OLUNYE UFUNDO LUQINISEKISA UKUSEBENZA NOKHUSELEKO LONYANGO LOKUBUYISA.
Njengoko iipolitiki ezikhokelwa yi-LGBT zidlulisa imithetho yokuvala uncedo lonyango kubantu abafumana umtsalane ongafunwayo wobungqingili, olunye uphando luye lwaphuma e-US olubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba abantu abanjalo banokuncedwa.
I-American Psychological Association (APA) kunye neminye imibutho yezempilo yengqondo icebisa ukuba iingcali zengqondo zityhafise abathengi ukuba batshintshe indlela yabo yokulala ngesondo ngenxa yokuba iindlela ezisetyenzisiweyo "azizange ziqinisekiswe ukuba zisebenza okanye zikhuselekile." Icaphula "iisampulu ezithatha icala, indlela yokusebenza enganelanga, ulwahlulo olungachanekanga lwabathabathi-nxaxheba, kunye noqikelelo oluzixelileyo," i-APA igxeka ubungqina obukhoyo bohlengahlengiso oluyimpumelelo “njengelingathembekanga” ekuboneleleni ngezigqibo ezinobungqina obuqinileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kwisithethe esilungileyo semigangatho ephindwe kabini, i-APA isebenzisa uphando oluneziphene ezifanayo ukugxeka "unyango lokuguqulwa" kunye nokuxhasa "i-gay affirmative therapy." Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba kukho izifundo ezi-4 kuphela ezisebenzayo okanye eziye zavavanya impembelelo ye-"gay affirmative" kwindlela yokuphila kakuhle kwabaxhasi. Nangona isibakala sokuba iziphumo ezi zifundo ziye zaxutywa kakhulu, kwaye iindlela ubukhulu becala azisebenzi, i-APA ibonisa indlela "gay affirmative" njengeyona iphambili kunye neyodwa eyamkelekileyo. Ingxelo eyamkelwa ngokubanzi ithi ukuba umntu ufumana umtsalane wesini esifanayo, ke kufuneka amkele ubufanasini okanye ubufanasini okanye ubufanasini, obufanele ukuba ngundoqo wobuntu bakhe bonke kunye nendlela yokuphila. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abaninzi abavumelani nolu lungelelwaniso kwaye abafuni ukuchaza ubuntu babo ngesiseko samava ngesondo.
Kwaye ke, ngoNovemba ka-2021, unjingalwazi weYunivesithi yase-Arizona Christian uCarolyn Pela kunye nogqirha wengqondo uPhilip Sutton bapapasha iziphumo zeminyaka emihlanu yomsebenzi ezibhangisa amabango akhohlisayo e-APA.
Abaphandi balandela abathengi be-75 ye-Reintegrative Therapy, inkqubo ye-psychotherapeutic esekelwe kwiindlela eziqhelekileyo eziqinisekisiweyo ezisetyenziswa kunyango lokwenzakala kunye nokulutha. Abathathi-nxaxheba ubukhulu becala yayingamadoda enkolo amhlophe aphakathi kweminyaka eyi-18–35 nabathe batsalwa ngabantu besini esifanayo kodwa bangathanda ukuyisusa, nokuba kungezizathu zenkolo okanye ukungena kumtshato wesintu.
Iziphumo zazinomtsalane: ngexesha lonyango, umtsalane wobufanasini wabathabathi-nxaxheba wehla, umtsalane wabantu besini esingafaniyo wanyuka, kwaye ubuntu butshintshele kwisini esahlukileyo. Idatha ikwabonise "uphuculo olubalulekileyo lweklinikhi kunye nezibalo kwintlalontle". Ngokubanzi, iziphumo zolu phononongo ziqinisekisa ukuba iinzame zokutshintsha inkanuko yesini zinokusebenza, zibe luncedo kwaye zingabi nabungozi.
Ababhali bathi: “Ngoko, ibango lokuba abukho ubungqina benzululwazi ngeengenelo okanye iingozi zemigudu yokutshintsha utyekelo lwesini aluseyonyaniso. Ngaphaya koko, izilumkiso ezizingisileyo ze-APA kunye neminye imibutho malunga nabathengi abafuna ukutshintsha indlela abaziqhelanisa ngayo nesondo ziyalahlekisa, azikho buchule, kwaye azikho ncam ngokwemigaqo yokuhlangabezana neemfuno ezisemthethweni zabathengi zokuzimisela. Kwakhona, ukwala kwe-APA ukuyalela abaqulunqi bemithetho echasene “nonyango lokuguqula,” ukuba uphando aluyixhasi ingozi yalo, kwaye lonke unyango lwengqondo lwesintu lunomngcipheko wokwenzakala, alusamkelekanga. Ngenxa yoyilo lwayo olungqongqo, olu phononongo lubonisa ukuba abantu abanomdla ongafunwayo wesini esifanayo banokulindela izibonelelo kunokuba benzakalise ngokuthatha inxaxheba kunyango. "
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ababhali bachasa kakhulu ukubiza inkqubo yabo "unyango lokuguqulwa", njengoko besithi ligama elingacacanga, elihlazo kunye nelokuxhokonxa elihambelana nokuhlamba komkhenkce kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kombane, ezisetyenziselwa ukugrogrisa abantu abanomdla ongafunwayo wobungqingili. Ababhali babiza indlela yabo ye-SAFE-T (i-sexual attraction fluidity exploration kunyango), ehambelana negama elithi "ukhuseleko" kwaye iguqulela ngokuthi "ukufunda ukuhluka komnqweno wesini kunyango."
