Malingaliro nthawi zambiri amabwera kuti kulibenso mphamvu.
Ngati tsiku lina sindingathe kupirira, ndikulolani
idzakhala nkhani yathu. Mwina wina angakuthandizeni.
Ndipo ngati sichoncho, zikhale mbiriyakale
moyo umodzi wosweka ndi ululu wamisala.
Tidakumana ndi mayi yemwe mwana wawo wamwamuna wazaka makumi awiri adasiya mwadzidzidzi kuyunivesite mchaka chake chachinayi ndikuthawa kwawo kuti pasakhale wina womuletsa "kusintha zogonana". Zonsezi zidayamba zaka zingapo zapitazo ndikulankhula ndi msungwana wachilendo kwambiri pa intaneti, yemwe ali ndi chizolowezi chomenyera, kugonjera komanso gynemimethophilia - kukopa amuna azovala zazimayi komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Msungwanayo amangotchula mwana wake wamwamuna "msungwana wanga wokondedwa." Amakhala ndi malingaliro okhudza iye nthawi zonse komanso malingaliro motsutsana ndi amayi ake ndi abale ake. Malangizo a mtsikanayo, mwana wamwamuna adachoka mumzinda ndikudula ubale uliwonse ndi abale ake, kuwaletsa pamawebusayiti ndikusintha nambala yafoni. Pansipa timapereka mwachidule kalata yochokera kwa amayi ake yodzala ndi zowawa komanso kutaya mtima.
Lenya ndiye womaliza pa ana anga awiri. Abambo ake adatisiya ali ndi zaka 2. Anawo adapirira movutikira kwambiri. Mwana wamkazi ankalira mosalekeza. Adandiitanira kusukulu, adandifunsa kuti bwanji mwanayo amalira mkalasi. Kwa nthawi yayitali, mwana wamwamuna amafuula chitseko chilichonse kunja kwa chitseko kuti abambo abwera ndikuthamangira kutsegula chitseko.
Anakulira ngati mwana wamba, osasewera masewera a atsikana, sananene kuti ndi msungwana. Palibe. Amakonda zojambula za Spider-Man ndi Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. Kenako Naruto, Pokémon. Kuchokera kuzoseweretsa monga ma kiti, ma robot, ma skate, ma roller. Ndinalota za mbale yowuluka pagulu loyang'anira.
M'kalasi yoyamba ndinapita ku karate. Kenako anayamba kuchita nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi. Atakula, adasintha masewera awiri. Atafika pachimake pamasewera, adavulala phazi lomwe lidamulepheretsa kupita kumasewera. Dziko lonse lapansi lidamugwera chifukwa cha iye. Chilichonse chomwe adalima kuyambira ali mwana chidasokonekera. Anali atavulala kwambiri. Anayamba kuthera nthawi yayitali akusewera masewera apakompyuta ndikuwonera anime. Chifukwa cha izi, adalibe anthu ochezeka - osazolowera malo ochezera komanso kulumikizana kwabwino. Analibe chidwi kwenikweni ndi dziko lenileni. Ndinkakhala makamaka patsamba lachiyankhulo cha Chingerezi. Ankagwira ntchito kutali. Pogonana, adaletsedwanso - osawonetsa chidwi chilichonse chokhudza zibwenzi.
Atamaliza maphunziro a grade 11, mwana wamwamuna adapita kukoleji. Monga munthu watsopano, adatenga dzina lachijeremani. Kenako adamuwonetsa pasipoti yomalizidwa. Ndinazichita ndekha, osandiuza aliyense. Izi sizinatidabwitse kwambiri, chifukwa ankakonda kunena kuti wakhumudwitsidwa ndi abambo ake ndipo sakufuna kukhala ndi dzina lomaliza. Koma iyi inali belu loyamba. Pafupifupi pakati pa chaka choyamba, ndikukumbukira, mwana wanga wamwamuna yemwe anali wosangalala kwambiri adati Katya, yemwe amalankhula naye pa intaneti, adamulembera ndikumuuza kuti amamukonda. Atamva izi koyamba m'moyo wake, adayenda ngati m'maloto. Pafupifupi nthawi yomweyo, kulemberana makalata naye nthawi zonse kunayamba. Ndinawona kuti usiku uliwonse mwana wanga sanagone, koma amalemberana makalata ndi Katya. M'mawa kudzuka kusukulu, ndipo amagona 4-5 m'mawa. Ndinayesa kulankhula ndi mwana wanga, koma zonse zinapitirira monga kale. Chabwino, ine ndimaganiza, zazing'ono, kumverera koyamba. Izi zisanachitike, anali asanakhale pachibwenzi, choncho amawachitira mozama komanso molemekeza.
Mu Julayi, Katya ndi amayi ake adabwera kudzatichezera. Ngakhale zinali choncho, zinthu zina zimawoneka zachilendo kwa ine. Mwachitsanzo, kuti mayi adabweretsa mwana wawo wamkazi wa giredi lakhumi kwa mnyamatayo ndikuwagonetsa limodzi mchipinda china. Monga kuti mtsikanayo sanabwerere kunyumba ndi mphatso. Ndinadabwanso kuti titalowa mu cafe, Katya mwamwano anayankha amayi ake mu bass. Ndipo pamsonkhanowo, adadziyesa kuti ndi mbawala yaying'ono, yatsala pang'ono kukomoka ndi chisangalalo, pomwe mnzake amadziwa. Kenako, mwachiwonekere, adazindikira kudabwitsidwa kwanga ndipo adasiya. Koma ndinadabwa kwambiri ndikusintha kwakukulu kotere. Ndipo mawu a mtsikana sali atsikana - sagwirizana ndi mawonekedwe ake. Koma ndidachotsa malingaliro oterowo kutali ndi ine. Kenako ndimaganizirabe kuti Katya anali mkwatibwi wa mwana wanga ndipo mtsogolo, akamaliza maphunziro awo, akwatiwa. Mwana wanga anandiuza choncho. Anawatsimikizira kuti ali ndi chikondi.
