Muva nje eRussia kube nokukhula okukhulu kwezicelo ezivela kubantu abasha kanye nentsha "zokushintsha ubulili". Ukuqala kulo mbono kwenzeka ngenxa yokuchayeka entsheni Inkulumo-ze ye-LGBT enolaka ku-inthanethi. Khona-ke intsha, ngenxa yezimpawu zeminyaka yobudala, ithelelana kalula nalokhu kuthatheka ngaphansi kokuqondisa kwama-curators nama-manipulators.
Okubizwa ngokuthi "iqiniso" transsexualism (lapho "ukushintsha ubulili" kuboniswa) kuye kwafundwa futhi kwachazwa. Lokhu kuyindida engavamile kangangokuthi iningi lodokotela alikaze lihlangabezane nakho bukhoma. Ochwepheshe bathi kwenzeka cishe kumuntu oyedwa kwabayi-1. Okungukuthi, eRussia, enabantu abangaba yizigidi ezingu-100, kukhona abangaba ngu-000 kubo. Cishe abantu abayi-140 bazalwa ngonyaka abangatholakala ukuthi bane-transsexual ngodokotela bengqondo abanomthwalo wemfanelo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, imitholampilo engaphezu kwe-1400 yenza amakhomishana nsuku zonke ngokuhlinzekwa kwezinsizakalo "zokushintsha ubulili". Ngo-15, mayelana "noshintsho lwezocansi", amahhovisi epasipoti akhipha ama-passports angu-20, futhi ngo-2020 - kakade ama-passports angu-428. Lena inhlekelele!
Ukuchuma kwanamuhla akuhlangene nalokhu kuphazamiseka okungajwayelekile. Akuyona nje umphumela we-propaganda enamandla esekelwe ku-"theory of gender" yesayensi-mbumbulu, okuyimibono ephikisana nomuntu engqikithini yayo, kodwa futhi I-INFRASTRUCTURE eyakhiwe ngaphansi kobuholi be-ideologists yaphesheya kwezilwandle, ehlinzeka nge-avalanche esheshayo. -njengokukhula kwenani labalandeli.
Akunzima ukuthola isiqinisekiso sokufana okuphelele kwe-trans-movement nehlelo lobushiqela, uma uphathisa ochwepheshe ekuhlaziyeni le nhlangano elawulwa phesheya kwezilwandle. Imigomo isobala ngisho nakumuntu ongeyena uchwepheshe: ukuchithwa kwabantu, ukudalwa kwezingxabano zomphakathi ezikhulayo kanye neqembu elikhulu lombhikisho lentsha nezingane. Maduze sizothola ibutho elisha le-"LGBT-bulk" elinokukhubazeka okubucayi kwengqondo, elilungele noma yini. Bafundiswa ukuzonda abazali babo, umndeni, izwe lakubo futhi bakhulekele uthingo olusentshonalanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukushaywa kwengane kugoqa wonke umndeni ngaphandle kokuphila okuvamile, ubala usizo lukahulumeni, kodwa ungalutholi, njengoba kwenzeka namuhla.
Isimo imindeni enezingane ezithintekile ezithola ikuso sintekenteke kakhulu: cishe akekho olungele ukuveza inkinga ejulile, futhi abantu abazi ukuthi bangalubhekaphi usizo. Kodwa kuwo wonke amagumbi ungathola "izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo" eziqeqeshwe ngokuvumelana nezindinganiso zaseNtshonalanga, abathi lokhu kuyindlela evamile nelungelo lomntwana. Lesi simo sisongela ngobhubhane olungakaze lube khona, kodwa okwamanje awekho amathuluzi okulwa nalo.
Manje, amakhulu ezingane zayizolo zishintsha amaphasipoti azo ngonyaka, okusho ukuthi izinkulungwane zithola izitifiketi (akuwona wonke umuntu ohamba ngokushesha ukufaka isicelo sepasipoti). Amashumi noma amakhulu ezinkulungwane zentsha "asemsebenzini" ngezikhohlisi ze-inthanethi, okuhlanganisa nabase-Ukraine, kanye "nabakhulile" emiphakathini ye-LGBT eku-inthanethi. Izigidi zezingane zijwayelene nazo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi ziyazwelana nazo ngaphandle kokuqonda umnyombo wenkinga. Kunengqondo ukulindela ukukhula okuqhubekayo kwalesi simo.
Lapho thina emkhayeni sibhekene nenkinga enjalo, sasishayela ucingo ngokushesha STATE isevisi yezempilo yengqondo yedolobha. Sibuze ukuthi kufanele siphendukele kuphi ukuze sithole usizo lokususa ingane eneminyaka engu-15 emcabangweni “wokushintsha ubulili” “kuthathwe” kuyi-Internet, satshelwa: “Udinga usizo, kodwa ingane iphila kahle, inelungelo lokushintsha ubulili, futhi ngokuvamile, isivele ineminyaka engu-15 ubudala, futhi akufanele ngokomthetho ukwazi ngisho nemizwa yayo nalokho akuthandayo. Yena ngokwakhe unelungelo lokukhetha uchwepheshe “ozomphelezela”. Kuyini lokhu uma kungeyona inkulumo-ze ye-transgender?
