Mu1987, pakati perestroika muSoviet Union, imwe perestroika yakatanga muAmerica. Varume vaviri vanoita zve ngochani kubva kuHarvard University, mumwe wenyanzvi mune zvehukama uye mumwe wacho neuropsychiatrist, akaburitsa chinyorwa chakanzi "Kugadziridzwa kwechechisimba America", Iyo yakatsanangura pfungwa huru dzechirongwa chekushandura hunhu hwevanhu vemuAmerica akaenzana nemafungiro ake nezveungochani. Ichi chirongwa chakatorwa uye bvumidzwa munaFebruary 1988 ku "musangano wemauto" kuWarrenton, uko 175 inotungamira ngochani vanyori vanobva munyika dzese vakasangana. Ikozvino, takatarisa kumashure, tinogona kutaura kuti chirongwa chavo hachina kungobudirira kubudirira, asi chakatowanda: mugore re2011, hutongi hwaObama hwakazivisa "kurwira kodzero dzevechidiki zvepabonde" pamberi pehurongwa hwekunze hweMelika, kushandura America kuita nyika yepasirese ye LGBT mafungiro, uye mu2015 Dare Repamusoro-soro reU.S. rakaraira nyika dzese kuti dzinyorese uye dzichengete kuroorwa kwevanhukadzi. Urongwa hwekuratidzira kuchingochana mubhuku mune 400 mapeji "Mushure meBhora: MaAmerican Achakunda Sei Kutya Kwayo uye kuvenga Kwevechisikana muma90's". LGBT activist Igor Kochetkov (munhu anoita semumiriri wekunze) muhurukuro yake "Masimba ezvematongerwo enyika esangano reLBBT: vafambisi vezita vakawana sei chinangwa chavo" akataura kuti basa iri rave “mavara” evatsigiri veLBB kutenderera pasirese, kusanganisira kuRussia, uye vazhinji vachiri kutambira kubva kune izvi zviga. Izvi zvinotevera zvikamu zvebhuku nechinyorwa chakapfuura.

«After The Ball - gay manifesto yemakumi mapfumbamwe "

Hupenyu hweungochani muAmerica hwakaoma uye havavimbise kuvandudza kwakakosha kunze kwekunge chimwe chinhu chaitwa nekuchimbidza kushandura hunhu hweanopokana. Zvinoenderana nevazhinji vekuratidzira, kune nzira mbiri dzekusununguka ngochani: kujekeswa (i.e. kuparadzira) nezvematongerwo enyika. Kuparadzirwa kwekuparadzira kwakanyanya kudhura uye kwakaoma, saka vatevedzeri vakatarisa nezvematongerwo enyika, vachichengetedza kodzero dzengochani nekurangana nevanosununguka muhurongwa hwepamutemo nemutemo. Vanorwisa ngochani pakutanga vakayedza kudzora hutongi hweAmerica pamusoro peBumbiro reMalungelo, asi matare mazhinji akazvitora. Naizvozvo, varatidziri vazhinji vakatendeukira kune matikitivhiti ekuenderera mberi kwekuzevezera munzeve dzevasununguka uye vane mwero vashandi vehurumende pamatanho ese ehurumende. Chinangwa chaive chekupedzisa chibvumirano kana kurangana neavo vane masimba kuti vagare vakatungamira pamberi pezveruzhinji kana kuzvisiya zvachose.

Dzimwe nguva zano iri rinoshanda: vazhinji vevakuru mirairo uye zvakatemwa (izvo zvakadzora maitiro ezvematongerwo enyika) zvakagamuchirwa nemakanzuru emaguta iye zvino anochengetedza dzimwe kodzero dzeva ngochani mumaguta. Mazhinji ekukunda uku kuverenga kwevamiriri vakasarudzwa, kuve kwavo kwakatsigirwa nenharaunda yakarongeka, uye nekudaro vanoratidzira mitezo yavo yesarudzo uye vanopokana mumashure ezvematongerwo enyika.

Nekudaro, chirongwa chekuvaka vanyarikani vekurangana kazhinji hachina basa munguva pfupi uye chisina kujairika mukureba. Pakupedzisira, kunyangwe kana rangano yaumbwa uye chero mutemo wekubvumirana wapedzwa, iyo inonyorwa mumahombekombe ejecha. Nguva nenguva, vezvinamato vezvitendero vakasuka zvatakawana neutsinye hwakaipa hwekutsamwa neruzhinji. Kana madhimoni ehurume akasatsigirwa neshanduko yakakosha mumaonero evoruzhinji, vachapisirwa seimba yemakadhi pakutanga kwemhepo kubva kupikisheni yakananga. Kubudirira kwedu kwezvematongerwo enyika kunogona kusimudzirwa zvikuru nemushandirapamwe wenhau.

Tinoda kupa zano rakafungwa zvakanaka uye rakasimba, senge iri kupomerwa mhosva nevavengi vavo nevarume ngochani, kana, kana muchida, chirongwa chinogombedzera sevavengi vedu.

Inguva yekudzidza kubva kuMadison Avenue [pakati penzvimbo yekushambadzira muAmerica - approx. pa.] mashandisiro aunoita zvinhu zvinorema. Ngochani vanofanira kutanga nhandare yakakura-yakatwasuka munhau. Tiri kutaura pamusoro pekuparadzira. Chinangwa uye mhedzisiro yekuparadzira ungochani kusimudzira mamiriro ekunze ekubvumira kutsungirira kune ngochani, izvo, mumaonero edu, chinhu chakanaka.

Basa rekutanga mubhizinesi iri desensitization. [zvishoma nezvishoma kutungamira kwekunzwa] iyo voruzhinji veAmerica maererano nehurume uye kodzero yavo. Kupa moyo neruzhinji kuvabatsira kuti vatarise ungochani nekusakendenga kwete nemanzwiro. Nechepfungwa, strights inofanira kubata misiyano mune zvido zvepabonde sekusiyana mukuravira kwechando kana mutambo: iye anoda sitiroberi, uye ini ndinoda vanilla; anoda baseball, uye ini ndinoda nhabvu - hapana chakakosha.

