihwa sarudzo imwechete, nengozi yemhedzisiro inoshungurudza: kana vechidiki vari kuda zvevakomana kana vakadzi, saka ivo vanofanirwa kubvumidzwa 'kuchinjika' - iyi ndiyo chete nyaya yakatengeswa kwatiri. Vanhu seni vanomiririra kusapindirana kuri kuita nyaya iyi. ", Anodaro Dagny.

Kutenda kune chirongwa chake yakandyeti.com, mune izvo vamwe vasikana vatatu vakaita "zvinonyangadza" vanobatanidzwa, vangangoita vachiri kuyaruka vaviri vakaramba "kuchinja bonde".

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Kira Bell, makumi maviri nematatu, akasangana nematambudziko epfungwa achiri mudiki. Nepamusana pekushungurudzika kwenguva refu, akave nematambudziko ekuzivikanwa kwechikadzi. Paaive nemakore gumi nemashanu, Kira akafunga kuti chikonzero chekusagutsikana nehupenyu hwaive mune rake "zvisizvo" murume, uye akabvunza Tavistock Clinic. Pamusangano wechitatu, akange atotongerwa kuyaruka wekuvharira. Musikana wavo waakatora rinenge gore. Chikamu chinotevera cheiyo "shanduko" chaive chinwiwa chechirume testosterone, nekuda kwekuti bvudzi rakatanga kukura pamuviri wake uye kumeso, uye izwi rake rakadzikira. Muna 23, musikana akaenda kunotanga kuvhiyiwa epurasitiki ndokubvisa mazamu ake. Nekudaro, achangobuda muchipatara, Kira akanzwa kuti aive akanganisa. Mushure mekuvhiyiwa, musikana akarega kutora mishonga uye akazoona kuti aisada kuchinja murume kana murume. Asi zvakazove zvakanyanyisa - makore mazhinji ekurapa kwehomoni vakaita chikamu chavo, uye inzwi rake nemuviri zvino zvaita sevarume kupfuura vakadzi.

Iye zvino Kira akamhan'arira kiriniki, achiti achiri kuyaruka aine chirwere chepfungwa chisina kugadzikana, aisakwanisa kuongorora mamiriro ake, uye nyanzvi idzi, panzvimbo pekuteerera izvi uye kumufadza, dzakatevera kutungamira kwake. Kira chokwadikuti, kana achidikanwa, nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinogona kupokana nekunyepedzera kwake uye kumupa tsigiro yetsika. Ivo vanofanirwa kufunga nezvebonde remunhu kubereka, kwete chete hunhu hwavo. Anoda varapi kuti vaite zvakawanda kuti vadzidze izvo zvinoita kuti vechidiki vade “kushandura murume” vasati vavapa mahormoni nekuvhiyiwa.

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Ellie, 21. Akanyepedzera kuve murume kwechinguva uye ndokuzodzokera kuchokwadi. Ellie anotaura nezvekunyengedzwa kwachiremba, izvo zvakamukurudzira kuti atore zvinodhaka zvehomoni uye kukuvara zvachose. Anotaurawo nezve kushomerwa kweemaonero ekugadzirisa izvo zvinogona kumusunungura kunetseka kwakadai kusakosha. 

Pakutanga, apo akange ave nemakore gumi nemashanu, Ellie akasarudza kuti aive ngochani, asi akaramba achiremerwa nepfungwa yekuti aizove mukadzi kana akura. Ellie akaenda kune masangano anochinjisa kune avo vanoshanda nezvepfungwa. 

"Ndakashamiswa nezano ravo - vakataura chete nezvekuva murume uye mabasa, - anoudza Ellie. “Ndinofunga ndanga ndichitsvaga mhinduro dzakasiyana. Ndakaodzwa mwoyo, asi ivo vanoisa zviyo zvekusava nechokwadi mandiri. Mushure mekuona YouTube mavhidhiyo evasikana vasikana vanoyevedza vakomana, ndakatanga kufunga kuti muviri wangu waizotaridzika zvakanaka kana ndikatora testosterone. Vabereki vangu vakaenda neni kuna chiremba wepfungwa uyo akataura kuti ini ndakanga ndisiri transgender uye kuti ndinofanira kumirira kusvika ndine makore gumi nemasere. Ndakagumbuka kuti chiremba wepfungwa akange andibvisa pamberi pevabereki vangu uye ndikavavimbisa kuti vaende neni kumasangano andaive ndambopinda. Chiremba vavakatitumira kwaari akange akasiyana zvachose. Iye akati: ungamirirei kusvika gumi nemasere kana testosterone yanyanya kushanda kana ukatanga iko zvino? Akataura kuti maitiro e testosterone anodzokera kumashure uye handina kana chandinombonetseka nacho kuvhunduka ini, nekuti ndaiziva kuti inhema. Asi ndaiziva kuti izvi ndizvo izvo vabereki vangu vaifanira kunzwa kuti vabvume, uye hapana chandakataura. " 

