Iingcinga zihlala zifika zokuba akusekho mandla.
Ukuba ngenye imini andinakumelana nayo, ke vumela wena
iya kuba libali lethu. Mhlawumbi umntu uza kunceda.
Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, masihlale siyimbali
ubomi obaphukileyo kunye neentlungu zempambano.
Sifikelwe ngumama ononyana oneminyaka engamashumi amabini ubudala ngequbuliso uyekile eyunivesithi kunyaka wakhe wesine wabaleka ekhaya ukuze kungabikho mntu unokumthintela "ekutshintsheni isini". Yonke le nto yaqala kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo ngencoko kunye nentombazana engaqhelekanga kwi-Intanethi, enotyekelo olucacileyo lokukhohlisa, ukungenisa kunye ne-gynemimethophilia -ukutsala amadoda kwimpahla yabasetyhini nakubantu abadlulayo. Intombazana ibiza unyana wayo kuphela "intombazana yam endiyithandayo." Kukho impembelelo engagungqiyo yengqondo kuye kunye nesimo sengqondo ngokuchasene nonina kunye nezihlobo. Ngomyalelo wentombazana, unyana wakhe washiya umzi kwaye wanqumla onke amaqhina kunye nezihlobo zakhe, ebathintela kwinethiwekhi yoluntu kunye nokutshintsha inombolo yefowuni. Apha ngezantsi sinika kwifom efinyeziweyo ileta ebuya kunina igcwele ziintlungu nokuphelelwa lithemba.
ULenya ngoyena mncinci kubantwana bam ababini. Utata wakhe wasishiya xa wayeneminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Abantwana banyamezele kunzima kakhulu. Intombi yakhala rhoqo. Bade bandibizela esikolweni, babuza ukuba kutheni umntwana elila eklasini. Ixesha elide, unyana ukhwaza nayiphi na irusi engaphandle komnyango yokuba utata uze wabaleka ukuya kuvula umnyango.
Wakhula eyinkwenkwe eqhelekileyo, engazange adlale midlalo yamantombazana, engazange athi uyintombazana. Akunakuze. Wayezithanda iikhathuni malunga ne-Spider-Man kunye ne-Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. Emva koko uNaruto, uPokémon. Ukusuka kwiithoyi ezinje ngeekayiti, iirobhothi, iskate, izileyi. Ndiphuphe isosi ebhabha kwiphaneli yokulawula.
Kwibanga lokuqala ndaya kwikarati. Emva koko waqalisa ukwenza nzulu olwenziwe Lula. Xa sele ekhulile, watshintshela kwisibini esitshixwayo. Xa wayesele efikelele kwinqanaba elibi kakhulu kwezemidlalo, wafumana ukonzakala ngonyawo okuthintela indlela yakhe kwezemidlalo. Lonke ilizwe lawa ngaye. Yonke into awayeyilimela ebuntwaneni bakhe yawa. Wayekwimeko emaxongo kakhulu. Waqala ukuchitha ixesha elininzi edlala imidlalo yekhompyuter kunye nokubukela i-anime. Ngenxa yoku, wayehlala ekuhlaleni-engalungelelaniswanga kwimeko yoluntu kunye nonxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo. Wayenomdla omncinci kwilizwe lokwenyani. Ndihleli ikakhulu kwiziza zolwimi lwesiNgesi. Wayesebenza kude. Ngesondo, wayenqatshelwe-engabonisi mdla omncinci kubudlelwane bezothando.
Emva kokugqiba ibanga le-11, unyana wangena Institute. Njengomntu omtsha, wathabatha ifani yaseJamani. Emva koko wabonisa ipasipoti egqityiweyo. Ndiyenzile ngokwam, ngaphandle kokuxelela mntu. Oku akuzange kusimangalise kakhulu, kuba ngaphambili wathi wayemcaphukisile utata wakhe kwaye akafuni ukubizwa ngegama lakhe lokugqibela. Kodwa le yayiyintsimbi yokuqala. Phantse phakathi enyakeni wokuqala, ndiyakhumbula, unyana wam ekhangeleka onwabile wathi uKatyya, ababethetha naye kwi-Intanethi, bambhalela bavuma uthando kuye. Ukuva oku okokuqala ebomini bakhe, wahamba njengephupha. Malunga nexesha elifanayo, kwaqala imbalelwano naye. Ndabona ukuba ubusuku bonke unyana wam akalali, kodwa uhambelana noKatya. Ngentsasa ukuvukela esikolweni, kwaye uya kulala nge-4-5 kusasa. Ndizamile ukuthetha nonyana wam, kodwa yonke into iqhubeke njengakuqala. Ewe, bendicinga, mncinci, iimvakalelo zokuqala. Ngaphambi koko, wayengazange abe nolwalamano olunzulu, ngoko ke ubaphatha ngokungathí sina nangentlonelo.
NgoJulayi, uKatyya kunye nomama wakhe basityelela. Nalapho, ezinye izinto zazibonakala zingaqhelekanga kum. Umzekelo, inyani yokuba umama eze nentombazana yakhe efunda ibanga leshumi kule nkwenkwe kwaye bayolala kunye kwigumbi elahlukileyo. Njengokungathi le ntombazana ayibuyanga nesipho ekhaya. Ndamangaliswa kukuba xa singena kwikhefi, uKatyya waphendula rhabaxa kumama wakhe nge-bass. Kwaye entlanganisweni, wazenza ngathi yimazi yebhokhwe egungxukayo, sele eza kufa isiqaqa yimincili, njengoko umntu omaziyo edlula. Emva koko, ngokucacileyo, wabona ukumangaliswa kwam kwaye wayeka. Kodwa ndothuswa kakhulu lutshintsho olunje. Kwaye ilizwi lentombazana alinantombazana - ayihambelani nembonakalo yakhe. Kodwa ndaziqhubela kude ezo ngcinga. Ke ndicinga ukuba uKatyya ngumtshakazi wonyana wam kwaye kwixa elizayo, emva kokugqiba izifundo zabo, baya kutshata. Unyana wam wandixelela njalo. Wabaqinisekisa ukuba banothando.
Ngo-Okthobha, ndithathe isigqibo sokucoca igumbi lonyana wam kwaye ndabona iipakethe zepilisi edesikeni yam. Ezininzi bezisele zingenanto, ziqalisiwe. Imiyalelo yathi ezi ziipilisi zokucwangcisa zehomoni yabasetyhini. Ndazibuza ukuba kutheni unyana wam eyidinga lento. Impendulo yakhe xa ebuya eyunivesithi yandothusa. Mna, utsho, ndibasela ukuze benze utshintsho kwaye babe ngumfazi. Ndingumama oguqukayo.
