Kodi onse ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?

“Gay” ndiye chizindikiritso chomwe munthu amakhala amasankha ndekha. Si amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amadziwika kuti ndi "gay." Anthu omwe sazindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo amakhulupirira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amafunafuna thandizo kuti adziwe zifukwa zenizeni zomwe amakumana nazo. Pa nthawi yamankhwala, alangizi ndi akatswiri amaganizo amagwiritsa ntchito njira zothandiza kuti makasitomala azindikire zifukwa zomwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo komanso kuwathandiza kuthana ndi zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Anthu awa, omwe ndi gawo limodzi lothandiza mdera lathu, amayesetsa kuteteza ufulu wawo kulandira thandizo ndi chithandizo kuti athetse kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, asinthe malingaliro awo ogonana komanso / kapena asungidwe osakwatiwa. Izi zimatheka pogwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu ophatikiza amuna ndi akazi, kuphatikiza upangiri ndi chithandizo cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe amadziwikanso kuti "Kugonana Kwachilichonse '

Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani olimbikitsa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akuyesa kuletsa kuti azigwiritsa ntchito mosakwatiwa?

Mabungwe olimbikitsa amuna pakati pa amuna ndi akazi amalimbikitsa mamembala awo kukana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso amuna omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amakana kudziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, makamaka chifukwa samagwirizana ndi nthano kuti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amabadwa. Mu 2008, American Psychological Association inati: “Ngakhale kafukufuku wambiri adawunikira momwe zimathandizira kuti chibadwa chikhale, mahomoni, chikhalidwe, komanso chikhalidwe pazokhudza kugonana, palibe umboni womwe wapezeka wolola asayansi kuti kuganiza kuti kugonana kumatsimikiziridwa ndi chilichonse kapena zifukwa zina.". Kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumakhala ndi zifukwa zambiri, ndipo anthu amawazindikira mosiyanasiyana m'miyoyo yawo. Ena amakonda kupita kukapemphedwa komwe kungawathandize kuthana ndi vuto logonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, ndipo izi zikuwopseza ndale za oyeserera.

Kodi chithandizo chovomerezedwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chosiyana ndi zina zilizonse?

Ayi. Alangizi omwe akuchita zochititsanso kukonzanso thupi ali ndi dipuloma ndipo amapereka chithandizo m'malingaliro osiyanasiyana, kuphatikiza kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Otsutsa amangonama kuti kubwezeretsa monga njira yovomerezeka kapena yoopsa pochiritsira ena, pomwe ena amati ndi njira yoletsa "kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", omwe amadalira njira zachikhalidwe zokha. Mafotokozedwe oterewa ndi abodza ndipo sawonetsa ntchito za akatswiri ovomerezeka a zamisala omwe akuchita zochizira.

Kodi ana saloledwa kulandira chisamaliro chokwanira chamisala ngati chithandizo chovomerezedwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?

Inde Ana omwe anyengedwa ndi akuluakulu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo komanso osadziwa momwe angachitire zogonana chifukwa cha nkhanza zakugonana amakanidwa kuti azilandira chithandizo chokha chifukwa sichimavomereza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. M'malo mwake, mwana amavutitsidwa kawiri - woyamba ndi wachifwamba, kenako ndi zochitika zandale, zomwe zimakana kupereka chithandizo kwa mwana, ngati sichoncho.

Amakwatiranakuvomereza Kodi mankhwalawo ndi owopsa?

Omenyera ufulu wina wogonana akuti chithandizo chobwezeretsanso zachilengedwe ndichachinyengo ndipo chitha kuchititsa wachinyamata kuda nkhawa, kukhumudwa komanso / kapena kudzipha. Ngakhale zili choncho, palibe kafukufuku wina yemwe wasanthula pakati pa anzawo yemwe angayang'ane ana omwe adachitanso kukonzanso, chifukwa chake zonena kuti chithandizo choterechi ndi chodetsa nkhawa komanso chosagwira ntchito.