Mu Okutobala, ndidaganiza zotsuka mchipinda cha mwana wanga ndikuwona mapaketi piritsi langa. Ambiri anali opanda kanthu, anayamba. Malangizowo anena kuti awa ndi mapiritsi olerera a mahomoni azimayi. Ndinadabwa kuti bwanji mwana wanga amafunikira izi. Yankho lake atabwera kuchokera ku yunivesite linandidabwitsa. Ine, akuti, ndimwe kuti asinthe ndikukhala mkazi. Ndine mayi wa transgender.
Ndiye sindimadziwa kalikonse za izi, kupatula kuti awa ndi anthu osavomerezeka m'maganizo omwe amasintha zovala za amuna kapena akazi anzawo ndipo mwina nkuchitidwa maopareshoni. Koma Lenya anali atakhala patsogolo panga! Mwana wanga, yemwe ndamuwona ndikudziwa moyo wake wonse. Ndipo ine sindinazindikire kalikonse. Ndidamva kuti zimawonekera paubwana. Koma Lyonya ndi mwana wamba yemwe amacheza ndi anyamata, amakonda atsikana. Anawuluka ma kite, adayendetsa pa skateboard. Nthawi zonse ndimafuna kukhala wowonjezera kutentha pamasewera anga, ndipo ichi ndi chithandizo, mpweya - muyenera kukhala olimba mwakuthupi, chifukwa chake amagwiritsa ntchito zoyeserera ndikukweza kettlebell. Koma, komabe, amadzipereka kuti akope mosavuta: atawonera mndandanda wa "Sherlock", adayamba kutengera ngwaziyo pamavalidwe ndi machitidwe ake; atawona Dr. House, adayamba kunena kuti anali sociopath.
Ndidamufunsa kuti akhala akumwera mapiritsi kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji. Anati unali kale chaka! Fotokozani zomwe ndidamva pamenepo ... Dziko lapansi lidapita pansi pa mapazi anga. Mwana wanga wathanzi amadzipangitsa kukhala wopanda pake ndi manja ake! Pambuyo pake, adavomereza kuti adamwa kwa miyezi itatu nthawi imeneyo, ndipo adati chaka chimodzi kuti ndisakayikire kuti zonse zinali zazikulu. Ndinamupempha kuti asiye kumwa mapiritsi ndikupempha thandizo kwa akatswiri. Adavomera kupita kwa asing'anga. Pamenepo ananena kuti amadzidziwikitsa ngati mtsikana. Dotolo anafunsa mafunso, ndipo zinali zowonekeratu kuti samamvetsetsa zomwe zimachitika. Adadzipereka kuti akhale ngati chipatala chamasana, kuti awonedwe. Anachita mantha ndi kuthekera kwa kuwonekera kwa schizophrenia - mwana wake adanena zodabwitsa kwambiri. Anandiuza kuti waona izi koyamba. Izi sizikumveka ngati transsexualism. Anati ubale wake ndi Katya ndiwodabwitsa kwambiri: tsiku lililonse, kapena, usiku uliwonse, pamakhala zokambirana nthawi zonse pamutu wa transgender. Samusiya iye kwa mphindi, amakhala pansi paulamuliro - komwe iye ali, zomwe akuchita. Inenso ndinazindikira. Tidachita nthabwala kale - kodi mukufunsanso Katya kuti apite kuchimbudzi?
Madokotala pa komiti sanasankhe pa matendawa. Amayankhula za nkhawa, kukhumudwa. Katswiri wodzipha adagwira naye ntchito, palibe nayenso. Iwo adalimbikitsa kulumikizana ndi chipatala cham'madera. Ndipo, nawonso, madokotala, atawona mwezi umodzi, sanazindikire transsexualism. Adamufunsa mafunso ovuta kuti amvetsetse ngati anali kunyenga kapena ayi, ndipo adati: china chake sichili pomwe pano. Zotulutsa zija zidati anali ndi vuto lamunthu ndi jysphoria (malinga ndi mawu ake) ndipo adamupatsa mankhwala opatsirana pogonana.
Ndemanga: Ndinganene kuti mwana wamwamuna, pofuna kufafaniza zakale, amafuna kuchotsa umunthu wake wakale, ndikusiya zovuta zonse zomwe zidamupeza. Kusintha kwa dzina, kumatha kuonedwa ngati gawo loyamba. Tsoka ilo, akatswiri amisala okonda LGBT, m'malo mopereka thandizo loyenera, amunyengerera kuti awononge "kusintha amuna kapena akazi".
Ndidayesetsa momwe ndingathere kuti zitheke. Ndinaganiza kuti mwina angakhazika mtima pansi, chifukwa madokotala samapanga matendawa. Ndipo anandiuza: tisalankhule za izi, tidzakhalabe ndi moyo. Ndinachita zomwezo. Ndinayesera kulankhula naye pamitu ina, kuphika kena kokoma, ndikumukumbatiranso. Koma mbali inayo kunali ntchito yosaleka. Ndipo posachedwapa, ndili mchipinda cha mwana wanga, ndidakumana ndi zolemba zake. Kodi malingaliro otere amachokera kuti m'mutu mwa mwana wokondedwa? Sindinakhulupirire, powerenga momwe amatchulira mwana wanga wamkazi ndi mdzukulu wanga "anthu awa" ndikulemba "amandida." Koma izi ndi zamkhutu! Kodi zinachokera kuti? Ndani adamenya izi m'mutu mwake? Potengera nkhaniyo, Katya. Koma chiyani?
Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mwana wake asanapulumuke kunyumba, mnyamata wina adamulembera pa intaneti. Malinga ndi mwana wake wamwamuna, nthawi ina adadutsapo ndi munthuyu pamasewera pa intaneti osatinso zina. Anali wokonda kwambiri moyo wake, adamulembera mwachindunji 24/7. Mwana wanga wamwamuna adandiuza ndikudabwa kuti: “Haa, wakhala akundilembera tsiku lonse. Kodi alibe zochitika zake, ntchito? Ndikangomulembera, amayankha mphindi yomweyo. Wodandaula kwambiri za ine. "
Pafupifupi chaka chimodzi izi zisanachitike, ndidaganiza zopeza anzanga omwe mwana wanga anali nawo pa intaneti. Panali abwenzi obisika kumeneko. Zomwe zimawabisa sizikudziwika. Zinandidabwitsanso kuti m'modzi wa iwo adatseka kulowa kwanga pondiwonjezera pamndandanda wakuda, ngakhale sitinayankhulane ndipo tinali alendo. Zachiyani? Koma ndi amene, dzina lake Kira, amalumikizana pafupipafupi ndi mwana wake, ndipo tsopano ndi Sergey. Ndinafunsanso mwana wanga wamwamuna, kodi Kira ndi mtsikana? Ndipo mwana adayankha, ayi, uyu ndi Cyril mwachidule. Koma tsopano si Kirill mwina. China chake sichikumveka za munthuyu. Iye ndi Katya makamaka amalankhula ndi mwana wawo wamwamuna.