Umzimba onomtsalane womsebenzi wenzululwazi uye waseka "ukuguquguquka" (o.k.t. ukuguquguquka, ukuguquguquka okanye ukushukuma) komnqweno wesini kubantu abaninzi, ngakumbi kwabo bafumana umtsalane wobufanasini. Nangona abantu benokuba nobufanasini, abathandana nesini esinye, okanye abantu abathandana nesini esahlukileyo, amava abo ahlala engangeni kolu didi, kodwa endaweni yoko benza inkqubo eqhubekayo apho umtsalane ugxile kuzo zombini. Indlela ye-SAFE-T ivumela umxhasi ukuba ahlolisise ukuhlukahluka komnqweno wakhe wesini kwaye enze utshintsho kwindlela ayifunayo.
Ngokuphathelele "ukwenzakala kunye nokungasebenzi", ngokuqinisekileyo nayiphi na indlela ye-psychotherapeutic, eyona iyaziwa kwaye isebenzayo, inokujika ingasebenzi okanye ibe yingozi kumxhasi. Ngoko ke, umlinganiselo othe gqolo wabantu abadala (ukuya kwi-10%) kunye nomlinganiselo ophezulu ngokumangalisayo wabantwana (ukuya kuma-24%) ubonisa ukuwohloka kwimeko yabo ngexesha lonyango, kwaye i-45% yabaxhamli abanengxaki yokudakumba abafumani mpucuko.
Uphononongo lukaPela noSutton lunika ubungqina obunamandla bokuba ubuncinci abanye abathengi abafuna ukulawula umtsalane wabo wesini esifanayo kunye nokuziphatha bakwazi ukuphumelela. Oku kubiza ukuba kuthandabuze ukuma kwe-APA ngokuchasene nonyango lokubuyisela, kunye neenzame zowiso-mthetho zokuvala ukhetho lonyango kubathengi. Abantu abanomdla ekunciphiseni umtsalane ongafunwayo okanye ogqithileyo wesini esifanayo banelungelo lokufuna nokufumana uncedo lobuchwephesha ukuze bafezekise iinjongo zabo, kwaye iingcali zempilo yengqondo eziqeqeshiweyo zinelungelo lokunika olo ncedo.
Ulwazi oluthe kratya malunga nonyango lwengqondo yokutsaleleka kwabantu besini esifanayo:
https://pro-lgbt.ru/category/articles/therapy
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Uzibhidekile wena, ububhanxa nobubhanxa akufunekanga bupapashwe, ubufanasini nazo zonke izinto ezithandwayo zesondo azinakunyangwa, uyayiqonda na le nto uyibhalayo, kuyacaca ukuba abo “baphandayo” ngengqondo, amayeza, i-theology, izifundo zenkcubeko, imbali. Usenokuba usisidenge okanye wahlule izimvo zabo babesebenza kwezo “nkampu zovavanyo” zamaNazi okanye inzondelelo yempambano yonqulo yaba yinzululwazi kuwe.
Ububhanxa, nguwe nje ongayiqondiyo ipsychology, nkqu nolwazi olusisiseko.
Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo ifuna ukunyangwa. Njengomthetho, yonke into ivela ebuntwaneni. Enkosi ngomsebenzi wakho onzima! Kwaye ndandifuna ukubuza: kutheni ungabhali naphi na malunga nenkxaso yemali kwimisebenzi yakho? Ndicinga ukuba abantu abaninzi bangakunceda ngemali yeprojekthi yakho
ezi ziphambuka zisisiphumo seemeko ezithile zokukhuliswa kunye nophuhliso, "ukuphazamisa" ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo, ngoko ke ukulungiswa kunokwenzeka.
Umnqweno wokubonisa ukuba oku kuqhelekileyo, ngelishwa kulandela iinjongo zayo.
"Oku kunxaxha akunakunyangwa."
Ewe, ubuncinci uyaziqonda ezi ziphambuko ... Kwiinkampu zamaNazi, yonke into yayichasene ngqo. Apho babelane ngokuthe ngqo ngombono wakho, uKonstantin, ukuba yonke into izalwa kwaye isuka kwimizila, kwaye unyango kunye / okanye ukulungiswa kwemfuzo "embi" akunakwenzeka, ngoko ke ezo zingathandekiyo zatshatyalaliswa nje. Kodwa ngokubanzi, ubuninzi beempazamo zegrama, isimbo kunye neziphumlisi kubonisa kuphela ukuba ufunda kancinci kakhulu.
Injalo, yayisele icacile kwasekuqaleni. Umseki wale ngcamango wenza imali enhle, kwaye inkwenkwe eyakhuliswa njengentombazana yabandezeleka ubomi bayo bonke kwaye yazibulala.
Eli libali elidumileyo likaDavid Reimer, inkwenkwe engazange ibe yintombazana. Yiyiphi eya kungquzulwano sele ikhulile kunye nososayensi oye waqinisekisa abazali ukuba batshintshe isondo somntwana.
Ngaba i-IQ ephantsi ihambelana ne-homophobia?
Ukujonga kweliphi ilizwe. Ukuba lilizwe elinyamezelayo elinobufanasini obusekiweyo, abantu abakrelekrele baya kubanga ukuba abazoyiki abantu abathandanayo. Kodwa oku akusiyo ikhonkco phakathi kwe-homophobia kunye ne-IQ. Kukho unxibelelwano phakathi kwemfundo yaseNtshona kunye nenkululeko, kunye nokuhambelana phakathi kokungazi kunye nobukrelekrele obuphantsi. Kodwa hayi unxibelelwano oluthe ngqo phakathi kobukrelekrele obuphantsi kunye ne-homonegativism.
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