Kutshanje eRashiya kukho ukukhula okuqhumayo kwizicelo ezivela kubantu abancinci kunye nabaselula "kwinguqu yesini". Ukuqaliswa kolu luvo kwenzeka ngenxa yokuvezwa kwabafikisayo Ubuxoki be-LGBT kwi-Intanethi. Ke abakwishumi elivisayo, ngenxa yeempawu zeminyaka yobudala, basulelana ngokulula ngolu hlobo loxinzelelo phantsi kwesikhokelo sabacuphi kunye nee-manipulators.
I-transsexualism ebizwa ngokuba "yinyani" (apho "inguqu yesondo" iboniswa khona) ifundwe kwaye ichazwe. Oku kunqabile kangangokuba uninzi loogqirha zange bahlangane nalo bephila. Iingcali zithi yenzeka malunga nomntu omnye kwabayi-1. Oko kukuthi, eRashiya, enabemi abamalunga ne-100 lezigidi, kukho malunga ne-000 kubo. Abantu abamalunga ne-140 bazalwa ngonyaka abanokufunyaniswa ukuba bane-transsexual ngoogqirha bengqondo abanoxanduva. Ngelo xesha, iikliniki ezingaphezu kwe-1400 ziqhuba iikhomishini zemihla ngemihla zokubonelela ngeenkonzo "zokutshintsha ngokwesondo". Ngo-15, malunga "notshintsho lwezesondo", iiofisi zepaspoti zikhuphe iipaspoti ze-20, kwaye ngo-2020 - sele i-428 ipasipoti. Le yintlekele!
I-boom yanamhlanje ayinanto yakwenza nale ngxaki inqabileyo. Akusisiphumo sepropaganda enamandla kuphela esekelwe kwi-pseudo-scientific "theory of gender", eyona nto iyingcamango echasene nomntu kwisiseko sayo, kodwa kunye ne-INFRASTRUCTURE edalwe phantsi kobunkokeli beengcamango zangaphandle, ezibonelela ngokukhawuleza. -njengokukhula kwenani labalandeli.
Akunzima ukufumana isiqinisekiso sokufana okupheleleyo kwe-trans-movement kunye nehlelo lobuzwilakhe, ukuba uphathisa iingcali ngohlalutyo lwale ntshukumo elawulwa phesheya kolwandle. Iinjongo zicace nakumntu ongeyongcali: ukuchithwa kwabantu, ukudalwa koxinzelelo lwentlalo olukhulayo kunye neqela elikhulu loqhanqalazo lolutsha oluseziintsana nabantwana. Kungekudala siza kufumana umkhosi omtsha we-"LGBT-bulk" kunye nokukhubazeka okunzulu kwengqondo, ukulungele nantoni na. Bafundiswa ukuthiya abazali babo, usapho, ilizwe labo kwaye bathandaze kumnyama wasentshona. Ngaphezu koko, ukubethelwa komntwana kunkqonkqoza yonke intsapho ngaphandle kobomi obuqhelekileyo, ukubala ngoncedo lukarhulumente, kodwa engayifumani, njengoko kwenzekayo namhlanje.
Imeko iintsapho ezinabantwana abachaphazelekayo ezizifumana zikuyo intekenteke kakhulu: phantse akukho mntu ukulungeleyo ukupapasha ingxaki esondeleyo, kwaye abantu abazi ukuba balujonge phi na uncedo. Kodwa kuzo zonke iikona unokufumana "iingcali zengqondo" eziqeqeshwe ngokwemigangatho yaseNtshona, abathi oku kuqhelekileyo kunye nelungelo lomntwana. Le meko isongela ubhubhani ongazange ubonwe ngaphambili, kodwa okwangoku akukho zixhobo zokulwa nayo.
Ngoku, amakhulu abantwana bezolo batshintsha iipaspoti zabo ngonyaka, oku kuthetha ukuba amawaka afumana izatifikethi (ayinguye wonke umntu ohamba ngokukhawuleza ukufaka isicelo sepaspoti). Amashumi okanye amakhulu amawaka olutsha "lusemsebenzini" kunye nabaxhaphazi be-Intanethi, kubandakanya naba baseUkraine, kwaye "baqolileyo" kuluntu lwe-LGBT olukwi-intanethi. Izigidi zabantwana ziqhelene nabo kwiiwebhsayithi zokuncokola kwaye bayavelana nabo bengawuqondi undoqo wengxaki. Kusengqiqweni ukulindela ukukhula okuthe kratya okungaphaya kwesi siganeko.
Xa thina kwintsapho sasijamelene nengxaki enjalo, sasitsalela umnxeba ngokukhawuleza STATE inkonzo yezempilo yengqondo kwisixeko. Sibuze ukuba kufuneka sijike phi ukuze sifumane uncedo lokususa umntwana oneminyaka eli-15 kumbono "wokutshintsha ngokwesondo" "wachola" kwi-Intanethi, saxelelwa: "Ufuna uncedo, kodwa umntwana uphilile, unelungelo lokutshintsha isini, kwaye ngokubanzi, sele eneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala, kwaye akufanelekanga ngokomthetho ukuba wazi ngeemvakalelo zakhe kunye nezinto azikhethayo. Yena ngokwakhe unelungelo lokukhetha ingcali eya "kumkhapha". Yintoni le ukuba ayiyopropaganda ye-transgender?
Ngoku kukho iingcali zengqondo ezininzi ezizimeleyo kwisixeko sethu, kwaye abanye babo bathi "bathatha" izigulane ezinjalo, kodwa apho bathatha khona, akukho mpendulo. Izigulane ezinjalo zifuna ukuhlolwa kwengqondo kunye nonyango olujoliswe ekupheliseni izizathu zokuphazamiseka (zihluke). Andazi ngeendawo apho unokulufumana khona uncedo olunjalo kwiMpuma Ekude. Kwaye kufuneka uqale unyango lwengqondo ngokukhawuleza, de ingxaki ilungiswe! Kodwa umntwana akafuni kwaye ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-15 unelungelo. Ngumthetho lowo.