Manje kunezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi ezizimele edolobheni lethu, futhi abanye babo ngokuziqhenya bathi "bathatha" inqwaba yeziguli ezinjalo, kodwa lapho bebayisa khona, akukho mpendulo. Iziguli ezinjalo zidinga ukuhlolwa kwengqondo kanye nokwelashwa okuhloswe ukuqeda izimbangela zokuphazamiseka (zihlukile). Angazi ngezindawo lapho ungathola khona usizo olunjalo eMpumalanga Ekude. Futhi udinga ukuqala ukwelashwa kwengqondo ngokushesha, kuze kube yilapho ukuphazamiseka kulungisiwe! Kodwa ingane ayifuni futhi kusukela eminyakeni engu-15 inelungelo. Lowo ngumthetho.
Sivakashele odokotela bengqondo abaningi. Embuzweni olula "ingabe uzothatha ukuqedwa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo enganeni?" akekho owanikeza impendulo eqondile - baphambukisa amehlo abo. Omunye wabo washo ngokungagunci ukuthi idumela lochwepheshe abanjalo lincike kakhulu ekuthembekeni komphakathi we-LGBT, futhi ukuze ube nethemba lomsebenzi, kuyadingeka ukuhambisana nezitayela zomhlaba ... Wangeluleka ukuba ngibheke, ngizwele, kodwa angizange. zibophezele ukusiza noma.
Namuhla ingane yethu isikhulile, yathenga isitifiketi kwa-Empathy LLC yashintsha nepasi layo. Uzifaka ubuthi ngama-hormone futhi wonge imali yokuhlinza ... Futhi akanazo izimpawu zokuxilongwa, ngesisekelo sokuthi kufanele kukhishwe izitifiketi ezinjalo. Lokhu kuqinisekiswe ukuhlolwa okujulile nomkhandlu wochwepheshe asebesebenze eduze nalesi sifo esingavamile kakhulu amashumi eminyaka ambalwa futhi benza umsebenzi wesayensi. Asizange simncenge ukuthi asihlole. Kodwa inkulumo-ze inamandla. Uyasithemba isitifiketi asithengile kanye nochwepheshe mbumbulu abasebenza ngokusemthethweni eRussia abengamele “uguquko” lwakhe.
Ziyanda izinhlekelele ezinjalo emindenini.
Ukulwa nenkulumo-ze kuyi-Internet akwanele, nakuba kudingekile. Akunakwenzeka ukuncintisana ne-avalanche yokuqukethwe okulimazayo okutholakala entsheni namuhla.
Futhi kufanele siyinqobe le mpi engamenyezelwanga.
Kungani kwakungenzeka ukunqoba ubhubhane lwe "blue whales"? Wayengenayo ingqalasizinda yangempela engaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi kanye ... nokusekelwa kombuso. Lapho abazali becela usizo mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwe-blue whale, abazange batshelwe ukuthi izingane zinelungelo lokuzibulala, kodwa zanikeza iseluleko sangempela futhi zasindisa izingane.
Futhi ukuhlanya kobulili kunengqalasizinda enamandla enamakheli kanye izibongo kanye nemithetho, akucaci ukuthi yatholwa kanjani eminyakeni eminingi edlule, esiza ekugogeliseni izingane, ukuyivala amagciwane futhi ibulale zonke izizukulwane ezilandelayo. Futhi konke KUSEMTHETHO!
Kungenzeka ukunqoba kuphela ngezinyathelo ze-asymmetric, ukucekela phansi ingqalasizinda yale mboni yokufa, eyakhiwe ezweni lethu futhi ibulale izingane ngokusemthethweni namagugu ethu ngezindleko zethu.
Indlela yokususa ingqalasizinda:
1. Khansela inqubo yokwenza kabusha ubulili eyenziwe lula ngokuthola isitifiketi. Ukubuka isikhathi eside isikhathi eside, ukuhlolwa okujulile, okubandakanya ukuthatha umlando ophelele, njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili, kuyadingeka. Kuyinto engacabangeki futhi ephikisana nesayensi ukuxilonga "i-transsexualism" kalula nje emazwini eziguli zengqondo, ngokusekelwe, eqinisweni, ngesifiso sabo. I-anamnesis kufanele ibe nobufakazi babazali, udokotela wezingane obhekiwe, othisha, othisha (i-transsexualism "yeqiniso" ayiveli ngokuzumayo ebusheni, ibonakala ngokucacile kusukela ebuntwaneni). Namuhla, kuyisevisi yokushintsha isimo esingokomthetho (ubulili), eyenziwa abadayisi abazimele futhi ikhangiswe kabanzi phakathi kwezingane.
2. Yenza isinqumo esiphuthumayo sokuhoxisa amalayisensi emitholampilo ezimele ukuze uthole ilungelo lokukhipha izitifiketi ezinjalo. Dlulisela leli lungelo enanini elilinganiselwe kakhulu lezikhungo zochwepheshe zikahulumeni (esisodwa noma ezimbili zanele), ngokusekelwe ezindleleni zesayensi ezijulile zasekhaya zokuthola umehluko wezinkinga zendima yobulili, hhayi kumbono wobulili.
