Mawu. Kuwunika kwachipatala kumaperekedwa pomwe tikukamba za "amuna ndi akazi” kwa mwamuna, ndikulongosolanso chithandizo chotembenuza chomwe adapatsidwa pogwiritsa ntchito pulogalamu ya hypnosuggestive, yomwe idakhala yothandiza kwambiri.

Pakadali pano, zoyesayesa zomwe sizinachitikepo zikuchitika kuti ziletse kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala obwezeretsa, omwe cholinga chake ndikusintha mchitidwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Amasalidwa ndipo samangonena zopanda ntchito, komanso zowopsa mthupi la munthu. Chifukwa chake, Disembala 7, 2016 nyumba yamalamulo ya Malta onse mogwirizana adapereka lamulo loletsa kugwiritsa ntchito njira zobwezeretsa. Pogwiritsa ntchito "kusintha, kupondereza ndikuwononga momwe amuna amagonana kapena amuna," lamuloli limapereka chindapusa kapena ndende. [7] Bundesrat (woyimira mayiko aku Germany) pa 5 June 2020 adavomereza lamulo loletsa mankhwalawa. Deutsche Welle akuti malowa atha kulangidwa ndikumangidwa mpaka chaka chimodzi, komanso kutsatsa ndi kuyimira pakati - chindapusa chofika ma euro 30 [1]. Ku US, zigawo 18 zokha, Puerto Rico ndi Washington DC, zaletsa chithandizo cha kusintha kwa ana. Akuluakulu atha kudzipereka kuchipatala m'dziko lonselo [9]... Instagram ndi Facebook adalengeza kutsekedwa kwa zolemba zonse patsamba lino zomwe zimalimbikitsa kutembenuka mtima [8].

Malingaliro akuti chithandizo chothandizira kutembenuka sikuti sichingogwira ntchito, koma nthawi zonse chimayambitsa kuvulaza thupi ndizabodza. Kutsutsana kofananira kungapezeke m'nkhani zathu [3; 4; 6]. Kuphatikiza apo, ntchito zathu zingapo zatiwonetsa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osinthira [2; 5].

Nayi nkhani yochokera kuchipatala chathu, komwe mankhwala otembenuka mtima anali opambana kwambiri pakukonza chiwongolero cha chilakolako chogonana mwa amuna omwe amakonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

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Wodwala K., wazaka 37, wokwatira zaka 12, asanakhale mu "ukwati waboma" ndi mkazi wake wamtsogolo wazaka 7, ali ndi mwana wamwamuna wazaka 6, walandila maphunziro apamwamba, amagwira ntchito yopanga moŵa m'malo odyera. Mkazi ali ndi zaka 39, ali ndi maphunziro apamwamba azachuma, amagwira ntchito ndi mwamuna wake. Amakhala m'nyumba yazipinda zitatu, ya banja lake, koma posachedwa nyumbayi idzalembetsedwanso kwa wodwalayo ndi mkazi wake. Ndidapempha upangiri pa 3/14.10.2019/XNUMX.

Zizindikiro zakugonana ndi anamnesis. Amanena kuti ali ndi chilakolako chogonana pokhudzana ndi amuna komanso poyerekeza ndi akazi mu chiŵerengero cha 1,5 mpaka 1,0 mwamphamvu yake.

Chifukwa chopempha thandizo chinali chakuti mkazi wake atakumana ndi mbiri yake pa intaneti, adati sadzakhalanso ndi moyo chonchi, ndipo amayenera kudziyesa yekha ("adzakhala ndi anyamata kapena atsikana"). Ngati aganiza kuti ndi anyamatawo, ndiye kuti avomera kusunga kwa onse mawonekedwe a banja lawo, koma nthawi yomweyo azikhala ndiubwenzi wotseguka, ndiye kuti, adzakhala ndi ufulu wogonana ndi amuna ena.

Wodwalayo amakhulupirira kuti kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndizofala, koma amavomereza kuchita zomwe akufuna kuti athetse kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, popeza akuwopa kuti zotsatira zakupitilira kwa machitidwe ake ogonana zitha kubweretsa zovuta polumikizana ndi mwanayo chifukwa chakutha kwa banja, popeza "ukwati waulere" zakuthekera komwe mkazi amalankhula, sikuvomereza. Sangavomereze kuti mkazi wake amagonana ndi amuna ena.

Malinga ndi wodwalayo, pakati pa anthu 99% amuna kapena akazi okhaokha... (Pankhaniyi, ndidamupatsa chidziwitso chenicheni chokhudza kuchuluka kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.) Mkazi wanga atazindikira zakugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, adadzidzimuka kwambiri kotero adaganiza zogwiritsa ntchito mapiritsi omwe adalangizidwa ndi azimayi kuti athetse mimba yomwe akhala akukonzekera kwanthawi yayitali. Adachita izi chifukwa samawona mwayi wopitiliza ubale ndi amuna awo.

Plato (wachikondi) libido adadzuka ali ndi zaka 5-6. Ndikapita ku sukulu ya mkaka, ndinkakonda mtsikana yemwe ndimalankhula naye kwambiri.

Zovuta zolaula... Zaka zakudzuka kwake sizingadziwike.

Ndili ndi zaka 12-13 m'magazini yolaula ndinawona chithunzi cha mwamuna ndi mkazi atagona amaliseche. Kenako adayang'ana pa mbolo yamwamuna. Panali chisangalalo, mtundu wina wa chisangalalo chamkati, erection idawuka, "ndipo sindimadziwa choti ndichite nacho." Panalibe kuzindikira zogonana nthawi imeneyo. Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, malingaliro adayamba kupanga kuti "Ndimakondanso amuna," ngakhale nthawi imeneyo ndimakonda atsikana. “Panali chisokonezo. Kenako sindimatha kuganiza kuti ndingakonde anyamata, ndikudziwonetsa ndekha kuti ndimakonda atsikana. "

