Kuphatikiza pazabodza zomwe zafotokozeredwa za kubadwa kwa amuna okhaokha kapena akazi okhaokha, olimbikitsa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adakwanitsa kuyambitsa nthano ya kusakhazikika kwake. Nthawi zambiri mumamva kuti kuyesa kusintha malingaliro akugonana ndi zovulaza chifukwa amabweretsa manyazi, kukhumudwa, ndipo nthawi zina kudzipha (zomwe sizitsimikiziridwa ndi kafukufuku). Mwachitsanzo, kufa kwa Turing nthawi zambiri kumatiwonetsa kuti "kudzipha" komwe kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi chithandizo cha mahomoni. Malinga ndi dipatimenti ya sayansi ya bbc, mtundu wa kudzipha kwake sukusunga madzi, ndipo mwina, adadziwopseza yekha mwangozi ndi cyanide, yomwe adagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zonse pa electrolysis. Malingana ndi Pulofesa Katswiri Wophunzitsa Zamoyo Zambiri Pulofesa D. Copland: "Anachita chidwi kwambiri ndi mankhwala a mahomoni, ndipo ntchito yake inali pachimake pa maphunziro. "Panali masiku abwino asanamwalire, anali ndi chisangalalo, ndipo anali ndi phwando losangalatsa ndi anansi ake."
Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, chithandizo cha mahomoni (mankhwala opatsirana) sichingafanane ndi chithandizo cha psychoanalytic reparative, chomwe cholinga chake ndikukulitsa kudziwika kwa amuna ndi amuna komanso kuthetsa kuvutika kwamisala kwaubwana. Matenda okhumudwa chifukwa choyesera kuti asinthe zomwe zikuwoneka kuti zikuyenda bwino ndizotheka, monga momwe ziliri ndi zolephera zina, koma kwenikweni kuyesera kudzipha kuli chifukwa cha zabodza zomwe atsogoleri aku gulu la gay adalembapo kuti kusintha sikungasinthe. Mwachitsanzo: http://www.bbc.com/news/world-…
NKHANI YOYIMBIKITSA PANSI YA PSYCHODYNAMIC REPAIR THERAPY.
Mu psychotherapy yamphamvu, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumawoneka ngati "gawo la neurosis", i.e. vuto la psychogenic la chikhalidwe chosinthika chifukwa cha yankho losavomerezeka pakusokonezeka kwamalingaliro kapena kuvulala kwamalingaliro. Zoyipa zitha kupitirira, monga kuchitira nkhanza zachiwerewere kapena ndimaganizo, kapenanso kupangika pazoyipa zomwe mwana aliyense akukumana nazo. Mphamvu ya psychotherapy imazindikira, imasiyanitsa ndiku kuthetsa zovuta izi, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti muchepetse komanso nthawi zina kuthetseratu zizolowezi zosafunikira amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
National Association for the Study and Therapy of kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (NARTH) ikufotokoza motere:
Mwa mwana wokhala ndi hypersensitivity, zochitika zam'maganizo zamphamvu zitha kusokoneza kukula kwa umunthu wake, zomwe mu 8 milandu kuchokera ku 10 imapangitsa kuti akopeke ndi kugonana kwake, zomwe zimasanduka zachilendo pakutha msambo. Timafafaniza zomwe sizilumikizidwe.
Kupanda kuvomerezedwa, chidwi, ndi kukondera kwa anthu amtunduwu zitha kulipidwa chifukwa chogonana nawo. Mu chochitika china, wachikazi wamanyazi wachinyamata yemwe amayimba mtima amawayang'ana mnzake wolimba mtima, wodzidalira komanso wotchuka - mawonekedwe a chinthu chomwe sichingatheke, ndipo pofunitsitsa kukhala ndi machitidwe omwewo, amayamba kugonana ndi omwe ali nawo. Chokopa chake cholakwika ndikuyesera kukhala ndi mikhalidwe yomwe mukufuna, ngakhale mwa mtundu wophiphiritsa. Nthawi zina ubale ndi bambo wamkulu umapangidwa kuti upangitse kusagwirizana kwa abambo.