3. Khansela ama-passport akhishwe eminyakeni yamuva futhi wenze ukuhlolwa kabusha ngokwezindlela zasekhaya zawo wonke amacala ngokukhishwa kwezitifiketi yilezi zikhungo ezizimele. Namuhla, ulwazi oluningi kakhulu lungamanga ngamabomu. Isandulela esikhulu kangaka sizopholisa intshiseko yabashisekeli benkulumo-ze futhi sivumele UKUSINDA IMPILO nempilo yabantu abasha asebevele bekhohlisiwe (ama-41% "ama-transgender" athambekele ekuzibulaleni ngemuva "kokuphinda abelwe kabusha ngocansi" ngenxa yokuba khona kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo nezifo, futhi. njengangemva kokubona iphutha labo elingenakuguqulwa).
4. Qala ukusebenzisa umthetho ovimbela inkulumo-ze ye-LGBT ngokuhlobene “nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo” eziningi ezithi ekwamukelweni kwangasese, esidlangalaleni, okuhlanganisa ne-inthanethi, ukuthi “i-transgender” iyinjwayelekile nelungelo lokuba noma ubani omfunayo. Amagama abo ayaziwa, ku-YouTube efanayo naku-VKontakte benza inkulumo-ze evulekile, bahlangana ezingqungqutheleni zesayensi yamanga, batadisha nezazi zakwamanye amazwe ze-anti-scientific "gender theory", kanye nama-trans-activists, bayaziqhenya ngamadiploma abo, bawazulise. phambi kwamakhala entsha ekhohliseka kalula, yababeka ngokumelene nabazali bayo futhi yeluleka ukuba ihambe ezweni. Amavidiyo abo anokubukwa okuyizigidi. Bathatha ama-neophyte "wehlelo" futhi basize lesi sifo ukuba sithole indawo ezingqondweni zezakhamuzi ezisanda kuzalwa. Lena inkulumo-ze esekelayo.
5. Dala futhi ukhangise eziteshini zombuso inombolo yocingo ethi “Misa i-LGBT”, lapho abantu (ikakhulukazi abazali) ababhekene nale nhlekelele bezokwazi ukuthola iseluleko esanele kochwepheshe abanenkulumo-ze ye-LGBT engashintshile kanye nolwazi lwesayensi-mbumbulu. Lapho futhi ungakhononda "ngochwepheshe" abakhuthaza ukujwayelekile kwe-transgenderism nokunye ukuphamba.
6. Shintsha ubudala bemvume yokungenelela kwengqondo kanye nezinsizakalo zengqondo zibe iminyaka engu-18. Uma kungenjalo, kuvela ukuthi utshwala nogwayi zingathengwa kuphela kusukela eminyakeni engu-18, futhi isinqumo sokwelapha noma ukusekela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okukhulu - kusukela eminyakeni engu-15, futhi de facto namuhla ukukhetha kwenziwa ngumthetho ... Ingane eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala enokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ngokwakhe ... Umthetho namuhla empeleni uvimbele ukwelashwa kwezingane ezigulayo. Kungenxa yobusha ukuthi inkulumo-ze ehlukumeza ingqondo yenzelwe, ngoba kule minyaka ukuthi kulula ukwethula amagciwane engqondo, ngakho-ke ukwelashwa kufanele kuqalwe ngokushesha.
7. Vikela odokotela nososayensi bengqondo ekuhlukunyezweni izishoshovu ze-LGBT. Kanjani? Angazi... mhlawumbe kufanele ubabuze? Ngokusobala, ngaphandle kwesikhundla sezombangazwe sombuso mayelana nendaba "yokukhululwa kobuhlanya bobulili ezweni lethu kanye ne-ICD-11 noma ukuphika nokuvinjelwa" lokhu akukwazi ukuxazululwa.
8. Kuyaphuthuma ukwethula ukuhlukaniswa kwasekhaya kwezifo zengqondo ngokusekelwe kwisayensi yasekhaya ejulile kanye nokusebenza okuphumelelayo kwasekhaya, kanye nezinhlelo ezihlangene (ngokusho kwama-nosologies) zokuxilongwa nokwelashwa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Ungasebenzisi izigaba ze-ICD-11 ezejwayelekile, ngokwezintshisakalo zezombangazwe zabamelene nathi nangenxa yenhlangano yezombangazwe eqinile ye-LGBT, ukubukwa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okusekelwe ebulilini.
Inqubo "yokujwayela" kwezinkinga ezahlukahlukene ze-LGBT eNtshonalanga ayizange yenziwe ngendlela ezwakala ngokwesayensi, kodwa intando yezepolitiki yabashisekeli benhlangano ye-LGBT eqinile besebenzisa izinsongo, ukugasela ngama-radicals ezingqungqutheleni zesayensi, njll.
Ngakho-ke isiphetho: kuyadingeka futhi ukuvikela ikhaya lethu kulo mbono obhubhisayo ngezindlela zezombangazwe. Lena indaba yokuphepha kwezwe.
