"Ina kan hanya madaidaiciya, an haife ni ta wannan hanyar" - ya tabbatar mana da wani shahararren wakar. "Ba zan iya canzawa ba, ko da na gwada, ko da ina so," - maimaita wani.

Wadannan jumlolin guda biyu suna bayyana asalin akidar "LGBT motsi," wanda ke nuna cewa liwadi yanayi ne na al'ada, wanda ba shi da canji wanda ke buƙatar fahimta, gafarta, karɓa. Ruwayar da farfagandar LGBT, wani sashi mai yawa na jama'a ya yi imanin cewa akwai shaidar da yawa game da yanayin rayuwar ɗan kishili, amma a zahiri, "shaidar" da masu fafutukar ke ambata sune kawai rarar kuɗaɗe tare.