Kugonana adatulukira ali ndi zaka 17 kwa anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo, ndipo adadziwonetsa kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Maliseche kuyambira zaka 14-15, "nkhonya", koma osaphimba kumutu. Anatsagana ndi malingaliro azakugonana. M'malingalirowa, panali zithunzi zakugonana ndi amuna. Panalibe zithunzi zachikazi zoonekeratu m'mutu mwanga nthawi imeneyo. Zochita zoyamba kuseweretsa maliseche zimachitika ndikuyang'ana magazini yomwe yatchulidwayi, pomwe adadzizindikiritsa kuti ali ndi mkazi yemwe adagonanapo. Kutulutsa koyamba kunachitika nthawi yoyamba kuseweretsa maliseche. Nditha kudikirira kuti makanema olaula (chiwerewere) awoneke pa TV, kenako ndikudziseweretsa maliseche, ndikuyang'ana kwambiri njirayi. Nthawi yomweyo, sanasamale za omwe anakopeka, amuna kapena akazi ("Sindikudziwa, sindikudziwa konse"). M'nthawi yoyamba, amaliseweretsa maliseche tsiku lililonse. Ngakhale kuyambira zaka 18 adagonana ndi akazi, koma panali malingaliro okondana ndi amuna. Nditha ngakhale kuseweretsa maliseche "pamutuwu." Kuphatikiza apo, akuti kuyambira zaka 18 mpaka 25 panali kuseweretsa maliseche ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma m'moyo weniweni panali zochitika zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Tsopano amadziseweretsa maliseche tsiku lililonse, popeza m'masabata awiri apitawa sanagonane ndi mkazi wake kapena amuna. Kugonana maliseche ndi amuna atatu. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti mayiwo amasangalala. “Ndimayesetsa kuti mkaziyu akhutire momwe ndingathere. M'maguluwa ndimadzizindikiritsa ndekha ndi mwamuna [ie. Ndikumva ngati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha], ndipo sindikufuna kukhala ndi amuna. "

Kuyambira 6 mpaka 8, anali kucheza ndi mwana waku sukulu, yemwe adapita kukamaliza maphunziro ake kusekondale pasukulu ina. Kenako “ndinali wachisoni, panali chipongwe,” popeza mnyamatayu sanamuuze kuti asiya sukulu. Izi zidamupweteka kwambiri wodwalayo chifukwa amamukonda mnyamatayu. Akuti pomwe mnyamatayu "adamulemetsa" nthawi yankhondo, adamva zachiwerewere. Munthawi yonse yakusukulu, makamaka panali atsikana. Makamaka ankasewera masewera a unisex. Ndili ndi zaka 10, ndinkapaka milomo yanga milomo kangapo. Pamsinkhu womwewo, adasintha zovala za amayi anga kangapo. Amayi ake sanamupeze choncho.

Amayiwo amafuna kuti (mwana wawo wachitatu) akhale msungwana, popeza ali ndi abale awiri kuchokera kwa bambo wina yemwe ndi wamkulu kuposa iye (kusiyana ndi zaka 9 ndi 11). Ngakhale pakadali pano, akabwera kwa iye, amamutcha "wokondedwa wanga", ndipo pankhaniyi, "amakunyinyirika". Nthawi zonse ndimamva ngati wachikazi. Zinkawoneka kwa iye kuti izi zimawonetsedwa pamakhalidwe, omwe amafuna kuti athane nawo. Wodwalayo adandifunsa ngati chikhumbo cha amayi ake, pomwe anali ndi pakati ndi iye, chokhala ndi mwana wamkazi, chitha kuwonekera pomwe adayamba.

Kwa nthawi yayitali (kuyambira zaka 7-8 mpaka 30), panali ziwonetsero za "matenda a mbolo yaying'ono". Zinayamba anyamata atangomuwuza kuti anali ndi mbolo yaying'ono. Pambuyo pa zaka 30, adayamba kukhulupirira kuti mbolo yake ndi yayikulu (mulimonse, kutalika kwake ndi 16-17 cm). Abambo ake adamuchititsa manyazi, popeza anali wofooka mwakuthupi. Ankachita mwano kwa mayi a wodwalayo, kumunyoza ndi mawu otukwana ndikumumenya. Chifukwa chake, wodwalayo adakhala ndi lingaliro (likhulupiriro) loti amayi azisamalidwa mofatsa, ndipo izi zimakhudza ubale ndi mkazi wake komanso mchitidwe wogonana kwa iye. Patapita kanthawi, amayi ake adadandaulira abale ake akulu kuti abambo ake, omwe anali chidakwa, amupha. Kenako adamulamula kuti achoke panyumba, zomwe zidachitika. Iye (abambo ake) adapita kukakhala ndi amayi ake ndikukhala komweko mpaka kumapeto kwa masiku ake.

Wodwalayo adayamba chibwenzi ndi atsikana ali ndi zaka 18 pomwe adalowa ku yunivesite. Kenako “kugonana kwakukulu ndi akazi kunayamba. Adadzichotsera malingaliro omwe mwina anthu angamukonde. " Komabe, maubwenzi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adatsogoleredwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chifukwa chake, ndili ndi zaka 17, panali kulumikizana awiri ogonana mkamwa ndi mkazi wazaka 25 yemwe anali ndi ana awiri. Woyambitsa kugonana anali bambo uyu, koma "sanayenera kunyengerera wodwala wathu kwa nthawi yayitali." Ndiye anali "soseji kwambiri", ndipo panalibe wina woti azigawana naye. “Ndimaganiza kuti ndizolakwika, koma ndimafuna. Ndipo kuyambira zaka 18 adakopeka ndi akazi okhaokha, ndipo ngati amasamala amuna, amapondereza. " Akuwerenga ku yunivesite, adakhala koyamba ndi mtsikana m'modzi pafupifupi chaka chimodzi, kenako adagonana ndi atsikana ena kamodzi. Ali ndi zaka 18 (mu 2000) adakumana ndi mkazi wake wamtsogolo, ndipo kuyambira nthawi imeneyo akhala akugonana naye. Adakwatirana mu 2007.

Mu 2008, wodwalayo anali ndi mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito intaneti. Kenako ndidagula kompyuta yantchito, ndikupita kumalo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ndinkakonda kuonera zolaula amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Anayamba kudziwana ndikuyankhulana ndi amuna pa intaneti (makalata ogonana). Ndinakumana ndi bambo wazaka 35. Ogonana naye anali pafupipafupi 1 kamodzi pa sabata - 1 kamodzi pamasabata awiri. Anakumana kwa miyezi ingapo, adagonana m'kamwa ndi kumatako. Poterepa, wodwalayo adangochita chabe, zomwe amakonda. Pakugonana mkamwa, adamupatsa mnzake mnzake blowjob, pomwe iye adali maliseche. Ndidakhala pachibwenzi ndi bamboyu kwa zaka zosachepera 2. Chifukwa cha kugonana kumatako, wodwalayo anali ndi mavuto ndi anus (fistula yomwe idapangidwa pamenepo, njira yotupa idayamba) ndipo amafunikira opaleshoni, yomwe adachitidwa. Chochitikacho chinali chifukwa chomwe sanakumaneko ndi amuna mpaka zaka 0,5. Mkazi wanga ndi ine tinkagonana nthawi yonseyi. Pafupipafupi zogonana zinali 32-1 pa sabata. Adanenanso kuti chifukwa chachifupi, m'malingaliro ake, nthawi yogonana, mkazi analibe chotupa. Akuti alibe amuna ena.

Ali ndi zaka 32-33, adayambiranso ubale ndi amuna, koma nthawi ino anali onse: adadzilowetsa m'malo ochezera (chibwenzi, kulumikizana ndi zina zonse zomwe zidachitika m'malo omwewo: amalumikizana ndi amuna ndikuchita maliseche nthawi yomweyo).