Kubwezeretsanso kwamankhwala kumapangitsa kuti munthu akhale wamtunduwu, kumamupangitsa kuti akhale wamwamuna komanso kumulola kuti azigwirizana komanso azigonana popanda kugonana.
Mtundu wolimba mtima wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali ndi lingaliro lofanana la kusadziwika kuti ndi wachikazi, ndi kusiyana kokhako popeza kuti koyambirira kochititsidwa manyazi mwankhanza kunamuphunzitsa kuti asasonyeze kufooka ndikubisa chiopsezo chake mothandizidwa ndi bambo wamaso. Apa pali njira yotchinga ya "kupanga" komwe kumapangitsa kuti kukakamiza kosavomerezeka kugonjetsedwe ndikupitilira mzake. Popeza kusintha koteroko sikunachitike mwa njira yachilengedwe, izi, monga lamulo, ndizowoneka modabwitsa komanso zowoneka bwino. Chifukwa chake pali ma baricature barbel ovala zikopa ndi ma transvestites, omwe amapanga mawonekedwe awo ndi zokongoletsera zambiri ngati zovala.
Mtundu wolimba mtima wa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha umatonthoza mnyamata wamantha mkati mwake pofunafuna chibwenzi ndi mnzake wocheperako komanso wopanda kulimba mtima, kuyimira gawo lokhumudwa lomwe limayenera kukanidwa ali mwana kuti akhale ndi moyo.
Chithandizo pankhaniyi chikhala chofuna kukana masamba abodzawa komanso kuwulula zamkati zachimuna. Njirayi imafunanso kuthana ndi mavuto aubwana ndi kuzunzidwa, zomwe zimachotsa kufunika kobwereza malingaliro omwe amalimbikitsa kugonana.
Kusintha kuchokera kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mpaka kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikuyenera kuwoneka ngati funso la "chimodzi kapena chimzake." Pali kupitiliza kwina, ndiko kuti, kuchepa pang'onopang'ono pamagalimoto a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kuwonjezeka kwa chikhalidwe cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso mwayi, kuchuluka kwa mawonekedwe ake komwe kumasiyana kwambiri. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti pali zifukwa zambiri zosiyanirana zomwe zimapangitsa kukopeka ndi kugonana komwe kumachitika. Chitsanzo pamwambapa chimafotokoza chimodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino za kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo sizimanena kuti ndizonse. Munthu atha kutenga nawo gawo pachibwenzi pazazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, kuyambira kulumala kwamaganizidwe mpaka achinyamata. Maganizo ake okonda kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mwina amakhazikika pakufunika kovomerezedwa, kuvomerezedwa, kukonderedwa, kapena kusungulumwa, kusungulumwa, kapena kungofuna chidwi chabe. Wachinyamata atha kuchita zachiwerewere zanthawi yomweyo pofuna kuchita masewera, ndalama, kukakamizidwa ndi anzawo, kapena motsogozedwa ndi media. Izi zitha kukhala kubwezera kwa makolo, mdani kwa abambo, kapena kukumana ndi zowawa zakuzunzidwa.
KUTHA KWAULERE KWA REPAIR THERAPY.
mwachidule zambiri zoyeserera, malipoti azachipatala, ndi kafukufuku pazaka zapitazi za 135 zikuwonetsa motsimikiza kuti amuna ndi akazi omwe amalimbikitsidwa amatha kuchoka pa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kupita kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Njira zingapo zakhala zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pofuna kuthana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kuphatikiza ma psychodynamic, machitidwe othandizirana pozindikira komanso utsogoleri waubusa. Pali umboni wosintha mosasintha popanda kuchitapo kanthu.
Kodi ophunzira amati chiyani pankhaniyi.
