Yawancin masu bincike suna daukar liwadi a cikin ƙasarmu a matsayin cuta ta hanyar jima'i a cikin maza (da mata), sakamakon hakan alama ce ta sha'awar jima'i da kuma jan hankalin mutane ga masu jinsi.

A mafi yawancin halayen, dalilin ci gaban bayyanuwar liwadi shine ƙwarewar masifa a matakin ganewar jima'i. Wannan mataki na ilimin halayyar haɓaka yana nufin shekaru biyar zuwa shida kuma ya kira "rikicin shekaru shida." A wannan zamani, jariri ya fara sabon yanayin zaman jama'a, kuma tuni ya fara daga lokacin balaga (lokacin samartaka da fashewar yanayin halittar mutum) yana tantance ra'ayin sa ga jininsa. Take hakkin ayyukan mace da namiji a cikin iyali, ko kuma abubuwan da suka faru a cikin iyali da kuma wajensa suna haifar da haifar da halayen halayen (karkacewa), wanda ya hada da halayen maza.

Har zuwa 'yan kwanan nan, ra'ayin dabi'ar dabi'ar ɗan luwaɗi ya sami karbuwa sosai a Yammacin Turai da Amurka, amma wannan ka'idar ba ta sami hujjar kimiyya ba, kuma ba da hujja ga daidaituwar siyasa a cikin magani ba. A zahiri, tunda an tsara dabi'ar jima'i a wani zamani kuma a wani yanayi (na tarihi, al'adu, zamantakewa, da dai sauransu), ya kamata a faɗi cewa an samo shi kuma a sakamakon, zai sake juyawa. Ko kuma a'a, abin takaici ne, tunda matakin luwadi ya wuce kowane ɗa wanda ya sami ilimin game da kansu da kuma wakilan jinsi ɗaya. Sha'awa game da ainihin abin da wannan jinsi ya wakilta shine matakin luwadi na ci gaban yaro. Mataki na gaba shine sha'awar ɗayan jinsi, "ba daidai ba", "ba kamar ni ba." Yaron da ba shi da halayen halayen halaye ya wuce zuwa wannan matakin kusan lokacin rikicin shekaru shida, ko kuma kaɗan daga baya, amma tabbas kafin balaga.

Lura da liwadi azaman zaɓi na yau da kullun daidai ne a siyasance, amma ba dabara ba ne, saboda haɗin mutane da halayen ɗan kishi ne gajere kuma galibi an iyakance su ga biyan bukatun jima'i (ba a faɗi ba. mummunan illa).

SANARWA GA HOMOSEXUALISM

Har yanzu akwai zarge-zargen cewa sha'awar ɗan kishili na iya zama halayyar haihuwa, amma ba ɗayansu da aka tabbatar da kimiyya. "Gene na kishili", wanda aka kashe yawancin kuɗin kuɗi na gay, an samo shi kasa.

Daga cikin dalilan samuwar dabi'ar dan luwadi ana kiransu:

• kwarewar jima'i da wuri tashin hankali;
• saduwa da ɗan luwaɗi na son rai (galibi a samartaka);
• ƙarami, gyara a farkon matakan ci gaba ko juya musu baya;
• ishara daga uba a cikin iyali, ko rashi na jiki (ga samari, ko makamancin haka, uwa ga 'yan mata);
• increasedara yawan damuwa, musamman dangane da mutanen da ke jinsi;
• rashin halayen halayen mace-mace na yau da kullun tsakanin mace da namiji (dangin jinsi daya sun haife yaro)
• lahanin haihuwa, iyaye ba su yarda da jima'i na yaro ba (idan suna tsammanin haihuwar ɗayan ɗayan).

Kamar yadda kake gani, duk dalilai, mahimmancin abin da tuni an tabbatar da shi don ƙirƙirar halayen ɗan kishili, damuwa da yanayin tunanin mutum. Halin ɗan kishili na iya biye da wasu hanyoyin, musamman, ɓacin rai, sociopathy, phobias, jaraba na miyagun ƙwayoyi, schizophrenia.

Cutar jinsi daya

A wannan yanayin, mai yiwuwa, zai fi dacewa idan a tattauna alamomin halin ɗan luwadi, saboda luwaɗanci azaman rashin hankalin-da zamantakewar aure da halin ɗan luwaɗi bai zama daidai ba koyaushe. Wasu masu ilimin tabin hankali suna bayyana alamun halayen liwadi a cikin yara, wanda ba daidai bane bisa ƙa'ida, saboda, kamar yadda muka faɗa a baya, kowane yaro yana ɗaukar nau'in matakin luwadi, tare da sha'awar mutane na jinsi ɗaya. Haka kuma, da yawa daga cikin manya suna riƙe wannan sha'awar ba tare da nuna musu halin ɗan luwaɗi ba - alal misali, taron maza “a cikin gareji”.

Amma kara damuwa da kararraki da takwarorinsu na yara da na mata da maza a cikin samari sun riga sun zama sanadin damuwa ga iyaye. Batun ba shine sanannen '' liwadi 'ba, amma rashin kwarewar sadarwa, tsoron kusancin soyayya. Irin waɗannan matasa na iya nuna halayen ɗan luwaɗi, tunda cikin dangantakansu da takwarorinsu sukan yi amfani da hanyar da ba ta da tsayayya, suna ɗaukar matsayin mahalarta mai ma'ana a cikin hulɗa. Don taimakawa irin wannan yaro ya shawo kan matsalolin rikice-rikice na shekaru, yana buƙatar taimakon iyayensa, tare da mahaifiyarsa da mahaifinsa.