Emva koko ndandingazi kwanto ngayo, ngaphandle kokuba aba bantu bagula ngengqondo abathi batshintshe iimpahla zabesini esahlukileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi, benze utyando. Kodwa uLenya wayehleli phambi kwam! Unyana wam, endimbonileyo, ndaziwa bonke ubomi bakhe. Kwaye andizange ndiqaphele nto. Ndeva ukuba iyazibonakalisa ebuntwaneni. Kodwa uLyonya yinkwenkwe eqhelekileyo owayengumhlobo wamakhwenkwe, wathandana namantombazana. Wabhabha ikayiti, waqhuba kwibhodi yokutyibilika. Ndandihlala ndifuna ukuba yindawo yokugcina izilwanyana kwindlwana yam kwezemidlalo, kwaye le yinkxaso, izinto ezikhutshwayo- kufuneka womelele ngokwasemzimbeni, ngenxa yoko wasebenzisa ii-simulators kwaye waphakamisa i-kettlebell. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, uboleka ukuba abe nefuthe ngokulula: emva kokubukela uthotho lweTV "uSherlock", waqala ukulingisa iqhawe kwisinxibo nangendlela; emva kokubona uGqr House, waqala wathi uyintlalontle.
Ndibuze ukuba kudala ethatha iipilisi. Uthe wawusele ungunyaka! Chaza into endandiyiva ngoko ... Umhlaba wahamba phantsi kweenyawo zam. Umntwana wam ophilileyo uzenza onesiphene ngezandla zakhe! Emva kwexesha, nangona kunjalo, wavuma ukuba ebebasela iinyanga ezi-3 ngelo xesha, kwaye watsho unyaka ukuze ndingathandabuzi ukuba yonke into yayinzulu. Ndamcenga ukuba ayeke ukuthatha iipilisi afune uncedo kwiingcali. Wavuma ukuya kugqirha wengqondo. Apho wathi uzichaza ukuba uyintombazana. Ugqirha wabuza imibuzo, kwaye kwacaca ukuba akanakuyiqonda into eyenzekayo. Ucele ukuba afane nesibhedlele sasemini, ukuze ajongwe. Wayesothukile kukuqala kwesifo se-schizophrenia - unyana wakhe wathetha izinto ezingaqhelekanga. Undixelele ukuba uyayibona le nto okokuqala. Ewe, ayivakali njenge-transsexualism. Uthe ubudlelwane bakhe noKatya buyamangalisa kakhulu: yonke imihla, okanye mandithi, busuku ngabunye, kubakho ingxoxo rhoqo ngesihloko se-transgender. Akamshiyi umzuzu, uhlala phantsi kolawulo - apho akhoyo, into ayenzayo. Ewe, ndiyibonile nam lonto. Sasiqhula ngaphambili-ngaba ucela uKatyya ukuba aye kwindlu yangasese?
Oogqirha kwikhomishini khange bathathe isigqibo malunga nokuxilongwa. Bathetha ngoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo. Umsebenzi wokuzibulala usebenze naye, akukho nto nayo. Bacebisa ukuba banxibelelane neklinikhi yengingqi. Kwaye, kwakhona, oogqirha, emva kokuqwalaselwa kwenyanga, khange bafumanise ukuba ngabantu abathandanayo. Bambuza imibuzo ekhohlisayo ukuze aqonde ukuba uyazenzisa okanye hayi, kwaye bathi: into ayilunganga. Ukukhutshwa kuye kwathiwa wayenobuntu obuxubeneyo nesifo sedysphoria (ngokwamazwi akhe) kwaye wamiselwa ukuba alwe noxinzelelo.
Amagqabantshintshi: Ndingathi unyana, efuna ukucima imeko eyadlulayo, ufuna ukususa ubuntu bakhe bangaphambili, eshiya ngasemva bonke ubunzima obamhlelayo. Utshintsho lwefani, enyanisweni, lunokuthathwa njengenyathelo lokuqala. Ngelishwa, iingcali zengqondo ezinobungane be-LGBT, endaweni yokubonelela ngoncedo olufunekayo, ziya kumcenga ukuba atshabalalise "ukuphinda abuyiselwe kwisini".
Ndizamile ngako konke okusemandleni ukuba ndilunge. Ndacinga ukuba ngandlel 'ithile uzolile, kuba oogqirha abayenzi loo nto. Kwaye wandixelela: masingathethi ngayo, siza kuphila. Ndenze kanye loo nto. Ndizamile ukuthetha naye ngezinye izihloko, ndipheka into emnandi, ndamanga kwakhona. Kodwa kwelinye icala bekukho umsebenzi ongapheliyo. Kutshanje, kwigumbi lonyana wam, ndabona idayari yakhe. Zivela phi ezi ngcinga entlokweni yomntwana othandekayo? Andizange ndikholelwe, ndifunda indlela ayibiza ngayo intombi yam kunye nomzukulwana wam "aba bantu" kwaye ubhale "bayandizonda." Kodwa bububhanxa obu! Ivela phi? Ngubani lo ubethe le nto entloko? Ukujonga umxholo, Katya. Kodwa yintoni?
Kwiinyanga ezintandathu ngaphambi kokuba unyana wakhe abaleke ekhaya, umfana wambhalela kwi-Intanethi. Ngokwonyana wakhe, wayekhe wawela indlela kunye nalo mfana kumdlalo we-Intanethi kwaye akukho nto iyenye. Wayenomdla kakhulu ebomini bakhe, wambhalela i-24/7. Unyana wam wabelana nam kwaye emangalisiwe wathi: “Wowu, ebendibhalela imini yonke. Akanayo imicimbi yakhe, umsebenzi? Ngokukhawuleza xa ndimbhalela, uphendula kwangalo mzuzu. Ndikhathazeke kakhulu ngam. "
Malunga nonyaka ngaphambi kwezi ziganeko, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndijonge ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwabahlobo unyana wam anayo kwinethiwekhi. Kwakukho izihlobo ezifihlakeleyo apho. Kutheni uzifihlile akucaci. Ndothuswa kukuba enye yazo ivimbe ukufikelela kwam ngokungongeza kuluhlu lwabantsundu, nangona singazange sithethe kwaye singabasemzini. Yantoni? Kodwa ke yena, phantsi kwegama Kira, rhoqo ukunxibelelana nonyana wakhe, kwaye ngoku Sergey. Ndibuze unyana wam, ngaba uKira uyintombazana? Unyana waphendula, hayi, nguCyril ngohlobo olufinyeziweyo. Kodwa ngoku ayisiyiyo iKirill. Into ayiqondakaliyo malunga nalo mfo. Yena noKatyya bathetha kakhulu nonyana wabo.