Mu 1956, katswiri wazamisala wodziwika bwino wa nthawiyo anali Edmund Bergler analemba Otsatirawa:
"Zaka za 10 zapitazo, sayansi yabwino koposa yomwe ikanaperekedwa inali kuyanjanitsa munthu yemwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi" zomwe zidawachitikira ", mwanjira ina, kuchotsa kwa kudziimba mlandu. Zochitika zaposachedwa kwambiri zamisala komanso kufufuza kwatsimikizira kuti chiyembekezo chosasinthika cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (nthawi zina chimafotokozedwanso chifukwa cha kupezeka kwachilengedwe ndi mahomoni) kwenikweni ndikugawanitsa kwa mitsempha. Masiku ano, psychoanalytic psychotherapy imatha kuchiritsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kodi tingathe kuchiritsa amuna onse ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha? - ayi. Zofunikira zina ndizofunikira, ndipo koposa zonse, kufunitsitsa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti asinthe. Vutoli, poyang'ana pang'ono zogonana, limaphatikizidwa mosavomerezeka ndi kudziwononga kozama, komwe kumadziwoneka pokha pokha pazakugonana, popeza kumakhudza umunthu wonse. Mdani weniweni wa ogonana amuna kapena akazi si zolakwika zake, koma umbuli wake woti atha kuthandizidwa, kuphatikiza mawonekedwe ake amisala, zomwe zimamupangitsa kupewa chithandizo. Umbuli umachirikizidwa ndi atsogoleri ogonana amuna okhaokha. ”
Kwazaka zambiri za 30, Bergler wathandizira pafupifupi agogo a 100 asinthe momwe amaganizira. Imafotokoza kupambana konse mu 33% ya milandu.
Irving Bieber, kumaliza mu 1962 wazaka zisanu ndi zinayi kuphunzira Amuna ogonana amuna ndi akazi a 106 adanena kuti 27% yaiwo idasinthiratu chifukwa cha chithandizo cha psychoanalytic, kuphatikiza omwe kale anali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mu 1979, adatinso za amuna omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha a 1000 adatembenukira kwa iye nthawi zonse komanso kuti zomwezo zimagwirizana ndi kafukufuku woyamba.
"Kutsatira kwodekha pazaka zotsatirazi za 20 kuwululidwakuti adangokhalira amuna okhaokha, ndipo zibwezeretsedwe kuchokera ku 30% mpaka 50%. ”
Daniel Kappon ku 1965 zanenedwa Zotsatira za ntchito zawo zamankhwala ndi odwala a 150: 50% ya ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, 30% ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso 90% ya bisexourse idasinthana.
APA itachotsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ku 1974, adanenanso kuti "Njira zamakono zamankhwala zimalola gawo lalikulu la ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe akufuna kusintha malingaliro awo kuti agone".
APA itasanduka bungwe landandale lokhala ndi zonena zotsutsana ndi zasayansi m'mabuku ake, sizimangonyalanyaza kafukufuku yemwe alipo pakusintha kwamalingaliro, komanso zimathandizira mwachangu zatsopano, chifukwa zotsatira zake sizikutsutsana ndi ndondomeko yake yapano. Izi ndizomwe zidachitika mu kafukufuku wa Szydlo ndi Schroeder, omwe amayenera kulemba zoipitsa ndi zopanda pake za kubwezeretsanso mankhwala, koma kwenikweni adapeza umboni wothandizira ntchito yake kwa anthu ena.
Mu 2004, Purezidenti wakale wa APA komanso membala wa dipatimenti yake yokhudza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, Robert Perloff kutsutsidwa Akatswiri andale osavomerezeka a APA ati kuyesa kuyesa kumbuyo chithandizo chakuchipatala "chosakhudzika, chosagwirizana ndi sayansi komanso chanzeru."
Perlof adawona gulu lofufuza lomwe likukula lomwe limatsutsana ndi zonena zotchuka za kuthekera kosintha malingaliro akugonana ndikuthandizira udindo wa NARTH.
Purezidenti Wina wa APA, Nicholas Cumings, ku 2005 Conference of the Year zanenedwapakati pa 1959 - 1979 Amuna ogonana ndi 18,000 adabwera kuchipatala chake ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana, omwe pafupifupi 1,600 adafuna kusintha momwe amawaonera. Chifukwa cha chithandizo cha 2,400, adatha kuchita izi.
