Kālai ʻia ka hapa nui o nā mea ma lalo nei i loko o kahi hōʻike hōʻike. "ʻO ka hopohopo o ka neʻe i ka wahine i ka mālamalama o nā ʻike ʻepekema". doi:10.12731/978-5-907208-04-9, ISBN 978-5-907208-04-9

Hōʻike

ʻO kekahi o nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa o ka neʻe ʻana o ka "LGBT" ka hoʻākoakoa ʻana o ka hui ʻana o nā kāne i kapa ʻia ka ʻōhua. “Nā ʻohana ʻōpiopio” - ʻaʻole i ʻokoʻa kekahi mai nā ʻohana heterosexual me nā moʻomeheu maʻamau a me ka ʻike honua. ʻO ke kiʻi ikaika ma ka nūpepa ka pilina o nā kāne male i ke ola, kūpaʻa a aloha hoʻi e like me nā pilina heterosexual maʻamau, a ʻoi aku ka nani o lākou. ʻAʻoleʻoiaʻiʻo kēia kiʻi, a he nui nā ʻelele o ke kaiāulu e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia. ʻO ka poʻe o ka wahine like ʻole e komo ai i ka moeʻuhane ka mea nui a me ka hōʻeha o nā STD, nā hōʻeha kino, nā pilikia noʻonoʻo, ka hōʻino o ka mea make, ka pepehi kanaka a me ka hoaʻalāʻau pilikino E nānā i kēia ʻatikala i ʻekolu mau hiʻohiʻona o ka pilina o ka moeʻelemakule interpersonal e hōʻikeʻokoʻa ana iā lākou mai nā ʻano heterosexual:
• nā moekolohe a me nā hana pili;
• nā loulou pōkole a me ka ole a monogamous;
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Nā mea:

KAHOU
SEX I KA POPONO ʻO PUBLIC
"ALOHA SAUNAS"
NA UAHU KAHIKU NUI
KAHANUI
KA NANOHOLOMI A NON-MOHE PILI O NUI KOMOHUI
KAHANA HANOLELEI

Nā ʻike nui

(1) Ma nā hui kelepili hoʻopaʻa kelepona a me nā kāne cohabiting, ʻoi aku hoʻi i waena o nā kāne, aia he kiʻekiʻe loa o ka moeʻuhane ma mua o nā kānaka heterosexual.
(2) ʻO nā hui like kāne a me nā "male" ka nui o nā kāne a me ka wehe "wehe" - ʻae lākou i ka moekolohe i waho o ka male.
(3) Ma ka awelika, ʻo nā hui kelepili i hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻia a ʻo nā “male” i ʻoi aku ka pōkole ma mua o nā male heterosexual.
(4) ʻOi aku ka nui o nā pae o ka hana hoʻomāneʻaka i ka hoʻopili kāne ʻana a me nā kāne aloha, a ʻoi aku hoʻi i waena o nā wahine.

Pihiikino

ʻO kahi pilina pili i waena o nā kāne, ka promiscuity ke ʻano kumu a me kahi mea nui i ka hoʻolaha ʻana o STDs. 'O ka hana' ana e kahi 'wahine o keʻano a me ke komo' ana i ka "LGBT" e hoʻonui nui i kāna mea e moe ai.Van de ven xnumx) Ka mea kākau moʻolelo moʻo Pelekane ʻo Randy Shilts ua kakauiai kēlā kauʻa "ʻO ka mea i hoʻohālikelike ʻia i ka hana o nā kahe ka wahine ma 70" (Shilts 1987). ^ E Ha yM. Ua kākau ʻo ka mea loea kanaka ʻo Gabriel Rotello i ka hoʻokumu i ka "gay".

"... ʻo ka moekolohe male wahine a me kekahi ka haʻalele ʻana mai kēia moʻo ʻana i ke ʻano he kolohe ma ke ʻano nui ..." (Rotello 1998)

ʻO ke kuko, ka sodomy, phalluses, a me ka hōʻike ponokala o ka moekolohe me nā hoa he nui nā kumu alakaʻi i ka palapala homosexual, ke kahua, nā kiʻi ʻike, a me nā ʻano hana ʻē aʻe.

Ua hana ʻia kēia mural ma nā paia o kahi hale wailele lehulehu o Nu Ioka e ka hōkū kiʻi kiʻi ʻAmelika ʻo Keith Haring no ka hoʻohanohano ʻana i ka makahiki 20 o nā haunaele Stonewall. Ma mua o hoʻokahi makahiki i hala, e like me ka mea kākau o kēia kiʻi, i wehewehe pehea "He mea mahalo i nā lā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka wahine." и "ʻO ka lanakila a me ka hoʻopiʻi kūwaho ʻole i ka moe kolohe"make ai ʻo AIDS i ka makahiki 31.

ʻO ka maʻi maʻi o ka maʻi i pāpā ʻia i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka 1980 mauʻu wale nō i hōʻemi i ka hoʻonaʻauao o nā kāne o nā kāne ʻoi aku ka maʻi kāne, a hiki a laila no kekahi manawa pōkole. ʻO ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka hoʻomanawanui o ka lehulehu no nā kāne like ʻole a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau no ka mālama ʻana a me ka pale ʻana i ka maʻi AIDS ua kōkua i ka hoʻonui hou ʻana o ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka hoʻolaha, kahi mea i hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia e nā pūnaewele paʻikua a me nā noi kelepona.

ʻO "Grindr" kahi kaulana geo-location geo-kahi e hiki ai i GPS ke hoʻoholo i ka mamao o kahi makemake. ʻO kāna logo kumu mua, e hoʻomanaʻo ana i nā hōʻailona "Mai komo i loko" a i ʻole "mea mālama mālama", me ka pololei eccentric i hōʻike ʻia he hana hoʻoweliweli. E like me ka hōʻike ʻia aʻo, e pili ana iā 50% o nā mea hoʻohana o kēlā mau noi ʻaʻole i hoʻohana i nā kahe. Noi ikaika a hoʻohana nā mea kūpono, nā pōā a me nā mea pepehi pepehi. ʻO ka mea kākau a me ka mea hoʻomohala ʻo Gary Lambert i'ōleloʻiaʻaʻohe wahine hoʻokahi 50 makahiki i maopopo ʻole i kahi mea i make ma kahi o kahi malihini kolohe. Wahi a Lambert, he koi nui loa ka hana o ka moe kolohe i ka ʻike ʻana i nā "gays," a no ka nui o lākou ka pahuhopu nui.

"… Ke ʻano o kā lākou mau moemoeā kuko a me ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi pilina me nā kāne ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka hoʻoweliweli o ka maʻi HIV e hoʻoikaika wale i ko lākou mau makemake, no ka mea ʻoi aku ka nui o ka makaʻu, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā manaʻo "Lambert 1993).

ʻO ka mea a Lambert i ʻōlelo ai e like me ka manaʻo o ka pelekikena o ka American Psychological Association, Nicholas Cummings, ka mea i holo i kahi keʻena lapaʻau ma Kapalakiko.

"I loko o ke kaiāulu, ʻoihana pili nā kānaka a pau; ʻo ia ke ala nui o ke kamaʻilio ʻana. I ke awakea, hele nā ​​mea a pau e ʻimi ʻenehana ma Buena Vista Park, a ʻo ia ka mea kūpono, no ka mea, aia nā poʻe a pau ma laila no ka mea. Ua huli ke ʻano he ʻano ʻano Anonymous. I kēlā mau makahiki, he mea paʻakikī loa ka ʻimi ʻana i ka palau no ke kāne me ka ʻole o ka lua o ka paia o ka hale. Aia nā hale pahani kūikawā ma nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni kahi e kipa aku ai kahi malihini e ʻike ana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a i kēlā manawa ke hele aku kekahi i loko o ka haleahi, hana ke ʻano hana anal wahine iā ia a waiho ʻia, ʻaʻole maopopo ʻo ia iā wai. Loa i kaulana loa.
Aia nā pa kahi i ʻaihue ʻia ai nā mea kipa i nā kahu kāne kupa (manu nā wāwae me kahi ʻeke hāmama), ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻōwele lāua. Ma kekahi mau pahu ua ʻauʻau wai no ka urination, a hiki i kekahi ke piʻi aʻe i loko o lākou, aʻo ka poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻoiho iā ia. He mea maʻamau loa ia.
Ma Kapalakiko, aia kahi mākele kaʻa ala haʻalele ʻia, kahi i ka pō i ka pō piha piha ua loaʻa nā hoa e hoʻopā. Pepehi lākou i kekahi kanaka ma laila, aia ma ka lono, a pehea ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ai? - Ua hoʻonui nui ka nui o nā malihini i nā manawa 4.
He mau mea maʻi aʻu i hiki ʻole ke kiʻi aku me nā hoa like ʻelua. Ua kipa ʻia au e nā poʻe maʻi ʻeha luhi i kahi pilina pōkole. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā pilina male pili i nā mahina 3. Pau loa nā mea i ka ʻimi i kēlā. Ua ʻoliʻoli wau i nā mea maʻi, me ka haʻi ʻana aku iā lākou i kā lākou ʻimi ʻana e moe me ke kūlanakauhale holoʻokoʻa, a inā ʻaʻole he hōʻoia no ka poʻe ʻole o lākou "a ʻakaʻaka, ʻōlelo lākou:" Akā maopopo ʻole ʻoe, doc "" (Kāpena xnumx).