Ndidayesa kulankhula ndi mwana wanga pamtima ngati mayi, ndidafunsa: mwana, apa ukunena kuti umamva ngati msungwana. Nanga bwanji za Katya, simumakopeka naye? Mwanayo anayankha china chake mosazengereza: "Ayi, sindimakopeka ndi aliyense." Ndinazindikira kuti ubalewo unali wachilendo, ndipo panalibe chifukwa cholankhulira za chikondi chilichonse mokwanira. Chifukwa chomwe onse amati ichi ndi kukonda moyo sizikudziwika. Ndipo titangodziwa za mapiritsi, agogo aakazi adafunsa mwana wawo wamwamuna, akwatirana bwanji, kodi Katya nayenso ali ndi vuto lofananira? Ndipo mwanayo adayankha: "Chabwino, zikuwoneka."
Ndemanga: Titha kuganiza kuti Katya ali ndi vuto linanso - gynemimetophilia. Uwu ndi mawonekedwe azakugonana, zomwe amuna amatsanzira akazi. Gynemimethophiles nthawi zambiri amakopeka ndi amuna opatsirana pogonana. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, fetishist amangokhalira ndi malingaliro ake ogonana, ndipo sasamala za umunthu weniweni wa munthu - moyo wake, moyo wake wabwino, zokumana nazo. Ndipo izi ndizo zomwe tikuwona pankhani ya Katya: Lenya amangomukonda ngati Alice. Chifukwa chake palibe chifukwa cholankhulira za chikondi chilichonse kwa iye - amangogwiritsa ntchito mwachinyengo mavuto omwe mnyamatayo ali nawo kuti akwaniritse zikhumbo zake zonyansa. Lenya akazindikira izi msanga, mpata wambiri woti atuluke muubwenzi wopanda thanziwu ndikudziwononga yekha.
Nditazindikira zamapiritsi, ndi zina zambiri, sindinamvetsetse udindo wa Katya. Ndinayesa kulankhula naye. Ndinaganiza, popeza akunena kuti amakonda, ndiye kuti mwina andithandiza kutsimikizira mwana wanga. Ndinamulembera kuti ndalumikizana ndi sing'anga pafoni, ndipo adauzidwa kuti ndibweretse mwana wanga mwachangu, makamaka ngati amamwa mapiritsi mosalamulirika ndikudzivulaza. Koma zomwe Katya anachita zinali zachilendo kwambiri. Anayamba kundipangitsa kuti ndisapemphe thandizo. Anatinso amupangira ndiwo zamasamba, kuti madotolo anali osakwanira, adawauza kuti atumize ndemanga zawo za odwala awo, amwano, ndipo amalankhula mwankhanza. Ndinadabwa.
Ponena za mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe angapangitse mwana wawo kukhala wopanda mphamvu kwa moyo wake wonse, adayankha kuti: "Chabwino, tiyeni tichotse gawo lomwe sitinafunsidwepo ngati tikukonzekera ana. Tiyerekeze kuti tikukonzekera. Zomwe zimapangidwazo zimatha kusungidwa m'chipinda cha cryochamber kenako nkuzigwiritsa ntchito popanga ana. Ndizomwezo".
Inde, sizinasunge zinthu zilizonse zamtundu.
Ndinayesa kulankhula ndi amayi a Katya. Palinso zoposa kuchitapo kanthu kwachilendo. Mayi aliyense wa mtsikanayo angadabwe, koma apa, ngati kuti adadziwa zonse kwanthawi yayitali. Zinakhalanso kuti Katya anali asanapite ku St. Petersburg, ngakhale mwana wake wamwamuna ananena kuti anakumana naye kumeneko. Zomwe ananama, sindikudziwa. Zikuwoneka kuti pali china chobisa. Kenako zidafika kuti atabwera kwa ife, amayi a Katya anali atamutcha kale Alice. Amadziwa chilichonse kwanthawi yayitali. Nanga bwanji wabweretsa mwana wako wamkazi? Mumafuna chiyani kuchokera kwa mwana wanu? Ikani kufinya, kukopa, kulimbikitsa?
Ndinapita patsamba la Katya. Ndikuganiza kuti ndiwona zomwe mkwatibwi wamtsogoloyo akufuna. Ndipo pali LGBT, furries, BDSM, zithunzi zolaula ndi zina zambiri.
Izi ndizokonda pazaka za 16-17. Kodi muyenera kuyembekezera chiyani? Ndinalembera amayi ake kuti tifunika mwachangu kuchotsa ana m'matope awa. Yankho linangopha: “Sili patsamba la mwana wanu, bwanji mukuyenera kuwerenga zonsezi? Muyenera kukhala ndi mwana wanu wamwamuna, mumupatse kutentha. Ndipo simuyenera kuzitumiza kwa ine ”.