Wasayansi wotsogolera Jeffrey Satinover ku 1996 analemba za kupambana kwa 50% mwatsatanetsatane, ndikuchita bwino kwa 100% mu "gulu losankhidwa bwino la anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chachikulu."
Robert Spitzer, yemwe adasiyanitsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pagulu la zovuta zamisala mu 1974, adayambitsidwa mu 2001 kuphunzira, kutsimikizira kuti kusintha osati machitidwe ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kudzizindikiritsa, komanso malingaliro othandizira kugonana ndizotheka. Spitzer anawonjezera kuti ngati mwana wake yemwe ndi wamwamuna ndipo ali ndi vuto logonana ndipo akufuna kusintha, amuthandiza pakufunafuna chithandizo chamankhwala ndikuyesa kusintha momwe amasiyana ndi amuna omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Scott Hershberger, wasayansi komanso katswiri wodziwika bwino yemwe akuthandizira kayendedwe ka LGBT, atasanthula kafukufuku wa Spitzer anamalizakuti ndi umboni wamphamvu kuti chithandizo chothandizanso chimatha kuthandiza anthu kusintha malingaliro awo ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
"Tsopano onse omwe akukayikira mankhwala obwezeretsanso mankhwala ayenera kupereka umboni wokwanira kuti agwirizane ndi malingaliro awo."
Malipoti ena okonzanso bwino mu njira ya psychoanalytic adafotokozedwa mwachidule patebulo:
The College of madokotala American mu 2008 chaka adalengeza Otsatirawa:
"Ngakhale kukopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikungosankha mwanzeru, ndi kovuta kwa anthu ambiri. Njira zodzithandizira pochita zogonana zingakhale zothandiza. ”
Wofufuza pa chitukuko cha zama psychology, a Lesbian Lisa Diamond mu kuyankhulana 2015 ya chaka adanena izi:
“Kugonana ndi kosasinthika. Yakwana nthawi yosiya lingaliro la "kubadwa chonchi" kumbuyo. Ufulu wa gay suyenera kudalira momwe munthu adakhalira gay ndipo tiyenera kuvomereza kuti kugonana kungasinthe.
Pulofesa Camilla Paglia, wachikazi ndi amisili, akuti chinthu chomwecho:
"Kugonana kumadzimva ndipo kumatha kusintha."
Kusiyana kwa zogonana kumatsimikiziridwa ndi kafukufuku. Kotero pafupifupi theka la anthu okonda kugonana amuna okhaokha kapena akazi okhaokha anali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndipo pafupifupi amuna omwewa ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kusintha kofananako kwa zokonda zachiwerewere kuli kofala pakati pa amuna okhaokha kapena akazi okhaokha. Neil Whitehead mkati kafukufuku 2009 idawonetsa kuti heterosexuality ngakhale ali ndi zaka za 16-17 ali ndi zaka zambiri 25 yokhazikika kuposa bisexuality kapena kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Freud munthawi yake zindikirani, mosazindikira, ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi chidwi chofanana ndi cha akazi ngati munthu wabwinobwino, koma nthawi iliyonse akaonetsa kukondweretsa kwake kwa chinthu chachimuna. Kafukufuku wamakono atsimikizira kukhalapo kwa zochitika zogonana mwa amuna ogonana amuna kuti azikopeka ndi akazi.