ʻO ka mea nāna i kūleʻa i ka hanana gay i USA, ʻo Harry Haye, ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka pili o nā kāne i nā keʻena pilikino i nā keʻena aupuni a i ʻole nā ​​paka ma ke “kīwila kūwaho” a ʻo kekahi mea hoʻāʻo e hoʻōki i ka hoʻomakeke ʻia ma ka lehulehu ka inoa o ka "poino mākaʻi" a me ka "hoʻokaumaha" (Jennings xnumx).

Nā mea hana ʻo Gay ʻo Kirk a me Madsen, e pane ana i nā pilikia e kū pono ana i ka hana ma ka puke ʻolose.After The Ball"Kākau i kēia:

"Malia paha ʻo ke ʻano kolohe ʻoi loa o ka hana kolohe ʻole ʻae ʻia ka moe ākea ... ʻOiai ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o nā luna e kāohi i kēia hanana, hoʻomau ka ʻōhua male kāne i ka lā a me ka pō e komo i loko o kekahi o nā keu keu ʻoi loa (i mua o ka poʻe pololei) i nā keʻena wai, nā pāka a me nā alaloa. nā kūlanakauhale nui a pau i ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa. ʻAʻole hoʻāʻo kēia poʻe e hōʻoia i ka hūnā o kā lākou hana, ʻoiai lākou e kali no kahi lull i ke kahe o nā mea kipa. Eia nō naʻe, no nā mea he nui, ʻo ka hiki ke hopu ʻia i ka ʻulaʻula he ʻekolu hapahā o ka pīhoihoi. Hoʻopili lākou i nā urinal, holoholo a ʻōlohelohe i loko o ka lumi, a hāʻule kekahi i kekahi i nā kūlana acrobatic i nā keʻena wehe. Ke ninini lākou i ka semen - ma luna o nā noho lua, nā paia a me nā papahele - waiho lākou i ka hau ma laila i nā puddles hoʻowahāwahā ʻia a maʻalahi hoʻi e ʻike ʻia ... he mea kupaianaha loa ka hiki i nā kāne ke kāne ke hana maʻalahi ʻole, akā ʻo ka hapa nui o lākou e kaohi ʻia e kā lākou peni ma mua o ko lākou lolo ... Kupaianaha, kekahi Kūpono ʻo Gays he kuleana ko lākou e kū aʻe i nā hana maʻa i nā keʻena wai a me nā pāka lehulehu, me he mea lā ua hana ʻia ia mau mea no lākou ma ke ʻano he pā pāʻani. Hele a hele a huhū kekahi i nā malihini kipa, i hoʻokahi manawa ma Roma, makemake ʻole e hana e like me ko Roma ... Wahi a ka poʻe paʻi paʻi ke hōʻāhewa i nā ʻōlelo a kēlā manaʻo lehulehu he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole ia, a hoʻopaʻi i nā hana a ka mākaʻi e hoʻopau i kēia hanana e like me ka 'hoʻonāukiuki i nā gays' ... " (ʻO Kirk lāua ʻo Madsen 1990).

I 1978, ʻo ka mea pāʻani pāʻani ʻAmelika ʻo Larry Kramer, i ʻike ʻia no kāna mau makemake homosex, i kākau i kekahi moʻolelo i kapa ʻia "Homosexuals"¹, ka mea i hoʻopā i ka hoʻomāinoino nui o LGBT + nā mea hana - ka ʻ neʻe a me ke koi ʻana e pāpā aku ai.Baim xnumx) A no ka mea āpau no ka moʻolelo, e like me Kramer iā ia iho, hōʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli o ka moʻomeheu o nā kāne like. Hoʻokumu ka moʻolelo i nā hui kūikawā a me nā sauna, i hoʻomoʻi ʻia e ka moe kolohe, ka ʻaha kanaka sadomasochistic a me ka hoʻohana lāʻau. I ka hōʻike i kāna puke, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Kramer:

"... He aha ka mea weliweli nui kaʻu i hana ai? Ua hōʻike nō wau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma ke kākau. He aha kaʻu i hana ai? Ua haʻi wale wau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i nā mea a pau aʻu i ʻike mua ai ... ”((Baim xnumx).

A laila, i loko o kahi ʻatikala i paʻi ʻia ma ka magazine gay The Advocate, ua kākau ʻo Kramer i kēia:

"ʻAʻole hele ka maʻi AIDS ma waena o nā kāne kāne ... ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kāpae me ka hana hewa me nā hoa like he nui e hana like me ka ʻole o ka hoʻolaha ʻana i kahi maʻi i make no nā makahiki he nui. Kuhi mau ke kūlohelohe i kahi kumukūʻai no ka moekolohe moekolohe ... Pono mākou e hana i kahi moʻomeheu hou ʻaʻole i kaupalena ʻia a hoʻomālamalama ʻia i kā mākou pulakaumaka me kā mākou peni a me nā mea a mākou e hana ai me lākou. " (Kramer 1997)

"ʻO Gay sauna"

ʻOiai ke hoʻomau nei o nā ʻenehana pūnaewele, ka mea i kapa ʻia. "ʻO Gay sauna", i laila no ke kumu o ka hoʻopili hewa ʻole ʻana i nā inoa a he hana nui i ka laha ʻana o ka maʻi HIV, e hoʻomau ka ulu ʻana i nā kūlanakauhale nui. Ua hōʻike ʻia ka haʻawina ʻo 2003 o ka makahiki ka ʻoi aku ma mua o 30% o nā kāne ʻoi aku i hele i kēia mau hoʻokumu ʻana me ka nui o nā mea moekolohe pili i ka poʻe 27 i kēlā me kēia makahiki (Kahuna xnumx) I loko o ka pouli o kekahi o kēia "ʻo sauna," i ʻekolu mau makahiki ma hope o ka hele ʻana i kahi maʻi maʻi a hiki a hiki i kona make ʻana, hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia i ka moe kolohe ʻole. 250 hoa ma kēlā me kēia makahiki Gaetan Duga, ka mea i lilo i kekahi o nā vector nui no ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka maʻi HIV i United States. Pehea kēlā wehewehe "ʻO Gay sauna" ʻo Joseph Schiambra i kapa ʻia kekahi mea nona, ua pau ka pili ʻana iā ia me ka wehe ʻokoʻa o ka ʻikekika a aneane ke kumukūʻai o kona ola:

"ʻO ka hoʻonohonoho i loko o kahi o nā ʻāpana ākea i hele a pouli i ka hele ʻana i kahi hohonu. Hoʻokomo ʻia ka décor i nā clichés kāne kāne āpau: chrome polished, cushions vinyl ʻeleʻele a me nā mural bodybuilder. ʻO nā wahi i mua ka kikoʻī loa, a ma hope he ʻaneʻane nā lumi hakahaka i pena ʻeleʻele. Ua hōʻole ʻia, akā maʻalahi ia, a ʻo nā mea āpau, ʻo ka poʻe puʻuwai a me nā ʻelemākule, hiki ke loaʻa kahi kāne. Ma ke ʻano he koho hope loa, aia nā kāne e leʻaleʻa ana i nā keʻena hope e pono ai i kahi kino kāne kāne me ke koko e kahe ana i kāna mau uaua. Haʻalele au i ka lumi ʻauʻau a hele a hele i ka ʻāpana nui i hoʻolaʻa ʻia no ka kettlebells a me nā keʻena hoʻomaʻamaʻa like ʻole. ʻO ke ʻano hina hina o nā paia i like me ka hale kūʻai mīkini a i ʻole ka hale kaʻa. Hiki iaʻu ke hana i nā outline fuzzy e like me nā ʻano kanaka. Ma mua hiki ʻole iaʻu ke hana i kahi pae moe huinahā mālie i hoʻomālamalama ʻia, e like me ka papahele, ua uhi ʻia me nā mea pouli. Ke hilinaʻi nei ma luna o ka pā, e kukuli ana kekahi mau kāne ʻōlohelohe. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻike i ko lākou mau poʻo a i ʻole ko lākou alo, ʻo kā lākou mau puʻupuʻu i hoʻokiʻekiʻe wale ʻia. Kū wau me ka neʻe ʻole no kekahi mau kekona. Eia ia. Ua hōʻea wau i ka piko o kaʻu mau makemake loa. ʻO ka hopena maoli no kēlā me kēia kāne ke kukuli, e hohola ana i nā kī, me ka lana o ka manaʻo e kū mai kekahi kāne. "Sciambra xnumx).