Kwapera gore, mazamu ake akabviswa. Baba vake Eric vanoyeuka kuti vaisava nechokwadi, asi chiremba vakamutenda kuti zvaive nani nenzira iyi. "Ndinoda kusangana nemunhu anozondinyorera mazwi uye nditsvake nharo dzinomuita kuti amirire uye afunge pamusoro pazvo, asi pakanga pasina vanhu vakadaro", - anobvuma.

Ellie pakutanga ainakidzwa nekugara uye airatidzika semurume, asi pakupedzisira akanzwa kuti zvaive zvisiri zvake, uye danho rinotevera muhupenyu hwake raizove nzira yekutambira muviri wake wakagadzirwazve. Achagara aine apuro raAdamu, mawoko mahombe nemaoko nekuti akatanga kutora testosterone pazera diki kwazvo. Kupfuura zvese, haagadzikane nezwi rakadzika uye ndebvu, izvo zvaachagara anazvo. Iye akaonekwawo aine kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi atrophy, mhedzisiro mhedzisiro yekutora testosterone.

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Mudiwa waEllie, Nele ane makore makumi maviri nemana anonzi zvakare "aimbova trans man". Pane imwe nguva, zvakatanga kuratidzika kwaari kuti varume vaimutarisa zvakanyanya uye vachimutarisa pamazamu ake. Nele akatanga kuvenga muviri, akatora mahormone echikadzi uye, nerutsigiro rwaEllie, akaita mastectomy. Asi mufaro hauna kuzombouya. Nele akazvipira kudzokera kune zvakasikwa kwechinguva uye kuti aone zvakaitika, Ellie akabvuma.

"Ndiri kufara chaizvo kuti handina kubvisa chibereko", - Nele anoratidza. - Izvi zvinoreva kuti ndinogona kumira kutora mahormone uye muviri wangu unozoita mukadzi zvakare. " Asi makore ekutora testosterone ane zvakakomba, zvisingachinjiki mhedzisiro. Izwi rangu harifi rakadzoka. Ini ndaifarira kuimba, uye zvino handichakwanisi kuzviita, nekuti izwi rangu rave rakanyanya kunaka, rinoshanda nenzira yakatosiyana zvino. "Kana ndikadaidzira munhu parunhare, vanonditorera murume."

Nele anoti kunyangwe zvake "zvaari"

Vaviri vasikana vanomhanya webhusaiti nhasi Post-Trans.com, iyo ine nyaya dzevamwe vakadzi vakaita danho rekuuraya pasi pesimba rekushambadzira, asi vakasarudza kudzoka.

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Irina, makore 31 okukura. Akavhiyiwa zvechikadzi, akapiwa gwaro rekuzvarwa patsva, pasipoti ine zita rechirume uye chitupa chechiuto. Nekufamba kwenguva, akaziva kuti iye akaita chikanganiso chakakura muhupenyu hwake uye iye zvino ari kuedza kuve "mukadzi" zvakare, zvakaringana nezvinyorwa. Zvinoenderana nemusikana uyu, amai vake vakagadzira mukati maro kusada zvese zvese zvechikadzi, vaaigara navo kusvika zera ramakore gumi nemasere.

"Panguva ino, chimwe chinhu chakaputika mandiri, ndakatanga kutsvaga nzira dzekugadzirisa dambudziko nekutsigirwa, - anodaro Irina. Ndakaiwana paInternet kubva kune vanoita zvemitambo yekufambisa. Vakanditsanangurira kuti handizvifarire ini nemazamu chaizvo nekuti ndiri transsexual, kwete nekuti. "Ndakarerwa zvisizvo."

Trans activists vakamunyevera kuti atenge mahomoni echirume paInternet, edza. Mushure memwedzi wekutora, izwi remusikana rakatanga kudzika, manculine manotsi akaoneka mariri. Mushure memwedzi mitanhatu yekutora Irina, vhudzi rake rechiso rakatanga kukura, muviri wake wakashanduka. Uye gore rakatevera, apuro yaAdamu yakakura. Mune mamiriro aya, akauya kuzoona chiremba akamutora kuti anowedzere nyukireya.