Lipoti lathunthu m'masamba a 128 ofotokoza milandu yoyesereranso bwino lipezeka kwa iwo omwe akufuna kuwerenga apa: https://vk.com/doc8208496_4467…
Pofotokoza mwachidule umboni womwe wapezeka mpaka pano, titha kunena kuti pafupifupi, gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a anthu omwe adatenga nawo gawo pokonzanso malipoti amafotokoza za kusintha kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, lipoti lachitatu likusintha kwakukulu pakugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kusintha kwakukulu pamalingaliro amunthu ndikuchita, komanso lipoti lachitatu kusowa kwa zotsatira. Kudziwitsa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti akopeke ndi kugonana kwawo komanso zosowa zam'malingaliro, ndi chitukuko chamtsogolo cha kugonana kosagonana ndi amuna awo, zatsimikizira kuti ndizothandiza kwambiri posinthana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Tsambali lasonkhanitsa maumboni opitilira zana amatsenga - anthu omwe asiya moyo wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikukhalanso amuna okhaokha. http://testpathvoc.weebly.com/
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Tsamba loteteza ufulu wa anthu omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (amaponderezedwa kwambiri ndi anthu ololera a LGBT): https://www.voiceofthevoiceles…
NDINTHAWI YOTI TISIYILE Mkangano “WOBADWA CHONCHI”.
Pambuyo pazaka zambiri zakufufuza, woimira magulu a APA ndi LGBT, Dr. Lisa Diamond, adapereka lipotilo kuti zokonda za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zimasinthasintha, ndikuti ambiri mwaiwo amakonda atsikana.
"Magulu a LGBT ndi okhwima komanso opanda tanthauzo," akutero a Diamond. Amawonetsa malingaliro omwe amakhalapo mchikhalidwe chathu, koma samayimira zochitika zomwe zimapezeka mwachilengedwe. Tidagwiritsa ntchito magawowa ngati gawo la njira yathu yopezera ufulu wa anthu, ndipo zikufika povuta kwambiri tsopano kuti tikudziwa kuti izi sizowona.
Kuti gulu lina la anthu athe kupeza mwayi wotetezedwa m'ndondomeko yalamulo, liyenera kukhala loyambirira komanso lokhazikika. Gulu lachi Queer silimakwaniritsa zomwe Khothi Lalikulu likugamula ngati ali ndi udindo wotere, popeza ndizosiyana kwambiri komanso zosagwirizana: ena ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ena pang'ono; "amene anali gay chaka chatha, chaka chino mwina sangakhale naye, etc."
Mawuwa akutsutsana kotheratu ndi malamulo aposachedwa omwe aperekedwa m'maiko angapo aku US oletsa "mankhwala obwezeretsa", pamaziko akuti "chizoloŵezi chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" chimaganiziridwa kuti ndi chachibadwa komanso chokhazikika, choncho kuyesa kusintha sikuli chabe, komanso nkhanza.
"A LGBT ayenera kusiya kunena kuti, 'tithandizeni, tinabadwa chonchi ndipo sitingasinthe.' Kugonana sikukhazikika - ndi madzi, ndipo otsutsa athu amadziwa izi monga momwe timachitira. Chifukwa chake, nthawi yakwana yosiya lingaliro la "kubadwa chonchi" ndikupeza mikangano yabwinoko yopezera ufulu ndi mwayi, apo ayi zidzabweranso kudzativutitsa.
Ndizowopsa kuti anthu oterewa atha kukhulupirira kuti izi ndi zachilendo kapena zabwino, m'malo mothandizidwa ndi mankhwala. Anthu adzafa monga choncho ...
Teorias velhas e ultrapassadas sobre a questão da homossexualidade continuam a ser desenterradas para tentar se dizer o que é eo que não é normal em termos de orientação sex. Basta reconhecer que o ser humano, no início dos tempos fazia sexo com quem bem desejasse e isso nunca foi motivo de exclusão ou discriminação, pois não havia a regra da heteronormatividade, tudo era natural. Depois que a heterossexualidade foi colocada como regra, vieram estudos e teorias para tentar justificar essa regra que, no fundo, tem raiz religiosa. A sexidade humana é diversa e não cabe em rótulos e definições restritas. Enfim, não existe o que é normal, em orientação sex, portanto, nada tem que ser corrigido.
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pa Wikipedia m'nkhani ya kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, chithunzi cha akazi okhaokha ku St. muyeso wofunikira
wow ku St. Petersburg pali kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kobisika .. kwambiri
Ndipo kulumikizana ndi magulu omwe anali ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikugwira ntchito. Chimodzi chokha. Ndipo kwa nthawi yaitali panalibe zofalitsa zatsopano pamalopo