Muva nje eRussia kube nokukhula okukhulu kwezicelo ezivela kubantu abasha kanye nentsha "zokushintsha ubulili". Ukuqala kulo mbono kwenzeka ngenxa yokuchayeka entsheni Inkulumo-ze ye-LGBT* enolaka ku-inthanethi. Khona-ke intsha, ngenxa yezimpawu zeminyaka yobudala, ithelelana kalula nalokhu kuthatheka ngaphansi kokuqondisa kwama-curators nama-manipulators.
Okubizwa ngokuthi "iqiniso" transsexualism (lapho "ukushintsha ubulili" kuboniswa) kuye kwafundwa futhi kwachazwa. Lokhu kuyindida engavamile kangangokuthi iningi lodokotela alikaze lihlangabezane nakho bukhoma. Ochwepheshe bathi kwenzeka cishe kumuntu oyedwa kwabayi-1. Okungukuthi, eRussia, enabantu abangaba yizigidi ezingu-100, kukhona abangaba ngu-000 kubo. Cishe abantu abayi-140 bazalwa ngonyaka abangatholakala ukuthi bane-transsexual ngodokotela bengqondo abanomthwalo wemfanelo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, imitholampilo engaphezu kwe-1400 yenza amakhomishana nsuku zonke ngokuhlinzekwa kwezinsizakalo "zokushintsha ubulili". Ngo-15, mayelana "noshintsho lwezocansi", amahhovisi epasipoti akhipha ama-passports angu-20, futhi ngo-2020 - kakade ama-passports angu-428. Lena inhlekelele!
Ukuchuma kwanamuhla akuhlangene nalokhu kuphazamiseka okungajwayelekile. Akuyona nje umphumela we-propaganda enamandla esekelwe ku-"theory of gender" yesayensi-mbumbulu, okuyimibono ephikisana nomuntu engqikithini yayo, kodwa futhi I-INFRASTRUCTURE eyakhiwe ngaphansi kobuholi be-ideologists yaphesheya kwezilwandle, ehlinzeka nge-avalanche esheshayo. -njengokukhula kwenani labalandeli.
Akunzima ukuthola isiqinisekiso sokufana okuphelele kwe-trans movement nehlelo lobushiqela uma uphathisa ongoti ukuba bahlaziye le nhlangano elawulwa phesheya kwezilwandle. Imigomo isobala ngisho nakumuntu ongeyena uchwepheshe: ukuchithwa kwabantu, ukudalwa kwezingxabano zomphakathi ezikhulayo kanye neqembu elikhulu lombhikisho lentsha nezingane. Maduze sizothola ibutho elisha le-"LGBT* -navalnyat" elinokukhubazeka okubucayi kwengqondo, elilungele noma yini. Bafundiswa ukuzonda abazali, umndeni, izwe lakubo futhi bakhulekele uthingo olusentshonalanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukushaywa kwengane kuxosha wonke umndeni ekuphileni okuvamile, uthembele osizweni lukahulumeni kodwa angalutholi, njengoba kunjalo namuhla.
Isimo imindeni enezingane ezithintekile ezithola ikuso sintekenteke kakhulu: cishe akekho olungele ukuveza inkinga ejulile, futhi abantu abazi ukuthi bangalubhekaphi usizo. Kodwa kuwo wonke amagumbi ungathola "izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo" eziqeqeshwe ngokuvumelana nezindinganiso zaseNtshonalanga, abathi lokhu kuyindlela evamile nelungelo lomntwana. Lesi simo sisongela ngobhubhane olungakaze lube khona, kodwa okwamanje awekho amathuluzi okulwa nalo.
Manje njalo ngonyaka amakhulu ezingane zayizolo zishintsha ama-passports, okusho ukuthi izinkulungwane zithola izitifiketi (akuwona wonke umuntu ozofaka isicelo sepasipoti ngokushesha). Amashumi noma amakhulu ezinkulungwane zentsha “asetshenzwa” izikhohlisi ze-inthanethi, okuhlanganisa nabase-Ukraine, kanye “nabakhulile” emiphakathini ye-LGBT* eku-inthanethi. Izigidi zezingane ziyazazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi ziyazwelana nazo, zingawuqondi umnyombo wenkinga. Kunengqondo ukulindela ukukhula okuqhubekayo kwalesi simo.
Lapho umndeni wethu uhlangabezana nale nkinga, sashayela ucingo ngokushesha kwi-STATE city support psychological service. Sabuza ukuthi singalutholaphi usizo lokusiza ingane yethu eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala ukuba inqobe umqondo "wokushintsha ubulili" eyayiwuthole ku-inthanethi. Basitshela ukuthi, "Nguwe odinga usizo. Ingane yakho iphilile ngokuphelele. Inelungelo lokushintsha ubulili bayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, isivele ineminyaka engu-15, futhi awuvunyelwe ngokomthetho ukwazi ngisho nangemizwa yayo kanye nezinto eziyithandayo. Inelungelo lokukhetha uchwepheshe ozoyisekela." Kuyini lokhu uma kungesona isikhangiso sokushintsha ubulili?
Manje kunezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi ezizimele edolobheni lethu, futhi abanye babo ngokuziqhenya bathi "bathatha" inqwaba yeziguli ezinjalo, kodwa lapho bebayisa khona, akukho mpendulo. Iziguli ezinjalo zidinga ukuhlolwa kwengqondo kanye nokwelashwa okuhloswe ukuqeda izimbangela zokuphazamiseka (zihlukile). Angazi ngezindawo lapho ungathola khona usizo olunjalo eMpumalanga Ekude. Futhi udinga ukuqala ukwelashwa kwengqondo ngokushesha, kuze kube yilapho ukuphazamiseka kulungisiwe! Kodwa ingane ayifuni futhi kusukela eminyakeni engu-15 inelungelo. Lowo ngumthetho.
