OLUNYE UCWANINGO LUFAKAZA UKUSEBENZA KANYE NEKUPHEPHA KWELAPHA LOKUBUYISA.
Nakuba osopolitiki abaholwa yi-LGBT bephasisa imithetho yokuvimbela usizo lokwelapha kubantu abakhangwa ubungqingili abangafunwa, kuphume olunye ucwaningo e-US olukhombisa ngokugculisayo ukuthi abantu abanjalo bangasizwa.
I-American Psychological Association (APA) kanye nezinye izinhlangano zempilo yengqondo zincoma ukuthi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zingawakhuthazi amaklayenti ekuguquleni indlela athambekele ngayo kwezocansi ngesizathu sokuthi izindlela ezisetshenzisiwe "azifakazelwanga ukuthi ziyasebenza noma aziphephile." Icaphuna “ukuchema kwesampula, indlela yokwenza enganele, ukuhlukaniswa kwezigaba okunganembile kwabahlanganyeli, nezilinganiso ezibikwe mathupha,” i-APA igxeka ubufakazi obukhona bokulungisa kabusha ngempumelelo njengokuthi “abuthembeki” ekunikezeni iziphetho eziqinile.
Kodwa-ke, esikweni elingcono kakhulu lezindinganiso eziphindwe kabili, i-APA isebenzisa ucwaningo olunamaphutha afanayo ukuze ihlambalaze "ukwelashwa kokuguqulwa" futhi isekele "ukwelashwa okuqinisekisiwe kwezitabane." Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi kunezifundo ezingu-4 kuphela ezibonisa amandla noma i-quasi-empirical ezihlole umthelela wendlela “yokuqinisekisa ukuthi izitabane” enhlalakahleni yamakhasimende. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi imiphumela yalezi zifundo ixubene kakhulu, futhi izindlela aziphumeleli, i-APA iveza indlela "yokuvuma izitabane" njengethuthuke kakhulu futhi iyodwa eyamukelekayo. Umlando owamukelwa kabanzi uthi uma umuntu ehehwa abathandana nabobulili obufanayo, kufanele amukele ubungqingili noma okungenani ubunikazi bobulili obubili, okufanele kube umgogodla wobuntu bakhe bonke nendlela yakhe yokuphila. Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi abavumelani nalokhu kuqondanisa futhi abafuni ukuchaza ubuntu babo ngesisekelo sokuhlangenwe nakho kocansi.
Ngakho-ke, ngoNovemba 2021, uprofesa wase-Arizona Christian University uCarolyn Pela kanye nodokotela wengqondo uPhilip Sutton bashicilela imiphumela yeminyaka emihlanu yomsebenzi echitha izimangalo ezikhohlisayo ze-APA.
Abacwaningi balandele amaklayenti we-75 we-Reintegrative Therapy, uhlelo lwe-psychotherapeutic olusekelwe ezindleleni ezijwayelekile ezifakazelwe ezisetshenziswa ekwelapheni ukuhlukumezeka nokulutha. Iningi labahlanganyeli bekungamadoda enkolo amhlophe aneminyaka engu-18–35 abakhangwa abantu bobulili obufanayo kodwa abangathanda ukukuqeda, ngenxa yezizathu zenkolo noma ukushada umshado wesintu.
Imiphumela ibihlaba umxhwele: ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, ukuheheka kobungqingili kwabahlanganyeli kwehla, ukukhangwa kwabobulili obuhlukile kwanda, futhi ubunikazi bashintshela kubantu abathandana nobulili obuhlukile. Idatha iphinde yabonisa "intuthuko ebalulekile ngokomtholampilo nezibalo empilweni enhle". Sekukonke, imiphumela yalolu cwaningo iqinisekisa ukuthi imizamo yokuguqula isifiso sobulili ingaba yimpumelelo, ibe yinzuzo, futhi ingabi nangozi.