Siye satyelela iingcali ezininzi zengqondo. Kumbuzo olula "Ngaba uya kuthatha ukupheliswa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo emntwaneni?" akwabakho uphendulayo ngokuthe ngqo, bewajika amehlo abo. Omnye wabo wathi ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba udumo lweengcali ezinjalo luxhomekeke kakhulu ekunyanisekeni kuluntu lwe-LGBT, kwaye ukuze ube nethemba lomsebenzi, kuyimfuneko ukuthobela iindlela zehlabathi ... Wandicebisa ukuba ndijonge, uvelwano, kodwa akazange. zimisele ukunceda nokuba.
Namhlanje umntwana wethu ukhulile, wathenga isatifikethi kwi-Empathy LLC kwaye watshintsha ipasi lakhe. Uzityhefa ngeehomoni kwaye wonge imali yokwenza uqhaqho ... Kwaye akanayo imiqondiso yokuxilongwa, ngesiseko apho izatifikethi ezinjalo kufuneka zikhutshwe. Oku kungqinwe luvavanyo olunzulu kunye nebhunga leengcaphephe ebezisebenza ngokusondeleyo nesi sifo sinqabile kangangamashumi eminyaka kwaye ziqhuba umsebenzi wenzululwazi. Asizange simcenge ukuba aye kolu viwo. Kodwa ubuxoki bunamandla. Uyasithemba isatifikethi asithengileyo kunye neengcali ze-pseudo ezisebenza ngokusemthethweni eRashiya elongamela "inguqu" yakhe.
Ziya zisanda iintlekele ezinjalo kwiintsapho.
Ukulwa nepropaganda kwi-Intanethi akwanele, nangona kuyimfuneko. Akunakwenzeka ukukhuphisana ne-avalanche yomxholo owonakalisayo okhoyo kulutsha namhlanje.
Kwaye kufuneka siyiphumelele le mfazwe ingachazwanga.
Kutheni kwakunokwenzeka ukoyisa ubhubhane we "blue whales"? Wayengenaso isiseko sokwenyani se-offline kunye ... nenkxaso karhulumente. Xa abazali becela uncedo malunga ne-blue whale hobby, abazange baxelelwe ukuba abantwana banelungelo lokuzibulala, kodwa banike iingcebiso zangempela kwaye basindisa abantwana.
Kwaye impambano yesini inesiseko esinamandla esineedilesi kunye iifani kunye nemithetho, akucaci ukuba zaye zamkelwa njani kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo, nto leyo enceda ekulimaleni abantwana, ukuvala inzala nokubulala zonke izizukulwana ezilandelayo. Kwaye konke KUSEMTHETHO!
Kunokwenzeka ukuphumelela kuphela ngamanyathelo asymmetric, ukutshabalalisa isiseko somzi-mveliso wokufa, owenziwe kwilizwe lethu kwaye ubulala ngokusemthethweni abantwana kunye nexabiso lethu ngeendleko zethu.
Ususa njani isiseko:
1. Ukurhoxisa inkqubo eyenziwe lula yokwahlulwa ngokwesini ngokufumana isatifikethi. Ukuqwalaselwa kwexesha elide elide, uviwo olunzulu, kubandakanywa nembali epheleleyo yokuthatha, njengoko kwakunjalo ngaphambili, kuyimfuneko. Akunakwenzeka kwaye kuchasene nesayensi ukuxilonga "i-transsexualism" ngokulula kumagama abaguli bengqondo, ngokusekelwe, enyanisweni, kumnqweno wabo. I-anamnesis kufuneka iqule ubungqina babazali, ugqirha wabantwana oqatshelweyo, ootitshala, abafundisi ("inyani" i-transsexualism ayibonakali ngokukhawuleza ebusheni, ibonakaliswe ngokucacileyo ukususela ebuntwaneni). Namhlanje, yinto nje yomthetho (isondo) yokutshintsha inkonzo, eyenziwa ngabahwebi babucala kwaye ibhengezwe ngokubanzi phakathi kwabantwana.
2. Yenza isigqibo esingxamisekileyo sokurhoxisa iilayisensi kwiikliniki zabucala ukuze ube nelungelo lokukhupha ezo zatifiketi. Dlulisa eli lungelo kwinani eliqingqiweyo kakhulu lamaziko eengcali zombuso (enye okanye amabini anele), ngokusekelwe kwiindlela zenzululwazi zasekhaya ezinzulu zokuxilongwa kokuphazamiseka kwendima yesini, kwaye kungekhona kwingcamango yesini.
3. Ukurhoxisa iipaspoti ezikhutshwe kwiminyaka yakutshanje uze uqhube uviwo kwakhona ngokweendlela zasekhaya zazo zonke iimeko ngokukhutshwa kwezatifikethi ngala maziko abucala. Namhlanje, uninzi lwenkcazelo eninzi ibubuxoki ngabom. Umzekeliso omkhulu onjalo uya kupholisa inzondelelo yepropaganda kwaye uvumele UKUGCINA UBOMI kunye nempilo yabantu abatsha abasele bekhohlisiwe (i-41% "ye-transgender" ithanda ukuzibulala emva "kokwabelana ngesondo kwakhona" ngenxa yobukho bokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye nezifo, ngokunjalo. njengasemva kokuqonda impazamo yabo engenakuguqulwa).
4. Qala ukusebenzisa umthetho ovala i-propaganda ye-LGBT ngokumalunga neninzi "iingcali zengqondo" ezibanga kwi-reception zangasese, esidlangalaleni, kubandakanywa ne-intanethi, ukuba "i-transgender" yinto eqhelekileyo kunye nelungelo lokuba nabani na ofuna. Amagama abo ayaziwa, kwi-YouTube efanayo kunye ne-VKontakte babandakanyeka kwi-propaganda evulekile, bahlanganisana kwiinkomfa ze-pseudoscientific, bafunde kunye neengcamango zangaphandle ze-anti-science "theory yesini" echasene nesayensi, kunye nabalandeli be-trans-activists, bayaziqhenya ngeediploma zabo, bawazulise. phambi kweempumlo zabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo abaqhathayo, bababeke kubazali babo baze bacebise ukuba balishiye ilizwe. Iividiyo zabo zineembono zezigidi. Bathabatha i-neophytes ye "ihlelo" kwaye bancede ukuphazamiseka ukuba bafumane indawo kwiingqondo zabemi abancinci. Le yipropaganda exhasayo.