Ine ndi mwana wanga wamkazi tinazindikira kuti chinthu choyipa kwambiri chikuchitika kwa Lyonka. Wina akumusokoneza bongo ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri. Tidazindikira kuti mwana wanga wamwamuna adapempha thandizo ku LGBT ku Moscow ndikupempha thandizo. Akuti saloledwa kutuluka mnyumbamo, ndipo akafika ku Moscow, akhoza kumuthandiza. Zithunzi zambiri zolaula zaku Japan za atsikana awiri zidasungidwa piritsi lake. Panalinso kulemberana makalata ndi Katya, komwe kwa nthawi yayitali, ngakhale asanafike mumzinda wathu, adamulembera zomwe amakonda, akumanena za mwana wawo wamwamuna, akumutcha "mwana wanga", "msungwana wanga wokondedwa "," ngati kuti ndimafuna kuwona miyendo yanu m'matoyi akuda. " Makalata olembera ogonana. Kwenikweni. Mwana wanga wamkazi adadwala ndi mtima wake kuchokera pazomwe adawerenga, ndipo tidangowerenga makalatawo masiku awiri. Ndinayenera kusiya piritsi langa ndikugulitsa mwana wanga wamkazi ndi Corvalol. Izi ngakhale ali munthu wolimba, ali ndi zaka 27. Zinali zodabwitsa kwambiri. Zomwe amatha kuchita ndikubwereza kuti: "Akudwala mutu wonse." Ndipo tsopano zonsezi zikuchitika kwambiri - palibe amene amasokoneza. Pachifukwa ichi, adamukoka m'banja. Kuti achite izi, akumupandukira amayi ake. Amalimbikitsa kuti asayankhulane, kuti athetse kulumikizana ndi banja. Sindingathe kulumikizana ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna mwanjira iliyonse, mwanjira iliyonse.
M'mbuyomu, mwana wamwamuna adanena kuti Katya amagawana malingaliro azachikazi okhwima, komanso kuti amawathandizanso. Ndidayamba kumuuza zomwe zilidi. Koma sanafune kumvera: "Katya sangakhale wolakwika." Kodi ndi cholinga chake kupha mnyamatayo? Kapena iye konse?
Tsopano iye amakhala mu nyumba ya lendi ndi Katya. Amamuthandiza pazonsezi. Ndipo amayamikira ubale wake ndi iye. Agogo ake aakazi atakwanitsa kufika kwa iye komaliza, adamuuza kuti asamuyitenso Lena, komanso kuti adasintha kale zikalata za azimayi. Zomwe amakhala, sindikudziwa - 16,500 ayenera kulipidwa nyumba. Tiyerekeze kuti amamulipira 25 patali. Palibe nsapato, palibe zovala, kapena chakudya. Anauza agogo ake aakazi kuti mnansi nthawi zambiri amabwera kudzamubweretsera nsomba. Mwa njira, wamwamuna sanadyeko nsomba, koma kununkhiza kwa nsomba komwe kumapangitsa gag reflex yake. Pokhapokha ngati ali ndi njala yayikulu pomwe amaloledwa kudya nsomba. Ndipo ngati ali ndi njala, ndikosavuta kumunyengerera kuti achite zosaloledwa chifukwa chopeza. Inenso ndikuwopa. Kupatula apo, atha kusintha.
Pokambirana, amasintha liwu lake kukhala lolira, ngati wamkazi, pansi pa T-sheti amavala bra. Palibe choyenera kuvala, komabe. Ndikuganiza kuti zimatengera mahomoni. Mwambiri, pali zabwino zochepa. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite. Tikufuna katswiri. Iye mwini savomereza kupita kulikonse. Akuti anali kale ndi katswiri wama psychology ndipo adathandizidwa. Koma ndi psychologist wamtundu wanji komanso ndi thandizo liti lomwe lilipo ngati misempha yake ili ngati chingwe? Ndikuopa kuti wama psychologist ndi LGBT. Koma kodi angapeze kuti katswiri yemwe angamve? Ndi ofanana ndi achipembedzo... Choyipa chachikulu. Ndipo sanandimvere ngakhale kunyumba. Kuyesera konse kufotokoza - ndi nkhanza. Ndinathawa kuti asasokoneze.
Ndemanga: M'malo mwake, mutha kuthandiza mwana wanu popereka chithandizo chamaganizo kwa iye ndi Nadya. Mwina aphungu ayenera kuganizira nkhaniyi ndi kuzindikira chizolowezi "kusintha kugonana" monga kuvulaza thanzi lachikatikati (Article 112 ya Criminal Code. Kuwononga mwadala kuvulaza thanzi labwino).
Ndinawona nkhani yonena za RIA Novosti "Ana amangokhalira kugwiritsa ntchito anime komanso kudzipha."... Mawu ndi mawu onena za mwana wanga. Nthawi zonse ndinkangoyang'ana makanema ndipo ndinkakoka kwambiri. Ndipo iye ndi Katya. Ndipo zitatha izi, ana athu athanzi athanzi amathawa kunyumba kuti akamwe mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Sinthani jenda. Kuchokera pa izi, amakhala osabereka ana opanda moyo. Ndipo mukazindikira kuti mwadzichita nokha ndi manja anu, chimachitika ndi chiani pamenepo? 41% yoyesera kudzipha pa transgender - chifukwa? Iyi ndi nkhondo yolimbana ndi achinyamata athu. Ana a zidakwa amaledzera pawokha, ndipo ana awa ali athanzi - amawonongeka mwakachetechete. Osati chaka choyamba. Mwanjira imeneyi amakhudzanso ana ochokera m'mabanja opambana. Ndidamudziwa moyo wanga wonse, ndipo nthawi zonse ndimamvetsetsa kuti anali mwana wabwinobwino wokonda zachinyamata. Panalibe chilichonse chachikazi ngakhale choyandikira. Pamaso pa anime ndi Katya.
Madera a Anime ndi achilengedwe. Pali magulu ambiri otsekedwa. Mwana wanga wamwamuna anali atakhala mmenemo, iyemwini adalankhula za izi. Mamiliyoni a ana agwidwa kale ndi izi. Tsitsi lachikuda limachokera kumeneko. Tsamba lake lonse, zithunzi zonse zosungidwa ndi anime. Adadziyikanso pazithunzi monga mtsikana wamatsitsi. Palibe zithunzi zanga kuchokera ku moyo weniweni konse. Zili bwanji gulu.
Tiyenera kukweza mutuwu, kukopa akatswiri, ngati, tili nawo. Pamene zidatikhudza, palibenso kopita.