Zvirinani padanho rekutanga, tinoyedza chete kudzima veruzhinji uye hapana zvimwe. Hatidi "kugamuchirwa" kwakakwana kana "kunzwisisa" kwehungochani neavhareji yeAmerica, uye hatigone kuvimba nazvo. Unogona kukanganwa nezve kuyedza kunyengerera ruzhinji kuti ungochani chinhu chakanaka, asi kana ukavaita kuti vafunge kuti ungochani chimwe chinhu chisingakodzeri kunze kwekunge shoroma, saka hondo yako ndeye kodzero dzepamutemo nedzemagariro dzakahwinwa. Uye kuti uwane izvo shrug, ngochani, sekirasi yakasarudzika, dzinofanirwa kumira kuratidzika zvisinganzwisisike, mutorwa, zvinosemesa uye zvinopesana. Zvichatora hurongwa hwemashoko makuru kuti uchinje mufananidzo wengochani muAmerica. Chero mushandirapamwe wakanangana nekupidigura hurumende kwakadaro unofanira kutora matanho matanhatu anotevera:

[1] Taura nezve ngochani uye ngochani sekuwedzera uye kazhinji

Iyi nheyo iri pasi peiyi zano iri yakapusa: ingangoita chero maitiro anotanga kuita seakashata kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchisangana nawo munharaunda yako yepedyo. Kugamuchirwa kwemaitiro matsva zvakananga zvinoenderana nehuwandu hwevanhu vanozvibata kana vanozvigamuchira. Pakutanga, kunyepa kunogona kugumbura manzwiro omumwe munhu. Saka pamazuva ekare, vazhinji vakakatyamadzwa nekupenda kwebvudzi, vachidya hove yegoridhe uye zvepabonde vasati varoora. Nekudaro, kana avhareji Joni isinganzwi kumanikidzwa kuita zvimwechete, uye maitiro aya asinga tyisidzi kune kuchengetedzeka kwake kwemuviri uye emari, anobva akurumidza kujaira uye hupenyu huenderera mberi. Anochengetedza kutenda anogona kuramba achidzungudza musoro achifunga kuti: "Vanhu vari kupenga nhasi," asi nekufamba kwenguva zvinopesana zvake zvichawedzera kuve zvakajeka, huchenjeri, uye kushomeka kwemweya.

Kuzvinyisa kusanzwisisika kwekutanga kweungochani, zvakafanira kuti vanhu vazhinji sezvinobvira vataure zvakawanda pamusoro penyaya iyi. zvisina mutsindo kana kubvumira inzwi. Izvo zvinodikanwa kushandisa mazwi "ngochani" kana "lesbian", sezvavanonzwika vasina kunaka pane "ungochani". Kukurukurirana kwakazaruka uye pachena kunoita kuti musoro wakasvinura usashande zvakavanzika, mutorwa, anotadza, uye akazaruka. Kukurukurirana nguva dzose kunopa fungidziro yekuti maonero eruzhinji nezvenyaya iyi akapatsanurwa, uye kuti chikamu chakakosha - vagari vepamberi uye vagari vemazuva ano - vanogamuchira kana kunyange kuita ungochani. Kunyangwe kukakavara kunotyisa pakati pevanopikisa nevadziviriri kunoshanda chinangwa chekusuwa, chero bedzi gayenzi rinoremekedzeka riri pakati nepamberi, uye rakamisa toni yavo. Chinhu chikuru ndeche kutaura nezveungochani kusvika zvatanga kuneta.

Kupa "kutaura nezveungochani" isu tinoreva izvo chaizvo. Mumatanho ekutanga emushandirapamwe, veruzhinji havafanirwe kushamiswa uye kusundidzirwa kure nekuratidzwa kusati kwaitika kwehunhu hweungochani pachako. Panzvimbo iyoyo, mifananidzo yebonde inofanirwa kuderedzwa, uye kodzero dzengochani dzakaderedzwa zvakanyanya sezvinobvira kune nyaya yemagariro. Ngamera ngaitange kunamira mhino yayo mutende, uye ipapo chete ichasvikirwa nembongoro.       

Pasina kukosha izvo ndipo patichazotaura nezvazvo. Midhiya inooneka, firimu uye terevhizheni ndivo vanogadzira mifananidzo ine simba kwazvo yekubudirira kweWestern. Mhuri yeAmerican pakati vanoona terevhizheni kweanopfuura maawa manomwe pazuva. Iyi wachi inovhura musuwo kune yako pachako nzvimbo yeanetesa maunogona kutungamira iyo Trojan bhiza. Desensitization ichaitwa kuburikidza neshoko pamusoro pezvakajairwa chinhu ichi. Parizvino, gay Hollywood yakatipa yakanyanya chakavanzika chombo muhondo yekuda kufadza ruzhinji. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mumakore gumi apfuura, mavara eungochani uye zvinyorwa zvehurochani zvakaverengerwa muzvirongwa zveterevhizheni nemafirimu. Uye kunyangwe kazhinji izvi zvaiitwa kuitira kuti uwane mugumo uye unosetsa, mhedzisiro inowanzo kurudzira.

Iyo firimu-yepamberi-yefirimu nezvevechingochani kuyera "Mutemo unobvumirana", inoratidzwa munguva yepamberi pane yakakura nzira mu1985, ndeimwe yemimwe mienzaniso yakawanda yekujekesa nyaya dzeungochani nenzira yakanaka. Asi izvi zvinongova kutanga kweGay America yakakura kwazvo.

Ko nhandare yekukurukurirana yakavhurika neyakareba pamisoro yengochani inogona kusimbisa munhu wese anopikisa ungochani? Zvirokwazvo kwete. Kunyangwe maonero everuzhinji ari mamwe makuru ezvikamu zvakagamuchirwa zvinowanzodiwa, pane rimwezve chiremera - chinamato. Kana makereke ekuchengetera mhosva achishora ngochani, isu tinogona kungoita zvinhu zviviri zvekuodza mwoyo manzwiro evatendi vechokwadi. Kutanga, tinogona kumutsa iwo mvura yetsika. Izvi zvinoreva kutsigira gay zvinyoro machechi, kusimudza pachedu zvichemo zvedu zvinopesana kududziro dzinochengetedzwa padzidziso dzebhaibheri, uye kuburitsa ruvengo nekusapindirana.

