Bonde rinofambisa kusiyana uye kugara zvakanaka muvarume

DZIMWE DZIDZO INORATIDZA KUSHANDA UYE KUchengetedzwa KWEKUREGERERA THERAPY.

Nepo vezvematongerwo enyika vanotungamirwa neLGBT vari kumisa mitemo yekurambidza rubatsiro rwekurapa kune vanhu vanonzwa kukwezva vasingadi ngochani, imwe ongororo yakabuda muUS inoratidza zvinogutsa kuti vanhu vakadaro vanogona kubatsirwa.

IAmerican Psychological Association (APA) nemamwe masangano ehutano hwepfungwa anokurudzira kuti nyanzvi dzepfungwa dziodze vatengi kubva pakuchinja maitiro avo ezvepabonde vachifunga kuti nzira dzakashandiswa "hadzina kuratidzwa kuti dzinoshanda kana kuti dzakachengeteka." Ichitaura nezve "sampling bias, nzira isina kukwana, kusarongeka kwevatori vechikamu, uye fungidziro dzekuzvitaura," APA inoshoropodza humbowo huripo hwekugadzirisa kunobudirira se "hahuvimbike" mukupa mhedziso dzakasimba.

Zvisinei, mutsika dzakanakisisa dzemaitiro maviri, APA inoshandisa tsvakurudzo ine kukanganisa kwakafanana kuzvidza "conversion therapy" uye kutsigira "gay affirmative therapy." Zvakakosha kucherechedza kuti pane zvidzidzo zvina chete zvehunyanzvi kana quasi-empirical zvakaongorora kukanganisa kwe "gay affirmative" maitiro pakugara zvakanaka kwevatengi. Pasinei nokuti migumisiro yezvidzidzo izvi yakasanganiswa zvikuru, uye nzira dzacho hadzina kushanda, APA inopa nzira ye "gay affirmative" seyakanyanya mberi uye ndiyo chete inogamuchirwa. Rondedzero inogamuchirwa kazhinji inoti kana munhu achikwezvwa neungochani, saka anofanira kubvuma chingochani kana kuti chiziviso chevarume vaviri, chinove musimboti wehupenyu hwake hwose nemararamiro. Nekudaro, vanhu vazhinji havabvumirani nekurongeka uku uye havadi kutsanangura hunhu hwavo pahwaro hwezviitiko zvepabonde.

Uye saka, muna Mbudzi 2021, purofesa weArizona Christian University Carolyn Pela uye chiremba wepfungwa Philip Sutton vakaburitsa mhedzisiro yemakore mashanu ebasa izvo zvinobvisa zvirevo zveAPA.

Vatsvagiri vakatevera 75 vatengi veReintegrative Therapy, psychotherapeutic system yakavakirwa payakasimbiswa nzira dzakajairwa dzinoshandiswa mukurapa kwekushungurudzika uye kupindwa muropa. Vakapinda mumusangano uyu vanga vari varume vechichena vechitendero vane makore 18–35 avo vakasangana nerudo rwengochani asi vachida kuzvibvisa, nekuda kwezvikonzero zvechitendero kana kupinda muwanano yechivanhu.

Mhedzisiro yacho yainakidza: panguva yekurapa, kukwezva ngochani kwevatori vechikamu kwakadzikira, kukwezvwa neungochani kwakawedzera, uye kuzivikanwa kwakachinjika kune varume nevarume. Iyo data yakaratidzawo "kiriniki uye nenhamba yakakosha kuvandudzwa mukugara zvakanaka". Pakazara, mhedzisiro yeongororo iyi inosimbisa kuti kuedza kushandura chido chebonde kunogona kushanda, kunobatsira, uye kusakuvadza.

“Nokudaro,” vanyori vacho vanodaro, “kutaura kwokuti hakuna ufakazi hwesayenzi pamusoro pebetsero kana kuti kuvadziko yenhamburiko dzokuchinja mirangariro yevatano haisisiri yechokwadi. Zvakare, yambiro inoenderera mberi yeAPA nemamwe masangano maererano nevatengi vari kutsvaga kushandura maitiro avo ezvepabonde anorasisa, haana hunyanzvi, uye haana hunhu maererano nekusangana nevatengi zviri pamutemo zvinodiwa pakuzvisarudzira. Zvakare, kuramba kweAPA kudzidzisa vanonyora mitemo vachipesana ne “conversion therapy,” kuti tsvakiridzo haitsigire kukuvadzwa kwayo, uye kuti kurapa kwepfungwa kwechinyakare kunotakura njodzi yekukuvadzwa, hakuchagamuchirwi. Nekuda kwekugadzirwa kwayo kwakasimba, chidzidzo chazvino chinoratidza kuti vanhu vasingadiwe varume nevakadzi zvinokwezva vanogona kutarisira mabhenefiti pane kukuvadzwa nekutora chikamu mukurapa. "

Zvinofanira kucherechedzwa kuti vanyori vanopikisa zvakasimba kudana hurongwa hwavo "conversion therapy", sezvavanotaura kuti ishoko risina kujeka, rinonyomba uye rinokurudzira rinosanganiswa nemabhati echando uye magetsi emagetsi, ayo anoshandiswa kutyisidzira vanhu vane chido chisingadikanwi chingochani. Vanyori vanodana nzira yavo SAFE-T (sexual attraction fluidity exploration mukurapa), iyo inopindirana nezwi rekuti "chengetedzo" uye inoshandura se "chidzidzo chekusiyana kwechido chepabonde mukurapa."