Savakashela odokotela bengqondo abaningi. Embuzweni olula "ingabe uzothatha ukuqeda ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okunjalo enganeni?" akekho owanikeza impendulo eqondile - baphambukisa amehlo abo. Omunye wabo washo ngokungagunci ukuthi idumela lochwepheshe abanjalo lincike kakhulu ekuthembekeni emphakathini we-LGBT*, futhi ukuze ube namathemba emisebenzi, kuyadingeka ukuhambisana nezitayela zomhlaba ... Wabaluleka ukuba babukeke, bahawukele, kodwa futhi akazange azibophezele ukusiza.
Namuhla, ingane yethu isifinyelele ebudaleni, yathenga isitifiketi kwa-Empathy LLC, futhi yavuselela ipasipoti yayo. Ibilokhu izifakela ushevu ngama-hormone futhi igcina imali yokuhlinzwa okulimazayo... Futhi ayibonisi zimpawu zokuxilongwa ezingadinga izitifiketi ezinjalo. Lokhu kuqinisekiswe ukuhlolwa okuphelele nephaneli yochwepheshe abebesebenza eduze nalesi sifo esingavamile kakhulu amashumi eminyaka, beqhuba ucwaningo. Sibe nesikhathi esinzima sokumncenga ukuba enze lokhu kuhlolwa. Kodwa inkulumo-ze inamandla kakhulu. Ukholelwa ukuthi isitifiketi esithengiwe kanye nochwepheshe mbumbulu abaqondisa "ushintsho" lwakhe, abasebenza ngokusemthethweni eRussia.
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Kungani kwakungenzeka ukunqoba ubhubhane lwe "blue whales"? Wayengenayo ingqalasizinda yangempela engaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi kanye ... nokusekelwa kombuso. Lapho abazali becela usizo mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwe-blue whale, abazange batshelwe ukuthi izingane zinelungelo lokuzibulala, kodwa zanikeza iseluleko sangempela futhi zasindisa izingane.
Futhi lobu buhlanya bobulili bunengqalasizinda enamandla, egcwele amakheli, amagama , nemithetho, eminye eyadlula ngendlela engaqondakali eminyakeni eminingi edlule, esiza ekukhubazeni izingane, ukubabulala inzalo, nokubulala zonke izizukulwane ezizayo. Futhi konke lokhu "KUNGOKOMTHETHO"!
Kungenzeka ukunqoba kuphela ngezinyathelo ze-asymmetric, ukucekela phansi ingqalasizinda yale mboni yokufa, eyakhiwe ezweni lethu futhi ibulale izingane ngokusemthethweni namagugu ethu ngezindleko zethu.
Indlela yokususa ingqalasizinda:
1. Qeda inqubo elula yokushintsha ubulili ngokuthola isitifiketi. Ukuhlolwa kwesikhathi eside, iminyaka eminingi kanye nokuhlolwa okujulile, okuhlanganisa nomlando ogcwele wezokwelapha, kuyadingeka, njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili. Akunangqondo futhi akunasayensi ukuxilonga "ukushintsha ubulili" ngokusekelwe emazwini eziguli zengqondo, ngokusekelwe ezifisweni zazo. Umlando wezokwelapha kufanele uhlanganise ubufakazi obuvela kubazali, udokotela wezingane osizayo, othisha, kanye nabanakekeli (ukushintsha ubulili kwangempela akuveli ngokuzumayo ebusheni; kubonakala ngokucacile kusukela ebuntwaneni). Nokho, namuhla, kuyisevisi nje yokushintsha isimo sezomthetho (ubulili), enikezwa abahlinzeki abazimele futhi ikhangiswa kabanzi ezinganeni.
2. Yenza isinqumo esiphuthumayo sokuhoxisa amalayisensi emitholampilo ezimele ukuze uthole ilungelo lokukhipha izitifiketi ezinjalo. Dlulisela leli lungelo enanini elilinganiselwe kakhulu lezikhungo zochwepheshe zikahulumeni (esisodwa noma ezimbili zanele), ngokusekelwe ezindleleni zesayensi ezijulile zasekhaya zokuthola umehluko wezinkinga zendima yobulili, hhayi kumbono wobulili.
3. Khansela ama-passport akhishwe eminyakeni yamuva futhi wenze ukuhlolwa kabusha ngokwezindlela zasekhaya zawo wonke amacala ngokukhishwa kwezitifiketi yilezi zikhungo ezizimele. Namuhla, ulwazi oluningi kakhulu lungamanga ngamabomu. Isandulela esikhulu kangaka sizopholisa intshiseko yabashisekeli benkulumo-ze futhi sivumele UKUSINDA IMPILO nempilo yabantu abasha asebevele bekhohlisiwe (ama-41% "ama-transgender" athambekele ekuzibulaleni ngemuva "kokuphinda abelwe kabusha ngocansi" ngenxa yokuba khona kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo nezifo, futhi. njengangemva kokubona iphutha labo elingenakuguqulwa).
4. Qala ukusebenzisa umthetho ovimbela inkulumo-ze ye-LGBT* ngokuhlobene “nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo” eziningi ezithi ekwamukelweni kwangasese, esidlangalaleni, okuhlanganisa ku-inthanethi, ukuthi “i-transgenderness” yinto evamile nelungelo lokuba yilowo omfunayo. Amagama abo aziwa kahle, ku-YouTube naku-VKontakte benza inkulumo-ze evulekile, bahlangana ezingqungqutheleni zesayensi yamanga, befunda nezazi zakwamanye amazwe ze-anti-science "theory yobulili", kanye nezishoshovu ze-trans, bayaziqhenya ngamadiploma abo, bawazulise phambi kwenhlangano. intsha ekhohliseka kalula, futhi iphendukele kubazali bayo futhi yelulekwa ukuba ilishiye izwe. Amavidiyo abo anokubukwa okuyizigidi. Bathatha ama-neophyte "wehlelo" futhi basize ukuphazamiseka kubambe ezingqondweni zezakhamuzi ezisanda kuzalwa. Lena inkulumo-ze esekelayo.