TIKUFUNIKIRA ntchito yothandizira pakagwa mavuto kwa achinyamata ndi makolo, pomwe padzakhala akatswiri omwe ali pamavuto omwe achinyamata akukumana nawo masiku ano, osati zaka 20 zapitazo. Madokotala, odzipha, akatswiri azakugonana sanamvepo za anime, mabodza a LGBT, mabodza otsutsana ndi mabanja, zodzipha, kapena kulemba anthu ntchito. Kodi angathandize bwanji? Kukumba zoopsa zaubwana mwanjira yakale? Chifukwa mdani ndi wamphamvu, chifukwa palibe amene akumutsutsa - palibe. Akatswiri oterewa sanaphunzitsidwe kulikonse, koma akhala akufunika kwa zaka 10 kale. Akatswiri a zamaganizidwe, makamaka achinyamata, amaphunzira malinga ndi mapulogalamu ndi miyezo yaku Western. Nenani, makolo ayenera kuvomereza mwana woteroyo ndi kumuthandiza mu "kusintha", osamutulutsa mumaloto. Ndipo ndidakumana nazo izi.
Lingaliro la enieni, osachita mantha madokotala a LGBT ndilofunikira. Mahomoni ogonana (testosterone ndi estrogen) amachititsa mavuto azaumoyo osasinthika mwa mwana, kuphatikiza kuthamanga kwa magazi, kuundana kwamagazi, sitiroko, ndi khansa. Uku ndikupha mwakachetechete. Tikutaya ana anzeru athanzi ku gehena.
Zolemba za gulu la Science for Truth
Ngakhale asayansi amawopsyeza komanso kuponderezedwa ndi kukakamizidwa kwathunthu kwa omenyera ufulu wa LGBT, akatswiri amisala ndi mautumiki azaumoyo am'madera aku Russia apilo gulu "Science for Truth" kwa asayansi, anthu wamba, komanso andale.
Kupemphaku, kothandizidwa ndi anthu aku Russia opitilira 50, kukuyesa njira zomwe zingathetsere misala yomwe ikuwonekera kale kwa ambiri, pomwe, kutengera malingaliro omwe akufuna kuchepetsa kubadwa padziko lonse lapansi (komwe mabungwe a UN akutenga nawo mbali), ana avulazidwa kudzera pantchitoyo ndi kuvomereza machitidwe omwe amatsogolera ku kusabereka kapena kusafuna kubereka ana, kuphatikiza ndi chithandizo cha "kugonana lumen".
Chochita?
Asayansi, azamisala, akatswiri azakugonana, Unduna wa Zaumoyo
1. Kuphatikiza kuyesayesa kopanga malingaliro odalirika komanso asayansi pazomwe zimachitika kuti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha azigonana, kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, nkhanza komanso zina zotere sizingatchulidwe ngati njira yathanzi. Pangani gulu logwira ntchito la akatswiri ogwira ntchito zamankhwala amisala ndi psychology, malamulo ndi sayansi yazamalamulo kuti achite kafukufuku wophatikizika komanso ntchito yasayansi pankhani yazaumoyo wamaganizidwe.
2. Sindikizani mapepala ofufuza pamitu iyi m'mabuku apadziko lonse komanso aku Russia. Tengani gawo pazokambirana zapadziko lonse lapansi.
3. Pangani malangizo azachipatala poganizira zomwe asayansi aku Russia achita, kuphatikiza zomwe zingathetsere kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kukonza zopatuka zina pakukula kwamisala. Pangani gulu lamavuto amisala omwe adasinthidwa kukhala Russian Federation, monga momwe zidalili ndi ICD-9 ku USSR.
4. Kupanga njira zoyendetsera zochitika zama psychologist ndi ma sexologists omwe amaphwanya lamulo loletsa kupititsa patsogolo ubale wosakhala wachikhalidwe pakati pa ana omwe amatchedwa. Chithandizo cha "gay / trans-affirming" ndikuyesera kuyambitsa malingaliro owononga pobisalira "kugonana lumen".
5. Kupanga zatsopano ndikusintha njira zomwe zilipo zowongolera ndikupewa zopatuka pakukula kwamalingaliro amisala.
6. Kukhazikitsa njira yasayansi yotetezera zomwe zimalimbikitsa mabanja, ndikufalitsa ntchito zamitundu yapadziko lonse komanso Chirasha pachimake cha RSCI.
7. Letsani kuperekedwa kwa chiphaso No. 087 / y "Sitifiketi ya kusintha kwa kugonana." Onaninso kutsimikizika kwa ziphaso zomwe zidaperekedwa kale.
8. Onjezani kukonzekera kwa mahomoni komwe kumagwiritsidwa ntchito kuchedwetsa kukula kwa kugonana ndikusintha pamndandanda wamankhwala omwe amakhudzidwa ndi kuchuluka kwa ndalama.
Kwa opanga malamulo ndi andale
1. Kuunikiranso za mgwirizano ndi UN ndi WHO ndi ndalama zawo pokhudzana ndi zochitika zosemphana ndi Malamulo oyendetsera dziko lino, malamulo aku Russia komanso zolinga zake pakukula kwokhazikika kwa anthu aku Russia ndikuwonjezera zaka zakubadwa zaka 78. Tikulankhula za mfundo zakuchuluka kwa anthu za UN komanso kupititsa patsogolo chizolowezi chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha makamaka pamaphunziro a WHO.
2. Kulimbitsa chilimbikitso cholimbikitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kuchotsa mimba, kusowa ana komanso mitundu ina yakuchulukitsa anthu pakakhala zovuta zamabanja. Lonjezani chiletso chazofalitsa zamaganizidwe okhudzana ndi kuchuluka kwa anthu azaka zonse.
3. Kukhwimitsa chilango chophwanya lamuloli "Pachitetezo cha ana kuzidziwitso zomwe zingawononge thanzi lawo ndikukula." Zindikirani kutenga nawo gawo panjira yogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso "kusintha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" ngati kuvulaza pang'ono pansi pa Article 112 ya Criminal Code of the Russian Federation.
4. Kupanga njira yoyendetsera kufalitsa uthenga wovulaza ana, kuphatikizapo kutenga nawo mbali m'mabizinesi abizinesi ndi mabungwe am'banja.
5. Kukakamiza atolankhani komanso malo ochezera a pa Intaneti omwe akugwira ntchito ku Russia kuti aziletsa pazokha zomwe zimawononga ana, zomwe zimatsutsana ndi malingaliro a sukulu yasayansi yaku Russia.
6. Yambitsani zoletsa pakufalitsa malingaliro owononga komanso otsutsana ndi chikhalidwe kudzera munyimbo zanyimbo ndi zofalitsa, mukakhala "nyimbo" yonyansa, makanema ndi zochitika za olemba mabulogu pama social network zimakhala njira yopindulira.
