Isichazi. Uqwalaselo lwezonyango lunikezelwa apho sithetha ngalo “isini” endodeni, kwaye ikwachaza unyango loguqulo awalufumanayo esebenzisa inkqubo yehypnosuggestive, eyathi yasebenza kakhulu.

Okwangoku, kwenziwa iinzame ezingazange zibonwe ngaphambili zokuthintela ukusetyenziswa kotshintsho (unyango), olujolise ekutshintsheni inkanuko yesini kunye nesini. Uyabekwa ibala kwaye akabhengezwanga njengongenamsebenzi, kodwa eyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni womntu. Ke, nge-7 kaDisemba ngo-2016 ipalamente yaseMalta ngamxhelomnye bapasisa umthetho othintela ukusetyenziswa kwonyango oluphindaphindayo. Ngokutshintsha, ukucinezela kunye nokutshabalalisa inkcubeko yomntu okanye isini sakhe, "lo mthetho ubonelela ngesigwebo okanye isigwebo sasentolongweni. [7] IBundesrat (emele ilizwe laseJamani) nge-5 kaJuni 2020 yamkele umthetho othintela olu nyango. Deutsche Welle iingxelo zokuba ukuphunyezwa kwayo kungohlwaywa ngokuvalelwa iminyaka elishumi, kunye nentengiso kunye nokulamla - isohlwayo esifikelela kwi-30 lamawaka eeros [1]. E-US, kuphela li-18, i-Puerto Rico kunye ne-Washington DC, ezithintele unyango lokuguqula abantwana.Abantu abadala banokuvolontiya kunyango lokuguqula kwilizwe lonke [9]... I-Instagram kunye noFacebook babhengeze ukuvalwa kwazo zonke izithuba kwezi nethiwekhi zentlalo ezikhuthaza unyango lokuguqula [8].

Iingxelo zokuba unyango lotshintsho alusebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa kuzo zonke iimeko lubangela ingozi enkulu emzimbeni bubuxoki. Ingxoxo ehambelana noko inokufumaneka kumanqaku ethu [3; 4; 6]. Ngaphaya koko, uninzi lwemisebenzi yethu lubonise ukusetyenziswa okusebenzayo konyango lokuguqula [2; Xnumx].

Nali ityala elivela kwinkqubo yethu yeklinikhi, apho unyango lwenguquko lube yimpumelelo enkulu ekulungiseni ulwalathiso lomnqweno wesini kwindoda ekhetha abantu abathandanayo.

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Isigulana K., esineminyaka engama-37, sitshatile iminyaka eli-12, ngaphambi kokuba "semtshatweni waseburhulumenteni" kunye nenkosikazi yakhe yexesha elizayo iminyaka esi-7, unonyana oneminyaka emi-6 ubudala, ufumene imfundo yobugcisa ephezulu, usebenza njengotywala kwindawo yokutyela. Umfazi uneminyaka engama-39, unemfundo ephakamileyo kwezoqoqosho, usebenza nomyeni wakhe. Bahlala kwigumbi elinamagumbi ama-3 eyintsapho yakhe, kodwa kungekudala le ndlu iza kubhaliswa kwakhona kwisigulana kunye neqabane lakhe. Ndenze isicelo seengcebiso nge-14.10.2019/XNUMX/XNUMX.

Iimpawu zesondo kunye ne-anamnesis. Uxela ukuba unomnqweno wesini ngokunxulumene namadoda kwaye ngokunxulumene nabasetyhini kumyinge we-1,5 ukuya kwi-1,0 kubukhali bayo.

Isizathu sokucela uncedo kukuba xa umfazi wakhe edibana neprofayili yakhe kwi-Intanethi, wathi abasayi kuphinda baphile ngoluhlobo, kwaye kufuneka azibonakalise ("uyakuba namakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana"). Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba kunye namakhwenkwe, uyavuma ukulondolozela wonke umntu ukubonakala kobukho bosapho, kodwa kwangaxeshanye baya kuba nolwalamano oluvulekileyo, oko kukuthi, uya kuba nelungelo lokulala ngesondo namanye amadoda.

Isigulana sikholelwa ukuba isini esithandwayo yinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa siyavuma ukwenza ulungiso olujolise ekupheliseni ubufanasini be-libido, njengoko esoyika ukuba iziphumo zokuqhubeka kokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesini kunokubangela ubunzima ekunxibelelaneni nomntwana ngenxa yokonakala kosapho, kuba "umtshato wasimahla" malunga nokuba umfazi uthetha ngantoni, akavumi. Akanakuvuma ukuba umfazi wakhe abelane ngesondo namanye amadoda.

Ngokomguli, phakathi kwabantu Iipesenti ezingama-99 zesini... (Kule meko, ndimnike idatha yokwenyani malunga nokuhamba rhoqo kwabantu abathandanayo.) Xa umfazi wam wafumanisa malunga nobufanasini, wothuka kakhulu kangangokuba wagqiba kwelokuba, ngoncedo lweepilisi ezazicetyiswe ngugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini, ukuba akuphelise ukukhulelwa, ababecwangcisa ixesha elide. Wenze oku kuba engaboni themba lokuqhubeka nobudlelwane nomyeni wakhe.

Iplato (yothando) libido uvuke eneminyaka emi-5-6 ubudala. Xa ndandifunda kwisikolo sabantwana abancinane, ndandiyithanda le ntombazana ndandincokola nayo kakhulu.

I-libido engamanyala... Ubudala bokuvuka kwakhe abunakumiselwa.

Kwiminyaka ye-12-13 kwimagazini yamanyala ndabona ifoto yendoda nomfazi belele ze. Emva koko wagxila kwilungu lobudoda. Kwakukho uvuyo, uhlobo oluthile lokuvuya kwangaphakathi, kwavela ukulungiswa, "kwaye andingazi ukuba ndenze ntoni ngayo." Kwakungekho ukuqonda ngokwesondo ngoko. Ukususela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili, uluvo lwaqala ukwenza ukuba "ndiyabathanda namadoda," nangona ngelo xesha ndandithanda amantombazana. “Kwakukho uhlobo lokudideka. Emva koko andizange ndicinge ukuba ndingathanda abafana, kwaye ndizimisele ukuba ndiyawathanda amantombazana. "

I-libido yesondo uvele eneminyaka eli-17 ubudala kubantu besini esahlukileyo, kwaye wazibeka kwisini esahlukileyo.

