Shugaban kungiyar masu luwadi ta GLSEN, Magana A wani taron shugabannin kungiyar "LGBT motsi" a 1995, ya bayyana yadda aka shigar da shirye-shiryen 'yan luwadi a cikin manhaja na cibiyoyin ilimi na jihohi:

“Amfani da ingantaccen kalma shine mabuɗin cin nasara. Ya kamata a danganta shi da dabi'un mutane gama gari. Da muke kiran rahotonmu "Tabbatar da Makarantu na Gays da Lesbians", muna tura abokan hamayyarmu kai tsaye zuwa matsayi na tsaro kuma sun sace mafi girman hanyar kai hari. Mun mai da hankali kan yadda kiyayya ke haifar da barazana ga amincin ɗalibai da ƙirƙirar yanayi inda tashin hankali, matsalolin kiwon lafiya da kashe kansa suka zama ruwan dare. Babu wanda ya iya yin magana da maganganunmu ba yana cewa, "Ina tsammanin cewa ɗaliban ba sa bukatar tsaro, a bar su su kashe kansu," kuma wannan ya ba mu damar tabbatar da yanayinmu. "

Tare da taimakon irin waɗannan marubutan, masu fafutuka sun sami damar gabatar da darussan da ke da alaƙa da maza a cikin makarantu, sanya littattafansu a cikin dakunan karatu, buɗe kungiyoyin kula da yara masu luwadi da sauransu. A karkashin dokar hana hana tashin hankali da kisan kai, suna haɗu da liwadi kuma suna haɓaka shi cikin tunanin yara mara amfani ba tare da sanin iyayensu ba. Babban sakonsu ga yara: “Kada ku yi kokarin murkushe sha'awar dan luwadi, an haifeku ta hakan ne. Ka fito ka yi alfahari da cewa kai kishili ne. ” Suna kuma ƙarfafa yara don "bincika asalin jinsin su" da kuma yin gwaji tare da dangantakar jinsi daya. Don haka, littafin rubutu na sati na tara yana cewa "jima'i yanki ne na gwaji, kuskure da zaɓi na mutum," kuma cewa "gwada damar jima'i a cikin samartaka na iya zama mafi aminci ga abokan zama na jinsi."

A zahiri, sa samari a cikin rayuwar ɗan luwaɗi suna ƙara haɗarin yin kisan kai lokacin 5.

Mafi cikakken kallo fiye da shekaru 30 kuma ana gudanar da shi a Sweden, inda al'adun ke da matukar goyon baya ga "mutanen transgender", suna yin rikodin rikice-rikicen tunanin su a duk rayuwarsu. Shekaru 10-15 bayan tiyatar sake canza jima'i, yawan kashe kansa a cikin waɗanda aka yi wa tiyatar sake canza jima'i ya karu sau 20 idan aka kwatanta da takwarorinsu.

Statisticsididdigar yawan kisan kai ta hanyar yawan jama'a shine 4.6%, tsakanin LGB - 20%, kuma tsakanin mutanen transgender - 41%, wannan shine, kusan kowane sakan. Masu gwagwarmayar LGBT suna hanzarin bayyana waɗannan ƙididdigar baƙin ciki tare da "nuna bambanci" da "zalunci" daga jama'a "marasa haƙuri", amma ƙwarewar ƙasashe masu haƙuri da ƙananan kabilu suna nuna cewa wannan ba haka bane.

Adadin kisan kai tsakanin 'yan tsiraru na jima'i "a cikin kasashe kamar Denmark, Netherlands, Finland ko Sweden, inda ba su ɗan sami kararrawa daga jama'a ba, ya rage. mara kyau highkamar sauran wurare. A zahiri, karɓar jama'a masu yarda da liwadi kawai suna haifar da karuwa ga cututtuka da wahala a tsakanin LGB. Halin lalata halayen homosean luwadi suna da mutunci matuƙar suna jin daɗin kwanciyar hankali (alal misali, cikin San Francisco).

Idan muka dauki bakaken fata na Amurka, da wariya da zalunci wanda hukuma ta halatta ta (duba Jim Crow Laws), za mu ga cewa yawan kashe kansa a ciki ya kasance kasafiye da azzalumansa farare. Don haka, zaluncin zamantakewa baya karuwa (kuma yarda ba ta raguwa) yawan kashe kansa. Ba game da "wariya" kwata-kwata ba ne, amma game da halayen tunanin waɗannan mutane. Akwai nau'i ɗaya kawai na mutane inda adadin ƙoƙarin kashe kansa shine 20-40%, kamar mutanen LGBT, waɗannan schizophrenics ne.

Kusan dukkan tsoffin 'yan luwadi sun ce tunanin kisan kai bai taso ba ne daga ƙiyayya da wasu, amma daga kyamarsu da kansu da abin da suke yi da jikinsu, da kuma daga ji da takaici da bege, tunda sun hakikance cewa babu wata hanya. canzawa. Bugu da kari, an san cewa 'yan luwadi suna zama abin birgewa musamman masu rauni da rauni, wanda babban abin takaici zai iya kawo matsala cikin sauki.

