PHUNZIRO ENA AKUSINTHA KUGWIRITSA NTCHITO NDI CHITETEZO CHA MANKHWALA OBWERETSA.
Monga andale otsogozedwa ndi LGBT akukhazikitsa malamulo oletsa chithandizo chamankhwala kwa anthu omwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kafukufuku wina watuluka ku US womwe ukuwonetsa mwamphamvu kuti anthu otere atha kuthandizidwa.
Bungwe la American Psychological Association (APA) ndi mabungwe ena okhudza zamaganizo amalimbikitsa kuti akatswiri a maganizo asamalepheretse makasitomala kusintha maganizo awo okhudzana ndi kugonana poganiza kuti njira zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito "sizinatsimikizidwe kuti ndi zothandiza kapena zotetezeka." Potchulapo za "kukondera kwa zitsanzo, njira zosakwanira, m'magulu olakwika a omwe atenga nawo mbali, komanso kuyerekezera komwe adadzinenera," APA imadzudzula umboni womwe ulipo wa kukonzanso bwino kukhala "wosadalirika" popereka ziganizo zotsimikizika.
Komabe, mwamwambo wabwino kwambiri wa miyezo iwiri, APA imagwiritsa ntchito kafukufuku wokhala ndi zolakwika zofanana kuti anyoze "kutembenuza mankhwala" ndikuthandizira "gay affirmative therapy." Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti pali maphunziro a 4 okhawo omwe ali ndi chidziwitso kapena quasi-empirical omwe adawona zotsatira za njira ya "gay affirmative" pa umoyo wamakasitomala. Ngakhale kuti zotsatira za maphunzirowa zakhala zosakanizika kwambiri, ndipo njira zake zimakhala zosagwira ntchito, APA ikupereka njira ya "gay affirmative" monga njira yapamwamba kwambiri komanso yovomerezeka yokha. Nkhani yovomerezedwa ndi anthu ambiri imanena kuti ngati munthu akopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndiye kuti ayenera kuvomereza kuti azigonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zomwe ziyenera kukhala maziko a moyo wake wonse. Komabe, anthu ambiri sagwirizana ndi kugwirizanitsa uku ndipo safuna kufotokozera umunthu wawo pazochitika za kugonana.
Chifukwa chake, mu Novembala 2021, pulofesa waku Arizona Christian University Carolyn Pela ndi katswiri wazamisala a Philip Sutton adasindikiza zotsatira za zaka zisanu zantchito zomwe zimathetsa zonena zabodza za APA.
Ofufuzawo adatsata makasitomala a 75 a Reintegrative Therapy, njira ya psychotherapeutic yotengera njira zomwe zatsimikiziridwa zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pochiza zoopsa komanso zizolowezi. Ophunzirawo anali ambiri azipembedzo zachizungu azaka zapakati pa 18-35 omwe adakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha koma akufuna kusiya, mwina pazifukwa zachipembedzo kapena kulowa m'banja lachikhalidwe.
Zotsatira zake zinali zochititsa chidwi: panthawi ya chithandizo, kukopeka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kudachepa, kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumachulukirachulukira, ndipo chidziwitso chimasinthiratu kukhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Detayo inasonyezanso "kuwongolera bwino kwachipatala ndi chiwerengero cha umoyo wabwino." Ponseponse, zotsatira za kafukufukuyu zikutsimikizira kuti kuyesetsa kusintha chilakolako chogonana kungakhale kothandiza, kopindulitsa, komanso kosavulaza.
“Chotero,” akutero olembawo, “zonena kuti palibe umboni wa sayansi wonena za ubwino kapena kuipa kwa zoyesayesa zosintha mkhalidwe wa kugonana sikulinso zoona. Kuphatikiza apo, machenjezo osalekeza a APA ndi mabungwe ena okhudza makasitomala omwe akufuna kusintha malingaliro awo ogonana ndi osokeretsa, osachita bwino, komanso osagwirizana ndi zomwe makasitomala amafuna kuti adzipangire okha. Komanso, kukana kwa APA kulangiza olemba malamulo otsutsa "kutembenuza mankhwala," kuti kafukufuku sakugwirizana ndi kuvulaza kwake, komanso kuti psychotherapy yonse imakhala ndi chiopsezo chovulazidwa, sikuvomerezeka. Chifukwa cha kapangidwe kake kokhwima, kafukufuku wapano akuwonetsa kuti anthu omwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kuyembekezera zabwino m'malo movulazidwa chifukwa chotenga nawo gawo pazamankhwala. ”
Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti olembawo amatsutsa kwambiri kutcha dongosolo lawo "kusintha mankhwala", monga akunena kuti ndi mawu osamveka, onyoza komanso okhumudwitsa omwe amagwirizanitsidwa ndi madzi osambira oundana ndi magetsi, omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito poopseza anthu omwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Olembawo amatcha njira yawo SAFE-T (kufufuza kwamadzimadzi okhudzana ndi kugonana mu mankhwala), omwe amagwirizana ndi mawu oti "chitetezo" ndipo amatanthawuza kuti "kuphunzira za kusiyana kwa chilakolako chogonana pochiza."