Akunangqondo ukuzalanisa izinkulumo zesayensi. Kudingekile ukusindisa izinsalela zesayensi ejulile, ososayensi kanye nabasebenzi ekubuseni kwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ze-LGBT nodokotela abaqede ngempumelelo ukuqeqeshwa okuvela kuma-ejenti angaphandle futhi bangemi kwezesayensi, kodwa endaweni ye-ideological radical. Ziningi zazo, futhi nsuku zonke ziyanda - sezifundisa emanyuvesi. Basebenza ngokumelene nezintshisakalo zeziguli, umphakathi kanye nohulumeni ngokuzuzisa izitha zethu ze-geopolitical, kanye nemali yomphakathi futhi.
Izinyathelo ziyadingeka ngokushesha futhi ezinzima.
Abazali bezingane ezibanjwe kumanethiwekhi e-LGBT
PS "Isayensi Yeqiniso":
Uma wena noma obathandayo niye nahlupheka futhi nilungele ukubhalisa, bhala indaba yakho kumazwana. Amagama akho noma amasiginesha angaziwa azosiza ukudlulisa ubuhlungu bababhali bale ncwadi kuMnyango Wezempilo kanye Nohulumeni Wenhlangano YaseRussia. Dlulisela lesi sikhalazo kusekela lakho, okungcono kakhulu mathupha, njengobufakazi bokuthi leli akulona icala elilodwa.
Yebo, indaba isezingeni. Lokhu kwenzeka nasekhaya. Ngenkathi silwela ukusindisa ingane. Kodwa bangaki abazali abaye bayeka, bengalutholi usizo kuhulumeni, kuphela iseluleko sokuyeka. Phela, ukufunda nokubhala ezindabeni ezinjalo kuyinqwaba yochwepheshe abancane kakhulu, abanolwazi, ongahamba ubathole ezindaweni zethu ezinkulu ... Umshini onamandla wemibono kumuntu wazo zonke izinhlobo "zezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo" uphula iningi labazali abakwenzayo. bengaqondi ukuthi kwenzekeni, bebaqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu kujwayelekile. Lena inkulumo-ze esekelayo. Esikhundleni sokukhipha ingane ekuphazamisekeni kwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka kokucabanga kubekwe futhi kubazali, indawo ezungezile, nakubazi. Kufana nama-ripples emanzini, njengomdlavuza wengqondo oguqula umphakathi. Lapho "isisindo esibucayi" sifinyelelwa, kuyoba sekwephuzile kakhulu ukuvimbela. Lokhu kuzoba inkundla yempi yemibono emibili: ezomuntu kanye nezomuntu. Akukho okusha. Enye indlela yokudala isiphithiphithi esilawulwayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kucacile njengosuku ukuthi ubani olawulayo ... Akukacaci ukuthi kungani labo ababhekele ukuphepha kwezwe bevala amehlo kulokhu kuze kube manje ... ngithemba ukuthi bazoqaphela maduze.
Ngivumelana ngokuphelele nokuphawula kwangaphambilini kanye nendaba. Ngingumama wengane, eminyakeni emi-2, waphenduka umfana onempilo, odala waba imifino, isidalwa esiphika yena nomndeni waso, imizamo emi-4 yokuzibulala, ukuxilongwa kwe-F-64 ngemizuzu engama-40, amahomoni, ukufa kancane. phambi kwamehlo ami. 4 izicelo ngoMsombuluko. Izikhalazo ezivela kuzo zonke iziphathimandla ezingenzeka ziphikisana nabazali abanjalo futhi ziyakhuthazwa, ngisho nasenkantolo, ziphoqelela ukugcinwa komntwana ukuba amukele ukukhetha kwengane, ngaphansi kokugadwa kombuso futhi ama-hormone, izibhedlela zengqondo ezinezidakamizwa zokuthoba, ukwenqaba ukuthola usizo lwezokwelapha. ukuhlolwa okuvela yonke indawo, ukwenqaba ukuhlunyeleliswa, ingane yami kufanele ishone ikhubazekile, akukho lutho olusiza ezweni lakithi, iphokophele ekuhlosweni kwayo - ukuguqulwa kobulili!
Masekela athandekayo, ngicela niyinake le nkinga, osekuvele kwaba wubhubhane olucashile. Manje izingane zifundiswa ukufihla konke futhi ngemva kweminyaka engu-18 ukusika izibopho futhi zenze. Bayingozi bona kanye nezwe, leli bhomu esihlezi kulo sonke. Bahlukunyezwa, izingqondo zabo zishintshiwe, kodwa akukho ukuvuselelwa okunekhono, ngokuphambene nalokho, abazali babo nabo bayaphathwa. Bayalizonda izwe, sonke singamahomophobe nama-fascists, lokhu kungamandla amakhulu, sicela ushaye imithetho yokuvimbela ukubhujiswa kwesizukulwane sonke. Kuyesabeka futhi kuyaqhubeka kufihliwe kuwo wonke umuntu. Imithetho kumele yamukelwe manje, ngaphandle kwalokho ibutho labakhubazekile ngokwengqondo, abangenanzalo nabathembele ezidakamizweni lizokhukhula eRussia.
