Kaningi kaningi eqenjini leSayensi Yeqiniso ikheli abazali abalahlekelwe ukuxhumana nezingane zabo ngenxa yokuzibandakanya kwabo embuthweni we-LGBT*. Kunzima ngomuntu ovamile ukwazisa ukulahlekelwa okunjalo, kodwa izinyembezi nokuhlupheka kwabazali abaneshwa kungabasiza baqonde ubuhlanya obenzekayo. Nansi enye indaba engenzeka kunoma yimuphi umndeni, ngisho nophumelelayo.
*Inhlangano ye-LGBT ibonwa njengenhlangano eyeqisayo!
Kafushane ngendodana: uhlakaniphile, wakhula njengomfana onekhono, olalelayo, ojabulayo, waba nabangane abaningi, njalo wabasiza abazali bakhe. Yonke iminyaka ngifunde iminyaka emihlanu. Wafunda izilimi ezi-5 ngesikhathi esifanayo, wathola iziqu ezimbili zegolide futhi wahlanganyela ku-All-Russian Olympiads. Wayethanda ezemidlalo, waya eqhweni iminyaka engu-2, volleyball iminyaka engu-2, eneminyaka engu-15 wagijima izikhathi 2 ngesonto for 15 km.
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Wayelithanda kakhulu izwe. Uthisha wekilasi uthe uma kuvulwe iculo, wayevele avuke yedwa acule ngaphandle kokunanaza. Lapho esenobaba wakhe eMoscow, zamiswa izintatheli ukuba zixoxisane futhi zabuza ingane umbuzo ovusa inkanuko: “Ungamenzelani uPutin?” Waphendula: “Ngingasungula into esungulwe u-V.V. UPutin." Besiziqhenya kakhulu ngaye.
Wayethanda kakhulu amantombazane kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ebangeni lesishiyagalolunye. Njalo ngonyaka, kusukela eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, wayethanda amantombazane. Njengoba ngibona amantombazane, ngashintsha ngokushesha, ngangilungele ukubenzela konke, ngithandana, nginikeza izimbali, ngibhala izinkondlo. Lapho eseTurkey, wathandana nowesifazane ongumJalimane. Wayeneminyaka engu-14 ubudala. Babhalelana isikhathi eside, futhi ngabona izincwadi. Baxoxa ngokuthi kufanele baphinde bahlangane kanjani. Uthe ufuna ukuba nezingane eziningi.
Lapho eneminyaka engu-15, wanikezwa i-smartphone. Futhi ebangeni le-10-11 (iminyaka engu-16-17 ubudala) babona izinguquko eziqinile kuye. Into yokuqala esiyiqaphelayo ukuthi wayeka ukuxhumana nathi. Wake washo nokuthi unamahloni ngathi. Angibange ngisahamba nabangani bakudala, ngaba nolaka. Sabona ukuthi usayinwe eNavalny naseVarlamov. Kwakukhona amahlazo ezombusazwe njengoba waba nenzondo enamandla kaPutin. Wathi wayezofunda eMelika, kodwa kwanhlanga zimuka nomoya - kwaqalwa ukuhlinzwa okukhethekile. Futhi wayenama-hysterical.
Isibalo sakhe sesishintshile: ngaphambi kokuba abe namahlombe abanzi, abe side, enezingalo ezinamandla, kodwa waba yisigwegwe, exega. Iyekile ukusika. Futhi ngangibuka i-anime ngaso sonke isikhathi. Konke okumayelana naye bekugcwele le anime: izitikha, izikibha, ifoni, izigcina-skrini, futhi wadweba. Njengoba kwavela manje, i-anime yayiyisitayela sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, lapho kungacaci ukuthi lo mlingiswa ungumfana noma intombazane..
Ngake ngabona ukuthi usegundile imilenze. Embuzweni othi "kumayelana nani, ingabe kungenzeka ukuthi awusona isitabane?" waphendula, ngokuzethemba okuphelele: "Uyini, mama, ngijwayelekile." Baziduduza ngokuthi inkathi yenguquko, lezi zigigaba zizodlula maduze. Naye wayehlezi enomfundi afunda naye. Kwabe sekuvela ukuthi uyena yedwa owayazi ukuthi u-trans.
Ehlobo, indodana yami yayineminyaka engu-18 ubudala, futhi ngakusasa yasitshela ukuthi izoqasha indawo yokuhlala. Kwadingeka athumele amadokhumenti eMoscow State University, kodwa futhi wasibhekana neqiniso lokuthi wahambisa imibhalo eSikoleni Esiphakeme Sezomnotho. NgoSepthemba wanikwa ihostela. Kwaphela izinyanga eziyisithupha esondla ngezithembiso zokuthi uzofika kodwa ngelinye ilanga wayeka ukubamba ucingo. Ngaphikelela ngifona isonto lonke, futhi wangitshela ukuthi akasafuni ukuxhumana nathi. Futhi kusukela ekuqaleni - kwakungekho ukuxabana, akukho ukuthuka, lutho.