7. Pangani mawebusayiti athu oyang'anira makanema odziyimira pawokha, ma injini osakira osadalira malingaliro amakampani aku Western, komanso malo ochezera a pa Intaneti omwe amagwirizana ndi boma polimbana ndi kufalitsa uthenga wovulaza ana.
8. Kwezani zaka zovomerezana zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
9. Kupereka mwayi kwa asayansi aku Russia kuti afotokozere malingaliro awo asayansi mopanda mantha pantchito ndi malipiro. Gawo la bonasi pamalipiro a asayansi limatengera ntchito yofalitsa. Potengera "kulondola ndale" ndikuletsa, zofalitsa zakumadzulo ndi ku Russia zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri sizimafalitsa ntchito zomwe zimatsutsana ndi mfundo yothanirana ndi chiwerewere (kufalitsa nkhani yokhudza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, transsexualism ndi zina zotere), zomwe zimakakamiza chiwonetsero chaulere cha malo asayansi. Asayansi akuchita mantha.
Tsopano tili mumkhalidwe womwewo, CHENJEZA mlonda !!! Sindikudziwa komwe akugogoda, kukonza ndikulunjika ku Yunivesite ya HSE !!!!
Chotsani mwachangu mu HSE! iyi ndi nazale. osalipira maphunziro ku HSE.
Zikomo chifukwa cha nkhaniyi. Ndikamawerenga, ndimamva zomwe banjali likukumana nalo. Ndipo ife tikuzidziwa bwino izi. Tikukhala ku Netherlands, ana anga ndi a msinkhu womwewo amaphunzira ku koleji, kumene mabodza oterowo afika pachimake. Pafupifupi palibe ana omwe amati "ayi" kwa anthu a LGBT. Gulu lonse la aphunzitsi "okhulupirira" limagwira ntchito, kukakamiza ana kukhala ndi moyo wapamwamba: tsitsi lakuda, zovala zokhala ndi jenda, aliyense ali ndi tsitsi lofanana, anime, zithunzi zauzimu, malingaliro odzipha ndi zina zambiri. Ife, makolo, tinakumana maso ndi maso ndi gulu lonse la aphunzitsi, motsogozedwa ndi wotsogolera. Uwu ndi khoma losalowera. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti kulibenso masukulu omwe mabodzawa kulibe. Komanso, apolisi ndi oyang'anira mzinda alibe mphamvu. Ndi chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu ndi mapemphero, tinatha kuteteza mwana wathu ndi kumubwezera ku cholinga cha moyo wake wakale, koma 90 peresenti ya makolo amavomereza chithunzichi ndipo samatsutsa mabodza. Kuchokera pazochitika zathu, ndinazindikira kuti pamene mwana yemwe amasamalidwa ndi makolo ake akadali ndi mwayi wobwerera ku udindo wake wakale, sukuluyi, ngakhale imakhala ngati greyhound, ilibe ufulu umenewu. Popeza ndife okhulupirira achikristu, tinateteza malo athu molingana ndi Baibulo: motsutsana ndi kudzipha = chikhulupiriro cha moyo wosatha, motsutsana ndi anime ndi mzimu = kuletsa zinthu zoterezi molingana ndi Baibulo. Pankhondoyi yomenyera ana athu, ife makolo timayima tokha. Akuluakulu onse omwe mwana wathu adakumana nawo anali a LGBT kapena analibe chowatsutsa. Mawu a makolo = voti yokhayo yotsutsa. Chikondi champhamvu chokha kwa ana athu, chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu kuti Iye adzatitulutsa, ndipo mkhalidwe wapakhomo umadutsa khoma la mabodza awa. Mwana wathu ali nafe, koma mtima wanga ukupweteka chifukwa cha ana a anzanga a m'kalasi: transgender people, pansexuals, bisexuals ... mantha !!! Mwamwayi, mwana wathu wachiwiri adawona kulimbana kwathu kuchokera kumbali, ali wolimba pa "ayi" pa LGBT. Makolo okondedwa, tili ndi ufulu woganiza ndi kuchita zimene Mulungu ankafuna poyambirira: Adamu ndi Hava, osati Adamu ndi Fritz, ndiwo anali banja loyamba padziko lapansi ndipo adalitsidwa ndi ana. Anthu a LGBT alibe tsogolo, alibe ana, alibe thanzi, alibe chikhulupiriro. Menyani, Mulungu akhale nanu. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndemanga yanga ingathandize wina. Elena
Ndikupepesa chifukwa cha funso: Kodi ana anu ali ndi zaka zingati? Zikuoneka kuti ndinu Russian. Bwanji osabwerera ku Russia kuchokera ku Holland ngati muli ndi maganizo otere? Kapena kodi mumakhala kumeneko?
Achokerenji kumeneko?Kungoti anthu wamba sakonda zopotoka?
Elena, ndikumvetsetsa nkhawa zanu, komanso chikhulupiriro chanu.
Koma ngati tilankhula za sayansi (ndipo ndimachita), izi ndizosiyana ndi zomwe zimachitika.
Ngati muphunzira biology pang'ono, mudzawona kuti ndili ndi gawo la nyama zoyamwitsa zapamwamba, ndipo zili bwino.
Koma anthu sakupita kuchiwonongeko, chifukwa chake chisinthiko chimapita m'njira yakeyake. LGBT idakhalapo, ndipo ndife amoyo. Zonse zili bwino.
Osalemba zachabechabe!Simukuchita nawo zasayansi.Mukadatero, mukadadziwa kuti PALIBE kusagwirizana pakati pa nyama, pali khalidwe laukwati, zomwe sizili zachizolowezi ndipo sizidzakhala zachizolowezi.
Ngati tilankhula za sayansi, ndiye kuti musinthe kugonana, muyenera kusintha ma chromosomes 5. Kwa akazi, izi ndi XX, ndi amuna, XY. Zina zonse (kudyetsedwa kwa mahomoni, maopaleshoni opangira opaleshoni) ndi zikhalidwe zakunja ndipo palibenso china.Kupaka misomali ndi vanishi.Kuchokera pamaso pa ma chromosome awa, mafupa ochulukirapo amapangidwa mwa amuna ngakhale m'mimba.Minofu, mafupa a m'chiuno ndi phewa. Lamba amapangidwa mosiyanasiyana Imwani ma 6ormons momwe mungafunire, koma izi sizingapangitse chiuno chachikulu mwa amuna.Sizingatheke kusintha kugonana popanda kusintha ma 0romosom.
