Ngokufuthi ngakumbi kwiqela leNzululwazi yeNyaniso idilesi abazali abaphulukene nonxibelelwano nabantwana babo ngenxa yokubandakanyeka kwabo kwintshukumo yeLGBT*. Kunzima ngomntu oqhelekileyo ukuyixabisa ilahleko enjalo, kodwa iinyembezi nokubandezeleka kwabazali abanelishwa kunokubanceda baqonde ubugeza obuqhubekayo. Nali elinye ibali elinokwenzeka kuyo nayiphi na intsapho, kwanaleyo iphumelelayo.
*Intshukumo ye-LGBT yamkelwa njengombutho ogqithisileyo!
Ngokufutshane malunga nonyana: uhlakaniphile, wakhula njengenkwenkwe ekwaziyo, ethobelayo, evuyayo, wayenabahlobo abaninzi, esoloko ebanceda abazali bakhe. Kuyo yonke le minyaka ndifunda iminyaka emihlanu. Wafunda iilwimi ezi-5 ngaxeshanye, waphumelela iimbasa ezimbini zegolide waza wathatha inxaxheba kwi-All-Russian Olympiads. Wayethanda imidlalo, ehamba nge-skiing iminyaka emi-2, i-volleyball iminyaka emi-2, eneminyaka eyi-15 wagijima amaxesha ama-2 ngeveki kwi-15 km.
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Kwakhona wayelithanda kakhulu ilizwe. Utitshala weklasi wathi xa kuvulwe umhobe, wayesoloko ephakama yedwa aze acule ngaphandle kokulibazisa. Emva kokuba ekunye noyise eMoscow, bamiswa yintatheli kudliwano-ndlebe kwaye babuza umntwana umbuzo oxhokonxayo: "Unokwenza ntoni kuPutin?" Waphendula wathi: “Ndandiya kuyila imveliso kaV. Faka phakathi." Sasizingca ngaye.
Wayethandana kakhulu namantombazana ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuya kwibanga lesithoba. Nyaka ngamnye, ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala, wayethandana namantombazana. Njengoko ndibona amantombazana, ndakhawuleza ndahluka, ndandilungele ukubenzela yonke into, ndathandana, wanika iintyatyambo, wabhala imibongo. Kanye eTurkey, wathandana nomfazi waseJamani. Wayeneminyaka eli-14 ubudala. Babhalelana ixesha elide, yaye ndayibona imbalelwano. Baxubusha ngendlela ababefanele badibane ngayo kwakhona. Wathi ufuna ukuba nabantwana abaninzi.
Ngeminyaka eyi-15, wanikwa i-smartphone. Kwaye kwibanga le-10-11 (iminyaka eyi-16-17 ubudala) baqaphela utshintsho oluqinileyo kuye. Into yokuqala esayibonayo kukuba wayeka ukunxibelelana nathi. Wakhe watsho ukuba unentloni ngathi. Andizange ndiphinde ndihambe nabahlobo bakudala, ndavutha ngumsindo. Sabona ukuba watyikitywa eNavalny naseVarlamov. Kwakukho amahlazo ezopolitiko njengoko waba ngumthiyile onamandla kaPutin. Wathi uya kufunda eMelika, kodwa ayizange iphumelele - utyando olukhethekileyo lwaqala. Kwaye waye hysterical.
Umzobo wakhe utshintshile: ngaphambi kokuba abe namagxa abanzi, emide, eneengalo ezomeleleyo, kodwa wajika wajika, wahexa. Uyekile ukusika. Kwaye ndibukele i-anime ngalo lonke ixesha. Yonke into emalunga naye yayigcwele le anime: izincamathelisi, izikipa, ifowuni, izikhuselo zesikrini, kwaye naye wazoba. Njengoko kwavela ngoku, i-anime yayikwisitayela soonografi, apho kungacaci ukuba lo mlingiswa uyinkwenkwe okanye intombazana.
Ngenye imini ndaqaphela ukuba ucheba imilenze yakhe. Kumbuzo othi, "Yintoni na, ngaba awukho gay?" waphendula, ngokuzithemba: "Yintoni, mama, ndiqhelekile." Bazithuthuzela ngento yokuba ixesha lenguquko, ezi zinto zinzima ziza kudlula kungekudala. Kwakhona wayesoloko ekunye nomntwana afunda naye. Emva koko kwafumaniseka ukuba nguye yedwa owayesazi ukuba wayedlulile.
Ehlotyeni, unyana wam waba neminyaka eli-18 ubudala, yaye ngosuku olulandelayo wasichazela ukuba wayeza kuqesha indawo yokuhlala. Kwafuneka athumele amaxwebhu kwiYunivesithi yaseMoscow State, kodwa wajamelana nathi nento yokuba wathumela amaxwebhu kwiSikolo esiPhakamileyo sezoQoqosho. Ngo September wanikwa ihostele. Zaqengqeleka iinyanga ezintandathu esondla ngezithembiso zokuba uza kuza, kodwa ngenye imini wayeka ukuyibamba ifowuni. Ndazingisa ukumtsalela umnxeba kangangeveki, yaye wandixelela ukuba akasafuni ukunxibelelana nathi. Kwaye ukususela ekuqaleni - kwakungekho zingxabano, akukho kuthuka, akukho nto.