Panali anthu 15 ogonana nawo, ndipo zaka 2-3 zapitazo ndinayamba, kukumana, ndi amuna m'moyo weniweni. Zogonana zinali ndi amuna 5. Mmodzi wa iwo, yemwe ali ndi zaka 39-40, anali wamkulu yemwe adakhalabe pachibwenzi naye nthawi zonse. Wodwalayo adachita gawo limodzi, akumamupatsa mnzake mnzake, yemwe adamubwezera kawiri, ndikumufotokozera kuti ali ndi "moyo wokangalika." Ndinakumana naye kwazaka ziwiri zapitazi ndipo ndimakondana naye. Abwenzi ena adawonekera pomwe mnzake wamkulu adapita kumzinda wina kwa miyezi 2-2. Adawapatsanso blowjob, pomwe nthawi zina amawayankhira. Atachitidwa opaleshoni m'dera la anorectal ali ndi zaka 3, sanavomere kugonana kugonana kumatako.

Mkazi wake atalengeza za wodwalayo, adapempha mnzake wamkulu kuti amuthandize kumvetsetsa, koma mwamunayo adati anali otanganidwa kwambiri, anali ndi ntchito yambiri, ndipo panalibe nthawi yochitira izi.

Pakadali pano (mkazi wake asanadziwe za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha), kugonana ndi mkazi wake kumakhalapo kamodzi pa sabata. Izi zimachitika kawirikawiri ndi amuna. Poyerekeza kutalika kwa nthawi yake yogonana, akuti ndi yaying'ono ndipo ndi mphindi 1 ndizowonjezera (pafupifupi mikangano 5-40). Pofuna kutalikitsa, amagwiritsira ntchito kuchepa kwa mikangano ndi kuyima kwawo, kusokoneza (panthawi yogonana amaganizira za mpira kapena china chilichonse), kusintha kwa mawonekedwe. Ndinamuuza kuti pakadali pano zimawoneka ngati zachizolowezi kugonana komwe kumatenga nthawi yopitilira miniti. Zikuwonekeratu kuti mikangano 50-40 siyitenga mphindi 50 munthawi yake. Izi zitha kuchitika pokhapokha akachedwa kwambiri.

Amachita "modekha" ndi mkazi wake, zomwe zimagwiranso ntchito pamakhalidwe ogonana naye. Wokondedwayo amakhala ndi malingaliro olakwika pa izi ndipo amafuna kuti akhale wolimba. Pomwe, popita kuchipatala, adaphunzira kuchokera kwa ine kuti azimayi nthawi zambiri amalingalira zakugwiriridwa, adayamba kuchita zinthu mwamphamvu mkati ndi kunja kwaubwenzi, ndipo mkazi wake adazikonda. Sanapusitse mkazi wake ndi mkazi wina polumikizana. Kamodzi kokha adatenga nawo gawo mu trio ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi wina wamwamuna ndi mkazi, momwe adakopeka ndi mwamunayo yemwe adagonana naye.

Kuchuluka kwa kurtosis panthawi yogonana kunali ma 5-6 point (ndiye kuti, nthawi ina adachitapo zogonana 5-6 patsiku, zomwe zimatha kutulutsa).

Pakubweretsa kwake, gawo lakusiyidwa lidagwiritsidwa ntchito. Adabadwa wathanzi ndipo adakula bwino. Kusukulu adaphunzira pamiyala 4 (pa dongosolo la mfundo zisanu), anali wofooka mwakuthupi. Ndinaphunziranso ku sukuluyi ndi mfundo 5. Pambuyo pa zaka 4, adayamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. “Ndimaphunzira kumeneko katatu pa sabata. Ndinapita kumeneko chifukwa ndinayamba kupeza bwino. "

Sindisuta. Amamwa mowa kangapo pamlungu (mowa, kachasu, vodka). Amamwa kachasu kapena vodika 2 pa sabata kuyambira 150 mpaka 200 magalamu. Ngati tchuthi chatsekedwa, ndiye kuti izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri. Amayesetsa kuti asamwe mowa, koma popeza amagwira ntchito yopanga moŵa, amakakamizika kuchita izi (kamodzi pa sabata - magalasi 1-3, ndipo nthawi zina malita 4-1). M'zaka zake zamaphunziro adagwiritsa ntchito chamba, ndipo m'zaka zake zapitazi - amphetamines ndi chisangalalo (izi zidachitika kangapo, kuyesedwa ndikuyimitsa). Kuchokera ku chamba, mwa lingaliro lake, adayamba kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kotero kuti "zaka 1,5-2 zachotsedwa m'makumbukiro anga." Atafunsidwa za chamba, adayankha kuti kupumula kwakuthupi kunachokera, ndimafuna kuseka, "neigh," kenako panali chosowa chomwe chimayenera kudzazidwa. Atafunsidwa momwe wakwanitsira kuthana ndi vutoli, adati atamaliza maphunziro ake ndikusiya kukhala mu hostel, sanayang'ane njira zopezera chamba (ndiye kuti mwina kunalibe vuto lililonse).

Palibe matenda osachiritsika. Palibe zodandaula zamikodzo. 

Moyenera: kutalika - 179 cm, thupi - 78 kg. Normostenic. Mtundu wamunthu wamwamuna. Pali tsitsi laling'ono m'manja ndi m'miyendo. Palibe tsitsi pamimba, pachifuwa kapena m'khosi. Amameta kwambiri kawirikawiri: 1 - maulendo awiri pasabata, ndipo tsitsi laling'ono limakula. Wodwalayo akuti chifukwa chake ali ndi zovuta zazing'ono. Malo osindikizira amametedwa, koma amanenanso kuti ali ndi "njira" ya tsitsi kumchombo. Mutu wa mbolo umawonekera mosavuta. Mbolo ndi machende ndi zazikulu kukula, zowonjezera sizimva kuwawa, sizimangokhala. Mapangidwe a scrotum ndi utoto wake ndi ochepa. Machende amalowetsedwa mosavuta m'mimbamo yam'mimba.

Pomaliza: kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Wopatsidwa (wovomerezeka): zidziwitso, zamankhwala opatsirana pogwiritsira ntchito njira zophatikizira machitidwe.