"Chekutanga, takachinja magwaro ese, - Irina anodaro, - akabva avhiya. Kutanga, kubvisa zamu, wobva wabvisa chiberekero nemazai. Ndine hurombo kuti panguva iyoyo hapana mumwe wevanyanzvi akataura kuti ndimbofunga nezvemaonero angu kumuviri wangu, ndorega kutora mahormone ndigowana kurapwa kwepfungwa. "

Irina anovimbisa kuti, muchokwadi, mahormoni haagoni kungoedzwa vobva varega zvisingarwadzi. Kupindwa muropa kunotyisa kunotanga.

“Makore matatu mushure mekuvhiyiwa, ndakarega kutora mahormone. Kuvimba nekemisitiri uye kuve murume wekugadzira-up haina kujairika uye haina kujairika. Mwedzi wega wega kuziva kwako kunoshanduka, iwe unototanga kufunga semurume. Uyezve, ndakatanga kuve nezvinetso neitsvo, chiropa, kuzvimba mumaoko angu, muviri wangu wakatanga kurema, ropa rangu rakakora. Pane imwe nguva kumeso kwangu kwakashanduka kuita yero kwevhiki nhatu, kwaive kuona kunotyisa. Uye ndakasarudza - zvakakwana! Zvakanga zvisisiri zvekuzviratidzira, asi nezvehutano hwekutanga uye kunyange hupenyu zvakadaro, " - anodaro Irina.

Irina anovimbisa kuti haachadi kuvhiyiwa: muviri watokuvara zvakanyanya.

“Iwe hauzive kuti zvaive zvakaoma sei kubvuma kwandiri kuti ndakakanganisa uye kuyedza kuzvigadzirisa. Chinhu chikuru chaive - kukunda kupokana kwemukati. Zvino basa rangu rekutanga ndere - dzosera pasipoti yemukadzi, tsvaga basa rakanaka uye uronge hupenyu hwega. Ndakagara ndakada varume. Ndakaedza nevasikana - kwete yangu. Uye kunyangwe pandakanga ndiine zita rechirume, ndakadanana nemukomana. Dai zvisiri zvemabasa, ndingadai ndakaroora kare ndikazvara vana ", - anodaro Irina.

Nhasi Irina anogara mune imwe kamuri yekugara muMinsk pamwe nezvipfuyo zvake uye anotora chero ripi zvaro, kunyangwe rakabhadharwa mari. Iye ane chokwadi: dai madhiraimoni madhiragi akange asingawanikwe zvakadaro, shanduko dzakadai dzaisazotanga mumuviri wake, angadai asina kutsunga kuvhiiwa uye angadai asina kusangana nematambudziko ese aakatarisana nawo muhupenyu.

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Natalia Uzhakova anoziva zvakare zvinoreva kurarama mumukadzi, "munhurume" uyezve muviri wechikadzi. Iye zvakare anoziva kuti transsexualism inorapika. Nhasi, nenyaya yake, Natalya anobatsira vamwe vanhu vakavhiringidzika kuti varege kudzokorora zvaakakanganisa.

"Kwemakore angangoita masere ehupenyu hwangu, ini ndaive mukadzi wepabonde Dima, - anodaro Natalia. - Iri dambudziko rakatanga kuzviratidza mukati mangu kubva pamakore matatu kana mana. Vabereki vangu vaida mukomana uye vakatondipinza muchido changu chekutamba mwanakomana. Nemakore ekuyaruka, ndakatanga kuramba hunhu hwangu hwechikadzi. Ndakaedza kuveura ndebvu. Ndakanga ndiine chitarisiko chechirume, asi ndaive nehuropi hwakakwana kuti ndisatanga kushandisa mahormone. Akaudza vabereki vake: "Ini handigone kuve mukadzi, kana bonde shandura kuvhiya, kana kuti handingararame."

Pazera remakore gumi nemapfumbamwe, Natalia akaonekwa aine transsexualism uye akapihwa mvumo yekushanda. Asi panguva iyoyo USSR yakadonha, uye maererano nemitemo mitsva, oparesheni yakadaro yaisagona kuitwa kusvika pamakore makumi maviri nemana. Natalia paakanga akamirira zera iri, shanduko dzakaitika mukati make, uye akafunga kusvika nenyaya yekuti iye mukadzi.