Ya kamata a sani cewa yunƙurin kashe kansa yana nuna kasancewar matsalolin tunani, amma koyaushe ba sa haifar da kisan kai. Анализ kisan kai da aka yi a Amurka ya bayyana manyan abubuwan da ke haifar da halayen kisan LGBT. Yawancin kisan kai suna faruwa ne a lokacin da shekarun 40-59 suke, lokacin da tambayar ta zama mafi m abokin bincike, ko ajalinsa (kadaici), ya tashi matsalolin lafiya (HIV, STDs, barasa da shan kwayoyi). Yawan marasa kisan kai bayan shekaru 60 yana da ban sha'awa, wanda zai iya nuna dalilan kisan kai ba shi da alaƙa da wariya, amma yana da alaƙa da alaƙar mutum, gami da maƙasudin, ko ƙara yawan mace-mace daga wasu dalilai.

47,8% na 'yan luwadi (G.) da 68,8% na' yan lesbians (L.) waɗanda suka kashe kansu an gano su da matsalolin lafiyar kwakwalwa. 44,5% G. da 51,2% L. a baya sun sami ci gaba a tunanin mutum ko magani. Ana kashe kansa ta kashin kansa a mafi yawan lokuta matsaloli masu mahimmanci tare da abokin tarayya - 70,7%, rikice-rikice - 29,3%. A tsakanin 'yan luwadi, babban dalilin shi ne m matsaloli - 36,4% da rikice-rikice - 21,2%. Abubuwan da suka faru na rayuwa wanda ke haifar da kisan kai an hade su da rikicin ɗan gajeren lokaci (a cikin makonni biyu) da matsalolin kiwon lafiya.

A cikin Amurka, ana iya gano wani bakon tsari: adadin yunƙurin kashe kansa na LGBT a zahiri bai dogara da juriyar jihar ba. Ko da a cikin jihar guda, lamarin ya bambanta sosai: a California, a duk fadin jihar, 19.7% na "matasan LGBT" sun yi yunkurin kashe kansa, amma a wuraren da mutanen LGBT suka fi mayar da hankali, yawan yaran 'yan luwadi da ke yunkurin kashe kansa ya karu zuwa 24% a Los Angeles kuma. 31% a San Francisco. -Francisco! (CDC 2015). Bincike bambance-bambance tsakanin LGB da masu shiga tsakani a cikin binciken 13 na kasa da kasa sun nuna: matsayin 'yan tsirarun jima'i shine tabbataccen haɗari ga rashin lafiyan tunani a cikin ƙasashe daban-daban, ko da kuwa matakin tallafin LGBT. Wannan ƙarshe ya saba wa tsammanin masana kimiyya da kuma bayanan da suka gabata waɗanda ke nuna alaƙa tsakanin yanayin LGB a matakin jiha da ingantacciyar lafiyar hankali. Har ila yau binciken ya gano cewa ba a samu wani ci gaba a tsawon lokaci ba, ko da bayan an halasta “aure” jinsi daya.

Masana kimiyya kallo raguwar yanayin yawaitar yunƙurin kashe kansa a cikin al'umma, amma duk da haka girma haƙuri ga mutanen LGBT, rabon mutanen LGBT da madigo da ke ƙoƙarin kashe kansa bai canza ba. Bugu da ƙari, sauran binciken, wanda ya yi nazari game da sauyin yanayin tunanin mutanen LGBT yayin da al'umma ke daɗaɗɗa, ya gano cewa duk da ci gaban zamantakewa, bambance-bambance a cikin lafiyar kwakwalwa a tsakanin 'yan luwadi da masu yin jima'i na karuwa.

Hakanan, bayanan ƙungiya Tsarin Trevor kar a nuna wani gagarumin cigaba a matasan LGBT dangane da kashe kansu. A lokaci guda kuma, akwai bayyanannen tabarbarewar lafiyar kwakwalwarsu.

Tsarin Sa ido Haɗarin Matasa a Massachusetts ya tabbatar Trend: Daga 2005 zuwa 2017, cutar da kai a tsakanin matasa 'yan luwadi bai canza ba, yayin da a tsakanin matasan madigo an sami raguwar halayen haɗari. Kuma wannan duk da cewa Massachusetts na ɗaya daga cikin jihohin da suka fi jure wa juna, wadda ta fara halatta auren jinsi a Amurka.

Duk da yunƙurin da masu fafutuka ke yi na shawo kan jama'a cewa halasta "aure-jima'i" yana rage yuwuwar yunƙurin kashe kansa, masana kimiyyar Cambridge daga "Binciken Tattalin Arziƙi na Ƙasa" karyata wannan labari. Su ne ganocewa halalta “aure-jima’i” da hukuncin kotu yana da alaƙa da tabarbarewar lafiyar kwakwalwar mutanen LGBT, wanda ke haifar da mummunan halin zamantakewa ga irin wannan canjin. Wato, sanya halattawar "aure-jima'i" ba ya inganta, amma yana kara dagula tunanin "'yan tsirarun jima'i".