5. Dala futhi ukhangise eziteshini zombuso inombolo yocingo ethi “Misa i-LGBT*”, lapho abantu (ikakhulukazi abazali) ababhekene nale nkinga bezokwazi ukuthola izeluleko ezanele ezivela kochwepheshe abangakhutshazwanga yi-LGBT* inkulumo-ze ne-pseudoscience. Lapho futhi ungakhononda “ngochwepheshe” abakhuthaza ukujwayela kwe-transgenderism nokunye ukuphambuka.
6. Shintsha ubudala bemvume yokungenelela kwengqondo kanye nezinsizakalo zengqondo zibe iminyaka engu-18. Uma kungenjalo, kuvela ukuthi utshwala nogwayi zingathengwa kuphela kusukela eminyakeni engu-18, futhi isinqumo sokwelapha noma ukusekela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okukhulu - kusukela eminyakeni engu-15, futhi de facto namuhla ukukhetha kwenziwa ngumthetho ... Ingane eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala enokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ngokwakhe ... Umthetho namuhla empeleni uvimbele ukwelashwa kwezingane ezigulayo. Kungenxa yobusha ukuthi inkulumo-ze ehlukumeza ingqondo yenzelwe, ngoba kule minyaka ukuthi kulula ukwethula amagciwane engqondo, ngakho-ke ukwelashwa kufanele kuqalwe ngokushesha.
7. Vikela odokotela nososayensi bengqondo ekushushisweni izishoshovu ze-LGBT*. Kanjani? Angazi... mhlawumbe kufanele ngibabuze? Ngokusobala, ngaphandle kwesimo sezombangazwe sombuso mayelana nendaba "yokukhulula ubuhlanya bobulili ezweni lethu kanye ne-ICD-11 noma ukuyiphika nokuyivimbela," lokhu akukwazi ukuxazululwa.
8. Kuyaphuthuma ukwethula ukuhlukaniswa kwasekhaya kwezifo zengqondo ngokusekelwe kwisayensi yasekhaya ejulile kanye nokusebenza okuphumelelayo kwasekhaya, kanye nezinhlelo ezihlangene (ngokusho kwama-nosologies) zokuxilongwa nokwelashwa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Ungazisebenzisi izigaba ze-ICD-11 ezenza imibono ibe evamile mayelana nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuyingxenye yobulili ukuze kuzuze izimbangi zethu kanye nangenxa yenhlangano yepolitiki eqinile ye-LGBT*.
Inqubo “yokujwayela” kokuphazamiseka okuhlukahlukene kwe-LGBT* eNtshonalanga ayenziwanga ngendlela esekwe ngokwesayensi, kodwa intando yezepolitiki yabashisekeli benhlangano ye-LGBT* eqinile besebenzisa izinsongo, ukuhlasela okukhulu ezingqungqutheleni zesayensi, njll.
Ngakho-ke isiphetho: kuyadingeka futhi ukuvikela ikhaya lethu kulo mbono obhubhisayo ngezindlela zezombangazwe. Lena indaba yokuphepha kwezwe.
Asikho isidingo sokululaza inkulumo yesayensi. Kudingekile ukusindisa izinsalela zesayensi ejulile, ososayensi kanye nabasebenzi ekubuseni kwe-LGBT*--friendly psychologists nodokotela abaqede ngempumelelo ukuqeqeshwa nama-ejenti angaphandle futhi abangami kwezesayensi, kodwa endaweni ye-ideological radical. Baningi, futhi isibalo sikhula nsuku zonke; Basebenza ngokumelene nezintshisakalo zeziguli, umphakathi kanye nohulumeni ngokuzuzisa izitha zethu ze-geopolitical, kanye nemali yomphakathi futhi.
Izinyathelo ziyadingeka ngokushesha futhi ezinzima.
Abazali bezingane ezibanjwe kumanethiwekhi e-LGBT*
PS "Isayensi Yeqiniso":
Uma wena noma obathandayo niye nahlupheka futhi nilungele ukubhalisa, bhala indaba yakho kumazwana. Amagama akho noma amasiginesha angaziwa azosiza ukudlulisa ubuhlungu bababhali bale ncwadi kuMnyango Wezempilo kanye Nohulumeni Wenhlangano YaseRussia. Dlulisela lesi sikhalazo kusekela lakho, okungcono kakhulu mathupha, njengobufakazi bokuthi leli akulona icala elilodwa.
Yebo, indaba isezingeni. Yilokhu okwenzeka emndenini wakithi. Ngenkathi silwela ukusindisa ingane. Kodwa bangaki abazali abayeka, bengalutholi usizo kuhulumeni, iseluleko kuphela sokuyeka. Phela, ukufunda nokubhala ezindabeni ezinjalo kuyinqwaba yochwepheshe abanolwazi oluncane kakhulu, ongasathola ezindaweni zethu ezinkulu ... Umshini onamandla wemibono kumuntu wazo zonke izinhlobo "zezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo" uphula iningi labazali abangaqondi ukuthi yini. kwenzeka, ekholisa ukuthi lokhu kuyinto evamile. Lena inkulumo-ze esekelayo. Esikhundleni sokukhipha ingane ekuphazamisekeni kwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuphoqelelwa kubazali, indawo ezungezile, nakubazi. Kufana nemibuthano emanzini, ukuthi umdlavuza wengqondo uguqula kanjani umphakathi. Lapho "isisindo esibucayi" sifinyelelwa, kuyoba sekwephuzile kakhulu ukuvimbela. Lokhu kuzoba inkundla yempi yemibono emibili: ezomuntu kanye nezomuntu. Akukho okusha. Enye indlela yokudala isiphithiphithi esilawulwayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusobala njengokukhanya kwelanga ukuthi ubani ulawulwa ngubani... Kodwa akucaci ukuthi kungani labo ababhekele ukuphepha kwezwe bakushaye indiva lokhu okwamanje... ngiyethemba ukuthi bazoqaphela maduze.