Ukuphulula amalungu esini ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-14-15 ubudala, "inqindi", kodwa ngaphandle kokugquma intloko. Ikhatshwa yiminqweno yesini. Kule mibono, bekukho imiboniso yokulala kwakhe namadoda. Kwakungekho mfanekiso ubonakalayo wabasetyhini entlokweni yam ngelo xesha. Izenzo zokuqala zokuphulula amalungu esini zenziwa ngelixa bejonga lo magazini ukhankanywe apha ngasentla, apho wazichaza khona nomntu obhinqileyo kwisini esithandanayo. I-ejaculation yokuqala yenzeka ngexesha lokuqala kokuphulula amalungu esini. Ndingalinda iifilimu ezenza inkanuko (ngokwesini ngokwesiko) ukuba iboniswe kwiTV, emva koko ndenze i-masturbated, ndigxile kwinkqubo. Kwangelo xesha, akazange ahoye ukuba utsaleleke kubani, emadodeni okanye kubafazi ("andazi, andazi tu"). Ngexesha lokuqala, waphulula amalungu esini yonke imihla. Nangona ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-18 wayabelana ngesondo nabasetyhini, kodwa bekukho iingcinga zokusondelelana namadoda. Ndingade ndiphulula amaphambili "kwesi sihloko." Ngapha koko, uxela ukuba ukusukela kwiminyaka eli-18 ukuya kwengama-25 ubudala kwabakho ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokwesini, kodwa kubomi bokwenyani kwakukho isenzo sobufanasini. Ngoku uphulula amalungu esini mihla le, kuba kwezi veki zimbini zidlulileyo khange abelane ngesondo nokuba ngumfazi wakhe okanye namadoda. Ukuphulula amaphambili kwi-porn kunye ne-trio. Eyona nto inomdla malunga ne-trio kukuba umfazi uyonwaba. “Ndijolise ekwenzeni umfazi ukuba aneliseke kangangoko. Kule miboniso ndizichaza endodeni [okt. Ndivakalelwa ngathi ndithandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo), kwaye andifuni ukuba nandoda. "

Ukusuka kwibanga lesi-6 ukuya kwelesi-8, wayengumhlobo nenkwenkwe evela esikolweni, emva koko yaya kugqiba izifundo zayo kwisikolo esiphakamileyo kwesinye isikolo. Ke "wayelusizi, kukho nesithuko," kuba le nkwenkwe ayizange imxelele nokuba izakusishiya isikolo. Oku kwakumkhathaza kakhulu umguli kuba wayenomdla kule nkwenkwe. Uxela ukuba xa le nkwenkwe "yamoyisayo" ngexesha lomzabalazo, waziva enoluhlobo lokukhanya okuvuselelayo. Ngalo lonke ixesha lesikolo, ubukhulu becala bekukho inkampani yamantombazana. Ikakhulu idlalwe imidlalo ye-unisex. Xa ndandineminyaka eli-10 ubudala, ndapeyinta imilebe yam ngomlomo ngokufuthi. Kwangelo xesha linye, watshintsha kaninzi wanxiba umama. Unina akazange amfumane enjalo.

Umama wayefuna ukuba (umntwana wakhe wesithathu) abeyintombazana, kuba unabantakwabo ababini komnye utata omdala kunaye (umahluko yiminyaka eli-9 neli-11). Okwangoku, xa esiza kuye, umbiza "sithandwa sam", kwaye kule nkalo, "uyangqengqa". Ndihlala ndiziva ngathi ndingumfazi. Kubonakala kuye ngathi oku kubonakalisiwe kwindlela aziphethe ngayo, awayefuna ukuyichasa. Isigulana sandibuza ukuba ngaba umnqweno kanina, xa wayekhulelwe naye, wokuba nomntwana oyintombazana ungabonakala kwasekuqaleni kwemeko yakhe.

Ixesha elide (ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-7 ukuya kwengama-8 ubudala ukuya kuma-30), kwabakho ukubonakaliswa kwesifo "sendoda encinci". Iqale emva kokuba amakhwenkwe akwinkampu yoovulindlela emxelele ukuba unepenisi encinci. Emva kweminyaka engama-30, waqala ukukholelwa ukuba ubudoda bakhe bunobungakanani obuqhelekileyo (kwimeko emileyo, ubude bayo buyi-16-17 cm). Uyise wamhlazisa, kuba wayebuthathaka emzimbeni. Uziphathe kakubi kumama wesigulana, wasithuka ngezithuko wasibetha. Ke ngoko, isigulana siphuhlise isimo sengqondo (inkolelo) yokuba abafazi mabaphathwe ngobunono, kwaye oku ke kuchaphazele ubudlelwane kunye nenkosikazi yakhe kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesondo kuye. Emva kwethutyana, umama wakhe wakhalaza kubakhuluwa bakhe ukuba utata wakhe, owayelinxila, angambulala. Emva koko bafuna ukuba ashiye ikhaya, nto leyo eyenzekayo. Uye (utata wakhe) waya kuhlala nomama wakhe kwaye wahlala khona de kwaba sekupheleni kweentsuku zakhe.

Isigulana siqale ukuthandana namantombazana eneminyaka eyi-18 xa wangena eyunivesithi. Emva koko “kwaqala ubomi bokwabelana ngesondo kakhulu nabafazi. Wagxotha kude kuye ingcinga yokuba abantu banokumthanda. Nangona kunjalo, ubudlelwane bobungqingili babukhokelwa ngabufanasini. Ke, xa ndandineminyaka eyi-17, babini ababenxibelelana bobabini ngomlomo kunye nomntu oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala otshatileyo owayenabantwana ababini. Umqalisi woonxibelelwano ngokwesondo yayile ndoda, kodwa "akunyanzelekanga ukuba acenge isigulana sethu ixesha elide." Emva koko waye "soseji kakhulu", kwaye kwakungekho mntu wabelana naye. “Bendicinga ukuba ayilunganga, kodwa bendifuna. Kwaye ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-18 wayenomdla kuphela kwabasetyhini, kwaye ukuba wayenike ingqalelo emadodeni, wayewacinezela. Ngelixa wayefunda eyunivesithi, waqala wahlala nentombazana enye isithuba esingangonyaka, emva koko wadibana ngesondo kunye namanye amantombazana. Kwiminyaka eyi-18 (ngo-2000) wadibana nenkosikazi yakhe, kwaye ukusukela ngelo xesha babesabelana ngesondo naye. Batshata ngo-2007.

Ngo-2008, isiguli sasinokufikelela okulula kwi-Intanethi. Emva koko ndathenga ikhompyuter emsebenzini, ndaya kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Bendihlala ndibukela iphonografi. Waqala ukuqhelana nokunxibelelana namadoda kwi-Intanethi (imbalelwano yesini). Ndadibana nendoda eneminyaka engama-35 ubudala. Abafowunelwa ngokwesondo kunye naye babephindaphinda ixesha eli-1 ngeveki-ixesha eli-1 ngeveki ezimbini. Badibana iinyanga ezimbalwa, babelana ngesondo ngomlomo nangasemva. Kule meko, isigulana senze umsebenzi okwenziweyo, owawuthandayo. Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo, wanika iqabane lakhe i-blowjob, ngelixa yena ephulula amalungu esini. Ndithandane nale ndoda ubuninzi be-2 yeminyaka. Ngenxa yokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini, isigulana saba neengxaki nge-anus (i-fistula eyakhiwe apho, inkqubo yokuvuvukala yaqala) kwaye yafuna uqhaqho, olwathi lwenziwa. Esi siganeko yayisisizathu sokuba angadibani namadoda ade abeneminyaka engama-0,5. Umfazi wam kwaye sasabelana ngesondo ngalo lonke elixesha. Ubuninzi bokwabelana ngesondo yayili-32-1 amaxesha ngeveki. Uyaphawula ukuba ngenxa yemfutshane, ngokoluvo lwakhe, ixesha lokwabelana ngesondo, umfazi wayengenayo i-orgasm. Uthi akanawo amanye amadoda.

Kwiminyaka engama-32 ukuya kwengama-33, waphinda waqala ubudlelwane kunye namadoda, kodwa ngeli xesha babebonakala kuphela: "waziphosa" kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo (ukuthandana, unxibelelwano nayo yonke into eyenzekileyo kwindawo ebonakalayo: wayehambelana namadoda kwaye ephulula amalungu esini kwangaxeshanye).