NeChipiri, tinogona kudzikisira simba retsika dzemakereke ehumwe mumeso evateveri vavo vasingashande, tichivaratidza ivo vasisakwanisi uye nzvimbo dzakasimukira dzisingapindirani nenguva uye nemhedziso dzekupedzisira dzepfungwa. Kupesana nekuchiva kwekuvhunduka kwechinamato chenguva dzekare, zvakafanira kumisikidza kuchiva kwakasimba kwesainzi nesainzi yeruzhinji (nhovo nebakatwa re "humanism yenyika".

Kubatana kusina utsvene uku kwakashanda zvakanaka vachipesana nemakereke zvisati zvaitika, pane zvinyorwa zvakaita sekurambana uye kubvisa nhumbu. Nekugara tichitsigira kutaura kwechokwadi nezvekuwanda uye kugamuchirwa kweungochani, mubatanidzwa uyu unogona kushanda pano futi.

[2] Ratidza ngochani sevakabatwa, kwete sevadzivisi vanopikisana

Mushandirapamwe ipi neipi yekunzwira tsitsi veruzhinji, ngochani dzinofanirwa kuburitswa sevabatwa vari kuda kuchengetedzwa kuitira kuti nhanho padanho re Reflex dziite kutora chinzvimbo chedziviriro. Kana, pachinzvimbo, ngochani dzinowonekwa sedzinza rakasimba uye richizvikudza rinokurudzira rakajeka risiri rechakavanzika uye rakatsauka mararamiro, ivo kazhinji vanogona kuve vanoonekwa senge kutyisidzira yeruzhinji iyo inoruramisa kuramba uye kudzvinyirira

Nechikonzero ichi, isu tinofanirwa kurega muedzo wekuratidzira pachena "kudada kwedu" ngochani "pazvinopesana nemufananidzo we" ngochani ". Isu tinofanirwa kuyera pamutsetse wakanaka, tichifadza vanhu vakatwasuka nekuwanda kwavo, kune rimwe divi, uye kwete kukurudzira hutsinye hwavo - "Ivo varipowo!" - pane imwe. Chinangwa chemufananidzo weiye akabatwa ndechekuita kuti vanhu vakananga vanzwe vasina kugadzikana, uye zvakare kuisa hwaro hweshanduko inozobatsira vanhu vakananga kuziva neane gay uye vanzwire tsitsi nezvavanodzvinyirirwa.

Mushandirapamwe wekusimudzira mufananidzo we "ngochani akabatwa" mune zvinoburitswa unofanirwa kushandisa mifananidzo inoderedza pfungwa yeruzhinji kutyisidzira, kudzikamisa kusimuka kwayo uye kuwedzera mukana wekubatwa chingochani. Kubva pane zvinoshanda maonero, izvi zvinoreva kuti padiki barbel muganda, transvestites uye masculine lesbians haazoonekwe mune zveungochani uye kushambadzira veruzhinji.. Misiyano yemifananidzo yevacheche vakanaka, vanhu vakura uye vakadzi vanoyevedza vachatungamira, tisingatauri nezvevabereki uye shamwari dzechisikana. Zvinogona zvakare kupikiswa kuti mumatanho ekutanga ehurukuro yekuburitsa nhau, vanoita zvechisimba vanofanirwa kumiririrwa zvakanyanya kupfuura ngochani, sezvo hunhu hwevanhu vakananga kune vatengesi husina hutsinye, uye kusarura kwavo kwakajeka uye kusiri kwakawanda. Vakadzi vanowanzoonekwa kuti vashoma kutyisidzira uye vanotambura pane varume, uye nekudaro vanogona kumutsa kunzwira tsitsi. Izvi hazvitauri kuti mapoka ari munzvimbo dziri kure zvikuru dzekugamuchirwa, seNAMBLA, ^{[North American Association yeRudo rweVanakomana neVakomana]} haafanire kutora mushandirapamwe wakadaro zvachose: vangangoita vana mamosters havatombotaridzika sevakabatwa.

Pane maviri makuru meseji pamusoro pe "ngochani akabatwa" akakodzera kutaurirana. Chekutanga, zvakafanira kugonesa ruzhinji rwevanhu kuti ngochani vanobatwa nemamiriro ezvinhu, uye kuti ivo vanosarudza kwavo kuita zvepabonde hakuna kupfuura ivo pavanosarudza kukwirira kwavo, ruvara rweganda, matarenda kana zvisingakwanisi. Kunyangwe chokwadi chekuti, sezviri pachena, kurara kwevanhu kune vanhu vazhinji ndicho chigadzirwa chekudyidzana kwakasimba pakati pechinhu chakazvarwa mukuzvarwa kwezvinhu uye zvinhu zvakatipoteredza muudiki nekutanga kuyaruka, isu tinosimbisa kuti nekuda kwezvese zvinangwa, zvinofanirwa kutariswa kuti ngochani dzakazvarwa nenzira iyoyo.        

Kunyange tichiziva pachena kuti ungochani hunogona kunge huri sarudzo, tinovhura bhokisi raPandora rakanyorwa kuti "sarudzo dzakanaka uye zvivi", uye tipe vanamati vakasindimara kuti varohwe. Nzvimbo dzakatwasuka dzinofanira kuve nekugutsikana kuti kuve ngochani nehunhu kune vamwe sekuita ungochani kune vamwe. Ngochani havana kusarudza chero chinhu, hapana munhu akambovanyengedza kana kuvanyengedza.

Basa ravo harisi kupikisa kwemaune - zvakasikwa kwavari, uye nekuda kweizvozvo ivo havafanirwe kupomedzerwa hukama. Uku kungori tsaona, ne1 kune 10 mukana wekuti mumwe munhu achazvarwa ari ngochani uye mumwe munhu achange akatwasuka. Wese murume nomurume anofanira kutenda kuti hunhu hwakadai hwekupedzisira hunogona kuitika kwaari.