16.10.2019/1/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa, zomwe zinaphatikizapo zigawo zitatu zomangamanga:

1. Kumasulidwa ku zokopa za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Malingaliro otsatirawa adapangidwa: «Mmodzi... Thupi lanu linayamba kudzimasula ku zokopa za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ... Awiri ... Njira yomasulidwa ku zokopa za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ikuchulukirachulukira ndipo ikupitilira kwambiri ... Zitatu ... Zowonjezereka mukuchotsa kukopeka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ... Anayi ... Wosamalira mkati mwanu amalowa m'malo obisika kwambiri amisala yanu, anu chikumbumtima ndi chikumbumtima, chimasesa zotsalira zokopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuchokera pamenepo, zimawasonkhanitsa pamodzi ndipo, monga zinyalala, zimawachotsa mthupi lanu, ndikuwamasula ku pulogalamu yamatenda iyi ... Asanu ... Thupi lanu ladziwombolera lokopa kwa amuna kufikira momwe lingathere lero ...
2. Sintha momwe amaonera amuna. Malingaliro adapangidwa kuti kuyambira pano wodwalayo azingowawona ngati anzawo, abwenzi, ma comrade ndi abwenzi, komanso kuti tsopano samamuganiziranso ngati zinthu zogonana.
3. Kuchulukitsa chilakolako chogonana kwa akazi (ambiri), komanso kwa mkazi (makamaka). Lingaliro lotsatirali lidachitika: "Kukopa kwa akazi kumayambitsidwa ... Chifukwa chake, kuyambira pano zimafotokozedwa, zamphamvu, zolimba mtima, zomwe zimawonetsedwa pakulakalaka kupsompsona, kupsompsona ndi kugonana nawo ... Kuyambira pano, mawonekedwe a mkazi, mawonekedwe ake, mawu ake, kulumikizana ndi iye amakupangitsani kufuna kumukumbatira ndi kumpsompsona, zomwe zimasanduka chikhumbo chogonana naye ... Kuyambira pano, mkazi wanu kwa inu ndi chilimbikitso chodziwika bwino chogonana. Mukamayankhula naye, mumakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana, chomwe chimatsagana ndi kukulitsa chilakolako chogonana, chomwe chimakulimbikitsani kusisita ndi kupsompsona ndikugonana naye ... ”.

19.10.2019 Lachinayi (17.10.2019/4/3), poyambitsa mkazi wake, m'mawa adagonana ndi 4, 70 mwa iwo adathera potulutsa umuna. Nthawi ya 2th kutulutsa sikudachitike, koma kumangidwako kunali kwabwino. Madzulo a tsikuli komanso m'mawa watsiku lotsatira, mwakufuna kwake, adachitanso zogonana zomwe zidatha. Pakudutsa pakati pa kugonana, panali malingaliro azakugonana pomwe adawona mkazi wake. Zolemba zakuti kugonana kunatsagana ndi "kugonana" ndi kugonana. Chidwi mwa amuna kuyambira pomwe adandilumikizana koyamba chatsika ndi XNUMX%. Malangizo anga sanawonere zolaula kapena maliseche. Amakhulupirira kuti kuwonjezeka kwa libido kumachitika chifukwa adatenga tribulus (tribulus terrestris - zokoka anangula) kwa milungu iwiri. Chogwiritsira ntchito ndi protodioscin, yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito popanga masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso imathandizira kupanga testosterone wachilengedwe mthupi. Popanda kutengera chidwi cha tribulus, ndidaganiziranso kuti kupusitsa malingaliro komwe kunachitika ndi komwe kumachita gawo lalikulu pakukulitsa chilakolako chogonana cha wodwalayo, popeza kale ndinali ndi zokumana nazo zambiri zosonyeza kuthekera koteroko.

19.10.2019 Gawo lachiwiri la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana adachitidwa. Kapangidwe kake ndi malingaliro ake anali ofanana ndi gawo loyambalo, koma koyambirira kwenikweni, malingaliro adapangidwa kuti azitha kugona tulo, zomwe zidasokonekera chifukwa cha zokumana nazo pantchito.

23.10.2019 Anatinso mkazi wake wathetsa pathupi mothandizidwa ndi mapiritsi, ngakhale pambuyo pake amaganiza kuti izi siziyenera kuchitidwa. Pa Okutobala 20.10.2019, 21.10.2019 kapena Okutobala XNUMX, XNUMX, panali kugonana kamodzi pakamwa, popeza mkazi anali ndi magazi akutuluka ndikumwa mapiritsiwa. Munthawi imeneyi sanachite maliseche komanso sanawonere zolaula. Kukopa amuna ndi kofanana ndi pambuyo pa gawo loyamba la kutsirikidwa.

23.10.2019 Gawo lachiwiri la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana adachitidwa.  Malingaliro omwewo adanenedwa monga gawo lachiwiri, pomwe kufananiza 12 kwa mawu oti "kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" ndi mawu ena omwe amakhudzana ndi malingaliro osasangalatsa, kapena malo osasangalatsa, kapena zovuta zoyipa pakati pa maubale a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kapena mavuto amisala zimawonedwa mwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Awa awiriawiri 12 amawu (12 FPs) adapangidwa chifukwa chakuyankhulana koyambirira.

27.10.2019 ga... Mkaziyo tsopano ali mumzinda wina. Panalibe kugonana. Kamodzi kuseweretsa maliseche ku trio (omwe atenga nawo mbali: Amuna a 2 ndi mkazi wa 1). Ndidadzizindikiritsa ndekha ndi m'modzi mwa amuna omwe adagonana ndi mkazi. Kukopa kwakugonana kunali kwa mkazi, kunalibe kukopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Sindinayang'ane kumaliseche kwa amuna. Pakadali pano, kukopa amuna "kumafikira zero," kutanthauza kuti, m'mawu ake, samawona amuna ngati zotheka zogonana.

Ndidamuuza wodwalayo kuti ayenera kusiya kulankhulana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Monga chinthu cholimbikitsa, adafunsidwa funso lotsatirali: "Kodi mkazi yemwe amasuta amatha kusiya kusuta ndikukhumbira ngati akukhala ndi mwamuna yemwe akupitilizabe kusuta?"

Wodwalayo adati chithandizo chisanayambe, adachitapo kanthu mwachangu kuyitanidwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikuyesera kulumikizana nawo pafupipafupi ndikuyambitsa zibwenzi. Tsopano palibe izi. Ndipo kwa nthawi yotsiriza iye anakana mwayi wa atatuwo kuti akakomane mu bafa.

27.10.2019 Gawo lachiwiri la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana adachitidwa. Kapangidwe kake ndi malingaliro ake anali ofanana ndi gawo lachitatu, koma asanatchule 12 PS, zotsatira zoyipa zingapo zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumatchulidwa. Malingaliro okhazikika pakugona sanachitike.

