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Ngokutsho Idatha yamva nje I-UK kunye ne-US, i-10-30% yabantu abasanda kutshintshwa bayayeka ukutshintshela kwiminyaka embalwa yokuqala inguqu.

Ukuphuhliswa kwemibutho yabasetyhini kunike amandla ekwakheni ithiyori yenzululwazi "yesini", ethi iyantlukwano kumdla nakwizakhono phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini azimiselwanga ngumahluko wabo webhayoloji, kodwa kukhuliswa kunye neenkolelo ezibekwa kubo ngusolusapho. Ngokwalo mqondo, "isini" "sisini ngokwasengqondweni" komntu, esingaxhomekekanga kwisini sakhe sebhayoloji kwaye esinganyanzelekanga ukuba sihambelane naso, ngokunxulumene nendoda yendalo enokuziva ngokwengqondo ukuba ingumfazi kwaye yenze indima yabasetyhini kwezentlalo, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo. Iingcamango zembono zibiza le nto "yi-transgender" kwaye ibanga ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kwezonyango, le ngxaki yengqondo yaziwa ngokuba yi-transsexualism (ICD-10: F64).

Ngaphandle kokuthetha, yonke "ithiyori yesini" isekwe kwiingcinga ezingenangqondo ezingenasihlahla kunye nokuthunyelwa kweembono ezingenasiseko. Ilinganisa ubukho bolwazi xa ingekhoyo. Nangona kunjalo, kule minyaka idlulileyo, ukusasazeka kwe "transgender", ngakumbi kulutsha, kuye kwaba sisifo. Kucacile ukuba ungcoliseko ekuhlaleni ngokudibeneyo nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye nemithambo-luvo, idlala indima ebalulekileyo koku. Inani lolutsha oluzimisele "ukutshintsha isini" lonyukile kule minyaka idlulileyo Lishumi kwaye ifikelele kwinqanaba lokurekhoda. Ngesizathu esingaziwayo, i-3/4 yabo ingamantombazana.

Kumazwe aseNtshona, kuphela yindlela yokuvuma evunyelwe kwizigulana ezinesifo sokuchazwa kwesini; Ukungazithembi iimvakalelo zesigulana okanye ukuzama ukumchasa kuthathwa “njengokunyhashwa kwamalungelo oluntu”. Oogqirha ababuza "ithiyori yesini" baphantsi komzekelo wokuziphatha kwaye baphelelwe yimisebenzi... Ke ngoko, abasebenzi bezempilo ngoku bamisela iihormoni eziyingozi zesini esinqamlezileyo kunye nokuhanjiswa kwemisebenzi yokwaluka kuwo wonke umntu ngaphandle kwemibuzo.

Kwangelo xesha, izazinzulu zaseRussia ingxeloukuba kuphela i-13% yabo bafake isicelo "sokutshintsha isondo" abangenazo izigulo zengqondo ezinxulumene noko (oko akuthethi ukuba azikho). Kwi-87%, i-transsexualism yadityaniswa nokuphazamiseka kwembonakalo ye-schizophrenic, ukuphazamiseka kobuntu kunye nokunye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Njani yavuma UWalt Heyer, owenza "inguqu eguqukayo" ukuya kwisini sakhe sokwenyani kwiminyaka eyi-25 eyadlulayo, ukuba ezi ngxaki zijongiwe kuqala, umnqweno "wokutshintsha isini" uyancipha. "Isini sedysphoria kufuneka sinyangwe ngonyango lwengqondo, hayi isikhumba."-uqinisekile.

Ngo-2017 ngo ingxelo KwiYunivesithi yaseStonewall yaseCambridge, kwafunyaniswa ukuba i-96% yabafundi baseScotland abachonga njenge "transgender" baye bazenzakalisa ngendlela yokusika, kwaye i-40% izamile ukuzibulala. Amanani afanayo afunyanwa kwisifundo e-United States, nakwiSweden enganyamezelaniyo: ithuba lokuba "abantu abadlulayo 'bazibulale Amaxesha angama-19 aphezulukunakubemi ngokubanzi, nasemva kotyando olwenzeka emzimbeni.

I-Government Equality Bureau iqikelela ukuba kukho phakathi kwe-200 kunye ne-500 "yabantu abadlulayo" e-UK, kodwa akukho manani ngqo. Inani elithe ngqo labantu abanganelisekanga sisazisi sabo esitsha okanye abagqibe ekubeni babuyele kwisini sabo sebhayoloji alaziwa. UWalt Heyer kwiwebhusayithi yakhe sexualregret.com Ibango lokuba kukho malunga ne-20% yabo kwaye inani labo liyakhula. Aba bantu bazibiza ngokuba "ngabacuphi".

I-Detrans yakhetha i-salamander njengophawu lwayo, ngenxa yokukwazi kwayo ukuvuselela amalungu kunye namalungu omzimba. Kwaye nangona abantu bekhohlisiwe yi-transgender propaganda abaye benza utyando "ngotshintsho" ngekhe baphinde bakwazi ukuvuselela amalungu abo alahlekileyo, kukho ithemba lokuba baya kuba nakho ukuzuza ubuncinci bokuthembeka ngokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo kubomi babo obunzima. Kule nqaku, siza kujonga amabali amaninzi kubo.

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USinead, oneminyaka engama-29 ubudala. Amava aliqela abuhlungu nawanzima awenzekileyo ebutsheni bakhe amkhokelela ekubeni ala ubufazi kunye nomnqweno wokuba yindoda. Ngoku uyaqonda ukuba "utshintsho" aluzisombululanga iingxaki namaxhala akhe. 