Ndizamile ukuthetha nonyana wam intliziyo nentliziyo njengomama, ndabuza: nyana, apha uthi uziva ngathi uyintombazana. Ewe, uthini ngoKatya, awutsalwa ngumzimba kuye? Unyana uphendule into ngokungathandabuzekiyo: "Hayi, andinomdla komnye umntu." Ndabona ukuba ubudlelwane buyinto engaqhelekanga, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuthetha ngalo naluphi na uthando ngengqondo epheleleyo yelizwi. Kutheni bobabini bebanga ukuba olu luthando ngobomi alucaci. Kwaye xa sifumanisa nje malunga neepilisi, umakhulu wabuza unyana wakhe, baya kutshata njani, ngaba noKatya unengxaki efanayo? Kwaye unyana uphendule wathi: "Kulungile, kubonakala ngathi."
Amagqabantshintshi: Kunokucingelwa ukuba uKaty unenye ingxaki - gynemimetophilia. Olu luhlobo lobufanasini ngokwesini, into engamadoda axelisa abafazi. I-Gynemimethophiles zihlala zitsala amadoda angama-transgender. Kule meko, i-fetishist inomdla kuphela kwimibono yakhe yesondo, kwaye ayinandaba nobuntu bokwenene bomntu - ubomi bakhe, inhlalakahle, namava. Kwaye yile nto siyibonayo kwimeko kaKatyya: uLenya unomdla kuye kuphela kwindima ka-Alice. Ke akukho mfuneko yokuba athethe ngalo naluphi na uthando kuye - usebenzisa kuphela ingxaki yomfana osengozini ukwanelisa utyekelo lwakhe olugwenxa. Ngokukhawuleza uLyonya uyakuqonda oku, maninzi amathuba okuba aphume kolu lwalamano lungekho mpilweni kunye nomonakalo omncinci kuye.
Xa ndafumanisa malunga neepilisi, njl., Ndandingayiqondi indima kaKatyya. Ndizamile ukuthetha naye. Ndacinga, kuba esithi uyathanda, mhlawumbi angandinceda ukweyisela unyana wam. Ndambhalela ukuba ndiqhakamshelane nogqirha wezigulo zengqondo kwi-hotline, kwaye kwathiwa mandizise unyana wam ngokungxamisekileyo, ngakumbi ukuba usela iipilisi ngokungalawulekiyo kwaye uyazenzakalisa. Kodwa indlela Katya waba engaqhelekanga kakhulu. Waqala ukundeyisela ekubeni ndingafuni ncedo. Uthe baya kumenzela imifuno, ukuba oogqirha abafanelekanga, wafuna ukuthumela ukubuyekeza kwabo abaguli, wayekrwada, ethetha kakubi. Ndothuka.
Ngokubhekisele kwinto yokuba iziyobisi zehomoni ziya kwenza ukuba unyana wakhe angabinamandla angenabomi ebomini, uphendule wathi: “Kulungile, masishiye indawo esingakhange sibuzwe nokuba besihlela abantwana. Masicinge ukuba siyacwangcisa. Izinto zemvelo zingagcinwa kwigumbi lokugcina amagwebu zize kamva zisetyenziselwe ukwenza iintsana. Kuko konke".
Ewe, khange bagcine naziphi na izinto zemvelo.
Ndizamile ukuthetha nomama kaKatya. Kukho okungaphezulu kokuphendula okungaqhelekanga. Nawuphi na umama wentombazana uya kothuka, kodwa apha, ngokungathi kudala eyazi yonke into. Kwaye kwavela ukuba uKatya wayengazange aye eSt. Petersburg, nangona unyana wakhe wathi wadibana naye apho. Kutheni waxoka, andazi. Kuyabonakala ukuba kukho into yokufihla. Kwathi ke xa beza kuthi, umama kaKatyya wayesele embiza ngokuba nguAlice. Wayeyazi yonke into ixesha elide. Kutheni uzise intombi yakho? Ubufuna ntoni kunyana wakho? Ukubeka i-squeeze kwi, ukucenga, ukukhuthaza?
Ndaya kwiphepha lika Katya. Ndicinga ukuba ndizakubona ukuba umtshakazi ozayo unomdla entwenini. Kwaye kukho i-LGBT, i-furries, i-BDSM, imizobo engamanyala kunye nokunye.
Le yimidla yobudala eneminyaka eyi-16-17. Yintoni ongayilindela? Ndabhalela umama wakhe ukuba kufuneka sibakhuphe ngokungxamisekileyo abantwana kolu daka. Impendulo ibulele nje: “Akukho kwiphepha lonyana wakho, kutheni ufuna ukuyifunda yonke le nto? Kufuneka ube ngakumbi kunye nonyana wakho, mnike ukufudumala. Kwaye awudingi kuthumela kum. "
Intombi yam kunye nam saqonda ukuba kwenzeka into embi kakhulu kuLyonka. Umntu othile uyamxakekisa kwaye kunzima kakhulu. Sifumanise ukuba unyana wam wajika waxhasa i-LGBT eMoscow wacela uncedo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akavumelekanga ukuba aphume endlwini, kwaye ukuba uza eMoscow, banokumnceda. Uninzi lweeanime ezingamanyala zaseJapan ezimalunga namantombazana amabini zazigcinwa kwitafile yakhe. Kwakukho imbalelwano noKatya, apho ixesha elide, nangaphambi kokuba afike esixekweni, wambhalela iminqweno yakhe, ebhekisa kunyana wakhe kwisini sobufazi, embiza ngokuba "yintombazana yam", "ntombazana yam endiyithandayo "," ngokungathi ndifuna ukubona imilenze yakho kwiisitokisi ezimnyama. " Iileta zesini. Ngokwenene. Intombi yam yagula yintliziyo yakhe koko wayekufundile, kwaye safunda imbalelwano ngeentsuku ezimbini kuphela. Kwafuneka ndiyeke ithebhulethi kwaye ndathengisa intombi yam ngeCorvalol. Oku nangona eyindoda entle eyomeleleyo, uneminyaka engama-27 ubudala. Yayothusa kakhulu. Into anokuyenza kukuphinda athi: "Uyagula entloko." Kwaye ngoku konke oku kuqhubeka ngakumbi - akukho mntu uphazamisayo. Ngenxa yoku, wamrhola ngaphandle kosapho. Ukwenza oku, umjikela kunina. Ikhuthaza ukuba inganxibelelanisi, inqumle lonke ubudlelwane nosapho. Andikwazi ukunxibelelana nonyana wam nangayiphi na indlela, hayi kwaphela.