Zachabechabe zathunthu zalembedwa m'nkhani ndi ndemanga. Ndikadakhala ndi banja lomwelo, lomwe limayika mphuno zake pazinthu zina, ndikuwerenga makalata anga ndi zolemba zanga, ndikadatenga mfuti, osati kungothawa kunyumba. Atsikana - chisangalalo ndi mwayi.
Zabwino zonse - ndiwe wamisala.
Stalin ananena momveka bwino kuti: “Chotsani udzu woipa m’mundamo!”
Ndendende! Sitingakhale otsimikiza za zomwe zili pamwambazi, chifukwa pali zizindikiro za kusokoneza maganizo komanso chizolowezi cha hypercontrol pa (kwa mphindi imodzi) wazaka makumi awiri !!! mwana. “Ndinakonda” nthaŵi imene “anapunthwa” m’bukulo (chabwino, inde, tonse timasiya zolemba m’malo owonekera pamene sitikhulupirira makolo athu), anayamba kuŵerenga popanda kufunsa, ndipo iye mwiniyo anapsinjika maganizo ndi mwana wake wamkazi. maganizo. Momwe adayambira kuwerenga makalata osafunsa ndipo tsopano akudandaula kuti akufuna Corvalol ndimoto. Ndikupangira kuti olemba kampeni awerenge zomwe danga laumwini liri komanso tanthauzo la kukhazikitsa kukhulupirirana pakati pa mwana ndi kholo. Ngati mukakamiza masomphenya anu a moyo pa munthu (wazaka 20 !!!), mulepheretseni njira iliyonse yothandizira chithandizo cha dysphoria ya jenda ndikudutsa m'makalata ake ndi zolemba zake kuti mukhazikitse ulamuliro wambiri pa iye - osachepera chikumbumtima ndipo osadandaula kuti mumaopedwa ndikuwona kuti ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha udani.
Ekaterina, ndiye inunso ndinu mabulosi ammundawu ♀️
Chokani, wopatuka.
Monga akunena, nonse mukudwala m'mutu)
Mayi wina wopenga sangayerekeze kuti mwana wake wamwamuna anapempha kuti alankhule naye mwachikazi. Kuwombera m'makalata apamtima, kuphwanya lamulo.
Wachiwiri akudandaula za kuwonongeka kwa masukulu achi Dutch. Russia yamphamvu imatenga malo a 39 mu kusanja kwa maphunziro, ndi Netherlands yopanda moyo 11. Mukufunikirabe kuti mukhale oponderezedwa kuchokera ku gulu lapamwamba komanso laubwenzi.
chitani .. kuchokera pano, patsogolo
Ndipo mukudwala kwathunthu!
Tulukani ku Russia kupita ku gay Europe !!!
Sonya wopusa, landira chithandizo, sudziwanso za maphunziro ku Russia, Inde, anthu ngati inu opatuka alibe ubwenzi.
Khohlukha ali paliponse Ku Russia, ngakhale pano, maphunziro ndi abwino kuposa ku Ulaya.
Apa ndi propaganda tambala akuchita. Umu ndi mmene makhalidwe oipa ndi ana osokonezeka maganizo akuti zonse zili m'gulu lachibadwa.
Ndinu zinyalala zina, zinyalala mmutu mwanu.
Ndemanga zanu ndizachabechabe. Mulandire chithandizo.
Zonse zalembedwa molondola! Ndipo sizidziwika kuti "manyazi" a boma, "osadziwika" pa nkhaniyi adzatsogolera chiyani.
Zinali zofunikira kuti adziwe bwino amayi a Katya ndi mtsikanayo yekha, kuti adziwe kuti ndi ndani? amakhala bwanji? Ndipo pokhapo kumubweretsa kunyumba
Zinali zofunikira kusonkhanitsa umboni wonsewu wa makalata ndi kukhala m'magulu. Ndipo ku khoti, ku ofesi ya wosuma mlandu wa Katya uyu. osachepera mantha. ndipo kotero tembenukirani ku mpingo kuti muthandizidwe kuti mumupempherere iye, chifukwa cha inu…ndi kupemphera nokha.
Ndi mantha osadziwika! Mukuganiza bwanji, ngati chimbudzi chokongoletsedwa ndi zonona, ndiye chidzakhala chitumbuwa?
Ndikuganiza kuti kuseri kwa Katya uyu kuli anthu akuluakulu ochokera kumakampani a Pharma, ndipo amapeza ndalama pokopa ana kuti amwe mankhwala osokoneza bongo, chifukwa izi ndi za moyo wawo wonse.
kungoti mnyamata wotengeka analibe chitsanzo chabwino chachimuna, ndipo amayenera kutengera amayi ake
Koma izi zikuwoneka ngati zoona, ngakhale munthuyo alibe dysphoria, makolo ake makamaka ndi mlandu pa mkhalidwe wake.
Pokhapokha m’Bungwe Lopanga Zinthu m’pamene moyo wa munthu udzakhala wamtengo wapatali! Aliyense adzakhala wotetezeka komanso wodalirika m'tsogolomu. Padzakhala malingaliro a Creative ndi kuletsa kwathunthu kwa chirichonse chomwe chiri chotsutsana ndi Munthu. Anzanu amamvetsetsa mwayi uwu creativesociety.com
Zoipa zimaopa kutchulidwa. Sonya, Nikolai ndi Ekaterina awa akukwiya. Zowona kuchokera ku propaganda
Awa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zopotoka kapena LGBT bots. Chabwino, mulingo wa kupusa ndi Russophobia wa omwe adalemba umawoneka nthawi yomweyo.