Nā Pahu приводит ʻO 1982 Center no nā maʻi maʻi (CDC) i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ʻo 50 e aʻo nei i nā maʻi homosexuals maka aha (i kapa ʻia ʻo AIDS). Ua hoʻololi ʻia ka helu awelika o nā hoa kolohe i nā mea maʻi he 1100, a ua hōʻike ʻia kekahi mau maʻi he 20. ʻO ka helu awelika o nā hoa no ka pūʻulu mālama homosexual me ka maʻi ʻole he 000. Hōʻike ʻo Shilts i ka debauchery e ulu nui nei i ka nohona kāne e ka nele o ka kaohi ʻana i ka mana o nā wahine a me ka nui o ka testosterone.

"ʻAʻohe mea ma ka moʻomeheu gay i hiki ke hoʻololi i nā waiwai ponoʻehā, ʻo ia ka ʻike ʻana i ka waonahe e like me ka macho heterosexual. Hoʻalahalaha ka hoʻolaha ʻana, no ka mea i loko o kahi ʻōpala nona nā kāne wale nō, ʻaʻohe mea e ʻōlelo ʻole. ʻAʻohe kanaka i hana i ka hana hoʻohālike e like me ka wahine ma kahi ʻano heterosexual. Ua hōʻoia kekahi o nā kāne heterosexual e makemake lākou i ka manaʻo e pili koke ana, kūpono, ʻoi aku ka inoa ʻole i nā kāne hana wahine i ʻike ʻia inā hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa nā wahine makemake e hana pēlā. ʻO ke ʻano, ʻoiaʻiʻo ke ʻae. ((Shilts 1987)

Ma loko o ke kiʻi wikiō ma lalo nei, ʻōlelo ka kekahi maʻi maʻi maʻi maʻi maʻi maʻi e hāʻawi ʻia ʻo ma ka liʻiliʻi o 50 ka pānaʻi i hoʻokahi pō

Eia ka hōʻike ʻo Kirk a me Madsen e hāʻawi:

"ʻO ka tikika wale nō i ke ola gay ka hoʻopiʻi kiʻi ʻana, akā ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻopakele ʻole ai iā ʻoe mai ka hōʻino ʻana ... I ka hōʻea ʻana i ke kūlanakauhale, ua ʻike ʻo ia hoʻokahi wale nō mea e kia nui ai ka nohona kāne ma: f * l ... ʻo ka launa "vanilla" maʻalahi loa - nā hugs a me ka masturbation ʻelua - ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kāna. He mea hou kēia, pāpā ʻia, haumia, a pīhoihoi hoʻi. Ma hope o ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, lilo ka moʻo vanilla me hoʻokahi hoa i maʻa mau, maʻa mau a luhi hoʻi, a lilo ka hiki ke hoʻāla. I ka mua, nānā ka homosexual jaded no ka mea hou i nā hoa, e lilo ana i mea promiscuous a promocuous. Ma ka hopena ua luhi nā kino āpau nona, a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e nānā no ka pīhoihoi i nā hana hou. Hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hoʻihoʻi i ka pīhoihoi o ka erectile ma o nā ʻano haumia a pāpā ʻia hoʻi o ka moekolohe, e like me fetishism, urolagnia, coprophilia, etc. " (ʻO Kirk lāua ʻo Madsen 1990).

Kahi kūpono ka pae o ka moekolohe i hōʻike ʻia ma luna nei i loko o ke kaanau o ka wahine like me ka ʻike noiʻi.

Ke hōʻike nei ʻo Bell a me nā hoa hana (1978) i hōʻike ʻia ʻo 70% o ka poʻe pelekane i hōʻoia i ka moe ʻana me ka ʻoi aku ma mua o 50% o kā lākou mau hoa hoʻokahi wale nō, 43% o nā kāne Pelekane e hōʻoia iā 500 a i ʻole nā ​​hoa holoʻokoʻa i ko lākou holoʻokoʻa, 28% ua ʻike ʻia lākou ma 1000 a i ʻole i ko lākou mau ola, a ma waena o kēia mau kānaka, ua ʻōlelo ʻo 79% he hapalua paha o kēlā mau hoa hana i ʻike ʻole ʻia iā lākou, a ʻo 70% o kēia mau pilina moʻo hoʻokahi pōPihi xnumx) Wahi a Pollack a me nā hoa hana, ua loli ke ʻano o ka kāne like i ka nui o nā hoahana i kēlā me kēia makahiki, a me nā haneli he mau haneli ma ko lākou mau ola (Pollak ma Aries xnumx, nā ʻaoʻao 40 - 51).

Ma ka makahiki 1984, ma hope o ka puka ʻana o ka maʻi ahulau o ka maʻi AIDS, ua koi ka neʻe ʻana o ka moekolohe i kona mau lālā e hoʻoliʻiliʻi i ka moekolohe, akā ʻaʻohe hopena ikaika o kēia: ma kahi o> 6 mau hoa no kēlā me kēia mahina i ka makahiki 1982, ua hōʻike ka awelika non-monogamous respondent ma Kapalakiko i ka makahiki 1984. kamaʻilio me kahi o 4 mau hoa i kēlā me kēia mahina (ʻO McKusick 1984²) I nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua ʻike ka CDC i ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka moe kolohe ma waena o nā ʻōpio kāne male ma Kapalakiko: mai 1994 a i 1997, ka māhele o ka poʻe homoseksual e pili ana me nā hoa pili a me ka pili o anal analated sex tiʻi aku hoʻonui mai 23,6% a 33,3%, me ka hoʻonui kiʻekiʻe loa i waena o nā ʻōpio i 25 mau makahiki (CDN 1999) ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki, ʻaʻole ke ʻae ke ʻāpekema ʻo AIDS i nā kāne like ʻole i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa (Hoover xnumx; Kelly 1992).

I loko o ka hoʻokolokolo ʻana ma mua o 2583 mau poʻe pelekane kāneʻelemakule, ua ʻike ʻia aia ma ka hapa pona ma 100 a me 500 hoa i ko lākou ola ʻana, ʻoiai 12% ua nui aku ma mua o nā hoa 1000 (Van de ven xnumx) Ma nā haʻawina like ʻia, ua ʻike ʻia no nā ʻano like ʻole o ka wahine like ʻole, ʻo ka nui o ko lākou pono ʻana aku ma mua o ke ʻano ʻo 50 mau manawa i loko o nā mahina ʻo 6 ma mua o ʻehā mau hola he ʻoi aku ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne like ʻole o ka wahine like ʻole.Van de ven xnumx).

Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi haʻawina e hōʻike ʻia ana e ka makasini homosekepeke ʻo Genre he 24% o nā mea pane i ʻōlelo ʻia he nui aku i hoʻokahi haneli mau kāne hana i ko lākou ola. Ua kākau ʻia e ka nūpepa e pili pū ana kekahi mau mea pane e komo i loko o ka noiʻi i ke ʻano o ka "ʻoi aku ma kahi o hoʻokahi tausani mau hoa hana" (Lambda Report 1998).

Ma kekahi noiʻi, ʻo ka mea e mau ana ma kahi o 6 mau mahina, ʻo ka nui o ka helu o nā moʻoʻelima wahine i kūpono no ka hepatitis A he 68,2 ± 13. ʻO ka nui o nā hoa hana ma mua o 713 mau makahiki no ka poʻe i hana i ka hana male he 11,5 mau makahiki, a he 1054 ka poʻe i hana ko lākou wahine i ke ʻano he 17,8 mau makahiki. ((Kamuanu 1980).

Loaʻa nā ʻikepili hoihoi i kahi haʻawina ʻo Bell a me nā hoa hana (1978) - nā mea kākau, ma waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe, ua nānā pono inā ua pili nā mea pane aku i ka moekolohe me nā holoholona. Ma waena o nā kāne, 19,5% o nā kāne Pelekane a me 5,4% o nā kāne heterosexual pane i loko o ka hōʻoia; i waena o nā wahine pelekane, pane mai ʻo 6,5% no laila, pane maikaʻi ʻole ka wahine heterosexual (Pihi xnumx, 1981) I ka nīnau no ka hana o ka moe kolohe, ua hana ʻo 26% o nā kāne Pelekane, 4,5% o nā kāne heterosexual, 9,6% o ka wahine pelekane a me 2,7 o nā wahine heterosexual pane i loko o kaʻoiaʻiʻo (Pihi xnumx).