Ekuqaleni kwabakho inzondo, umsindo, kodwa emva koko baqonda ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo, baye ehostele yakhe. Kwaye "intombazana" yehla yeza kuthi - kwiingubo zabasetyhini, kunye nezikhonkwane ezide ezipeyintiweyo, ngamehlo aphambeneyo ... Kwaye waqala ukukhwaza ukuba akasivumeli ukuba singene. Kwaye abasebenzi basehostele bambiza ngokuthi "yena". Emva kwexesha baye banxibelelana nehostele, saxelelwa ukuba uyagxothwa, kuba kwi-passport yakhe watshintsha isini waba ngowasetyhini, nokubhaliswa kwakhe kwahlukile.
Safowunela uncedo lwezengqondo lwe-112, saxelelwa ukuba "mamkele ngendlela ayiyo, kwaye udinga uncedo lwezengqondo, hayi yena." Kwaye ke zatsho zonke iingcali zengqondo esiguqukele kuzo. Xa singena "uncedo ukuba umntwana uthe udlulile" kwiYandex, sothuka: ukukhangela kwanikeza imiyalelo kuphela malunga nendlela yokwenza utshintsho, indlela yokutshintsha isondo, indlela yokwenza utyando, indlela yokuthatha amahomoni. Phantse yonke indawo inemiyalelo: 1) Yintoni omawuyenze ukuze abazali bangarhaneli nto. 2) Usele usele amahomoni, 3) Emva koko ubalekele kubazali bakho kunye nabahlobo bakho ngokusemandleni, ngcono ukuya kwesinye isixeko. 4) Uluhlu lweepilisi, uluhlu lweenkampani, apho kunye nendlela yokwenza yonke into. Iitoni zeevidiyo zaba bantu, iingcebiso, njl.njl. Sasicinga ukuba umhlaba uphambene.
Sitsalela umnxeba kuwo onke amanani ngokwengqondo. uncedo, kwaye wonke umntu uthi, kodwa ufuna njani - ufuna njani, okanye umntwana wakho ufuna njani? Ngaba uyifuna ngokufanelekileyo? Sinenkululeko yokuzikhethela into ayifunayo, ngoko makube njalo. Babiza ingqondo. uncedo kwiSikolo esiPhakamileyo sezoQoqosho, sixelelwa: thatha, uphefumlele ngaphandle, uninzi lwazo.
Kangangeenyanga ezimbini ndizama ukumcenga ukuba atshintshe ingqondo yakhe. Wathi esi yayilishwa elinzima, yaye kwakungayi kubakho lonwabo kulo.
Sake sathetha naye emnxebeni, incoko yajika yaba yingxabano. Waza waqalisa ukuthetha ngelizwi lakhe lesiqhelo lobudoda, ekhwaza, exambulisana. Kwaye ndithi: mamela ngokwakho, uthetha ngelizwi lakho lokwenyani. Zixhomekeke. Watsho etswina ukuba akasathethi nam, wavala umnxeba.
Unabahlobo abangama-60 kwi-VK, kwaye bonke banama-avatar e-anime. Bacwangcisa abantwana abane-anime yokuba "i-transgender" ilungile. Kwaye inani elikhulu kangaka lolutsha kunye nabantwana balayishwe le anime ingaqhelekanga kangangokuba kuyoyikeka ukucinga ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni kwaba bantwana bacwangcisiweyo. Baqulunqwa ngokuchasene nabazali babo, ngokuchasene nelizwe.
Bamzisa kugqirha wengqondo, apho wathi wayethatha amahomoni amabhinqa unyaka (ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-17 wawathenga ngokuzolileyo kwikhemesti), kwaye waqonda ukuba wayeyintombazana. Xa ebuzwa ukuba kutheni engasixeleli, waphendula wathi uyasazi isimo sethu sengqondo kubantu be-LGBT kwaye wayifihla ngononophelo yonke into. Emva koko, xa wayeneminyaka eyi-18, waya kwiklinikhi ye-Empathy LLC, apho wanikwa isatifikethi sama-ruble angama-20 amawaka. malunga nokwabiwa ngokutsha ngokwesini. Ndiyabuza, ungasikhupha njani isatifikethi esinjalo ngaphandle koviwo? Apho waphendula ukuba uhlawule ukuqeshwa kwengqondo, ugqirha wengqondo, okanye omnye umntu - kwaye yiloo nto, bakhupha isatifikethi, bahamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye benza ipasipoti entsha. Kwaye ngoku ugcina imali yolu tyando.Wachaza ngokweenkcukacha ukuba njani kwaye phi, ukuba ixabisa i-500 lamawaka, kwaye akanamali okwangoku, kodwa ngoku ufumene umsebenzi kwaye uzogcina. Ndiyabuza, kuba ubunemali eninzi, masithi uchithe inxalenye yayo kuwe (ukutya, njl.) kunye namanye amakhulu amawaka kwiihomoni, ukubonisana, njl. Kwaye ndabona kwifowuni yakhe ukuba. Uhlala efumana iSMS evela kuCentre-T, oko kukuthi, bahlala beyongamela. Kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo, igqwetha leza kwikliniki yengqondo apho sasisuka kwiZiko-T ngeemfuno ezisoyikisayo. UTata kunye nam sacinga ngendlela abancedisi abanobuhlobo ngokukhawuleza beza bebaleka, kwaye simahla.