Kwangoko, unyana wakhe wathi uKatyya wabelana ngezimvo zobufazi obuqatha, kwaye naye uyabaxhasa. Ndaqala ukumxelela ukuba yintoni kanye kanye. Kodwa akazange afune ukumamela: "U-Katya akanakuphazama." Ngaba yinjongo yakhe ukubulala umfana kuye? Okanye kuye konke?
Ngoku uhlala kwindlu eqeshiweyo kunye Katya. Uyamxhasa kuyo yonke le nto. Kwaye ubuxabisile ubuhlobo bakhe naye. Xa umakhulu wakhe wakwazi ukufikelela kuye okokugqibela, wamxelela ukuba angaphinde amtsalele umnxeba u-Lena, kwaye sele etshintshile amaxwebhu abasetyhini. Kwinto ahlala kuyo, andazi - i-16,500 kufuneka ihlawulwe indlu. Ewe, masithi bamhlawula ngama-25 ukude. Akukho zihlangu, akukho mpahla, nakutya. Uxelele umakhulu wakhe ukuba ummelwane uhlala emtyelela kwaye eze neentlanzi. Hi ndlela leyi, unyana akazange adle iintlanzi, kuphela ivumba iintlanzi kuye kwabangela gag reflex yakhe. Kuphela ukuba ulambile ngokupheleleyo anokuvunyelwa ukuba atye iintlanzi. Kwaye ukuba ulambile, kuya kuba lula ukumcenga ukuba enze izinto ezingekho mthethweni ngenxa yomvuzo. Ndiyoyika naleyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, banokutshintsha.
Ngexesha lokuncokola, utshintsha ilizwi lakhe abe lilizwi, ngathi ngumntu obhinqileyo, phantsi kwesikipa unxibe ibra. Akukho nto yokuyinxiba, kodwa nangona kunjalo. Ndicinga ukuba kuthatha iihomoni nazo. Ngokubanzi, akukho nto intle. Andazi ndithini. Sifuna ingcali. Yena ngokwakhe akavumi ukuya naphi na. Uthi ebesele enesayikholojisti bamnceda. Kodwa luhlobo luni lwesayikholojisti kwaye loluphi uncedo ukuba imithambo-luvo yakhe ifana nomtya? Ndiyoyika isayikholojisti yi-LGBT. Kodwa ungayifumana phi ingcali awayenokuyiva? Ziyafana ne amahlelo... Okubi kakhulu. Kwaye khange andimamele nasekhaya. Yonke imizamo yokuchaza- ngobutshaba. Ndibaleke ukuze bangaphazamisi.
Izimvo: Enyanisweni, unokunceda unyana wakho ngokunika uncedo lwengqondo kuye noNadya. Mhlawumbi abenzi bomthetho kufuneka baqwalasele lo mbandela kwaye baqaphele ukuthambekela "kokutshintsha isondo" njengokubangela ingozi kwimpilo yobunzima obuphakathi (Inqaku le-112 leKhowudi yoLwaphulo-mthetho. Ukunyanzeliswa ngenjongo yokulimala okuphakathi kwimpilo).
Ndabona inqaku kwiRIA Novosti "Abantwana baxhonywe kwi-anime kunye nokuzibulala."... Igama nelizwi ngonyana wam. Ndandihlala ndibukele i-anime kwaye ndizobe ngokungathandekiyo. Kwaye yena Katya. Kwaye emva koko, abantwana bethu abancinci abasempilweni babaleka ekhaya bathathe iziyobisi zehomoni. Guqula isini. Ukusuka koku baphinde baphulukana nokungabi namntwana ebomini. Kwaye xa uqaphela ukuba uzenzile ngezandla zakho, kwenzeka ntoni emva koko? I-41% yemizamo yokuzibulala ye-transgender- ngoba? Lo ngumlo ochasene nolutsha lwethu. Abantwana bamakhoboka otywala banxila bodwa, kwaye aba bantwana basempilweni- bayatshabalala kuthi cwaka. Kwaye ayingunyaka wokuqala. Ngale ndlela bade bachaphazele nabantwana abaphuma kwiintsapho eziphumelelayo. Ndamazi bonke ubomi bam, kwaye bendihlala ndiqonda ukuba wayeyinkwenkwe eqhelekileyo enomdla wobukhwenkwe. Kwakungekho nto yowesifazane esondeleyo. Ngaphambi kwe-anime kunye noKatyya.
Uluntu lwama-Anime lusendle. Maninzi amaqela avaliweyo. Unyana wam wayehleli kwezi, yena ngokwakhe wathetha ngayo. Izigidi zabantwana sele zibandakanyekile koku. Izinwele ezinemibala zivela apho. Lonke iphepha lakhe, zonke iifoto ezigciniweyo zi-anime. Ude wazibeka kumfanekiso weprofayile eyintombazana enenwele ezimfusa. Akukho zifoto zam zisuka ebomini bokwenyani konke konke. Ingaba kunjani ihlelo.
Kufuneka siphakamise esi sihloko, sitsala iingcali, ukuba, kunjalo, sinazo. Xa isichukumisile, enyanisweni, akukho ndawo sinokubuyela kuyo.
SIDINGA inkonzo yoncedo ngexesha lentlekele kulutsha nakubazali, apho kuya kubakho iingcali ezijamelene neengxaki abajamelana nazo abafikisayo namhlanje, hayi kwiminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo. Oogqirha, oogqirha bokuzibulala, iingcali zesini azikaze zive nge-anime, ipropaganda ye-LGBT, ipropaganda echasene nosapho, umxholo wokuzibulala, okanye ukugaywa. Banokunceda njani? Ngaba ukumba izothuso zobuntwana ngendlela yakudala? Ngenxa yokuba utshaba lunamandla, kuba akukho mntu uchasene naye - akukho namnye. Ezi ngcali aziqeqeshiwe naphi na, kodwa sele zifuneka kangangeminyaka eli-10. Iingcali zengqondo, ngakumbi ulutsha, zifunda ngokwenkqubo kunye nemigangatho yaseNtshona. Yithi, abazali kufuneka bamamkele umntwana onjalo kunye nenkxaso "yotshintsho", kwaye bangamkhuphi kweli phupha. Ndaye ndajongana nalento.