5. Yenza kwaye upapashe kwiitshaneli ze-federal i-hotline ethi "Stop LGBT", apho abantu (ingakumbi abazali) abajongene nale ntlekele baya kukwazi ukufumana iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo kwiingcali ezine-propaganda ye-LGBT engatshintshiyo kunye ne-pseudoscience consciousness. Apho ungakhalaza malunga "neengcali" ezikhuthaza ukuqheleka kwe-transgenderism kunye nokunye ukutenxa.
6. Guqula iminyaka yemvume yokungenelela kwengqondo kunye neenkonzo zengqondo kwiminyaka eyi-18. Ngaphandle koko, kuvela ukuba utywala kunye ne-cigarettes zingathengwa kuphela ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-18, kunye nesigqibo sokunyanga okanye ukuxhasa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo enzima - ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-15, kwaye de facto namhlanje ukhetho lwenziwa ngumthetho ... Umntwana oneminyaka eli-15 ubudala kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ngokwakhe ... Umthetho namhlanje okunene ibhloko unyango lwabantwana abagulayo. Kungenxa yobutsha ukuba i-propaganda ephazamisa i-psyche yenzelwe, kuba kule minyaka kulula ukuzisa iintsholongwane zengqondo, ngoko unyango kufuneka luqaliswe ngokukhawuleza.
7. Khusela oogqirha kunye noososayensi bengqondo ekuxhatshazweni ngabasebenzi be-LGBT. Njani? Andazi... mhlawumbi kufuneka ubabuze? Kubonakala ukuba, ngaphandle kwesikhundla sezopolitiko sombuso malunga nomcimbi "wokukhulula ubuhlanya besini kwilizwe lethu kunye ne-ICD-11 okanye ukukhanyela kunye nokuvinjelwa" oku akunakusonjululwa.
8. Kungxamisekile ukwazisa ulwahlulo lwasekhaya lwengqondo yengqondo esekelwe kwisayensi yasekhaya enzulu kunye nokusebenza ngempumelelo kwasekhaya, kunye nezicwangciso ezidibeneyo (ngokwe-nosologies) zokuxilongwa kunye nokunyangwa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Musa ukusebenzisa amacandelo e-ICD-11 aqhelekileyo, kwimidla yezopolitiko yabachasi bethu kunye nangenxa yombutho wezopolitiko we-LGBT, iimbono malunga nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okusekelwe kwisini.
Inkqubo "yokuqhelaniswa" kweengxaki ezahlukeneyo ze-LGBT eNtshona ayizange iqhutywe ngendlela yesayensi, kodwa. Intando yezopolitiko yee-lobbyists ezivela kwi-radical LGBT movement isebenzisa izoyikiso, uhlaselo lwama-radicals kwiinkomfa zesayensi, njl.
Ngako oko isiphelo: kuyafuneka kwakhona ukukhusela ikhaya lethu kule ngcamango eyonakalisayo ngeendlela zezopolitiko. Lo ngumba wokhuseleko lwesizwe.
Akukho ngqiqweni ukuzala intetho yenzululwazi. Kuyimfuneko ukugcina iintsalela zenzululwazi enzulu, izazinzulu kunye neengcali ezivela kulawulo lwe-LGBT-friendly psychologists kunye noogqirha abaye bagqiba ngempumelelo uqeqesho oluvela kwii-arhente zangaphandle kwaye bangemi kwisayensi, kodwa kwi-ideological radical position. Zininzi zazo, kwaye yonke imihla kukho ngakumbi nangakumbi - sele befundisa kwiiyunivesithi. Basebenza ngokuchasene nomdla wezigulane, uluntu kunye norhulumente ngokweminqweno yeentshaba zethu ze-geopolitical, kunye nemali yoluntu.
Amanyathelo ayafuneka ngokukhawuleza kwaye anzima.
Abazali babantwana ababanjwe kwiinethiwekhi ze-LGBT
PS "Inzululwazi ngeNyaniso":
Ukuba wena okanye abantu obathandayo baye babandezeleka kwaye balungele ukubhalisa, bhala ibali lakho kwizimvo. Amagama akho okanye iisignesha ezingaziwa ziya kunceda ukuhambisa intlungu yababhali bale leta kuMphathiswa wezeMpilo kunye noRhulumente weRussian Federation. Dlulisa esi sibheno kwisekela lakho, kukhethwa ukuba ubuqu, njengobungqina bokuba eli asilotyala lodwa.
Ewe, ibali lisemgangathweni. Oku kwenzeka nakwintsapho yakowethu. Ngelixesha silwela ukusindisa umntwana. Kodwa bangaphi abazali abaye banikezela, bengafumani ncedo kurhulumente, kuphela iingcebiso zokunikezela. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukufunda nokubhala kwimiba enjalo kukuncinci kakhulu, iingcali ezinamava, onokuthi uhambe uzifumane kwii-expanses zethu ezinkulu ... Umatshini onamandla weengcamango kumntu wazo zonke iintlobo ze "psychologists" uphula uninzi lwabazali abenzayo. bengayiqondi into eyenzekayo, bebaqinisekisa ukuba le yinto eqhelekileyo. Le yipropaganda exhasayo. Endaweni yokukhupha umntwana ekuphazamisekeni kwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kukwanyanzeliswa kubazali, kwindawo ohlala kuyo, nakubaziyo. Kufana namaza emanzini, njengomhlaza wengqondo oguqula uluntu. Xa "ubunzima obunzima" bufikelelwe, kuya kuba sekwephuzile ukukhusela. Oku kuya kuba lithafa ledabi leembono ezimbini: umntu kunye nomntu. Akukho nto intsha. Enye indlela yokudala isiphithiphithi esilawulwayo. Ngaphezu koko, kucacile njengemini ukuba ngubani olawulayo ... Akucaci nje ukuba kutheni abo banoxanduva lokhuseleko lwesizwe bajika amehlo kule nto ngoku ... Ndiyathemba ukuba baya kuqaphela kungekudala.
