Mu Julayi 2020, a John Blosnich wa LGBTQ+ Health Equality Center adafalitsa ina kuphunzira za "ngozi" ya mankhwala obwezeretsa. Pakafukufuku wa mamembala a 1518 a "anthu ochepa omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", gulu la Blosnich lidatsimikiza kuti anthu omwe adayesedwa kusintha malingaliro ogonana (omwe amatchedwa SOCE *) anena za kuchuluka kwa malingaliro ofuna kudzipha komanso kuyesa kudzipha kuposa omwe alibe. Zakhala zikutsutsidwa kuti SOCE ndi "kupsinjika kovulaza komwe kumawonjezera kudzipha kwa ochepa pakugonana". Chifukwa chake, kuyesa kusintha malingaliro ndikosavomerezeka ndipo kuyenera kusinthidwa ndi "kusiya kovomerezeka" komwe kungayanjanitse munthuyo ndi zilakolako zake zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kafukufukuyu amatchedwa "umboni wotsimikizika kwambiri wakuti SOCE imayambitsa kudzipha".
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Kusinthasintha koyendetsa zogonana komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino mwa amuna
PHUNZIRO ENA AKUSINTHA KUGWIRITSA NTCHITO NDI CHITETEZO CHA MANKHWALA OBWERETSA.
Monga andale otsogozedwa ndi LGBT akukhazikitsa malamulo oletsa chithandizo chamankhwala kwa anthu omwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kafukufuku wina watuluka ku US womwe ukuwonetsa mwamphamvu kuti anthu otere atha kuthandizidwa.
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Chithandizo cha zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zisanachitike zolondola zandale
Milandu yambiri yothandiza kuchiritsa kwa anthu omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kukopa akufotokozedwa mwatsatanetsatane m'mabuku akatswiri. Nenani Bungwe la National Association for the Study and Therapy of kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha likuwonetsa mwachidule umboni wopatsa chidwi, malipoti azachipatala ndi kafukufuku kuyambira kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 1800 mpaka pano, zomwe zimatsimikizira motsimikiza kuti abambo ndi amayi omwe ali ndi chidwi atha kusintha kuchokera pa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kupita amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Nyengo isanakhale yolondola pandale, zinali zodziwika bwino zasayansi, zomwe ndi zaulere analemba atolankhani apakati. Ngakhale American Psychiatric Association, kupatula kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pamndandanda wazovuta zamaganizidwe mu 1974, adalemba, izo "Njira zamakono zamankhwala zimalola gawo lalikulu la ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe akufuna kusintha malingaliro awo kuti atero".
Kutanthauzira kumatsatira zolemba kuchokera ku New York Times ya 1971.
Therapygration Therapy - Kusintha Ndikotheka
Kanema wathunthu mu Chingerezi
Kuyambira nthawi yamasinthidwe azakugonana, malingaliro azokhudza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha asintha kwambiri. Masiku ano, kwa amuna omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ku West, nkhondoyi ikuwoneka kuti yapambana: magulu azitabane, azigololo, gay ukwati. Tsopano "gay ndi zabwino." Zilango zoyendetsera milandu komanso milandu yomwe inali isanachitike imayembekezera iwo omwe amatsutsa anthu a LGBT, limodzi ndi zilembo zamtundu woyipa ndi zapanyumba.
Kulekerera komanso kuvomerezeka kwa ufulu wogonana kumagwira ntchito kwa anthu onse kupatulapo gawo limodzi lokhala anthu - omwe akufuna kusiya kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikuyamba moyo wosakwatirana. Amuna ndi akazi awa amakhala ndi malingaliro ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha koma safuna kuvomereza kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okha. Amakhulupirira kuti kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikuimira chikhalidwe chawo chenicheni ndipo amafuna kupulumutsidwa.
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Nkhondo yanthawi zonse - Gerard Aardweg
Chitsogozo cha kudzichiritsa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kutengera zaka makumi atatu zokhudzana ndi zochiritsa za wolemba amene adagwira ntchito ndi makasitomala ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha a 300.