"Uya kwikliniki yesini kwaye emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa uqala ukuthatha i-testosterone, - Utsho uSinead... -Ugqirha wezifo zengqondo wandixelela ukuba ndingumdlwenguli. Ndacinga ukuba ukuba ndimiselwe i-testosterone, ke ndiyinyani ye-transgender. Ngaphandle kwemibuzo ngokubanzi, akukho namnye owaphanda ubukho bezinye izinto. Ndizamile ukuthetha ngeengxaki zam nonyango, kodwa Isini sedysphoria sinconyiwe njengesizathu seengxaki zam, hayi uphawu... Ukunyaniseka, ndicinga ukuba imiba yam yesini ivela kwimicimbi yezempilo yengqondo, hayi enye indlela. ” 

Kuqala, uSinead wayeyithanda ifuthe lokuthatha i-testosterone-iidipozithi zaphinda zabiwa, ilizwi laba liphantsi, kwavela iinwele zobuso, kwaye amadoda ayayeka ukuhoya. Wayeziva ngathi olu tshintsho yeyona nto ibalaseleyo awakha wayenza. Kodwa akazange asele utywala obuninzi ngaphambili njengokuba esenza ngoku. Wayesacaphukela ubume bakhe njengowesifazana, kwaye wayehlala edandathekile, ngenxa yoko kwafuneka asele ade afe. Ekugqibeleni, konke kwaphela kukuphazamiseka kwemithambo-luvo, emva koko kwafika kuye ukuqonda ukuba ungumfazi, kwaye kwakungekho mfuneko yokuba anyathele indlela enobungozi yokulimala okungenakuphikwa. 

Ngoku uSinead uzama ukufunda ukwamkela umzimba wakhe otshatyalalisiweyo. Ngaphambi kokuba aphume endlwini, ucheba ngononophelo ubuso nesifuba kwaye uhlala ethwele umnqwazi ukufihla iinwele zakhe eziyekelelayo. Uphakathi kwiincoko zeqela kunye nezinye iidrans kwaye uyazi ngokwam malunga nekhulu elifana naye. Kodwa zininzi ezinye ezingasebenziyo kwi-Intanethi. I-Sinead ikholelwa ukuba le yinto nje yencopho yomkhenkce, kwaye ziya kubakho ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ufuna abo baphambukayo bazi ukuba ababodwa kwaye banakho ukufumana abantu abanokunxibelelana kwaye babaxhase. 

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ULucy, 23. Ukwalelwa komzimba wakhe kwaqala kwishumi elivisayo. Ekuqaleni, wazama ukumtshintsha ngokutya kunye nogwayimbo lwendlala, yiyo loo nto waba neanorexia. Xa ubunzima bukaLucy behla baya kwi-39 kg, abazali bakhe bamthumela kunyango olunyanzelekileyo. Ekugqibeleni, ubunzima bakhe bazinza, kodwa waba ne-bulimia, asasokola nayo nangoku. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba amabele kaLucy wayesele emancinci, wayefuna ukwahlukana nawo. Wakhangela kwi-Intanethi ngolwazi kwaye wafumana indawo eyayithetha nge-transsexualism. U-Lucy waqala wafunda amabali malunga "nabantu abadlulayo" kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe wazaliswa ziingcamango ezingeyonyani zedrama ideology. Kwiminyaka engama-20, waqala ukuthatha iihomoni. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu kamva, kwenzeka imastectomy (ukususwa kwebele). Emva koko kwafika ithuba le-hysterectomy (ukususwa kwesibeleko) kunye ne-oophorectomy (ukususwa kwama-ovari). Konke oku kwenzeke ngendlela ekhawulezayo kakhulu. 

"Xa ujonge ulwazi kutshintsho olunokwenzeka, ungalufumana ngokulula uluhlu loogqirha abasebenza nabantu be-transgender - uxelela uLucy... "Bayakuxhasa ngokulula umnqweno wakho, kwaye nakwidosi yokuqala unokufumana iphepha likagqirha le testosterone." 

U-Lucy uthi ukuncokola nabahlobo bakhe abanelishwa kuye kwamnceda kakhulu kuba eyekile ukuziva elilolo. Kodwa kwakunzima, kuba abanye "abantu be-transgender" bambiza ngokuba ulixoki, umngcatshi kwaye wamhlazisa ngokubanyelisa - "abantu betrans real". 

“Ngesizathu esithile, akukho mntu utyhola oogqirha okanye oogqirha Utsho uLucy. Sele ndiphulukene namalungu omzimba wam, ke amagama abantu abadlulayo abanakukhathaza. Zonke izinto ezimbi abazithethayo ekuvalelweni kwabantu aziyonto xa kuthelekiswa nentlungu endiyiva kulahleko lomzimba wam. Ndiyothuka, ndiqonda ngoku ukuba xa bendiyokukhulelwa isibeleko, akukho namnye owandichazelayo ngokubaluleka kwala malungu. Lihambile ixesha ngoku. Ndina-23 kwaye eneneni ndiye ndayeka ukuya exesheni, ngazo zonke iimpawu zempilo yomlindi. Andikwazi ukuqonda ukuba oogqirha bayivumele njani le nto-ngekhe bayamkele into yokuba babe ne-hysterectomy iyonke kwintombazana eneminyaka eyi-21 ngaphandle kwezizathu zonyango. Kodwa ukuba le ntombazana iqala ukuzichaza ngokwamadoda, ngequbuliso olo tyando lunokufunyanwa ngokulula kakhulu. Xa ndijonga emva, andiqondi ukuba kutheni kungekho mntu unike ingqwalaselo kwingxaki yam yokutya, indlela endandiziva ngayo ndingumlingani wesini esahlukileyo kunye neempawu zokugula okungalawulekiyo...

