Ku 1987, kutalika kwa Perestroika ku Soviet Union, perestroika wina adayamba ku America. Azibwenzi awiri a gay kuchokera ku yunivesite ya Harvard, m'modzi mwa iwo anali katswiri pa zaubwenzi ndipo wina ndi wamanjenje, adatulutsa nkhani yotchedwa "Kukonzanso kwamitundu ina",, Yomwe inafotokoza mfundo zazikuluzomwe zakonzera kusintha chikhalidwe cha anthu wamba aku America komanso momwe amaonera kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Dongosolo ili latengedwa ndipo kuvomerezedwa mu februamu 1988 ku "msonkhano wankhondo" ku Warrenton, komwe 175 otsogola otsogolera dziko lonse lapansi adakumana. Tsopano, tikayang'ana m'mbuyo, titha kunena kuti mapulani awo sanakwaniritsidwe bwino, koma anapitilira: mchaka cha 2011, oyang'anira aku Obama adalengeza kuti "kumenyera ufulu waamavuto azikhalidwe zakugonana" kutsogolo kwa mfundo zakunja zaku America, kusinthira America kukhala malingaliro apadziko lonse a LGBT, ndi 2015 Khothi Lalikulu ku U.S. lalamula mayiko onse kuti alembetse ndi kuvomereza ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Dongosolo la activist gay lidafotokozedwa mwatsatanetsatane pabukhu la 400 "Pambuyo pa Mpira: Momwe America idzagonjetsere mantha ake ndi chidani cha ma gay mu ma 90's". Womenyera ufulu wa LGBT Igor Kochetkov (munthu yemwe akuchita ngati wothandizila kunja) m'nkhani yake "Mphamvu zandale zadziko lonse la LGBT: momwe ochita zachiwonetsero akwaniritsira cholinga chawo" adati ntchitoyi yakhala "zilembo" za olimbirana ntchito a LGBT padziko lonse lapansi, kuphatikiza ku Russia, ndipo ambiri akupitilizabe kutsatira izi. Otsatirawa ndi zochuluka m'buku ndi m'nkhani yapitayo.

«After The Ball - gay manifesto cha makumi asanu ndi anayi "

Moyo wama gay ku America ndiwovuta ndipo silikulonjeza kuti zinthu zidzasintha pokhapokha ngati chinthu chachitika mwachangu kusintha malingaliro olimbana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Malinga ndi olimbikitsa ambiri, pali njira ziwiri zaulere: kudziwitsa (i.e. kufalitsa) ndi ndale. Kufalitsa nkhani zabodza ndikokwera mtengo kwambiri komanso kovuta, kotero, olimbikitsa zachiwonetsero amayang'ana pa ndale, kuwonetsetsa kuti amuna ndi akazi ali ndi ufulu wogwira nawo ntchito zalamulo. Oyambitsa matenda a Gay poyambilira adayesa kupusitsa makhoti ku America pamaziko a Bill of Ufulu, koma makhothi ambiri adazilandira. Chifukwa chake, omenyera ufulu ambiri adatembenukira ku njira zolimbirira kunong'oneza m'makutu mwa ogwira ntchito wamba komanso owolowa manja paboma lonse. Cholinga chinali kumaliza mgwirizano kapena chiwembu ndi omwe ali ndiulamuliro kuti azikhala patsogolo pa malingaliro a anthu kapena kunyalanyaza.

Nthawi zina malangizowa amagwira ntchito: malamulo ndi mfundo zambiri (zomwe zimalepheretsa njira ya demokalase) yovomerezedwa ndi makhonsolo amizinda tsopano imateteza ufulu wachibwenzi m'mizinda. Zambiri mwa kupambana kumeneku ndi kuwerengera nduna zosankhidwa, zomwe zimayendetsedwa ndi gulu logonana amuna okhaokha, motero akuwonetsa minyewa yawo yosankha ndale kumbuyo.

Komabe, njira yakumangira chiwembu chapamwamba nthawi zambiri imakhala yopanda tanthauzo pakanthawi kochepa komanso pang'onopang'ono kwa nthawi yayitali. Pamapeto pake, ngakhale chiwembu chingapangidwe ndipo mgwirizano uliwonse wamalamulo ukatsirizidwa, udzalemba m'mchenga wamchere. Mobwerezabwereza, anthu achipembedzo amatichotsera zomwe takwanitsa kuchita ndi mkwiyo waukulu pagulu. Ngati chiwembu cha osankhika sichikugwirizana ndi kusintha kwakukulu pamalingaliro a anthu, adzasesedwa ngati nyumba yamakhadi poyambanso kamphepo kotsutsa. Kupambana kwathu kwandale kungalimbikitsidwe kwambiri ndi ntchito yofalitsa nkhani.

Tikufuna kuti tilingalire njira yolingaliridwa bwino komanso yamphamvu monga yomwe ikunenedweratu ndi adani awo kwa amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kapena, ngati mungakonde, lingaliro lamanyonga monga adani athu.

Yakwana nthawi yoti muphunzire kuchokera ku Madison Avenue likulu la malonda otsatsa ku America - pafupifupi. pa.] momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zojambula zolemera. Achesi ayenera kukhazikitsa kampeni yayikulu yayikulu mawailesi. Tikulankhula zabodza. Cholinga ndi zotsatira zabodza za abambo ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikupititsa patsogolo kulolerana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe, mwa lingaliro lathu, ndi chinthu chabwino.

Ntchito yoyamba mu bizinesi iyi ndi desensitization. [kubweza pang'onopang'ono] anthu aku America zokhudzana ndi ma gay ndi ufulu wawo. Kukhumudwitsa anthu ndikuwathandiza kuti ayang'anire kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mosatengera momwe akumvera. Zoyenera, ma strights amayenera kuyesa kusiyana pakukonda kwa kugonana monga kusiyana pakumvekera kwa ayisikilimu kapena masewera: amakonda sitiroberi, ndipo ndimakonda vanilla; amakonda baseball, ndipo ndimakonda mpira - palibe chapadera.