Ndivumelana ngokupheleleyo nenkcazo yangaphambili kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Ndingumama womntwana owathi, kwiminyaka emi-2, waguquka kwinkwenkwana esempilweni, enobuchule waba yimifuno, isidalwa esizikhanyelayo kunye nosapho lwakhe, iinzame ezi-4 zokuzibulala, ukuxilongwa kwe-F-64 kwimizuzu engama-40, iihomoni, ukufa okucothayo. phambi kwamehlo am. 4 izicelo ngoMvulo. Izibheno ezivela kuzo zonke iziphathamandla ezinokwenzeka zichasene nabazali abanjalo kwaye ziyakhuthazwa, nakwinkundla, ukunyanzelisa ukugcinwa komntwana ukuba amkele ukhetho lomntwana, phantsi kokugcinwa kombuso kwakhona amahomoni, izibhedlele zengqondo kunye ne-tranquilizers, ukwala ukufumana unyango. iimviwo ezivela kuyo yonke indawo, ukwaliwa kokubuyiselwa kwimeko yesiqhelo, umntwana wam kufuneka asweleke ekhubazekile, akukho nto incedayo kwilizwe lethu, uqhubela phambili kwinjongo yakhe - utshintsho lwesini!
Masekela abekekileyo, ncedani niyithathele ingqalelo le ngxaki, esele ibe ngubhubhani ofihlakeleyo. Ngoku abantwana bafundiswa ukufihla yonke into kwaye emva kweminyaka eyi-18 banqumle amaqhina kunye nesenzo. Bayingozi kubo nakwilizwe, le yibhombu esihleli kuyo sonke. Bahlanjululwa ngabantu, iingqondo zabo zitshintshile, kodwa akukho ukulungiswa okufanelekileyo, ngokuchaseneyo, abazali babo baphathwa. Balithiyile ilizwe, sonke singama-homophobes kunye nama-fascists, oku kungamandla amakhulu, nceda udlulise imithetho yokuthintela ukutshatyalaliswa kwesizukulwana sonke. Iyoyikeka kwaye iqhubeka ifihliwe kumntu wonke. Imithetho kufuneka yamkelwe ngoku, kungenjalo umkhosi wabakhubazekileyo ngokwasengqondweni, abangazaliyo nabaxhomekeke kwiziyobisi uza kukhukulisa iRashiya.
Ndifuna ngokwenene ukukholelwa ukuba urhulumente uya kuthabatha kwaye akayi kuvumela iNtshona ukuba iqhubeke nokutshabalalisa abantwana bethu! Sinomntwana kwintsapho yethu, inkwenkwe enempilo epheleleyo, evela kwintsapho enothando epheleleyo, yawela phantsi kwempembelelo yale propaganda, yalinda iminyaka eyi-21, yaya ngasese eMoscow, yafumana isatifikethi kwaye yatshintsha ipasipoti yakhe, ngoku ifana ne kulula njengokuya kwisonka. Ngaxeshanye, akukho nkxaso koogqirha, wonke umntu unoloyiko lokuba angaphelelwa ngumsebenzi.Kufuneka sitshintshe imithetho ngokukhawuleza!
Nceda unikele ingqalelo kakhulu!
Ngexesha apho eRashiya izinga lokuzalwa liwela ngentlekele, xa sifuna izixhobo eziya kunceda ukuphakamisa eli nqanaba lokuzalwa, xa kukhutshwa imiyalelo kaMongameli ejoliswe ekuxhaseni intsapho kunye nemilinganiselo yentsapho yendabuko (Ummiselo kaMongameli we IRussian Federation yomhla we-09.11.2022 kaNovemba 809 No. ukwabelwa ngokutsha ngokwesini. Abantwana bethu abanakukhuseleka kungekuphela nje kwi-Intanethi, kodwa nakubomi bemihla ngemihla. Le propaganda yachaphazela amaziko emfundo kunye nezikolo zobugcisa. Ngexesha leengxoxo zencoko, uCreed uthetha ngezinto ezibalulekileyo, ekhuthaza abantwana ukuba babhalisele kumajelo akhe okuthuka kunye nokuphulaphula iingoma zakhe ezingcolileyo. Ngenye yezi ntsuku uKlava Koka udlala esixekweni. Izikolo zazisiba neentsuku zokunyamezelana, zisilungiselela ukuba samkele “izinto eziqhelekileyo” ezintsha. Kwiidyunivesithi, abafundi bafundiswa ziintshaba zelizwe lethu. Kuya kude kube nini siqhubeka nokutyibilika enzonzobileni kwaye singajongani nokuziphatha kwethu? Abantwana bethu sele bebandezelekile, banxiliswe yile “mpefumlo” yaseNtshona. Ngoku abantwana abanalo ikamva, abanakukwazi ukuzala kunye nokukhulisa abantwana babo bendalo (ukuthatha amahomoni, utyando lokubulala amalungu omzimba, iinkolelo “zokukhululeka komntwana”, ukuziva kungekho ngqiqweni). Kwilizwe lethu, i-subculture echasene neenqobo zethu zenziwa ngokuphandle, esasazeka njengethumba elinomhlaza, elibandakanya amalungu amatsha ngakumbi ngokuqatshelwa kokugqwetheka njengesiqhelo kunye nokunyamezelana okucingayo. Ngokusisiseko ihlelo eline “newspeak” yalo. Ngaphambili, ulutsha lwethu luvezwe kwiindlela ezifashiniweyo ze "emo" kunye ne "goth", kodwa le mizila ayizange iholele ekukhuselweni kunye nokunqunyulwa kwamalungu abalulekileyo. Le nto yenzekayo ngoku ayinakubizwa ngenye into ngaphandle kwentlekele. Kungxamisekile ukuthatha amanyathelo kwinqanaba eliphezulu, imithetho esebenzayo, ukwenzela ukuba kamva kungabikho ukujongana nenyaniso yokuba akunakwenzeka ukulungisa!