Kwakukho amaqabane angama-15 abelana ngesondo, kunye neminyaka eyi-2-3 eyadlulayo, ndaqala, ukudibana namadoda ebomini bokwenyani. Ubudlelwane bezesondo babenamadoda ama-5. Omnye wabo, oneminyaka engama-39 ukuya kwengama-40 ubudala, wayengoyena uphambili awayegcina ubudlelwane rhoqo naye. Isigulana ubukhulu becala senza indima yokungenzi nto, sinika iqabane lakhe iqhushululu, owaphinda waliphindaphinda kabini, echaza ukuba "unobomi obusebenzayo." Ndadibana naye kule minyaka mibini idlulileyo kwaye ndandithandana naye. Amanye amaqabane avela xa iqabane eliphambili laya kwesinye isixeko kangangeenyanga ezi-2-2. Uye wabanika ne-blowjob, abathi ngamanye amaxesha baphendule ngohlobo. Emva kotyando kwindawo ye-anorectal eneminyaka engama-3, akazange avume ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini.

Xa umfazi wakhe wachazayo isigulana, wacela iqabane lakhe eliphambili ukuba limncede aziqonde, kodwa le ndoda yathi yayixakeke kakhulu, yayinomsebenzi omninzi, kwaye kwakungekho xesha lale nto.

Okwangoku (ngaphambi kokuba umfazi wakhe afumanise malunga nobudlelwane bakhe bobufanasini), ukunxibelelana ngokwesondo kunye nenkosikazi yakhe kumyinge we-1 ngeveki. Oku kwenzeka kakhulu kunqabile emadodeni. Ebonakalisa ixesha lokwabelana ngesondo kwakhe, uyaqaphela ukuba incinci kwaye yongeze imizuzu emi-5 (malunga ne-40-50 frictions). Ngenjongo yokwandisa ixesha elide, usebenzisa ukucotha kokungqubana kunye nokumisa kwabo, ukuphazamisa (ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ucinga ngebhola ekhatywayo okanye enye into), utshintsho kwindlela yokuma. Ndimxelele ukuba ngeli xesha lokwabelana ngesondo kuthathwa njengesiqhelo, okuhlala ngaphezulu komzuzu. Kucacile ukuba ukungqubana okungama-40-50 akuyi kuthatha imizuzu emi-5 ngexesha. Oku kunokwenzeka kuphela xa becotha kakhulu.

Uziphatha "ngokuthambileyo" kunye nenkosikazi yakhe, ekwayasebenza nakwindlela yakhe yokuziphatha xa usabelana ngesondo naye. Inkosikazi, kwelinye icala, inesimo esibi koku kwaye ifuna ukuba ibenzima. Xa, ngexesha lonyango, wafunda kum ukuba abantu basetyhini bahlala becinga ngobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo ngokuchasene nabo, waqala ngokuziphatha nzima nangaphandle, kunye nenkosikazi yakhe. Akazange akhohlise umfazi wakhe kunye nelinye ibhinqa ekunxibelelaneni. Kwakanye kuphela apho wayethathe inxaxheba kwi-trio nenye indoda engamadoda nabafazi, apho watsalwa yile ndoda wayelala nayo.

Elona zinga liphezulu le-kurtosis ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo yayingamanqaku ama-5-6 (Oko kukuthi, wayekhe wenza izenzo zesondo ezi-5-6 ngemini, ezaphela nge-ejaculation).

Ngexesha lokuhambisa kwakhe, icandelo lokuyekisa lalisetyenziswa. Wazalwa esempilweni kwaye wakhula ngesiqhelo. Esikolweni wafunda ngamanqaku ama-4 (kwinkqubo yamanqaku ama-5), wayebuthathaka emzimbeni. Kwakhona ndafunda kwiziko ngamanqaku ama-4. Emva kweminyaka engama-30, waqala ukusebenza ejimini. “Ndifunda apho kathathu ngeveki. Ndaya khona kuba ndiqale ukuphola. "

Anditshayi. Ukusela utywala izihlandlo ezininzi ngeveki (ibhiya, iwhisky, ivodka). Ukusela iwhiskey okanye ivodka amaxesha ama-2 ngeveki ukusuka kwi-150 ukuya kwi-200 yeegram. Ukuba iiholide zithanjisiwe, oko kuyenzeka rhoqo. Uzama ukungaseli bhiya, kodwa ekubeni esebenza njengomenzi wotywala, uyanyanzeleka ukuba enze oku (kanye ngeveki - iiglasi ezi-1-3, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ziilitha eziyi-4-1). Kwiminyaka yakhe umfundi wasebenzisa intsangu, kwaye kwiminyaka yakhe post-umfundi - amphetamines kunye ecstasy (oku izihlandlo eziliqela, wazama yaye wayeka). Ukusuka kwentsangu, ngokoluvo lwakhe, wavelisa umlutha, ukuze "iminyaka emi-1,5-2 isuswe kwimemori yam." Xa ebuzwa ukuba yintoni intsangu ayinike, uphendule wathi ukuphumla ngokwasemzimbeni kuvela kuyo, ndifuna ukuhleka, "sondela," emva koko kwabakho isithuba esasifuna ukugcwaliswa. Xa ebuzwa ukuba wakwazi njani ukwahlukana nalo mkhwa, wathi xa egqiba ikholeji kwaye wayeka ukuhlala kwindawo yokulala, akazange akhangele iindlela zokufumana intsangu (okt, mhlawumbi kwakungekho mkhuba).

Akukho zifo zinganyangekiyo. Akukho zikhalazo zomchamo. 

Ngokuchanekileyo: ubude - 179 cm, ubunzima bomzimba - 78 kg. I-Normostenic. Uhlobo lomzimba wobudoda. Kukho uboya obuncinci ezingalweni nasemilenzeni. Akukho nwele esiswini, esifubeni okanye entanyeni. Shaves kunqabile kakhulu: 1 - ubuninzi amaxesha ama-2 ngeveki, kunye neenwele ezincinci zobuso ziyakhula. Isigulana sithi ngenxa yoko sinesakhiwo esincinci. Indawo yokucheba ichetyiwe, kodwa iyaphawula ukuba "inendlela" yeenwele eziya kwinkaba. Intloko yelungu lobudoda ivezwa ngokulula. Ilungu lobudoda nelamatyhalarha anobukhulu obuqhelekileyo, izihlomelo zona azibangeli zintlungu, azifakwanga. IScrotum folds kunye ne-pigmentation zincinci. Amatyhalarha afakwa ngokulula kwisisu.

isiphelo: ulwalamano.

Yabelwe (kucetyisiwe): iimpembelelo zokuqonda, unyango lwe-hypnosuggestational kunye nokubandakanywa kongenelelo lokuziphatha.