I kahi noiʻi o nā kāne male kāne male, ua wehe ʻo 41% i nā kuʻikahi a me nā ʻano a i ʻole ke kaupalena ʻole ʻia, a ua wehe ʻia nā ʻōlelo ʻo 10% me ka ʻole o ka palena. Ua hōʻike ʻo 22% i kahi kuhi o nā kūlana i ʻae ʻia i nā mahina 12 i hala, a ʻo 13% o ka pākēlani i hōʻike ʻia i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ʻole ka moe kolohe i loko o nā mahina ʻekolu i hala iho nei me ka hoa o waho me ka ʻike ʻole a maopopo ʻole kūlana kūlana (Neilands 2010)

He ʻokoʻa loa ka hoʻolaha ʻana i waena o nā wahine Pelekikena ma mua o nā kāne homose kāne, akā ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o nā wahine heterosexual. ʻOiai hiki paha ke nānā i kahi mea ʻike kupanaha i loko o ka puke i waena o nā wahine pelekane, ʻo ke kiʻekiʻe o nā moe kolohe me ke kāne (!) ʻOi aku ke kiʻekiʻe o ka wahine heterosexual. Ua hōʻike ka poʻe noiʻi o Australia i ka hopena o ka wahine kāne he wahine ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne kāne 50 i kona wā ola loa ʻo 4,5 mau manawa iʻoi aku ma mua o nā wahine heterosexual (9% vs 2%); a ʻo 93% o ka wahine pelekane nā moe kolohe me nā kāne (Kumukūʻai 1996; Ferris xnumx).

Ua hōʻike ʻia ka noiʻi ʻana i ka moe kolohe ʻana i ka moekolohe, ka mea maʻa mau i ka wā ʻōpio, ua hoʻopili maikaʻi ʻia me ka moekolohe. Ua hoʻonui ka nui o nā wahine moekolohe ʻole i ka wahine, a ʻo ka hapa nui o lākou he wahine. Wahi a kahi noiʻi i hala koke aku nei, ʻo nā wahine i loaʻa ka nui o nā hoa like a me nā hoa like ʻē aʻe (Kanazawa xnumx).

I nā kaukani i hala aku nei, ʻo ke kaiāulu wahine lilo i wahine hou aʻe. ^ E Ha yM. ʻO nā hui erotic, nā hale kūʻai pāʻani o ka sex, a me nā hui porn e nānā ʻia ana a alakaʻi ʻia e ka lesbians ua pālahalaha ʻia. Hoʻolaha nā hui lesbi i nā ahiahi "I aloha Pussy" a hoʻokiʻekiʻe loa i ka "hana" ma nā ʻāpana kīwī. Aia nā hui lesial BDSM i ka nui o nā kūlanakauhale nui o US, a ke lilo nei ka polyamory i mea maʻamau.

Hoʻopili

Ua loaʻa i kahi helu i ʻike ʻia e hana kekahi mau kāne ʻoihana kāne i ka maʻi a me ka makehewa ʻana o lākou iho me ka maʻi HIV ma o ka launa ʻole i hoʻopaʻa ʻia me kahi maʻi HIV. Ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, no kēia hanana, ua hoʻohana ʻia nā huaʻōlelo "bugchaser" - "hun hunter" a me "giftgiver" - "donor". No ka manawa mua, ua kūkākūkā mua nā hihia o ka maʻi maʻi o ka maʻi HIV i waena o ka maʻi HIV, i ka waena o 80-s, i ka manawa i kū mua ʻia nā ʻepekema mua o kēia kumuhana (Frances 1985; Flavin xnumx).

Hoʻi hou i 1999, i kahi moʻolelo i loko o ka makasina SFGate ma Kapalakiko, ua ʻōlelo ʻia ua ulu nā kānaka i kapa ʻia i ka poʻe i kaulana. Ke Kūkākūkā o Rākena Lūkini a i ʻole he Bearbacking ka pāʻani pāʻani³- nā hui; ʻo ia hoʻi, i ka manawa e hui pū ai nā ʻōpio o ke ʻano ʻōpio o nā kāne like ʻole, e hahai ana i ʻekolu mau kānāwai: ʻaʻohe lole, ʻaʻohe uʻi a ʻaʻohe kūkākūkā e pili ana i ke kūlana HIV, ʻoiai inā he hapa kekahi o nā mea i hui kūleʻa maʻi (Russel 1999).

Ua liuliu loa ka wehewehe ʻana i ka "bug-chasing" ma 2003, i ka wā i paʻi ʻia ai ka mea kākau ʻōlelo ʻo Gregory Freeman i kahi ʻatikala "In Search of Death" i loko o ka nūpepa "Rolling Stone", i kāna ʻōlelo ʻana ua hele mai kekahi kahe kiʻi hou ma waena o nā kāne homoseksual: i hoʻokahi wale nō. Makemake nā kāne i nā kāne i ka maʻi HIV i manaʻo ʻia, ʻoiai ke makemake nei kekahi e kau iā lākou me ka leʻaleʻa (Freeman xnumx, ka mea i lawe ʻia ma ka pūnaewele Rolling Stone).

"... ʻO ka maʻi HIV e hoʻomaopopo ai no lākou he mea ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kahi kapu pākaha, kahi hana maikaʻi loa e pili ana i kekahi o nā kāne i ke mākaukau e hoʻāʻo a pau i nā mea āpau. ʻIke kekahi poʻe i kahi pūʻulu e noho pū ana me ka HIV mai ke kaiāulu. Makemake nā mea lawe i lilo i ʻāpana o kēia “kalapu”. ʻO kekahi e ʻōlelo ana, e wehe ka wehe ʻana i ka puka i nā nirvana moepolohe. A ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi poʻe ke kū i ka manaʻo i like ʻole lākou e like me kā lākou aloha HIV-posit ... "(Freeman xnumx).

ʻOiai ka mea a Freeman 'atikala i hana aku ai i ka ho'āhewa ʻana mai LGBT +, he neʻe o nā poʻomanaʻo nāna i hoʻopiʻi iā Freeman i ka nui o ka pilikia a i ʻole hoʻopunipuni i ka ʻikepili, hōʻike nā hōʻike kuʻepekema e hōʻike i nā hana like ma waena o nā kāne like. Ua wehewehe mua ka poʻe noiʻi Gossier a me Forsyth ma 1999 i kā lākou hana ʻepekema i ka makemake no ka hoʻopili ʻia ʻana o ka maʻi HIV i waena o nā mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka moekolohe a me ka moe kolohe i ka wahine.ʻO Gauthier xnumx) Ma 2003, ua wehewehe ʻo Kauka Richard Tewkesbury, ka mea mua ma ke kaiāulu ʻepekema, pehea pehea nā kāne like ʻole e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka "ʻili" e hoʻohana i ka Pūnaewele a me nā pūnaewele makamaka kikoʻī.Tewksbury 2003; 2006) Ma 2004, ka laha ʻana o ia mau hana i waena o nā kāne i hoʻohālike e wehewehe ʻia e Crossley (Crossley xnumx) ʻO nā noiʻi nui nui o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka Pūnaewele ma waena o nā kānaka “bagcheisers” i mālama ʻia e nā mea noiʻi o Grove a me nā hoa hana (Grov 2006a; 2006b; 2004) Ma 2007, ua ʻike ʻia nā mea ʻepekema ʻAmelika Moskowitz a me Roloff i nā kumu he nui e makemake ai kekahi mau kāne like me ka maʻi HIV.Moskowitz 2007a) ʻO kekahi kumu ʻē aʻe ke ka hoʻomaha ʻana e pale i ka pono a me ka makemake e hana manuahi ʻole me ka makaʻu ʻole o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka maʻi HIV. ʻO ke kolu o ka hui ka poʻe i hōʻole i ka maʻi Sēia e like me ka hōʻole ʻana i ka "AIDS hysteria" ma kahi ʻano kuhi pono ʻole. Ua hoʻohālikelike ʻo Moskowitz lāua ʻo Roloff i ka bagchasing me ka hilinaʻi kū ʻana i ke kaona: i ko lākou manaʻo, ʻo ka poʻe e makemake e hele i ka virus e hele a ʻano ʻole i loko o ka moe kolohe, ke hele nei i ka moe kolohe pinepine ʻole me ka poʻe maʻi HIV a me ka poʻe i ʻike ʻole ʻia ko lākou kūlana maʻi (Moskowitz 2007a) ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona noʻonoʻo o nā kāne o ka wahine e hoʻomaʻamaʻa "" bagging "a me nā kumu no kēia ʻano e wehewehe ʻia ma nā hana ʻē aʻe (Moskowitz 2007b; LeBlanc 2007; Hatfield 2004; Blechner xnumx) Eia pehea wehewehe ʻO kā Joseph Shyambra lākou:

"Ma ia manawa ua maʻi wau i ka maʻi pinepine a ua maopopo iaʻu." A laila i komo au i ka laina o ka makaʻu ʻole, ʻoi aku paha ka maʻi pāpaʻi ʻana i ka maʻi "bug-chasers" a me nā mea i hōʻike ʻia kahi maʻi. Ma kēia mau pūʻulu, ua piha loa ka hoʻonaninani ʻana i ka moe a i ʻole ka leʻaleʻa a ʻoluʻolu loa i kahi e pani a wehe i ka pā me ka condom. ʻO ka poʻe mea pīhoihoi loa ka poʻe i moemoe i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka maʻi mai ka mea hāʻawi mai i ka maʻi HIV. ʻO ka hemahema piha loa o ka ʻenekena ma o ka kāne like o ka kāne ka mea i haʻalele ai i kahi manaʻo kuhi i kahi ola ʻole i loko o nā mea a pau e pili ana. ʻO ka uku kuhi ʻia i ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kahi pūpū i hoʻopiʻi ʻia i loko o ka kōpena, e hiki ke neʻe i ka membrane o kēlā me kēia cell, hoʻololi i ka mea hoʻokipa mau loa " (Sciambra xnumx).

Kākau a me ka hemahema ʻana o nā hui

ʻO ka wahine like ʻole, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ka pilina me kekahi me kekahi, ʻaʻole iki ka liʻiliʻi mai kekahi i kekahi. No nā ʻohana kuʻuna, ʻike ʻia kahi hōʻike ninaninau i hōʻike ʻia i ka Journal of Sex Research e 77% o nā kāne male a ʻo 88% o nā wahine i mare ʻia i kā lākou mau hoʻohiki mare (Wiederman xnumx) Ma kekahi noiʻi nūpepa holoʻokoʻa, ua ʻike ʻia ʻo 75% o nā kāne a me 85% o nā wahine ʻaʻole i moe kolohe ʻia ma waho o ka male (Laumann xnumx) Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi hōʻike kelepona o 1049 no nā pānaʻi makua no Parade Magazine: 81% o nā kāne male a me 85% o nā wahine i hōʻike ʻia ʻaʻole e uhaʻi i kā lākou mau male mare (PR Newswire 1994). Wahi a kahi loiloi o ka ʻike ma 1995, 83% o nā kāne a me 95% o nā wahine i hōʻike i ka monogamy (Paik 2010) No laila, ʻo nā pilina heterosexual maʻamau, ʻo ia hoʻi me ka male - ka hui pū ʻana o ke kāne a me ka wahine - he mea nui loa ka moekolohe, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole i kūpono ke ʻano o ka moekolohe.

Aia no ka pili o nā kāne like ʻole, me nā mea i hoʻopaʻa inoa 'ia, no nā mea like ʻole o nā hui like ʻole i kūlohelohe - ma ka ʻokoʻa, ʻo kēlā me kēia hoa i ʻelua mau pilina like ʻole i ka makahiki (Rosenberg 2011) Ua ʻike ʻia kahi haʻawina ʻo McWhirter (1985) no ka lōʻihi o 1 a i 5, ʻo 4,5% wale nō ka nui o nā moʻomeheu e hōʻike ana i ka monogamy, a no ka lōʻihi ma mua o 5, ʻaʻole. Ua pane aku nā mea kākau e:

"ʻO ka manaʻolana i ka moekolohe ma waho ka rula no nā kāne kāne a me ka ʻokoʻa no nā kāne heterosexuals. Noho nā kāne Heterosexual me kekahi manaʻolana e mau ka pili o kā lākou pili "a hiki i ka wā o ka make e hoʻokaʻawale ai iā lākou", ʻoiai ke kānalua nei nā kāne like ʻole inā e ola ko lākou pilina ... i ka hoa ". (McWhirter 1985, p.3, p.256).

Ke Aliʻi (1984) ua hōʻike ʻo 66% o nā kāne male i manaʻo e moe kolohe aku i ka ʻaoʻao i ka makahiki mua o ka pilina, a inā ola lākou ma mua o ʻelima mau makahiki, ʻo ka nui o ka poʻe i manaʻo e hoʻonui i 90%.

Sarantakos (1998d) ʻike ua loaʻa wale ʻo 10% o nā kāne male a me 17% o nā kāne male i kuhi ʻia monogamous. Ma mua o kēia, hōʻike ʻo ia aia wale nō 19% o nā kāne male i hoʻokaʻawale i nā makahiki 5 hope loa, ʻo 66% kāne a me 63% o nā wahine wahine i hōʻoki ʻia me ʻekolu a keu paha mau hoaaloha (Sarantakos 1996c).

ʻO kahi haʻawina ma ka Netherlands hele akula i ka pili o nā male like o ka wahine ma waena o hoʻokahi a me ka hapa mau makahiki. I ka manawa like, nā kāne like ʻole i ole aku i ka lōʻihi ma kahi pili o 22 pili pilikino i kēlā me kēia makahiki, a ʻo ka poʻe e pili pū ana.⁴, - "mau" 8 "mau mea aloha" hoʻokahi makahiki (Lampinen 2003; Xiridou 2003) Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi haʻawina ma 2006 e nā mea noiʻi mai ke Kulanui o Kaleponi ma waena o nā kāne o nā kāne a me nā kāne heterosexual i loaʻa he hapa ma mua o ka hapa o ka mau kāne male (51%) ʻaʻole i loko o kahi pilina paʻa. I waena o nā kāne heterosexual, ʻo kēia kahele ka mea i 15% (Strohm 2006) I loko o kahi haʻawina Kanada kahi i kamaʻilio pū ʻia i hui pū me kekahi hoa no ka liʻiliʻi 1, ʻike ʻia he 25% wale nō ʻaʻohe o ka pili o waho. Wahi a ka mea kākau o ke kula:

"... ʻae ka moʻomeheu wahine i nā kāne e hoʻāʻo i nā ʻano ʻano ʻē aʻe ... nā ʻano o ka pili, ʻaʻole ka male kāne wale nō i kau ʻia heterosexual ..." (Lee 2003).

Wahi a noiʻi ʻO 2013 mau makahiki, e pili ana i ka 70% o ka maʻi o ka maʻi maʻamau i waena o nā kāne i ke ʻano he mea maʻamau, ʻoiai ʻo ka hapa nui o ka moekolohe i hele ʻole me ka hoʻohana ʻole i kahi pōmaikaʻi (Brady 2013). ʻO ka mea lapaʻau ʻo Dr. Hayton i wehewehe i ka ʻano o nā ʻōpiopio he nui i ka mare:

"... manaʻoʻiʻo ka homosexuals a hoʻonoho ʻia i laʻana e pili ana ka pili o ka wahine ma ke ʻano kūlohelohe a me ka hapanui o ka moekolohe ... I loko o ke kaiāulu kāne, ʻo ka manaʻo nui ʻo ka monogamy i ka male ʻana ʻaʻole ia ka mea maʻamau a ʻaʻole pono e paipai ʻia i nā pilina" male "maikaʻi ..." ( Hayton 1993).

Ma ka hōʻike 2005, hōʻike ʻia "40,3% o nā kāne pelekane he mau lālā o nā" hui kūwaho "a me 49,3% o ka poʻe i ʻole i kēlā mau hui like i kūkākūkā a ʻae e ʻae i waho o ka pilina pilikino. No ka hoʻohālikelike, ma waena o nā ʻohana kuahiwi kēia hoʻohālikelike me 3,5% ”((Solomon 2005).

Ua ʻike ʻia e ka mea noiʻi Pollak "he mau pilina wale nō ka wahine i hala ma mua o ʻelua mau makahiki, ua hōʻike ka nui o lākou i ko lākou ʻoi aku ka ʻoihana 100" (Pollak i Aries xnumx).

Ua hana ʻo Whitehead (2017) i kahi haʻawina hoʻohālikelike o ka lōʻihi o ka pilina ma waena o nā kāne heterosexual a ma waena o nā hui hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana o nā kāne o nā kāne a pau e pili ana i nā noiʻi o nā haʻawina nui loa i paʻi ʻia ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa a me Pelekane.Keokeo 2017) ʻO kahi lōʻihi⁵ ʻo nā hui pilikino 3,5 mau makahiki, a ʻo ka nui o ka lōʻihi o nā pilina ma nā ʻohana heterosexual ʻo 27 mau makahiki; no laila, ʻo ka lōʻihi o nā pilina ma ka hoʻopaʻa inoa inoa inoa i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma mua o ʻehiku ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma mua o ka ʻohana heterosexual (Keokeo 2017).

Hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka neʻe i ka hoʻonaninau, ua wehewehe ka mea kākau i ka pilina ma waena o ka poʻe homosex e like me kēia:

"... i ka honua gay, ʻo ka helu maoli wale nō o ka waiwai ka maikaʻi o ke kino ... E ʻike kahi ʻōpio moekolohe he hoihoi mau ʻo ia i kāna mau hoahānau kāne male kāne ma ke ʻano he mea moekolohe wale nō. ʻOiai hiki iā lākou ke kono iā ia e pāʻina awakea a hāʻawi iā ia i kahi e noho ai, ke māʻona lākou i ko lākou moekolohe iā ia, e poina paha lākou i kona ola a me kāna mau pono pilikino. " (Hoffman xnumx)

Ma 2015, ua hoʻopaʻa ka ʻaha kūʻauhau nui o ʻAmelika Huipū i ka kāne like ʻole, e koi ana i nā mokuʻāina āpau e hoʻopuka i nā palapala mare i nā kāne like ʻole, a e hoʻomaopopo i kēlā mau palapala i kau ʻia ma nā kānāwai ʻē aʻe. Eia nō naʻe, e like me ka ʻike o ka American Gallup Institute of Public Opinion, ʻaʻole he wikiwiki ka poʻe homosolo i ka hoʻohana ʻana i kā lākou mau kuleana hou i loaʻa. Inā ma mua o ka hoʻomakeke ʻana o ka male o ka male like ʻole, ua hoʻoholo ʻo 7.9% o ʻAmelika kāne i ka male (male) ma kahi e ʻae ʻia ai), a laila ma hope o ka legalization wale ʻana ua hoʻoholo ʻo 2.3% e hana i ka pilina. ʻO hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope o ka hoʻoholo ʻana o ka ʻAha Kiekie, ʻo 9.5% wale nō o nā kāne like ʻAmelika i loko o ka "male" a male, ʻo ia ka hapanui o lākou i ka makahiki 50 + ((Jones 2017) Hoʻomaopopo ʻia kekahi kiʻi like like ma Netherlands, kahi i lawena ʻia ai ka male like o ka wahine mai 2001: ʻo 12% wale nō e "male", hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 86% o kā lākou mau heterosexual.

Joseph Ciambra i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna wehewehe no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake kēia mau kāne i ka hoʻohālike i ka kuko ʻana i nā moe aloha i ka pilina me hoʻokahi hoa:

"Ma lalo o ka pono o ke koi ʻana o ke kāne male, hoʻokuʻu ʻia i nā mea hoʻowahāwahā i nā wahine a me nā keke wahine, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne o nā kāne like ʻole me nā hōʻuluʻulu ʻana. helu haʻahaʻa ka male like me ka male (9,6%), ma hope o ka hoʻoholo o Obergefell i hoʻonui ʻia e 1,7% wale nō, a me ke ʻano mālama i ka maʻi HIV ma waena o nā kāne i manaʻo ʻia he mau pilina. ʻO ka pilina ma waena o nā kāne homose wahine he nui ka monogamous, akā pili nui nā pilina pili pili. ^ E Ha yM. Eia naʻe, ʻano ʻano like ke ʻano e hoʻohālikelike ai i ka male male male heterosexuality (Sciambra xnumx). 

ʻAʻole i like heterterxuals, "male", "monogamy" a "fidelity" no nā kāne male he mea nui ʻole ka manaʻo o hoʻokahi hoa. No laila, i ka haʻawina Ka Puka Pukapuka o nā Diversity Family (1999) hōʻike ʻia kahi haʻawina i hōʻike ʻia ai nā kuhi he nui i manaʻo ʻia he "monogamous" i kēlā makahiki i hala aku nei he awelika ko lākou ʻo 3 - 5 hoa.

Ua wehewehe ʻo Pelekane Pelekikena ʻo Milo Yannopoulos i ka manaʻo o nā pilina kāne like penei:

"He hoʻokahi aʻa mau koʻu hoaaloha nui i hiki ke hoʻolako iaʻu i ke kālā. ʻO kēia kauka he kauka, panakō, a mea like paha e like me kēlā. A he mau hoaaloha kekahi kaʻu no ka moekolohe - nā mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa pilikino, nā ʻōlapa. Kono wau iā lākou, a kono mai kēlā ipo aloha nui iaʻu ... ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, loaʻa iā mākou nā manawa kūpono āu i loaʻa ʻole ai. He ʻae nui kā mākou e hoʻokuʻu iā mākou mai nā hana āpau. ʻO ia ke kumu e hoʻomākeʻaka ai ka male kāne male. E kuʻu Akua, ʻo ka mea makemake e noho pū me hoʻokahi kanaka weliweli ”(Yiannopoulos 2016).

E like me ka hōʻike ʻana o ke kuʻuna, kū'ē i ka hysteria e pili ana i ka male like ʻole me ka wahine, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kāne like ʻole e pono iā lākou. Pehea e ho'ākāka ai kēia ʻano hoʻohālike? E hoʻomaka me, ka pilina like ʻole o ka pilina like ʻole i ke kūlohelohe. Inā ma kahi pilina kūlohelohe, hoʻohui kekahi kāne a me ka wahine kekahi i kā lāua ʻano ʻē aʻe a me ke ʻano kūlohelohe, a laila ma ka pilina like ʻole-ʻaʻohe like me ka hoʻohui i ke ʻano, ʻo ia ke kumu e ʻike ai ka hoʻomanawanui o ka wahine ʻole, hōʻike ʻia i ka huli ʻole ʻana. E like me ka haʻi ʻana o ka psychiatrist Edmund Bergler:

"ʻO ka pilina heterosexual maikaʻi loa he palapū i ka hoʻohalike maikaʻi loa" (Bergler 1956, ka p. 17).

No laila ʻo ka manawa i mare ai i kahi hoa o ia ʻano like ʻole like, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻololi i ka manaʻo o ka pilina ʻole.

ʻO kahi wehewehe e pili ana i ka nele o ka monogamy i waena o nā kāne i hāʻawi ʻia e ka moʻomeheu mua ʻo William Aaron. He mea nui ia e hoʻohana ana i ka huaʻōlelo "homophile", kaulana i 60 akā ua poina i kēia manawa (e like me ka bestiality, pedophile, etc.):

"I ke ola kāne, aneane hiki ʻole ke kūpaʻa. ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻāpana o ke koi a ka homosexual e like me ka makemake o ka homophile e "komo" i ke kāne o kāna mau hoa moekolohe, pono ʻo ia e kiaʻi mau no nā [hoa hou]. No laila, ʻo nā "male" homophile lanakila loa ʻo ia ka mea i ʻaelike ai ma waena o nā hoa e pili i ka ʻaoʻao, ka mālama ʻana i ke ʻano o ke kūlike ʻole i ko lākou nohona ola. Ma ke ʻano he hui, homosexuals aʻu i ʻike ai ua ʻoi aku ka makemake nui i ka moekolohe ma mua o nā heterosexuals ... ”(William Aaron 1972, p.208)

ʻO Bergler, e wehewehe ana i ka kiʻina noʻonoʻo o ka wahine like ʻole, ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea i makemake ʻia no ka wahine ʻole inoa ʻole a me ka hauʻoli ʻole mau e alakaʻi nei i ka huli ʻana:

"Nānā mau ka homosexual maʻamau. ʻO kāna "holoholo" (kahi manawa homosexual no ka loaʻa ʻana o ʻelua mau minuke a i ʻole ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoa manawa pōkole) ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kahi neurotic heterosexual i loea i nā kū hoʻokahi pō. Wahi a nā homosexuals, hōʻoia kēia i ko lākou makemake i nā ʻano like ʻole a loaʻa i ka makemake moekolohe ʻole. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hōʻoia wale kēia he homosexualite ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole o ka papaʻai moekolohe. Hōʻoiaʻiʻo nō hoʻi ia i ka makemake mau o ka masochistic no ka weliweli: i kēlā me kēia manawa i kā lākou huakaʻi, pilikia ka homosexual o ka pepehi ʻia ʻana, ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hana ʻino a i ʻole nā ​​maʻi i lawe ʻia e ka moekolohe. Nui nā pilina pili kāne kāne i hana ʻia i loko o nā lua, i nā pā pōuliuli a me nā ʻauʻau Tureke, kahi i ʻike ʻole ʻia ka mea moekolohe. ʻO ia mau ʻano pilikino ʻole o ke kiʻi ʻana i "kāhea" e nānā i ke kipa ʻana i ka wahine brothel heterosexual e like me kahi ʻike naʻau. (Bergler 1956, p. 16)

Eia ke ʻano o ka mea hoʻālikelike ʻo Kirk lāua ʻo Madsen i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna nei i ke ʻano o ka pilina o ka wahine like.