Gulu lochititsa chidwi la ntchito zasayansi lakhazikitsa "fluidity" (ie kusinthasintha, kusungunuka kapena kuyenda) kwa chilakolako chogonana mwa anthu ambiri, makamaka mwa omwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngakhale anthu atha kukhala ndi zidziwitso zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kapenanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zomwe amakumana nazo nthawi zambiri sizigwirizana m'magulu awa, koma m'malo mwake zimapanga kupitiliza komwe cholinga chokopa chingasunthe mbali zonse ziwiri. Njira ya SAFE-T imalola kasitomala kuti afufuze kusinthasintha kwa chikhumbo chake chogonana ndikupanga kusintha komwe akufuna.
Ponena za "kuvulaza ndi kusagwira ntchito", njira iliyonse ya psychotherapeutic, ngakhale yodziwika bwino komanso yothandiza, imatha kukhala yopanda phindu kapena yovulaza kwa kasitomala. Chifukwa chake, kuchuluka kosalekeza kwa achikulire (mpaka 10%) komanso kuchuluka kwa ana (mpaka 24%) kumawonetsa kuwonongeka kwa thanzi lawo panthawi ya chithandizo, ndipo 45% ya odwala omwe ali ndi vuto la kupsinjika maganizo samawona kusintha kwakukulu.
Kafukufuku wa Pela ndi Sutton akupereka umboni wamphamvu wakuti makasitomala ena omwe amafuna kuletsa kukopeka kwawo ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adatha kuchita bwino. Izi zikukayikitsa momwe APA amachitira motsutsana ndi chithandizo chobwezera, komanso zoyesayesa zamalamulo zoletsa kusankha kwa chithandizo kwamakasitomala. Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chochepetsa kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe sakufuna kapena mopambanitsa ali ndi ufulu wonse wofunafuna ndi kulandira thandizo la akatswiri kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo, ndipo akatswiri odziwa bwino zaumoyo ali ndi ufulu wopereka chithandizo choterocho.
Zambiri zokhudzana ndi psychotherapy pakukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha:
https://pro-lgbt.ru/category/articles/therapy
Tikuthokoza ofufuza oona mtima. Munthu adalengedwa ndi MULUNGU, ndipo MULUNGU ndi KUWULA ndipo mwa Iye mulibe mdima. Amene!
Mwadzisokoneza nokha.Zachabechabe ndi zopusa siziyenera kusindikizidwa.Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso zokonda zogonana sizingathetsedwe.Kodi mukumvetsa zomwe mukulembazo.Zikuwonekeratu kuti omwe "amafufuza" zamisala,mankhwala,zamulungu,maphunziro azachikhalidwe,mbiri yakale Ndinu opusa kapena ogawanika maganizo a omwe ankagwira ntchito mu "misasa yoyesera" ya Nazi kapena kutengeka kwachipembedzo kunakhala sayansi kwa inu.
Zachabechabe, ndi inu nokha amene simukumvetsetsa psychology, ngakhale chidziwitso chake choyambirira.
Inde, ziyenera kuthandizidwa. Monga lamulo, zonse zimachokera ku ubwana. Zikomo chifukwa cha khama lanu! Ndipo ndimafunanso kufunsa: bwanji osalemba paliponse za chithandizo chandalama pazochita zanu? Ndikuganiza kuti anthu ambiri angakuthandizeni kulipira ntchito yanu
zopotoka izi ndi chifukwa cha zinthu zina za kuleredwa ndi chitukuko, "kusokoneza" chitukuko cha psyche, choncho kuwongolera n'zotheka.
Chikhumbo chotsimikizira kuti izi ndizochitika, mwatsoka zimatsatira zolinga zake.
"Kupatuka uku sikungathe" kuthandizidwa.
Chabwino, osachepera mumazindikira izi ngati zopatuka ... M'misasa ya Nazi, chirichonse chinali chosiyana ndendende. Kumeneko adagawana ndendende malingaliro anu, Konstantin, kuti zonse ndi zachibadwa komanso zochokera ku majini, ndipo chithandizo ndi / kapena kuwongolera cholowa "choyipa" sikungatheke, kotero osafunika anangowonongeka. Koma kawirikawiri, kuchuluka kwa zolakwika za galamala, stylistic ndi zizindikiro zimangosonyeza kuti inu nokha mumawerenga pang'ono.
Ndiko kulondola, zinali zomveka kale kuyambira pachiyambi. Woyambitsa lingaliro ili adangopeza ndalama zabwino, ndipo mnyamata yemwe adaleredwa ali mtsikana adangovutika ndi moyo wake wonse ndikudzipha.
Iyi ndi nkhani yotchuka ya David Reimer, mnyamata yemwe sanali mtsikana. Zomwe zinayamba kumenyana kale atakula ndi wasayansi yemwe adatsimikizira makolo kuti asinthe kugonana kwa mwanayo.
Kodi IQ yochepa imagwirizana ndi Homophobia?
Kuyang'ana dziko liti. Ngati ndi dziko lololera lomwe lili ndi chikhalidwe chokhazikika cha homofascism, anthu anzeru anganene kuti samadana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Koma uku sikulumikizana pakati pa homophobia ndi IQ. Pali mgwirizano pakati pa maphunziro aku Western ndi ufulu, komanso mgwirizano pakati pa umbuli ndi luntha lochepa. Koma palibe kugwirizana mwachindunji pakati low nzeru ndi homonegativism.
nzeru zodziwikiratu zimasonyeza kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi zotsatira za nkhani zabodza kuphatikizapo moyo ndi kukulira popanda Mulungu