Tag Archive: kurapa ngochani

Kubatanidzwazve Therapy - Shanduko Inogoneka

Vhidhiyo yakazara muChirungu

Kubva panguva yekuchinja kwezvebonde, maitiro ekuita ungochani zvachinja zvakanyanya. Nhasi, kune ngochani kuWest, kurwa kunoita senge kwakundwa: makirabhu, ngochani, gay kuroora. Izvozvi "ngochani zvakanaka." Kurangwa kwekutonga uye mhosva dzisina kumboitika dzakamirira avo vanopikisa LGBT vanhu, pamwe chete nemazita eanopenga uye epamba.

Kushivirira uye kugamuchira kwakapararira kwerusununguko rwepabonde kunoshanda kune vese asi chikamu chimwe chehuwandu - avo vanoda kusiyana neungochani uye kutanga mararamiro ehukombwe. Varume ava nevakadzi vanonzwa maitiro eungochani, asi havadi kubvuma kuzivikanwa kweungochani. Vanotenda kuti ungochani haumiriri chimiro chavo chaicho uye vanotsvaga kununurwa.

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Reorientation Therapy: mibvunzo nemhinduro

Vese ngochani here?

"Gay" ndicho chitupa icho munhu anosarudza zvangu. Havasi vese ngochani vanozivisa se "ngochani." Vanhu vasingazivikanwe se ngochani vanotenda kuti ivo ndevakaroorwa uye vanotsvaga rubatsiro rwekutarisa zvikonzero zvinoita kuti vasvike kukwezvwa nevanhukadzi. Munguva yekurapa, vanachipangamazano uye vezvepfungwa vanoshandisa nzira dzehunhu kubatsira vatengi kutanga zvikonzero zvekukwezva ivo-murume kana mukadzi uye nekunyatso kuvabatsira kugadzirisa izvo zvinokonzeresa kumanzwiro eungochani. Vanhu ava, inova chikamu chakakosha munharaunda yedu, vanoedza kuchengetedza kodzero yavo yekugamuchira rubatsiro nerutsigiro kuti vabve pane zvisingaite zvevakomana nevasikana, vanoshandura maitiro avo ezvepabonde uye / kana chengetedza kusaroora. Izvi zvinowanikwa kuburikidza nehurongwa hwekuvandudza vanhukadzi, kusanganisira kurapa uye kurapa vanhukadzi, zvakare inozivikanwa se "Kurara Kwemagariro Ekupindira" (SOCE) kana Reoriorial Therapy.

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