Muna Chikunguru 2020, John Blosnich weLGBTQ + Health Equality Center akaburitsa imwe kudzidza nezve "ngozi" yekurapa kurapa. Muongororo yenhengo dze1518 dze "non-transgender sex minorities", timu yaBlosnich yakagumisa kuti vanhu vakaedzwa kushanduka pabonde (zvinozonzi SOCE*) vanoshuma kuwanda kwekuda kuzviuraya uye kuedza kuzviuraya kupfuura avo handina. Zvakapokana kuti SOCE "inokuvadza stressor inowedzera kuzviuraya kwepabonde". Naizvozvo, kuedza kushandura maitiro hakubvumirwe uye kunofanira kutsiviwa ne "affirmative withdrawal" iyo inoyananisa munhu wacho nezvido zvake zveungochani. Chidzidzo ichi chakanzi "humbowo hwakasimba hwekuti SOCE inokonzera kuzviuraya".
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Bonde rinofambisa kusiyana uye kugara zvakanaka muvarume
DZIMWE DZIDZO INORATIDZA KUSHANDA UYE KUchengetedzwa KWEKUREGERERA THERAPY.
Nepo vezvematongerwo enyika vanotungamirwa neLGBT vari kumisa mitemo yekurambidza rubatsiro rwekurapa kune vanhu vanonzwa kukwezva vasingadi ngochani, imwe ongororo yakabuda muUS inoratidza zvinogutsa kuti vanhu vakadaro vanogona kubatsirwa.
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Kocharyan G.S. - Bisexuality uye shanduko yekurapa: kesi yekudzidza
Chidimbu. Ongororo yekiriniki inopiwa patiri kutaura nezve "bisexual” kumurume, uye anotsanangurawo kurapwa kwaakaitwa achishandisa hypnosuggestive programming, iyo yakazova inoshanda zvikuru.
Parizvino, kuedza kusati kwamboitika kuri kuitwa kurambidza kushandiswa kweshanduko (reparative) kurapa, kunoitirwa kushandura ngochani yechishuwo chepabonde kuita bonde. Anoshurikidzwa uye akaziviswa kwete kwete chete zvisina basa, asi zvakare zvinokuvadza zvakanyanya kumuviri wemunhu. Saka, Zvita 7, 2016 paramende yeMalta vakabvumirana vakapasisa mutemo unorambidza kushandiswa kwekurapa kurapwa. Zve "kushandura, kudzvinyirira nekuparadza hunhu hwemunhu pabonde kana kuzivikanwa kwechikadzi," mutemo uyu unopa mutongo kana faindi yetirongo. [7] Iyo Bundesrat (inomiririra nyika dzemubatanidzwa yeGerman) muna Chikumi 5, 2020 yakabvumidza mutemo unorambidza kurapwa uku. Deutsche Welle inoshuma kuti maitiro ayo anogona kurangwa nekuiswa mutirongo kwegore rimwe chete, uye kushambadzira nekureverera - faindi inosvika makumi matatu ezviuru euros [30]. MuUnited States, inokwana gumi nesere chete, Puerto Rico neWashington, DC, zvakarambidza kutendeuka kwevana vadiki.Vakuru vanogona kuzvipira kurapa kutendeuka munyika yese [9]... Instagram neFacebook zvakazivisa kuvharwa kwemaposi ese pane aya masocial network ayo anokurudzira kutendeuka kurapwa [8].
Izvo zvirevo zvekuti kurapwa kwekushandura hakusi kungoshanda chete, asi mune zvese zviitiko zvinokonzeresa kukuvadza kukuru mumuviri kunyepa. Nhaurwa inoenderana inogona kuwanikwa muzvinyorwa zvedu [3; 4; 6]. Zvakare, akati wandei emabasa edu akaunza iko kushandiswa kwakanaka kwekushandura kurapwa2; 5].
Heino nyaya kubva kune yedu yekiriniki tsika, uko kutendeuka kurapwa kwakabudirira kwazvo mukugadzirisa iko kwekutungamira kwechishuwo chebonde mune murume ane bisexual zvido.
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Ndinogona here kuchinja maitiro angu ekuita zvepabonde?
Zvizhinji zvezvinyorwa pazasi zvinoburitswa mushumo wekuongorora. "Rhetoric yengochani yekufambidzana muchiedza nesainzi chokwadi". doi:10.12731/978-5-907208-04-9, ISBN 978-5-907208-04-9
Yakakosha Tsvaga
(1) Iko kune hwakadzika hwaro hwehupupu uye hwechipatara humbowo hwekuti kukwezva kwevanhu vasingafariri ungochani kunogona kubviswa zvinobudirira.