Ngifisa ngempela ukukholelwa ukuthi umbuso uzothatha futhi ngeke uvumele amazwe aseNtshonalanga aqhubeke nokucekela phansi izingane zethu! Sinengane emndenini wethu, umfana ophile kahle, ovela emndenini onothando ogcwele ngokugcwele, wawela ngaphansi kwethonya lale nkulumo-ze, walinda iminyaka engu-21, waya eMoscow ngasese, wathola isitifiketi futhi washintsha ipasipoti yakhe, manje kulula njengokuyofuna isinkwa. Ngaso leso sikhathi akukho ukwesekwa kodokotela, wonke umuntu unovalo lokuthi uzolahlekelwa umsebenzi.Kudingeka siguqule imithetho ngokushesha!
Ngicela unakisise!
Ngesikhathi lapho eRussia izinga lokuzalwa lehla ngendlela eyinhlekelele, lapho sifuna amathuluzi azosiza ukukhulisa leli zinga lokuzalwa, lapho kukhishwa imiyalo kaMongameli okuhloswe ngayo ukusekela izindinganiso zomndeni kanye nendabuko yendabuko (Isinqumo sikaMongameli we I-Russian Federation yamhla ziyisi-09.11.2022 kuNovemba, 809 No. XNUMX “ Ngokugunyazwa Kwezisekelo Zenqubomgomo Yombuso Yokulondolozwa Nokuqinisa Izindinganiso Zokomoya Nezokuziphatha ZaseRussia”, sibhekene nenkulumo-ze enkulu yabantu be-LGBT, futhi manje nenkulumo-ze ye ukwabiwa kabusha kobulili. Izingane zethu azikwazi ukuphepha kuphela ku-inthanethi, kodwa nasempilweni yansuku zonke. Le nkulumo-ze yathinta nezikhungo zemfundo nezikole zobuciko. Phakathi nezifundo zengxoxo, uCreed ukhuluma ngezinto ezibalulekile, ekhuthaza izingane ukuba zibhalisele iziteshi zakhe zenhlamba futhi zilalele izingoma zakhe ezonakele. Ngolunye lwalezi zinsuku uKlava Koka unandisa edolobheni. Izikole zaba nezinsuku zokubekezelelana, zisilungiselela ukwamukela “okujwayelekile” okusha. Emanyuvesi, abafundi bafundiswa yizitha zombuso wethu. Kuyoze kube nini silokhu sishelela kwalasha futhi singabhekani nokuziphatha kwethu? Izingane zethu sezihlupheka kakade, zidakwe yilo “kuphefumula” kwaseNtshonalanga. Kakade manje izingane azinalo ikusasa, ngeke zikwazi ukubeletha nokukhulisa izingane zazo zemvelo (ukuthatha ama-hormone, ukuhlinzwa okucwiywayo, izinkolelo "ezikhululekile ezinganeni", ukuzizwa sengathi ubulili). Ezweni lethu, i-subculture enenzondo nezindinganiso zethu yakha obala, ebhebhetheka njengesimila esinomdlavuza, efaka amalungu amaningi amasha ngokuqashelwa kokuhlanekezela njengokujwayelekile nangokubekezelelana okucatshangwayo. Empeleni ihlelo eline“newspeak” yalo. Ngaphambilini, intsha yethu yavezwa izitayela zemfashini ze-"emo" kanye "ne-goth", kodwa lezi zindlela azizange ziholele ekungazali futhi zinqunywe izitho ezibalulekile. Okwenzeka manje akukwazi ukubizwa ngenye indlela ngaphandle kwenhlekelele. Kuyaphuthuma ukuthatha izinyathelo ezingeni eliphezulu kakhulu, imithetho esebenzayo, ukuze kamuva ubhekane neqiniso lokuthi ngeke kwenzeke ukulungisa!
Ukwenza kube nzima izinqubo: ukuthatha ama-hormone, ukwenza imisebenzi yokubuyisela ubulili, ukukhishwa kwepasipoti ngokwabelana kabusha kobulili. Kungani lokhu kungenzeka manje kusukela esemncane futhi kulula kangaka? Okokugcina, phuma kuwo wonke ama-ICD 10 no-11 mayelana nokubona ukugula kwengqondo njengento evamile. Yenza ucwaningo lwabo bonke odokotela bengqondo ukuze bathole ukufaneleka kochwepheshe. Akukephuzi kakhulu. Silahlekelwa obaba bethu nomama bemindeni yesikhathi esizayo, futhi abanye esimweni esinjalo bamane besaba ukubeletha izingane, ngoba akukho mbono wokuziphatha, akukho ukuvikelwa ekubuseni kwamaqembu abonakele kanye ne-LGBT ku-VKontakte, ulwazi olubhubhisayo. ku-inthanethi, futhi, ngenxa yalokho, empilweni evamile.
Sawubona, ngeshwa indodana yethu nayo yaba isisulu senkulumo-ze ye-LGBT. Wakhula engumfana onomusa, ohlakaniphile, othanda ukugijima, othanda izwe! Uqede isikole ngendondo yegolide! Ngokuzisola kwethu okukhulu, asizange sinake izinguquko ezenzeka naye, sazibheka njengenkathi yezinguquko .... Manje useyintombazane e-passport yakhe futhi ulungiselela ukuhlinzwa (((. Futhi kulula kakhulu, ngathola isitifiketi esisho ukuthi u-trans futhi yonke into ihhovisi lokubhalisa lishintsha ubulili bakho ku-passport yakho. Umbuso ulwa ngokusemthethweni kuphela Inkulumo-ze ye-LGBT, kodwa empeleni kunomsebenzi ongavinjiwe ku-inthanethi wokubandakanya izingane zethu ehlelweni le-LGBT!Amasekela athandekayo, ongqongqoshe nabo bonke abangaba nomthelela (ngaphambi kokuba kuphuze kakhulu) kulesi simo, siza abazali bavikele izingane zethu, ikusasa lethu! !!
