Pa 26 pa Juni 2015, Khothi Lalikulu ku US linalembetsa ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kuti mayiko onse apereke ziphaso zaukwati kwa omwe ali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndikuzindikiritsa satifiketi zotulutsidwa m'malamulo ena. Komabe, monga tikuwonetsera zambiri American Institute of Public Opinion Gallup, ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha safulumira kupezerapo mwayi pa ufulu wawo womwe angopeza kumene. Monga momwe zimayembekezeredwa, panalibe kuchuluka kwa "ang'ono oponderezedwa ogonana" ku maulamuliro olembetsa, ngakhale kuti ziletso za "tsankho" zidathetsedwa.

Ngati kusanachitike kuvomerezeka kwa maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, 7,9% ya ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha a ku America anali mwa iwo (kumaliza ngati n'kotheka), ndiye pambuyo pa kuvomerezeka, 2,3% yokha inaganiza zopanga ubale wawo. Chaka chotsatira chigamulo cha Khoti Lalikulu, 9,5% yokha ya ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha a ku America anali "maukwati" a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndipo patatha zaka ziwiri anali 10,2%, ndipo ambiri mwa iwo anali ndi zaka 50 +. Pa nthawi yomweyi, chiwerengero cha anthu osakwatiwa a LGBT chawonjezeka. Chitsanzo chofananacho chikhoza kuwonedwa ku Netherlands, kumene maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akhala ovomerezeka kuyambira 2001: 20% yokha ya ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi "okwatirana", poyerekeza ndi 80% ya anzawo omwe amagonana nawo. Ku Finland, mu 2018, azimayi 210 okha ndi amuna 120 adakwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Poyerekeza ndi 2017, chidwi cha maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chatsika. Zikuoneka kuti ngakhale pali chipwirikiti chokhudza maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sawafuna nkomwe. Kodi chododometsa chimenechi chingafotokozedwe bwanji?

Poyamba, maubwenzi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi osakhazikika mwachilengedwe. Ngati muubwenzi wachilengedwe wamwamuna ndi wamkazi amalumikizana wina ndi mzake pakusiyana kwawo kwachilengedwe ndi malingaliro, ndiye kuti mu maubale omwe mulibe amuna kapena akazi mulibe mgwirizano, ndiye chifukwa chake ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakumana kusakhutira kosalekezayowonetsedwa pakusaka kosalekeza. Monga taonera katswiri wazamisala wotchuka: "Maubwenzi omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi achabechabe poyerekeza ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha". Chifukwa chake mwayi wokhala wokwatirana ndi yemwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo sasintha kuti maubwenzi oterewa sagwira ntchito. Kuphatikiza apo, chidwi cha othandizana wina ndi mzake zimatengera kuchuluka kwa "osadziwika" pakati pawo, ndipo popeza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi ofanana mwakuthupi, "osadziwika" kwa iwo amakhalanso ocheperako, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azigwira ntchito mwachangu kwa wina ndi mnzake.

Kulongosola kosangalatsa kumaperekedwa ndi olimbikitsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amalimbana ndi mavuto am'magulu omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha m'buku. After The Ball (tsa. 329):

"Joni Gay wapakati adzakuwuzani kuti akufuna kuyanjana" wopanda nkhawa "pomwe wokondayo sachita nawo kwambiri, samapanga zofuna zake, ndikumupatsa malo okwanira. Zowonadi, palibe malo omwe angakhale okwanira, chifukwa Joni sakusaka wokonda, koma kwa mnzake wa henchman - bwanawe wogwira ntchito, mtundu wa zida zam'nyumba zosalemekeza. Ngati kukondana kumayamba kuonekera muubwenzi (womwe, mwa lingaliro, uyenera kukhala chifukwa chomveka kwambiri kwa iwo), amasiya kukhala omasuka, amakhala "ovuta" ndikugwa. Komabe, sikuti aliyense akufuna ubale wouma ngati wotere. Ena amafuna kuti azikondana zenizeni ndipo mwina amazipeza. Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani? Posakhalitsa, njoka yamaso imadzuka mutu wake woyipa. Sipanakhalepo chikhalidwe chokomera anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngakhale wokonda mnzakeyo amakhala ndi wokondedwa wake, m'kupita kwa nthawi amapita kukayang'ana zinthu zosangalatsa. Kugonjera pakati pa ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha "kukubwera pafupifupi 100% patapita nthawi."