Varume vanoita zvehuchani vanofanira kuziva neve ngochani sevakabatwa. Hatifanire kuvapa chero zvimwe zvikonzero kuti vakwanise kuti: "Ivo havana kufanana nesu." Neizvi, vanhu vanobatanidzwa mukuratidzira kwevoruzhinji vanofanira kuve vakanaka, vakatendeseka, vanoratidzika, vakafanira kuremekedzwa nezviyero zvevakarurama, uye vane tsika dzakanaka. Mune rimwe izwi, ivo vanofanirwa kuve vasinga zivikanwe kubva kuvanhu vakananga kwatinoda kusvika. Izvo chete mumamiriro akadaro akadaro iyo meseji ichaverenga zvakafanira: "Vanhu ava vakashungurudzwa nedombo rakaipa, izvo zvinogona kuitika kwandiri."

Tsamba yechipiri yacho icharatidzira ngochani sevadzvinyiriri veruzhinji. Ruzhinji rwevanhu vanoita zvechisimba havazive nezvekutambudzika kwahunoita vanoita ngochani, saka zvinoda kuratidza zvifananidzo zvakashata zvehutsinye, kutungamira kushomeka kwebasa nedzimba, kurasikirwa kwekuchengetwa kwevana, kunyadziswa paruzhinji nezvimwe zvakadaro.

[3] Ipa vanodzivirira kuti vanzwe kuti vari kuita zvinhu zvakanaka

Mushandirapamwe wekuratidzira uyo unomiririra vanobatwa munharaunda uye unokurudzira vanhu vakaringana kuve vatevedzeri vavo vanofanirwa kubatsira avo vanobvumidza kutendera uye kutsanangura kureverera kwavo. Kwete vakadzi vazhinji vanoita zvevakadzi, uye kunyange vashoma varume, vanozoda kudzivirira pachena ungochani zvakadaro. Vazhinji vava vanozosarudza kubatanidza kwavo kusimudzwa kuti vareverere kune imwe nheyo yakakura yeruramisiro, mutemo kana kuenzana munharaunda. Shambadziro yedu haifanire kutsvaga rutsigiro rwakananga hweungochani, panzvimbo pezvo, kurwisa-rusarura kunofanirwa kutorwa semusoro wenyaya. Kodzero yerusununguko rwekutaura, rusununguko rwekufunga, rusununguko rwekudyidzana, kururamisirwa uye kuchengetedzwa kwakaenzana nemutemo - izvi ndizvo zvinofanirwa kuve musimboti webasa redu.

Izvo zvakanyanya kukosha kuti iyo ngochani inotora bhizinesi rayo kusvika kumazinga anogamuchirwa emitemo nematare, nekuti vatsigiri vayo vanoita zvechisimba vanofanirwa kuwana mhinduro dzinogutsa dzekupokana kwetsika dzevavengi vavo. Homo vanovenga vanopfeka zvavo zvemukati kusemesa mune zvipfeko zvinotyisa zvechitendero chinamato, saka vatevedzeri ve kodzero dzeungochani vanofanirwa kuve vakagadzirira kusangana nedzidziso nenheyo.

[4] Kufumura Gay muChiedza Chakanaka

Kuti "gay" akabatwa anomutsire tsitsi pakati pevanhu vakananga, inofanirwa kuratidzwa sevanhuwo zvavo. Asi iro dingindira rekuwedzera kwemushandirapamwe, rakawanda simba uye rine hukasha, rinofanirwa kuripa maitiro asina kunaka evakadzi nevarume vanoita zveungochani, achivaendesa sembiru dzenzanga. Ehe, ehe, isu tinoziva - iyi hunyengeri ndehwekare zvekuti hunokambaira. Vamwe vanhu vadiki vanogara vachishandisa izvo mukuzivisa kwavo, vachidada kuti: "Maizviziva here kuti murume mukuru uyu ndewedu?" Zvakangodaro, iri meseji richadikanwa kune avo vanhu vakatwasanuka vanomiririra varume vanoita zvechisimba sevanoshamisa, vakasurukirwa uye vanozviuraya kubira vana.

Basa rinokudzwa revanhurume kana vakadzi nevarume uye vakadzi vanoshamisa. Kubva kwaSocrates kuenda kwaShakespeare, kubva kuna Alexander Mukuru kuenda kuna Alexander Hamilton, kubva kuTchaikovsky kuenda kuna Bessie Smith, kubva kuMichelangelo kuenda kuWalt Whitman, kubva kuSafo kuenda kuna Gertrude Stein - runyorwa urwu runonyatso kuzivikanwa kwatiri, asi inhau dzinotyisa kune vechinyakare America [kutaura zvazviri, kufungidzira kwevakawanda venhoroondo vanoyamwa kubva kune inozivikanwa munwe]. Nhoroondo dzinozivikanwa dzakajairika dzinonyanya kukosha kwatiri nekuda kwezvikonzero zviviri: chekutanga ivo zvisingaperi zvakafa, sepikiri, uye saka hazvigone kuramba chero chinhu kana kumhan'ara nekuda kwekusvibiswa. 

Chepiri, uye zvakanyanya, hunhu uye zvavakaita zvevakomana vanoremekedzwa vechingochani izvi hazvigone kupikiswa kana kubviswa, sezvo zvinyorwa zvemitambo zvakatozvisimbisa nesamente isingagone. Nekutarisa nzvimbo yake yebhuruu pamagamba akaremekedzwa akadaro, nhabvu inoshanda nehunyanzvi inogona kuita kuti nharaunda yehukadzi itaridzike sababa vekuMadokero munguva pfupi pfupi ingangodaro.

Panguva imwecheteyo, isu hatifanire kukanganwa nezvekubvumidzwa kubva kune vanozivikanwa, vanogona kuve vese vakananga uye ngochani (pamwe nehupenyu, shanduko), asi ivo vanofanirwa kudiwa uye kuremekedzwa neruzhinji. A ngochani ngochani anokanganisa Homophobia nekuratidzira yakanaka gay chifananidzo chinopesana stereotypes, uye munhu akatwasuka achapa kuruzhinji runoratidzika uye runotevedzera muenzaniso wekushivirira munharaunda. Chero zvazvingave, maitiro epfungwa pakati pekutenderera achave akafanana nekugona kushandurwa:

• Ini ndinoda Mr. Celeb

• Mr. Celeb ngochani kana kuremekedza ngochani.

