Vese ngochani here?

"Gay" ndicho chitupa icho munhu anosarudza zvangu. Havasi vese ngochani vanozivisa se "ngochani." Vanhu vasingazivikanwe se ngochani vanotenda kuti ivo ndevakaroorwa uye vanotsvaga rubatsiro rwekutarisa zvikonzero zvinoita kuti vasvike kukwezvwa nevanhukadzi. Munguva yekurapa, vanachipangamazano uye vezvepfungwa vanoshandisa nzira dzehunhu kubatsira vatengi kutanga zvikonzero zvekukwezva ivo-murume kana mukadzi uye nekunyatso kuvabatsira kugadzirisa izvo zvinokonzeresa kumanzwiro eungochani. Vanhu ava, inova chikamu chakakosha munharaunda yedu, vanoedza kuchengetedza kodzero yavo yekugamuchira rubatsiro nerutsigiro kuti vabve pane zvisingaite zvevakomana nevasikana, vanoshandura maitiro avo ezvepabonde uye / kana chengetedza kusaroora. Izvi zvinowanikwa kuburikidza nehurongwa hwekuvandudza vanhukadzi, kusanganisira kurapa uye kurapa vanhukadzi, zvakare inozivikanwa se "Kurara Kwemagariro Ekupindira" (SOCE) kana Reoriorial Therapy.

Nei varwere veungochani vari kuedza kurambidza humhandara-kubvumidza kurapwa?

Masangano evanochata anorayiridza vanhurume vavo kuramba nhengo dzechingochani uye dzisingadiwe vanhukadzi nevarume vanoramba kuzvitaridza kuti ngochani, kunyanya nekuti havatsigiri ngano yekuti ngochani dzinozvarwa. Mu2008, American Psychological Association yakati: "Kunyangwe ongororo zhinji dzaongorora hutachiona hunogona kuitika, hutachiona, hukama hwemagariro, uye hutsika nezvetsika, hapana dhata yakawanikwa inobvumira masayendisiti kupedzisa kuti kurara kwevanhu kunoonekwa nechero chinhu kana zvinhu.". Ungochani hunowanzo kukonzera, uye vanhu vanovaziva zvakasiyana muhupenyu hwavo. Vamwe vanhu vanofarira kuenda kunhaurirano ichavabatsira kubvisa iyo isingadiwi-yebonde drive, uye izvi zvinotyisidzira chirongwa chezvematongerwo enyika chevanhurume.

Iye murume ari murume mumwe chete — anobvumidza kurapwa kwakasiyana nechero imwe psychotherapy?

Kwete. Vapi vezano vanoita reoriation therapy vane diploma uye vanopa mabasa epfungwa pane hwakawanda wenyaya nyaya, kusanganisira isingakodzeri kuroorwa pabonde. Vatsoropodzi vanotsanangura nhema kuti nzira yekurapa nayo zvisirizvo, kunyange vamwe vachidana kuti kuedza "kudzivirira ungochani," iyo inovimba nenzira dzehunhu chete. Tsananguro dzakadai ndedzenhema uye hadzivaratidze basa revarairidzi vehutano hwepfungwa vanoita dzidzo yekurapa.

Vana vachanyimwa mukana wekuti vapihwe hutano hwepfungwa hwakaringana.

Hongu Vana vanonyengerwa nevakuru vechisikana uye vasina chokwadi nekwavo kuita zvepabonde nekuda kwemhirizhonga yebonde vachanyimwa mukana wekurapwa nekuda kwekuti hazvivimbise ungochani. Muchokwadi, mwana anoshungurudzwa kaviri - kutanga nemutsotsi, uyezve nemamiriro ezvematongerwo enyika, ayo anoramba kupa kurapwa kumwana, kana asiri iye ngochani kusimbisa.

Iye ngochanikusimbisa kurapa uku kunokuvadza here?

Vamwe vanhurume vanoita zve ngochani vanoti kurapa patsva kwakaipa uye kunogona kutungamira achiri kuyaruka kuzvidya moyo, kuora mwoyo uye / kana kuzviuraya. Zvakangodaro, hapana kana imwe chete yongororo yakaongororwa yesainzi yaiongorora vana vakapinda muhurongwa hwekudzoreredza, saka zvese zvipomerwa kuti kurapwa kwakadai kunokuvadza uye hakubetseri hakuna chikonzero.