Ngibhalisela wonke amagama.
Umndeni wami ukulesi sihogo. Indodana endala, insizwa ehlakaniphile, umdidiyeli, wazi izilimi ezi-5. Kungazelelwe wamemezela ukuthi une-dysphoria yobulili futhi unesitifiketi sokuhlukaniswa kabusha kobulili. Futhi i-Empathy Clinic. Ngezinkulungwane ezingu-20, isitifiketi sikhishwe ngesisekelo sengxoxo emfushane. Manje uphuza ama-hormone, uzoshintsha imibhalo. Ngisengxoxweni yezingane ezisondelene ezishintsha ubulili. Awazi ukuthi bangaki abazali lapho, ababhekene nalokhu kushaqisa. Futhi yonke intsha ineminyaka engu-16-17 ubudala. Lungakanani usizi kule ngxoxo. Izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 ziphuza amahomoni ngokwezincwadi ze-inthanethi.
Kukhona nesizindalwazi salo mtholampilo, lapho kunenkulumo-ze ye-LGBT futhi bathembisa usizo nokusekelwa kubantu abanjalo.
Ngiyacela kumasekela, nisize ekuyekeni lokhu, nithathe imithetho, nisindise izingane zethu
Amasekela athandekayo!
Ingane yethu iphinde yaphulwa amahlelo okwabelana ngobulili. Kusukela enganeni enomusa othanda umndeni wakhe nezwe lakubo, waguqulwa waba isidalwa esingaqondakali esisizondayo. Okushintshile ngaphandle nangaphakathi, okukhubaza umzimba wayo ngamahomoni futhi ilungiselela ukuzithena. Futhi zaziningi izingane ezinjalo. Eqenjini le-Center-T lokwabiwa kabusha kocansi lilodwa balinganiselwa ku-5000 10. Ngithinte ongoti bezengqondo abahlukene abangaba ngu-XNUMX futhi bonke babe nempendulo efanayo ngokwebhukwana elifanayo: “Mamukele njengoba enjalo.” Uxolo, kodwa le sistimu ngeke ingiqinisekise ukuthi lokhu KUJWAYELEKILE. Ngicela uyeke lomsangano!!! Kuyethusa ukucabanga ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ezinganeni zethu ezinekhono!
Endabeni yami, umsebenzi wendodakazi yami wawungenye yezinhlekelele eziningi eziye zangehlela. Bekuwukubonakaliswa obala, nokungahloniphi izinga lokutheleleka kwazo zonke izikhungo esifundeni. Isizathu salokhu kushushiswa kwakumane kuwukwenqaba kwami ukuba umuntu ophendukezelwe nenjongo yokwembula iqembu labanukubeza ngobugebengu balo! Okusho ukuthi, lonke uhlelo lwaxhunywa kusukela ezinkantolo kuya esikhungweni sokuqashwa, ibhange, ukugada, njll. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyi-neo-fascism ngempela, ukuklebhula okungcwele kakhulu, ukuzonda ubu-Orthodox, uNkulunkulu!
Amasekela athandekayo!
Mina ngingufakazi walokho okwenzeka emndenini wabangane bami abalungile.Indodana yabo ingene kule nkinga futhi ngiyaninxusa ukuba niyibhekisise le nkinga yomhlaba wonke.Kukhona ukucekelwa phansi kwezingane zethu, ingozi ilinganiswa ngo amakhulu, futhi cishe izinkulungwane zamacala.
Vimbela ukubhebhetheka kwalokhu kutheleleka, usize ukumisa futhi ujezise izigebengu ezifaka izindinganiso ezingamanga emiqondweni yezingane, eziphula ubuntu nemindeni. Izwe lethu belilokhu lidume ngesikhungo somndeni, sonke sithwele kanzima. umthwalo omkhulu wokuthi yiziphi izizukulwane ezizokhula futhi zidale ikusasa lethu eliqhubekayo.
Yonke le nkulumo-ze yaseNtshonalanga engenamthetho futhi engenangqondo yephula ubuqotho bezwe lethu futhi isongela ngenhlekelele enkulu. Yekani lokhu kubhuqa ngokushesha!
Amasekela athandekayo!
Ngabhekana nenkinga efanayo emkhayeni wabangane. Indodana yabo ikule nkinga, futhi ngiyaninxusa ukuba niyibhekisise le nkinga yomhlaba wonke. Umfana engimazi kusukela ebuntwaneni, ongazange abonise noma yiziphi izimpawu zokuziphatha "kowesifazane", kodwa ongumntwana, ongaqondakali, onomfanekiso "we-unisex" nendlela yokugqoka, ngokuzumayo umemezela ukuthi ufuna ukuba ngowesifazane. Ngokuyimfihlo kubazali bakhe, njengomuntu omdala, ngokusekelwa isikhungo esenza imali ngempilo yezingane zethu, sikhohlakele, wathatha isitifiketi, ngokusho ukuthi wayeseshintshe amaphepha akhe, waqala ukuthatha izidakamizwa ze-hormonal, echitha. hhayi impilo yakhe kuphela, kodwa nokuphila kwakhe!