• Saka ndinofanira kurega kuyemura Mr. Celeb kana kutanga kuremekedza ngochani. [chiitiko chinozivikanwa se "cognitive dissonance." Muenzaniso wakanaka mutambi wenhabvu Ronaldo kana muuki Dumbledore.]

[5] Kumufumisa Tambudzi Mune Chiedza Chakaipa

Nhanho inotevera mune yenyaya gay media media mushandirapamwe, mushure mekushambadzira ngochani zvava kuita chinozivikanwa, nguva yasvika yekubata nevapikisi vakasara. Kuti uvanyike, zvichave zvakakosha kuti uzvinyurire. Chinangwa chedu pano chine mbiri. Kutanga, isu tinotsvaga kutsiva kuzviruramisa kwakanaka nehukadzi hwedu pakati peveruzhinji nerunyararo uye mhosva. Kechipiri, isu tinoda kuti vanhu vanopikisa-ngochani vataridzike zvinonyangadza zvekuti vanhu vemuAmerican havazodi kuita chero chinhu navo.

Mifananidzo inofanira kuratidzwa kune yeruzhinji rwevanopamba dzimba, avo vane hunhu hwechipiri uye zvavanotenda zvinosemesa Central America. Iyi mifananidzo inogona kusanganisira:

• Ku Klux Klan, inoda kuti varume ngochani vapiswe vari vapenyu kana vasina simba;

• Vaparidzi vekumaodzanyemba vanopararira vachinyara nekuvenga kuvenga kuti zvinotaridzika zvakanaka uye zvakawedzera;

• Kushungurudza ma hooligans, varwi uye vasungwa vanotaura vakadzikama nezve "mapfumo" avakauraya kana kuda kuuraya;

• Kushanya kwemisasa yevasungwa yeNazi, uko ngochani dzakatambudzwa uye dzakabayiwa.

Nemaitiro akadaro, isu tinoda kuita kuti kuratidzira kwekudzvinyirira zvisabvumike zvekuti nyangwe vanhu vakaomesa musoro vakasindimara pakupedzisira vanoramba vakanyarara paruzhinji, sekurwisa kwemarudzi uye vanopokana nemaSemite nhasi.

Unyengeri ndewekuita kuti imba yekutandarira inzwe kupokana nenyadzi nguva dzose paanoshora ngochani. Izvi zvinogona kuitika uchishandisa kungogara kuchishandiswa mifananidzo yakajeka kana zvirevo zvemashoko hazvipindirani nemufananidzo wake wekufungidzira wemunhu anehunhu anokodzera munharaunda. Nekudaro, kushambadzira kwemanyepo kunogona kuratidza kusagara nhaka sevakashata uye vane mitsipa mabheti anoti kwete chete "fagot", asiwo "mbichana", "muJudha" uye zvimwe zvinyorwa zvinonyadzisa zvisina kukodzera kumuKristu. Unogona kuvaratidza nzira yavanotsoropodzwa, kuvengwa nekudzivirirwa. Unogona kuratidzira ngochani uchisangana nekutambura kunotyisa semhedzisiro yekushivirira kusagadzikana [iyo bhaisikopo "The Game of Tevedzera", semuenzaniso] - Vakawanda Homophobes vanonyara kuve chikonzero cheiyi kutambudzika. Muchidimbu, kurapa kwevanhukadzi kunofanirwa kubatana nemhando dzose dzehunhu idzo munhu asinganyari anogona kunyara kuva nadzo, uye pamwe nezvinotyisa uye zvakaipa zvinoguma zvaitika munharaunda. Saka, kurwiswa kunoitwa pakuzvivimba kwake uye kunakidzwa kwekushoropodzwa.

Rangarira kuti uyo anovenga iye mukadzi anotsvaga kubvumidzwa uye kunzwirwa tsitsi neruzhinji, asi kana achiona kuti mumwe munhu saiye haana kubvumidzwa kana kugamuchirwa, anotanga kusava nechokwadi uye kunyara. Ehe saizvozvo, shasha yekushomesa mweya yekudanana inotsamwisa vavengi vedu vanonyanya kuda. Asi chii chinogona kutaurwa? Inonzi mutoro - kukwira kumashure iyo iyo yeAmerica yese ichiona. Nekudaro, isu tinofanira kuedza kuzviita zvishoma nezvishoma. Nhepfenyuro haingatenderi kurwiswa kwakananga kune Ultra-Conservatives, asi vanogona kubvumira kutaurwa kwehutsinye hweNazi, pikuru yepinki sechiratidzo chekushungurudzwa, nezvimwe. Nhoroondo yeNazi yega ichave yekutanga yakanaka yekuremedza vavengi vedu. Mushure mezvose, ndiani anoda kuva nechero chekuita nemaNazi? (Argentina haina kuverenga.)

[6] Wedzera mari

Chero ipi neipi yakakura-nhanho yerudzi urwu inoda kushandiswa kusati kwamboitika kwemwedzi kana kunyange makore anouya. Kubudirira kushambadza kunodhura mafaro: zvinotora mamirioni akati wandei emadhora kuti zvinhu zvifambe. 10-15 mamirioni nevarume vanoita ungochani vanogara munyika ino. Kana mumwe nemumwe wavo akapa madhora maviri chete mushandirapamwe, saka bhajeti redu harizove rakaipisisa pane iro revavengi vezwi redu rakanyanya. Sezvo ngochani zvisingadi kutsigira mhuri uye mari yavanowanzo iwanzo iri pamusoro peavhareji, ivo vanokwanisa kupa mupiro wakakura. Mushandirapamwe uyu mutsva unofanirwa kutanga kubatana uye kupa nyika mari nevose vanonyatso kuzivikanwa uye vasina ruzivo, vese vari ngochani uye vakananga, avo vasina hanya nekutonga munharaunda.

Pakutanga, kudana kukwidza mari kunogona kunge kuchizotangwa kuburikidza neiyo ngochani michina - mamagazini, mapepanhau, mapurasitiki mumabhawa, nezvimwe. Kutsvaga mari kunokwanisawo kuuya kuburikidza nemasangano emo gay masangano pamayunivhesiti emunharaunda uye mumaguta emadhorobha. Pakupedzisira, zvipo zvichakumbirwa mukukumbira zvakananga kune vanobata nhau. Kana nharaunda yeungochani isingakwanise kugadzira mari inodiwa kuti itange mushandirapamwe, saka haufanirwe kutarisira budiriro yakakosha maererano nekodzero dzeungochani munguva pfupi iri kutevera.