Umu ndi momwe amafotokoza Kuperewera kwa amuna omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha William Aaron:

"M'moyo wa gay, kukhulupirika kumakhala kovuta. Monga gawo la kukakamizidwa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mwachidziwikire, ndizosowa kwawoko kuti "amvere" umuna wa omwe amagonana nawo, ayenera kusamala [zatsopano]. Zotsatira zake, maukwati omwe amayenda bwino kwambiri ndi omwe amakhala ndi mabanja omwe ali ndi mgwirizano pakati pa omwe ali ndi zibwenzi kuti akhale ndi mabuku papepala kwinaku akuwoneka kuti akuwonekera nthawi zonse.

Kuyang'ana kwa omwe ali mkatikati kumatsimikiziridwa kwathunthu ndi ntchito yasayansi. Maubwenzi apakati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chaka ndi theka, ndikukhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, limodzi ndi zisudzo zopanda pake ndi nsanje, lipezeka kokha chifukwa cha "maubale omasuka", Kapena, monga wochita zoukonzera Andrew Salivan adanenanso, atayika "Kuzindikira mozama zakufunika kwa kutulutsidwa kunja kwa banja"... Kafukufuku yemwe amayenera kutsimikizira kulimba kwa mabungwe azogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adapeza kuti muubwenzi wapakati pa zaka 1-5, 4.5% yokha ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amadzinena okha, ndipo palibe m'modzi wazaka zopitilira 5 (McWhirter & Mattison, 1985). Ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amasintha anzawo angapo pachaka, komanso mazana angapo pa moyo wake (Pollack, 1985). Kafukufuku ku San Francisco (Bell ndi Weinberg, 1978) adawonetsa kuti 43% ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi zibwenzi zoposa 500, ndipo 28% adachita zoposa 1000. Kafukufuku yemwe adachitika zaka 20 pambuyo pake, kale munthawi ya Edzi, sanapeze kusintha kwakukulu mu Khalidwe: amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amasintha anzawo 101-500 pamoyo wake, pafupifupi 15% anali ndi zibwenzi 501-1000, ndipo ena 15% anali ndi zoposa 1000 (Van de Ven et al. Xnumx) Malinga ndi kafukufuku Zaka za 2013, pafupifupi 70% ya matenda opatsirana a HIV pakati pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zimachitika kudzera mwa okwatirana nawo, popeza kuchuluka kwakukulu kwa chigololo kumachitika popanda kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu.

Pambuyo pakufufuza koyambirira, angapo aposachedwa anena kuti kukhazikika pakati pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikofanana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. MU nkhani Asayansi aku America ndi Canada amapereka chidziwitso chatsopano pamalingaliro okhazikika pogwiritsa ntchito madataseti akuluakulu atatu ochokera ku United States ndi Canada. Potsimikizira ntchito yoyambirira, asayansi apeza kuti anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kutha kusiyana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kuphatikiza apo, kusiyana kwakukhazikika ndikokulira kwa maanja omwe ali ndi ana, gulu lomwe limafunikira bata ndilofunika kwambiri.

Mtolankhani waku Britain komanso mtolankhani Milo Yannopoulos amafotokoza za chiyanjano cha zibwenzi m'matumbo motere:

“Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi bwenzi limodzi lalikulu lomwe limandipatsa ndalama. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala dokotala, wosunga ndalama, kapena zina zotero. Ndipo ndili ndi abwenzi angapo ogonana - ophunzitsa anthu, othamanga. Ndimawaitanira, ndipo bwenzi lalikulu limandiyitana ... Chowonadi ndi chakuti, tili ndi mwayi womwe mulibe. Tili ndi kulolera kofunikira kwambiri komwe kumatimasula kuzochitika zonse. Ndicho chifukwa chake ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi wopusa kwambiri. Mulungu wanga, aliyense amene akufuna kukhala ndi munthu m'modzi ndizowopsa. "