Ngivumelana ngokuphelele nokuphawula kwangaphambilini kanye nendaba. Ngingumama wengane okwathi, eminyakeni emi-2, yaphenduka isuka kumfana onempilo, yokudala yaba imifino engavamile, isidalwa esiphika yena nomndeni waso, imizamo engu-4 yokuzibulala, ukuxilongwa kwe-F-64 ngemizuzu engu-40, ama-hormone, ukufa kancane. phambi kwamehlo ami. Izikhalazo ezi-4 ngoMsombuluko. Zonke izimo ezingenzeka, zonke ezimelene nabazali abanjalo futhi zikhuthaze, ngisho nasezinkantolo, ziphoqelela ukugcinwa komntwana ukuba amukele ukukhetha kwengane, ngaphansi kokugcinwa kombuso futhi ama-hormone, izibhedlela zengqondo ezine-tranquilizers, ukuphika uju. izivivinyo ezivela yonke indawo, ukwenqaba ukuvuselela, ingane yami kumele ishone ikhubazekile, akukho lutho olusiza ezweni lakithi, uya emgomweni wakhe - ukushintsha ubulili!
Masekela athandekayo, ngicela niyinake le nkinga, osekuvele kwaba wubhubhane olucashile. Manje izingane zifundiswa ukufihla konke futhi ngemva kweminyaka engu-18 ukusika izibopho futhi zenze. Bayingozi bona kanye nezwe, leli bhomu esihlezi kulo sonke. Bahlukunyezwa, izingqondo zabo zishintshiwe, kodwa akukho ukuvuselelwa okunekhono, ngokuphambene nalokho, abazali babo nabo bayaphathwa. Bayalizonda izwe, sonke singamahomophobe nama-fascists, lokhu kungamandla amakhulu, sicela ushaye imithetho yokuvimbela ukubhujiswa kwesizukulwane sonke. Kuyesabeka futhi kuyaqhubeka kufihliwe kuwo wonke umuntu. Imithetho kumele yamukelwe manje, ngaphandle kwalokho ibutho labakhubazekile ngokwengqondo, abangenanzalo nabathembele ezidakamizweni lizokhukhula eRussia.
Ngifisa ngempela ukukholelwa ukuthi umbuso uzothatha futhi ngeke uvumele amazwe aseNtshonalanga aqhubeke nokucekela phansi izingane zethu! Sinengane emndenini wethu, umfana ophile kahle, ovela emndenini onothando ogcwele ngokugcwele, wawela ngaphansi kwethonya lale nkulumo-ze, walinda iminyaka engu-21, waya eMoscow ngasese, wathola isitifiketi futhi washintsha ipasipoti yakhe, manje kulula njengokuyofuna isinkwa. Ngaso leso sikhathi akukho ukwesekwa kodokotela, wonke umuntu unovalo lokuthi uzolahlekelwa umsebenzi.Kudingeka siguqule imithetho ngokushesha!
Ngicela unakisise!
Esikhathini lapho eRussia, izinga lokuzalwa lehla ngendlela eyinhlekelele, lapho sifuna amathuluzi azosiza ukukhulisa leli zinga lokuzalwa, lapho kukhishwa imiyalo kamongameli okuhloswe ngayo ukusekela umndeni kanye nezindinganiso zomndeni zendabuko (Isinqumo sikaMongameli i-Russian Federation yamhla ziyisi-09.11.2022 kuNovemba, 809 No. XNUMX " Ekuvunyweni Kwezisekelo Zenqubomgomo Yezwe Yokugcinwa Nokuqinisa Izindinganiso Zokomoya Nezokuziphatha ZaseRussia Zendabuko "), sibhekene nenkulumo-ze ye-LGBT, futhi manje ukukhuthazwa kwe ukwabiwa kabusha kobulili. Izingane zethu azikwazi ukuphepha kuphela ku-inthanethi, kodwa nasempilweni yansuku zonke. Le nkulumo-ze yathinta nezikhungo zemfundo nezikole zobuciko. Ezifundweni zokukhuluma ngezinto ezibalulekile, uCreed uyasakaza, enyakazisa izingane ukuba zibhalisele iziteshi zazo zenhlamba, zilalele izingoma zakhe ezingcolile. Ngolunye lwalezi zinsuku, uKlava Koka udlala edolobheni. Izinsuku zokubekezelelana zabanjwa ezikoleni, zisilungiselela umbono “wokujwayelekile” okusha. Emanyuvesi, abafundi bafundiswa izitha zombuso wethu ezingagwegwesi. Kuyoze kube nini silokhu sishelela kwalasha futhi singabhekani nokuziphatha kwethu? Izingane zethu sezihlukumezekile, zidliwe yilokhu "kuphefumula" kwaseNtshonalanga. Kakade manje, izingane azinalo ikusasa, ngeke zikwazi ukubeletha nokukhulisa ezazo izingane (ukudla ama-hormone, ukucwiywa komzimba, izinkolelo zamahhala zezingane, ukuzizwa kungenabulili). Ezweni lakithi, kwakhiwa isiko eliphansi elizonda izindinganiso zethu, elibhebhetheka njengesimila esinomdlavuza, elibandakanya amalungu amaningi ngokwengeziwe ngokuqashelwa kokuhlanekezela njengokujwayelekile nangokubekezelela okucatshangwayo. Empeleni ihlelo eline“newspeak” yalo. Ngaphambilini, intsha yethu yavezwa izitayela zefashini ze-"emo", "goths", kodwa lezi zindlela azizange ziholele ekungazali futhi zinqume izitho zabo ezibalulekile. Okwenzeka manje kungabizwa ngokuthi inhlekelele. Kuyaphuthuma ukuthatha izinyathelo ezingeni eliphezulu, imithetho esebenzayo, ukuze ungabhekani neqiniso lokuthi ngeke kwenzeke ukuyilungisa!