16.10.2019/1/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa, ebandakanya izinto ezi-3 zokwakha:

1. Inkululeko kumtsalane wobufanasini. Ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo zenziwe: «Omnye... Umzimba wakho waqala ukuzikhulula kumtsalane wobufanasini ... Ezimbini ... Inkqubo yenkululeko kumtsalane wobufanasini iya isiba ngakumbi nangakumbi kwaye iqhubeka ngakumbi nangakumbi ... Ezintathu ... Ngakumbi nangakumbi ususa umtsalane kubufanasini ... Kane ... Umgcini wengqondo wangaphakathi ungena kwezona ndawo zifihlakeleyo zengqondo yakho, yakho Ukuqonda kunye nokuqonda, utshayela intsalela yomtsalane wobufanasini ukusuka apho, uyiqokelele ndawonye kwaye, njengodoti, uyilahle ngaphandle komzimba wakho, uyikhulule kule nkqubo yezifo ... Ezintlanu ... Umzimba wakho uzikhulule kumtsalane wesini ukuya emadodeni ukuya kuthi ga ngoku ...
2. Utshintsho kwimbono yamadoda. Iingcebiso zenziwa ukuba ukusukela ngoku isigulana siya kubaqonda kuphela njengabahlobo, izihlobo, amaqabane kunye nabahlobo, kwaye ngoku babengenamdla kuye njengezinto zesondo.
3. Ukonyuka komnqweno wesini kwabasetyhini (ngokubanzi), kunye nenkosikazi (ngakumbi). Isiphakamiso esilandelayo senziwe: yakhe ikwenza ufune ukumanga nokumanga, oku kujike kube ngumnqweno wokuba neentlobano zesini naye ... Ukusukela ngoku ukuya phambili, umfazi wakho kuwe sisikhuthazo sesondo esichaziweyo, isikhuthazo sesondo esichaziweyo. Xa unxibelelana naye, unomnqweno wesini, ohamba kunye nokunyuka kwesondo, okunyanzela ukuba uphathe kwaye uphuze kwaye ulale naye ... ”.

19.10.2019 NgoLwesine (17.10.2019/4/3), kwilinge lomfazi wakhe, ekuseni wayeneendlela zokuziphatha ngokwesondo ezi-4, ezi-70 zazo zaphela nge-ejaculation. Ixesha le-2th ejaculation khange lenzeke, kodwa ulwakhiwo lwalulungile. Ngokuhlwa kolu suku nangentsasa yosuku olulandelayo, ngokuzimisela kwakhe, wenza enye into eyabelana ngesondo, eyaphela nge-ejaculation. Kwikhefu phakathi kwesondo, kwakukho iingcinga zesondo apho wabona khona umfazi wakhe. Amanqaku okuba ukwabelana ngesondo kwakukhatshwa ngumtsalane "wesini". Inzala emadodeni okoko unxibelelwano lwam lokuqala lwehle nge-XNUMX%. Kwiingcebiso zam khange ndibukele iphonografi okanye i-masturbate. Ukholelwa ukuba ukwanda kwe-libido kubangelwa yinto yokuba ethathe itribulus (tribulus terrestris - ii-anchors ezinwabuzelayo) iiveki ezi-XNUMX. Isithako esisebenzayo yi-protodioscin, esetyenziselwa isondlo kwezemidlalo kunye nokunyusa imveliso ye testosterone yendalo emzimbeni. Ngaphandle kokuchaphazela impembelelo yetribulus, nangona kunjalo ndiqwalasele ukuba le hypnosugestion eyenziweyo idlale eyona ndima iphambili ekwandiseni umnqweno wesini sesigulana, kuba ngaphambili ndandifumene amava amaninzi abonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka.

19.10.2019 Iseshoni ye-2 yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa. Ubume bayo kunye nomxholo weengcebiso bezifana nakwiseshoni yokuqala, kodwa kwasekuqaleni, iingcebiso zenziwa zijolise ekulaleni ukulala, okuphazanyiswa ngenxa yamava ahambelana nomsebenzi.

23.10.2019 Wachaza ukuba umfazi wakhe wakuphelisa ukukhulelwa ngoncedo lweepilisi, nangona kamva wayecinga ukuba le nto bekungafanelekanga ukuba yenziwe. Ngo-Okthobha i-20.10.2019, i-21.10.2019 okanye i-XNUMX ka-Okthobha i-XNUMX, bekukho unxibelelwano olunye ngesondo ngomlomo, njengoko umfazi wayephuma egazini ngokunxulumana nokusela ezi pilisi. Ngeli xesha akazange enze i-masturbate kwaye akazange abukele iphonografi. Ukutsala ngokwesondo emadodeni kuyafana nasemva kweseshoni yokuqala yehipnosis.

23.10.2019 Iseshoni ye-3 yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa.  Iingcebiso ezifanayo zenziwe ngexesha leseshoni yesibini, apho ukuthelekiswa kwe-12 kwegama elithi "ubufanasini" namanye amagama ayanyaniswa neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, okanye imihlaba engathandekiyo, okanye iziphumo ezibi zentlalo yobufanasini, okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kongezwa ibonwa kumafanasini. Ezi zimbini ze-12 zamagama (i-12 FPs) zenziwa ngenxa yencoko yokuqala.

27.10.2019 g... Umfazi ngoku ukwesinye isixeko. Kwakungekho neentlobano zesini. Nje ukuba aphulula amalungu esini kwi-porno trio (abathathi-nxaxheba: Amadoda ama-2 kunye nomfazi omnye. Ndazichaza ngenye yamadoda abelana ngesondo nomfazi. Umtsalane wezesondo wawungowasetyhini, kwakungekho mtsalane wobufanasini. Khange ndijolise kumalungu esini endoda. Okwangoku, umtsalane ngokwesini emadodeni "uthambekele ku-zero", okt, ngamagama akhe, awathatheli ingqalelo amadoda njengezinto ezinokubakho ngokwesondo.

Ndixelele isigulana ukuba kufuneka siyeke kancinci kancinci ukunxibelelana nabantu abathandana besisini esinye kunye nabasetyhini. Njengomphumo okhuthazayo, kwabuzwa lo mbuzo ulandelayo: "Ngaba umfazi otshayayo angakuyeka ukutshaya nokukulangazelela ukuba uhlala nendoda eqhubeka nokutshaya?"

Isigulana sathi ngaphambi kokuqala konyango, wakhawuleza wasabela nakweyiphi na iminxeba evela kubantu besini esinye kwaye yena ngokwakhe wazama ukunxibelelana nabo rhoqo kwaye aqalise unxibelelwano ngokwesondo. Ngoku akukho nanye yale nto. Kwaye okokugqibela wala isithembiso sokuba badibane kwisithathu.

27.10.2019 Iseshoni ye-4 yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa. Ubume bayo kunye nomxholo wezindululo zazifana nakwiseshoni yesithathu, kodwa ngaphambi kokubhengeza i-12 PS, uninzi lweziphumo ezibi zobudlelwane bobufanasini kunye nobufanasini kwimpilo yengqondo kunye ne-somatic kwathiwa. Iingcebiso zokulala ngokwesiqhelo azange zenziwe.