Ukunyanzelisa iinkqubo: ukuthatha amahomoni, ukwenza imisebenzi yokubuyisela ngokwesini, ukukhupha ipaspoti kunye nokwabiwa kwakhona ngokwesini. Kutheni oku kunokwenzeka ngoku kwasebuncinaneni kwaye kulula kangaka? Ekugqibeleni, phuma kuyo yonke i-ICD 10 kunye ne-11 malunga nokuqaphela ukugula kwengqondo njengesiqhelo. Yenza uphicotho lwabo bonke oogqirha bengqondo ukuze bafanelekele umsebenzi wabo. Akukashiywa lixesha. Silahlekelwa ngootata bethu bexesha elizayo kunye noomama beentsapho, kwaye abanye kwimeko enjalo bayesaba ukuzala abantwana, kuba akukho ngcamango yokuziphatha, akukho khuselo ekulawuleni kwamaqela awonakeleyo kunye ne-LGBT kwi-VKontakte, ulwazi olutshabalalisayo. kwi-Intanethi, kwaye, ngenxa yoko, kubomi obuqhelekileyo.
Molo, ngelishwa unyana wethu naye waba lixhoba le-LGBT propaganda. Wakhula eyinkwenkwe enobubele, ekrelekrele, ebalekayo, ethanda ilizwe! Ugqibile isikolo ngembasa yegolide! Ukuzisola kwethu okukhulu, asizange siluthathele ingqalelo utshintsho olwenzekayo kunye naye, kubalelwa kwixesha lenguqu .... Ngoku uyintombazana kwincwadana yakhe yokundwendwela kwaye ulungiselela uqhaqho ((. Kwaye kulula kakhulu, ndifumene isatifikethi esichaza ukuba udlulile kwaye yonke into i-ofisi yobhaliso itshintsha isini sakho kwipaspoti yakho. Ilizwe lilwa ngokusesikweni kuphela Ipropaganda ye-LGBT, kodwa eneneni kukho umsebenzi ongavaliweyo kwi-Intanethi ukubandakanya abantwana bethu kwiqela le-LGBT! Amasekela athandekayo, abaphathiswa kunye nabo bonke abanokuba nefuthe (ngaphambi kokuba kube kudala) kule meko, bancede abazali bakhusele abantwana bethu, ikamva lethu! !!
Ndibhalisela igama ngalinye.
Usapho lwam lukwesi sihogo. Unyana omdala, indoda ehlakaniphile, umdwelisi weprogram, uyazi iilwimi ezi-5. Ngokukhawuleza wabhengeza ukuba une-dysphoria yesini kwaye wayenesatifikethi sokwabiwa kwakhona ngokwesini. Kwakhona iKliniki yovelwano. Kumawaka angama-20, isatifikethi sakhutshwa ngesiseko sencoko emfutshane. Ngoku usela amahomoni, uya kutshintsha amaxwebhu. Ndikwincoko yabantwana abasondelelene abatshintshe isini. Awuyazi ukuba bangaphi abazali abalapho, abajongene nolu loyiko. Kwaye bonke abafikisayo baneminyaka eli-16-17 ubudala. Ingakanani intlungu kule ncoko. Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-18 basela iihomoni ngokweencwadana ze-Intanethi.
Kukho newebhusayithi yale kliniki, apho kukho ipropaganda ye-LGBT kwaye bathembisa uncedo kunye nenkxaso kubantu abanjalo.
Ndibhenela kumasekela, ncedani niyiyeke le nto, yamkela imithetho, sisindiseni abantwana bethu
Amasekela athandekayo!
Umntwana wethu naye wohlulwe ngamahlelo okwabelana ngesini. Ukusuka kumntwana onobubele othanda intsapho yakhe kunye nelizwe lakhe, waguqulwa waba sisidalwa esingaqondakaliyo esisithiyileyo. Eye yatshintsha ngaphandle nangaphakathi, ekhubaza umzimba wayo ngamahomoni kwaye ilungiselela ukuzithena. Kwaye babebaninzi abantwana abanjalo. Kwiqela le-Centre-T lokwabelana ngesondo kuphela bamalunga nama-5000 10. Ndiqhagamshelane malunga ne-XNUMX yeengcali zengqondo ezahlukeneyo kwaye zonke zinempendulo efanayo ngokwencwadi enye: "Mamkele njengoko enjalo." Uxolo, kodwa le nkqubo ayizukundiqinisekisa ukuba le YINTO EQHELEKILEYO. Ndicela uyeke lempambano!!! Kuyoyikisa ukucinga ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni kubantwana bethu abanetalente!
Kwibali lam, umsebenzi wentombi yam wawungomnye weentlekele ezininzi ezandehlelayo. Yayiluphawu oluvulelekileyo, olungenazintloni lwenqanaba losulelo kuwo onke amaziko kulo mmandla. Isizathu saloo ntshutshiso yayikukwala kwam ukuba ngumgqwethezi nenjongo yokutyhila iqela labaxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesini ngolwaphulo-mthetho lwalo! Oko kukuthi, yonke inkqubo yayiqhagamshelwe ukusuka kwiinkundla ukuya kwiziko lengqesho, ibhanki, ubugadi, njl. Enyanisweni, le yi-neo-fascism ngokwenene, ikrazula eyona nto ingcwele, intiyo yobuOthodoki, uThixo!
Amasekela athandekayo!
Ndilingqina lezinto ezenzekayo kwi family yabahlobo bam abalungileyo unyana wabo wangena kobu bugxwayiba ndiyanibongoza ukuba nikhe niyithathele ngqalelo le ngxaki yomhlaba wonke, kubhubha abantwana bethu ngobuninzi, ubungozi bulinganiswa ngo amakhulu, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngamawaka eemeko.
Thintela ukusasazeka kolu sulelo, nceda uyeke kwaye wohlwaye izaphuli-mthetho ezithi zinyanzelise iinqobo zobuxoki ezingqondweni zabantwana, zaphule ubuntu kunye neentsapho. uxanduva olukhulu lokuba zeziphi izizukulwana eziya kukhula kwaye zidale ikamva lethu elongezelelweyo.