Uluvo lokwenyani, aloyiki oogqirha be-LGBT lubalulekile. Iihormone zesondo (testosterone kunye ne-estrogen) zibangela umonakalo ongenakulungiseka kwimpilo yosana, kubandakanya uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu, amahlwili egazi, ukubetha nomhlaza. Oku kubulala cwaka. Siphulukana nabantwana abasisilumko abasempilweni kwesi sihogo.
I-Postcript yeqela leNzululwazi yeNyaniso
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba oososayensi boyikisiwe kwaye bacinezelwe ngoxinzelelo olungqongqo lwabaphembeleli be-LGBT, oogqirha bezengqondo kunye nabaphathiswa bezempilo kwimimandla yeRussian Federation. isibheno iqela "leNzululwazi yeNyaniso" kwizazinzulu, amanani abantu, nakwezopolitiko.
Isibheno, sixhaswe ngabantu baseRussia abangaphezu kwama-50 000, sicebisa ngamanyathelo anokuthintela ubudenge obusele buvele kwabaninzi, xa, ngokusekwe kwimiba ejolise ekunciphiseni izinga lokuzalwa kwihlabathi liphela (apho izakhiwo ze-UN zibandakanyeka ngokukuko), abantwana bayonzakaliswa ngokwenyusa kunye nokwamkelwa kokuziphatha okukhokelela kukungachumi okanye ukungafuni ukubeleka abantwana, kubandakanya noncedo lwe "Isondo lumen».
Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Izazinzulu, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wezesondo, iSebe lezeMpilo
1. Ukudibanisa iinzame zokwenza izimvo ezinokwethenjelwa nezithembekileyo ngokwesayensi malunga nokuqheleka kwengqondo ukuze ubufanasini, isini esithandanayo, ubundlobongela kunye nezinye izinto ezinqamlezileyo zingajongwa njengezonyango. Yenza iqela elisebenzayo leengcali ezisebenza kwicandelo lezengqondo kunye neengqondo, umthetho kunye nesayensi yezomthetho ukwenza uphando ngokudibeneyo kunye nomsebenzi wesayensi kwicandelo lezempilo yengqondo.
2. Papasha amaphepha ophando ngezi zihloko kupapasho lwamazwe aphesheya nolwaseRussia. Thatha indawo esebenzayo kwintetho yamanye amazwe.
3. Ukwenza izikhokelo zeklinikhi, kuthathelwa ingqalelo amava enzululwazi aseRussia, kubandakanya namava okuphelisa umtsalane ongafunekiyo wabantu besini esifanayo kunye nokulungisa ezinye ezinxaxhileyo kuphuhliso lwezesini. Yenza ukuhlelwa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okulungiselelwe iRussian Federation, njengoko bekunjalo nge-ICD-9 kwiUSSR.
4. Ukuphuhlisa iindlela zokulawula imisebenzi yoochwephesha bezengqondo kunye nabezesondo abophula umthetho othintela ukukhuthazwa kobudlelwane obungasiko ngokwesiko phakathi kwabantwana ekuthiwa-njalo. Unyango "lwesini / sokuqinisekisa" kunye nokuzama ukwazisa iingcinga ezonakalisayo phantsi kwesithunzela "Isondo lumen».
5. Ukuphuhlisa ezintsha kunye nokuhlaziya iindlela esele zikho zokulungisa kunye nokuthintela ukuphambuka kuphuhliso lwengqondo.
6. Ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso esisekwe ngokwenzululwazi sokukhusela amaxabiso osapho, kunye nokupapashwa kwemisebenzi kuhlelo lwamazwe aphesheya nolwaseRussia olusisiseko seRSCI.
7. Ukuthintela ukukhutshwa kwesatifikethi No. 087 / y "Isatifikethi sokutshintsha kwesondo." Hlaziya ukunyaniseka kwezatifikethi ezikhutshwe ngaphambili.
8. Yongeza amalungiselelo ehomoni asetyenziselwa ukulibazisa ukukhula ngokwesondo kunye notshintsho kuluhlu lwamachiza ngokuxhomekeke kwi-subject-quantitative accounting.
Zezomthetho kunye nezopolitiko
1. Ukujonga kwakhona inqanaba lentsebenziswano ne-UN kunye ne-WHO kunye nenkxaso-mali yazo ngokunxulumene nezinto ezichasene noMgaqo-siseko, umthetho waseRussia kunye neenjongo zesicwangciso-qhinga sokukhula okuzinzileyo kwabemi beRussian Federation ngokunyuka kwexesha lokuphila ukuya Iminyaka engama-78. Sithetha ngomgaqo-nkqubo wabemi ngokubanzi we-UN kunye nokukhuthaza ubungqingili bobufanasini ebantwaneni kwimigangatho yemfundo yezesondo ye-WHO.
2.Ukuqinisa isohlwayo sokukhuthaza ubufanasini, ukuthandana kwabantu besini esinye, ukuqhomfa, ukungafumani bantwana kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha kwabantu kwimeko yokuxakaniseka kwabantu. Yandisa isibhengezo kwi-propaganda ye-ideopulation ideology kuzo zonke iindidi zobudala.
3. Ukuqinisa isohlwayo sokophula umthetho "Ekukhuseleni abantwana kulwazi olunobungozi kwimpilo nakuphuhliso lwabo." Yamkela ukubandakanyeka kwindlela yokuphila yobufanasini kunye "nokwabiwa kwakhona ngokwesini" njengokubangela ukwenzakala okuphakathi phantsi kweCandelo 112 leKhowudi yoLwaphulo-mthetho yeRussian Federation.
4. Ukuphuhlisa inkqubo yolawulo ekusasazeni ulwazi olunobungozi ebantwaneni, kubandakanya nokubandakanyeka kwamashishini abucala kunye nemibutho yosapho.
Ukunyanzela amajelo osasazo kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo ezisebenza eRashiya ukuba ngokuzimeleyo zibhloke ulwazi oluyingozi ebantwaneni, oluphikisana nemibono yesikolo sezenzululwazi saseRussia.