9.11.2019 Bendikwiholide nomfazi wam iveki yonke. Kwiveki e-1 emva kweseshini ye-hypnosis, eyayiqhutywa nge-27.10.2019 ka-Okthobha i-4, waqala ukulungisa ezitalatweni emadodeni. Xa ndandihamba ngenqwelo-moya ndisuka e-Italiya, ndandiqwalasele kakhulu amagosa ngaphezu kwabahambi ngenqwelomoya. Ndigqibe kwelokuba akukho sizathu sokuqhubeka nonyango lokuguqula, nangona bendineeseshini ezi-XNUMX zehipnosis. Yaphinda yaqala imbalelwano nendoda eyayingengokwesini. Umfazi wayifumana le imbalelwano, baxabana ngogonyamelo. Emva koko, ngokunyanzelwa kwakhe, wasusa umnxeba wale ndoda kwaye wagqiba ekubeni aqhubeke nonyango, kuba esoyika ukuqhekeka kosapho kunye nelahleko yokunxibelelana nonyana wakhe. Kwangaxeshanye, uphawula ukuba ngoku ubona amadoda kuphela njengabahlobo kunye nabahlobo, hayi njengezinto ezinomtsalane ngokwesondo. Oku kubonisa ukuba kwenzeke utshintsho oluqinisekileyo, ukusukela xa eza kum, wawaqonda ngaloo ndlela. Kumfazi wakhe ngoku, xa ekhululekile kwizigqibo zakhe ngenxa yobudlelwane bakhe bobufanasini, ufumana umtsalane wesini oqinileyo, kuba esoyika ukuphulukana naye.

Ukusukela nge-Okthobha i-27.10.2019, i-4.11.2019 ukuya ngo-Novemba ka-10, i-1, bekukho iindlela zesondo ezikumgangatho ophezulu kunye nomfazi wakhe (i-libido eyomeleleyo, ulwakhiwo olulungileyo, ukungabikho "kokukhawulezisa" njengangaphambili). Ndenza i-masturbated kuphela i-9.11.2019 ixesha namhlanje (XNUMX/XNUMX/XNUMX) phantsi kweengcamango kwisitya. Umlingane wayeyinto yesondo. Yena kunye nenkosikazi yakhe babencokola, kwaye wamxelela, njengangaphambili, ukuba ukuba uyaqhubeka nobudlelwane namadoda, banokuba nobudlelwane bobuhlobo kwaye bagcine umtshato osemthethweni, obonelela ithuba lokuba ngamnye kubo abelane ngesondo namanye amaqabane. Kodwa uthi akakwazi ukuyenza loo nto, akanakukuvuma ukuba umntu uza kulala nomfazi wakhe. Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukugcina ubudlelwane bomtshato, kuba bona, njengesibini esitshatileyo esazi kakhulu malunga nokupheka, babemenyiwe ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwishishini lebhiya kunye. Ukongeza, uphawula ukuba imeko yakhe yangoku yezemali ayimvumeli ukuba ashiye usapho kwaye aqeshe indlu.

9.11.2019 Iseshoni ye-5 yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa. Iingcebiso zenziwa zijolise kwinkululeko yomtsalane kubufanasini; umbono wabesilisa njengabadlali, amaqabane kunye nabahlobo, hayi njengezinto zesondo; ulwazi malunga nefuthe elibi kwimpilo yobufanasini lwenziwa; Iziphumo zalo ezimbi zentlalo zabizwa. I-12PS yabizwa, ukubanakho ukulawula iminqweno yabo yesini kunye nokuqala kwesicaphucaphu xa kuvela iminqweno yesini kunye neengcinga, kunye nokwanda komnqweno wesini kwabasetyhini (ngokubanzi) nakwabafazi babo (ngakumbi).

14.11.2019 Uxela ukuba inkosikazi yakhe ayimniki thuba lokuba abelane ngesondo, kuba "wamenzakalisa", kodwa ebonisa iimpawu zoqwalaselo, uzama ukukholisa, ukumenza azive ekhululekile. Ngeli xesha wenza i-masturbated 2 amaxesha. Nje ukuba ubandakanye iminqweno yesini (yena nomfazi wakhe babelana ngesondo). Ngexesha lesibini wenza i-masturbated kwi-trio engamanyala, apho wayenomdla khona emfazini. Uye wathi waya esiba nzima kubudlelwane bakhe nenkosikazi yakhe. Ukuba ubonakalisa ukungoneliseki kuye, uzama ukuxoxa naye ngento engamfanelanga ngokuziphatha kwakhe, kwaye bafikelela kwisivumelwano.

14.11.2019/6/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa, ekwakhiweni kwayo kunye nomxholo weengcebiso ngokufanayo nowesihlanu.

17.11.2019 Khange ndinxibelelane neqabane lam lokugqibela ngokusisigxina ngefowuni. Ngomhla kaNovemba 15.11.2019, 2, kusasa ndaye ndabelana ngesondo kunye nomfazi wam. Ukwahlukana phakathi kwabo kwakungabalulekanga ("mhlawumbi imizuzu elishumi"). Ixesha lokwabelana ngesondo kokuqala lalimalunga nemizuzu emithathu, kunye neyesibini emihlanu (kunye nenani elaneleyo lemingxunya). Inkosikazi yafumana i-1-2 orgasms ngexesha lezi zenzo zesondo. Nge-16.11.2019 ka-Novemba ngo-17.11.2019, kwabakho nokuzonwabisa, kwaye namhlanje (100/6/XNUMX) bekukho iindlela ezintathu. Ukutsala ngokwesondo kumfazi wakhe ngoku yi-XNUMX%. Ndilahlekelwe ngumdla wam wesini emadodeni. Ngexesha elidlulileyo emva kweseshoni ye-XNUMXth ye-hypnosis, umntu athandana naye wakha waqhagamshelana naye ngeViber wamthumelela ifoto yelungu lakhe lobudoda, kodwa isigulana sethu saphendula ngelithi wayengenamdla, kuba etshintshele kwabasetyhini ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphambili, bekukho kuphela unxibelelwano olubonakalayo kunye nale ndoda. Uphinda athi uye wangqongqo ngakumbi ekuziphatheni kwakhe nomfazi wakhe.

17.11.2019 Iseshoni ye-7 yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa. Ubume bayo kunye nomxholo weengcebiso ngokufanayo nowesithandathu.

19.11.2019 Kwakungekho neentlobano zesini emva kwale seshoni, andizange ndibukele iphonografi, andizange ndizive ndinomdla wokulalana kwabesilisa.

19.11.2019/8/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMXth yenkqubo yehipnosuggestational yabanjwa. Ubume bayo kunye nomxholo weengcebiso bezifana nezi zimbini zangaphambili.

22.11.2019 Ukusukela ngoko, kuye kwakho iindlela ezi-3 zokunxibelelana: i-2 yomlomo kunye ne-anal enye, njengoko umfazi wam wayenethuba. Umtsalane ngokwesini kumfazi wakhe yi-100%, kodwa emadodeni akekho. Khange ugcobe, khange ubukele iphonografi.

Isigulana sathi umfazi wakhe umxelele ukuba ndimenzela i-sex drive yakhe. Ndamphendula ndathi xa abantu beneengxaki ezithile, oogqirha ke bamisela unyango olwenza imeko yabo ibe yeqhelekileyo. Umzekelo, xa umntu enyuka uxinzelelo lwegazi, emva koko unikwa iipilisi zokuzehlisa. Kwimeko yakhe, senza okufanayo.

22.11.2019 Iseshoni ye-9 yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa. Ubume bayo kunye nomxholo weziphakamiso bezifana nakwiiseshoni zangaphambili.

25.11.2019 Ukusukela ngoko, khange kubekho manyano ngokwesondo ngenxa yezizathu ezizizo. Khange ugcobe, khange ubukele iphonografi. Ndaya kwesinye isixeko, apho ndadibana nendoda etshatileyo awayekhe walala nayo. Xa ndinxibelelana naye, andizange ndive nditsaleleke kuye.