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U-Lee, 62. NjengoLucy, wayenengxaki nokuqonda komzimba wakhe esemncinci. Wayecinga ukuba utyebile kwaye uyazicaphukela iilokhwe "awayezihlohlile" kuzo. UMama noGogo bathandana nomntakwabo, ke yena wayefuna ukunxiba iimpahla ezifanayo kunye neenwele njengaye, kodwa akavunyelwanga. Xa wayeneminyaka eyi-15, utata wabo waphinda waqhakamshelana nabo, emva kweminyaka emininzi engekho. Wathatha abantwana bahambahamba, wathenga izipho, wanika imali. Emva koko wabamema ukuba bahlale endlwini yakhe; Umama wayechasene nayo, kodwa akatsho ukuba kutheni. U-Li waya, kwaye ngobusuku bokuqala utata wakhe wamdlwengula. Ngentsasa yonke into iphindaphindwe ...

Xa wayeneminyaka engama-44 ubudala, wabona kumabonwakude inkqubo malunga nomntu obhinqileyo othe "watshintsha isondo". Wayecinga ukuba angangena endaweni yakhe. Kubonakala kuye ngathi le yimpendulo. U-Lee wenza idinga nogqirha eLondon. Ngexesha lotyelelo lokuqala, wathi kuye: "Masingachithi xesha" kwaye simtofile nge testosterone.

«Ndandifuna ke ngoko, kodwa ngoku ndicinga ukuba ibingalunganga - Utsho uLee... - Eyona nto ndiyifunayo yayilunyango lwengqondo. Intloko yam yayidinga uncedo, hayi umzimba wam... Kodwa ndandiyithanda testosterone. Kule minyaka izayo, ndafumana i-hysterectomy kunye ne-oophorectomy, ukufakwa kwamatyhalarha kunye ne-metoidioplasty, efana nepenisi encinci evela kwi-clitoris. Kodwa eyam yayingenkulu ngokwaneleyo - malunga ne-7 mm. Ekugqibeleni, ndaye ndafumana ubufazi (ukususwa kwenxalenye yelungu lobufazi) emva koko ndaba ne-phalloplasty. Amalaphu athathwe ezandleni zam. Imivumbo isabonakala. Le yinkqubo enzima kakhulu kwaye inzima kunye nexesha lokuchacha elide. Emva koko kuye kwafuneka ndithathe i-antibiotics ixesha elide. " 

U-Lee uchithe ixesha elininzi noochwephesha beengqondo kwaye weza ekuqondeni ukuba uyazisola "ngenguqu" yakhe. Ungathanda ukubuyela umva ngaphambi kokuba aye kugqirha kwimicimbi yesini. Uye wacinga ngokwenza uguquko, kodwa wagqiba kwelokuba umzimba wakhe awuzukuma.

«Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndingasinda kulo lonke utyando, ”utshilo uLee. -Ndiza kulwa nomzimba wam ubomi bam bonke. Kuya kufuneka ndiyamkele njengokuba injalo ngoku. Ngaphandle, abantu babona inkwenkwe ibalekayo, kodwa ngaphakathi ndiyintombazana encinci eyenzakeleyo. Nangona ngoku ndizamkelayo kunakuqala. Ndinqwenela ukuba bangandinceda ndizamkele kwangoko. "

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UThomasin, oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala. Ukusukela ebusheni, wayeziva ukuba amakhwenkwe akamtsaleli ngokwesondo, kwaye kwacaca ukuba kule nkalo wahlukile kwamanye amantombazana. Ukukhangela impendulo, wajonga kwi-Intanethi, apho wafumana khona igama "ubungqingili". UThomasin wagqiba kwelokuba ukuba akakhange athandwe ngamakhwenkwe, ke kufuneka abe "asexual." Emva koko wagqithisa iimvakalelo zakhe malunga nezesondo "kwisini" - “Andiwathandi amakhwenkwe, kufuneka ndibengumntu ongaqhelekanga; Andiziva njengamanye amantombazana, kufuneka ndibe li-agender. " Kungekudala wagqiba kwelokuba endaweni yokufihla iingxaki ezingezizo ezesibini kunokuba lula ukuthi uyinkwenkwe, kwaye kwisithuba seminyaka emi-2,5 wazichaza njengo "transgender", etshintsha onke amaxwebhu.

UThomasin akakwazi kuchaza ukuba kutheni iimvakalelo zakhe zitshintshile, kodwa xa wayeneminyaka eyi-18, ngequbuliso waqonda ukuba angafuna ukuba nabantwana. Waqala ukubona iziphene kwi-"transgender" yakhe kwaye waqalisa ukuthandabuza kwakhona.