“Ngakho,” kusho ababhali, “izinsolo zokuthi abukho ubufakazi besayensi mayelana nezinzuzo noma ukulimala kwemizamo yokushintsha ukuthambekela kobulili akuselona iqiniso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izexwayiso eziqhubekayo ze-APA nezinye izinhlangano eziphathelene namakhasimende afuna ukushintsha ubulili bawo ziyadukisa, azinamsebenzi wobungcweti, futhi azikho emthethweni ngokwemibandela yokuhlangabezana nezidingo ezisemthethweni zamakhasimende zokuzinqumela. Futhi, ukwenqaba kwe-APA ukuyala abadwebi bemithetho ngokumelene “nokwelashwa kokuguqula,” ukuthi ucwaningo alusekeli ukulimala kwakho, nokuthi konke ukwelashwa kwengqondo okungokwesiko kunengozi yokulimala, akusamukeleki. Ngenxa yokuklama kwalo okuqinile, lolu cwaningo lwamanje luphakamisa ukuthi abantu abakhangwa abantu bobulili obufanayo bangalindela izinzuzo kunokuba balimale ngokubamba iqhaza ekwelapheni.”
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi abalobi baphikisana kakhulu nokubiza uhlelo lwabo ngokuthi "ukwelashwa kokuguqulwa", njengoba bethi yigama elingacacile, elihlambalazayo futhi elivusa inkanuko elihlotshaniswa nokugeza kweqhwa nokushaqeka kukagesi, okusetshenziselwa ukwesabisa abantu ngokukhangwa kongqingili okungafunwa. Ababhali babiza indlela yabo yokuthi i-SAFE-T (ukuhlola ukukhanga kobulili okukhangayo ekwelapheni), okuhambisana negama elithi "ukuphepha" futhi elihunyushwa ngokuthi "ucwaningo lokuhlukahluka kwesifiso sobulili ekwelapheni."
Indikimba ehlaba umxhwele yomsebenzi wesayensi isungule "uketshezi" (okungukuthi, ukuguquguquka, ukuguquguquka noma ukuhamba) kwesifiso socansi kubantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi kulabo abakhangwa ubungqingili. Yize abantu bengase babe nobunikazi bobulili obufanayo, abathanda ubulili obubili, noma abathandana nabobulili obuhlukile, ulwazi lwabo ngokuvamile alungeni kulezi zigaba, kodwa esikhundleni salokho kwakha ukuqhubeka lapho ukugxila kokukhangwa kunganyakaza zombili izindlela. Indlela ye-SAFE-T ivumela iklayenti ukuthi lihlole ukuhlukahluka kwesifiso salo socansi futhi lenze ushintsho endleleni elifuna ngayo.
Ngokuqondene "nokulimala nokungasebenzi kahle", noma iyiphi indlela yokwelashwa kwengqondo, ngisho neyaziwayo kakhulu futhi ephumelelayo, ingase ingasebenzi noma ibe yingozi eklayentini. Ngakho-ke, ingxenye ehlala njalo yabantu abadala (kufika ku-10%) kanye nenani eliphakeme ngokumangalisayo lezingane (kufika ku-24%) libonisa ukuwohloka kwesimo sazo ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, futhi ama-45% amaklayenti aphethwe ukucindezeleka awabi nakho ukuthuthuka okuphawulekayo.
Ucwaningo lukaPela noSutton lunikeza ubufakazi obuqinile bokuthi okungenani amanye amaklayenti abefuna ukulawula ukukhangwa kwawo nokuziphatha kwawo kobulili obufanayo akwazile ukuphumelela. Lokhu kwenza kube nokungabaza ukuma kwe-APA ngokumelene nokwelashwa kokulungisa, kanye nemizamo yomthetho yokuvala ukukhetha kokwelashwa kwamaklayenti. Abantu abanentshisekelo yokunciphisa ukukhangwa abantu bobulili obufanayo abangafuneki noma ngokweqile banalo lonke ilungelo lokufuna nokuthola usizo lochwepheshe ukuze bafinyelele izinjongo zabo, futhi ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo abaqeqeshiwe banelungelo lokunikeza lolo sizo.