9.11.2019 Ndinali ndi mkazi wanga patchuthi kwa sabata. Patatha sabata limodzi kuchokera pagawolo lamatsenga, lomwe linachitika pa Okutobala 1, 27.10.2019, adayamba kuyang'ana m'misewu ya amuna. Nditabwerera kunyumba kuchokera ku Italy pandege, ndimayang'anira kwambiri oyang'anira kuposa oyang'anira ndege. Ndinaganiza kuti palibe chifukwa chopitilirabe chithandizo chazotembenuka, ngakhale ndinali ndimagulu anayi okha opatsirana. Anayambanso kulemberana makalata ndi bambo yemwe sanali kugonana. Mkazi adapeza kalatayi, adakangana kwambiri. Kenako, pomukakamira, adachotsa kulumikizana ndi mwamunayo ndikuganiza zopitiliza kulandira chithandizo, popeza amawopa kutha kwa banjali komanso kutaya mwayi wolumikizana ndi mwana wake. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, akunena kuti amuna tsopano akudziwika ngati omudziwa komanso abwenzi, osati monga zokopa zogonana. Izi zikuwonetsa kuti kusintha kwabwino kwachitika, chifukwa atandiyandikira, adawazindikira motere. Kwa mkazi wake tsopano, akakhala womasuka pazisankho zake chifukwa cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amakopeka ndi chilakolako chogonana, popeza amawopa kuti amutaya.

Kuyambira 27.10.2019/4.11.2019/10 mpaka 1/9.11.2019/XNUMX, panali zochitika zogonana zapamwamba za XNUMX ndi mkazi wanga (wamphamvu libido, erection wabwino, kusowa kwa "kufulumizitsa" monga kale). Ndachita maliseche kamodzi kokha XNUMX (XNUMX/XNUMX/XNUMX) pansi pa malingaliro akusamba. Mnzakeyo anali chinthu chogonana. Iye ndi mkazi wake adakambirana, ndipo adamuwuza, monga kale, kuti ngati apitiliza kugonana ndi amuna, atha kukhala ndiubwenzi wabwino ndikupitilizabe ukwati, womwe umapereka mwayi woti aliyense wa iwo agone ndi anzawo. Koma akunena kuti sangachite izi, sangathe kuvomereza kuti wina adzagona ndi mkazi wake. Kuphatikiza apo, ndikofunikira kusunga ubale wapabanja, popeza iwo, monga banja omwe amadziwa zambiri zakumwa mowa, adayitanidwa kuti azichita nawo bizinesi ya mowa. Kuphatikiza apo, akuwona kuti momwe aliri pachuma sichimamulola kusiya banja lake ndikubwereka nyumba.

9.11.2019 Gawo lachiwiri la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana adachitidwa. Malingaliro adachitika omwe cholinga chake chinali kumasula kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha; malingaliro a amuna monga osewera nawo, anzawo ndi abwenzi, osati monga zinthu zogonana; zambiri pazokhudza zovuta zoyipa zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zimachitika; zoyipa zake pagulu zidatchedwa. 12PS idatchedwa, kuthekera kolamulira zilakolako zawo zogonana ndikuyamba kunyansidwa pakakhala zofuna zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso malingaliro, komanso kukopa kwa akazi (makamaka) komanso kwa akazi awo (makamaka) adalimbikitsidwa.

14.11.2019 Amanena kuti mkazi wake samamupatsa mwayi wogonana, popeza "adamuvulaza", koma akuwonetsa zisonyezo, akuyesera kusangalatsa, kuti amve bwino. Munthawi imeneyi adachita maliseche kawiri. Kamodzi ndikukopeka ndi malingaliro azakugonana (iye ndi mkazi wake amagonana). Kachiwiri adadziseweretsa maliseche, komwe adakopeka ndi mkazi. Anati adalimbikira ubale wake ndi mkazi wake. Ngati akuwonetsa kusakhutira ndi iye, ndiye amayesa kukambirana naye zomwe sizikumugwirizana ndi machitidwe ake, ndipo amavomereza.

14.11.2019/6/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa, momwe zimapangidwira komanso malingaliro ake anali ofanana ndi achisanu.

17.11.2019 Sindinalankhule ndi mnzanga womaliza wothandizirana naye pafoni. Pa Novembala 15.11.2019, 2, m'mawa, ndimagonana 1 ndi mkazi wanga. Kutha pakati pawo sikunali kwenikweni ("mwina mphindi khumi"). Kutalika kwakugonana koyamba kunali pafupifupi maminiti atatu, ndipo asanu achiwiri (okhala ndimipikisano yokwanira). Mkazi adakumana ndimasamba 2-16.11.2019 panthawi yogonana. Panalinso zogonana pa Novembala 17.11.2019, 100, ndipo lero (Novembala 6, XNUMX) panali zochitika zitatu zogonana. Zokopa zogonana ndi mkazi wake tsopano ndi XNUMX%. Ndinasiya kukonda amuna. Nthawi yomwe idadutsa pambuyo pa gawo la XNUMXth la hypnosis, wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adalumikizana naye kudzera pa Viber ndikumutumizira chithunzi cha mbolo yake yayikulu, koma wodwala wathu adayankha kuti alibe chidwi, chifukwa adasinthiratu kwa azimayi. M'mbuyomu, ndimangolankhulana ndi mwamunayo. Akubwerezanso kuti wachita zinthu mosasinthasintha pamakhalidwe ndi mkazi wake.

17.11.2019 Gawo lachiwiri la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana adachitidwa. Kapangidwe kake ndi malingaliro ake anali ofanana ndi achisanu ndi chimodzi.

19.11.2019 Panalibe kugonana pambuyo pa gawoli, sindinayang'ane zolaula, sindinakopeke ndi amuna.

19.11.2019/8/XNUMX Gawo la XNUMXth la pulogalamu yamatsenga idachitika. Kapangidwe kake ndi malingaliro ake anali ofanana ndi awiri am'mbuyomu.

22.11.2019 Kuyambira pamenepo, pakhala pali mayendedwe atatu: 3 pakamwa ndi kumatako imodzi, monga mkazi wanga adasamba. Zokopa zogonana ndi mkazi wake ndi 2%, koma kwa amuna kulibe. Sanachite maliseche, sanayang'ane zolaula.

Wodwalayo adati mkazi wake adamuwuza kuti ndimamupangira zoyeserera zogonana. Ndidamuuza kuti anthu akakhala ndi zovuta zina, adotolo amapereka chithandizo chamankhwala chomwe chimakhazikika. Mwachitsanzo, munthu akamachuluka magazi, amapatsidwa mankhwala oti amuchepetsere. Kwa iye, ifenso timachita chimodzimodzi.

22.11.2019 Gawo lachiwiri la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana adachitidwa. Kapangidwe kake ndi malingaliro ake anali ofanana ndi am'mbuyomu.

25.11.2019 Kuyambira pamenepo, sipanakhalepo kugonana pazifukwa zomveka. Sanachite maliseche, sanayang'ane zolaula. Ndinapita mumzinda wina, kumeneko ndinakumana ndi mwamuna wina wokwatiwa amene anagonanapo naye. Polankhula naye, sindinkafuna kugonana naye.