“Nhasi ndinobatsira vanhu vakadaro kuti vasakanganisa zvakafanana - anodaro Natalia. - Ndinotaura navo nezvese matambudziko akavamirira munzira. Uye aya matambudziko haasi epfungwa chete. Semuenzaniso, vakadzi vanoita zvepabonde vanowanzogara pamahomoni echirume kusvika pamakore makumi mana nemashanu. Chinhu chinowanzoitika cherufu ndechekuputika kweropa rakavharwa. Ndine shamwari kubva kuFeodosia pamusoro pekuremara nekuda kwehomoni. Uye hapana anodzivisa vanhu kubva kuzvisarudzo izvi, haaratidze iyi mienzaniso inotyisa, haakurudzire vanhu kuti vamire. Nekuda kweizvozvo, transsexourse inorarama kunge kuda kuziva, sevadzingwa. Gender restignment kuvhiya haisi sarudzo. Ini handisati ndaona kana mumwe transsexual aive nekuvhiyiwa kwandakafara nako. Wese munhu wandakataura naye akati: "tine urombo".

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Katie Grace Duncan akakurira mumhuri isina kugadzikana kwaakange asina kupihwa hanya, uko baba vake vaishungurudza amai vake, uye mukoma-mukoma-mukoma vakamushungurudza. Zvese izvi zvakamutungamira mukutenda kuti vakadzi havana simba uye vanotambura, nekuda kweizvozvo iye akaramba nekusaziva hukadzi hwake uye kubva pamakore gumi nemapfumbamwe akatanga kurarama semurume. Akatora mahormone echirume uye akatobvisa mazamu ake.Zvisinei, izvi hazvina kumuunzira mufaro waitarisirwa, uye pasi pasi aiziva kuti zvese zvainge zvakaipa. Mukuedza kudzvinyirira zviitiko zvisingafadzi, akapindwa muropa nedoro uye zvinonyadzisira. Asi pazera ramakore makumi matatu, nerubatsiro rwekutenda uye nerutsigiro rwevanhu vakamukomberedza nekunzwisisa uye hanya, akakwanisa kubvisa hunhu hwake ndokubuda mumaketani ezve transsexualism, achitanga nzira refu uye yakaoma yekusanganazve nehukadzi hwakarambwa.

«Ndichitarisa kumashure, ndinoziva mune nhema dzandairarama, - anoudza Katie- vanhu vanofunga kuti vakazvarwa vakadaro, kuti vari mumuviri usiri iwo, kuti uropi hwavo hwakabatana nenzira isiri iyo, kuti chimwe chinhu chakakanganisika nemahomoni avo, asi izvi zvese manyepo! Isu takazvarwa takajairwa, ndezvekuti chimwe chinhu chinoitika kwatiri mushure, chimwe chinhu chinoshungurudza, semhedzisiro yatinotanga kutenda nhema idzi pamusoro pedu. Isu tinogadzira nzira yekusefa iyo kuburikidza nayo ruzivo rwese runopfuura, uye kunyangwe kana yatarisana nezvokwadi, tinosvibisa, tichiipfuura negirazi renhema. "Nzira chete yekubuda mune izvi ndeyekugadzirisa matambudziko ako ekare, uvasunungure uye uone zvakaitika."

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Hwese humbowo pamusoro hunosimbisa izvo Walt Heyer anga achiedza kuendesa kuruzhinji kwemakore:
"Migumisiro yenguva refu yekuvhiya kwehutachiona hwehutachiona hwehutachiona haisati yadzidzwa. Parizvino, isu hatina chinangwa uye chinogutsa tsvagiridzo. "Ndinonzwa kuti kuzvidemba pamwe nekudzokorodza ndimo uchava muganho unotevera wevanhu vanoita transgender, saka gadzirirai."

SEGM - boka repasi rose revanodarika zana varapi nevatsvaguri, vane hanya nekushaikwa kwehumbowo hwepamusoro-soro hwekushandiswa kwehomoni nekuvhiya kupindira sekurapa kwekutanga kune vechidiki vane dysphoria yechikadzi, vari kurwisa mamiriro ezvesainzi. Munguva pfupi yapfuura chinyorwa nhengo dzeboka dzinoramba dzakawanda dzenhema dze LGBT kufamba mumunda we trans ideology.

Ongororo yakarongeka yehumbowo nevakuru vehutano hweveruzhinji muFinland, Sweden neEngland vakagumisa kuti njodzi-yebhenefiti reshiyo ye "bonde reassignment" muvechidiki rinobva kune risingazivikanwe kusvika risingafadzi.