Osachepera pa gawo loyambirira, timangoyesetsa kusokoneza anthu osati china chilichonse. Sitifunikira "kuvomereza" kapena "kumvetsetsa" kwathunthu kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi anthu wamba a ku America, komanso sitingathe kudalira. Mutha kuiwala kuyesa kutsimikizira anthu kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chinthu chabwino, koma ngati mutha kuwapangitsa kuganiza kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chinthu chinanso chomwe sichiyenera kupitilira, ndiye kuti nkhondo yanu ndi yaufulu walamulo ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Ndipo kuti akwaniritse izi, ma gay, monga gulu lapadera, ayenera kusiya kuwoneka osamvetsetseka, achilendo, onyansa komanso otsutsa. Zidzatengera kampeni yayikulu yodziwitsa anthu kuti asinthe mawonekedwe a gay ku America. Kampeni iliyonse yofuna kulanda boma iyenera kuchita izi:

[1] Nenani zokhudzana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngati mokulira

Mfundo zoyambira malangizowa ndizosavuta: pafupifupi chikhalidwe chilichonse chimayamba kuoneka ngati chabwinobwino ngati mumakumana nacho mdera lanu. Kuvomerezeka kwa zatsopanozi zimadalira kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe amatsatira kapena kuvomereza. Poyamba, zatsopano zimakhumudwitsa wina. Chifukwa chake masiku akale, ambiri adadzidzimuka ndi utoto, kudya nsomba za golide ndi kugonana asanakwatirane. Komabe, ngati Joni wamba samva kukakamizidwa kuti achite zomwezo, ndipo izi sizikuwopseza chitetezo chake chakuthupi komanso zachuma, ndiye kuti amazolowera ndipo moyo umapitilira. Wokakamira amatha kugwedeza mutu ndikuganiza kuti: "Anthu akupenga lero," koma m'kupita kwa nthawi zomwe angatsutse zingakhale zomveka bwino, zoganiza, komanso zopanda chidwi.

Kuti tiletse chidwi chachikulu cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndikofunikira kuti anthu ambiri azilankhula zambiri pamutuwu. osagwirizana kapena kuvomereza mawu. Ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "gay" kapena "amuna ogonana amuna okhaokha", chifukwa amamveka kuti ndi osagwirizana ndi "amuna kapena akazi okhaokha". Kukambirana momasuka komanso mosabisa mawu kumapangitsa mutu wovuta kukhala wachinsinsi, wachilendo, wochimwa, komanso womasuka. Zokambirana pafupipafupi zimapereka chithunzithunzi chakuti malingaliro pagulu pankhaniyi agawika, ndikuti gawo lofunika - nzika zapamwamba kwambiri komanso zamakono - amavomereza ngakhale kuchita amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngakhale mikangano yoopsa pakati pa otsutsa ndi oteteza imakwaniritsa cholinga, ngati maukwati olemekezeka ali pakatikati ndi kutsogolo, ndikukhazikitsa kamvekedwe kawo. Chachikulu ndikulankhula za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mpaka zitatopa kwathunthu.

Kupereka "kunena za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" tikutanthauza chimodzimodzi. M'masiku oyambilirawo, anthu asadabwe ndikuwonetsa kuti ali ndi vuto logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. M'malo mwake, zithunzi zachiwerewere ziyenera kuchepetsedwa, ndipo ufulu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha umachepetsedwa momwe angathere pazochitika zachikhalidwe. Ngamila yoyamba iponyere mphuno yake m'chihema, ndipo pokhapokhapo bulu wake wosavulala.       

Palibe chofunikira kwambiri ndi komwe tidzakambirane. Makanema olaula, makanema ndi kanema wawayilesi ndi omwe amapanga zithunzithunzi zamphamvu kwambiri pazachitukuko. Banja wamba laku America limawonera kanema kwa maola opitilira asanu ndi awiri patsiku. Wotchi iyi imatsegulira khomo lolowera mumayendedwe omwe mungathe kutsogolera kavalo wa Trojan. Kutsimikiza kudzachitika kudzera mu uthenga wokhudzana ndi chibadwidwe cha izi. Pakadali pano, Hollywood ya gay yatipatsa chida chobisika kwambiri munkhondoyi kuti tilepheretse anthu onse. Pang'onopang'ono, pazaka khumi zapitazi, azithunzithunzi za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi mitu ya gay adayikidwa mu mapulogalamu ndi makanema apakanema. Ndipo ngakhale nthawi zambiri izi zimachitidwa pofuna kukwaniritsa chisangalalo komanso nthabwala, zotsatira zake zimakhala zolimbikitsa.

Kanema wanthawi yayikulu wonena za kugonana kwa achichepere "Amavomerezedwa onse", omwe akuwonetsedwa nthawi yayikulu kwambiri pa 1985, ndi chimodzi mwazitsanzo zambiri zowonetsa zazithunzithunzi pakuwala. Koma izi ziyenera kukhala chiyambi chabe champhamvu kwambiri cha amuna gay America.

Kodi msonkhano wokambirana momasuka komanso wazitali pamitu yokhudza kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ungathe kukwiyitsa otsutsa okonda kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha? Ayi sichoncho. Ngakhale malingaliro a pagulu ndi gwero lalikulu la mfundo zovomerezeka, pali ulamulilo wina - chipembedzo. Mipingo yokhazikika ikatsutsana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, titha kuchita zinthu ziwiri zokha kukhumudwitsa azimayi owona. Choyamba, titha kudzutsa madzi amakhalidwe abwino. Izi zikutanthauza kuthandizira matchalitchi amtunduwu, kudzutsa malingaliro athu azachipembedzo kuti azitha kumasulira mosavomerezeka zaziphunzitso zam'baibulo, ndikuwonetsa kudana ndi kusagwirizana.