(2) Chimiro chakakosha chekubudirira kwechiitiko chekurapa ndechekugadziriswa kwemurwere nekutora moyo kuchinja.
(3) Muzviitiko zvakawanda, kukwezva ngochani, izvo zvinogona kuitika panguva yekuyaruka, zvinopera pasina chekutevera pazera rakakura zera.
Jan Goland pakurapwa kweungochani (kipekee vhidhiyo kubvunzurudzwa)
Foreword
Mukutanga kwe1990, vanoita zveungochani kuUS vakaedza kuita kuti ngochani dzizivikanwe se "boka rakadzivirirwa" kubva kuDare Repamusoro. Kuti rimwe reboka revanhu riwane chinzvimbo chakachengetedzwa, chinofanira kunge chiri chepakutanga, homogenible uye chisingaperi (chisingazive gay). Zvakadai, vanoita zvechingochani vakatanga nyaya dzakasiyana siyana dzakakurumidza kutorwa dzichitepfenyurwa nevasori venhau. Kupesana nezvazviri nesainzi uye zvakajairika, zvainzi munhu mumwechete pagumi vanhu ngochani, uye kuti kukwezva kwebonde munhu hunhu hwakazvarwa narwo, sedzinza, iro rinokonzerwa neruoko rwakakosha uye husina kuchinjika senge ruvara rweganda. Kuedza kuzvienzanisa nevakajaira kudzvanywa madzitateguru, vanoita zvechingochani vakatogadzira kutaura kwakashata se "hupombwe hudiki" uye "vanhu ngochani".
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Kurapa kweungochani pele nguva yekururamisa kwezvematongerwo enyika
Nhamba dzakawanda dzekubudirira kurapa kurapa kweungochani maitiro uye kukwezva zvinotsanangurwa zvakadzama mumabhuku ehunyanzvi. Chirevo Sangano reNational Association for the Study uye Therapy yeChingochani rinopa humbowo hwehungwaru hwehungwaru, mishumo yekiriniki nekutsvaga kubva kumagumo ezana ramakore re19 kusvika parizvino, izvo zvinopa humbowo hwekuti varume nevakadzi vanofarira vanogona kuita shanduko kubva paungochani kuenda kuungochani. Pamberi penguva yekururamisa kwezvematongerwo enyika, yaive chokwadi chinozivikanwa nesainzi, iri pachena akanyora repakati pepanhau. Kunyangwe iyo American Psychiatric Association, kusanganisa zvimisikidzo zveungochani kubva kuhurongwa hwekushushikana kwepfungwa mu1974, zvakanyorwa, icho "Nzira dzazvino dzekurapa dzinobvumira chikamu chakakosha cheungochani vanoda kuchinja maitiro avo kuti vadaro".
Inotevera ishanduro zvinyorwa kubva kuNew York Times ye1971.
Ungochani kurapwa
Chiremba wepfungwa anoshamisa, psychoanalyst uye MD, Edmund Bergler akanyora mabhuku e25 pane zvepfungwa uye 273 zvinyorwa mukutungamira mapepa eunyanzvi. Mabhuku ake anofukidza nyaya dzakadai sekukura kwemwana, neurosis, matambudziko epamoyo, matambudziko emuchato, kubhejera, kuzvikuvadza, uye ungochani. Bergler ainyatso zivikanwa sehunyanzvi yenguva yake maererano neungochani. Izvi zvinotevera zvikamu kubva pabasa rake.
Mabhuku achangoburwa uye zvigadzirwa zvakaedza kuratidzira ngochani sevasina kufara vanotambura vanofanirwa kunzwirwa tsitsi. Kukwirira kune lacrimal gland haina musoro: ngochani dzinogara dzichienda kunobatsira pakurapa uye kuporeswa kana dzichida. Asi kusaziva kweruzhinji kwakapararira pamusoro penyaya iyi, uye kunyengedzwa kwevanhu vanoita ungochani nemaonero eruzhinji pamusoro pavo zvinobudirira zvekuti kunyange vanhu vakangwara vakangozvarwa zuro havana kuvawira.
Zvichangoitika zvechiitiko chezvepfungwa uye kutsvaga kwakaratidza kusingafungidzike kuti fungidziro yekusarongeka kwevanochingochani (dzimwe nguva kunyange inofungidzirwa kuti isipo yezvinhu zvipenyu nemahormone mamiriro ezvinhu) irwo chinhu chinorapa chinoshanduka. Kurapa kwepessimism yekare kuri kupera zvishoma nezvishoma: nhasi kurapa kwepfungwa kwepfungwa ye psychodynamic kunogona kurapa ungochani.
Nekurapa, ndinoreva:
1. kusakwana kwakakwana kwekufarira murume wavo;
2. zvakajairika zvepabonde mafaro;
3. hunhu hunhu.