“Ngoku ndinombulelo kuba ndingenayo imastectomy, kodwa emva koko ndahamba ngesiqu sam kwaye ndaziva ndisoyika, - Izabelo Thomasin... -Ngoku ndiwuphatha ngcono umzimba wam wasetyhini kunangaphambili kwaye ndiye ndafunda ukwamkela amabele am. Xa benditshintshile, bendihlala ndisebenzisa ishawa okanye ibhafu kanye ngenyanga-bendizithiyile umzimba wam kakhulu. Ndingahlamba ngoku yonke imihla - kwaye olu luphuculo lokwenyani! Ndamkele umdla wam kubafazi. Ndiyaqonda ukuba kukho abantu abane-dysphoria yesini, kodwa ndicinga ukuba esinye sezizathu zokuba abantu basetyhini batshintshe kungenxa yokuba abanakuyamkela into yokuba ngoongqingili. ”..

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Emva kweminyaka engama-28 yaseBritani UCharlie Evans, owathi iminyaka eli-10 wazithatha njengendoda, kodwa waphinda wamkela isini sakhe esiyinyani, yenziwe esidlangalaleni ibali lakhe, waye wagcwala ngemiyalezo amakhulu abantu abaziva ngendlela efanayo naye. Oku kuye kwamenza ukuba enze iprojekthi. Inethiwekhi yokuXhasa ukuHanjiswaonceda abanye abantu "ukuvalela" ukumelana nentiyo kunye nokuhlukumeza kuluntu olunganyamezeliyo lwe-LGBT, ebajonga njengabangcatshi.

U-Evans uchaza ezona mpawu ziphambili zabantu abenza "ukuhlehla": bahlala beneminyaka engama-20 ubudala, ikakhulu ngabasetyhini, bahlala bengamafanasini, abathi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, bafunyaniswe benesifo sengqondo.

"Ndithetha nabaneminyaka eli-19 nama-20 ubudala abaye benziwa utyando olupheleleyo kwaye baphinde bazisola. Idysphoria yabo ayikapheli, abaziva bengcono kwaye abazi ukuba mabenze ntoni ngoku, ” Utsho uEvans.

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Omnye "ubuya emadodeni" olwela amalungelo abantu osetyhini ogama linguDagny ubanga ukuba amajelo onxibelelwano ngawona aphambili ekuqhubeni abantwana abanelishwa ukuba "batshintshe isini", kodwa kwingqumbo yakhe, ziimpapasho zobuKrestu kuphela ezinomdla kwibali lakhe, ngelixa iindaba zasekhohlo eziphambili ziye zadlula kubutshaba bakhe. cwaka.

Ngexesha lokufikisa, ufumana ukudideka okukhulu kwasekuqaleni kokuya exesheni kunye nokukhula kwamabele, uDagny wenza iposti kwinkonzo yemibuzo ye-Yahoo enesihloko esithi "Ndiyintombazana eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala, kodwa ndifuna ukuba yinkwenkwe", apho "abalungileyo" bamxelele malunga nokuphumelela okunje kwempucuko yaseNtshona. njengo "kutshintsha kwakhona ngokwesini". Emva kokumisela iakhawunti yeTumblr kunye nokubhalisela amaqela e-LGBT, waqala wabethwa kukuqonda ukuba "wayengenguye owe-binary," emva koko wayeqinisekile ukuba "wayengu-trans man". Echaphazeleka nguTumblr, waqala wabathatha abazali bakhe njengabanenzondelelo yempambano kuba babengamvumeli ukuba aqalise "unyango" lwehomoni. Wayecaphukela kwaye ebhalwe njengotshaba nabani na owayethetha naye njengowesifazane. UDagny wayeqinisekile ukuba ngenxa yokuba "wayetshintshile," wayenyanzelekile ukuba enze "inguqu", kwaye nakuphi na ukungathandabuzeki kwicala lakhe kungenxa ye "transphobia yangaphakathi".

Ngoku nge-22, uDagny akasafuni ukwenza "inguqu" kwaye uyibona ibalulekile into yokuba abantwana abane-dysphoria yesini bayazi ukuba banokukhetha.

Sinikwe ukhetho olunye kuphela, sinomngcipheko weziphumo ezibi kakhulu: ukuba ulutsha lufuna ukuba ngabantu besini esahlukileyo, kufuneka bavunyelwe ukuba 'batshintshe' - eli bali kuphela ebelithengiselwe thina. Abantu abafana nam babonisa ukungangqinelani kweli bali. ", Utsho uDagny.

Enkosi ngeprojekthi yakhe iqinkqqq.com, apho amanye amantombazana amathathu enze "ukuhlehla" abandakanyeka, ubuncinci ishumi elivisayo ulutsha aluvumanga "ukutshintsha isini".

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U-Kira Bell, oneminyaka engama-23, unengxaki yokufumana amava engqondo xa wayekwishumi elivisayo. Ngokudakumba ixesha elide, waba neengxaki zesazisi. Xa wayeneminyaka eli-15 ubudala, uKira wagqiba kwelokuba isizathu sokungoneliseki kwakhe bubomi kwakuxhomekeke kwisini sakhe "esingalunganga", kwaye waguqukela kwikliniki yaseTavistock ukuze afumane iingcebiso. Kwintlanganiso yesithathu, wayesele emiselwe ukuthintela ukufikisa. Intombi yabo yathatha malunga nonyaka. Inqanaba elilandelayo "lotshintsho" yayikukungeniswa kwehomoni testosterone yamadoda, ngenxa yokuba iinwele zaqala ukukhula emzimbeni nakubuso, kwaye ilizwi lakhe laba liphantsi. Ngo-2017, le ntombazana yaya kuqhaqho lokuqala lweplastiki yasusa amabele. Nangona kunjalo, kwangoko emva kokuphuma kwakhe esibhedlele, uKira waziva esenza impazamo. Emva kotyando, intombazana iyekile ukuthatha amayeza kwaye ekugqibeleni yaqonda ukuba ayifuni ukutshintsha isini. Kodwa kwavela ukuba sele lihambile ixesha - unyango olude lwe-hormone luyenzile indima yabo, kwaye ilizwi lakhe nomzimba wakhe ngoku kufana namadoda kunabafazi.