Kachiwiri, titha kupeputsa ulamuliro wamatchalitchi amtundu wina m'maso mwa omvera olimbikira, powawonetsera kuti mabungwe atha ntchito komanso osasunthika omwe samayendera nthawi komanso malingaliro aposachedwa a psychology. Pokana chikhumbo chachipembedzo cha nthawi zakale, ndikofunikira kukhazikitsa chikhumbo champhamvu kwambiri cha sayansi ndi malingaliro a anthu (chishango ndi lupanga la "humanism yanchalitchi").

Mgwirizanowu wopanda chiyero udagwirizana bwino ndi matchalitchi m'mbuyomu, pamitu yokhudza kusudzulana ndi kuchotsa mimba. Mothandizidwa mothandizana ndi zachidziwikire za kufala komanso kuvomerezeka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mgwirizanowu ungagwire ntchito pano.

[2] Ikani ma gay monga ozunzidwa, osati otsutsana nawo mwankhanza

Pa kampeni iliyonse yomvera anthu chisoni, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ayenera kuululika ngati ozunzidwa omwe akufunika chitetezo. Ngati, M'malo mwake, ma gay akaperekedwa ngati fuko lamphamvu komanso lonyada lomwe likulimbikitsa machitidwe osakhala achinsinsi komanso osochera, iwo adzadziwika ngati chiwopsezo cha pagulu chomwe chimalungamitsa kukana ndi kuponderezedwa.

Pachifukwa ichi, tiyenera kusiya kuyeserera poyera "kunyada kwathu" tikamatsutsana ndi fano la "gay". Tiyenera kukhala pamzere wabwino, kupatsa chidwi anthu owongoka ndi kuchulukana kwawo, kumbali imodzi, osayambitsa kukwiya kwawo - "Ali ponseponse!" - -. Cholinga cha chithunzi cha wozunzidwayo ndikupangitsa kuti anthu owongoka mtima akhale omasuka, komanso kukhazikitsa maziko osinthira omwe athandize anthu owongoka kuti azindikire ndi amiseche komanso azimvetsetsa momwe awaponderezedwera.

Ntchito yofalitsa zithunzi za "ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" mawailesi atolankhani igwiritse ntchito zithunzi zomwe zimachepetsa chiwopsezo cha anthu wamba, kuchepetsa kudikira kwawo ndikuwonjezera mwayi wokhala akuzunzidwa. Kuchokera pamachitidwe abwino, izi zikutanthauza kuti masaya osisamba pakhungu, ochita zakudula komanso amuna achimuna sangawonekere pazosangalatsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Zithunzi zamasiku onse achichepere okongola, achikulire ndi amayi okongola adzatenga zinthu zofunika kwambiri, osatchula makolo ndi abwenzi omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Titha kunenanso kuti kumayambiriro kwa kampeni yofalitsa nkhani, amuna wamba ayenera kuyimiridwa moonekeratu kuposa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, popeza malingaliro a anthu owongoka mtima kwa asamalidwe achisawawa ndi ocheperako, ndipo tsankho lawo silowonekera ndipo silambiri. Amayi nthawi zambiri amadziwika kuti samakhala wowopseza komanso amakhala pachiwopsezo chambiri kuposa abambo, motero amatha kudzetsa chisoni. Sizikunena kuti magulu omwe ali m'magawo akutali kwambiri ovomerezeka, monga NAMBLA, ^{[North America Association of Love for Men and Boys]} sayenera kutenga nawo mbali pamtundu wotere konse: omwe angathe kubereka ana sangawoneke ngati ozunzidwa.

Pali mauthenga awiri ofunikira okhudzana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo omwe amayenera kulumikizidwa. Poyamba, ndikofunikira kutsimikizira anthu onse kuti ogonana ndi omwe amakhudzidwa ndi zochitika zina, komanso kuti amasankha malingaliro awo pazakugonana kuposa momwe angasankhe kutalika, khungu, maluso kapena malire. Ngakhale kuti, mwachiwonekere, malingaliro azakugonana kwa anthu ambiri ndi chipangidwe cha kuyanjana pakati pa kubadwa kwamkati ndi zinthu zachilengedwe muubwana ndi unyamata, tikuumirira kuti pazifukwa zonse zofunikira, ziyenera kuganiziridwa kuti amuna ogonana amuna ndi akazi amabadwa mwanjira imeneyi.        

Pomwe tikuzindikira poyera kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi mwayi wosankha, tikutsegula bokosi la Pandora lotchedwa "kusankha koyenera ndi chimo," ndikuwapatsa iwo okakamira ndodo kukamenya. Zowongolera ziyenera kukhutitsidwa kuti kukhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi zachilengedwe kwa ena monga kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sanasankhe chilichonse, palibe amene adawanyenga kapena kuwanyenga.

Ntchito zawo sizotsutsana mwadala - sizachilengedwe kwa iwo, chifukwa chake sayenera kulandira milandu yongofanana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Awa ndi ngozi chabe, ndi 1 kupita ku 10 mwayi woti wina abadwe gay ndipo wina akhale wowongoka. Mwamuna aliyense yemwe ndi wamkazi ayenera kukhulupilira kuti izi zitha kuchitika kwa iye.

Amuna amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ayenera kudziwa omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngati ozunzidwa. Sitiyenera kuwapatsa zifukwa zowonjezera kuti athe kunena kuti: "Sali ngati ife." Pachifukwa ichi, anthu omwe akuchita nawo ntchito zotsatsa anthu ayenera kukhala olemekezeka, owona mtima, owoneka bwino, oyenera kulemekezedwa malinga ndi mfundo za anthu owongoka mtima, komanso owoneka bwino. M'mawu ena, ayenera kukhala osadziwika kuchokera kwa anthu owongoka omwe tikufuna kufikira. Pokhapokha izi zitachitika ndiye kuti uthengawo udawerengedwa molondola: "Anthu awa ndianthu oyimbidwa ndi mwala woyipa, womwe ungandichitikire."