“ʻAʻole maikaʻi loa nā kamaʻilio wahine i ka loaʻa a mālama i nā hoahana. ʻAʻole mau ka lōʻihi o ka pilina i waena o lākou, ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻimi loa e ʻimi e loaʻa i kahi lua uhane. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ke nānā nei nā mea a pau, ʻaʻohe mea. Pehea e wehewehe ai i kēia parakix? ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo kēia nā mea i loaʻa i nā ʻano kāne o ka male kāne a me ka psychology, kahi e hoʻowalewale ai i ke kāne a me ke aloha me kahi kāne i kū ʻole i ke ʻano ma mua o ka pilina o ke kāne me ka wahine. ʻO ka awelika, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka kahe a ka wahine ma mua o kahi kāne, a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻāla ʻia e ka ʻike maka. Hoʻopili loa kahi wahine i kāna mau manaʻo ma mua o ka mea āna i ʻike ai. ʻO nā kāne, ma kahi ʻē, ʻaʻole wale nō i hoʻopuʻi wale ʻia i ka moe (maʻa mau ʻia), akā no ka wikiwiki a hoihoi nui hoʻi me ka ʻike wale ʻana o kahi hoa hana "kūpono".

ʻO ka lua, hilinaʻi nui ka maleʻe wahine i ka "huna", ʻo ia hoʻi, ka pae o ka ʻike ʻole ʻia ma waena o nā hoahana. He mana a maopopo ka ola kino a me ke ʻano, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne ma mua o nā wāhine, no laila ʻaʻole maopopo ma laila. ʻO kēia, ma ke ʻano kānāwai, alakaʻi i ka poʻe homoseks e wikiwiki koke i ka hana ʻana mai kā lākou mau hoa. ʻO ka mahalo, ʻoi aku kēia mea ʻoi aku no ka lesbians, nona ka makemake nui i hala, akā, no ka mea, heʻano haʻahaʻa paha ko lākou makemake, e ʻoluʻolu lākou me ka pilina o ka naʻau.

ʻO ke ʻano wale nō e koho ai ka hapa nui o nā kāne like ʻole i kā lākou mau pilina, he mea hoʻonaninani. ʻO ka pilina mau me ka poʻe malihini a me nā poʻe he mea pili ʻole iā lākou a lilo i mea ikaika loa i ka superficiality maʻamau a me ka makemake ʻole e hoʻoponopono ma nā mea ʻoi aku ka nui. ʻO ka huaʻī o kēlā ʻano pelekane i hōʻike ʻia e like me: "Karl, ʻoiai he asshole, akā he makuahine nui nō paha, malia paha wau e hoʻi pū me ia."

ʻO ka palaka nui, ka makaʻu i nā kuleana a me kahi manaʻo ikaika o ka hina haʻahaʻa e alakaʻi i nā mea like ole i ka wahine i ka hoʻohiwahiwī nui. Ke hilinaʻi nei i ka naʻau o ko lākou mau pono ʻole, ke kāohi nei lākou i kēia manaʻo weliweli me ka hōʻoia mau ʻana ua makemake ʻia lākou e ka moekolohe, a me ka hōʻeuʻeu ʻana i ka moekolohe me nā hoa hana ʻole. A ʻoiai aneane paha ua ʻōlelo ʻia nā kāne like ʻole a makemake e loaʻa ke aloha maoli, ʻoi loa ka nui o kāna mau koi a lilo ʻole i mea kū hoʻokahi ʻaʻole hiki ke hālāwai me ia kanaka. No ka mea, ʻaʻole pono ia e inu, uahi, makemake i ka hana kilokilo, ke kahakai, ka guacamole, e nānā a ʻano e like me ke kanaka pololei, eʻaʻahu pono; he ʻano hoʻohaʻahaʻa, he "kūpono" kamaʻāina; ʻaʻole paha e loaʻa ka lauoho nui i ke kino; pono o ke ola, laulea maikaʻi, ʻālia. . ^ E Ha yM. . ^ E Ha yM. pono, loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi.

No ke aha i kau ai nā kāne i ka wahine i kahi kūlana like? ʻO ka mea mua, no ka mea ke makemake lākou e noho i loko o nā moeʻuhane ma mua o ka hana ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka lua, hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi kumu kūpono maikaʻi no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e loaʻa kekahi, a ʻo ka wahine aloha a me ka wahine aloha ʻole ʻo ia ke ʻimi no kēlā.

ʻO "ka hana ʻole" ʻole i nā pilina pilikino i ke kī pinepine ʻole i hiki ʻole ke loaʻa iā lākou. ʻO ka poʻe e ʻeha nei i kēia pilikia e hele aku i ka hoʻohālikelike e wehewehe pono i kā lākou hemahema, a hiki i ke kākau ʻana i nā puke e hōʻoia ana i ko lākou "ʻano" me ke ʻano he "huaʻōlelo politika olakino" a me ka "hana ʻo nā mea hoʻoweliweli.

Inā ʻaʻole, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kāne ʻoi aku ka hakakā i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole i pau ka hakakā ʻana o ke aloha ma laila - hoʻomaka wale ia. Ma ka awelika ʻo Joni Gay e ʻōlelo iā ia e ʻimi nei ʻo ia i kahi ʻoihana “hassle-free” i ka mea pili ʻole ka mea aloha “ʻaʻole i pili ke kuhi, ʻaʻole hana i nā noi, a me nā wahi e hana ai iā ia.” I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe nui o nā wahi, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻo Joni i ʻimi i ke aloha, akā no ka huakaʻi hakakā - he hoa kau no ka hakaka, he ʻano hana pono ʻole hale. I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka manaʻo i kahi pilina (ma ka ʻatikala, ʻo ia ke kumu kūpono loa no lākou), pau lākou i ka hōʻoluʻolu, hele a "pilikia" a hoʻokaʻawale. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ke nānā nei nā kāne like ʻole i ka "pili" like ʻole. Makemake kekahi i ke aloha pilikino maoli, a loaʻa paha. He aha lā? ʻAʻole koke a ma hope paha, e hoʻāla i nā poʻo ʻōpiopio hoʻokahi hewa.

ʻAʻole i loaʻa kahi kuʻuna o ke kūpaʻa ma ke kaiaulu gay. He mea ʻole ka hauʻoli o ka homosexual me kāna ipo, pau paha ia i ka ʻimi no x **. ʻO ke ana o ka moekolohe ma waena o nā "homosexuals" male, i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, kokoke 100%. ʻO nā kāne, e like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā wahine, ka mea i hoʻokūpaʻa i ka mana, a me kekahi helehelena nani i ke alapiʻi a i ʻole supermarket hiki ke huli maʻalahi i ko lākou poʻo. ʻO nā kāne ʻelua he pilikia pālua, ka mea e helu ākea i ka likelika o kahi hihia make. Nui nā kāne male kāne, ke kūlou nei i ka mea hiki ʻole ke ʻae ʻia, ʻae i ka "wehe i nā pilina." I kekahi manawa hana ia: ma hope o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i ka mahu, hoʻi ka ipo hoʻomaha hoʻomaha i ka hoa i ʻoi aku ka nui iā ia ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Akā ʻaʻole holo pono kēia. I kekahi manawa kūpono kūpono ka hamama loa no kekahi hoa ma mua o kekahi, ka mea i hōʻoia hope ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kū a haʻalele. ʻO kekahi manawa he ʻae wale nō ia e pili ʻole nā ​​pilina ma ke aloha, akā i ka moekolohe a me ka maʻalahi o kēlā me kēia lā. Hiki i ka mea hope loa ke lilo i mea hoʻowahāwahā loa: nā ipo, a i ʻole nā ​​hoa noho, huli i mau mea kōkua, kōkua kekahi i kekahi e loaʻa nā hoa no ka moekolohe no ʻekolu "... (ʻO Kirk lāua ʻo Madsen 1990).

Wahi a ke kiʻi klinika a Kauka Nicolosi, ʻo nā mea ʻelua o nā pilina male i ka hana like ʻole e pale aku i ka pale ʻana mai kā lākou moe ʻana mai ka wā kamaliʻi a me ka pono e uku no ia. No laila, pili pinepine kā lāua pilina i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo kūlohelohe o kekahi kāne ʻē aʻe he ʻano prototype o masculine nunuu. ^ E Ha yM. I ka huli ʻana i nā pilina me nā kāne a me kā lākou hoʻokaha wahine, ke hoʻāʻo nei ka mea i ka pili hou i ka hapa i nalowale o kāna ʻano. I ka ʻimi ʻana o kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe e hana no kona nele i ka maikaʻi o nā hiʻohiʻona, ʻo ia kekahi kanaka e hoʻomohala i nā mea hilinaʻi kūʻokoʻa i luna o kahi hoa a i ʻole a huhū nui paha ka ʻike i loko ona i ka hapa like ʻole o ka masculinity me kāna iho.