Ulwazi olwengeziwe mayelana ne-psychotherapy yokukhangwa abantu bobulili obufanayo okungafunwa:
https://pro-lgbt.ru/category/articles/therapy
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Uzixakekele wena, umbhedo nobulima akumele ushicilelwe. Ubutabane nakho konke okuthandwa yizocansi angeke kwelashwe, uyakuqonda yini lokhu okubhalayo. Kusobala ukuthi labo “abacwaningayo” ngengqondo, imithi, imfundiso yenkolo, izifundo zamasiko, umlando. kanye nesayense yengqondo ayikafundi.Kuphakathi kokuthi uyisiphukuphuku noma uhlukene ngemibono yalabo ababesebenza kulawo “makamu okuhlola” amaNazi noma ukushisekela inkolo okwedlulele kwaba isayensi kuwe.Lokhu kuchezuka “akunakwelashwa”.
Umbhedo, nguwe nje ongayiqondi i-psychology, ngisho nolwazi lwayo oluyisisekelo.
Yebo, idinga ngempela ukwelashwa. Njengomthetho, konke kuvela ebuntwaneni. Siyabonga ngokuzikhandla kwakho! Futhi bengifuna ukubuza: kungani ungabhali noma yikuphi mayelana nokuxhaswa ngezimali kwemisebenzi yakho? Ngicabanga ukuthi abantu abaningi bangasiza ngezimali iphrojekthi yakho
lokhu kuphambuka kuwumphumela wemibandela ethile yokukhuliswa nokuthuthukiswa, "ukuhlanekezela" ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, ngakho-ke ukulungiswa kungenzeka.
Isifiso sokufakazela ukuthi lokhu kuyinto evamile, ngeshwa iphishekela izinhloso zayo.
Lokhu kuchezuka akukwazi "ukwelashwa."
Nokho, okungenani uyakubona lokhu njengokuphambuka... Emakamu amaNazi, yonke into yayiphambene ncamashi. Lapho, babelane ngokuqondile ngombono wakho, Konstantin, wokuthi yonke into izalwa futhi isuka kuzakhi zofuzo, futhi ukwelashwa kanye/noma ukulungiswa kofuzo “okubi” akunakwenzeka, ngakho lezo ezingathandeki zamane zabhujiswa. Kodwa ngokuvamile, ukuchichima kwamaphutha olimi, isitayela kanye nezimpawu zokubhala kubonisa kuphela ukuthi wena ngokwakho ufunda kancane kakhulu.
Kunjalo, kwase kucacile kwasekuqaleni. Umsunguli walo mbono usanda kwenza imali enhle, futhi umfana owakhuliswa njengentombazane wavele wahlupheka impilo yakhe yonke futhi wazibulala.
Lena indaba edumile kaDavid Reimer, umfana owayengakaze abe intombazane. Okwaba nokungqubuzana kakade lapho esekhulile nososayensi owakholisa abazali ukuthi bashintshe ubulili bomntwana.
Ingabe i-IQ ephansi ihlobana ne-homophobia?
Ebheka kuliphi izwe. Uma kuyizwe elibekezelelayo eline-homofascism eyaziwayo, abantu abahlakaniphile bazothi abazonda izitabane. Kodwa lokhu akusona isixhumanisi phakathi kwe-homophobia kanye ne-IQ. Kukhona ukuhlobana phakathi kwemfundo yaseNtshonalanga nenkululeko, kanye nokuhlobana phakathi kokungazi nokuhlakanipha okuphansi. Kodwa hhayi ukuxhumana okuqondile phakathi kobuhlakani obuphansi kanye ne-homonegativism.
umqondo ophusile uphakamisa ukuthi ubungqingili buwumphumela wenkulumo-ze kanye nokuphila nokukhuliswa ngaphandle kukaNkulunkulu