6. Yazisa izithintelo ekusasazeni izimvo ezichasayo nezichasene nenkcubeko ngokusebenzisa umculo kunye neeprojekthi zosasazo, xa ilizothe "umculo", iifilimu kunye nemisebenzi yeebhlogi kunxibelelwano lwentlalo zisebenza njengendlela yokwenza inzuzo.
7.Yila iisayithi zethu ezizimeleyo zokubamba ividiyo, iinjini zokukhangela ezizimeleyo kwimibono yequmrhu laseNtshona, kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo ezisebenzisana norhulumente kumlo wokusasazwa kolwazi oluyingozi ebantwaneni.
8. Nyusa iminyaka yokuvuma ubudlelwane bobufanasini.
9. Ukubonelela ngeenzululwazi zaseRussia ithuba lokuchaza ubume bezenzululwazi ngaphandle koloyiko lomsebenzi kunye nomvuzo. Inxalenye yebhonasi yomvuzo woososayensi ixhomekeke kwimisebenzi yokupapashwa. Phantsi kweemeko "zokuchaneka kwezopolitiko" kunye nokunyanzelwa, iimpapasho zaseNtshona nezaseRussia ezinefuthe eliphezulu azipapashi imisebenzi ephikisana nomgaqo-nkqubo wokuthomalalisa isimilo sokuziphatha (ipropaganda yobufanasini, transsexualism kunye nokunye okunxaxha kwezesini), okubeka uxinzelelo inkcazo yasimahla yemeko yezenzululwazi. Oososayensi bayoyika.
Ngoku sikwimeko efanayo kanye, KHALA unogada !!! Andazi ukuba bankqonkqoza phi, inkqubo iqonde ngqo kwiYunivesithi yaseHSE !!!!
Khupha ngokukhawuleza kwi-HSE! le yindawo yokugcina abantwana. ungahlawuleli izifundo kwi-HSE.
Enkosi ngebali. Njengoko ndifunda, ndivakalelwa kukuba le ntsapho ijongene nayo. Kwaye siqhelene noku. Sihlala eNetherlands, abantwana bam bakwintanga enye befunda ekholejini, apho ubuxoki obunjalo bufikelele kwinqanaba eliphezulu. Phantse akukho bantwana bathi "hayi" kubantu be-LGBT. Iqela lonke lootitshala "lokuthembela" lisebenza, libeka kubantwana indlela yokuphila yefashoni: iinwele ezinemibala, iimpahla ezinezinto zesini, wonke umntu uneenwele ezifanayo, i-anime, imifanekiso yokomoya, iingcamango zokuzibulala kunye nokunye okuninzi. Thina, bazali, sadibana nalo lonke iqela lootitshala, likhokelwa ngumlawuli. Olu ludonga olungangenekiyo. Kulusizi ukuba akusekho zikolo apho le propaganda ingekhoyo. Kwakhona, amapolisa nabaphathi besixeko abanamandla. Ngokholo kuThixo nangemithandazo, sakwazi ukumthethelela umntwana wethu saza sambuyisela kwintsingiselo yakhe yangaphambili, kodwa ama-90 ekhulwini abazali ayawamkela lo mfanekiso yaye abaxhathisi ubuxoki. Ngokwemeko yethu, ndiye ndaqaphela ukuba ngelixa umntwana ogcinwe ngabazali bakhe usenalo ithuba lokubuyela kwisikhundla sakhe sangaphambili, isikolo, nangona siziphatha njenge-greyhound, asinawo la malungelo. Ekubeni singamakholwa angamaKristu, sasikhusela izikhundla zethu ngokweBhayibhile: ngokuchasene nokuzibulala = ukukholelwa kubomi obungunaphakade, ngokuchasene ne-anime kunye nomoya = ukuvinjelwa kwezinto ezinjalo ngokutsho kweBhayibhile. Kulomlo wabantwana bethu, thina bazali simi sodwa. Bonke abantu abadala adibane nabo umntwana wethu babengabantu be-LGBT okanye babengenanto yokuthetha ngokuchasene nabo. Igama labazali = ekuphela kwevoti echaseneyo. Kuphela luthando olomeleleyo kubantwana bethu, ukholo kuThixo ukuba uya kusikhokelela ngaphandle, kunye nomoya wasekhaya oqhekeza olu donga lobuxoki. Umntwana wethu unathi, kodwa intliziyo yam ibuhlungu ngabantwana babantwana endifunda nabo: abantu abatshintshe isini, abantu abathandana besini esinye, abathandana besini esifana nesibini... uloyiko!!! Ngethamsanqa, umntwana wethu wesibini ubukele umzabalazo wethu esecaleni, uqinile kwindawo yakhe ethi "hayi" kwi-LGBT. Bazali abathandekayo, sinelungelo lokucinga nokwenza izinto ngendlela uThixo awayefuna ngayo kwasekuqaleni: UAdam noEva, kungekhona uAdam noFritz, yayingabantu bokuqala abatshatileyo emhlabeni baza basikelelwa ngabantwana. Abantu be-LGBT abanalo ikamva, abanabantwana, abanampilo, abanalo ukholo. Yilwa, wanga uThixo abe nawe. Ndiyathemba ukuba izimvo zam zinokumnceda umntu. Elena
Ndicela uxolo ngombuzo: bangakanani abantwana bakho? Kuyabonakala ukuba ungumRashiya. Kutheni ungabuyeli eRashiya ukusuka eHolland ukuba unemibono enjalo? Okanye ngaba uhlala apho?
Kutheni le nto befanele bemke apho?Kungenxa yokuba abantu abaqhelekileyo bengabathandi abanxaxhayo?
Elena, ndiyayiqonda inkxalabo yakho, kunye nokholo lwakho.
Kodwa ukuba sithetha ngesayensi (kwaye ndiyayenza), oku kukwahluka kwesiqhelo.
Ukuba ufunda ibhayoloji kancinane, uya kubona ukuba ndinepesenti yazo zonke izilwanyana ezanyisayo eziphezulu, kwaye ilungile loo nto.
Kodwa uluntu aluhambeli phambili ekutshabalaleni, ngoko indaleko ihamba ngendlela yayo. I-LGBT ibisoloko ikhona, kwaye siyaphila. Yonke into iilungile.