Mabhiri ekurambidza kudzoreredza marapirwo anoenderana chete nezvezvirevo zvematongerwo enyika kubva kune izvo zvinonzi zvechirwere chepfungwa nezvehutano, zvakaita seAmerican Psychological Association (APA), iyo mu2009 yakagadzira Task Force inosanganisira chete ngochani uye ngochani vanobvuma psychologist. Kwete chete iyo Task Force yakaramba kugamuchira vanachiremba vepfungwa uye vakagadziriswa psychotherapists vakanyatsoshanda nevatengi sechikamu chekudzoreredza kurapwa uye / kana vaimbove ngochani, nhengo dzese dzeTask Force ino dzinozivikanwa sevanopikisa akamira kwenguva refu ekudzoreredza kurapwa kwezvikonzero zvehunyanzvi hwezvematongerwo enyika.

Bato reAPA mushumo waro rinopa zano vabereki kuti vasatendeukire kurapa kwevana vavo. Mabhiri anorambidza kurapa kwevakadzi vanoita zvepabonde anongotaura maonero eAAPA nemamwe masangano "asingatendeseki", vachiteerera kurudziro yeAmerican Association yeChristian Psychologists (AACC), National Association yeChidzidzo uye Therapy yeungochani (NARTH), Catholic Medical Association (CMA) uye American College yeVana chiremba (ACPeds), vese avo vanotsigira kodzero yemutengi yekugadzirisa kukwezva kwevanhurume nevanhukadzi vasingadiwe uye kodzero yevabereki kusarudza kuti ndeapi marapirwo uye pfungwa dzakanakira mhuri yavo nevana. Pakazara, masangano aya anoumbwa neanopfuura zviuru makumi mashanu zvevashandi vepfungwa uye vezvehutano.

 Pane humbowo here hwekutsigira kushanda kwechirume-chinosimbisa kurapa?

Ehe, 100 makore ekutsvaga, zviripo. Mu2009, iyo National Association yeChidzidzo uye Therapy yeChingochani yakafambisa ongororo yakazara yemabhuku panhau yekudzokororwa uye akapedzisa kuti vamwe varume nevakadzi vanogona kubva kubva kuchingochani kuenda kuchirikadzi uye kuti matanho ekuchinjisa maitiro ekupinda pabonde aive asina kunyanyo kukuvadza. Uye zvakare, bhuku raDr James Phelan rakaputsa rakaburitswa mu2014 "Mhedzisiro inobudirira yekudzokorora kurapa"Muri kutsanangurwa makore 100 emakore, pamwe nekuongororwa kwebhaibheri kwakabudirira kwevakabudirira kuratidzira kuti kurapa kwakabatsira vamwe vatengi kubvisa vatyairi vavanoda kuita zvepabonde navo uye vanzwe vakasiyana.

Vabereki vevana vavo vanomanikidza kurapa-vanobvuma kurapwa?

Vamwe vanopesana nevarume vanoita zvechingochani vakapomera kuti vabereki vakamanikidza vana vavo kuti vadzokere kudzora mabasa, kusanganisira mumisasa inonzi vanoshandisa nzira dzekutendeuka (s.e., electroshock). Kupomerwa kwakadaro ingano dzechokwadi dzakanzverwa uye dzakabvumidzwa, asi zvakadaro zvinoshandiswa senzira yekutyisa kukurudzira vabati vemitemo kuti varambidze kurangana-nokubvumidza kurapwa, nepo panguva imwechete vachibvumidza maitiro ekurapa-kubvumidza kurapa. Zvakare, kana vanoita zveungochani vakanyanya kubatikana nekudzora mushonga, saka unoregere kurambidza zvachose kudzora mushonga pane kuedza kungorambidza kudzoreredza kurapwa chete? (Nezve nongedzo, parizvino nezvevarwere vane mamirioni 1 pagore vanogamuchira electroshock kurapwa pakurapa kushungurudzika, catatonia, manic syndrome, nezvimwe - approx. Per.)

Mirairo inorambidza kudzoserwa patsva inotyisidzira kodzero yevanhu mubumbiro rehupenyu, rusununguko, uye kutsvaga mufaro, pamwe nekodzero yekusangana nachiremba wepfungwa akavimbiswa neKutanga Kugadziriswa kweBumbiro remutemo reU.S. kubatsira mutengi kugadzirisa kukwezvwa kusingafungirwe pabonde kuitira kuti arambe akatendeka pakutenda kwake kwemweya. Vabereki vese, vana uye mhuri vanokodzera kodzero yekuzvisarudzira uye havafanirwe kumanikidzwa kusarudza pakati pevo psychologist nechitendero.

Source: Kuenzana uye Kururamisira Kune Vese