A tsakanin kungiyoyin 'yan luwadi da ke aiki a karkashin kyakkyawar manufa ta “hana kashe kansa” a tsakanin matasa, akwai Al’umma 404 da kuma It It’s Better Better project, wanda za a iya fassara sunan shi da cewa “Komai ya yi kyau.” Aikin ya ce yaran da ke fuskantar sha'awar luwaɗan kawai suna buƙatar wuce cikin lokacin matashi mai wahala, bayan haka za su sami kyakkyawar rayuwar ɗan kishili. An gabatar da wanda ya kirkiro wannan aikin Dan Savage a matsayin misali, wanda farfagandar hedonta da aka yi kama da gwagwarmayar ta'adanci yana goyan bayan manyan politiciansan siyasa (Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton), shahararrun mutane (Justin Bieber, Tom Hanks) da kamfanoni (Google, Apple). A farkon abin da ake kira "zancen fita" yana faruwa, mafi girman yiwuwar kashe kansa, hutu tare da dangi da abokai. Masu yada labaran LGBT sun shawo kan yara game da wannan bukatar har ma da buga umarni, ta haka suna tura su ga kisan kai. Amma tare da yanayin dabi'ar ci gaban psychosexual kuma ba tare da amincewar gwaje-gwaje masu haɗari ba, yawancinsu zasu iya samun yanayin koyarwar jima'i na al'ada.

A zahiri, rayuwar ɗan luwadi tare da shekaru kawai zai zama muni. Statisticsididdigar cutar kanjamau, cututtukan jima'i da cututtukan hanji, da kuma wasu raunin hankali da kwayoyi masu alaƙa da halayen ɗan luwadi suna da ban mamaki sosai. A cewar kamfanin dillancin labarai na APA, kashi daya bisa uku na dukkan 'yan luwadi da suka shekara 20 za su kamu da kwayar cutar kanjamau ko kuma su mutu sakamakon cutar ta kanjamau. Rikicin ta bangaren abokin tarayya, shan kwayoyi, rashin jin daɗi, da bacin rai ma babban mawuyaci ne tsakanin yan luwadi. Rayuwa zata iya samun sauki ne kawai idan mutum ya bar wannan lalata и karkace salon rayuwa wanda ake alakantawa da ma'anar ɓata ayyukabai dace da lafiyarsa da rayuwarsa ba.

“LGBT motsi” ba zai iya yin komai ba tare da amfani da karya da yaudara ba. Tunanin sa gaba daya ya sabawa gaskiya, dabaru, hankali, kuma an gina shi ne akan maganganun da basu da tushe, karkatar da tunanin mutum, yaudarar jama'a da kuma fadakarwa. Masu fafutuka da gangan suna yada karya game da abinda suke da yawagame da na cikin gari и rigakafi yanayinsa, game da yaduwarta a duniyar dabbobigame da shi yarda a zamanin d. a da sauransu Marubutan marubutan gaba daya ganecewa irin waɗannan muhawara ɗin shiryawa ne na siyasa don samun karɓar jama'a da haƙƙoƙi na musamman.

Wataƙila babbar ƙaryar ita ce ƙarfafa liwadi da jima'i a cikin yara waɗanda ke fuskantar matsaloli tare da ainihin kansu na iya taimaka musu ko ta yaya. Zurfafawa da ci gaba da ruɗinsu da ruɗewar su shine mafi munin abin da za ku iya yi musu - ta zuciya, tunani da kuma, ba shakka, likitanci. Wadannan matasa sau da yawa suna buƙatar taimako na gaske, amma a maimakon haka sai a kai su cikin mummunan hali da ɓarna wanda ke rikidewa zuwa jaraba a kan lokaci. Yawancin samari, musamman waɗanda suka fuskanci wani irin rauni na tunani, sukan ji cewa sun yi ƙasa da ƙasa, ba wanda yake buƙatar su, kuma ba wanda zai taɓa son su. Yin amfani da hargitsi da kaɗaici da ke tattare da balaga, masu fafutuka na luwaɗi suna ɗaukar yara ruɗani a ƙarƙashin fikafikan su, suna ba su "wuri" a cikin al'ummar LGBT wanda ke ba su ma'anar kasancewa da haɗin kai (wanda ke bayyana musamman don ƙiyayya ga duk waɗanda ba su yarda da su ba. ). Barna da bakin ciki da aka yi wa iyalan da wadannan kungiyoyi suka raba musu 'ya'yansu ba za su misaltu ba.

Babu kowa ba haihuwa ɗan kishili. Osean kishili wani salo ne na ƙwararrun halayen tunani da halayen mutane, maimakon halayen ƙimar halitta. Babu wani tushen kimiyya da za a yi iƙirarin cewa mutane "an haife su ta wannan hanyar," har ma theungiyar Ilimin Zaman Lafiya na Amurka, wacce ke aiki a cikin ayyukan siyasa don daidaita dabi'ar luwaɗan, ya yarda da hakan. Kwanan nan, manyan malamai na LGBT sun fara kira ga masu gwagwarmaya su daina haɓaka tatsuniyar “baƙi da yanayin canzawa,” saboda hujjojin kimiyya da yawa sun tara cewa wannan ba haka ba ne, don haka ci gaba da jayayya akasin wannan kawai abin ba'a ne.