Ngoku uKira umangalela iklinikhi, esithi njengomntu ofikisayo onesifo sengqondo esingazinzanga, akakwazanga ukuvavanya imeko yakhe, kwaye iingcali, endaweni yokuba ziqwalasele oku kwaye zimkholise, zilandela ukukhokela kwakhe. UKira ngokuqinisekileyoukuba, ukuba unqwenela, oochwephesha bengqondo banokuphikisa ukukhohlisa kwakhe kwaye bamnike inkxaso yokuziphatha. Kuya kufuneka bathathele ingqalelo isini somntu sebhayoloji, hayi ubuni babo "besini". Ufuna oogqirha ukuba benze ngakumbi ukufunda izizathu zokuba kutheni abantu abancinci befuna "ukutshintsha isini" ngaphambi kokuba babanike iihomoni kunye notyando.

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U-Ellie, 21. Wazenza ngathi uyindoda okwethutyana emva koko wabuyela kwisini sakhe sokwenyani. Ellie uthetha ngenkohliso kagqirha, eyamqhubela ekubeni athathe iziyobisi zehomoni kunye nomonakalo osisigxina. Uthetha nangokunqongophala kwezimvo zokulinganisa ezinokumkhulula kwezi ngxaki zingafunekiyo. 

Ekuqaleni, xa wayeneminyaka eli-15 ubudala, uEllie wagqiba kwelokuba ulifanasini, kodwa waqhubeka esindwa yingcinga yokuba uza kuba ngumfazi xa sele ekhulile. U-Ellie waya kwimibutho egqithisileyo eyayimdlulisela koochwephesha bezengqondo. 

Ndothuswa yingcebiso yabo-bathetha ngokukodwa malunga nokuba yindoda kunye nokusebenza, uxelela uEllie. “Ndicinga ukuba bendifuna iimpendulo ezahluke ngokupheleleyo. Ndadimazeka, kodwa bandifaka ingqolowa yokuthandabuza. Emva kokubukela iividiyo zeYouTube zamantombazana ziba ngabafana abahle, ndiye ndaqala ukucinga ukuba umzimba wam ungabonakala ngcono ukuba ndithatha i-testosterone. Abazali bam bandisa kugqirha wengqondo owathi andingobantu abadlulayo kwaye ndimele ndilinde ndide ndibena-18. Kwakundicaphukisile ukuba isayikholojisti yandigxeka phambi kwabazali bam kwaye ndabaqinisekisa ukuba bahambe nam ukuya kwimibutho yezorhwebo ebendikade ndikuyo ngaphambili. Ugqirha abasithumele kuye wayehluke ngokupheleleyo. Uthe: kutheni ulinda i-18 ukuba i-testosterone isebenza ngakumbi ukuba uyiqala ngoku? Uye wathi umphumo we testosterone ubuyela umva kwaye andinanto yakwenza nokuxhalaba ngaloo nto ndothukile mna, kuba bendisazi ukuba kuyaxokwa. Kodwa ndandisazi ukuba abazali bam bafuna ukuyiva le nto, kwaye andizange ndithethe nto. ” 

Kunyaka kamva, amabele akhe asuswa. Uyise u-Eric ukhumbula ukuba wayenamathandabuzo, kodwa ugqirha wamqinisekisa ukuba kungangcono ngale ndlela. “Ndingathanda ukudibana nomntu ondikhuthaza ngamazwi kwaye afumane iimpikiswano ezinokumenza alinde kwaye acinge ngakumbi ngalo, kodwa bekungekho bantu abanjalo”, - uyavuma.

U-Ellie ekuqaleni wayekunandipha ukuhlala kwaye ekhangeleka njengendoda, kodwa ekugqibeleni waziva ukuba ayingokwakhe, kwaye inyathelo elilandelayo ebomini bakhe iya kuba yinkqubo yokwamkela umzimba wakhe owenziwe ngokutsha. Uya kuhlala eneapile ka-Adam, iintende ezinkulu kunye nezihlahla kuba waqala ukuthatha i-testosterone esemncinci kakhulu. Uninzi lwazo zonke izinto, akonwabanga ngezwi eliphantsi kunye nentshebe, oya kuhlala enayo. Waye wafumanisa ukuba une-atrophy yelungu lobufazi, ifuthe elisecaleni lokuthatha i-testosterone.

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Isithandwa sika-Ellie, uNele oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala naye "ngumntu owayesakuba ngumhambi." Ngexesha elithile, kwaqala ukubonakala kuye ukuba amadoda ayemnake kakhulu kwaye emana ukumjonga amabele. UNele wakhulisa ukungavisisani nomzimba, wathatha iihorms ezithandanayo kwaye, ngenkxaso kaEllie, wenza imastectomy. Kodwa ulonwabo aluzange lufike. UNele ucele ukubuyela kwindalo okwethutyana kwaye ubone ukuba kwenzekani, kwaye uEllie wavuma.

