Dokotala wanzeru, psychoanalyst ndi MD, Edmund Bergler adalemba mabuku a 25 pa psychology ndi 273 m'magazini otsogolera akatswiri. Mabuku ake amakhala ndi mitu monga kakulidwe ka ana, ma neurosis, zovuta zam'banja, mavuto aukwati, njuga, kudziwononga, komanso kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Bergler adadziwika kuti anali katswiri wa nthawi yake pankhani ya kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Otsatirawa ndi zochuluka kuchokera kuntchito yake.
Mabuku aposachedwa komanso zopangidwa poyesera zayesa kufotokoza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngati osasangalala omwe akuyenera kuwachitira chifundo. Chidandaulo cha tiziwalo tamatumbo tachuma ndizosathandiza: amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zonse amatha kugwiritsa ntchito chithandizo chamisala ndikuchiritsidwa ngati akufuna. Koma kusazindikira kwa anthu ambiri kuli ponseponse pankhaniyi, ndipo kupusitsa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pongoganiza za iwo okha ndiwothandiza kwambiri kwakuti ngakhale anthu anzeru omwe sanabadwe dzulo anagwa chifukwa cha nyambo.
Zochitika zaposachedwa kwambiri zamaganizidwe ndi kufufuza kwatsimikizira kuti chiyembekezo chosasinthika cha anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (nthawi zina chimafotokozedwanso chifukwa cha kupezeka kwachilengedwe ndi mahomoni) kwenikweni ndikugawanitsa kwa mitsempha. Chiyembekezo chazovuta zam'mbuyomu pang'onopang'ono zikusowa: masiku ano ma psychothernamic malangizo omwe amawongolera amatha kuchiritsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Mwa kuchiritsa, ndikutanthauza:
1. kusowa chidwi kwathunthu pakati pa amuna ndi akazi;
2. chisangalalo chabwinobwino chakugonana;
3. kusintha kwamakhalidwe.