Parizvino, mari yeLBBT yave kutopihwa nemakambani epasi rese nenyika. More.

Izvo zvinodiwa kupaza kuburikidza neyezvenhau, zvikasadaro hapana chinhu chichauya pazviri

Pasina mukana terevhizheni, redhiyo uye yepakati pepanhau, nhimbe haina kuzobudirira. Nekudaro, iri idambudziko rakaoma, sezvo mazwi anoti "ngochani" uye "ngochani" anokonzeresa kuita kusanzwisisika, uye midhiya mazhinji anongoramba kugamuchira izvo zvinogona kukanganisa bhizinesi uye kumutsa dutu rehasha kubva kuruzhinji nevatsigiri. Sezvo zvichemo zvakapusa zvisingaite senge zvinogoneka, taifanirwa kutaurirana zvishoma nezvishoma nemakambani eparatidziro kuseri kwezviitiko kuitira kuti nyaya dzakakosha kunharaunda yeungochani dzigamuchire zvimwe kufukidzwa. Asi kurongeka kwakadaro hakuna kukodzera, nekuti mufananidzo wenharaunda yeungochani unodzorwa nezvakaitika zviitiko, uye kwete nechirongwa chakakwana. Isu tinopwanya sei isu nepamasuwo eiyo nhepfenyuro yepakati?

Kutanga nekudhinda

Mapepanhau nemagazini achafarira madhora ekushambadza ngochani pane terevhizheni neredhiyo, kunyanya sezvo mutengo wekushambadzira unowanzove wakadzika. Asi zvinofanirwa kuyeukwa kuti vezvenhau, kazhinji, vanoverengewa chete nevanhu vakadzidza vekuAmerica, vazhinji vacho vatove nechekuita kugamuchira ungochani. Nekudaro, kuti tishandise zvirinani kushandisa madhora edu, isu tinofanirwa kuruka vaverengi veNew Republic neNew Left Ongororo, uye tarisa pane yakakura zvinyorwa seNguva, Vanhu neNational Enquirer. 

Patiri kupomhodza madziro nema volleys eink, zvakakodzerawo kuti tidziyise ruzhinji rwevanhu mushandirapamwe mutete wakaomesesa mabhodhi emigwagwa. Mune mavara akashata, akasviba, akateedzana mameseji asina kupokana anofanira kugoverwa:

MURUSSIA UNOTAURA KUTI AIVA KWAANI. MU AMERICA, Tine RUDO KUTI VAVE VANGU. . . Uye IVA ANOGONA.

Kana

VANHU VANOBATSIRA, ASI ASI KUDZVORA - IZVO ZVINONYANYA AMERICA.     

Uye zvichingodaro. Mumwe nemumwe poster achakwikwidza kumanzwiro edzinza uye anofambisa zvirevo zvinogamuchirika mumisoro yeveruzhinji - rudzi rwekushambadza kwemagariro kunobatsira isu. Mupostori wega wega achasainwa nemavara madiki: "Yakapihwa neNational Gay Committee" kuumba masangano akanaka uye kukwezva ruzhinji kuwana rubatsiro.

1 yekuona nhanho - kuve pamberi

Kupwanya mu terevhizheni neredhiyo, chirongwa chakaomarara chingadikanwa. Sezvatiri, kune kutanga, isu tinofanirwa kuramba tichikurudzira kubuda kwevakanaka vanoita zve ngochani mumafirimu nematerevhizheni. Mitauro yemasikati hurukuro zvakare inoramba iri sosi inoshanda yekuratidzira. Asi kukurumidza kuita basa, unogona kuedza zano rekunyepedzera kuti uwane wongororo munhau. Iko kusagadzikana kwatinako mupfungwa kuchada kunyatsogadzirira, asi kunogona kuchengetedza mari uye kunowedzera kuoneka uye kukwirira kwekufamba kweungochani kamwechete:

Pamberi pesarudzo dzehurumende dzinotevera, tinokwanisa kunyatsosarudza vanyengeri vechisarudzo. Vatinoda kukwikwidza vachatora chikamu musarudzo dzepamberi pesarudzo, uko vachakwanisa kuisa kushambadzira kushambadzira neruoko gay uye vanoda nguva yakaenzana pamhepo. Ipapo, pamberi pesarudzo, vanogona kusiya mujaho, vachivapa nzvimbo yevanonyoresa varume vane hunyanzvi. 

Panguva ino yekutanga, zvakakosha kuti usabvunze vanhu kuti vavhotere "kana" kana "kupikisa" zvine chekuita nenyaya dzengochani, sezvo vazhinji vachizovhota "vachipokana", uye izvi zvinoreva kukunda kukuru uye kunooneka nekuda kwedu.

2 Visual Stage - Yakavanzika Kushambadzira

Panguva iyoyo, apo nharaunda gay yakatoisa rutsoka mumusuwo wedare, nguva yasvika yekupa nzira dzekutsigirana neungochani kushambadzira kwemumwe munhu nezvirongwa zveterevhizheni. Nguva yakakosha: chinodiwa chinofanira kuitwa nekukurumidza mushure mekereke yesarudzo yedu ichibva pachiratidziro. Kana makambani epa terevhizheni akada kutaridzika kufanana, pane kunyengera, ipapo ari muhomwe yedu. Kana zvakadaro vakaedza kuramba, tichaita kuti kuramba kwavo kutaridzike sekusaratidza uye pamwe zvisiri pamutemo. Isu tinongopa "kushambadzira gay" akagadzirwa chaizvo mushure mekushambadzira kwakatsigirwa naMormoni nevamwe. Semazuva ese, vataridzi vanozoona vane hukama hwakakosha nezvekukosha kwekuwirirana kwemhuri uye nzwisiso, asi panguva ino mushambadzi pakupedzisira achati: "Chikumbiro ichi chakaunzwa kwauri neNational Gay Committee". Zvese zvakanyarara kwazvo uye zvinodzorwa.

