Posachedwapa ku Russia pakhala kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa mapulogalamu a achinyamata ndi achinyamata a "kusintha kwa kugonana". Kuyambika kwa lingaliro ili kumachitika chifukwa chokumana ndi achinyamata zokopa zaukali za LGBT* pa intaneti. Ndiye achinyamata, chifukwa cha zaka makhalidwe, mosavuta kupatsirana wina ndi mzake ndi kutengeka maganizo motsogoleredwa ndi curators ndi manipulators.
Gulu la Science for Truth likulandira kwambiri mapempho ochokera kwa makolo omwe asiya kulankhulana ndi ana awo chifukwa cholowa nawo mu gulu la LGBT*. N'zovuta kwa munthu wamba kumvetsetsa kutayika kotereku, koma misozi ndi kuvutika kwa makolo osasangalala awa kungawathandize kumvetsetsa misala yomwe ikuchitika. Nayi nkhani ina yomwe ingachitikire banja lililonse, ngakhale losangalala.
Gulu la *LGBT* limadziwika kuti ndi gulu lochita zinthu monyanyira!
Mwachidule za mwana: wochenjera, iye anakulira mnyamata wokhoza, womvera, wansangala, anali ndi mabwenzi ambiri, nthawi zonse anathandiza makolo ake. Zaka zonse ndinaphunzira kwa zisanu. Iye anaphunzira zinenero 5 pa nthawi yomweyo, maphunziro ndi mendulo ziwiri golide ndipo nawo mu All-Russian Olympiads. Iye ankakonda masewera, skiing kwa zaka 2, volebo kwa zaka 2, ali ndi zaka 15 anathamanga 2 pa sabata 15 Km.
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Werengani zambiri »Malingaliro nthawi zambiri amabwera kuti kulibenso mphamvu.
Ngati tsiku lina sindingathe kupirira, ndikulolani
idzakhala nkhani yathu. Mwina wina angakuthandizeni.
Ndipo ngati sichoncho, zikhale mbiriyakale
moyo umodzi wosweka ndi ululu wamisala.
Tidakumana ndi mayi yemwe mwana wawo wamwamuna wazaka makumi awiri adasiya mwadzidzidzi kuyunivesite mchaka chake chachinayi ndikuthawa kwawo kuti pasakhale wina womuletsa "kusintha zogonana". Zonsezi zidayamba zaka zingapo zapitazo ndikulankhula ndi msungwana wachilendo kwambiri pa intaneti, yemwe ali ndi chizolowezi chomenyera, kugonjera komanso gynemimethophilia - kukopa amuna azovala zazimayi komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Msungwanayo amangotchula mwana wake wamwamuna "msungwana wanga wokondedwa." Amakhala ndi malingaliro okhudza iye nthawi zonse komanso malingaliro motsutsana ndi amayi ake ndi abale ake. Malangizo a mtsikanayo, mwana wamwamuna adachoka mumzinda ndikudula ubale uliwonse ndi abale ake, kuwaletsa pamawebusayiti ndikusintha nambala yafoni. Pansipa timapereka mwachidule kalata yochokera kwa amayi ake yodzala ndi zowawa komanso kutaya mtima.
Nkhani yowona mtima ya munthu amene kale anali mwamuna kapena mkazi, yomwe ikufotokoza za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku wa "ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha"—kugonana kosatha, kugonana kwachiwerewere ndi matenda ena okhudzana nawo, zibonga, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mavuto a m'mimba, kuvutika maganizo, ndi kusakhutira kosatha komanso kusungulumwa, komwe kumabweretsa mpumulo wakanthawi. Nkhaniyi ili ndi tsatanetsatane wonyansa wa machitidwe a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi zotsatira zake, kusiya zotsalira za ndowe zomwe mosakayikira zidzakhala zovuta kwa owerenga osadziwa. Nthawi yomweyo, amafotokoza molondola kuipa kwa moyo wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, wobisika pansi pa chithunzi chosangalatsa, cha utawaleza. Apa, chowonadi chowawa cha amuna ogonana amuna okhaokha chikuwonetsedwa momwe chilili— chonyansa , chopanda nzeru, komanso chopanda chifundo. "Kukhala mwamuna kapena mkazi wamwamuna" pamapeto pake kumatanthauza kuvutika ndi kupweteka, kodetsedwa ndi ndowe ndi magazi, osati anyamata a maso akulu akugwirana manja mu nthano za fan za yaoi.
Werengani zambiri »Dzina langa ndine Christopher Doyle. Ndine katswiri wa zamaganizo ku International Treatment Foundation , ndipo kale ndinali mwamuna kapena mkazi wogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Werengani zambiri »Wokondedwa wowerenga, dzina langa ndi Jake. Ndine wachiwerewere wakale wazaka makumi awiri kuchokera ku England. Zolemba izi ndi za iwo omwe amatsutsa lingaliro losintha malingaliro azakugonana. Akatswiri aphunzira zakugonana kwazaka zambiri ndipo apeza kuti kugonana kumakhala kosiyanasiyana mwa anthu ambiri. Umboni ukusonyeza kuti malingaliro azakugonana amatha kusintha pamoyo wawo wonse. Ndizowonetseratu kuti anthu ambiri amasintha malingaliro awo pakugonana. Ndine m'modzi wa anthuwa.
Sindimakondanso kugona ndi amuna; atsikana tsopano ali okongola kwambiri kwa ine. Poyamba sindinkaganiza choncho, koma tsopano ndikuganiza.
Nthawi ina, kugona tulo usiku, ndinadziyerekeza ndili m'manja mwa munthu wina, tsopano ndimatha kudziyerekeza ndekha ndi mtsikana wamkazi.
Ena sasangalala ndi izi. Sakhala otsimikiza za kugonana kwawo kotero kuti sangathe kuvomereza kuti pali ena omwe salinso ndi malingaliro awo. Amakhala osangalala kwambiri pamene anthu asinthana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sakonda izi zikachitika. Nthawi zina anthu ngati ine amatchedwa oyambitsa udani, ndipo chifukwa chake sindikufuna kugona ndi amuna!
Akadakonda ndikangokhala chete osintha zogonana zanga, ndikukhala mabodza ndikukana zomwe zidachitika? Inde, zikuwoneka! Amafuna kundiletsa, kundilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo womwe ndimasankha, komanso kundikakamiza kuti ndizitsogolera moyo womwe amawona kuti ndi wofunikira!
Sikuti ndinangosiya kugonana, komanso ndimakhala wosangalala. Ine ndekha ndiziwongolera moyo wanga momwe ndikufuna, osati momwe amandiuzira. Ndinaganiza zosintha kugonana kwanga ndipo ndinazichita.
Kugwira mawu ochirikiza ana:
Ndili pano!
Sindingatengenso ulemu!
Kuzolowera!
Nkhani yonse m'Chingerezi: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man
Nkhani yomwe yatumizidwa kwa ife ndi owerenga athu.
Poyamba, momwe anthu omwe adandibukitsira akuipiraipira. Ndipo ngati akunena kuti "Tidzipangitsa tokha" ndi kudzinyenga tokha. Nthawi zonse komanso nthawi zonse, ndi gulu lomwe limatipanga omwe tili. Ganizirani izi: muli nokha kunyumba, ena ku kindergarten, wachitatu kusukulu, wachinayi pamsewu. Mukuti ayi? - Eya, inde. Ndipo zomwe zikuchitika ndi achinyamata tsopano zimandiwopsa. Zowopsa kwambiri.
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