Yenza kube nzima izinqubo: ukuthatha ama-hormone, ukwenza imisebenzi yokubuyisela ubulili, ukukhipha ipasipoti ngoshintsho lobulili. Kungani kungenzeka manje kusukela esemncane futhi kalula? Okokugcina, phuma kuwo wonke ama-ICD 10 no-11 mayelana nokubona ukugula kwengqondo njengokujwayelekile. Yenza ucwaningo lwabo bonke odokotela bengqondo ukuze bathole ukufaneleka kochwepheshe. Namanje akukephuzi kakhulu. Silahlekelwa obaba bethu nomama bemindeni yesikhathi esizayo, futhi abanye esimweni esinjalo bamane besaba ukubeletha izingane, ngoba akukho mbono wokuziphatha, akukho ukuvikelwa ekubuseni kwamaqembu abonakele kanye ne-LGBT ku-VKontakte, ulwazi olubhubhisayo. ku-inthanethi, futhi ngenxa yalokho ukuphila okuvamile.
Sawubona, ngeshwa indodana yethu nayo yaba isisulu senkulumo-ze ye-LGBT. Wakhula engumfana onomusa, ohlakaniphile, othanda ukugijima, othanda izwe! Uqede isikole ngendondo yegolide! Ngokuzisola kwethu okukhulu, asizange sinake izinguquko ezenzeka naye, sazibheka njengenkathi yezinguquko .... Manje useyintombazane e-passport yakhe futhi ulungiselela ukuhlinzwa (((. Futhi kulula kakhulu, ngathola isitifiketi esisho ukuthi u-trans futhi yonke into ihhovisi lokubhalisa lishintsha ubulili bakho ku-passport yakho. Umbuso ulwa ngokusemthethweni kuphela Inkulumo-ze ye-LGBT, kodwa empeleni kunomsebenzi ongavinjiwe ku-inthanethi wokubandakanya izingane zethu ehlelweni le-LGBT!Amasekela athandekayo, ongqongqoshe nabo bonke abangaba nomthelela (ngaphambi kokuba kuphuze kakhulu) kulesi simo, siza abazali bavikele izingane zethu, ikusasa lethu! !!
Ngibhalisela wonke amagama.
Umndeni wami ukulesi sihogo. Indodana endala, insizwa ehlakaniphile, umdidiyeli, wazi izilimi ezi-5. Kungazelelwe wamemezela ukuthi une-dysphoria yobulili futhi unesitifiketi sokuhlukaniswa kabusha kobulili. Futhi i-Empathy Clinic. Ngezinkulungwane ezingu-20, isitifiketi sikhishwe ngesisekelo sengxoxo emfushane. Manje uphuza ama-hormone, uzoshintsha imibhalo. Ngisengxoxweni yezingane ezisondelene ezishintsha ubulili. Awazi ukuthi bangaki abazali lapho, ababhekene nalokhu kushaqisa. Futhi yonke intsha ineminyaka engu-16-17 ubudala. Lungakanani usizi kule ngxoxo. Izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 ziphuza amahomoni ngokwezincwadi ze-inthanethi.
Kukhona nesizindalwazi salo mtholampilo, lapho kunenkulumo-ze ye-LGBT futhi bathembisa usizo nokusekelwa kubantu abanjalo.
Ngiyacela kumasekela, nisize ekuyekeni lokhu, nithathe imithetho, nisindise izingane zethu
Amasekela athandekayo!
Ingane yethu iphinde yaphulwa amahlelo okwabelana ngobulili. Kusukela enomusa, othanda umndeni wakhe kanye nezwe lakhe, ingane, baphenduka isidalwa esingaqondakali esisizondayo. Okushintshile ngaphandle nangaphakathi, okukhubaza umzimba wayo ngamahomoni futhi ilungiselela ukuzithena. Futhi zaziningi izingane ezinjalo. Balinganiselwa ku-5000 babo eqenjini le-Center-T lokwabiwa kabusha kobulili kuphela. Ngaphendukela kochwepheshe bezengqondo abahlukene abangaba ngu-10 futhi banempendulo efanayo neyawo wonke umuntu, ngokusho kwencwadi eyodwa: "Mamukele njengoba enjalo." Uxolo, kodwa le sistimu ngeke ingiqinisekise ukuthi lokhu KUJWAYELEKILE. Ngicela uyeke lomsangano!!! Kuyethusa ukucabanga ukuthi kuzoba njani ngezingane zethu ezinekhono!
Endabeni yami, umsebenzi wendodakazi yami wawungenye yezinhlekelele eziningi eziye zangehlela. Bekuwukubonakaliswa obala, nokungahloniphi izinga lokutheleleka kwazo zonke izikhungo esifundeni. Isizathu salokhu kushushiswa kwakumane kuwukwenqaba kwami ukuba umuntu ophendukezelwe nenjongo yokwembula iqembu labanukubeza ngobugebengu balo! Okusho ukuthi, lonke uhlelo lwaxhunywa kusukela ezinkantolo kuya esikhungweni sokuqashwa, ibhange, ukugada, njll. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyi-neo-fascism ngempela, ukuklebhula okungcwele kakhulu, ukuzonda ubu-Orthodox, uNkulunkulu!
Amasekela athandekayo!
Mina ngingufakazi walokho okwenzeka emndenini wabangane bami abalungile.Indodana yabo ingene kule nkinga futhi ngiyaninxusa ukuba niyibhekisise le nkinga yomhlaba wonke.Kukhona ukucekelwa phansi kwezingane zethu, ingozi ilinganiswa ngo amakhulu, futhi cishe izinkulungwane zamacala.