Veruzhinji ngochani vanofanirwa kujoina mauto pamwe nemamwe anoremekedzwa rusununguko vagari mapoka kusimudzira zvinyoro-nyoro nezve America senzvimbo yemunhu wese, nguva dzose ichipera nechisungo chakananga kuNational Committee kana rimwe gay sangano. Iwe zvakare unokwanisa kupe runhare runonzwira tsitsi rutsigiro uye zvipo kuti utsigire mari yekutsvagisa AIDS - kana vamwe vakaita, sei vasingadaro?

3 Visual Stage - Shanduko kune Heavy Artillery

Mushure mekushandisa "salami mazano", chidimbu mushure mechikamu, isu tichawana yakawanda yekuwana iyo yekuburitswa kwenhau, inguva yekuita pachena. Yedu mameseji ichaendeswa zvakananga kune yakadzika midzi maitiro eruzhinji kune vanoita ngochani, sekunyangadza uye vanopikisa vatisingazive. Semuenzaniso, mafomu anotevera anogona kupihwa kuterevhizheni kana kushambadzira redhiyo yakagadzirirwa kubvisa kusanzwisisika kusingaperi.

1 fomati - yeinongedzo: ufakazi

Kuita kuti varume vanoita ngochani vaite sevasinganzwisisike, iwe unofanirwa kufungidzira zvakatevedzana zvikamu zvipfupi nemifananidzo yemurume kana musikana kubva kune imwe imba yekugara, vadiki uye vanoratidzika, kana vanodziya uye vanonaka nasekuru. Vakagara pamba, vanopindura mibvunzo kubva kumushure-we-pazasi mubvunzi nekushinga, kuzvishingisa uye nerunako. Zvavakataura zvinoratidza zvinhu zvitatu munharaunda:

1. Pane mumwe munhu akakosha muhupenyu hwavo wavanochengetedza hukama hwakareba (kusimbisa kudzikama kweungochani, monogamy, kuzvipira);

2. Mhuri dzavo dzinovatsigira uye dzakakosha kwavari (zvinosimbiswa pano kuti ngochani hadzisi "kutarisana nemhuri" uye kuti mhuri hadzifanirwe kurwisa ngochani).

3. Kusvika kwavanozvirangarira ivo, vaigara vari ngochani uye pamwe vangangozvarwa vari ngochani. Ehe, ivo havana kumbosarudza zvavanofarira (kusimbisa kuti zvaive zvisikwa kwavari uye ivo vaisapangana nekunetsana nemaune). Kubvunzurudza kunofanirwa kuitirwa kwega, pasina kuvapo kwevadi kana vana, sezvo kubatikana kwavo kuchasimudza mibvunzo inonetsekana nezvekunetseka kwehukama hwehukama hwemagariro izvo zvisingawanzo kutsanangurwa. Zvirinani kutora chinhu chimwe panguva.

2 fomati - yekushamwaridzana kwakanaka: vakakurumbira

Nepo kubvumidzwa nevanhu vane mukurumbira ngochani uye vanonzwira tsitsi vanhu vangangobatsira, mumamiriro ekunze eAmerican homophobic. Nekudaro, kuratidzika kwemukurumbira kwenguva iriko kuchangoratidzira nhoroondo yeungochani kana bondexual vanhu vane mukurumbira, vanoremekedzwa ... uye vakafa. Mareferenzi anogona kunge ari emadhadha uye asina kunanga.

3 fomati - yekunzwira tsitsi avo vakabatwa: nhimbe yedu yekupedza kushungurudzwa kwevana

Sezvatagara tataura, kune dzakawanda nzira dzekuratidzira ngochani sevadzvinyiriri vekusarura: mifananidzo yehutsinye, nyaya dzekurasikirwa nebasa, kuparara kwemhuri, nezvimwe. Asi isu tinofunga kuti kushambadzira kwe30-kwechipiri senge kunotevera kunonyanya kushanda.

Iyo kamera zvishoma nezvishoma inosvika kune wechidiki wepakati pekugara akagara ega mukamuri rine rima. Iye mukomana wacho anonakidzwa uye akajairika pachitarisiko, kunze kwekunge arohwa uye anotaridzika akanyarara, achifunga, nekutambura kunooneka. Sezvo kamera zvishoma nezvishoma inotarisa pachiso chake, kutaura-pamusoro-mazwi: izvi zvichaitika kune mumwe chete pavana gumi vese. Kukura, achanzwisisa kuti anobata zvinhu nenzira dzakasiyana kupfuura shamwari dzake zhinji. Kana akazarura, achava anodzingwa. Achashungurudzwa, kunyadziswa uye kurohwa. Kana akaudza vabereki vake, vanogona kumukanda mumugwagwa. Vamwe vachati "anopesana nemhuri." Hapana mumwe achamurega ave iye amene. Naizvozvo, achafanira kuvanda. Kubva kushamwari, kubva kumhuri. Uye zvakaoma. Mazuva ano zvave kutove kwakaoma kuve mwana, asi kuve uri mumwe pagumi. . . Mharidzo kubva kuNational Gay Committee. 

Kushambadzira kwakadai kwakanaka mukuti inoratidzira nehupombwe sevasina mhosva uye vasina njodzi, vanoshungurudzwa uye vasinganzwisisi, zvinoshamisa akawanda, asi kwete kutyisidzira. Iye zvakare anoita kuti "anopikisa-mhuri" kupomera kusaziva uye unyengeri.

