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Masiku ano, pamene njira ya transgenderism ikulimbikitsidwa kwambiri mdziko lamakono, anthu ochulukirapo omwe amadziluma ndi zochitika zamtengo wapatali amapeza kuti kusintha kugonana sikunawabweretsere chisangalalo ndipo sanathetse mavuto awo. Oposa 40% aiwo amayesa kukonza ma akaunti ndi moyo, koma pali omwe amavomereza kuti adalakwitsa, amabwerera kuubambo wawo woyeserera ndikuyesa kuchenjeza ena, kuti asangobwereza zomwe adalakwitsa. Mmodzi mwa anthu oterewa ndi Walt Heyer, yemwe adakhala zaka 8 ngati Laura Jensen.

Ngakhale mukumva, malingaliro akuti anthu "amabadwa mwanjira yomweyo" sapeza chitsimikiziro mu sayansi. Komanso, malingaliro a queer theorists akuti chizindikiritso cha amuna sizimadalira kugonana kwachilengedwe, kapena kuti munthu akhoza kukhala "mwamunayo atakhazikika m'thupi la mkazi" kapena mosemphanitsa, alibe umboni wa sayansi. Izi sizimakhala ndi tanthauzo m'chilengedwe ndipo zimangokhala chizindikiro cha kupatuka panjira yokhazikika yomwe imayamba chifukwa cha kuvutika kwamalingaliro. Uku ndikuyesa kokwanira kulipirira zovuta zaubwana wawo ndikuthana ndi zovuta zopweteka m'maganizo.

Mosiyana ndi ndondomeko yakunja, American Psychological Association m'mabuku ake amkati amazindikira kukhalapo kwa "oyanjana kapena omwe angayambitse mgwirizano" pakati pa kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo ndikugonana. Amavomerezanso kuti kukulitsa kudziwika kwa transgender kumatha kukhala kogwirizana ndi psychopathology ya makolo komanso zokumana nazo zabanja zabwii za ana.

Walt ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomvetsa chisoni zomwe zili pamwambapa. Pamene anali ndi zaka 4, agogo ake anamuveka mobisa ngati mtsikana. Ali ndi zaka 11, amalume ake anayamba kumugwirira. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, tateyo anaona kuti sanali kulera bwino mwana wakeyo ndipo anayamba kum’patsa chilango chokhwima. Zonsezi zidasokoneza malingaliro a Walt ndipo zidamupangitsa kukayikira kuti ndi ndani. Ali ndi zaka 39, atayamba kumva zambiri za transsexuals, Walt anakumana ndi wofufuza wamkulu wa transsexualism Harry Benjamin, yemwe, pamapeto pa zokambirana za mphindi 45, adamuuza kuti ali ndi dysphoria ya jenda ndipo amayenera "kuyambiranso kugonana" opaleshoni. Patapita zaka ziwiri, Walt anasudzulana ndi mkazi wake, anachotsa maliseche ake, anaika ma implants m’mawere ndipo anayamba kukhala ngati mkazi. Komabe, mavuto ake a m’maganizo ndi kuzunzika kwake sizinathe. Walt analedzera ndipo posakhalitsa anachotsedwa ntchito, nyumba yake, ndipo anatsala pang’ono kudzipha. Pokhapokha ndi chithandizo cha anthu okoma mtima omwe adamuteteza, adamuzungulira ndi chisamaliro ndi chikondi, adakwanitsa kuthetsa uchidakwa ndi transsexualism. Walt tsopano wakhala woledzeretsa kwa zaka zoposa 30 ndipo wakhala m’banja zaka 18. Zambiri mu видео.

Walt anati: "Kuchita bwino ndikadzabweranso pang'ono, ndinapita ku yunivesite kuti ndikakhale katswiri wazamisala, ndipo nditapitiliza kuphunzira kuwerenga ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti jenda sangasinthe. Ili ndi nthano, nkhambakamwa, chinyengo, kusokonezeka kwa malingaliro. "Ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti sindinali mkazi weniweni, kuti sindinasinthe kwenikweni, koma ndinangopanga mawonekedwe osintha."

M'modzi mwa akatswiri azamisala omwe amagwira ntchito ndi Walt (nthawi imeneyo Laura), adamuwuza kuti akuwoneka kuti ali ndi vuto lozisokoneza, ndipo adamulangiza kuti apimidwe. Walt adapita kwa akatswiri angapo, ndipo onse monga amodzi adatsimikizira izi. Chifukwa chakuti umunthu wa Walt muubwana unayikidwa kuvala, kuzunzidwa komanso kumenyedwa, adapanga umunthu wina mwa iye, pomwe sizimalakwika. Mosiyana ndi magawano, pomwe munthu sadziwa za munthu wina, zidali kulumikizanamomwe umunthu wa Laura udalumikizidwa ndikuzindikirika.

"Zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi moyo wanga zimatsimikizira kuti transgenderism ndiyosintha ndipo palibe amene ayenera kukhala ndi moyo wotere," akutero. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti mpaka 70% ya anthu omwe amadziona ngati transgender amadwala comorbid (concomitant) matenda amisala komanso amisala omwe sanawatulukire kapena kuwathandizira. Ngati mutayamba kuthana ndi zovuta izi, ndiye kuti chidwi chofuna kusintha jenda chimazimiririka. 30% yotsala imavutika ndi phobias ndi mavuto ena omwe amafunika kuthana nawo. Anthu oterewa safunikira opaleshoni, koma chisamaliro choyenera kuchipatala komanso utsogoleri wabwino. Vutoli ndikuti malamulo apano amaletsa kupereka thandizo kwa anthu otere, makamaka achinyamata. M'mayiko ambiri, akatswiri azachipatala amaletsedwa kugwira ntchito ndi wodwala kuti athetse dysphoria, chifukwa izi zikuwonetsa kusintha kwake, koma zimasinthiratu! Amangochita mantha kuti pamapeto pake zidzaonekeratu kuti anthu awa adangovutika ndi mavuto, monga ine ndi anthu ena othandizira. 

Ngati kusintha kwa kugonana ndi "kodabwitsa", "kopindulitsa", ndipo omwe adapanga "okondwa, bwanji 41% ya omwe achita opaleshoni akufuna kudzipha?" Dziwani kuti sikuti amangoganiza zodzipha, koma “kuyesera”. Izi ndichifukwa sakusangalala. Sangapeze thandizo lomwe amafunikira, ndipo ndizomwe ndikufuna kufotokoza: osakankhira anthu kupita kwina ndi ma mahomoni ndi maopareshoni - izi sizingawathandize. Ambiri aiwo amakhala ndi chizolowezi chofuna kudzipha, kapena patatha zaka azindikira kuti amangokhala ndi vuto la m'maganizo lomwe lingathe kuchira. Anthu ambiri okhala ndi ma transgender amandilembera ine ndikunena kuti: "zikhala bwino, ukunena zoona!" Tidalapa patatha zaka 8, kapena zaka 12. M'modzi mwa iwo adalemba kuti zidamutengera zaka 15 kuvomereza kuti adalakwitsa.

Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimayendetsa pano ndikuti dotolo wochita maopaleshoni a "gender reassignment" amalandira $1,200,000 pachaka. Sizopindulitsa pazachuma kuti atuluke ndikuvomereza kuti ndizosathandiza. Sindimapeza kalikonse pa izi. Sindilipira msonkho, ndilibe phindu lililonse lazachuma, ndikungofuna kupulumutsa miyoyo yambiri ndikuwonetsetsa kuti anthu akulandira chithandizo ndi chithandizo chomwe akufunikira. "

Pulofesa Camilla Paglia akukhulupirira kuti kukula kwa transgenderism ku West ndi chizindikiro cha kutha kwa chikhalidwe ndi kusokonekera kwa chikhalidwe: "Pazofufuza zanga, ndapeza kuti mbiri ndi yatsopano. M'masiku akale, kulikonse timayang'ana chithunzi chomwecho: chikhalidwe chikayamba kuvunda, zochitika za transgender zimakula. Chifukwa chake ku Greece wakale, patsikuli, ziboliboli zake zinali zolimba mtima komanso zamphamvu, koma anthu ambiri atayamba kuwonongeka, ziboliboli zake zimakhala zopanda mphamvu komanso zachikazi, monga phala yophika. Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kugwa kwa chikhalidwe. Palibe chomwe chimadziwika kuti kuwonongeka kwa West ndikulolera kwathu kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso izi.

Transgenderism yakhala kalembedwe komanso zovomerezeka zomwe achinyamata omwe amakhala kunja kwawo samathamangira kudzipatula. Ngati mu 50's, zigawenga zidakhala zovunda, ndipo mu 60's adakhala mahipi ndipo adayamba kumwa mankhwala opititsa patsogolo malingaliro, lero akulimbikitsidwa kuganiza kuti kutalika kwawo kumalumikizidwa ndi jenda losayenera.

Ndine wokhudzidwa ndi kutchuka ndi kupezeka kwa maopaleshoni a "gender reassignment". Anthu amalimbikitsidwa kuchita zimenezi, koma ngakhale lero, ndi kupita patsogolo kwa sayansi, simungathe kusintha jenda la munthu. Mutha kudzitcha chilichonse chomwe mungafune, koma pamapeto pake, selo lililonse m'thupi lanu ndi DNA yake imakhalabe yolembedwa molingana ndi kugonana kwanu kobadwa nako.

Asayansi aku America ochokera ku Brown University anafufuza Zomwe zimayambitsa “gysphoria yodziwika mwadzidzidzi” pakati pa achinyamata ndipo anazindikira kuti kupatsirana kwa anzanu, kutengera kutengera kwa zochita za anzawo ndi kutsanzira kwa anzawo, kumathandizira kwambiri pakukweza kwa zaka zaunyamata.

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