Joseph Schiambra, yemwe machitidwe ake ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adatha ndikuchotsa pang'ono gawo lake ndipo adatsala pang'ono kumuwonongera moyo wake, Iye analemba pa blog yake:

"Mwakufunika kwa bizinesi yaimuna, omasulidwa ku malingaliro a akazi ndi atsikana, amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi zibwenzi zambiri komanso kusagwirizana, chifukwa chake kuchuluka otsika ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (9,6%), pomwe lingaliro la Obergefell lidangokulira ndi 1,7%, komanso kuteteza kachilombo ka HIV pakati pa amuna omwe ali ndi ubale wodalirika. Maubale pakati pa amuna omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha siotsutsana, koma amakambirana maubale omasuka. Komabe, maonekedwe amapangidwa omwe amafanana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. ” 

Zonsezi zimabweretsa funso lakufunika kwakuti maukwati a amuna okhaokha azikhala mwamalamulo, zikuchitika molingana ndi kulimbana kwa "ufulu wofanana", ngakhale ukwati sioyenera, koma chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe. M'malo mwake, ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali kale ndi ufulu wofanana ndi wina aliyense, popeza palibe lamulo limodzi lomwe limasankha chifukwa chogonana kapena loletsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pazomwe zimaloledwa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Tsankho ndi pomwe wina angathe ndipo winayo sangatero, koma ku Russian Federation, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akhoza kulowa muukwati wovomerezeka pakati pawo (omwe kumapitilira kwathunthu) ngakhale kulera ana ngati akwaniritsa zofunikira. Ngati, motsogozedwa ndi zofuna zawo, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akufuna kulembetsa ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (mwachitsanzo, kuthandizira kupeza ngongole yanyumba, kuyendera ndende, kusamutsa ndalama zapenshoni, ndi zina zambiri), ndiye kuti adzakanidwa, monga nzika zina zonse, mosasamala za kugonana kwawo malingaliro, popeza maukwati otere samangoperekedwa ndi malamulo a Russian Federation ndipo malingaliro azakugonana a omwe akukhudzidwawo alibe chochita ndi izo.

Nkhaniyi 14 SK RF imafotokoza momveka bwino yemwe sangakwatire. Pali anthu omwe adakwatirana kale, achibale ake apamtima, makolo omlera ndi kuwalera ana, komanso anthu omwe khoti limawavomereza kuti ndi osakwanira chifukwa cha matenda amisala. Anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha satchulidwa m'nkhaniyi. Article 12 ya RF IC sikuletsa munthu kukwatiwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chifukwa chake, izi sizokhudza kuthetsa tsankho ndi mtundu wina wa kusalingana kwa ufulu, koma za kupeza ufulu wapadera ndi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pankhani iyi, ufulu w kulowererapo malamulo am'dziko lino kuti athe kuletsa njira ya demokalase, ndikufotokozeranso lingaliro laukwati monga mgwirizano wa mwamuna ndi mkazi mogwirizana ndi malingaliro ake .

Malinga ndi Chigamulo cha Khothi Lalikulu la Constitutional of the Russian Federation cha Novembala 16, 2006 Na. 496-o: "ukwati ndikukhazikitsa banja ndi cholinga chobereka ndi kulera ana, zomwe ndizosatheka kuzichita amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mabungwe. "

Nanga bwanji olimbana ndi LGBT amalimbikira kukakamira ukwati wamtundu womwewo? Palibe amene amawaletsa kuti azikhala limodzi, ndipo kwa anthawi yayitali pamakhala malamulo oyendetsera katundu ndi cholowa ngati cholakwika kuposa okwatirana. Komanso, monga ziwerengero zamayiko ovomerezeka ndi ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zimawonetsa, kuchuluka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikowafunikira konse.