25.11.2019/10/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMXth yonyango lokulalisa ngomzimba lwenziwa, Ubume kunye nomxholo weengcebiso bezifana nezangaphambili.

4.12.2019 Kwiintsuku ezintathu ezidlulileyo ndaqala ukunikela ingqalelo kubafana, kodwa kwakungekho nxibelelwano kunye nokunxibelelana ngokwesondo namadoda. Andizange ndibukele i-porn, andizange ndihlaziye i-masturbate, ndazama ukuhlala ndilala nomfazi wam. Ngale ntsasa bekukho ukuhlangana oku-3 kunye nenkosikazi yam, kwaye phezolo- 2. Ngaphambi koko bekukho iintsuku ezi-4 zekhefu, kwaye ngaphambi koko, emva kwentlanganiso edlulileyo kunye nam, 1-2 ukuhlangana ngemini. Umtsalane ngokwesondo kumfazi wakhe namhlanje yi-100% ibonakalisiwe. Amadoda athandwa ngaphandle kuphela, kodwa xa ezama ukucinga ukuba uyabanga aze abange, kwaye abe neentlobano zesini kunye nabo, uthi ukungabikho kweminqweno enjalo. Ngaphambi kokuba ndiqalise unyango, ndandineminqweno engamandla yobufanasini kunye nomtsalane wobufanasini.

4.12.2019/11/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa, ngokomba nolwakhiwo lweengcebiso, zazifana nezangaphambili. Ukongeza, njengesixhobo, isindululo sasisetyenziselwa ukuba akwazi ukulawula iminqweno yakhe yesini kwaye anike ithuba lokufezekiswa kuphela kwabo baqhelekileyo.

7.12.2019 Ukusukela ngoko, bekukho iindlela zokulala ezi-4 kunye nomfazi wakhe. Umtsalane ngokwesondo kuye yi-100%. Ubuso bendoda abunankathalo kuye, ngoku akabakhathaleli.

7.12.2019/12/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa, yona, ngokokwakheka kunye nomxholo weziphakamiso, yayifana neye-11.

13.12.2019 Ngeli xesha, ndichithe i-5-6 yesondo kunye nomfazi wam. Umtsalane ngokwesondo kuye yi-100%. Khange ugcobe, khange ubukele iphonografi. Amaxesha ambalwa ndiye ndatsalela ingqalelo kumadoda aneendevu ("Ndiyathanda amadoda aneendevu"). Ubona kolu hlobo oluthile lomdla wesondo, kodwa kwakungekho mnqweno wokubazi. Iingcinga zesini sobufanasini nazo zazingekho. Indoda ahlala edibana nayo ngaphambi kokuqala unyango ayiyibizi okanye ayimbhaleli.

13.12.2019/13/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa, ekwakhiweni kwayo kunye nomxholo weengcebiso ngokufanayo nowe-12.

19.12.2019 Ngeli xesha, zazingama-5 iindlela zokulalana nomfazi wakhe-i-2 yomlomo (umfazi wayesexesheni) kunye nelungu lesithathu lobufazi. Khange ugcobe, khange ubukele iphonografi. Kwakungekho mtsalane wesini emadodeni. Sixoxe ngokuba kutheni ethanda amadoda aneendevu. Sikunye nesigulana, safika kwisigqibo sokuba le meko ibangelwe koku kulandelayo. Iinwele zakhe zikhula kakubi ebusweni, kwaye akanakuzikhulisela iindevu ezinjalo, kwaye ukuba akazichebi, kuya kubakho "ububi." Yamkela umona kule meko. Kwakungekho nxibelelana namadoda anemibala yesini. Ngeli xesha, enye indoda eyindoda elingqingili yayibhalela iViber kwaye yathembisa ukudibana ngesondo, kodwa isiguli saphendula sathi asifuni, kwaye asinamdla.

19.12.2019/14/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa... Ngexesha leseshoni, iingcebiso zenziwa zijolise:

1) inkululeko yomzimba kumtsalane wobufanasini;

2) imbono yamadoda kuphela njengabahlobo, amaqabane, izihlobo, ukungakhathali kubo njengezinto ezinokwenzeka ngokwesondo;

3) ukubanakho ukulawula iminqweno yabo yesini kunye nokubonelela ngethuba lokufezekiswa kuphela kwabo baqhelekileyo;

I-4) igxininisa kwiziphumo ezibi zentlalo, ezengqondo kunye ne-somatic yezithandani kunye nobufanasini;

5) ukwanda komnqweno wesini kwabasetyhini (ngokubanzi) nakwinkosikazi yakhe (ngakumbi).

Kwakhona ngexesha leseshoni, amagama amabini ali-12 abizwa, elinye lawo kuwo onke amagama yayiligama elithi "ubufanasini", kwaye elesibini yayilelinye lamagama ayedityaniswa nokuba neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, okanye imihlaba engathandekiyo, okanye namava amabi, okanye nabantu ababi okanye iziphumo zengqondo yobufanasini kunye nobudlelwane bobufanasini.

25.12.2019 Ngexesha elidlulileyo, bekukho iindlela ezine zesondo. Umtsalane kumfazi - 100%. Kwakungekho nomtsalane kubufanasini. Khange ugcobe, khange ubukele iphonografi. Isigulana sithe safumana umnxeba ovela kwiqabane lakhe langaphambili, owathi wayeye e-United Arab Emirates, apho walala khona namakhwenkwe amahle. Nangona engakhange enze izithembiso ngokuthe ngqo zokulala ngesondo, ndaye ndatshela isigulana ukuba simtsalela umnxeba amaxesha ngamaxesha kuba efuna ukumcaphukisa ngamabali akhe obudlelwane bobufanasini ukuze abahlaziye phakathi kwabo. Ke ngoko, ndacebisa ukuba isiguli siyeke naluphi na unxibelelwano nale ndoda. Ngeli xesha isigulana samxelela indlela awayemkhulu ngayo malunga nokulala nomfazi wakhe. Ukundixelela ngezinto ezizodwa zobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nenkosikazi yakhe, wathi xa emnika i-blowjob, kwangaxeshanye ufaka i-phallus yokufakelwa kwilungu lobufazi kwaye iyabakhuthaza. Umfazi woyika ukuba oku kungamtyhalela kubudlelwane bobufanasini. Ndithe hayi. Ngokuphathelene noku, ndimbuzile ukuba uyalibona na eli lungu lokuzenzela njengomntu okhuphisana nalo, ngaba oku kuyasithoba isidima sakhe kwaye kuyabenza babe ngongendawo. Isigulana siphendule hayi.

25.12.2019/15/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa... Ngokolwakhiwo kunye nomxholo weengcebiso, ibifana naleya yangaphambili.

2.01.2020 Kwixesha elidlulileyo lexesha, bekukho izenzo zesini ezihlanu nomfazi wam, ezintathu kuzo beziyizolo. Akazange aphulule amalungu esini, akazange abukele i-porn. Ndandingatsalelekanga kumadoda. Nge-25.12.2019 kaDisemba, XNUMX, emva kweseshoni ye-hypnosis, wanxibelelana ne-Viber indoda eyayiliqabane lakhe eliqhelekileyo lezesondo ngaphambi kokuba aqale unyango, kwaye wathi ugqirha wayemnika unyango, kodwa wasiphendula isigulana ukuba uyathanda ukuba " gay.” Wabuza umguli ukuba unyango luyamnceda na waza wafumana impendulo eyakhayo. Emva koko le ndoda yabhala: “Ke, tyeka.” Isigulana emva koko savala inombolo ebesifowunela kuyo, kodwa sathi le ndoda inenye inombolo yomnxeba apho inokunxibelelana nayo.