Emva kwale ntlanganiso kunye nogqirha wengqondo, watshintsha zonke iifowuni zakhe, wavala yonke into kwiintanethi zentlalo, kwaye okwangoku asazi ukuba kwenzekani ngomntwana, apho ahlala khona kwaye kwenzekani kuye.
Yiloo ndlela elula kwaye elula ukusuka kwinkwenkwe ehlakaniphile, ezemidlalo eyayithanda intsapho yakhe kwaye iphupha ngentsapho enkulu, unyana wethu wajika waba "i-transgender" etshabalalisa umzimba wakhe ngamahomoni kwaye ulungiselela utyando. Liya kuba yintoni izinga lokuzalwa kweli lizwe xa urhulumente ngokwawo unceda ekubhubhiseni ulutsha?
Nceda uncede!
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Oogqirha bengqondo baseRashiya baqalise ukubiza imibutho ye-LGBT ngamahlelo.
Amagosa karhulumente aqondayo izizathu zale nkcazo yeengcali zengqondo zithetha ngokuqhubekayo malunga ne-LGBT propaganda.
Phambi koMphathiswa wezeMpilo, amatshantliziyo e-LGBT fundisa iingcali, izazi ngesondo kunye neengcali zengqondo ngokweepateni zaseNtshona, indlela yokubandakanya abantwana kwintshukumo ye-LGBT, kunye ne-endoctrinologists indlela engcono kakhulu "yokubaphatha" ngamahomoni.
UVyacheslav Viktorovich Volodin wanikela indima ekhethekileyo ekukhuthazeni umxholo we-transgender kuMphathiswa wezeMpilo uMurashko. Kwakusengcebiso yakhe, isithethi sathi, ukuba iRussia yamkele inkqubo efanelekileyo kunye ne-WHO. Ngokutsho kukaVolodin, amaRashiya afanele abuze uMurashko ukuba le nto yenziwe ngaphandle kwengxoxo yangaphambili okanye isivumelwano kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ichasene nomthetho waseRashiya kunye nengqondo.
Sithumele iileta ezimbini ezivulekileyo kuMikhail Albertovich Murashko ngeengcebiso malunga nendlela yokutshintsha imeko yangoku. Safumana impendulo kuphela kwileta yesibini, yaye emva koko impendulo.
ISebe liqaphele ukubaluleka kunye nokubaluleka kwemiba ephakanyiswe kwisibheno sethu. Umxholo wesibheno waziswa kwingqwalasela ye-Federal State Budgetary Institution "NMITs PN im. V.P. Serbsky" kwiSebe lezeMpilo laseRashiya. Kodwa ngubani onoxanduva lobuqu kwinto yokuba oogqirha bengqondo baseRussia abazange babambelele kumaxabiso emveli kwi-WHO, akuzange kubekho mpendulo.
Ngelo xesha, ngokutsho kweSebe, inani lemiba ephakanyisiweyo kwisibheno, kubandakanywa nokulawulwa kwemisebenzi yoogqirha abaphula umthetho wokuthintela i-propaganda yobudlelwane obungeyona yendabuko phakathi kwabancinci, kunye nokuphuhliswa kweqhinga. ukukhusela iinqobo ezisemgangathweni zosapho, ziwela ngaphakathi kobuchule bamanye amasebe karhulumente kunye nemibutho.
Enyanisweni, le mibuzo kufuneka ibhekiswe kwi-State Duma, i-Ofisi yoMtshutshisi, i-FSB kunye neminye imibutho ebandakanyekayo kukhuseleko lwabemi be-Russian Federation. Sinethemba lokuba baya kufunda ngezi zibheno baze benze izigqibo zombutho nabasebenzi.
Ileta eya eMurashko No. 1 https://pro-lgbt.ru/6590/
Ileta eya eMurashko No. 2 https://pro-lgbt.ru/open-letter-to-the-minister-of-health/
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Kwale ngxaki yenzeka nakumntwanam! Uneminyaka eli-17! Ngeminyaka eyi-16, ngokufihlakeleyo kum, wathatha amahomoni, imali leyo, ngokutsho kwakhe, yathunyelwa kuye ngumkhosi waseUkraine ovela kwi-Intanethi ... Le ntlungu enkulu, andiyazi apho ndiya khona. guquka, ndiye ndadandatheka kakhulu unyaka, izandla zam ziwile kwaye andiyiqondi into enokwenziwa. Zonke iinyani kumabali zifana neyam, kuphela umntwana wam uthanda iRashiya kwaye akafuni ukufuduka. Ndiza kubhala ngakumbi ngebali lam ukuba kukho ukusabela.
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