25.11.2019/10/XNUMX Gawo la XNUMXth la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana lidachitika, kapangidwe ndi malingaliro amalingaliro anali ofanana ndi am'mbuyomu.

4.12.2019 Masiku atatu apitawo ndinayamba kumvetsera anyamata, koma panalibe kulumikizana komanso kugonana ndi amuna. Sindinayang'ane zolaula, sindinachite maliseche, ndimayesetsa kugona ndi mkazi wanga. Lero m'mawa panali ma 3 ogonana ndi mkazi wanga, ndipo usiku watha - 2. Zisanachitike, panali masiku 4 opuma, ndipo zisanachitike, msonkhano wapitawo ndi ine, zogonana 1-2 patsiku. Chokopa chakugonana ndi mkazi wake lero chikuwonetsedwa 100%. Amuna amakonda kokha kunja, koma poyesa kuyerekezera kuti akuwakumbatira ndikuwapsompsona, komanso akugonana nawo, akuti kulibe zilakolako zoterezi. Ndisanayambe kulandira chithandizo, ndinali ndi malingaliro okopa amuna okhaokha komanso chidwi chachikulu cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

4.12.2019/11/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa, yomwe, potengera kapangidwe ndi malingaliro ake, inali chimodzimodzi ndi zam'mbuyomu. Kuphatikiza apo, malingalirowo adagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti amatha kuwongolera chilakolako chake chogonana ndikupereka mwayi woti ukwaniritsidwe kwa iwo omwe ali abwinobwino.

7.12.2019 Kuyambira pamenepo, pakhala pali 4 zogonana ndi mkazi wake. Zokopa zakugonana kwa iye ndi 100%. Nkhope zachimuna zilibe chidwi ndi iye, tsopano samvera.

7.12.2019/12/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa, yomwe, potengera kapangidwe ndi malingaliro ake, inali yofanana ndi ya 11.

13.12.2019 Munthawi imeneyi, ndimagonana ndi mkazi wanga 5-6. Zokopa zakugonana kwa iye ndi 100%. Sanachite maliseche, sanayang'ane zolaula. Nthawi zingapo ndidakopa chidwi cha abambo okhala ndi ndevu ("Ndimakonda amuna azimvi"). Amawona mu mtundu wina wachisangalalo chogonana, koma panalibe chikhumbo chowadziwa. Zolakalaka za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nawonso kulibe. Mwamuna yemwe amakumana naye nthawi zonse asanayambe kumwa mankhwala samamuyimbira foni kapena kumulembera.

13.12.2019/13/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa, momwe zimapangidwira komanso malingaliro ake anali ofanana ndi a 12.

19.12.2019 Munthawi imeneyi, panali zogonana 5 ndi mkazi wake - 2 pakamwa (mkazi anali ndi msambo) ndi nyini zitatu. Sanachite maliseche, sanayang'ane zolaula. Panalibe zokopa zogonana amuna. Tinakambirana chifukwa chake amakonda amuna okhala ndi ndevu. Pamodzi ndi wodwalayo, tidazindikira kuti izi zikuchitika chifukwa cha izi. Tsitsi lake lakumaso limakula bwino kwambiri, ndipo sangathe kumeta ndevu zotere, ndipo ngati sameta, ndiye kuti "zoipa zimatha." Amavomereza nsanje pankhaniyi. Panalibe kulumikizana ndi amuna omwe ali ndi mitundu yakugonana. Munthawi imeneyi, bambo wina wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adamulembera pa Viber ndikupempha kuti akumane, koma wodwalayo adayankha kuti sakufuna, ndipo sanachite chidwi.

19.12.2019/14/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa... Mchigawochi, upangiri udapangidwa kuti:

1) kumasulidwa kwa thupi kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo;

2) malingaliro a amuna okha monga abwenzi, anzawo, abwenzi, malingaliro osayanjanitsika kwa iwo monga zinthu zotheka zogonana;

3) kuthekera kolamulira zilakolako zawo zogonana ndikupereka mwayi woti ungachitike kwa iwo omwe ali achikhalidwe;

4) kutsindika zoyipa zakumagulu, malingaliro ndi zotulukapo zakugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha;

5) kukulitsa chikhumbo chakugonana kwa akazi (ambiri) komanso kwa mkazi wake (makamaka).

Komanso mkati mwa gawoli, mawu awiriawiri a 12 adayitanidwa, amodzi mwa omwe nthawi zonse anali mawu oti "kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", ndipo lachiwiri linali limodzi mwamawu omwe amagwirizanitsidwa mwina ndi malingaliro osasangalatsa, kapena malo osasangalatsa, kapena zokumana nazo zoipa, kapena ndi mayendedwe olakwika kapena zotsatira za psychopathological za kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso maubale ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

25.12.2019 Munthawi yam'mbuyomu, padachitika maulendo anayi. Chokopa kwa mkazi - 100%. Panalibe kukopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Sanachite maliseche, sanayang'ane zolaula. Wodwalayo akuti walandila foni kuchokera kwa omwe amagonana nawo kale, omwe akuti apita ku United Arab Emirates, komwe adagonana ndi anyamata okongola. Ngakhale sanapemphe mwachindunji kuti agonane, ndidauza wodwalayo kuti amamuimbira foni nthawi ndi nthawi chifukwa akufuna kumukhumudwitsa ndi nkhani zake zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti awayambitsenso pakati pawo. Chifukwa chake, ndidalimbikitsa wodwalayo kuti asiye kuyankhulana kulikonse ndi mwamunayo. Nthawi ino wodwalayo adamuwuza momwe adakhalira wogonana ndi mkazi wake. Kundiuza zakudziwika kwa maubwenzi apamtima ndi mkazi wake, adati akamupatsa chibwibwi, nthawi yomweyo amalowetsa chotupa kumaliseche ndikuwalimbikitsa. Mkazi akuopa ngati izi zingamupangitse kuti ayambe kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndinati ayi. Pankhaniyi, ndidamufunsa ngati akuwona kuti membala wopangidwayo ndiwampikisano, kodi izi zimamunyozetsa ulemu ndikumupangitsa kukhala wonyozeka mwa iye. Wodwalayo anayankha kuti ayi.

25.12.2019/15/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa... Potengera kapangidwe kake ndi malingaliro ake, zinali zofanana ndi zam'mbuyomu.