Sukubhala ububhanxa!Awuzibandakanyanga nenzululwazi.Ukuba ubuyenza, ubuya kwazi ukuba AKUKHO kufana phakathi kwezilwanyana, kukho ukuziphatha komntu omnye komnye, nto leyo engeyiyo isiqhelo kwaye ayisoze ibeyinto eqhelekileyo.
Ukuba sithetha ngesayensi, ngoko ukuze utshintshe isondo, kufuneka utshintshe isethi ye-chromosomes 5. Kwabasetyhini, le XX, kunye namadoda, i-XY. Yonke enye into (i-hormone intake, utyando) ziimpawu zangaphandle kwaye akukho nto ingaphezulu.Indlela yokupeyinta izikhonkwane ngevarnish.Ukususela kubukho beli seti yeechromosomes, amathambo axineneyo akhiwa emadodeni nakwisibeleko.Imisipha, amathambo e-pelvic kunye nombhinqo wamagxa sela i-6ormons kangangoko uthanda, kodwa oku akuyi kwenza i-pelvis ibe banzi emadodeni.Akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha isondo ngaphandle kokutshintsha isethi ye-0romosom.
Ububhanxa obupheleleyo bubhalwe kwinqaku nakwizimvo. Ukuba bendinosapho olunye, olufaka impumlo kweminye imiba, lufunda imbalelwano yam kunye needayari zam, bendiya kubamba umpu, ndingavele ndibaleke ekhaya. Amantombazana - ulonwabo kunye nenhlanhla.
Sivuyisana nawe - uphambene.
UStalin wathetha ngokulula nangokucacileyo: “Khupha ingca embi ebaleni!”
Ngqo! Asinakuqiniseka ngobunyani boku kungasentla, kuba kukho imiqondiso yokulawulwa kwengqondo kunye notyekelo lokulawula ngaphezulu (umzuzu) oneminyaka engamashumi amabini ubudala !!! umntwana. “Ndilithandile” ixesha laxa “wakhubeka” kwidayari (kaloku, ewe, sonke sishiya idayari kwindawo ebonakalayo xa singabathembi abazali bethu), waqalisa ukufunda ngaphandle kokubuza, yaye naye ngokwakhe wayedakumbile ngenxa yentombi yakhe. uluvo. Ewe, indlela abaqale ngayo ukufunda imbalelwano bengabuzanga kwaye ngoku bayakhala besithi bayayidinga iCorvalol ngumlilo. Ndincoma ukuba ababhali beli phulo bafunde ukuba yintoni indawo yobuqu nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuseka ukuthembana phakathi komntwana nomzali. Ukuba unyanzelisa umbono wakho wobomi kumntu (oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala !!!), umthintele ngandlela zonke ukusuka kunyango lwe-dysphoria yesini kwaye uhambe ngembalelwano yakhe kunye needayari ukuseka ulawulo olungaphezulu kuye - ubuncinci isazela kwaye ungakhalazi ukuba uyoyika kwaye ujongwa ukuba oku kubonakaliswa kwenzondo.
Ekaterina, ke wena ngokwakho uliqunube laloo ntsimi ♀️
Mka, unxaxhile.
Njengoko besitsho, nonke niyagula entloko)
Omnye umama ophambeneyo akanakucinga ukuba unyana wakhe ucele ukuthetha naye ngesini sobufazi. Iingqungquthela kwimbalelwano esondeleyo, ukwaphula umthetho.
Owesibini ukhalaza ngokonakala kwizikolo zaseDatshi. IRashiya eyomeleleyo ithatha indawo ye-39 kwinqanaba lemfundo, kunye neNetherlands engenamphefumlo 11. Usafuna ukukwazi ukucinezelwa kuluntu oluphambili kunye nobuhlobo.
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Kwaye ugula ngokupheleleyo!
Phuma eRashiya uye eYurophu gay!!!
Unyangelwe, Sonya sisiyatha.Ngaphezu koko, awunalwazi ngemfundo yaseRashiya.Ewe, abantu abafana nawe abaneenxaxha abanabuhlobo.
UKhohlukha ulele kuyo yonke indawo, eRashiya, nangoku, imfundo ibhetele kunaseYurophu.
Nantsi ipropaganda yeqhude isebenza. Ezo zizinto ezingaqhelekanga zokuziphatha kunye nolutsha oluhlanjwe ingqondo kucingelwa ukuba konke oku kuluhlu oluqhelekileyo.
Ungomnye ikaka, inkunkuma entloko.
Uluvo lwakho lububudenge obupheleleyo. Fumana unyango.
Yonke into ibhalwe ngokuchanekileyo! Kwaye akwaziwa ukuba yiyiphi imeko yelizwe "eneentloni", "engacaciswanga" kulo mbandela iya kukhokelela kokulandelayo.
Kwakufuneka ukwazi kakuhle umama kaKatya kunye nentombazana ngokwayo, ukufumanisa ukuba ungubani? uphila njani? Kwaye kuphela emva koko umzise ekhaya
Kwakufuneka kuqokelelwe bonke obu bungqina bembalelwano nokuba ngamaqela. Kwaye enkundleni, kwiofisi yomtshutshisi kule Katya. nokoyikisa. kwaye ngoko uguqukele ebandleni uncedo ukuze umthandazele, ngenxa yakho ... kwaye uthandaze ngokwakho.
Luloyiko olungeyonyani! Ucinga ntoni, ukuba i-poop ihonjiswe ngekrimu, iya kuba yipayi?
Ndicinga ukuba emva kwale Katya kukho abantu abanzulu kakhulu abasuka kwi-Pharma corporations, kwaye benza imali ngokucenga abantwana ukuba bathathe iziyobisi, kuba oku kubomi babo bonke.
yinto nje yokuba lo mfana uchukumisekayo wayengenawo umzekelo omhle oyindoda, kwaye kwafuneka akope umama wakhe
Kodwa oku kubonakala kuyinyaniso, nangona umfana akanalo i-dysphoria, ngoko abazali bakhe babekek' ityala ngemeko yakhe.
Kuphela kuMbutho woBugcisa apho ubomi bomntu bunokuba luncedo! Wonke umntu uya kuziva ekhuselekile kwaye ezithembile kwixesha elizayo. Kuya kubakho ingcamango yoBuchule kunye nokuvalwa ngokupheleleyo kuyo yonke into echasene noMntu. Abahlobo bayaliqonda eli thuba creativesociety.com
Ububi buyoyika ukubizwa. Aba Sonya, uNikolai kunye no-Ekaterina bayavutha. Ibonwe kwipropaganda
Aba ngabantu abanokutenxa okanye i-LGBT bots Ewe, inqanaba lobudenge kunye neRussophobia yabo babhalayo ibonakala ngokukhawuleza.