2.01.2020/16/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa, ngokomba nolwakhiwo lweengcebiso, yayifana naleyo yangaphambili.

8.01.2020 Ngeli xesha, bekukho izenzo zesondo ezi-5 kunye nenkosikazi yakhe. Khange ugcobe, khange ubukele iphonografi. Kwakungekho mtsalane wesini kubantu besini esifanayo. Andizange ndinxibelelane naye nawuphi na umntu ongesini esinye, kwaye kwakungekho nzame zonxibelelana naye zisuka kwicala labo. Uthi angathanda ukuba neentlobano zesini ngakumbi, kodwa umfazi "uyabanda".

8.01.2020/17/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa, ngokweskripthi esasifana nesangaphambili.

20.01.2020 Ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezili-12 ezidlulileyo, bekukho izenzo zesondo ezi-5 nomfazi wam. Kwezi ntsuku zili-12, i-4-5 yawa kumakhosikazi ngenyanga. Nje ukuba uphulula amaphambili kwiminqweno yesondo kunye nehenyukazi eliyintsomi. Khange ndijonge iphonografi. Kwakungekho zinkanuko zobufanasini, umtsalane kubantu besini esifanayo, unxibelelwano kunye namadoda athandana namanye.

20.01.2020/18/XNUMX Iseshoni ye-XNUMX yonyango lokunyanga lwenziwa... Iziphakamiso ezifanayo zenziwa kwiseshoni yangaphambili.

8.02.2020 Sancokola nesigulana emnxebeni, kwaye waxela ngokuzingisa kweziphumo ezifunyenweyo.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuba ekuqaleni unyango isigulane sikholelwa ukuba i-bi- kunye nobufanasini yayiyinto eqhelekileyo, ngoko ngexesha lonyango wayitshintsha kakhulu imbono yakhe. Ukwatshilo ukuba ngelixa wayechonga ngaphambili "njengesini esinye," ngoku uchonga ngokupheleleyo njengesini esahlukileyo.

Ukushwankathela eli tyala leklinikhi, kufuneka kuqatshelwe oku kulandelayo. Isigulana sazalelwa kusapho apho umama wakhe wayefuna ukuba intombi yakhe izalwe, kodwa ngelishwa, oku akwenzekanga. Emva kokuzalwa kwakhe, wamphatha njengesidalwa esineempawu zobufazi awayezinqwenela. Uyise wamhlazisa kuba wayebuthathaka emzimbeni. I-Plato ye-libido ivuswe eneminyaka eyi-5-6 kwaye yayiyeyesini esahlukileyo. Umdla wesondo emadodeni waqala ukuvela kwisigulana eneminyaka eyi-12-13, xa wabona ifoto yendoda nomfazi beze kwiphephancwadi. Inkuku yomntu yatsala umdla wayo. Ke kwabakho uyolo, uhlobo oluthile lokonwaba kwangaphakathi, kwavuka ulwakhiwo. Ukususela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili, kwaqala ukubonakala ukuba wayeyoliswa ngabantu. Kule meko, umyalezo wesigulana kufuneka ukhankanywe ukuba ukusukela kwiminyaka esi-7-8 ukuya kuthi ga kwi-30 wayekholelwa ukuba incanca yakhe incinci. Ke ngoko, sinokucinga ukuba umdla kwilungu lobudoda (kwizixhobo ezingamanyala kuhlala kuyinto enkulu) yayisisiphumo somona wakhe (yena ngokwakhe angathanda ukuba nawo). Ukususela kwiminyaka eli-13 ukuya kweli-15 ubudala wayengumhlobo kunye nenkwenkwe, kwaye xa balwa naye, waziva ekhululekile.

Ngexesha lokuphulula amalungu esini ngokubukela ifoto ekhankanyiweyo kwimagazini yamanyala, wazichaza ukuba ungowasetyhini. Xa wayebukele iifilimu ezenza inkanuko kumabonwakude kwaye ephulula amalungu esini kwangaxeshanye, akazange anikele ingqalelo kubani kanye awayetsala kuye: amadoda okanye abafazi. Xa wayeneminyaka eyi-17, waba nomntu wokuqala owabelana ngesondo nendoda etshatileyo. Emva koko ndacinga ukuba ayilunganga. Bendinexhala ngalento, kodwa bendifuna. Ukusuka kwi-18 ukuya kwi-25 yeminyaka ubudala kwakukho ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokwesini, kodwa kubomi bokwenyani, ukuqala kwiminyaka eyi-18, kwabakho unxibelelwano ngesondo. Kwiminyaka eyi-18, waqala ukuba neentlobano zesini kunye nomfazi wakhe wexesha elizayo, awatshata naye emva kweminyaka esi-7. Xa wayeneminyaka engama-26 ubudala, ukubakho kokufikelela ngokulula kwi-Intanethi kwavela, kwaye waqala waba neentlobano zesini kunye namadoda, emva koko aqhubeka nokunxibelelana ngesondo kunye nabo ebomini bokwenyani. Ngaxeshanye, waba neentlobano zesini kunye nomfazi wakhe. Ngexesha lokudibana kwabantu besini esinye, ikakhulu wayedlala indima yokungenzi nto, awayeyithanda. Ke, ngenxa yesini sangasemva, isigulana sakhula i-fistula kwi-rectum kwaye kwaqala inkqubo yokuvuvukala. Wenziwa utyando, kwaye ngenxa yento eyenzekileyo kuye, khange alale namadoda de kube yiminyaka engama-32-33, awayiqala kwakhona kwiminyaka emi-2-3 eyadlulayo. Kwiminyaka engama-37, inkosikazi yakhe yagwetywa ngobudlelwane besini esinye, yayisisizathu sokufuna uncedo, nangona ingayithathi into yokuba ngabantu abathandanayo bodwa ibe sisifo. Isidingo sesi sibheno sicaciswe yinto yokuba isiganeko kusapho lwakhe singasitshabalalisa, kwaye oku kuya kwenza ukuba kube nzima kakhulu kuye ukunxibelelana nonyana wakhe. Nangona umfazi wakhe wamxelela ukuba ukuba ukhetha ukwabelana ngesondo namadoda, hayi naye (indibaniselwano yabo bobabini ayamkelekanga kuye), emva koko banokuwugcina umtshato kwaye bahlala kwigumbi elinye, kodwa ke uya kuba nelungelo lokuphila ngesondo amanye amadoda. Nangona kunjalo, oku akwamkelekanga kwisigulana, akanakucinga ukuba umfazi wakhe unamanye amaqabane ezesondo.

Ukuqwalaselwa kuthathelwe ingqalelo kwezi meko zilandelayo ngokunxibelelana nomfazi wakhe, kubandakanya nokusondelelana. Uyise owayelinxila wayemphethe kakubi kakhulu unina, wayedla ngokuxabana naye, amthuke kwaye ambethe. Isigulana sikubonile oku kakubi kakhulu kwaye ngenxa yoko sagqiba kwelokuba abasetyhini mabaphathwe kakuhle. Le yindlela awamphatha ngayo umfazi wakhe, eyaya kufikelela kubudlelwane babo bezesondo. Nangona kunjalo, wayefuna ukuba abomelele kuye bobabini kubomi bemihla ngemihla nangexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Uphumelele emva kokuba ndixele ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo kwiminqweno yabo yesondo bahlala becinga ngokudlwengulwa ngamadoda.