Kalata yachiwiri idzafanizira maukwati ngati omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza pagulu. Ambiri omwe ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha samadziwa za mavuto omwe amabwera chifukwa chogonana, choncho amafunika kuwonetsa zithunzi zankhanza zozunza amiseche, kulingalira kusowa kwa ntchito ndi nyumba, kutayika kwa ana, kunyazitsidwa pagulu ndi zina zambiri.

[3] Apatseni otetezaowo kuti akuona kuti akuchita bwino

Ntchito yofalitsa nkhani yomwe imayimira anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo imalimbikitsa anthu owongoka mtima kukhala owalimbikitsa ayenera kuthandiza omwe avomereza kuti awavomereze ndi kuwafotokozera. Palibe akazi ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso amuna ochepa amuna, omwe angafune kuteteza amuna kapena akazi anzawo motere. Ambiri aiwo angakonde kutsata zomwe azidzuka kuti azithandizira pa mfundo zina zachilungamo, malamulo kapena kufanana pakati pagulu. Gulu lathu lachigawo siliyenera kuthandiza mwachindunji zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha; m'malo mwake, tsankho liyenera kutengedwa ngati mutu waukulu. Ufulu wa ufulu wa kuyankhula, ufulu wa malingaliro, ufulu wothandizira, chilungamo ndi chitetezo chofanana ndi lamulo - izi zikuyenera kukhala gawo lathu.

Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti gulu la gay limatengere bizinesi yake pamlingo wovomerezeka ndi malamulo ovomerezeka, chifukwa owalimbikitsa ake osakwatirana ayenera kukhala ndi mayankho ogwira mtima pazotsutsana ndi mdani wawo. Odana ndi a Homo amavala momwe akumvera kunyansidwa mu miinjiro yozizwitsa ya ziphunzitso zachipembedzo, choncho, oyimira ufulu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ayenera kukhala okonzekera kukumana ndi ziphunzitso ndi mfundo.

[4] Kuwonetsa Amatsenga mu Kuwala Kabwino

Kuti "wogwiridwayo" abweretse chikondi pakati pa anthu owongoka mtima, ayenera kuwonetsedwa ngati munthu wamba. Koma mutu wowonjezereka wa kampeniyo, wamphamvu komanso wankhanza, uyenera kulipira mzinthu zomwe zilipo za azimayi ndi amuna omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kuwapereka ngati mizati yofunika kwambiri pagulu. Inde, inde, tikudziwa - tsenga ili ndi lakale kwambiri kotero kuti limayamba. Ochepa ena amagwiritsa ntchito zolengeza zawo monyadira, nati: "Kodi mumadziwa kuti munthu wamkuluyu ndi m'modzi wa ife?" Komabe, uthenga woterewu ndi wofunikira kwa anthu owongoka omwe amangoyimira amuna achimuna ngati achilendo, osungulumwa komanso omwe amangodzipha kulanda ana.

Udindo wolemekezeka wa amuna kapena akazi otchuka kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi wodabwitsa. Kuchokera kwa Socates kupita ku Shakespeare, kuyambira kwa Alexander the Great kupita kwa Alexander Hamilton, kuchokera ku Tchaikovsky kupita ku Bessie Smith, kuchokera ku Michelangelo kupita ku Walt Whitman, kuchokera ku Safo kupita ku Gertrude Stein - mndandandawu ndikudziwika bwino, koma ndizowopsa kwa a heterosexual America [komanso, zonena za mbiri yakale zimayamwa kuchokera pachala chodziwika bwino]. Ziwerengero zam'mbuyomu zotchuka ndizofunika kwambiri kwa ife pazifukwa ziwiri: zoyambirira, iwo chakufa chosawoneka, ngati msomali, ndipo chifukwa chake sichingakane chilichonse kapena kuyimba mlandu chifukwa cha kuipitsidwa. 

Kachiwiri, koposa zonse, zabwino komanso zomwe akwaniritse otchuka achimasomawa sangatsutsidwe kapena kuchotsedwa, popeza zolemba zakale zidawakonzera kale simenti yosawonongeka. Mwa kuyang'ana pawonekedwe lake lamtambo pa ngwazi zotchuka zotere, njira yolankhulirana mwaluso imatha kupangitsa gulu la gay kuti lizioneka ngati mulungu wa chitukuko chakumadzulo munthawi yochepa kwambiri.

Nthawi yomweyo, tisaiwale za kuvomerezedwa ndi anthu otchuka, omwe angakhale owongoka komanso azigonana (komanso amoyo, kuti asinthe), koma ayenera kukondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa ndi anthu. Wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amaletsa kugonana kwa akazi okhaokha mwa kupereka chithunzithunzi chabwino chomwe chimasemphana ndi zozizwitsa, ndipo munthu wowongoka amapereka mwayi kwa anthu ogwirizana. Mulimonsemo, malingaliro omwe angakhalepo pakati pazovuta azikhala chimodzimodzi ndi kuthekera kwa kusinthika:

• Ndimakonda Mr. Celeb

• A Celeb ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amalemekeza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

• Chifukwa chake ndiyenera kusiya kuvomereza Mr. Celeb kapena kuyamba kulemekeza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. [chodabwitsa chotchedwa "c disitive dissonance." Chitsanzo chabwino ndi wosewera mpira Ronaldo kapena wizard Dumbledore.]