Ngiyazi mathupha ukuthi itulo lenhlekelele libhalwe njengekhophi yekhabhoni. Ingane ithola abantu abanomqondo ofanayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ijoyina iqembu elivaliwe, lapho "ingqondo" ngenkuthalo ngesihloko esithi "izinguquko" ze-transgender zisuka kobunye ubulili ziye kobunye, kanye nomqondo wokuhlukana nabazali nomndeni. iyakhuthazwa ngenkuthalo, ngoba... Ababaqondi futhi abakaze babasekele, okusho ukuthi ababathandi!
Eminyakeni engu-15-20 nje edlule kwakuyi-anime nemicabango mayelana "nobuze" bokuphila. Bese kuba khona ama-Emo namaGoths. Kwakunenkulumo-ze yokuzilimaza nokuzibulala. Njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, ngaba nethuba lokusebenza nabazali nezingane.
Futhi manje i-anime efanayo kanye "nemfashini" yokunikezwa kabusha kobulili.
Umuntu osemusha akakwazi ukuhlola ngokujulile ukuziphatha kwakhe, kanye nemiphumela yezenzo ezithile, imizwa, neziphakamiso ezibekwe ngenkuthalo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana (ikakhulukazi "VKontakte") mayelana nokwabiwa kabusha kobulili. Futhi umthetho wethu uvikela umbono wakhe kusukela eminyakeni engu-15. Pho sitholani? Ukutheleleka okukhulu kwezenhlalo ngemibono engajwayelekile esikweni lethu. Izingane zibunqamula ubuhlobo nomndeni nabangane. Baziyeka izifundo zabo bazilimaza. Futhi eminyakeni embalwa sizophinde sibhekane nokudumazeka okukhulu nokuzibulala. Empeleni, kukhona ukucekelwa phansi kwezingane zethu, okucekela phansi izisekelo zamasiko nezimiso zethu. Sithola isizukulwane salabo abadumele, abalahlekelwe yiziqondiso zabo kanye nokuxhumana, labo okulula ukubalawula.
Vimbela ukusakazeka okuqhubekayo kokutheleleka ngaphansi kwamafulegi e-LGBT nokubekezelelana, usize ukumisa futhi ujezise izigebengu ezibeka imibono engenabuntu, izindinganiso ezingamanga ezinganeni, ezephula ubuntu nemindeni.
Izolo indodakazi yami yayineminyaka engu-22, ayizange iphendule izingcingo zami isikhathi eside, izibiza ngokuthi u-Oleg futhi ibukeka njengensizwa, izilungisa intombazane enhle ibe yinto ehlobene.
Kusukela eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala, welashwa ngamabomu, njengoba unina, okungukuthi, mina ngibe into yokuziphindiselela komuntu ophambene.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, wayesekelwa cishe yizo zonke izinhlaka eziklanyelwe ukuvikela izakhamuzi ekuziphatheni kabi. Mina nezingane zami saphucwa indawo yokuhlala, ithuba lokujwayela umphakathi. Futhi lokhu kushushiswa kuyaqhubeka. Kufanele nginikeze igama lalesi sihlanekezi, ngubani u-bahaalsya ngothando lwakhe lomfana, njll Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ungena ngokukhululekile, njengomngane, kumphathi wamaphoyisa. Nityagovsky Sergey Nikolaevich. Ngo-1954 R.
Manje ngixhumana nabazali abaningi abanezingane eziphile kahle ezike zafakwa ngaphansi kwe-trans-processing.Esihawuni, kunezingane eziqulekile, ezigwegwile, esezikhubazekile ngokwengqondo nasemzimbeni zikleliswe ukuthola izitifiketi.Lokhu sekuwubhubhane! ukuqothulwa kwezingane, kanye nokungahloniphi kwabaqashi kuyamangalisa, bakhafulela yonke imithetho futhi benza noma yini abayifunayo ezweni lakithi, esikhungweni, isibonelo, bagqugquzela ukuhlukaniswa kweRussia ibe izingxenye kanye nokubhujiswa kwabantu abathandana nobulili obufanayo. uhulumeni!Lokhu kuwukweqisa okumsulwa kanye nehlelo lobushiqela!Londoloza Ikusasa LeRussia - izingane!Bayanda abajwayelene nabo, Ngisho Nasemsebenzini bathi kunezinkinga ezinjalo ezinganeni.
Siyakwamukela!
Indodakazi yethu eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala nayo yaba isisulu se-trans movement. Awudingi ngisho nokubhala umlando wethu, ngoba ufana nekhophi yekhabhoni yawo wonke umuntu. Kusukela enkosazaneni enhle, ejabule ekhonze konke okowesifazane ngaye kusukela ebuntwaneni, onyakeni ongaphambi kwamehlo ethu yaphenduka isidalwa esingenabulili, esibi esizizondayo kanye nathi. Walahlekelwa cishe yikho konke ukuxhumana nabantu, wayeka ukuxhumana nabangane, njengerobhothi - isikole ne-inthanethi.