Kuqale kwaba nokucasuka, ukucasuka, kodwa babona ukuthi kukhona okwenzekile, baqonda ehostela lakhe. Futhi "intombazane" yehlela kithi - igqoke izingubo zabesifazane, enezinzipho ezinde ezipendwe, inamehlo ahlanya ... Futhi waqala ukumemeza ethi akasivumeli ukuba singene. Futhi abasebenzi basehostela babembiza ngokuthi "yena". Kuthe sekudlule isikhathi bathinta ehostela, satshelwa ukuthi uyaxoshwa ngoba epasini lakhe washintsha ubulili waba ngowesifazane, nokubhaliswa kwakhe kwehlukile.
Sabiza usizo lwezengqondo lwe-112, satshelwa ukuthi “mamukele ngendlela ayiyo, futhi udinga usizo lwezengqondo, hhayi yena.” Futhi basho kanjalo bonke ochwepheshe bezengqondo esaphendukela kubo. Lapho singena "usizo uma ingane ithi i-trans" ku-Yandex, sashaqeka: ukusesha kwanikeza kuphela imiyalelo yokuthi ungayenza kanjani inguquko, ukuguqula kanjani ubulili, ukuhlinzwa, ukuthatha amahomoni. Cishe zonke izingosi zinemiyalelo: 1) Okufanele ukwenze ukuze abazali bangasoli lutho. 2) Ungakwazi kakade ukuphuza ama-hormone, 3) Bese ubalekela abazali bakho nabangane ngangokunokwenzeka, kangcono kwelinye idolobha. 4) Uhlu lwamaphilisi, uhlu lwezinkampani, kuphi futhi kanjani ukwenza konke. Amathani wamavidiyo alaba bantu, amathiphu, njll. Besicabanga ukuthi umhlaba usuhlanya.
Sibiza zonke izinombolo psycho. usizo, futhi wonke umuntu uthi, kodwa kanjani udinga it - kanjani ufuna, noma kanjani ingane yakho ufuna? Ingabe uyidinga kahle? Sinenkululeko yokuzikhethela lokho akufunayo, ngakho makube njalo. Babiza i-psycho. usizo eSikoleni Esiphakeme Sezomnotho, siyatshelwa: ngena, phefumula, sibaningi babo.
Kwaphela izinyanga ezimbili ngizama ukumncenga ukuba ashintshe umqondo. Uthe lokhu kuyisiphetho esinzima, futhi ngeke ibe khona injabulo kulokhu.
Sake sakhuluma naye ocingweni, ingxoxo yaphenduka ingxabano. Waqala wakhuluma ngephimbo lakhe lomuntu wesilisa, ememeza, ephikisana. Futhi ngithi: zilalele, ukhuluma ngezwi lakho langempela. Thembela. Wabe esekhala ethi akasangikhulumisi, wavala ucingo.
Unabangane abangaba ngu-60 ku-VK, futhi bonke banama-avatar anime. Bahlela izingane nge-anime ukuthi ukuba "transgender" kuhle. Futhi inani elikhulu kangaka lentsha nezingane zilayishwe le anime engajwayelekile kangangokuthi kuyethusa ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo kulezi zingane ezihleliwe. Bahlelwa ngokumelene nabazali babo, ngokumelene nezwe.
Bamletha kudokotela wezengqondo, lapho athi wayesethathe amahomoni abesifazane isikhathi esingangonyaka (kusukela eneminyaka engu-17 ubudala wawathenga ngomoya ophansi ekhemisi), futhi waqaphela ukuthi wayeyintombazane. Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani engasitshelanga, uphendule ngokuthi uyasazi isimo sethu sengqondo ngabantu be-LGBT futhi wafihla ngokucophelela yonke into. Khona-ke, lapho eneminyaka engu-18 ubudala, waya emtholampilo we-Empathy LLC, lapho anikezwa khona isitifiketi sama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezingu-20. mayelana nokwabiwa kabusha kobulili. Ngiyabuza, ungasikhipha kanjani isitifiketi esinjalo ngaphandle kokuhlolwa? Lapho ephendula khona ukuthi ukhokhele ukuqokwa kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, udokotela wengqondo, noma omunye umuntu - futhi yilokho, bakhipha isitifiketi, ngokushesha bahamba nayo futhi benza ipasipoti entsha. Futhi manje ubeka imali yokuhlinzwa, watshela kabanzi ukuthi kanjani futhi kuphi, ukuthi kubiza izinkulungwane ezingama-500, futhi akanayo imali, kodwa manje usewutholile umsebenzi futhi uzokonga. Ngiyabuza, ngoba ubunemali eningi, ake sithi ingxenye yayo uyichithele wena (ukudla, njll.) kanti amanye amakhulu ezinkulungwane ngama-hormone, ukubonisana, njll. Futhi ngabona ocingweni lwakhe ukuthi Uhlala ethola i-SMS evela ku-Center-T, okungukuthi, bahlale beyigada. Futhi ngosuku olulandelayo, ummeli weza emtholampilo kadokotela wengqondo lapho sasivela e-Center-T nezidingo ezisabisayo. Mina nobaba sacabanga ngendlela abasizi abanobungane abafika ngayo begijima, futhi mahhala.