Boka rinokatyamadza rebasa resainzi rakagadzira "fluidity" (kureva kusiyanisa, kuyerera kana kufamba) kwechishuwo chebonde muvanhu vazhinji, kunyanya mune avo vanosangana neungochani. Kunyangwe vanhu vanogona kunge vaine hungochani, bhizi, kana hurume, zviitiko zvavo kazhinji hazvienderane muzvikamu izvi, asi panzvimbo pezvo zvinoumba kuenderera uko kutarisisa kwekukwezva kunogona kufamba nenzira mbiri. Iyo SAFE-T nzira inobvumira mutengi kuti aongorore kusiyanisa kwechishuwo chake chepabonde uye kuita shanduko munzira yaanoda.

Kana zviri zve "kukuvadza uye kusashanda", zvachose chero nzira ye psychotherapeutic, kunyangwe iyo inonyanya kuzivikanwa uye inoshanda, inogona kuve isingashande kana kukuvadza kune mutengi. Nokudaro, chikamu chinoramba chichienderana chevakuru (kusvika ku10%) uye chikamu chepamusoro chevana (kusvika ku24%) chinoratidza kuderera kwehutano hwavo panguva yekurapwa, uye 45% yevatengi vanotambura nekuora mwoyo havaoni kuvandudzwa kunokosha.

Kudzidza kwaPela naSutton kunopa humbowo hwakasimba hwekuti vamwe vatengi vaida kudzora kukwezva kwavo kwevangochani uye maitiro avo vakakwanisa kubudirira. Izvi zvinopokana nemaitiro eAPA achipokana nekurapa kwekudzorera, pamwe nekuedza kwemutemo kurambidza nzira dzekurapa dzevatengi. Vanhu vanofarira kuderedza kukwezva kusingadikanwi kana kuwandisa kweungochani vane kodzero yese yekutsvaga nekugamuchira rubatsiro rwenyanzvi kuti vazadzise zvinangwa zvavo, uye nyanzvi dzehutano hwepfungwa dzine kodzero yekupa rubatsiro rwakadaro.

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Ruzivo rwakawanda nezve psychotherapy yekukwezva isingadikanwi yebonde:
https://pro-lgbt.ru/category/articles/therapy

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  1. Wazvivhiringa wega.Zvese zvisina maturo nehupenzi hazvifanirwe kubuditswa.Ungochani nezvese zvebonde hazvirapike.Unotozvinzwisisa here zvauri kunyora.Zviripachena kuti vano "tsvakurudza" psychiatry,medical,theology,cultural studies,history uye pfungwa dzepfungwa hadzina kuverenga.Ungave wakapusa kana kuti wakapatsanura pfungwa dzeavo vaishanda mu“misasa yekuyedza” yeNazi kana kunyanyisa mune zvechitendero kwakava sainzi kwauri.Kutsauka uku hakugone “kurapwa”.

      1. Hongu, inoda kurapwa. Sezvo mutemo, zvinhu zvose zvinobva paudiki. Ndinokutendai nekushanda kwenyu nesimba! Uye ini ndaidawo kubvunza: sei iwe usinganyore chero kupi zvako nezve rutsigiro rwemari yezviitwa zvako? Ndinofunga kuti vanhu vazhinji vangabatsira kubhadhara chirongwa chako

    1. kutsauka uku mhedzisiro yemamwe mamiriro ekurerwa uye kukura, "kukanganisa" kukura kwe psyche, uye saka kururamisa kunogoneka.
      Chishuvo chekuratidza kuti ichi ndicho chimiro, zvinosuruvarisa kuti chinotevera zvinangwa zvayo.

    2. "Uku kutsauka hakugone" kurapwa.
      Zvakanaka, iwe unoziva izvi sekutsauka ... Mumisasa yeNazi, zvinhu zvose zvakanyatsopesana. Ikoko vakagovana chaizvo maonero ako, Konstantin, kuti zvinhu zvose ndezvekuzvarwa uye kubva kumajini, uye kurapwa uye / kana kugadziriswa kwe "zvakaipa" nhaka hazvibviri, saka izvo zvisingadiwi zvakangoparadzwa. Asi kazhinji, kuwanda kwegirama, stylistic uye zvikanganiso zvepunctuation zvinongoratidza kuti iwe pachako unoverenga zvishoma.

  2. Ndizvozvo, zvakanga zvatova pachena kubva pakutanga. Muvambi weiyi pfungwa akangoita mari yakanaka, uye mukomana akakurira semusikana akangotambura hupenyu hwake hwese ndokuzviuraya.
    Iyi ndiyo nyaya yakakurumbira yaDavid Reimer, mukomana akanga asati ari musikana. Izvo zvakapinda mumakakatanwa atova munhu mukuru nemusayendisiti akakurudzira vabereki kuti vachinje bonde remwana.

    1. Kutarisa munyika ipi. Kana iri nyika inoshivirira ine homofascism yakasimbiswa, vanhu vane njere vanozotaura kuti havasi vanhu vanovenga ngochani. Asi ichi hachisi chinongedzo pakati pehomophobia neIQ. Pane kuwirirana pakati pedzidzo yekuMadokero uye kusununguka, pamwe nekuwirirana pakati pekusaziva uye kuderera kwenjere. Asi hapana hukama hwakananga pakati pehungwaru hwakaderera uye homonegativism.

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