4 fomati - yekuzivikanwa pamwe nevanhu vakakuvadzwa: kuchinja mabasa

Veruzhinji vanozoonekwa zvirinani nedambudziko rekushoreka kana mitsetse inogona, nguva nenguva, kugara munzvimbo yavo. Kushambadzira kunosekesa kunogona kusanganisira ino inotevera yehupenyu kana inonakidza script:

Iyo kamera inoswededza mukati pamusuwo unorema oak kuhofisi yemubati, iyo inovhurika uye kamera (inomiririra iwe muoni) inopinda mukamuri. Patafura hombe kunogara mafuta uye akafinyamisa chigaro chekare kutsenga pamudzanga. Anotarisa mukamera (kureva kumuoni) obva aridza mhere, “Ndiwe iwe, Smithers. Wadzingwa basa! " Izwi diki rinopindura richishamisika, “Asi… VaThomberg, ndanga ndiine kambani yenyu kwemakore gumi. Ndanga ndichifunga kuti uri kufara nebasa rangu. " Sabhuku vanopindura nekatsamba kekusema: “Hongu, hongu, Smithers, basa rako rakakwana, asi ndakanzwa runyerekupe rwekuti wakaonekwa mudhorobha nemusikana. Musikana! Kutaura chokwadi, ndarohwa nehana. Hatisi kuzobhadhara heterosexuals zvekambani iyi. Zvino chibuda. " Inzwi diki rinoedza kupindura, “Asi shefu, izvi hazvina kunaka! Dai waive iwe? Mukuru webasa anopenya neziso rakatsamwa, kamera inobhururuka ichibuda mumba, musuo unorema unovharwa. Chikwangwani pamusuwo chakanzi "Mharidzo kubva kuNational Gay Committee."

Mumwe anogona kufungidzira nyore nyore episode dzakanangana nedzimba kana kumwe kusarura.

5 fomati - kuratidza vatambudzi: kuenda kugehena pamwe

Takatotaura mimwe mifananidzo inogona kukuvadza munhukadzi vendetta: vanovenga vechitendero vanonyanyisa, neo-Nazi uye Ku Klux Klan kuchaita kuti vataridzike yakaipa uye kuseka (zvakaoma basa rakaoma). Mifananidzo iyi inofanirwa kuve pamwe nemifananidzo yevakabatwa ngochani, nekuti vanoparadzira izvi zvinodaidzwa kuti "brace maitiro". Semuenzaniso, kwemasekondi mashoma iwe unogona kuwona unotsvedza wekumaodzanyemba muparidzi ane maziso madiki akaipa achifura mupurupiti mune kushushikana, achipopota "nezvezvirwere izvi zvinorwara nezvakaipa." Sezvo tirade yake ichiramba ichienderera, pikicha inochinjika kumabhaisikopo mafoto ezve ngochani anotaridzika zvakanaka, asingakuvadzi uye akanaka; Uye tinobva tadzokera kuchiso chemuparidzi chehupfu. Musiyano unozvitaurira wega. Mhedzisiro yacho inoparadza.

6 fomati - yekutsigirwa: SOS

Munguva kana nekukurumidza mushure mekushambadzira uku, tinofanirwa kukumbira mipiro kuti mushandirapamwe uenderere mberi. Direct mafoni kubva kune vanozivikanwa (pamwe ari mupenyu, ndatenda) inogona kubatsira pano. Zvese zvikumbiro zvinofanirwa kusimbisa kuti mari inogona kupihwa nenzira isingazivikanwe uye kuti zvipo zvese zvakavanzika. "Hatigone kubatsira kana ukasabatsira," nezvose izvozvo.

Nguva yasvika

Tatsanangura pano chirongwa chekushandura hunhu hwehunhu hwechinyakare America kuburikidza nemushandirapamwe wenhau. Pane zvikonzero zana zana nei mushandirapamwe usingakwanisi kuitwa kana kuti nei uchinge uine njodzi. Asi pane angangoita 20 mamirioni ezvikonzero zvakanaka nei chirongwa chakadai chichifanira kuedzwa mumakore anouya: izvi ndizvo zvakanaka uye mufaro kune wese ngochani munyika ino. Seyekupedzisira chikuru chakadzvinyirirwa vashoma munharaunda yeAmerican, inguva yekuti varume vanoita zveungochani kutora matanho anoshanda ekubatana neiyo huru mukudada uye nesimba. Isu tinotenda kuti nhandare yakadaro, kana uchiifarira kana kuti kwete, ndiyo chete nzira yekuita izvi munguva pfupi iri kutevera. Uye, zvakare: nguva inogona kupera. Denda reAIDS rinokonzeresa kutsamwa uye kutya mumoyo yechirume America. Sezvo hutachiona hunofamba kubva munzvimbo dzechingochani kuenda munharaunda yese, hatifanire kuve nekufungidzira kuti ndiani ari kupomera. Makore makumi mana anotevera anogona kufungwa nezvakateera makumi mana anotevera: varume vanochata vachati rusununguko rwavo uye vakaenzana, kana kuti vachadzokera zvakare, sekamuri yakavanzika yevavengi vekuAmerica. Zvinopfuura pun: taura izvozvi kana nyarara nekusingaperi.    

Shanduro yeboka reScience for Truth

Magumo echikamu "After The Ball»

Izvi zvakanyorwa pamagumo e80's, apo kushambadzira kwekushambadzira munhau kwanga kuchingori kutanga, asi mazuva ano, vabudirira zvakanyanya mune zvepamutemo nenzvimbo dzemagariro, ngochani hazvichadi zvekunyepedzera, uye ivo vanokwanisa kuva ivo. Bhora rapedzwa, masks anobviswa, zvigadzirwa uye zvigadzirwa zvinoshambwa.

Sekutaura kunoita vanyori veLBBT nzira dzekunyepedzera ivo pachavo:Ngamera ngaitange kunamira mhino yayo mutende, uye ipapo chete painenge isingaonekwi neshure. ”

Zvatiri kuona iye zvino kumadokero imbongoro iyi isingataridzike. Asi kamwe chete uye ipapo zvose zvakatanga nemafambiro akanaka ane mireza yemavara uye mapepa achidana "kururamisira", "rusununguko" uye "kodzero".

Pano isu hatigone asi kuyeuka mitsetse kubva kubasa reExpupery "Iyo Citadel":

"Boka revanhu rinoti rusununguko kutenderedza rusununguko uye kururamisira - kuora kwavo ...
Rabi akaridza mhere, achidzivirira kodzero yake yekuora. Akagadzirwa nekuora, akairwira. Maruva anobuda, uye mapopoma achave nemvumo. Kodzero dziri pachena kumunhu wese. Vaimbi vanovadzingirira. Vachauya kwauri, vagokuimba pamusoro pekutambudzika kukuru kwemakunguva, vakatongerwa rufu. "

Matambudziko enharaunda ye "gay" kuburikidza nemeso evari mukati