Yonke le propaganda yaseNtshona ingenamthetho kwaye ingenangqondo iphula ingqibelelo yelizwe lethu kwaye isoyikisa ngentlekele enkulu.Yeka oku kufihlwa ngokukhawuleza!
Amasekela athandekayo!
Ndakhe ndanengxaki efanayo kwintsapho yabahlobo bam. Unyana wabo ukule ngxaki, yaye ndiyanibongoza ukuba ninikele ingqalelo epheleleyo kule ngxaki yehlabathi lonke. Inkwenkwe endiyazi ukususela ebuntwaneni, engazange ibonise naziphi na iimpawu zokuziphatha "kowesifazane", kodwa ingumntwana, inqabileyo, kunye nomfanekiso "unisex" kunye nendlela yokugqoka, ngokukhawuleza uvakalisa ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumfazi. Ngokufihlakeleyo kubazali bakhe, njengomntu omdala, kunye nenkxaso yeziko elenza imali kwimpilo yabantwana bethu, yonakalisa, wathatha isatifikethi, ngokubhekiselele apho wayesele etshintshile amaxwebhu akhe, waqala ukuthatha iziyobisi ze-hormonal, ezonakalisa. hayi impilo yakhe kuphela, kodwa nobomi bakhe!
Ndiyazi ngokwam ukuba icebo lentlekele libhalwe njengekopi yekhabhoni. Umntwana ufumana abantu abanengqondo efanayo kwiintanethi zentlalo, ujoyina iqela elivaliweyo, apho "engqondo" ngenkuthalo kwisihloko se-transgender "utshintsho" ukusuka kwesinye isini ukuya kwesinye, kunye nombono wokuhlukana nabazali bakhe kunye nosapho. ikhuthazwa ngenkuthalo, kuba... Abaziqondi kwaye bangaze babaxhase, nto leyo ethetha ukuba abazithandi!
Kwiminyaka nje eyi-15-20 eyadlulayo yayiyi-anime kunye neengcinga malunga "nokungaxabiseki" kobomi. Emva koko kwakukho uEmo kunye noGoths. Kwakukho iindaba ezisasazwayo zokuzenzakalisa nokuzibulala. Njengogqirha wengqondo, ndiye ndafumana ithuba lokusebenza nabazali kunye nabantwana.
Kwaye ngoku i-anime efanayo kunye ne "fashion" yokutshintshwa ngokwesini.
Umntu ebusheni akakwazi ukuvavanya ngokungqongqo ukuziphatha kwakhe, kunye nemiphumo yezenzo ezithile, iimvakalelo, kunye neziphakamiso ezibekwe ngokukhawuleza kwiintanethi zentlalo (ingakumbi "i-VKontakte") malunga nokwabiwa ngokwesini. Kwaye umthetho wethu ukhusela uluvo lwakhe ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-15. Ngoko ke sifumana ntoni? Usulelo loluntu oluninzi olunezimvo ezingaqhelekanga kwinkcubeko yethu. Abantwana bayaluqhawula ulwalamano nentsapho nabahlobo. Bazishiya izifundo zabo kwaye bazenzakalise. Kwaye kwiminyaka embalwa siya kujongana nokuphoxeka okukhulu kunye nokuzibulala. Ngokwenyani, kukho ukutshatyalaliswa okukhulu kwabantwana bethu, kujongela phantsi iziseko zezithethe nezithethe zethu. Sifumana isizukulwana sabo baphoxekileyo, abalahlekelwe zizikhokelo zabo kunye nonxibelelwano, abo kulula ukulawula.
Ukuthintela ukusasazeka kosulelo phantsi kweeflegi ze-LGBT kunye nonyamezelo, nceda uyeke kwaye wohlwaye abophuli-mthetho abathi babeke imibono engendawo, imilinganiselo yobuxoki ebantwaneni, ukwaphula ubuntu kunye neentsapho.
Izolo intombi yam ineminyaka engama-22 ubudala, ayizange iphendule iifowuni zam ixesha elide, ibiza ngokuba ngu-Oleg kwaye ikhangeleka njengomfana, iguqule intombazana enhle ibe yinto ehambelanayo.
Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-11 ubudala, wayephathwa ngamabomu, ekubeni unina, oko kukuthi, ndaba yinto yokuziphindezela yombumbulu.
Ngaphezu koko, wayexhaswa phantse ngawo onke amaziko ayenzelwe ukukhusela abemi kugonyamelo. Mna nabantwana bam savinjwa indawo yokuhlala, ithuba lokuqhelana nentlalontle. Yaye le ntshutshiso isaqhubeka. Ndimele ndinike igama lalo gqwetha, ngubani u-bahaalsya ngothando lwakhe kwinkwenkwe, njl. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo lingena ngokukhululekile, njengomhlobo, kumphathi wamapolisa. Nityagovsky Sergey Nikolaevich. Ngowe-1954 R.
Ngoku ndinxibelelana nabazali abaninzi abanabantwana abasempilweni abaye baphantsi kwe-trans-processing.Ku “velwano” kukho abantwana abatyhafileyo, abagobileyo, abasele bekwikhemikhali nangokwengqondo abantwana abakhubazekileyo abafolele iziqinisekiso.Lo sele ingubhubhani! Ukutshatyalaliswa kwabantwana, kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwabaqeshwa kuyamangalisa, batshica yonke imithetho kwaye benza nantoni na abayifunayo kwilizwe lethu, kwiZiko, ngokomzekelo, baphazamisa ukuhlukana kweRashiya ibe ngamacandelo kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kwabantu abathandana bodwa. urhulumente!Le yi-extremism emsulwa kunye nehlelo lobuzwilakhe!Gcina ikamva laseRussia - abantwana!Bayanda abazanayo, Nasemsebenzini bathi kukho iingxaki ezinjalo kubantwana.
Namkelekile!