Ndapereka bukuli kwa azimayi ndi abambo omwe azunzidwa ndi malingaliro ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sindikufuna kukhala ngati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amafunika thandizo ndi chithandizo chopindulitsa.
Iwo omwe aiwalika, omwe mawu ake adasungunuka, ndipo samatha kupeza mayankho pagulu lathu, lomwe limavomereza ufulu wodzilimbikitsira pawokha kwa otchova juga.
Omwe amasalidwa ngati angaganize kapena kuganiza kuti malingaliro ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso osasinthika ndi bodza lomvetsa chisoni, ndipo izi si zawo.
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Thandizo lokonzanso: mafunso ndi mayankho
Kodi onse ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?
“Gay” ndiye chizindikiritso chomwe munthu amakhala amasankha ndekha. Si amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amadziwika kuti ndi "gay." Anthu omwe sazindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo amakhulupirira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amafunafuna thandizo kuti adziwe zifukwa zenizeni zomwe amakumana nazo. Pa nthawi yamankhwala, alangizi ndi akatswiri amaganizo amagwiritsa ntchito njira zothandiza kuti makasitomala azindikire zifukwa zomwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo komanso kuwathandiza kuthana ndi zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Anthu awa, omwe ndi gawo limodzi lothandiza mdera lathu, amayesetsa kuteteza ufulu wawo kulandira thandizo ndi chithandizo kuti athetse kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, asinthe malingaliro awo ogonana komanso / kapena asungidwe osakwatiwa. Izi zimatheka pogwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu ophatikiza amuna ndi akazi, kuphatikiza upangiri ndi chithandizo cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe amadziwikanso kuti "Kugonana Kwachilichonse '
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Zolemba za munthu yemwe kale anali amuna kapena akazi anzawo
Wokondedwa wowerenga, dzina langa ndi Jake. Ndine wachiwerewere wakale wazaka makumi awiri kuchokera ku England. Zolemba izi ndi za iwo omwe amatsutsa lingaliro losintha malingaliro azakugonana. Akatswiri aphunzira zakugonana kwazaka zambiri ndipo apeza kuti kugonana kumakhala kosiyanasiyana mwa anthu ambiri. Umboni ukusonyeza kuti malingaliro azakugonana amatha kusintha pamoyo wawo wonse. Ndizowonetseratu kuti anthu ambiri amasintha malingaliro awo pakugonana. Ndine m'modzi wa anthuwa.
Sindimakondanso kugona ndi amuna; atsikana tsopano ali okongola kwambiri kwa ine. Poyamba sindinkaganiza choncho, koma tsopano ndikuganiza.
Nthawi ina, kugona tulo usiku, ndinadziyerekeza ndili m'manja mwa munthu wina, tsopano ndimatha kudziyerekeza ndekha ndi mtsikana wamkazi.
Ena sasangalala ndi izi. Sakhala otsimikiza za kugonana kwawo kotero kuti sangathe kuvomereza kuti pali ena omwe salinso ndi malingaliro awo. Amakhala osangalala kwambiri pamene anthu asinthana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sakonda izi zikachitika. Nthawi zina anthu ngati ine amatchedwa oyambitsa udani, ndipo chifukwa chake sindikufuna kugona ndi amuna!
Akadakonda ndikangokhala chete osintha zogonana zanga, ndikukhala mabodza ndikukana zomwe zidachitika? Inde, zikuwoneka! Amafuna kundiletsa, kundilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo womwe ndimasankha, komanso kundikakamiza kuti ndizitsogolera moyo womwe amawona kuti ndi wofunikira!
Sikuti ndinangosiya kugonana, komanso ndimakhala wosangalala. Ine ndekha ndiziwongolera moyo wanga momwe ndikufuna, osati momwe amandiuzira. Ndinaganiza zosintha kugonana kwanga ndipo ndinazichita.
Kugwira mawu ochirikiza ana:
Ndili pano!
Sindingatengenso ulemu!
Kuzolowera!
Nkhani yonse m'Chingerezi: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man