Ngokunxulumene nokulala nabantu ababini, oku kulungiswa kwengqondo kulandelayo kwenziwa. Umsebenzi wenziwa ukucacisa kwisigulana ukuba ubufanasini kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ngabasetyhini kukuphazamiseka okunokukhokelela kwizigulo ezahlukeneyo (somatic and mental pathology, iziphumo ezibi zentlalo). Kwakukho iiseshoni zenkqubo ye-hypnosuggative ejolise ekupheliseni ubufanasini be-libido, ukwandisa umnqweno wesini kwabasetyhini (ngokubanzi) kunye nenkosikazi (ngakumbi), ukubona amadoda ngokukodwa njengezinto ezingezizo ezesondo, ukubanakho ukulawula iminqweno yabo yesini kunye nokubonelela ngethuba lokufezekiswa kuphela kwezi, eziqhelekileyo. Kwakhona, icandelo lokuziphatha lalibandakanyiwe kwiiseshoni zokulalisa ngomzimba, ezazinokusetyenziswa kwezibini zamagama ali-12 ayilwe emva kwencoko yokuqala nesigulana. Elinye lala magama kwisibini ngasinye yayiligama elithi "ubufanasini", kwaye elinye yayiligama elinxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo okanye imifanekiso engathandekiyo ebonakalayo, okanye iziphumo ezibi zentlalo kubudlelwane bobufanasini, okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okujongwa kumafanasini.

Isigulana siye safumana iiseshoni ezili-18 zonyango olucebisa ukulala. Emva kweseshoni yokuqala, waxela ukuba okoko kwaqala unyango, ukuqhuba ngesondo emadodeni kwehle nge-70%. Yahlala injalo emva kweseshoni yesibini. Emva kweseshoni yesithathu, uqaphele ukuba umtsalane wesini emadodeni "uthambekele ku-zero." Emva kweseshoni yesine ye-hypnosis, ngenxa yokuba isigulana siye e-Italiya kangangeveki, kwabakho ikhefu leentsuku ezili-12 kunyango. Xa ebuyela ekhaya evela eholideyini kwinqwelo-moya kwiveki emva kweseshoni yesine ye-hypnosis, waqaphela ukuba unikela ingqalelo ngakumbi kumagosa, hayi kubahambi ngenqwelomoya. Emva koko wagqiba kwelokuba akukho sizathu sokuqhubeka nonyango. Nangona kunjalo, emva kwengxabano nomfazi wakhe, awamxelela ukuba unenjongo, wagqiba ekubeni aqhubeke nonyango ngenxa yokoyika ukwahlukana kosapho. Emva kweseshoni ye-6th yonyango lwe-hypnosuggestational, uxele ukuba uphulukene nomdla wesini emadodeni, kwaye umnqweno wakhe wesini ngomfazi wakhe yi-100%. Imeko efanayo yaqhubeka emva kweeseshini ze-7, 8 kunye ne-9. Emva koko, kwiintsuku ezingama-6 emva kweseshoni ye-10 ye-hypnosis, waqala ukunikela ingqalelo kubafana, kodwa wathi amadoda athandwa ngaphandle ngaphandle, kwaye xa ezama ukucinga ukuba ubanga kwaye ebanga, kwaye elala nabo, wathi ukungabikho kweminqweno enjalo. Umtsalane ngokwesini kumfazi wakhe yi-100% ibonakalisiwe. Emva kweseshoni ye-11th, waxela ukuba inkanuko yesini yomfazi wakhe ibonakalisiwe nge-100%, kwaye amadoda ayekhathala ngokwesini kuye. Emva kweseshoni ye-12 ye-hypnosis, waphawula umtsalane wesini onamandla kumfazi wakhe, kodwa amaxesha ambalwa wanikela ingqalelo kumadoda aneendevu. Wathi uyabathanda. Emva kweseshoni ye-13th ye-hypnosis, kwakungekho mtsalane wesini emadodeni. Sixoxe ngokuba kutheni ethanda amadoda aneendevu. Kunye nesigulana, bafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba oku kungenxa yokuba iinwele zakhe zikhula kakubi ebusweni, kwaye akakwazi ukukhula iindevu ezinjalo, kwaye ukuba akachebi, kuya kubakho "ububi". Yamkela umona kule meko. Ngenxa yale ngxoxo, ndafika kwisigqibo sokuba kule meko akufuneki kuthathelwe ingqalelo njengomboniso wokutsala ngokwesini emadodeni. Nangona kunjalo, kunokucingelwa ukuba umnqweno wamadoda wokufumana oko bengenako, kodwa yintoni amanye amadoda anayo (kwimeko ekuxoxwa ngayo, ilungu elikhulu kunye nokukwazi ukukhula kweendevu njengaleyo yamanye amadoda), inokusebenza njengeyona nto inyanzela ukwenziwa kwe inkanuko yobufanasini kunye nokunxibelelana kwabantu besini esinye namadoda aneempawu ezinqwenelekayo kumntu lowo. Emva kweseshoni ye-14th ye-hypnosis (iyonke, njengoko besichazile ngaphambili, iiseshoni ezili-18 bezisenziwa) kwaye kude kube sekupheleni konyango, umtsalane wesini esifanayo awuzange ubonakale. Iintsuku ezilishumi elinethoba emva kweseshoni ye-18th, isigulana sixele ngefowuni ukuba khange kwenzeke.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ngaphambi kokuba kuqaliswe unyango isigulana sithathela ingqalelo ubufanasini njengesiqhelo kwaye wazichaza “njengendoda yesini esisibini,” emva koko ngenxa yokulungiswa kwengqondo watshintsha imbono yakhe ukuya kwelinye elichasene nediametrically, kwaye naye waqalisa ukuzichaza njengomntu onesini esahlukileyo.

Kwakhona, ngexesha lonyango, njengoko isigulana sixelile, ixesha lokwabelana ngesondo kunye nenkosikazi yakhe lonyuke kakhulu, elinokuchazwa ngokwanda okuthe kratya koqhakamshelwano lwezesondo kunye naye ngenxa yeziphakamiso ezizodwa kwimeko yokulala. Ukoyika ukuqhekeka kweentsapho nako kunokuba negalelo kukonyuka kwesondo.

Kuya kugxininiswa ukuba izigulana ezinje ngesi sigulana zifuna ukuqatshelwa okunamandla ukuthintela ukubuyela umva kwesini. 

Ukuqukumbela, kufanele ukuba kuqatshelwe ukuba iinzame zokuthintela ukusetyenziswa kwonyango lokuguqula abantu abangalwamkeliyo umtsalane kubufanasini, amava oxinzelelo malunga noku kwaye bafuna ukuphelisa lo mtsalane kukwaphula umthetho okukhohlakeleyo nokungafanelekanga kwamalungelo abantu.

Funda ngakumbi: I-Kocharyan GS Bisexuality: iikhonsepthi ngokubanzi kunye nokuqwalaselwa kweklinikhi // Impilo yamadoda. - 2020. - Inombolo 2 (73). Icandelo lama- 71-80.