"Ndonwabile ukuba ndingakhange ndisuse isibeleko", - UNele ubonakalisa. - Oku kuthetha ukuba ndingayeka ukuthatha iihormones kwaye umzimba wam uya kuba ngumfazi kwakhona. " Kodwa iminyaka yokuthatha i-testosterone ineziphumo ezinzulu, ezingenakulungiswa. Ilizwi lam alisoze libuye. Bendihlala ndithanda ukucula, kwaye ngoku andinakuyenza, kuba ilizwi lam liye lathandeka kakhulu, lisebenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngoku. Xa ndibiza umntu emnxebeni, bandithatha njengendoda. "

UNele uthi nangona "etshitshisa", akazisoli "ngenguqu" yakhe yasekuqaleni, njengoko yayikukuphela kwendlela yokuzibulala ngelo xesha, kodwa ikwakhokelela ekubeni acinge malunga nezona njongo zibangele inyathelo elinje.

Omabini la mantombazana aqhuba iwebhusayithi namhlanje Iposi-Trans.com, Equkethe amabali abanye abantu basetyhini abenze inyathelo elibulalayo phantsi kwempembelelo ye-propaganda, kodwa bagqiba kwelokuba babuye.

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Irina, oneminyaka engama-31 ubudala. Waphinde wahlinzwa kwakhona, wafumana isatifikethi sokuzalwa esitsha, ipasipoti enegama eliyindoda kunye ne-ID yasemkhosini. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, waqonda ukuba wenze eyona mpazamo inkulu ebomini bakhe kwaye ngoku uzama "ukuba ngumfazi" kwakhona, ubuncinci ngokwamaxwebhu. Ngokwentombazana leyo, umama wakhe wabumba ukungathandi yonke into yobufazi, awayehlala naye kude kube neminyaka eli-19.

"Kule minyaka, kwaqhuma into kum, ndaqala ukukhangela iindlela zokusombulula ingxaki kunye nenkxaso, - utsho u-Irina. Ndiyifumene kwi-Intanethi ukusuka kubaphembeleli bentshukumo yokuhamba. Bacacisile kum ukuba andizithandi ngamabele ngokuchanekileyo kuba ndingowesini esahlukileyo, hayi kuba. ukuba ndikhuliswe gwenxa. "

Amatshantliziyo eTrans amcebisa ukuba athenge iihomoni zesilisa kwi-Intanethi, zama. Emva kwenyanga, ilizwi lentombazana laqala ukuphuka, kwavela amanqaku ebudoda kuyo. Emva kweenyanga ezintandathu ethatha u-Irina, iinwele zobuso zaqala ukukhula, umzimba wakhe watshintsha. Kwaye emva konyaka, iapile ka-Adam yakhula. Kule meko, weza kubona ugqirha owamfumanisa ukuba une-transsexualism yenyukliya.

Kuqala, sawatshintsha onke amaxwebhu, - U-Irina uthi, - emva koko wenza utyando. Okokuqala, ukususwa kwebele, emva koko ukususwa kwesibeleko kunye namaqanda. Ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba ngelo xesha akukho namnye kwiingcali owacebisa ukuba ndiphinde ndicinge ngesimo sam emzimbeni wam, ndiyeke ukuthatha iihormoni ndenze unyango lwengqondo.

U-Irina uqinisekisa ukuba, enyanisweni, iihormoni azinakulingwa ngokulula kwaye ziyeke ngaphandle kobuhlungu. Kuqalisa ukuba likhoboka lotywala.

“Emva kweminyaka emithathu ndenziwe utyando, ndayeka ukuthatha iihomoni. Ukuxhomekeka kwikhemistry kwaye ube yindoda yokwenza izinto akuqhelekanga kwaye akuqhelekanga. Nyanga nganye utshintsho lwakho lokuqonda, uqala nokucinga njengendoda. Ngapha koko, ndaqala ukuba neengxaki zezintso kunye nesibindi, ukudumba ezandleni zam, umzimba wam waqalisa ukutyeba, igazi lam laqina. Xa ubuso bam bujika baba tyheli iiveki ezintathu, yayingumbono ombi. Ndaye ndagqiba - konele! Kwakungasekho malunga nokuzibonakalisa, kodwa malunga nempilo yokuqala kunye nobomi, " - utsho u-Irina.

U-Irina uqinisekisa ukuba akasafuni kutyando: umzimba sele wonakele kakhulu.

“Awuyazi ukuba kwakunzima kangakanani ukuvuma kum ukuba ndenze impazamo ndizama ukuyilungisa. Into ephambili kukuba - Ukoyisa ungquzulwano lwangaphakathi. Ngoku owam umsebenzi wokuqala ngu - fumana ipasipoti yomfazi, fumana umsebenzi olungileyo kwaye ulungiselele ubomi bobuqu. Ndihlala ndiwathanda amadoda. Ndizamile namantombazana - ayingowam. Kwaye xa ndandinegama eliyindoda, ndandithandana nomfana othile. Ukuba bekungengenxa yoqhaqho, ngenditshate kudala ndaze ndazala abantwana ”, - Utsho u-Irina.

Namhlanje u-Irina uhlala kwigumbi elinye eMinsk kunye nezilwanyana zakhe kwaye wenza nawuphi na umsebenzi ohlawulelwayo. Uqinisekile: ukuba iziyobisi zehomoni bezingafumaneki kangaka, olo tshintsho ngesele luqalile emzimbeni wakhe, ngewayengazange abe nobuganga bokwenza utyando kwaye ngewayengazange wazifumana zonke iingxaki ekufuneka ejongane nazo ebomini.