Mabodza a LGBT amatsogolera kukudzazanso kwa anthu amitundu ndi anthu abwinobwino. Mnyamata wina wasukulu amawona mokwanira, kumva mokwanira ndikuyamba kusinkhasinkha mbali yomwe osewera amafunikira. Popita nthawi, zidapezeka kuti zinali zachilendo - zidakhala zakuda. Ndipo poganizira kuti anthu achikuda sangakhale ndi ana, malingaliro otsutsana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu omwe amachititsa kuchepa kwa chiwerengero cha kubadwa amafalikira mosavuta pakati pawo. Kuwonjezeka kwa chiwerengero cha anthu padziko lapansi kukuchepa. Zikuwonekeratu kuti LGBT ndi imodzi mwa zida zambiri zochepetsera kubadwa. M'kupita kwa nthawi, m'madera ena, chiwerengero cha imfa chidzaposa chiwerengero cha kubadwa, chiwerengero cha okalamba chidzapitirira kwambiri chiwerengero cha anthu omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino, kuchuluka kwa zokolola m'mbali zosiyanasiyana za lingaliro kudzachepa, moyo udzatsika, chuma chidzatsika. chedweraniko pang'ono. Ndi zina zotero. Ndipo sikulinso kuchepa kwa chiwerengero cha kubadwa, ichi ndi gawo la kupha anthu komanso kulanda gawo mofewa.
Maphunziro ayenera kukhala OYENERA☝
Ndipo sipadzakhala zokhota!
Komanso, monga tafotokozera ...
Bambo kulibe - MAYI (!!!) AYENERA KUFOTOKOZA kwa mwana wawo - CHIYANI NDI CHIYANI ☝ - uyu ndi KATSWIRI WABWINO KWAMBIRI NDI KATSWIRI.
Chabwino, ngati zilidi "peek-a-boo" - Psychiatrist to Help. Ichi ndi DIAGNOSIS kale, monga akunena, Kalanga...
Ambuye chitirani chifundo!
Ndikutsutsana, tambala akulira pachilichonse ndi chotheka, izi zikuchokera ku Kupanda umulungu, maziko a kufanana, monga momwe zilili chiphunzitso cha Darwin, koma izi siziri choncho!
Muzochita zilizonse zamagulu pali njira yogawa yokhazikika. Zomwe zimachitika ndizochuluka, ndipo pali zopatuka kuchokera ku zomwe zachitika kale. Koma ndizodabwitsa kwambiri akamayesa kulengeza kuti zachilendozo ndi zachilendo. Ubongo wamunthu umapangidwa asanakwanitse zaka 21. Propaganda imathanso kukhudza anthu akuluakulu ...
Ndine munthu wa transgender, funsani mafunso
Tulukani, LGBT bots.
Sindingathe kulingalira kholo labwino lomwe lingakonde kuti mwana wake wokondedwa sali wokondwa m'thupi lake ndipo akufuna kusintha. M’banja mwathu, mwana wachinyamata mwadzidzidzi anayamba kukula tsitsi lake ndi kuvala T-shirts pinki. Ndinayamba kuchenjera ndikuyamba kufalitsa nkhani zabodza zokhudza miyambo ya makolo, okhudza ana anga akuluakulu okwatiwa kale. Anamutumiza mnyamatayo ku gawo la masewera (karati). Ndinayamba kufotokoza zambiri zomwe zinkandizungulira, zomwe zinali zovuta. Zaka zingapo zapita - mnyamatayo wabwerera m'maganizo, ali pachibwenzi ndi atsikana, amakonda kwambiri masewera, ndipo adzalembetsa ku yunivesite yaukadaulo.
Ndikukhumba kuti aliyense azilumikizana ndi ana awo, kudalira ndi kusamalira mabanja awo. Ndipo ngati mwadzidzidzi mukukayikira kuti pali cholakwika, si tchimo kukaonana ndi katswiri. Zabwino zonse!
Sindinaone kusintha kulikonse mwa mwana wanga wamkazi. Tsopano ali ndi zaka 25. Ndipo akudzipha ponena kuti ndi mnyamata. Zoyenera kuchita?
Zoyipa! Ndinawerenga ndipo misozi ikutuluka. Tiyenera kuimba mlandu Katya uyu! Ndimamumvera chisoni mnyamatayo. Koma ndikuona kuti palinso chinthu china chimene bambowa anasiya banjali. Lenya, mwachiwonekere, akufuna kukana moyo wake wakale. Koma mavuto oterowo amathetsedwa mu ofesi ya akatswiri amisala, osati pa tebulo la opaleshoni!
Inenso sindine mayi, koma ndikukonzekera kudzakhala ndi ana mtsogolo. Ndipo ndikunjenjemera pozindikira kuti izi zitha kuchitikanso kwa mwana wanga wamtsogolo! Ndizabwino kwambiri kuti lamulo loletsa kugawikana kwa amuna ndi akazi lidaperekedwa. Koma ubongo wa ana ndi achinyamata ukupitirizabe!
Ndili ndi mnzanga amene ndimamukonda kwambiri ndipo ndimamudera nkhawa. Kwa zaka zingapo tsopano wakhala akunena kuti iye ndi mnyamata! Amakangana ndi amayi ake nthawi zonse, amandidandaulira, ndimayesetsa kumulimbikitsa kuti asamakalipire amayi ake ndikuthetsa mavutowo modekha. Mmene amalankhulira naye nzosamvetsetseka! Sindingayerekeze kunena zotere kwa amayi anga! Ndinkaganiza kuti uwu unali unyamata, kuti udzadutsa, koma sizinatero ... ndipo ndichedwa kwambiri kuti tithamangire tsopano. Ndikuthokoza Mulungu kuti sakugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala, koma ndikungomuwopa. Nthawi zonse amandiuza kuti boma lathu ndi loyipa komanso kuti akufuna kuchoka m'dzikoli ndikusintha momwe amagonana. Ndipo modzikonda amandiuza kuti SINDIFUNA kukhala cisgender! (ndiko kuti, munthu amene kugonana kwake kwachilengedwe kumagwirizana ndi "malingaliro" ake). Ndimamukumbukira ali wamng'ono, zaka 12-13, anali msungwana wamasewera, wokangalika, anali ndi ubale wabwino ndi amayi ake, anali wanzeru komanso wokhoza. Tsopano ali ndi zaka 19, ndipo nthawi zina sindimamudziwa ...
Pepani kulira kochokera pansi pamtima. Ndilibe wina wodandaula naye.