[5] Kuwonetsa Ozunza mu Kuwala Koyipa

Pakadali pano mu kampeni yofalitsa nkhani za ufulu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pambuyo poti kutsatsa kwachinyengo kwatchuka, nthawi yakwana yolimbana ndi otsutsa. Kuti tiwamize, ndikofunikira kuwalimbikitsa. Cholinga chathu apa ndi ziwiri. Choyamba, timayesetsa kusintha chodzilungamitsa tokha ndi chisangalalo chakunyumba kwathu mwa anthu wamba ndi manyazi komanso kudziimba mlandu. Kachiwiri, tikufuna kupangitsa kuti anti-gay anthu azioneka onyansa kwambiri kuti anthu wamba aku America sangafune kuyanjana nawo.

Zithunzi zikuyenera kuwonetsedwa pagulu la anthu okonda zachiwerewere, omwe zikhalidwe zawo ndi zikhulupiriro zawo zimanyansitsa Central America. Zithunzizi zingaphatikizeponso:

• Ku Klux Klan, ofuna kuti amuna azitena awotchedwe amoyo kapena osaphatikizidwa;

• Alaliki a kumwera a kummwera akutsamira ndi chidani chopanda tanthauzo kotero kuti chikuwoneka bwino komanso chosangalatsa;

• Kuwopseza achifwamba, achifwamba ndi akaidi omwe amayankhula zodekha za "zachabe" zomwe adapha kapena akufuna kupha;

• Ulendo waku ndende zozunzirako a Nazi, komwe amuna omwe amagonana amuna okhaokha ankazunzidwa ndikuwazunza.

Ndi malingaliro oterowo, tikufuna kupanga chiwonetsero cha kubedwa kwa nyumba kukhala chosavomerezeka kotero kuti ngakhale anthu ouma khosi kwambiri pamapeto pake azikhala chete pagulu, monga osankhana ndi atsankho okhwima masiku ano.

Chinyengo chake ndikupangitsa kuti nyumba yanyumba iwoneke ngati mkangano wamanyazi nthawi iliyonse yomwe amatsutsa gay. Izi zitha kuchitika pogwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zowoneka bwino kapena mawu achipongwe osagwirizana ndi chithunzi chake choganiza cha munthu wamakhalidwe abwino yemwe ali mgulu la anthu. Chifukwa chake, kutsatsa mabodza kumatha kuwonetsera ngati anthu osawoneka ngati amwano komanso olimba mtima omwe samangonena kuti ndi "zachabe", komanso "bulu wakuda", "Myuda" ndi mauthenga ena amanyazi omwe sioyenera Mkristu. Mutha kuwawonetsa momwe amadzudzulidwa, kudedwa komanso kupewa. Mutha kuwonetsa maukwati omwe akukumana ndi mavuto akulu chifukwa chakubera mtima [kanema "Masewera Akutsatira", mwachitsanzo] -Anthu ambiri ogonana amanyazi ndi omwe amachititsa manyazi. Mwachidule, Homophobia iyenera kukhala yolumikizana ndi mitundu yonse yomwe munthu wosabereka angachite manyazi kukhala nayo, komanso ndi zotsutsana ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa za iye. Chifukwa chake, kuukira kumachitika podzidalira komanso kusangalala podzudzulidwa.

Kumbukirani kuti wobwebweta amafunafuna kuvomerezedwa ndi chifundo kuchokera kwa anthu, koma akaona kuti wina wonga iye sakuvomerezedwa kapena kuvomerezedwa, amayamba kukayikira komanso kuchita manyazi. Inde, kampeni yomenyera chipongwe imakwiitsa adani athu okonda kwambiri. Koma kodi tinganene chiyani? Ikutchedwa katundu - kukwera kumbuyo komwe America yonse ikuwonera. Komabe, tiyenera kuyesetsa kuzichita pang'onopang'ono. Atolankhani sangalole mwachangu kuwukira mwachindunji pazomwe zimawopseza kwambiri, koma amatha kuloleza kutchulidwa kwa nkhanza za Nazi, makona atatu a pinki monga chizindikiro cha kuzunza, etc. Mbiriyakale ya Nazi yokha ikakhala chiyambi chabwino chodzetsa adani athu. Kupatula apo, ndani amene akufuna kukhala ndi chochita ndi Anazi? (Argentina sawerenga.)

[6] Kwezani ndalama

Kampeni yayikulu iliyonse yamtunduwu ifunika ndalama zambiri kuposa miyezi ingapo kapena zaka zikubwerazi. Kutsatsa kogwira mtima ndikosangalatsa mtengo: zimatenga madola mamiliyoni angapo kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino. Akuluakulu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha a 10-15 miliyoni amakhala mdziko muno. Ngati aliyense wa iwo apereka madola awiri okha pantchitoyo, ndiye kuti bajeti yathu siyikhala yoipa kuposa ya adani athu omveka kwambiri pabizinesi yathu. Popeza ma gay safunika kuthandiza mabanja ndipo ndalama zomwe amapeza nthawi zambiri zimakhala zapamwamba, amatha kupereka ndalama zambiri. Gulu latsopanoli liyenera kuyambitsa mgwirizano wogwirizana komanso wopereka dziko lonse lapansi ndi opereka odziwika komanso osadziwika, onse ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, osagwirizana ndi chilungamo chachitukuko.

Pachiyambi, kuyitanitsa ndalama zofunikira kuyenera kukhazikitsidwa pokhapokha kudzera pa makina osindikizira gay - magazini, manyuzipepala, otulutsa maluwa ndi mipiringidzo, etc. Kuthandizanso kutha kubweranso kudzera m'mabungwe amtundu wakomweko azamalonda kumayunivesite komanso kumatauni. Pomaliza, zopereka zimapemphedwa kukapempha mwachindunji kwa atolankhani apakati. Ngati gulu la amuna azitabane silitha kupanga ndalama yayikulu kuti ayambitse kampeniyo, ndiye kuti simuyenera kudalira kupita patsogolo kwakukulu kokhudza ufulu wama gay posachedwa.

Pakadali pano, ndalama za LGBT zikuperekedwa kale ndi makampani apadziko lonse lapansi komanso mayiko. More.