Ga datti tare da cuta na ɗan kishili, dabi'a ce:

Desire sha'awar jima'i mara kyau don mambobi na jinsi ɗaya;

• sha'awar matsanancin (gami da lalacewa) nau'ikan halayen jima'i, wanda ke bayyane, tsakanin su, a cikin takamaiman hali ga rigar tufafi, zaɓin fifita kayan jima'i;

Yawan kishi dangane da abokin aikinsa na jima'i, wani lokacin kuma mai hana mutum rai ne;

• kasancewar abubuwan shan maye (narcotic, mai guba, mara ƙarancin giya);

• fitowar lokaci na nadama akan rayuwar mutum, ta kan haifar da sabon yanayi, ingantacciyar fahimta game da kai.

MAGANAR HOMOSEXUALISM

Ka tuna cewa "matsala ga mutum" liwadi an lissafta ta a ƙarƙashin lambar F66.x1 a cikin Tsarin Kayan Cutar Cutar Kasa ta bugun 10, a cikin sashin "Rashin Tsarin Jiki da Halayyar Haɗa tare da Haɓaka Jima'i da Gabatarwa". Kula da liwadi, idan mai haƙuri yana da muradin bayyananne, zai iya samun kyakkyawan sakamako. Koyaya, koda bazai yiwu a canza mummunar yanayin hoton mutum mai zurfi ba, larura tana ba shi damar samun daidaiton ƙarfi a cikin kansa da inganta yanayin rayuwarsa, karɓar kansa da yanayin jikinsa, amma ba halayen lalata ba, gami da halayyar jima'i.

Daga cikin hanyoyin gyara halayyar ɗan luwaɗi, psychotherapy ya ƙunshi mahimman matsayi. Tun da yawancin marasa lafiya suna da tarihin rauni, ya zama dole a tantance abin da ya faru wanda ya zama abin tuntuɓe ga mai haƙuri. Wannan taron yana buƙatar sabon binciken, nazari, masauki, kimantawa. A saboda wannan, ana amfani da dabaru masu alaƙa, daɗaɗɗar balagaggen mutum, maganin rukuni, magani na mutum, ilimin sikeli da gyarawa.

Tsohon Shugaban Psyungiyar Ilimin Zaman Lafiya na Amurka, Dr. Nicholas Cumings ya ruwaitocewa a lokacin shekarun 1959-1979. likitocin 'yan luwadi da 18,000 sun kusanto da asibitinsa, wanda kimanin 1,600 ke nufin canza yanayin su. Sakamakon maganin 2,400, sun sami damar yin wannan. 

A lokacin zubar da hankali na liwadi a APN 1974 aka buga daftarin, wanda ya ce "hanyoyin magani na zamani suna ba da damar wani bangare na 'yan luwadi da suke son sauya yanayin jima'i su yi hakan." 

A cikin 1979, wani masanin Amurka kuma masanin ilimin psychotherapist Irving Bieber, ta hanyar wanda hannayen sa game da marasa lafiyar 1000 marasa lafiya suka shude, sun ba da rahoton cewa, yawan karatun sakeshi ya karu daga 30% zuwa 50%. Binciken haƙuri a cikin shekaru 20 masu zuwa saukarcewa sun kasance gaba daya namiji.

Gonored Doctor na Tarayyar Rasha, likitan mahaukata Jan Goland ya bayyana matakai uku a cikin ilimin halayyar dan adam maza da mata:

1) weakarnawar sha'awar sha'awar sha'awar ɗan luwaɗi tare da cikakken biyan su na gaba. Haɓaka yanayin nutsuwa, nutsuwa, rashin kulawa ga mutane game da jinsi da kuma cire asalin abubuwan batsa daga waɗannan dangantakar.

2) kawar da kallon qarya ga mace. Samuwar launuka masu ruhi na mata, ta fuskar ado (bayyanar), da kuma batun ruhaniya. Bunkasa da karfafa dabarun sadarwa tare da mata.

3) Bayyananta da haɓakar koyarwar maza. Haɓaka ƙarfin isasshen sha'awar jima'i kuma, a ƙarshe, jima'i mai dorewa tare da mace, cike da abubuwan sha'awa na lalata.

Matsayin dawo da lafiyar ya kamata ya hadu da alamu masu zuwa:

Yawan jan hankalin mace wacce a ciki akwai tsarkakakkun abubuwan jima'i da kayan ado na rayuwa.

Attitude Halin halin mutuntaka ga wanda ya gabata kamar rashin cancanta, mai raɗaɗi.

• Hankali ga maza, saduwa da ka'idojin dakunan kwanan dalibai

• Rashin sanin cikakken darajar mutum, ga mutum, na mutane, da na jima'i.

Binciken (bin bayan magani) na marasa lafiya na 10 wadanda suka dawwama daga shekarun 1 zuwa shekarun 7 sun nuna cewa marasa lafiya sun sami nasarar gano yanayin rayuwar heterosexual ta al'ada kuma sun kawar da hankalinsu na baya.

Source

Aboutarin game da dabarar Jana Golanda

Fitaccen malamin nan Farfesa Aron Belkin ya goyi bayan dabarar Jan Goland. Karin bayanai: 
https://med.wikireading.ru/51366