Muna Chikunguru 2020, John Blosnich weLGBTQ + Health Equality Center akaburitsa imwe kudzidza nezve "ngozi" yekurapa kurapa. Muongororo yenhengo dze1518 dze "non-transgender sex minorities", timu yaBlosnich yakagumisa kuti vanhu vakaedzwa kushanduka pabonde (zvinozonzi SOCE*) vanoshuma kuwanda kwekuda kuzviuraya uye kuedza kuzviuraya kupfuura avo handina. Zvakapokana kuti SOCE "inokuvadza stressor inowedzera kuzviuraya kwepabonde". Naizvozvo, kuedza kushandura maitiro hakubvumirwe uye kunofanira kutsiviwa ne "affirmative withdrawal" iyo inoyananisa munhu wacho nezvido zvake zveungochani. Chidzidzo ichi chakanzi "humbowo hwakasimba hwekuti SOCE inokonzera kuzviuraya".
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Kocharyan G.S. - Bisexuality uye shanduko yekurapa: kesi yekudzidza
Chidimbu. Ongororo yekiriniki inopiwa patiri kutaura nezve "bisexual” kumurume, uye anotsanangurawo kurapwa kwaakaitwa achishandisa hypnosuggestive programming, iyo yakazova inoshanda zvikuru.
Parizvino, kuedza kusati kwamboitika kuri kuitwa kurambidza kushandiswa kweshanduko (reparative) kurapa, kunoitirwa kushandura ngochani yechishuwo chepabonde kuita bonde. Anoshurikidzwa uye akaziviswa kwete kwete chete zvisina basa, asi zvakare zvinokuvadza zvakanyanya kumuviri wemunhu. Saka, Zvita 7, 2016 paramende yeMalta vakabvumirana vakapasisa mutemo unorambidza kushandiswa kwekurapa kurapwa. Zve "kushandura, kudzvinyirira nekuparadza hunhu hwemunhu pabonde kana kuzivikanwa kwechikadzi," mutemo uyu unopa mutongo kana faindi yetirongo. [7] Iyo Bundesrat (inomiririra nyika dzemubatanidzwa yeGerman) muna Chikumi 5, 2020 yakabvumidza mutemo unorambidza kurapwa uku. Deutsche Welle inoshuma kuti maitiro ayo anogona kurangwa nekuiswa mutirongo kwegore rimwe chete, uye kushambadzira nekureverera - faindi inosvika makumi matatu ezviuru euros [30]. MuUnited States, inokwana gumi nesere chete, Puerto Rico neWashington, DC, zvakarambidza kutendeuka kwevana vadiki.Vakuru vanogona kuzvipira kurapa kutendeuka munyika yese [9]... Instagram neFacebook zvakazivisa kuvharwa kwemaposi ese pane aya masocial network ayo anokurudzira kutendeuka kurapwa [8].
Izvo zvirevo zvekuti kurapwa kwekushandura hakusi kungoshanda chete, asi mune zvese zviitiko zvinokonzeresa kukuvadza kukuru mumuviri kunyepa. Nhaurwa inoenderana inogona kuwanikwa muzvinyorwa zvedu [3; 4; 6]. Zvakare, akati wandei emabasa edu akaunza iko kushandiswa kwakanaka kwekushandura kurapwa2; 5].
Heino nyaya kubva kune yedu yekiriniki tsika, uko kutendeuka kurapwa kwakabudirira kwazvo mukugadzirisa iko kwekutungamira kwechishuwo chebonde mune murume ane bisexual zvido.
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Gerard Aardweg pane psychology yeungochani uye kudzvinyirira kwepfungwa
Nyanzvi inozivikanwa yenyika yeDutch chiremba Gerard van den Aardweg ane hunyanzvi mukudzidza uye kurapa kweungochani kweanonyanya kuita basa rake rakasarudzika re50. Nhengo yeScience Advisory Committee yeNational Association yeZvekudzidza uye Kurapa kwevechingochani, (NARTH), munyori wemabhuku uye zvinyorwa zvesainzi, nhasi ndiye mumwe wevashoma nyanzvi dzinotya kuburitsa pachena kusapindirana kwenyaya iyi chete kubva kunzvimbo dzechokwadi, dzakavakirwa pachinangwa, kwete dzakasvibiswa pfungwa tsananguro data. Pazasi pane chirevo kubva pamushumo wake "The Naturalization" Ungochani uye Humanae Vitae "verenga kumusangano wepapa Chikoro cheHupenyu hwevanhu neMhuri muna 2018 gore.
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Kurapa kweungochani pele nguva yekururamisa kwezvematongerwo enyika
Nhamba dzakawanda dzekubudirira kurapa kurapa kweungochani maitiro uye kukwezva zvinotsanangurwa zvakadzama mumabhuku ehunyanzvi. Chirevo Sangano reNational Association for the Study uye Therapy yeChingochani rinopa humbowo hwehungwaru hwehungwaru, mishumo yekiriniki nekutsvaga kubva kumagumo ezana ramakore re19 kusvika parizvino, izvo zvinopa humbowo hwekuti varume nevakadzi vanofarira vanogona kuita shanduko kubva paungochani kuenda kuungochani. Pamberi penguva yekururamisa kwezvematongerwo enyika, yaive chokwadi chinozivikanwa nesainzi, iri pachena akanyora repakati pepanhau. Kunyangwe iyo American Psychiatric Association, kusanganisa zvimisikidzo zveungochani kubva kuhurongwa hwekushushikana kwepfungwa mu1974, zvakanyorwa, icho "Nzira dzazvino dzekurapa dzinobvumira chikamu chakakosha cheungochani vanoda kuchinja maitiro avo kuti vadaro".