Ipropaganda ye-LGBT ikhokelela ekuzalisweni kwemigangatho yabantu bemibala kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo. Enye inkwenkwana yesikolo iya kube ibone ngokwaneleyo, ivile ngokwaneleyo kwaye iya kuqalisa ukubonisa kwicala elifunwa ngabadlali boonodoli. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwavela ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo - yaba nemibala. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba abantu bemibala abanako ukufumana inzala, iingcamango ezichasene nentlalontle zisasazeka ngokulula phakathi kwabo, okukhokelela ekunciphiseni izinga lokuzalwa. Ukwanda kwabemi behlabathi kuyehla. Kucacile ukuba i-LGBT sesinye sezixhobo ezininzi zokunciphisa izinga lokuzalwa. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwiindawo ezithile, izinga lokufa liya kudlula izinga lokuzalwa, inani labantu abadala liya kudlula ngokukhawuleza inani labantu abanamandla, umthamo wemveliso kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zombono uya kuncipha, umgangatho wokuphila uya kuhla, uqoqosho luya kuhla. yehlisa isantya. njl. Kwaye oku ayikokwehla nje kwezinga lokuzalwa, yinto yokubulawa kwabantu kunye nokubanjwa okuthambileyo kwendawo.
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Nkosi yiba nenceba!
Ndichasene, i-lgbt ikhala umqhagi kuyo yonke into inokwenzeka, le nto isuka ekungahloneli Thixo, isiseko sokulingana, kanye njengokuba kukho ithiyori kaDarwin, kodwa oku akude ukuba kube njalo!
Kuyo nayiphi na inkqubo yentlalo kukho ijika eliqhelekileyo lokusabalalisa. Isiqhelo sisininzi, kwaye kukho ukutenxa kwisiqhelo Le yinkqubo yendalo. Kodwa ingumnqa ngokugqithisileyo xa bezama ukubhengeza ngokungeyomfuneko isiqhelo esingaqhelekanga. Ingqondo yomntu yenziwa ngaphambi kokuba abe neminyaka engama-21 ubudala. I-propaganda inokuchaphazela abantu abadala ... Kwaye i-HSE ngokwenene i-hotbed yeengcamango ze-liberal kunye ne-depersonalizing digitalization kuyo yonke indawo, andiyi kumangaliswa ukuba kunye nemithombo yaseNtshona yenkxaso-mali.
Ndingumntu otshintshe isini, buza imibuzo
Phuma, LGBT bots.
Andikwazi ukucinga umzali oqhelekileyo ongathanda ukuba umntwana wakhe othandekayo ungonwabanga emzimbeni wakhe kwaye ufuna ukuwutshintsha. Kwintsapho yam, unyana okwishumi elivisayo ngequbuliso waqala ukukhula iinwele zakhe kwaye anxibe izikipa ezipinki. Ndalumka ndaza ndaqalisa ukusasazwa kwemilinganiselo yesithethe, ebandakanya oonyana bam abakhulu ababesele betshatile. Bathumela umfana kwicandelo lezemidlalo (i-karate arts). Ndaqala ukucacisa ngakumbi okwenzekayo malunga nam, yintoni imigibe. Kwiminyaka embalwa edluleyo - umfana uye wabuyela ezingqondweni, uthandana namantombazana, unomdla kakhulu kwimidlalo, kwaye uya kubhalisa kwiyunivesithi yobugcisa.
Ndinqwenela ukuba wonke umntu aqhagamshelane nabantwana bakhe, athembe kwaye akhathalele iintsapho zabo. Kwaye ukuba ukrokrela ngokukhawuleza into engalunganga, akusona isono ukuqhagamshelana neengcali. Konke okugqibelele!
Khange ndibone lutshintsho entombini yam. Una 25 ngoku.Uzibulala ngelithi uyinkwenkwe. Kwenziwe ntoni?
Yoyikeka! Ndiyifunde zehla iinyembezi. Kufuneka simangale lo Katya! Ndiyamsizela umfana. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba ikho into ebangela ukuba utata ayishiye intsapho. ULenya, ngokucacileyo, ufuna ukugatya ubomi bakhe obudlulileyo. Kodwa iingxaki ezinjalo zixazululwa kwiofisi yengqondo yengqondo, kwaye kungekhona kwitafile yokusebenza!
Mna ngokwam andikabi ngumama, kodwa ndiceba ukuba nabantwana kwixesha elizayo. Kwaye ndiyangcangcazela kukuqonda ukuba oku kunokwenzeka nakumntwana wam wekamva! Kuhle kakhulu ukuba umthetho ovala ukwabiwa kwakhona ngokwesini wagqitywa. Kodwa ukuhlanjululwa kwengqondo kwabantwana nabakwishumi elivisayo kusaqhubeka!
Ndinomhlobo endimthanda kakhulu kwaye ndinexhala ngaye. Kangangeminyaka eliqela ngoku ebethetha ngesibakala sokuba yinkwenkwe! Uhlala exabana nonina, ekhalaza kum, ndizama ukumqinisekisa ukuba angamthethisi unina aze asombulule iingxaki ngokuzola. Indlela athetha ngayo naye ayiqondwa! Bendingasoze ndithethe into enje kumama! Ndandidla ngokucinga ukuba oku kwakukufikisa, ukuba kuya kudlula, kodwa akuzange kube ... kwaye kuphuze kakhulu ukukhawuleza ngoku. Ndiyambulela uThixo ukuba akasebenzisi mayeza, kodwa ndiyamoyika nje. Uhlala endixelela indlela ambi ngayo urhulumente wethu kwaye ufuna ukulishiya ilizwe atshintshe isini sakhe. Kwaye ngokuzingcayo undixelela ukuba ANDIFUNI ukuba cisgender! (oko kukuthi, umntu onesondo sebhayoloji ehambelana "nesimo" sakhe). Ndiyamkhumbula xa wayemncinci, i-12-13 iminyaka ubudala, wayeyintombazana ezemidlalo, esebenzayo, wayenobudlelwane obuhle nonina, wayehlakaniphile kwaye ekwazi. Ngoku uneminyaka eli-19 ubudala, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha andimazi...
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