Ndikofunikira kuthyolako mu TV, apo ayi palibe chomwe chingabwere

Popanda kuonera wailesi yakanema, wailesi komanso makina osindikizira, kampeniyo siyabwino. Komabe, izi ndizovuta, chifukwa mawu oti "gay" ndi "amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" amachititsa chidwi, ndipo atolankhani ambiri amakana kuvomereza zomwe zingakhumudwitse bizinesiyo ndikuyambitsa mkwiyo kwa anthu ndi othandizira. Popeza zodandaula zosavuta sizikuwoneka ngati zotheka, tinayenera kukambirana pang'onopang'ono ndi makampani opanga zotsatsa kumbuyo kwa zifaniziro kuti nkhani zofunika kwambiri kwa gulu la amuna gay zilandiridwe. Koma makonzedwe oterewa siabwino, chifukwa chithunzithunzi cha gulu la gay chimayendetsedwa ndi zochitika mwachisawawa, osati ndi dongosolo lokwanira. Kodi timaduka bwanji pachipata cha media chachikulu?

Yambani ndi kusindikiza

Manyuzipepala ndi magazini azikhala ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi ndalama zotsatsa amuna kapena akazi anzawo kuposa wailesi yakanema komanso wailesi, makamaka chifukwa mtengo wotsatsa wotsatsa nthawi zambiri umakhala wotsika. Koma ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti atolankhani, kwakukulu, amawerengedwa ndi anthu ophunzira kwambiri aku America, omwe ambiri amakonda kuvomereza kuti agonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chifukwa chake, kuti tigwiritse ntchito bwino madola athu, tiyenera kudumpha owerenga New Republic ndi New Left Review, ndikuyang'ana pazosindikiza zambiri monga Time, People ndi National Enquirer. 

Pomwe tikuwononga kwambiri ma kinko ndiinki ya inki, ndikofunikira kutenthetsa anthu onse ndi kampeni yopyapyala yokhala ndi zikwangwani panjira. M'mawu olimba mtima, amdima, mauthenga angapo osatsutsa ayenera kugawidwa:

KU RUSSIA MUTANI KUKHALA. KU AMERICA, TILI NDI CHIYEMBEKEZO CHOFUNA KUKHALA Nokha. . . NDIPONSO WABWINO.

Kapena

ANTHU ATHANDIZA, KOMA SAMAKHULULUKIRA - NDI ZOFUNA ZA AMERICA.     

Ndi zina zotero. Zolemba zilizonse zimakopa chidwi cha dziko lawo ndikulengeza zomwe zili zokomera anthu - mtundu wa zotsatsa zomwe akufuna kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu. Zolemba zilizonse zimasainidwa ndi zilembo zazing'ono: "Zoperekedwa ndi National Gay Committee" kuti apange mayanjano abwino ndikukopa anthu kuti awathandizire.

Gawo lachiwonetsero cha 1 - kukhala wowoneka

Kuti musunthe TV ndi wailesi, pulani yovuta kwambiri ingafunike. Mwacibadwa, kwa oyamba kumene, tiyenera kupitiliza kulimbikitsa kutuluka kwa otsogola otere mu mafilimu ndi makanema pa TV. Ziwonetsero za masana zimakhalabe njira yabwino kuti ziwonekere. Koma kuti muchepetse ntchitoyi mwachangu, mutha kuyesa chinyengo kuti mubwereze pazowonera. Zododometsa zomwe tili nazo zingafunike kukonzekera mosamala, koma zimatha kupulumutsa ndalama ndikuwonjezera mawonekedwe ndi kutalika kwa mayendedwe achimuna usiku:

Asanachitike zisankho zotsatira boma, titha kusankha mosankha anthu omwe ali ngati amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Otsatira athu adzatenga nawo gawo pamsonkhano wokonzekera chisankho, pomwe adzatha kupititsa patsogolo ntchito zotsatsa ndi mutu wa gay ndikufuna nthawi yofanana pamlengalenga. Kenako chisanachitike chisankho, atha kusiya mpikisano mokhazikika, ndikupereka mwayi kwa ofunsira amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. 

Pakadali pano, ndikofunikira kuti musamafunse anthu kuti azivotera "kapena" kutsutsa "zokhudzana ndi nkhani zakugonana, chifukwa ambiri adzavota" motsutsana ", ndipo izi zitanthauza kugonjetsedwa kwakukulu chifukwa chathu.

Gawo la Zowoneka la 2 - Kutsatsa kobisika

Pakadali pano, pamene gulu la amuna azitabane alowetsa phazi pakhomo lwanthawi zonse, nthawi yakwana yoti apereke njira zothandizira zodana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo pazotsatsa komanso mapulogalamu a pa TV. Kusunga nthawi ndikofunikira: zopereka ziyenera kupangidwa posachedwa chisankho chathu chikachoka. Ngati makampani apawailesi yakanema akufuna kuoneka osasinthika, m'malo achinyengo, ndiye kuti ali m'thumba lathu. Ngati atayesa kukana, tiziwonetsa kukana kwawo kuwoneka kolakwika komanso mwina kosaloledwa. Tidzangopereka "zotsatsa za gay" zomwe zimapangidwa ndendende zotsatsa zomwe Mormons ndi ena adapereka. Monga mwachizolowezi, owonera adzaona mauthenga okhudzana kwambiri ndi kufunikira kwa mgwirizano wabanja ndi kumvetsetsa, koma nthawi ino wolengeza pamapeto ake adzati: "Izi zidaperekedwa kwa inu ndi National Gay Committee". Chilichonse chimakhala chete komanso chokhazikika.

Gulu logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha liyenera kulumikizana ndi magulu ena olemekezeka a ufulu wachibadwidwe kuti alimbikitse mauthenga ofewa okhudza America ngati malo a aliyense, nthawi zonse kumatha ndi kulumikizana mwachindunji ku National Committee kapena gulu lina la amuna ogonana. Mutha kuperekanso mayankho omvera chisoni kuti mupereke thandizo ndi ndalama zothandizira pofufuza za AIDS - ngati ena atero, bwanji?

