Posachedwapa ku Russia pakhala kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa mapulogalamu a achinyamata ndi achinyamata a "kusintha kwa kugonana". Kuyambika kwa lingaliro ili kumachitika chifukwa chokumana ndi achinyamata zokopa zaukali za LGBT pa intaneti. Ndiye achinyamata, chifukwa cha zaka makhalidwe, mosavuta kupatsirana wina ndi mzake ndi kutengeka maganizo motsogoleredwa ndi curators ndi manipulators.
Mochulukirachulukira mugulu la Science for Truth gwiritsani ntchito makolo amene anasiya kucheza ndi ana awo chifukwa chotenga nawo mbali m’gulu la LGBT*. Nkovuta kwa munthu wamba kuyamikira kutayikiridwa koteroko, koma misozi ndi kuzunzika kwa makolo atsokawo zingawathandize kumvetsetsa misala imene ikuchitika. Nayi nkhani ina imene ingachitike m’banja lililonse, ngakhale lolemera.
* Gulu la LGBT limadziwika kuti ndi gulu lochita zinthu monyanyira!
Mwachidule za mwana: wochenjera, iye anakulira mnyamata wokhoza, womvera, wansangala, anali ndi mabwenzi ambiri, nthawi zonse anathandiza makolo ake. Zaka zonse ndinaphunzira kwa zisanu. Iye anaphunzira zinenero 5 pa nthawi yomweyo, maphunziro ndi mendulo ziwiri golide ndipo nawo mu All-Russian Olympiads. Iye ankakonda masewera, skiing kwa zaka 2, volebo kwa zaka 2, ali ndi zaka 15 anathamanga 2 pa sabata 15 Km.
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Werengani zambiri »Malingaliro nthawi zambiri amabwera kuti kulibenso mphamvu.
Ngati tsiku lina sindingathe kupirira, ndikulolani
idzakhala nkhani yathu. Mwina wina angakuthandizeni.
Ndipo ngati sichoncho, zikhale mbiriyakale
moyo umodzi wosweka ndi ululu wamisala.
Tidakumana ndi mayi yemwe mwana wawo wamwamuna wazaka makumi awiri adasiya mwadzidzidzi kuyunivesite mchaka chake chachinayi ndikuthawa kwawo kuti pasakhale wina womuletsa "kusintha zogonana". Zonsezi zidayamba zaka zingapo zapitazo ndikulankhula ndi msungwana wachilendo kwambiri pa intaneti, yemwe ali ndi chizolowezi chomenyera, kugonjera komanso gynemimethophilia - kukopa amuna azovala zazimayi komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Msungwanayo amangotchula mwana wake wamwamuna "msungwana wanga wokondedwa." Amakhala ndi malingaliro okhudza iye nthawi zonse komanso malingaliro motsutsana ndi amayi ake ndi abale ake. Malangizo a mtsikanayo, mwana wamwamuna adachoka mumzinda ndikudula ubale uliwonse ndi abale ake, kuwaletsa pamawebusayiti ndikusintha nambala yafoni. Pansipa timapereka mwachidule kalata yochokera kwa amayi ake yodzala ndi zowawa komanso kutaya mtima.
Nkhani yowona za munthu yemwe kale anali wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, yofotokoza za moyo watsiku ndi tsiku wa "gay" wamba - chiwerewere chosatha, chiwerewere ndi matenda okhudzana nawo, zibonga, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mavuto am'mimba, kukhumudwa komanso kusakhutira, kusakhutira ndi kusungulumwa. zomwe zonyansa ndi Datura zimangopereka mpumulo kwakanthawi. Nkhaniyi ili ndi mfundo zonyansa za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi zotsatira zake, zomwe zimasiya ndowe zonyansa zomwe mosakayikira zidzakhala zovuta kwa owerenga wamba. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amafotokozera zonse molondola kufalitsa zoyipa za moyo wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zikuchulukirachulukira ngati utoto wa utoto wokongola. Zikuwonetsa chowonadi chowawa cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha monga momwe ziliri - scabbyopusa ndi opanda chisoni. "Kukhala gay" kumatanthauza kuvutika ndi kupweteka kumayikidwa mu chimbudzi ndi magazi, mmalo mongogwira m'manja mwa anyamata aku maso akulu aku Kawaii yoyoynyh zopeka zabodza.
Werengani zambiri »Dzina langa ndi Christopher Doyle. Ndine katswiri wamisala mkati Ndalama Zachithandizo Padziko Lonsendipo ine ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo kale.
Werengani zambiri »Wokondedwa wowerenga, dzina langa ndi Jake. Ndine wachiwerewere wakale wazaka makumi awiri kuchokera ku England. Zolemba izi ndi za iwo omwe amatsutsa lingaliro losintha malingaliro azakugonana. Akatswiri aphunzira zakugonana kwazaka zambiri ndipo apeza kuti kugonana kumakhala kosiyanasiyana mwa anthu ambiri. Umboni ukusonyeza kuti malingaliro azakugonana amatha kusintha pamoyo wawo wonse. Ndizowonetseratu kuti anthu ambiri amasintha malingaliro awo pakugonana. Ndine m'modzi wa anthuwa.
Sindimakondanso kugona ndi amuna; atsikana tsopano ali okongola kwambiri kwa ine. Poyamba sindinkaganiza choncho, koma tsopano ndikuganiza.
Nthawi ina, kugona tulo usiku, ndinadziyerekeza ndili m'manja mwa munthu wina, tsopano ndimatha kudziyerekeza ndekha ndi mtsikana wamkazi.
Ena sasangalala ndi izi. Sakhala otsimikiza za kugonana kwawo kotero kuti sangathe kuvomereza kuti pali ena omwe salinso ndi malingaliro awo. Amakhala osangalala kwambiri pamene anthu asinthana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sakonda izi zikachitika. Nthawi zina anthu ngati ine amatchedwa oyambitsa udani, ndipo chifukwa chake sindikufuna kugona ndi amuna!
Akadakonda ndikangokhala chete osintha zogonana zanga, ndikukhala mabodza ndikukana zomwe zidachitika? Inde, zikuwoneka! Amafuna kundiletsa, kundilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo womwe ndimasankha, komanso kundikakamiza kuti ndizitsogolera moyo womwe amawona kuti ndi wofunikira!
Sikuti ndinangosiya kugonana, komanso ndimakhala wosangalala. Ine ndekha ndiziwongolera moyo wanga momwe ndikufuna, osati momwe amandiuzira. Ndinaganiza zosintha kugonana kwanga ndipo ndinazichita.
Kugwira mawu ochirikiza ana:
Ndili pano!
Sindingatengenso ulemu!
Kuzolowera!
Nkhani yonse m'Chingerezi: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man
Nkhaniyi yatumizidwa kwa owerenga athu.
Poyamba, momwe anthu omwe adandibukitsira akuipiraipira. Ndipo ngati akunena kuti "Tidzipangitsa tokha" ndi kudzinyenga tokha. Nthawi zonse komanso nthawi zonse, ndi gulu lomwe limatipanga omwe tili. Ganizirani izi: muli nokha kunyumba, ena ku kindergarten, wachitatu kusukulu, wachinayi pamsewu. Mukuti ayi? - Eya, inde. Ndipo zomwe zikuchitika ndi achinyamata tsopano zimandiwopsa. Zowopsa kwambiri.
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