2.01.2020 Kwa nthawi yapitayi, pakhala pali zibwenzi zisanu ndi mkazi wanga, zitatu mwa izo zinali dzulo. Sanasewere maliseche, osawonera zolaula. Sindinakopeke ndi amuna. Pa Disembala 25.12.2019, XNUMX, atatha gawo la hypnosis, adalumikizana kudzera pa Viber mwamuna yemwe amagonana naye nthawi zonse asanayambe kulandira chithandizo, ndipo adati adokotala amamupatsa chithandizo, koma adamuyankha wodwalayo kuti amakonda kukhala " gay." Anafunsa wodwalayo ngati chithandizocho chikumuthandiza ndipo adalandira yankho labwino. Kenako mwamunayu analemba kuti: “Chabwino, lankhulani mowongoka.” Kenako wodwalayo adatsekereza nambala yomwe amamuimbirayo, koma adati bamboyo ali ndi nambala ina ya foni yomwe angamuimbire.

2.01.2020/16/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa, yomwe, potengera kapangidwe ndi malingaliro ake, inali yofanana ndi yapita.

8.01.2020 Munthawi imeneyi, panali zogonana 5 ndi mkazi wake. Sanachite maliseche, sanayang'ane zolaula. Panalibe zokopa zakugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Sindinayankhulane ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndipo panalibe zoyesera kuti ndilankhule naye kuchokera kumbali yawo. Akuti akufuna agonane, koma mkaziyo ndi "wozizira".

8.01.2020/17/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa, yomwe malinga ndi script inali yofanana ndi yapita ija.

20.01.2020 Pa masiku 12 apitawa, pakhala pali zochitika zogonana 5 ndi mkazi wanga. Mwa masiku 12 awa, 4-5 idagwera azimayi pamwezi. Kamodzi kuseweretsa maliseche ku maloto akugonana ndi hule wopeka. Sindinayang'ane zolaula. Panalibe zikhumbo zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zokopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kulumikizana ndi amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

20.01.2020/18/XNUMX Gawo loyamba la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana linachitidwa... Malingaliro omwewo adachitidwa monga momwe zidalili kale.

8.02.2020 Tidacheza ndi wodwalayo pafoni, ndipo adatinso za kulimbikira kwa zotsatira.

Tikumbukenso kuti ngati kumayambiriro kwa chithandizo wodwalayo ankakhulupirira kuti bi- ndi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha anali chizolowezi, ndiye pa chithandizo anasintha kwambiri maganizo ake. Ananenanso kuti ngakhale adadziwika kale kuti ndi "ogonana ndi amuna awiri," tsopano akudziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Pofotokozera mwachidule nkhaniyi, izi ziyenera kuzindikiridwa. Wodwalayo adabadwira m'banja lomwe mayi ake amafuna kuti mwana wawo wamkazi abadwe, koma, mwatsoka, izi sizinachitike. Atabadwa, adamuyesa ngati cholengedwa chokhala ndi umunthu wachikazi womwe amafuna. Abambo ake adamuchititsa manyazi chifukwa anali wofooka. Plato libido adadzuka ali ndi zaka 5-6 ndipo anali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chidwi chogonana mwa amuna choyamba chidayamba mwa wodwala ali ndi zaka 12-13, pomwe m'magazini yolaula adawona chithunzi cha mwamuna ndi mkazi wamaliseche. Tambala wa mwamunayo adachita chidwi. Ndiye panali chisangalalo, mtundu wina wa chisangalalo chamkati, kuwuka kunabuka. Kuyambira pamenepo, anthu adayamba kupanga malingaliro akuti amakonda amuna. Pankhaniyi, uthenga wa wodwalayo uyenera kutchulidwa kuti kuyambira zaka 7-8 mpaka 30 amakhulupirira kuti mbolo yake ndiyochepa. Chifukwa chake, titha kuganiza kuti chidwi cha mbolo yamwamuna (pazinthu zolaula nthawi zambiri chimakhala chachikulu) chinali chifukwa cha nsanje yake (iyenso akufuna kukhala nayo). Kuyambira 13 mpaka 15 wazaka anali kucheza ndi mnyamatayo, ndipo atalimbana naye, adamva zowawa zina.

Nthawi yochita maliseche powonera chithunzi chomwe chatchulidwacho kuchokera m'magazini yolaula, adadzizindikiritsa kuti ali ndi mkazi. Akawonera makanema olaula pa TV ndikuseweretsa maliseche nthawi yomweyo, sanasamale yemwe anakopeka naye: amuna kapena akazi. Ali ndi zaka 17, adagonana koyamba ndi mwamuna wokwatiwa. Kenako ndinaganiza kuti zinali zolakwika. Pankhaniyi, ndinali ndi nkhawa, koma ndimafuna. Kuyambira zaka 18 mpaka 25, kuseweretsa maliseche kunachitika, koma m'moyo weniweni, kuyambira zaka 18, panali anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ali ndi zaka 18, adayamba kugonana ndi mkazi wamtsogolo, yemwe adakwatirana patatha zaka 7. Ali ndi zaka 26, mwayi wopezeka mosavuta pa intaneti udawonekera, ndipo adayamba kugonana ndi amuna, omwe adayamba kugonana nawo m'moyo weniweni. Mofananamo, adagonana ndi mkazi wake. Nthawi yolumikizana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amasewera makamaka, omwe amawakonda. Kenako, chifukwa chogonana kumatako, wodwalayo adayamba fistula m'matumbo ndipo njira yotupa idayamba. Anamuchitira opareshoni, ndipo chifukwa cha zomwe zidamuchitikira, sanagone ndi amuna mpaka zaka 32-33, zomwe adayambiranso zaka 2-3 zapitazo. Ali ndi zaka 37, mkazi wake adagwidwa ndi zibwenzi zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, chomwe chinali chifukwa chofunafuna thandizo, ngakhale samawona kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi matenda. Kufunika kwa pempholi kudafotokozedwa ndikuti chochitika m'banja lake chitha kuchiwononga, ndipo izi zimamupangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri kuti alumikizane ndi mwana wake wamwamuna. Ngakhale mkazi wake adamuwuza kuti ngati atasankha kugonana ndi amuna, osati ndi iye (kuphatikiza zonse ziwiri ndizosavomerezeka kwa iye), ndiye kuti atha kusungabe ukwatiwo ndikukhala mnyumba yomweyo, koma pamenepo adzakhala ndi ufulu wokhala nawo amuna ena. Komabe, izi sizovomerezeka kwa wodwalayo, sangaganize kuti mkazi wake anali ndi zibwenzi zina.

Ziwunikiridwe zimakhudzidwa pazinthu zotsatirazi zokhudzana ndi kulumikizana kwake ndi mkazi wake, kuphatikiza paubwenzi. Abambo ake omwe anali chidakwa anali kuchitira amayi ake nkhanza kwambiri, nthawi zambiri ankakangana nawo, kuwanyoza ndi kuwamenya. Wodwalayo adazindikira izi molakwika kwambiri ndipo chifukwa chake adazindikira kuti azimayi ayenera kuthandizidwa mofatsa. Umu ndi momwe amamuchitira mkazi wake, zomwe zimakhudza kugonana kwawo. Komabe, amafuna kuti akhale wolimba kwa iye tsiku ndi tsiku komanso panthawi yogonana. Adachita bwino nditanena kuti azimayi omwe amaganiza zogonana nthawi zambiri amaganiza kuti agwiriridwa ndi amuna.