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UNatalia Uzhakova naye uyazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuhlala emfazini, "oyindoda" kwaye kwakhona umzimba wabasetyhini. Uyazi nokuba transsexualism iyanyangeka. Namhlanje, ngebali lakhe, uNataliya unceda abanye abantu abadidekileyo ukuba bangaphindi iimpazamo zabo.

"Phantse iminyaka esibhozo ebomini bam ndandinguDima wesini esahlukileyo, - Utsho uNatalia. - Le ngxaki yaqala ukuzibonakalisa kum ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu okanye emine ubudala. Abazali bam babefuna inkwenkwe kwaye bade bandifaka kumnqweno wam wokudlala unyana. Xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo, ndaqala ukuyikhanyela into yokuba ndingumfazi. Ndizamile ukucheba. Ndandinokubonakala ngathi ndingumntu obhinqileyo, kodwa ndandineengqondo ezaneleyo zokungaqali ukusebenzisa iihomoni. Waxelela abazali bakhe: Andinakuba ngumfazi, okanye nditshintshe utyando, okanye andizukuphila.

Xa wayeneminyaka eli-19 ubudala, uNatalia wafunyaniswa enesini esahlukileyo kwaye wanikwa imvume yokusebenza. Kodwa ngelo xesha i-USSR yawa, kwaye ngokwemithetho emitsha, olo tyando alunakwenziwa kude kube kwiminyaka engama-24. Ngelixa uNatalia wayelinde le minyaka, utshintsho lwenzeka kuye, kwaye wagqiba kwelokuba ahambisane nenyaniso yokuba ungumfazi.

“Namhlanje ndibanceda abantu abanje ukuba bangaphazami - Utsho uNatalia. -Ndithetha nabo ngazo zonke iingxaki ezibalindeleyo endleleni. Kwaye ezi ngxaki azikho kuphela engqondweni. Umzekelo, abantu ababhinqileyo abatshatileyo bahlala rhoqo kwihomoni yamadoda ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka engama-45. Unobangela oqhelekileyo wokufa kukuqhekeka kwegazi. Ndinomhlobo osuka kuFeodosia ngokukhubazeka ngenxa yehomoni. Kwaye akukho mntu uthintela abantu kwezi zigqibo, ayibonisi le mizekelo yoyikekayo, ayicenga bantu ukuba bayeke. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye bahlala njengezinto ezinqwenelekayo, njengabantu abagxothiweyo. Utyando lokunikezelwa kwesini kwakhona ayisiyiyo inketho. Andikaboni namnye umntu o-transsexual owayenotyando ebendonwabile ngalo. Wonke umntu endithethe naye, uthe: "Siyaxolisa."

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UKatie Grace Duncan wakhulela kusapho olungasebenzi kakuhle apho wayengakhange anikwe ngqalelo, apho utata wakhe wayehlukumeza umama wakhe, kwaye umntakwabo omdala wamhlukumeza. Konke oku kwakhokelela kwinkolelo yokuba abantu ababhinqileyo babuthathaka kwaye babuthathaka, ngenxa yoko ngokungazi wabalahla ubufazi bakhe kwaye eneminyaka eli-19 ubudala waphila njengendoda. Wathatha iihomoni zesilisa kwaye wasusa amabele akhe, nangona kunjalo, oku akuzange kumzisele ulonwabo olulindelweyo, kwaye ezantsi kwakhe wayesazi ukuba konke akulunganga. Kwilinge lokucinezela amava amnandi, waba likhoboka lotywala kunye nemifanekiso engamanyala. Kodwa kwiminyaka engama-30, ngoncedo lokholo kunye nenkxaso yabantu ababemngqongile ngokuqonda nokhathalelo, wakwazi ukwahlukana nemikhwa emibi kunye nokuphuma kubukhoboka be-transsexualism, eqala indlela ende kwaye inzima yokudibana nobufazi obalahliweyo.

«Xa ndijonga emva, ndiyabona ukuba bendiphila kubuphi ubuxoki, - uxelela uKatie-abantu bacinga ukuba bazalwe benjalo, ukuba bakumzimba ongalunganga, ukuba ingqondo yabo idityaniswe ngendlela engalunganga, kukho into engalunganga ngamahomoni abo, kodwa konke oku bubuxoki! Sizalwe siqhelekile, yinto nje eyenzekayo kuthi emva koko, into ebuhlungu, ngenxa yoko siqala ukukholelwa kobu buxoki ngathi. Senza inkqubo yokuhluza apho lonke ulwazi ludlula, kwaye naxa ujongene nenyaniso, siyayigqwetha, siyigqithise kwiilensi zobuxoki. Inye indlela yokuphuma kule ngxaki kukujongana neenzingo zakho ezindala, uphinde uziqonde kwaye uqonde okwenzekileyo. "

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Bonke obu bungqina bungasentla buqinisekisa ukuba uWalt Heyer ebezama ukugqithisela eluntwini iminyaka:
Iziphumo zexesha elide lotyando kunyango lwe-transgender azikafundwa. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, asinanjongo kunye nophando olukholisayo. Ndivakalelwa kukuba ukuzisola nokonakalisa kuya kuba ngumda olandelayo wabantu be-transgender, ke zilungiselele.

I-SEGM - Iqela lamazwe ngamazwe ngaphezu kwe-100 yeekliniki kunye nabaphandi, abaxhalabileyo malunga nokungabikho kobungqina obuphezulu bokusetyenziswa kwe-hormonal kunye nokungenelela kokuhlinzwa njengonyango lokuqala kubantu abancinci abane-dysphoria yesini, balwa nemeko yangoku yesayensi. Kutshanje nqaku amalungu eqela aphikisa uninzi lweentsomi zentshukumo ye-LGBT kwinkalo ye-trans ideology.