Malipiro oletsa kubwezeretsanso mankhwala amakhazikitsidwa pongotengera ndale kuchokera ku zomwe zimadziwika kuti ndizothandiza anthu azachipatala komanso zaumoyo, monga American Psychological Association (APA), yomwe mu 2009 idapanga Gulu Lophatikiza la amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Sikuti gulu la Task Force limakana kuvomereza akatswiri azamisala komanso akatswiri odziwa zama psychology omwe adagwira ntchito ndi makasitomala ngati gawo lodzikonzanso ndi / kapena anali amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mamembala onse a Task Force awa amadziwika kuti ndiomwe amatsutsa kwa nthawi yayitali chifukwa chazosankha komanso zifukwa zandale.

Gulu logwira ntchito la APA mu lipoti lake limalangiza makolo kuti asagwiritse ntchito njira zophunzitsira ana awo. Misonkho yoletsa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha imangotchula malingaliro a APA ndi mabungwe ena ambiri, osanyalanyaza malingaliro a American Association of Christian Psychologists (AACC), National Association for the Study and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), Catholic Medical Association (CMA) ndi American College of Pediatricians (ACPeds), onse omwe amachirikiza ufulu wa kasitomala wofuna kuthana ndi zokopa za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso ufulu wa makolo wosankha mankhwala ndi malingaliro omwe angathandize mabanja awo ndi ana awo. Zonsezi, mabungwewa amapangidwa ndi akatswiri odziwa zamankhwala komanso zamankhwala opitilira 50.

 Kodi pali umboni uliwonse wotsimikizira kuti mankhwalawa ndi othandizirana?

Inde, zaka za 100 zakafukufuku, zoona. Mu 2009, National Association for the Study and Therapy of Homosexuality idawunikira kwambiri mabuku okhudza kubwezeretsanso ndipo adaganiza kuti amuna ndi akazi ena amatha kuchoka pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kuti kusintha njira zogonana sikunali koopsa. Kuphatikiza apo, buku lowononga la Dr. James Phelan lidatulutsidwa ku 2014 "Zotsatira zabwino za kubwezeretsanso mankhwala"Momwe kafukufuku wa zaka 100 adafotokozedwera, komanso kuwunika kolemba anthu paliponse pazomwe zalembedwa bwino zomwe zimawonetsa kuti chithandizo chathandizira makasitomala ena kuthetsa machitidwe awo osagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikudziwona kuti ndi amuna okhaokha.

Kodi makolo a ana awo amaumiriza kuti azigwirizana ndi ana awo?

Omwe amayesetsa kulimbana ndi gay anzawo ati makolo amakakamiza ana awo kuti achite zochizira, kuphatikiza m'misasa yomwe akuti amagwiritsa ntchito njira zosinthira (i.e., electroshock). Zabodza zoterezi ndizabodza zomwe zidafufuzidwa ndikutsimikiziridwa, komabe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati njira yowopseza yolimbikitsa opanga malamulo kuti aletse kulandira chithandizo chovomerezedwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pomwe panthawi imodzimodziyo amalola mchitidwe wovomerezeka ndi jenda. Komanso, ngati ochita zachiwerewere ali otangwanika kwambiri ndi chithandizo chododometsa, bwanji osangoletsa othandizirana mwanjira yomweyo m'malo mongoyesa kuletsa kungobwezeretsanso chithandizo chokha? (Mwachidule, pakadali pano pafupifupi odwala 1 miliyoni pachaka amalandira chithandizo cha electroshock pothandizira kukhumudwa, catatonia, manic syndrome, etc. - pafupifupi. Per.)

Malamulo oletsa kubwezeretsanso zachilengedwe amaopseza ufulu wa anthu wokhala ndi moyo, ufulu, komanso kufunafuna chisangalalo, komanso ufulu wakumana ndi katswiri wazamalamulo wokhazikitsidwa ndi Lamulo Loyamba la Constitution ya U.S. kuti athandizire kasitomala kuthetsa kukopa kosafunikira kugonana komwe kumachitika kuti akhalebe wokhulupilika pazikhulupiriro zake zauzimu. Makolo onse, ana ndi mabanja amafunika kukhala ndi ufulu wodziyimira pawokha ndipo sayenera kukakamizidwa kusankha pakati pa akatswiri amisala ndi chipembedzo.

Source: Kufanana Ndi Chilungamo Kwa Onse