Vimbela ukubhebhetheka kwalokhu kutheleleka, usize ukumisa futhi ujezise izigebengu ezifaka izindinganiso ezingamanga emiqondweni yezingane, eziphula ubuntu nemindeni. Izwe lethu belilokhu lidume ngesikhungo somndeni, sonke sithwele kanzima. umthwalo omkhulu wokuthi yiziphi izizukulwane ezizokhula futhi zidale ikusasa lethu eliqhubekayo.
Yonke le nkulumo-ze yaseNtshonalanga engenamthetho futhi engenangqondo yephula ubuqotho bezwe lethu futhi isongela ngenhlekelele enkulu. Yekani lokhu kubhuqa ngokushesha!
Amasekela athandekayo!
Ngabhekana nenkinga efanayo nomndeni wabangane. Indodana yabo yangena kule nkinga, futhi ngiyaninxusa ukuba niqaphelisise inkinga enjalo yomhlaba wonke. Umfana engimazi kusukela ebuntwaneni, engabonisi izimpawu zokuziphatha "kowesifazane", kodwa ingane encane, engavamile, enomfanekiso kanye nendlela yokugqoka "unisex", ngokuzumayo umemezela ukuthi ufuna ukuba ngowesifazane. Ngokuyimfihlo kubazali bakhe, ekubeni umuntu omdala, ngokusekelwa isikhungo esenza imali ngempilo yezingane zethu, siyabalimaza, wathatha isitifiketi, ngokusho ukuthi wayeseshintshe amadokhumenti akhe, waqala ukuthatha izidakamizwa ze-hormonal ezachitha. hhayi impilo yakhe kuphela, kodwa nokuphila kwakhe!
Ngiyazi mathupha ukuthi itulo lenhlekelele libhalwe njengepulani. Ingane ithola abantu abanomqondo ofanayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ijoyina iqembu elivaliwe, lapho ihlukunyezwa khona ngenkuthalo ngesihloko esithi "izinguquko" ze-transgender zisuka kobunye ubulili ziye kobunye, kanye nomqondo wekhefu nabazali bakhe, umndeni usebenza ngenkuthalo. ukhushulelwe, ngoba. abawaqondi futhi abawasekeli, okusho ukuthi abawathandi!
Ngisho neminyaka engu-15-20 edlule kwakuyi-anime nemicabango mayelana "nobuze" bokuphila. Bese kuba khona ama-Emo namaGoths. Kwakunenkulumo-ze yokuzilimaza nokuzibulala. Mina, njengochwepheshe bengqondo, ngaba nethuba lokusebenza nabazali kanye nezingane.
Futhi manje i-anime efanayo kanye "nemfashini" yokushintsha ubulili.
Umuntu osemusha akakwazi ukuhlola ngokujulile kokubili ukuziphatha kwakhe kanye nemiphumela yezenzo ezithile, imizwa, neziphakamiso ezibekwe ngenkuthalo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana (ikakhulukazi i-VKontakte) mayelana nokushintsha ubulili. Futhi umthetho wethu uvikela umbono wakhe kusukela eminyakeni engu-15. Futhi yini esiyitholayo? Ukutheleleka okukhulu kwezenhlalo ngemibono engajwayelekile esikweni lethu. Izingane zibunqamula ubuhlobo nomndeni nabangane. Baziyeka izifundo zabo, bazikhubaze. Futhi eminyakeni embalwa sizophinde sibhekane nokudumazeka okukhulu nokuzibulala. Eqinisweni, kukhona ukucekelwa phansi kwezingane zethu, okucekela phansi izisekelo zamasiko nezimiso zethu. Sithola isizukulwane salabo abadangele, abalahlekelwe ama-bearings abo kanye nokuxhumana, labo okulula ukuphatha.
Vimbela ukusakazeka okuqhubekayo kokutheleleka ngaphansi kwamafulegi e-LGBT nokubekezelelana, usize ukumisa futhi ujezise izigebengu ezibeka imibono engenabuntu, izindinganiso ezingamanga ezinganeni, ezephula ubuntu nemindeni.
Izolo indodakazi yami yayineminyaka engu-22, ayizange iphendule izingcingo zami isikhathi eside, izibiza ngokuthi u-Oleg futhi ibukeka njengensizwa, izilungisa intombazane enhle ibe yinto ehlobene.
Kusukela eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala, welashwa ngamabomu, njengoba unina, okungukuthi, mina ngibe into yokuziphindiselela komuntu ophambene.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, wayesekelwa cishe yizo zonke izinhlaka eziklanyelwe ukuvikela izakhamuzi ekuziphatheni kabi. Mina nezingane zami saphucwa indawo yokuhlala, ithuba lokujwayela umphakathi. Futhi lokhu kushushiswa kuyaqhubeka. Kufanele nginikeze igama lalesi sihlanekezi, ngubani u-bahaalsya ngothando lwakhe lomfana, njll Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ungena ngokukhululekile, njengomngane, kumphathi wamaphoyisa. Nityagovsky Sergey Nikolaevich. Ngo-1954 R.
Manje ngixhumana nabazali abaningi abanezingane eziphile kahle eziye zacutshungulwa.Ku "empathy" kukhona olayini bolwazi oluvela ezinganeni eziqulekile, ezisontekile, esezikhubazeke ngamakhemikhali nangokwengqondo.Lokhu sekuwubhubhane!Siyacela ukuthi umise ukucekelwa phansi kwezingane. izingane, kanye nokungahloniphi kwabaqashi kuyamangaza, bakhafulela yonke imithetho futhi benza noma yini abayifunayo ezweni lakithi, eSikhungweni T, isibonelo, bakhankasela ukuhlukaniswa kweRussia ibe izingxenye kanye nokubhujiswa kukahulumeni wokuzonda ongqingili! Lokhu kuwukweqisa okumsulwa kanye nehlelo lobushiqela!Londoloza Ikusasa Lezingane zaseRussia!Bayanda abantu abajwayelene nabo, ngisho nasemsebenzini bathi izingane zinezinkinga ezinjalo.