Pokhudzana ndi bisexuality, kukonzanso kwa psychotherapeutic uku kunachitika. Ntchitoyi idachitidwa pofuna kufotokozera wodwalayo kuti kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndizovuta zomwe zimatha kubweretsa zovuta zosiyanasiyana (zamatenda amisala ndi zamisala, zovuta zoyipa pagulu). Kuphatikiza apo, magawo a hypnosuggative programm adachitidwa pofuna kuthana ndi gawo lachiwerewere la libido, kukulitsa chilakolako chogonana cha akazi (makamaka) komanso kwa mkazi (makamaka), kuzindikira amuna pokhapokha ngati sizinthu zogonana, kuthana ndi zikhumbo zawo zogonana ndikupatsanso mwayi woti uzindikiridwe kokha ndi Mwa izi, zomwe ndizokhazikika. Komanso, chigawo chamakhalidwe chidaphatikizidwanso pamankhwala osokoneza bongo, omwe amagwiritsa ntchito magulu awiriawiri a 12 omwe adapangidwa atangokambirana koyambirira ndi wodwalayo. Limodzi mwa mawuwa pagulu lirilonse linali liwu loti "kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", ndipo linalo linali liwu lomwe limalumikizidwa ndi malingaliro osasangalatsa, kapena zithunzi zosasangalatsa, kapena zovuta zoyipa zomwe zimakhalapo chifukwa cha maubale ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kapena matenda amisala omwe amawonedwa mwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Wodwalayo adalandira magawo 18 azithandizo zamatsenga. Pambuyo gawo loyamba, adanenanso kuti kuyambira pomwe mankhwala adayamba, zoyendetsa amuna zogonana zatsika ndi 70%. Sizinasinthe chimodzimodzi pambuyo pa gawo lachiwiri. Pambuyo pagawo lachitatu, adazindikira kuti kukopeka ndi amuna "kumakhala zero." Pambuyo pagawo lachinayi la kutsirikidwa, chifukwa chakuti wodwalayo adapita ku Italy kukapuma sabata, panali kupumula kwamasiku 12. Pobwerera kunyumba kuchokera kutchuthi pandege sabata limodzi pambuyo pa gawo lachinayi la kutsirikidwa, adazindikira kuti amasamalira kwambiri oyang'anira, osati otsogolera ndege. Kenako ndinaganiza kuti palibe chifukwa chopitilira chithandizo. Komabe, atakangana ndi mkazi wake, yemwe adamulengeza kuti akufuna, adaganiza zothandizanso mankhwala poopa kutha kwa banja. Pambuyo pa gawo lachisanu ndi chimodzi la mankhwala opatsirana pogonana, adanena kuti wataya chiwerewere mwa amuna, komanso kuti chilakolako chake chogonana ndi mkazi wake chinali 6%. Zomwezi zidapitilira pambuyo pa gawo la 100, 7 ndi 8. Kenako, masiku 9 atatha gawo la 6 la hypnosis, adayamba kumvetsera anyamatawo, koma adati amuna amakonda kunja kokha, ndipo poyesa kuyerekezera kuti akuwakumbatira ndikuwapsompsona, komanso akugonana nawo, adati palibe zomwe akufuna. Chikoka chakugonana ndi mkazi wake chikuwonetsedwa 10%. Pambuyo pa gawo la 100, adati chilakolako chogonana ndi mkazi wake chinafotokozedwa ndi 11%, ndikuti amuna samamugonana. Pambuyo pa gawo lachisanu ndi chiwiri la kutsirikidwa, adazindikira kukopa komweko mwamphamvu kwa mkazi wake, koma kangapo konse adalabadira amuna okhala ndi ndevu. Anati amawakonda. Pambuyo pagawo la 100th la kutsirikidwa, kunalibe kukopa amuna. Tidakambirana funso loti bwanji amakonda amuna azimvi. Pamodzi ndi wodwalayo, adazindikira kuti izi zitha kuchitika chifukwa chakuti iyeyo ali ndi tsitsi losauka kwambiri kumaso kwake, ndipo sangathe kumeta ndevu zotere, ndipo ngati sameta, ndiye kuti "zoyipa zitha kubwera". Amavomereza nsanje pankhaniyi. Zotsatira za zokambiranazi, ndidazindikira kuti pamenepa siziyenera kuwonedwa ngati chiwonetsero cha kukopa amuna. Komabe, titha kuganiza kuti chikhumbo cha amuna kukhala ndi zomwe alibe, koma zomwe amuna ena ali nazo (pankhani yomwe ikukambidwa, membala wokulirapo komanso kuthekera kokulitsa ndevu ngati za amuna ena) zitha kukhala chinthu chomwe chimalimbikitsa kupangika kwa chilakolako chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kulumikizana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo omwe ali ndi mikhalidwe yomwe angafune. Pambuyo pagawo la 12th la hypnosis (palimodzi, monga tanena kale, magawo 13 adachitidwa) ndipo mpaka kumapeto kwa chithandizo, kukopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikunawonekere. Masiku khumi ndi asanu ndi anayi pambuyo pa gawo la 14th, wodwalayo ananena pafoni kuti sizinachitike.

Tikumbukenso kuti ngati asanayambe chithandizo chamankhwala wodwalayo ankaona awiri- ndi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chizolowezi ndipo anadziwika kuti "bisexual," ndiye chifukwa cha psychotherapeutic kudzudzulidwa anasintha maganizo ake kwa diametrically zosiyana, ndipo nayenso anayamba kudziŵika kuti anali wogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Komanso, panthawi yamankhwala, monga wodwalayo adanenera, nthawi yogonana ndi mkazi wake idakulirakulira, zomwe zitha kufotokozedwa ndikuwonjezeka kwakanthawi kwakanthawi kogonana naye chifukwa cha malingaliro apadera onyenga. Kuopa kuwonongedwa kwa mabanja kungathandizenso kukulitsa mchitidwe wogonana.

Tiyenera kutsindika kuti odwala monga wodwalayo amafunikira kuyang'aniridwa mwamphamvu kuti ateteze kuyambiranso kwa kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. 

Pomaliza, ziyenera kudziwika kuti kuyesetsa kuletsa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osinthira mwa anthu omwe savomereza kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, ali ndi nkhawa ndipo akufuna kuchotsa zokopa izi ndikuphwanya ufulu wachibadwidwe komanso kosayenera.

Werengani zambiri: Kugonana kwa Kocharyan GS: malingaliro onse ndikuwonera zamankhwala // Thanzi la amuna. - 2020. - Na. 2 (73). - S. 71-80.