Kwa nthawi ndithu, olimbikitsa makhalidwe a m'banja ayesa kunena kuti ndondomeko yeniyeni si kuwonjezera gulu latsopano la "okwatirana kumene" ku bungwe lomwe lilipo laukwati kuti Petya akwatire Vasya, koma kuwononga makhalidwe omwe alipo. ndi miyambo ya chikhalidwe ndi banja, zomwe zikuphatikiza kuthetsedwa kotheratu kwa chiyambi cha ukwati. Uku sikungosintha mawu ochepa chabe m'malamulo, ndikusintha kwa anthu. Kumene maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adaloledwa kale, kulimbana kwa kuvomerezeka kwa mitala ndi maubwenzi apamtima kumayamba kufalikira, ndipo ngakhale woyamba notarized. mitala.

Wodziwika kwambiri pa gulu la "LGBT" Maria Gessen, mtsogoleri wakale wa Russian Radio “Liberation”, mu pulogalamu Bungwe la ku Australia la ABC Radio National lidatsimikiziradi izi zowopa masomphenya, popereka vumbulutso lotsatirali:

“Kulimbana kwa ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumakhala ndi mabodza okhudza zomwe tidzachite ndi banja tikakumana. Tikunama kuti banja silikhala losasinthika - lisintha, liyenera kusintha. Ndizodziwikiratu kuti iyenera kusiya kukhalako. Ndili ndi ana atatu omwe ali ndi makolo asanu, ochulukirapo kapena ochepera, ndipo sindikumvetsa chifukwa chake sangakhale ndi makolo asanu mwalamulo. "Ndikufuna ndikhale m'khothi lomwe limakwanitsa kuchita izi, ndipo sindikuganiza kuti zikugwirizana ndi banja."

Njira zalamulo "zokhoza kupanga zenizeni izi" zimangopezeka mu "Olimba Mtima WatsopanoAldous Huxley, kapena m'mizinda iwiri yotchuka mdera la Dead Sea. Ngakhale kupyola ku Greece ndi ku Roma komwe kunali koyipa kwambiri panthawi yonse yomwe anali atatsika, palibe amene angayesetse kuwononga ukwati.

Hesse sindiye yekha pofotokozera mapulani ngati amenewa. Tsiku lotsatira Khothi Lalikulu ku United States litaloleza maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pulofesa wa sayansi ya ndale Tamara Metz adanenagawo lotsatira la nkhondoyi ndikuchotsa banja.

"Chotsatira ndi chiyani?" - Wathetsa banja, chotsani mbali zonse za boma, kuthetseratu boma. Ngakhale tikukondwerera kupambana, tiyenera kuyamba kulimbikitsa kuthetsa banja. Ufulu, kufanana ndi thanzi la dongosolo lathu la demokalase zimadalira izi ”

Ndi malinga ndi Mtolankhani wina wamkazi-Sally Cohn:

"Bokosi laling'ono laukwati wachikhalidwe ndilochepa kwambiri kuti titulutsire malingaliro achikondi ndi mgwirizano. Mwina chinthu chotsatira sichikulongosolanso kwina kwa matchulidwe apabanja, koma kuthetseratu kusiyana kwamabanja pakati pa mabanja ndi mabanja ena ofanana, koma osadziwika. ”

Ndi malingaliro Wophunzitsa za Sociology ochokera ku Victoria Meagan Tyler University:

“Kuthawa ukwati kwathunthu kumapereka njira yopita patsogolo, popeza kutha kwaukwati ndi komwe kungayambitse kuyambitsidwa kwa kufanana kwa onse.”

Gulu la LGBT (ambiri aiwo osakayikira) limangogwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chakudya chamankhwala cholimbikitsira malingaliro amu Sodomu ndikusintha kwazikhalidwe pamalingaliro apamwamba a ufulu ndi kufanana. Monga momwe wolemba wina ananenera: "Ngati mumzinda wanu muli gulu logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha - musadzitamandire kuti kumenyera ufulu wama" gay "kwayamba. Ndi munthu amene watulutsa "ufulu wama gay" kuti kuthetsa mavuto ena".