Intombi yethu eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala nayo yaba lixhoba lentshukumo yotshintsho. Akunyanzelekanga nokuba ubhale imbali yethu, kuba ifana nekopi yekhabhoni yomntu wonke. Ukusuka kwinkosazana entle, eyonwabileyo eyayinqula yonke into yobufazi ngaye kwasebuntwaneni, kunyaka ongaphambi kwamehlo ethu yajika yaba sisidalwa esingenasondo, esibi esizithiyileyo kunye nathi. Walahlekelwa phantse lonke unxibelelwano lwentlalo, wayeka ukunxibelelana nabahlobo, njengerobhothi - isikolo kunye ne-Intanethi.
Umahluko kuphela kwibali lethu kukuba ndifikelele emazantsi enyani kungekudala, ukunxibelelana nomntwana kwakhawuleza kwabuyiselwa kwaye okwangoku sizama kunye ukulwa le ntlekele. Kodwa into endifuna ukuyithetha kukuba esi sisifo sokwenyani esifana nokukhotyokiswa ziziyobisi! Umntwana wayeneenyanga ezintandathu ngaphandle kwegajethi konke konke, kwaye ngokuzithandela, uyavuma ukuba ngaphandle kokukhawulela ukufikelela kwi-Intanethi akayi kukwazi ukuphuma, waqala ukujika abe yintombazana kwakhona, kwaye kwafuneka sinikeze isiqabu esincinci - Iintsuku ezi-4, iiyure ezi-2 ngokuhlwa kwilaptop, kwaye wayeKHONA kwakhona! Ubuyele kula maqela njengomfana.
Masekela abathandekayo, ningasishiyi, iintsapho esele zibandezelekile ngenxa yentshukumo! ngaphandle kwakho, ngaphandle kwenkxaso karhulumente, asikwazi ukumelana! Ungavumeli oku kube ngubhubhani ongalawulekiyo. Ukusasazwa okufana ne-avalanche yepropaganda ye-LGBT kusongela wonke umntu ngentlekele enjalo, xa kuthelekiswa nayo yonke into eyayisongela abantwana bethu ngaphambili iya kubonakala ngathi yinto engekhoyo!
Ibali lentombi yam liyafana nelabaninzi. Sakhula intombazana enomtsalane, iibhere, oonodoli, iilokhwe, ukudanisa phambi kwesipili kwaye ndinxibe iimpahla zam.
Ukubandakanyeka kwimidlalo yokudlala indima kunye nabahlobo abadala ukusuka malunga ne-10 leminyaka ubudala. Utshintsho ukusuka kwiindima zabasetyhini ukuya kwezamadoda. I-anime kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo-ukusuka kwinkanuko kunye neyothando ukuya kumxholo othandabuzekayo, ofihlwe emva kwemaski evuselela inkanuko yobudlelwane bobufanasini. Unxibelelwano kwiintanethi zentlalo esekelwe kwizinto ezinomdla. Bazama ukuphazamisa koku ngokubeka into phantsi kokuvalwa komsebenzi. Kwaye umsebenzi wesikolo wawunzima. Akukho nto yandincedayo.
Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-14, ndafumana izifundo “kubahlobo” nakwi-Intanethi malunga nokuba ngoobani abantu abatshintshe isini nokuba benze ntoni. Inkangeleko, isinxibo, ukuziphatha kwatshintsha. Ukuma phantsi kwegama lendoda. Kodwa into ephambili kukuba amehlo omntwana atshintshile. Baba buhlungu ngakumbi yaye bebandezeleka ngakumbi. Ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo ngesiquphe, amaphupha amabi ebusuku, amahlazo kunye nathi. Kwaye umlutha kwi-Intanethi kunye nokuncokola nabahlobo kunye nabantu abanengqondo efanayo. Ukuvalwa kwefowuni, kunye neenzame zokuthethathethana, zahluleka. Phantse ukuya kwinqanaba lokulwa. Satyelela oogqirha abahlukeneyo, oogqirha bengqondo, izazi zengqondo, i-neurologists, i-endocrinologists. Akukho mntu wayekwazi ukuthetha nantoni na ebambekayo. Omnye wathetha ngentsimi "yesithathu", umntu malunga nokungaqhelekanga, umntu malunga nokuba kufuneka ujongwe ukuze uqonde. Akukho xilongo lukhethekileyo lwenziwayo. Bonke oogqirha bathetha ngamxhelo mnye ukuba oku akusiyo i-transsexualism, akukho siseko sokuxilongwa. Yonke into ishintshile kwiminyaka yamuva, xa kwakunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane isatifikethi ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuxilongwa kwe "transsexualism" ngemali, njengetikiti lokutshintsha ipasipoti kunye nesini esahlukileyo kunye negama.
Kwaye ke, i-algorithm iyaziwa - unyango lwe-hormone, utyando. Akukho ngxaki, hlawula nje. Esi sikimu siphela siyaziwa, sidluliselwa njengelizwi lomlomo, okanye njengomyalezo oya kwi-LGBT kunye noluntu olugqithisiweyo. Ukutshintshela kwesinye isini kuba yinjongo yobomi kwaye yonke imihla ibalulekile kuphela ukuba inyathelo lithatyathelwa kulonwabo lomntu. Nayiphi na imiqobo endleleni isuswe endleleni ngabahlobo abangaxhasi ukunikezelwa ngokutsha ngokwesini. Iimpawu ezincinci zokungamkeli kwabazali kwesi sikhundla kunye nezicwangciso zikhokelela kubundlobongela obukhethekileyo okanye nokuhlukana, ukushiya ikhaya. Kwangaxeshanye, intombi yam ingumntu onesiphiwo, onobubele nonothando. Kodwa ubumnyama bumthintela ekubeni aphile ngendlela engakholelekiyo. Njengoko kwenza usapho lonke. Uncedo luyafuneka. Okwenyani, uxilongo lwezonyango lwenzululwazi kunye nonyango. Iindlela zepseudoscientific ezixhasa inguqu zenza ingxaki ibe mandundu kwaye ikhokelele kwiingxaki ezimanyumnyezi kumzimba kunye nempilo yengqondo. Ndiyazi ngokwam. Kuba ndinxibelelana nabazali bam. Phakathi kwabantu endibaziyo nabahlobo bam kukho abantwana abonzakeleyo. Kwaye le yintlekele. Ndibhalisa kulo lonke igama kwisibheno egameni labazali.