Ngemuva kwalo mhlangano nodokotela wezengqondo, washintsha wonke amafoni akhe, wavala yonke into ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, futhi okwamanje asazi ukuthi kwenzekani ngengane, lapho ehlala khona nokuthi kwenzekani kuyo.
Yileyo ndlela elula futhi elula evela kumfana ohlakaniphile, wezemidlalo owayethanda umndeni wakhe futhi ephupha ngomndeni omkhulu, indodana yethu yaphenduka "i-transgender" ebhubhisa umzimba wayo ngama-hormone futhi ilungiselela ukuhlinzwa. Liyoba lingakanani izinga lokuzalwa ezweni lapho umbuso ngokwawo usiza ekubhubhiseni intsha?
Ngicela usizo!
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Odokotela bengqondo baseRussia sebeqalile ukubiza izinhlangano ze-LGBT ngamahlelo.
Izikhulu zikahulumeni eziqondayo izizathu zale ncazelo yodokotela bengqondo ziya ngokuya zikhuluma ngenkulumo-ze ye-LGBT.
Phambi koMnyango Wezempilo, izishoshovu ze-LGBT fundisa ochwepheshe, izazi zezocansi kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ngokusho kwamaphethini aseNtshonalanga, ukuthi zingabandakanya kanjani izingane ekuhambeni kwe-LGBT, kanye ne-endoctrinologists indlela engcono kakhulu "yokuphatha" ngayo ngamahomoni.
UVyacheslav Viktorovich Volodin unikeze indima ekhethekile ekukhuthazeni indikimba ye-transgender kuNgqongqoshe Wezempilo uMurashko. Kwakusesiphakamiso sakhe, isikhulumi sathi, lapho iRussia yagunyaza umthetho ofanele ne-WHO. Ngokusho kukaVolodin, amaRussia kufanele abuze uMurashko ukuthi lokhu kwenziwa ngaphandle kokuxoxisana kwangaphambili noma isivumelwano futhi ngokuvamile kuphambene nomthetho nengqondo yaseRussia.
Sithumele izincwadi ezimbili ezivuliwe kuMikhail Albertovich Murashko neziphakamiso zokuthi singashintsha kanjani isimo samanje. Sathola impendulo kuphela encwadini yesibili, futhi nalapho impendulo.
UMnyango ukubonile ukubaluleka nokubaluleka kwezindaba eziphakanyiswe esicelweni sethu. Okuqukethwe kwesikhalazo kwalethwa ekunakekeleni kwe-Federal State Budgetary Institution "NMITs PN im. V.P. Serbsky" woMnyango Wezempilo waseRussia. Kodwa ngubani obhekene neqiniso lokuthi odokotela bengqondo baseRussia abazange babambelele ezindinganiso zendabuko ku-WHO, kwakungekho mpendulo.
Ngaso leso sikhathi, ngokusho koMnyango, kunezindaba eziningi eziphakanyiswe esicelweni, okuhlanganisa nokulawulwa kwemisebenzi yodokotela abaphula umthetho wokuvinjelwa kwenkulumo-ze yobudlelwano obungeyona yendabuko phakathi kwezingane, kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwesu. ukuze kuvikelwe izindinganiso ezisekela umndeni, ziwela ngaphansi kwamandla eminye iminyango nezinhlangano zikahulumeni wobumbano.
Ngempela, le mibuzo kufanele ibhekiswe ku-State Duma, Ihhovisi Lomshushisi, i-FSB nezinye izinhlangano ezihilelekile ekuvikelekeni kwabantu baseRussia Federation. Sithemba ukuthi bazofunda lezi zikhalazo futhi bafinyelele iziphetho zenhlangano nezabasebenzi.
Incwadi eya ku-Murashko No. 1 https://pro-lgbt.ru/6590/
Incwadi eya ku-Murashko No. 2 https://pro-lgbt.ru/open-letter-to-the-minister-of-health/
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