Iyo mitsva yeSweden neChirungu nhungamiro yekurapa dysphoria zvino inotaura pachena izvozvo kupindira kwepfungwa kunofanira kuva mutsara wekutanga wekurapa (uye kwete hormone therapy uye kuvhiyiwa). Zvakare, iyo nhungamiro yeSweden inotaura kuti kupindira kwehomoni hakufanirwe kuitwa muvanhu vane post-pubertal kutanga kwevakadzi dysphoria (ikozvino ichi ndicho chikuru chevatengi vezvitupa zve "kuchinja kwepabonde", vazhinji vavo havaiti basa racho).

Zvinoenderana neazvino data kubva kuUK neUS, 10-30% yeavo vachangobva kutanga "trance transition" vanomisa maitiro mukati memakore mashoma ekutanga.. Zvidzidzo zvenguva refu zvevakuru vakachinja vakatadza kuratidza kuvandudzwa kwehutano hwepfungwa, uye zvimwe zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti pane zvinokuvadza zvine chekuita ne "kurapa" kwakadaro..

Chishuwo chemunhu chekucheka mitezo yakagwinya inoonekwa naye seyatorwa inozivikanwa se xenomelia uye inosanganisirwa mu "chirwere chekutyora kutendeka kwekunzwisisa kwemuviri" (BIID) inozivikanwa sekusagadzikana kwepfungwa. Asi kana munhu achida kucheka kwete ruoko rwake, asi nhengo yake kana mammary glands, ipapo tinoudzwa kuti ichi hachisiri chirwere, asi kutaura-kwako kunofanirwa kutsigirwa uye kuchengetedzwa ...

Zvanga zviri kuratidzwakuti pamberi pekutanga kwepabonde dysphoria, 62% yevechiri kuyaruka vakaongororwa vaive nechimwe kana kupfuura zvekuongororwa kwechirwere chepfungwa kana neurodevelopmental kusagadzikana. Mune makumi masere muzana ezviitiko, mwana akasangana nechiitiko chinotyisa kana kushushikana, kusanganisira kudheerera, kushungurudzwa pabonde, kana kurambana kwevabereki. Izvi zvinoratidza kuti chishuwo chekutumidzirazve bonde chinoratidzwa nevechiri kuyaruka ichi chingave chirongwa chinokuvadza chekurwisa. Uye kunyangwe vazhinji veavo vakaitwa oparesheni yevakadzi vakadzoreredzwa vakati "vaifara" nekuvhiya, kwavo kwakapindirana kwepfungwa nepfungwa hakuna nani pane avo vasina kuvhiyiwa: vanopfuura makumi mana muzana vavo vakaedza kuzviuraya.

Vashanduri veTrans vanotsvaira kure mitsva yekutsvagakuratidza kuti kusvika pa98% yevakomana uye 88% yevasikana vane hutano hwekuzivikanwa kwevakadzi vanopedzisira vatora bonde ravo rekubereka pakupera kwekuyaruka (kana isina kukurudzirwa). 

Zvakaoma kufungidzira muenzaniso wakajeka wekukunda kwekunyepedzera kwemafungiro esekete pane njere. Mass psychosis munguva yakapfuura, senge kutamba kwaSt. Vitus, kubatwa kwemhuka, kana kutya-kwevaroyi, kwaive kwenzvimbo uye episodic; transgender psychosis inoramba ichienderera uye ichipararira pasirese. Tinogona chete kutarisira kuti pakupedzisira pfungwa dzakajairika dzichakunda, uye zvizvarwa zvinotevera zvichamonyorora minwe yavo mukushamisika, vachidzidza mumabhuku enhoroondo zviri kuitika nhasi.

"Kuti runobatsira vese, ndinosimbisa kuti kuvhiyiwa kune avo mhinduro dzisingadzoreki inofanirwa kuve yekupedzisira - anodaro psychotherapist Bob Whiters aishanda nevana. Tinofanira kugara tichitanga kushanda nemurwere kuti chinja maitiro pakuenderana nemaitiro emuviri, uye kwete kushandura muviri zvinoenderana nehunhu hwekuona. Zvichakadaro, mukati mehurongwa hweyazvino hutano hwehutano, nyanzvi dziri kusundira mazana, kana asiri zviuru zvevachiri kuyaruka, kuti vaite basa rakakura rekuita "zvepabonde". "Mumakore e20, tichazotarisa kumashure ndokuona kuti hupenzi uhwu hwazova chimwe chezvitsauko zvinotyisa munhoroondo yekurapa kwazvino."

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Kubva pane zvinhu Times, BBC, denga, Dailymail, Zvinyorwa

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