Ndifuna uncedo nyani!!!
Molweni emva kokufota umboniso kamabonakude ePerm NTV apho ndaziva kabuhlungu xa ndibona unyana wam okokuqala enyakeni yiloo nto! Qondani nantso ke!umonakalo empilweni sele ungenakulungiseka .Wayezitya iipilisi eziyalelwe ngoogqirha bengqondo wachitha unyaka wonke efakela iHormones!andizubanabazukulwana kodwa uzakuba nabantwana!
Ndaphendukela kurhulumente kumntu wabasemagunyeni ukuze ndincede, kuba ekhaya andinakuyeka ukuchithwa ngokuzithandela komntwana wam, ndandithemba ukuba phantsi kweliso likarhulumente oku kuya kuyeka, kodwa akukho mntu ubona into embi kule nto. bonke bandixelela ngokuvakalayo (sk, guardianship, court,) ukuba ukwimeko encomekayo, ingaba wonke umntu uneendondo okanye ndilahlekelwe zingqondo?
Ukuxhatshazwa kwaqala kum. Ingakumbi kwi-intanethi.Akukho mntu wayelindele ukuba ndingayiphakamisa le ngxaki, bafihla yonke into, ndinobungqina apho i-Guardianship ithi baninzi abantwana abanjalo.Kodwa ziphendula iintatheli ukuba nguye yedwa!Kukho ubhubhane ofihlwe ngabom. bhala usuka kuyo yonke indawo abazali abanelishwa!
Umntu waqhekeka waza waphela apho, e-Centre T, kwaye baphathwa apho ngendlela efanayo, besaba ukuba baya kulahlekelwa ngumntwana ngokupheleleyo, kwaye bayavuma.Bandibhalela eCrimea, Bashkiria, Kamchatka, Novosibirsk.
Akukho mntu uyaziyo into emayenziwe, abantwana bafana neZombi, bazithiyile iintsapho zabo, baqhawula onke amaqhina, batya iihomoni.
Nceda uyiyeke lento yoyikisa kakhulu kwaye iyimfihlo!
Molo emva kwemini, intombi yethu nayo yaphenjelelwa lihlelo, yaye de yaneminyaka eli-14 ubudala yayiyintombazana eqhelekileyo. Xa ezi ngxaki zaqalayo, kwabonakala ukuba kwakungenakwenzeka ukulwa. Iingxoxo nomntwana zakhokelela kuphela kwiingxabano; nakuphi na isizathu sokuba le nto yayiyingxaki enkulu, ukuba mhlawumbi wayeyiphutha "i-transgenderness" yakhe, yabonwa ngumntwana ngokukrakra. Kwakucacile ukuba umntwana “wayekulungele” ukujamelana naye; wayelungiselele iimpendulo ezibubuvuvu benzululwazi kuzo zonke iingxabano zethu. Ukuba akukho nto yokuphendula, uvele athi simenza ubundlobongela. Oogqirha bengqondo neengcali ngengqondo basabela kwizicelo zethu zokuba lo ngumbandela wokuzikhethela, yaye thina bazali asifanele simcinezele umntwana, abanye bathi “yimani, iya kuzihambela ngokwayo.” Ayizange idlule. Kwilizwe lethu, isatifikethi esichaza ukuba "ukulungiswa kwezesondo kwenzekile" kunokufumaneka ngokukhawuleza ngemali, ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-18 !!!
Ukuthatha nokufumana incwadana yokundwendwela entsha enesatifiketi esinjalo nako kulula kakhulu!!
Ngaphandle kweenkqubo, iimviwo, ngaphandle kokuqokelela i-anamnesis, ngaphandle kokubuza abazali ngomntwana! Ndabhatala ndayozilimaza. Kulula kakhulu ukufumana ummiselo kunye nerejimeni yokuthatha iihomoni ezivela kwabo babizwa ngokuba “ngoogqirha” abasebenza kula maziko kwaye uqalise ukuzenzakalisa, okanye uvele u-odole uqhaqho lokususwa kwebele ngemali. kwaye nangokunjalo. Kwaye uwazi onke amanyathelo ngokucacileyo, apho afanele ukuya khona, enze ntoni, aphendule, enze njani yonke into ngokusesikweni, kwaye unenkxaso enamandla yolwazi, esemthethweni nangokwengqondo ye-LGBT.
Masekela athandekayo, kukho umbuzo omkhulu malunga nokuba semthethweni kokuthatha indawo yeSatifikethi sokuzalwa! Intombi yethu yazalwa, urhulumente wayichaza loo nto! Ungasitshintsha njani isatifikethi sokuzalwa usebenzisa isatifikethi esingaqondakaliyo esivela "kwiklinikhi", esithengwe nje ngemali!
Ndingumama wentombi. Ngoku ngokulula kwaye ngokulula waba "ngunyana".
Ndafunda amanye amabali, onke ayafana. Konke ngokwesicwangciso esinye.
Kubonakala ngathi yonke into ngaxeshanye. Akukho lukholo nakubani na okanye nantoni na.
I-100% iluncedo kumntu
I-100% yamashishini amakhulu kunye nemali enkulu
I-100% ayikhathali ngabemi abaqhelekileyo (kungenjalo oku ngekhe kwenzeka)
100% iya kuqhubeka….
Kodwa phezu kwako nje oku, likho ithemba. Ithemba kubantu abanesidima abanokuthi bayeke oku kufiphaza. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba bakho abantu abanjalo. Ndiyakholwa ukuba ayizizo zonke ezilahlekileyo. Ndiyakholelwa kwinkalipho yabo yokuchasa oku.
Ndiyakholwa.
Bahleli abathandekayo! Ndikuthumelele nge-imeyile ibali lam ndicela ukuba ulipapashe! Nceda undiphendule kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, yenze esidlangalaleni.