E kuhi hewa, hele ʻo ia i ʻimi i kekahi hoa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻOiai ʻo kona hiki ʻana mai ke kaohi ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke aloha ʻoluʻolu: ʻo kona ʻano punahele i kona ʻano kāne a me ka puʻuwai pale i pale ʻia ai ke hilinaʻi a me ka ulu ʻole. ʻIke ʻo ia i nā kāne wale nō i nā mea a lākou e hiki ai ke hana i kā lākou hana. Ma kēia mau hana a lākou e lawe ai, ʻaʻole hāʻawi.

Hiki i ke kanaka kaumaha ke hōʻoluʻolu no kahi manawa maikaʻi loa me ke kōkua o ke ʻano hana ʻole - ma muli o kona hōʻola, ikaika a me ka pilikia, me ka neʻe ʻana o ka moekolohe a me ka emi koke o ke kūpaʻa ʻana. Aka, eia wale nō kēia, a hiki hou iā ia ke kaumaha, a huli hou i ka wahine maʻa ʻano ʻole he ʻano pōkole ʻo ia i kona hōʻeha ʻuhane kino. Hoʻomaopopo pinepine ka mea kūʻai aku i kahi kāne i nā kāne ma ke ʻano he hanana ma ka inoa ma hope o kahi hanana i ʻike ʻole ʻia a nānā ʻole ʻia hoʻi e kekahi kanaka.

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Wahi a ʻĀina alekini ʻo LGBT, "Hiki i nā ʻōpiopio liʻiliʻi ke loaʻa i nā maʻi kino a me ke kino, e like me ka hana kūlohelohe a me ka hōʻino kino ..." (Makadon 2008) ʻOi aku ka poʻe Lesbi ma mua o nā kāne kāne i mau pākō a no nā mea hoʻomaka (Waldner-Haugrud 1997²).

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi haʻawina APA aia ka 47,5% o ka poʻe lesbi i loaʻa i ka hōʻino kino kino mai ka hoa hana. Ma waena o nā kāne pelekane, ua hōʻike ʻia ka hoʻomakeʻa hoa pānaʻi e 38.8% (Balsam xnumx) Ua hōʻike ʻo CDC i nā ʻikepili like - 40,4% o nā lesbians i hōʻino kino ʻia e kekahi hoa hana; ma 29,4%, ikaika loa ka hana hoʻomake: pepehi, hoʻomau, a i ʻole ke pepehi ʻana i kahi mea paʻakikī (Walters xnumx).

I kahi hōʻike o nā kāne male i hoʻohālikelike ʻia, ʻo 73% o lākou i mau hōʻeha i ka moekolohe i ka hoa kāne (Merrill 2000) ʻO nā mea maikaʻi a me nā hoa hana i ʻike aia ʻo 49% o nā kāne ʻeleʻele i nā pilina like ʻole i lawena kino ʻia a ua 37% ka lawehala.Welles xnumx).

Ua hōʻike ka "LGBT Family Research Journal" ua ʻike ʻia ʻo 70,2% o nā lesbians i ka hōʻino kino ma nā makahiki i hala.Matte & Lafontaine 2011) ʻO kekahi noiʻi ʻē aʻe ua hōʻike ʻo 69% o nā wahine i pili i ka pilina like-wahine e hōʻike ana i ka hōʻeuʻeu waha, aʻo 77,5% hōʻike e pale ana i ka ʻano ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka hoa. No nā kāne pelekane, ʻo kēia mau helu he 55,6% a me 69,6%, pakahi (ʻIngerlelo 2011). ^ E Ha yM. Wahi a ka loiloi CDC, ma ka awelika, 63,5% o ka poʻe lesbi i hele mai i ka ʻehaʻeha noʻonoʻo mai ka hoʻaina, ʻo ka mea pinepine i hōʻike ʻia i ka kaʻawale mai ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha, nā haʻahaʻa, hōʻino a me nā hōʻoia o ka mea ʻole e pono ai kekahi.Walters xnumx).

ʻO ka mea wahaheʻe a me nā hoa hana e hoʻomaopopo ka lohi ʻana i nā pilina moe wahine. I kā lākou hoʻohālike, ua hōʻike ʻo 23,1% o ka lesbians i ka moekolohe i ko lākou hoa i kēia manawa, a me 9,4% mai kā lākou hoa mua. Eia kekahi, hōʻike ʻo 55.1% i ka waha a me ka hōʻeuʻeu o ka maʻi.Lie et al. Xnumx) ʻO kekahi noiʻi ʻē aʻe i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 17,8% o nā wahine heterosexual, 30,6% o nā wahine hoʻokamakani he moekolohe me ko lākou makemake (Duncan 1990), aka e like me Waldner-Haugrud (1997¹) 50% o ka lesbi i ʻike ʻia e ka hoa kāne, ʻo ia wale nō ka 5% ma mua o nā kāne kāne.

ʻO kahi moʻolelo 1994 o ka makahiki i ka Journal of Interpersonal Violence i ʻōlelo i nā pilikia o ka hakakā a me ka hōʻino ma ka ʻoihana wahine.Lakalaka 1994) Ua ʻike nā mea noiʻi ua hōʻike ʻia ka 31% o nā mea pane i loaʻa i kahi liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa o ka hōʻino kino e kekahi hoa. Wahi a Nichols (2000), 54% o nā wahine pelekane i hōʻike ʻia i ʻike ʻia ʻo 10 a i ʻole mau manawa hoʻokaumaha e nā hoahele, 74% hōʻike ʻia 6 - ʻNlelo 10 (ʻOnikza xnumx).

Ua hōʻike ʻia ka National Violence against Women Survey survey "ʻo ka wahine like me ka wahine ma ke ʻano he kīwī nui aʻe ka kiʻekiʻe o ka hana ʻino ma mua o nā kāne like ʻole. Ua hōʻike ʻia ka 39% o nā cohabitants i ka hōʻino kino a me ka noʻonoʻo ma kahi hoa hoʻohālikelike i ka 21,7% o nā mea pane mai nā cohabitations heterosexual. I waena o nā kāne, ʻo kēia mau helu he 23,1% a me 7,4%, kēlā me kēia ”((CDN 2000).

Ma kā lākou hana, ʻo ke kāne nāna e aloha i nā kāne e aloha iā lākou, ʻo Islanda a me Letellier i manaʻo ʻo ka "ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hooweliweli home i loko o nā māno kāne male he mea pili i kēlā me kēia poʻe heterosexual" (Mokupuni xnumx).

Wahi a kahi noiʻi i paʻi ʻia e ke Aupuni o Canada ma 2006:

"... ua hana ʻelua ka hana kolohe a ka wahine ma waena o nā kāne male a me ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā kāne heterosexual: 15% a me 7%,"ʻĀpana Kanada - Katala no. 85-570, p.39).

Hoike hōkeo

Hiki ke loaʻa nā ʻike a me nā kikoʻī hou aku i nā kumuwaiwai aʻe:

1. Dailey tj Ke hoʻohālikelike nei i nā ola o nā kāne male i hoʻopili ʻia i nā kāne mare. ^ E Ha yM. ʻOihana kūkā ʻohana. 2004.
2. Cameron P. ʻO ka hoʻokūkū home i waena o nā hoa hana pelekane. Kaumana Rep. 2003 Oct; 93 (2): 410-6. DOI: 10.2466 / pr0.2003.93.2.410
3. Reisman J. ʻO ka Reisman & Johnson Hōʻike. Noi ʻia i ka "Marriage Homosexual" And "Hate Crimes". Hoike Holomua Mua. He kiko hana 2008. First Principles Press. aoao 8 – 11.

Nā memo

1 English: "Pipi"
ʻO 2 Ma 1982, hōʻike nā mea pane ua loaʻa iā lākou kahi awelika o 4,7 hoa hou i ka mahina i hala; ʻO 1984 - ka hui hou ʻana o 2,5 no ka manawa like.
3 eng .: "Barebacking" - holo kauā. ʻO kēia e pili ana i ka hīnaʻi wahine (anal "anal sex) ʻaʻohe condom.
Noho ʻo 4 me kahi "hoa kau inoa maʻamau"
5 manawa mai ke kau inoa ʻana a hiki i ka hoʻopau ʻana o ka pilina hoa male male ʻole a "male male"