Gawo lowoneka la 3 - Kusintha kupita ku heavy Artillery

Mukatha kugwiritsa ntchito "njira za salami", kagawo pambuyo pachigawo, titha kupeza mwayi wambiri yofalitsa nkhani, ndi nthawi yoti muchitepo kanthu. Mauthenga athu adzawongoleredwa mwachindunji ku malingaliro ozama a anthu kwa ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, monga onyansa komanso otsutsa otsutsana nawo. Mwachitsanzo, mitundu yotsatirayi ikhoza kuperekedwa kwa otsatsa pa wailesi yakanema kapena wailesi kuti apangitse malingaliro olakwika osatha.

Mtundu wa 1 - kotengera: umboni

Kupangitsa amuna achimuna kuti aziwoneka ngati osamveka, muyenera kulingalira zazifupi zazifupi ndi zithunzi za anyamata kapena atsikana ochokera m'nyumba yoyandikana, achichepere komanso okongola, kapena agogo okoma ndi okoma. Atakhala kunyumba, amayankha mafunso kuchokera kwa yemwe ali ndi mafunso poyang'ana zakukhosi ndi chidaliro, chisangalalo ndi chithumwa. Ndemanga zawo zikuvumbula zinthu zitatu izi:

1. Pali wina wapadera m'moyo wawo yemwe amasunga ubale wotalikirapo (kutsindika kukhazikika kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi okhaokha, kudzipereka);

2. Mabanja awo amawathandiza ndipo ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa iwo (zikutsimikiziridwa pano kuti maukwati sili “otsutsana ndi mabanja” ndipo mabanja sayenera kutsutsana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha).

3. Momwe amadzikumbukirira, nthawi zonse anali amuna ogonana ndipo mwina anabadwa gay. Zachidziwikire, sanasankhe zomwe amakonda (kutsindika kuti zinali zachilengedwe kwa iwo ndipo sanayanjane nawo mwadala). Mafunso azikambirana okha, popanda abambo kapena ana, popeza kutengapo gawo kwawo kudzutsa mafunso okhudzana ndi zovuta zomwe zimachitika pakati pa abwenzi amtunduwu zomwe otsatsa malonda sangalongosole. Bola kutenga chinthu chimodzi nthawi.

Mtundu wa 2 - mayanjano abwino: otchuka

Ngakhale kuvomerezedwa ndi anthu otchuka ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso anthu omvera omwe angakhale achifundo zitha kukhala zothandiza, kunyengo yaku America yodana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, nkhanza zoterezi sizingachitike posachedwa. Chifukwa chake, mawonekedwe otchuka pakadali pano azisonyeza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe ndi otchuka, olemekezeka ... ndi akufa. Zoyimira zingakhale zachisoni komanso zosadziwika.

Fomu ya 3 - yomvera chisoni ozunzidwa: kampeni yathu yothetsa kuzunza ana

Monga tidanenera kale, pali njira zambiri zowonetsera maukwati ngati omwe amachitiridwa tsankho: zithunzi zankhanza, nkhani zakutha kwa ntchito, kusokonekera kwa mabanja, etc. Koma tikuganiza kuti malonda a 30-wachiwiri monga otsatirawa ndi othandiza kwambiri:

Kamera imafikira pang'onopang'ono wachinyamata wazaka zapakati atakhala yekha m'chipinda chamdima. Mnyamatayo ndiwosangalatsa komanso wowoneka bwino, kupatula kuti amamenyedwa ndikuwoneka mwakachetechete, mwakuganiza, komanso akuvutika. Kamera ikamayang'ana pang'onopang'ono kumaso ake, ndemanga zowonjezera: izi zidzachitika kwa mwana m'modzi mwa khumi. Kukula, adzazindikira kuti samakonda zinthu mosiyana ndi abwenzi ake ambiri. Akatsegula, adzasiyidwa. Adzaponderezedwa, kuchititsidwa chipongwe ndi kumenyedwa. Ngati akaulula zakukhosi kwa makolo ake, amatha kumutaya mumsewu. Ena anganene kuti akutsutsana ndi banja. Palibe amene angamulole kuti akhale yekha. Chifukwa chake, adzayenera kubisala. Kuchokera kwa abwenzi, ochokera kubanja. Ndipo ndizovuta. Masiku ano ndizovuta kale kukhala mwana, koma kukhala m'modzi mwa khumi. . . Mauthenga ochokera ku National Gay Committee. 

Kutsatsa koteroko ndikwabwino chifukwa kumawonetsera kuti ndi osalakwa komanso osatetezeka, ovutitsidwa ndi osamvetseka, ambiri modabwitsa, koma osawopseza. Amatinso mawu oti "wotsutsana ndi banja" alibe nzeru komanso achinyengo.

Fomu ya 4 - yodziwitsa ozunzidwa: kusintha maudindo

Anthu ambiri azindikirika bwino ndi mavuto amiseche ngati mafunde atha kukhala nthawi ndi nthawi. Kutsatsa koseketsa kungaphatikizeponso zolemba zotsatsa zotsatirazi:

Kamera imayandikira pakhomo lolimba la thundu kupita kuofesi ya abwana, yomwe imatseguka ndipo kamera (yoyimira inu wowonayo) imalowa mchipinda. Patebulo lalikulu pamakhala thumba lakale lonenepa ndi louma nkhope lomwe likutafuna fodya. Amayang'ana kamera (ie owonera) ndikulira, “Ndiwe iwe, Smithers. Mwathamangitsidwa! " Mawu achichepere akuyankha modabwa, "Koma ... Bambo Thomberg, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito limodzi ndi zaka khumi. Ndimaganiza kuti mukusangalala ndi ntchito yanga. " Abwana akuyankha ndikunyansidwa: "Inde, a Smithers, ntchito yako ndiyokwanira, koma ndidamva mphekesera zoti unawonedwa mtawuni uli ndi chibwenzi. Chibwenzi! Kunena zowona, ndadabwa. Sitilemba ganyu amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pakampaniyi. Tsopano tulukani. " Mawu achichepere amayesa kuyankha, "Koma abwana, izi sizabwino basi! Bwanji mukadakhala inu? " Abwana akuwala mokwiya, kamera ikutuluka mchipindamo, chitseko cholemera chimamenyedwa. Pakhomopo panali chikwangwani chonena kuti "Uthenga wochokera ku National Gay Committee."