Siyakwamukela!
Indodakazi yethu eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala nayo iyizisulu ze-trans movement. Awudingi ngisho nokubhala umlando wethu, ngoba ufana nepulani ehambisana nawo wonke umuntu. Kusukela enkosazaneni enhle, ejabule ethanda yonke into yowesifazane kusukela ebuntwaneni, onyakeni ongaphambi kwamehlo ethu yaphenduka isidalwa esingenabulili, esibi esizonda yona kanye nathi. Walahlekelwa cishe yikho konke ukuxhumana nabantu, wayeka ukuxhumana nabangane, njengerobhothi - isikole ne-inthanethi.
Umehluko kuphela endabeni yethu ukuthi ngifinyelele ekujuleni kweqiniso kungakephuzi kakhulu, ukuxhumana nengane kwabuyiselwa ngokushesha futhi okwamanje sizama ukulwa nale nhlekelele ngemizamo efanayo. Kodwa engifuna ukukusho ukuthi lesi yisifo sangempela esifana nokuba umlutha wezidakamizwa! Ingane yayinezinyanga eziyisithupha ngaphandle kwamagajethi nhlobo, futhi ngokuzithandela, uyavuma ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle kokukhawulela ukufinyelela ku-intanethi, waqala ukuphenduka intombazane futhi, futhi ngokushesha nje lapho sinikeza ukuzitika kancane. - Izinsuku ezi-4 ngehora lesi-2 kusihlwa ikhompyutha ephathekayo, futhi wayeseKHONA futhi! Usephinde waba kula maqembu njengensizwa.
Masekela abathandekayo, ningasishiyi, imindeni esivele ihlukumezekile ngenxa ye-trans movement! ngaphandle kwakho, ngaphandle kokusekelwa umbuso, asikwazi ukubhekana! Ungakuvumeli lokhu kube ubhubhane olungalawuleki. Ukusabalala okufana ne-avalanche kwenkulumo-ze ye-LGBT kusongela wonke umuntu ngenhlekelele enjalo, uma kuqhathaniswa nayo yonke into eyayisongela izingane zethu ngaphambili izobonakala iwumbhedo!
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Indaba yendodakazi yami iyafana neyabaningi. Sakhula intombazane ebukekayo, amabhere, onodoli, izingubo, idansa phambi kwesibuko futhi ngigqoka izingubo zami.
Ukuzibandakanya emidlalweni yokulingisa ngabangani abadala kusukela eminyakeni engaba ngu-10 ubudala. Kusukela ezindimeni zesifazane kuya kwezabesilisa. I-anime ezinhlotsheni ezihlukahlukene - kusukela kokuvusa inkanuko nokuthandana kuya kokuqukethwe okungabazisayo, okufihlwe ngemuva kwemaski evusa inkanuko yobudlelwano bobulili obufanayo. Ukuxhumana ezinkundleni zokuxhumana "ngezithakazelo". Kulokhu bazama ukuphazamisa, okuthile ukubeka ngaphansi kokuvinjelwa. Yebo, isikole sasimatasa kakhulu. Akukho okusizile.
Kusukela eneminyaka engu-14 wathola izifundo “kubangane” naku-inthanethi mayelana nokuthi bangobani abantu abashintsha ubulili nokuthi benzeni. Ukubukeka, izingubo, ukuziphatha kwashintsha. Ukuma ngaphansi kwegama lowesilisa. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu, amehlo omntwana ashintshile. Baqhubeka bedabukisa futhi behlupheka. Ukuguquguquka kwemizwa kungazelelwe, amaphupho amabi ebusuku, amahlazo nathi. Nokuncika ku-inthanethi futhi uxoxe nabangani kanye nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo. Ukuvinjelwa kocingo, kanye nemizamo yokuxoxisana, yehlulekile. Kucishe kuliwe. Savakashela odokotela abahlukahlukene, odokotela bengqondo, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, izazi zezinzwa, izazi ze-endocrinologists. Akekho owayengasho okuthile okuqondile. Othile wakhuluma ngensimu "yesithathu", othile mayelana nokukhethekile, othile mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele ibonwe ukuze uqonde. Akukho ukuxilonga okuqondile okwenziwe. Bonke odokotela basho ngazwi linye ukuthi lokhu akuyona i-transsexualism, azikho izizathu zokuxilongwa. Konke kushintshile eminyakeni yamuva, lapho kwenzeka ukuthi uthole ngokushesha isitifiketi esinokuxilongwa kwe-"transsexualism" ngemali, njengethikithi lokushintsha ipasipoti ngobulili obuhlukile negama.
Futhi-ke, i-algorithm iyaziwa - i-hormone therapy, ukuhlinzwa. Mahhala, vele ukhokhe. Lonke lolu hlelo luyaziwa, ludluliswa njengezwi lomlomo noma iziyalo kubantu be-LGBT, umphakathi ohamba phambili. Ukushintshela kobunye ubulili kuba umgomo wokuphila futhi zonke izinsuku zibalulekile kuphela uma kuthathwa isinyathelo esiholela enjabulweni yomuntu siqu. Noma yiziphi izithiyo endleleni zisuswa endleleni ngabangane abangashintshi ubulili. Izimpawu ezincane zokungamukelwa ngabazali balesi sikhundla nezinhlelo, kukhona ukuhlukunyezwa okukhethekile noma ngisho nokuphumula, ukushiya ikhaya. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, indodakazi yami ingumuntu onekhono, onomusa ngendlela emangalisayo futhi onothando. Kodwa ubumnyama buyamvimbela ukuba aphile ngendlela emangalisayo. Njengomndeni wonke. Kudingeka usizo. Ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa kwangempela, kwesayensi. Amasu esayensi mbumbulu asekela uguquko abhebhethekisa inkinga futhi aholele ezinkingeni ezimbi kukho kokubili impilo yomzimba nengqondo. Ngiyazi mathupha. Ngoba ngikhuluma nabazali bami. Phakathi kwabantu engibaziyo nabangane bami kukhona izingane ezithintekayo. Futhi lokhu kuyinhlekelele. Ngibhalisa kuwo wonke amagama esikhalazo egameni labazali.