Nthawi yomweyo, amuna ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatsutsana ndi kufotokozeredwa kwaukwati pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, koma owerengeka omwe adalimbikira kuyankhulapo poyera adazunzidwa kosayenerana ndi olimbirana, ndipo mawu awo adadodoma. Malinga ndi m'modzi mwa iwo:

“Kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi kosiyana ndi ukwati, ndipo kumanamizira kuti sizinali choncho. Zowonadi sizomwe zili zabwino kapena zoyipa, koma kuzindikira kusiyanasiyana ndi chikondwerero cha mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Kunena kuti palibe kusiyana kumakhala kopusa. ”

Monga omwe akuonera mu vidiyo yomwe yatchulidwa pamwambapa, "amuna" omwe ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amanyalanyaza zokonda za mwana, amapanga ndikulimbikitsa malingaliro opotoka okhudzana ndi zibwenzi. Ndi bwino kuti mwana aleredwe ndi mayi ndi bambo ake. Lamuloli limatsimikiziridwa ndi zovuta zambiri komanso zovuta m'malingaliro ndi zamaganizidwe zomwe ana ambiri omwe ndi amasiye kapena omwe adaleredwa osakwanira kapena olimbikitsa banja. Ndi kuvomerezeka kwa "maukwati" a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mkhalidwe wosavomerezeka wa ana oterewu umasandulika "chizolowezi" chokhazikitsidwa ndi lamulo kwa mwana aliyense wobadwira naye limodzi. Mwana wotere amakhala atasiyidwa ndi abambo ake kapena amayi ake achilengedwe, m'malo mwake adzakhudzidwa ndi chibwenzi ndi mlendo. Zachidziwikire, izi zitha kuchitika ndi kutha kwa mabanja omwe ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma ichi ndichizindikiro chodziwikiratu kuti china chake sichinayende bwino ndipo sichimaganiziridwa kuti ndi zinthu wamba.

Ngakhale pamene ziwonetsero za Stonewall zisanachitike, "mpaini wina omenyera ufulu wama gay," a Carl Wittmann, m'matembenuzidwe ake "Gay chiwonetsero"Adapereka chenjezo lotsatirali:

"Amuna amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ayenera kusiya kudziyang'ana pawokha momwe amatsata maukwati omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Maukwati omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adzakhala ndi mavuto omwewo omwe amakhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndipo kusiyana komweku nkukhala koti kudzakhala parody. Ufulu wa amuna ogonana ndikuti ife tidziwitsa momwe tikhala ndi omwe, m'malo mowunika maubwenzi athu ndi anthu owongoka ndi zikhulupiliro zawo. "

Woyambitsa ufulu wa LGBT Paul Ettelbrick amagawana izi kukanganakuti ukwati ndiwosemphana ndi malingaliro a "chikhalidwe cha gay" komanso zolinga zoyambira za gay:

"Kukhala achifwamba kumatanthauza kukulitsa magawo azakugonana, zogonana komanso mabanja, ndipo munjira, ndikusintha maziko amtundu wa anthu ... Monga lesibiyani, ndasiyana kwambiri ndi azimayi omwe si akazi kapena amuna okhaokha, koma poteteza ufulu wakukwatiwa mwalamulo, tiyenera kunena kuti ndife ofanana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha maanja, akwaniritsa zolinga zofanana, ndikulonjeza kuti adzamanga miyoyo yawo mofananamo ... Ukwati sudzatimasula ife ngati akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. M'malo mwake, zitilepheretsa, kutipangitsa kukhala osawoneka bwino, kutikakamiza kuti titenge nawo mbali ndikuwononga zolinga za gulu lomenyera ufulu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ... Ndikofunikira kuyang'ana pazolinga zathu zazikulu - kupereka njira zenizeni zakukwatirana ndikusintha malingaliro amtundu wa anthu pabanja.