Inotevera ishanduro zvinyorwa kubva kuNew York Times ye1971.
Garnik Kocharyan pane inotsiva kurapa kune ngochani
Kocharyan Garnik Surenovich, Chiremba wezveSainzi Sayenzi, Muzvinafundo weDhipatimendi rezvepabonde, Medical Psychology, Medical uye Psychological Rehabilitation yeKharkov Medical Academy. yakapa bhuku rinonzi "Shame and Loss of Attachment. Kushandiswa kwekurapa kurapa mukuita ". Munyori ndomumwe wevane mukurumbira uye nyanzvi dzinozivikanwa pasi rose mumunda wekurapa kurapa, muvambi weNational Association for the Study and Treatment of Homosexuality (NARTH) - Dr. Joseph Nikolosi. Iri bhuku rakatanga kuburitswa muUnited States mugore ra2009 pasi pemusoro unoti "Kunyadzisa uye Kubatanidza Kurasikirwa: Basa Rinoshanda reReparative Therapy".
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Reorientation Therapy: mibvunzo nemhinduro
Vese ngochani here?
"Gay" ndicho chitupa icho munhu anosarudza zvangu. Havasi vese ngochani vanozivisa se "ngochani." Vanhu vasingazivikanwe se ngochani vanotenda kuti ivo ndevakaroorwa uye vanotsvaga rubatsiro rwekutarisa zvikonzero zvinoita kuti vasvike kukwezvwa nevanhukadzi. Munguva yekurapa, vanachipangamazano uye vezvepfungwa vanoshandisa nzira dzehunhu kubatsira vatengi kutanga zvikonzero zvekukwezva ivo-murume kana mukadzi uye nekunyatso kuvabatsira kugadzirisa izvo zvinokonzeresa kumanzwiro eungochani. Vanhu ava, inova chikamu chakakosha munharaunda yedu, vanoedza kuchengetedza kodzero yavo yekugamuchira rubatsiro nerutsigiro kuti vabve pane zvisingaite zvevakomana nevasikana, vanoshandura maitiro avo ezvepabonde uye / kana chengetedza kusaroora. Izvi zvinowanikwa kuburikidza nehurongwa hwekuvandudza vanhukadzi, kusanganisira kurapa uye kurapa vanhukadzi, zvakare inozivikanwa se "Kurara Kwemagariro Ekupindira" (SOCE) kana Reoriorial Therapy.
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Chinyorwa cheaichimbove ngochani
Anodiwa muverengi, zita rangu ndinonzi Jake. Ini ndaimbove ngochani mune makumi maviri kubva kuEngland. Iyi diary ndeyeavo vanopokana nepfungwa yekuchinja maitiro ebonde. Nyanzvi dzakadzidza nezvebonde kwemakumi emakore uye vakagumisa kuti zvepabonde zvinosiyana muvanhu vazhinji. Uchapupu hunoratidza kuti kunzwa bonde kunogona kuchinja muhupenyu hwese. Icho chokwadi chekuti vanhu vazhinji vanochinja maitiro avo ezvepabonde ichokwadi chakaverengerwa. Ndiri mumwe wevanhu ava.
Handisisiri kunzwa kuda kurara nevarume; vasikana vava kunyanya kutaridzika kwandiri. Pane imwe nguva ndakanga ndisingafungi kudaro, asi ikozvino ndofunga.
Pane imwe nguva, kubatwa nehope husiku hwakasurukirwa, ndakazvifungidzira ndiri mumaoko emumwe murume, ikozvino ini ndinogona kungozvifungidzira ndine musikana wechikadzi.
Vamwe havasi kufara nemamiriro ezvinhu aya. Ivo havana chokwadi nehunhu hwavo hwepabonde zvekuti havagone kubvuma kuti kune avo vasingachagovane zvavanonzwa. Ivo vanonyanya kufara kana vanhu vachinja kuva ngochani, asi ivo havafariri kana zvakapesana zvikaitika. Dzimwe nguva vanhu vakaita seni vanonzi vekuita ruvengo, uye izvozvo imhaka yekuti handidi kurara nevarume!
Vaizondisarudzira here kuti ndinyarare nezve kuchinja hukama hwangu, kurarama mumanyepo uye kuramba izvo zvakaitika? Ehe, zvinoita! Ivo vanoda kundinyaradza, kundinyima kodzero yekurarama nenzira yandinosarudza, uye kundimanikidza kutungamira iwo mararamiro avanofunga kuti anodikanwa!
Ini handina kungorega kuve ngochani, asiwo ndinonzwa kufara. Ini pachangu ndichafambisa hupenyu hwangu nenzira yandinoda, kwete nenzira yavanondiudza. Ndakafunga kuchinja hukama hwangu hwepabonde uye ndakazviita.
Kudzokorora vatengesi veungochani:
Ndiri pano!
Handisisiri mutserendende zvakare!
Zvijaire!
Nyaya yakazara muChirungu: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man