Ngidinga usizo ngempela!!!
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Ngaphendukela kuhulumeni kumuntu weziphathimandla ezigadayo ukuze ngithole usizo, njengoba ekhaya angikwazanga ukumisa ukuthenwa ngokuzithandela kwengane yami, ngangithemba ukuthi ngaphansi kokuqondisa kombuso lokhu kuzoyeka, kodwa akekho obona okubi kulokhu, bonke bangitshela ngokuzwakalayo (sk, guardianship, court,) ukuthi usesimweni esihle kakhulu, ingabe wonke umuntu unezibuko noma ngilahlekelwe ingqondo?
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwaqala kimina. Ikakhulukazi kwi Internet.Akekho owayelindele ukuthi ngizoyiveza lenkinga,bafihla yonke into,nginobufakazi lapho i-Guardianship ithi ziningi izingane ezinjena.Kodwa ziphendula izintatheli zithi uyedwa!Kunobhubhane olufihlwe ngamabomu ngamabomu. bhala usuka yonke indawo abazali abaneshwa!
Umuntu wabhidlika waphelela lapho, e-Center T, futhi baphathwa khona ngendlela efanayo, besaba ukuthi bazolahlekelwa ingane ngokuphelele, futhi bayavuma.. Bangibhalela eCrimea, Bashkiria, Kamchatka, Novosibirsk.
Akekho owaziyo ukuthi kufanele enzeni. Izingane zifana nama-zombies, zizonda imindeni yazo, zinqamula ubuhlobo, zidla ama-hormone.
Sicela uyeke lokhu! Lokhu kuyethusa kakhulu futhi kuyimfihlo!
Sanibonani ntambama, indodakazi yethu nayo yathonywa yileli hlelo, kwaze kwaba yilapho ineminyaka engu-14 iyintombazane evamile. Lapho lezi zinkinga ziqala, kwavela ukuthi kwakungenakwenzeka ukulwa. Izingxoxo nengane zaholela ezingxabanweni kuphela, noma yikuphi ukulunga kokuthi lokhu kwakuyinkinga enkulu, ukuthi mhlawumbe wayenephutha nge-"transgender" yakhe, yabonwa ngumntwana ngobudlova. Kwaba sobala ukuthi ingane "ilungele" ukubhekana nayo, inezimpendulo zesayensi mbumbulu ezilungiselelwe zonke izingxabano zethu. Uma kungekho okuphendulayo uvele athi siyamhlukumeza. Odokotela bengqondo nodokotela bengqondo baphendule izicelo zethu zokuthi lena indaba yokuzinqumela komuntu ngamunye, futhi thina bazali akumele siyifake ingcindezi enganeni, abanye bathi “yimani izodlula yodwa”. Akudlulanga. Ezweni lakithi, isitifiketi esisho ukuthi "ukuhlelwa kabusha kwezocansi kwenzekile" kungenziwa ngokushesha kakhulu ngemali, kusukela eminyakeni engu-18 !!!
Ukuthatha nokuthola ipasipoti entsha ngesitifiketi esinjalo nakho kulula kakhulu !!
Ngaphandle kwezinqubo, izivivinyo, ngaphandle kokuthatha i-anamnesis, ngaphandle kokubuza abazali ngengane! Ngakhokha ngahamba ngayozicwiya. Kulula kakhulu kwababizwa ngokuthi "odokotela" abasebenza kulezi zikhungo ukuthola isikhathi kanye nesimiso sokuthatha ama-hormone futhi uqale ukuzikhubaza, kanye nokuyalela nje ukuhlinzwa ukuze kukhishwe ibele ngemali. njalo njalo. Futhi wazi zonke izinyathelo ngokucacile, lapho kufanele aye khona, yini okufanele ayenze, yini okufanele aphendule, indlela yokuhlela yonke into, unokwesekwa okunamandla kwe-LGBT yolwazi, engokomthetho neyengqondo.
Masekela athandekayo, umbuzo omkhulu umayelana nokuba semthethweni kokushintshwa kweSitifiketi Sokuzalwa! Indodakazi yethu yazalwa, umbuso wayibhala phansi! Ungasishintsha kanjani isitifiketi sokuzalwa esisekelwe esitifiketini esingaqondakali esivela "emtholampilo" esivele sithengwe ngemali!
Ngingumama wendodakazi. Manje kalula futhi kalula waba "indodana".
Ngifunde ezinye izindaba, zonke ziyefana. Konke ngokohlelo olulodwa.
Kubonakala sengathi yonke into iyafana. Akukho ukholo kunoma ubani nanoma yini.
100% kunenzuzo kumuntu
100% amabhizinisi amakhulu kanye nemali enkulu
I-100% ayinandaba nezakhamizi ezijwayelekile (ngaphandle kwalokho bekungeke kwenzeke)
100% izoqhubeka….
Kodwa naphezu kwalokhu, likhona ithemba. Ithemba kubantu abanesizotha abangakwazi ukumisa lokhu obscurantism. Ngikholelwa ukuthi abantu abanjalo bakhona. Ngikholwa ukuthi akulahleki konke. Ngikholelwa esibindini sabo sokuphikisa lokhu.
Ngiyakholwa.
Bahleli abathandekayo! Ngikuthumelele nge-imeyili indaba yami ngicela ukuthi uyishicilele! Ngicela ungiphendule, uma kungenzeka, uveze obala.