Uphononongo olucwangcisiweyo lobungqina ngabasemagunyeni kwezempilo yoluntu eFinland, eSweden naseNgilani bagqibe kwelokuba umngcipheko wenzuzo "yokwabiwa kwakhona ngokwesondo" kubantu abancinci ukusuka kokungaziwa ukuya kokungathandekiyo.

Izikhokelo ezitsha zaseSweden kunye nesiNgesi kunyango lwe-dysphoria ngoku ziyichaza ngokucacileyo loo nto ukungenelela kwengqondo kufuneka kube ngumgca wokuqala wonyango (kwaye kungekhona unyango lwe-hormone kunye nokuhlinzwa). Kwakhona, izikhokelo zaseSweden zithi ungenelelo lwehomoni akufuneki lwenziwe kubantu abane Ukuqala kwe-post-pubertal dysphoria yesini (ngoku lo mbandela oyintloko wabathengi bezatifikethi ze "sex change", ininzi yabo ayenzi umsebenzi).

Ngokutsho kwedatha yakutshanje evela e-UK nase-US, i-10-30% yalabo abasandul 'ukuqalisa "inguqu ye-trance" bayeke inkqubo kwiminyaka embalwa yokuyiqala.. Uphononongo lwexesha elide lwabantu abadala abatshintshe isini aluphumelelanga ukubonisa uphuculo oluqinisekisayo kwimpilo yengqondo, kwaye ezinye iiphononongo zibonisa ukuba kukho iingozi ezinxulumene nolo “nyango”..

Umnqweno womntu wokuphelisa amalungu asempilweni aqondwe nguye njengowasemzini waziwa ngokuba xenomelia kwaye ubandakanyiwe "kwisifo esophula ingqibelelo yokuqonda komzimba" (IBIID) yamkelwe njengengxaki yengqondo. Kodwa xa umntu efuna ukunqumla hayi isandla sakhe, kodwa incanca yakhe okanye incanca, siyaxelelwa ukuba ayisiyiyo ingxaki, kodwa kukuzibonakalisa ekufuneka kuxhaswe kwaye kukhuselwe ...

Yayingu ibonakalisiwephambi kokuba kuqale i-dysphoria yesini, i-62% yabakwishumi elivisayo ekwenziwe uphando ngayo babenokufunyaniswa isifo esinye okanye nangakumbi sesifo sengqondo okanye isifo se-neurodevelopmental disorder. Kwi-48% yamatyala, umntwana wehlelwe sisiganeko esibuhlungu okanye soxinzelelo, kubandakanya ukuxhaphaza, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, okanye uqhawulo mtshato lwabazali. Oku kubonisa ukuba umnqweno wokunikezela ngesondo ngokuvakaliswa lolu lutsha kunokuba sisicwangciso esiliqili sokulwa. Kwaye nangona uninzi lwabo bathe benziwa utyando lokwabelwa isini kwakhona bathi "bonwabile" ngoqhaqho, ulungelelwaniso lwengqondo kunye nolwazelelo lwengqondo aluzange lubengcono kunabo bangakhange benze utyando: ngaphezulu kwe-40% yabo bazama ukuzibulala.

Amatshantliziyo eTrans aqhekeza iziphumo zophandobonisa ukuba ukuya kuthi ga kwi-98% yamakhwenkwe kunye ne-88% yamantombazana anokuchaphazeleka kwesini ekugqibeleni bafumane ukwabelana ngesondo ngokwendalo ekupheleni kobuntwana (ukuba umbono wabo ophosakeleyo awukhuthazwa). 

Kunzima ukuthelekelela umzekelo ocacileyo woloyiso lweengcamango zobuqhetseba ezingaphaya kwengqondo. Ingqondo yengqondo enkulu ngaphambili, njengomdaniso weSt. Vitus, ukubanjwa kwezilwanyana, okanye uloyiko lobugqwirha, zazisenziwa zalapha kwaye zenziwa kancinci; I-transgender psychosis iyaqhubeka kwaye isasazeka kwihlabathi liphela. Sinethemba nje lokuba ekugqibeleni kuya kubakho ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo, kwaye izizukulwana ezizayo ziya kuyiphazamisa iminwe yazo zibambekile, zifunde kwiincwadi zembali ukuba kwenzeka ntoni namhlanje.

"Ukulungiselela isibonelelo sonke, ndinyanzelisa ukuba utyando olo olungenakuphinda lutshintshe - Utsho ugqirha weengqondo uBob Whiters owayesebenza nabantwana. Kufuneka siqale ukusebenza nesigulana ukuze Guqula umbono ngokuhambelana neempawu zomzimba, kwaye ungatshintshi umzimba ngokuhambelana neempawu zokuqonda. Okwangoku, ngaphakathi kwenkqubo yenkqubo yokhathalelo lwempilo yanamhlanje, iingcali zityhalela amakhulu, ukuba ayingangamawaka ulutsha, ukuba asebenze “ngokutshintsha ngokwesondo”. Kwiminyaka ye-20, siya kujonga emva kwaye siqonde ukuba obu bungqola buyeyona nto intle kakhulu kwimbali yezonyango. ”

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Ngokusekelwe kwizixhobo Maxesha, BBC, isibhakabhaka, Dailymail, Ijenali

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