Munthu akhoza kulingalira mosavuta za mitu yofananira yokhudzana ndi nyumba kapena tsankho lina.

Mtundu wa 5 - kutanthauza ozunza ozunza: kumoto ngakhale

Tanena kale zithunzi zina zomwe zitha kuvulaza munthu wosapeka kunyumba: okonda zipembedzo azodedwa, Neo-Nazi komanso Ku Klux Klan ziwapangitsa kuti azioneka oyipa komanso oseketsa (ntchito yovuta). Zithunzizi ziyenera kuphatikizidwa ndi zithunzi za omwe amagwiriridwa ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, popeza kuti olengeza izi amatchedwa "njira ya brace". Mwachitsanzo, kwa masekondi angapo mutha kuwona wolalikira wakummwera wakumaso ali ndi timaso tating'onoting'ono tambiri akusitidwa papulupiti mwamphamvu, akufuula "za zolengedwa zoyipa ndi zoyipa izi." Pomwe matope ake akupitilizabe, chithunzicho chimasinthasintha ndikujambula zithunzi za agogo omwe amawoneka abwino, osavulaza komanso okongola; Ndipo timasinthira ku nkhope yakupha ya mlaliki. Kusiyanako kumadzichitira umboni. Zotsatira zake ndizowononga.

Fomu ya 6 - yothandizira: SOS

Nthawi zotsatsa kapena izi zitatha, tiyenera kupempha zopereka kuti ntchitoyi ichitike. Mafoni achindunji ochokera kwa otchuka (makamaka amoyo, zikomo) atha kukhala othandiza pano. Zodandaula zonse zikuyenera kutsindika kuti ndalama zitha kuperekedwa mosadziwika komanso kuti zopereka zonse ndi zachinsinsi. "Sitingakuthandizeni ngati simukuthandiza," ndi zonse.

Nthawi yafika

Takambirana pano njira yakusintha miyezo ya chikhalidwe cha anthu osakwatirana ndi America kudzera pa kampeni. Pali zifukwa zana limodzi zomwe kampeni siyingachitike kapena chifukwa chake imakhala yowopsa. Koma pali zifukwa zosachepera 20 miliyoni zomwe pulogalamu yotereyi imayenera kuyesedwa zaka zikubwerazi: uku ndiko kusangalala komanso chisangalalo cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha m'dziko muno. Monga ochepa omaliza oponderezedwa ku America, ndi nthawi yoti abambo ogonana azitenga nawo gawo limodzi kuti agwirizanenso ndi kunyada komanso mphamvu. Tikhulupirira kuti kampeni ngati iyi, ngakhale mumakonda kapena ayi, ndiyo njira yokha yochitira izi posachedwa. Ndipo, kachiwiri: nthawi ikhoza kutha. Mliri wa Edzi umadzetsa mkwiyo ndi mantha mu mtima mwa akazi achimereka. Pamene kachiromboka kamafalikira pagulu loti agonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, sitiyenera kukhala ndi chinyengo chilichonse chokhudza yemwe akuimbidwa mlanduwu. Zaka 40 zikubwerazi zitha kusankhidwa ndi makumi anayi otsatirawa: amuna azigonana azitenga ufulu wawo ndi kufanana, kapena abwereranso, ngati ndalama zaku America za odedwa osavomerezeka. Kuposa pun: lankhulani tsopano kapena khalani chete kwanthawi yonse.    

Kumasulira kwa gulu la Science for Truth

Mapeto a chidutswa "After The Ball»

Izi zidalembedwa kumapeto kwa 80's, pomwe kampeni yofalitsa nkhaniyo inali itangoyamba kumene, koma masiku ano, atachita bwino kwambiri pankhani zamalamulo ndi zachikhalidwe, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha safunikiranso kunyengerera, ndipo atha kukhala okha. Mpira watha, masks amachotsedwa, zodzoladzola ndi zodzoladzola zimatsukidwa.

Monga momwe olemba LGBT ofalitsa njira amanenera: "Ngamila yoyamba iponyere mphuno yake m'chihemacho, kenako pokhapokha ndi kumbuyo kwake. ”

Zomwe tikuwona tsopano kumadzulo ndi bulu wosawoneka bwino uyu. Koma kamodzi ndi apo zonse zinayamba ndi maulendo abwino okhala ndi mbendera zamitundu ndi zikwangwani zoyitanitsa "chilungamo", "ufulu" ndi "ufulu".

Pano sitingakumbukire mzere kuchokera ku ntchito ya Exupery "The Citadel":

"Khamu lida ufulu kuti liwotche ufulu ndi chilungamo - zowola zawo ...
Wotsogola anafuula, kuteteza ufulu wake kuti avunde. Adapangidwa ndi kuwola, adamenyera nkhondo. Tambala touluka, ndipo maphemwe azikhala ndi ufulu. Ufulu woonekera kwa aliyense. Oyimba adzawathamangitsa. Adzabwera kwa inu nadzaimba za chisautso chachikulu cha maphemwe, atatsala pang'ono kufa. "

Mavuto a gulu la "gay" kudzera m'maso mwa anthu amkati