Woyeserera wa "Kuyenerana kwa Mabanja" amavomerezakuti zisankho malinga ndi zomwe nzika zambiri zimachirikiza "ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" zimachokera pazambiri zachinyengo. Amakayikira kufunikira kwa "kusunga" kwaukwati mokhazikika ndipo amafuna "kukondwerera kusiyana, osati kufanana":

"Njira zina zomwe bizinesi yokonzekera ukwati womwe amuna amapanga ndi amuna kapena akazi amapanga ndi kufotokoza zabodza, kugwiritsa ntchito mfundo zosamveka, kuchita komanso kuseketsa mpikisano pomunyoza komanso kumugwiritsa ntchito. Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimalimbikitsa kwambiri ndikufunika kwa kufanana, ngakhale izi sizikugwirizana kwenikweni ndi kufunikira koyenera kwa "kufanana kwa onse." Ziyenera kuvomerezedwa kuti ndi nkhani yandale, osati zomwe zili zolondola kapena zoyenera ... Ochirikiza maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amati banja ndi "ufulu". Komabe, ukwati ndi mwambo wachikhalidwe, osati lamulo. Iwo ati kuletsa ukwati kumakhala kofanana ndi kuponderezana kwakale komwe amakumana nako ndi akuda kapena amayi omwe amalandidwa ufulu wovota. Koma zambiri zachilengedwe, monga mtundu wa munthu kapena khungu lake, sizofanana ndi momwe munthu amasankhira kuti awonetse kugonana. ”

Malingana ndi wolemba wotchulidwa pamwambapa Andrew Salivan:

"Pali cholakwika chilichonse chokhudza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe akuyesera kuti aphunzitse amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso amuna omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha movomerezeka pakuvomera kutengera mtundu womwewo wa akazi kapena amuna anzawo. Zoona zake, kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikwachilendo kwenikweni, ndipo kukhazikika m'mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana ndi yovuta kukhala njira imodzi yamakhalidwe kumatanthauza kuiwalanso zomwe zili zofunikira komanso zodabwitsa mu umunthu wawo wina. ”

Gulu la Queer Dissident Corporate, lomwe limadzitcha kuti "motsutsana ndi Kufanana," likutsutsa malingaliro omwe amapangitsa kuti azichita zachinyengo komanso amalimbikitsa osatenga nawo mbali m'mabungwe oterewa monga banja:

“Chifukwa chiyani anthu okwatirana ayenera kusangalala ndi maukwati omwe amaloledwa kwa omwe amakhala mbanja kapena omwe asankha ena? Chifukwa chiyani tiyenera kukonzanso moyo wathu wachabechabe komanso wamavuto, kuti titha kukhala mgulu la dziko lapansi? Ayi, kwambiri, bwanji titakhazikika pansi mpaka muyeso? Kulimbana kwa kufanana kwaukwati mu United States tsopano kukuza mavuto ena onse omwe gulu la queer likukumana nawo, ndipo izi ndizowonjezera ... Ndipo sitiyenera kufananizidwa ndi heterosupremacists ndi otentheka achipembedzo. Mapeto tikuyimira kuwonongedwa kwa chikwati cha banja ndi banja la nyukiliya. Malingaliro onse a "mwina inu kapena tili ndi zigawenga", omwe amapezeka mumsasa wa othandizira okwatirana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ali ofanana kwambiri ndi a Bush Jr. ndipo sasiya malo ang'onoang'ono kuti aganize zolakwika. "

Mtolankhani wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso wailesi ya Michelangelo Signoril analimbikitsa olimbikitsa ufulu wotsutsana ndi izi:

"Menyani maukwati ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi zabwino zawo, kenako, atavomerezeka, fotokozerani kwathunthu dongosolo la ukwati. Funani ufulu wokhala banja logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti usatsatire mfundo zamakhalidwe abwino, koma kuti uwulitse nthanoyo Sinthani kwambiri bungwe lakale kwambiri. Kuvomerezeka kwa ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumapangitsa kuti zisinthe kwathunthu tanthauzo la banja mu chikhalidwe cha America. Ichi ndi chida chomaliza chomwe mungachotsere malamulo onse okhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kukhazikitsa mapulogalamu ophunzitsa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso Edzi m'masukulu aboma, ndipo, mwachidule, mukwaniritse kusintha kwakukulu momwe anthu amationera komanso momwe amationera. ”

Monga momwe amasonyezera, zomwe zimayamba ndi mawu amantha za kufunika kolembetsa maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chifukwa cha "chilungamo ndi kufanana" zimatha ndikuwombera anthu ambiri, omwe akuyesera kuteteza chikhalidwe chawo.