Umehluko nje endabeni yethu ukuthi ngifinyelele ekujuleni kweqiniso kungakephuzi kakhulu, ukuxhumana nengane kwabuyiselwa ngokushesha futhi okwamanje sizama ndawonye ukulwa nale nhlekelele. Kodwa engifuna ukukusho ukuthi lesi yisifo sangempela esifana nokuba umlutha wezidakamizwa! Ingane yayinezinyanga eziyisithupha ngaphandle kwamagajethi nhlobo, futhi ngokuzithandela, uyavuma ukuthi ngaphandle kokukhawulela ukufinyelela ku-Inthanethi ngeke akwazi ukuphuma, waqala ukuphenduka intombazane futhi, futhi kwakudingeka sinikeze impumuzo kancane - Izinsuku ezi-4, amahora angu-2 kusihlwa kwi-laptop, futhi wayeseLAPHO futhi! Ubuyile kula maqembu njengomfana.
Masekela abathandekayo, ningasishiyi, imindeni esivele ihlukumezekile ngenxa ye-trans movement! ngaphandle kwakho, ngaphandle kokusekelwa umbuso, asikwazi ukubhekana! Ungakuvumeli lokhu kube ubhubhane olungalawuleki. Ukusabalala okufana ne-avalanche kwenkulumo-ze ye-LGBT kusongela wonke umuntu ngenhlekelele enjalo, uma kuqhathaniswa nayo yonke into eyayisongela izingane zethu ngaphambili izobonakala iwumbhedo!
Indaba yendodakazi yami iyafana neyabaningi. Sakhula intombazane ebukekayo, amabhere, onodoli, izingubo, idansa phambi kwesibuko futhi ngigqoka izingubo zami.
Ukuzibandakanya emidlalweni yokulingisa nabangani abadala kusukela eminyakeni engaba ngu-10 ubudala. Ushintsho olusuka ezindimeni zesifazane ukuya kwezabesilisa. I-anime ezinhlotsheni ezihlukahlukene - kusukela kokuvusa inkanuko nokuthandana kuya kokuqukethwe okungabazisayo, okufihlwe ngemuva kwemaski evusa inkanuko yobudlelwano bobulili obufanayo. Ukuxhumana ezinkundleni zokuxhumana okusekelwe ezintweni ozithakaselayo. Bazama ukuphazamisa kulokhu ngokubeka okuthile ngaphansi kokuvinjelwa. Futhi umsebenzi wesikole wawunzima. Akukho okusizile.
Kusukela ngineminyaka engu-14, ngathola izifundo “kubangane” ne-Internet mayelana nokuthi bangobani abantu abashintsha ubulili nokuthi benzeni. Ukubukeka, okokugqoka, ukuziphatha kwashintsha. Ukuma ngaphansi kwegama lowesilisa. Kodwa into eyinhloko ukuthi amehlo omntwana ashintshile. Baqala ukudabuka nokuhlupheka. Ukuguquguquka kwemizwa kungazelelwe, amaphupho amabi ebusuku, amahlazo nathi. Futhi umlutha we-inthanethi futhi uxoxe nabangane nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo. Ukuvinjelwa kocingo, kanye nemizamo yokuxoxisana, yehlulekile. Kucishe kuliwe. Savakashela odokotela abahlukene, odokotela bengqondo, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, izazi zezinzwa, izazi ze-endocrinologists. Akekho owayengasho okuthile okuphathekayo. Othile wakhuluma ngensimu “yesithathu,” othile mayelana nokukhethekile, othile mayelana neqiniso lokuthi udinga ukubhekwa ukuze ukuthole. Akukho ukuxilonga okuqondile okwenziwe. Bonke odokotela basho ngazwi linye ukuthi lokhu akuyona i-transsexualism, asikho isisekelo sokuxilongwa. Konke kushintshile eminyakeni yamuva, lapho kwenzeka ukuthi uthole ngokushesha isitifiketi esinokuxilongwa kwe-"transsexualism" ngemali, njengethikithi lokushintsha ipasipoti ngobulili obuhlukile negama.
Futhi-ke, i-algorithm iyaziwa - i-hormone therapy, ukuhlinzwa. Akunankinga, vele ukhokhe. Lonke lolu hlelo luyaziwa, ludluliswa njengezwi lomlomo, noma njengomlayezo oya ku-LGBT kanye nomphakathi wabathengi. Ukushintshela kobunye ubulili kuba umgomo wempilo futhi zonke izinsuku zibalulekile kuphela uma kuthathwa isinyathelo esibheke enjabulweni yomuntu siqu. Noma yiziphi izithiyo endleleni zisuswa endleleni ngabangane abangakusekeli ukunikezwa kabusha kobulili. Izimpawu ezincane zokungamukeli kwabazali lesi sikhundla nezinhlelo ziholela ekuhlukumezeni okukhethekile noma ngisho nokuhlukana, ukushiya ikhaya. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, indodakazi yami ingumuntu onekhono, onomusa ngendlela emangalisayo futhi onothando. Kodwa ubumnyama buyamvimbela ukuba aphile ngendlela emangalisayo. Njengoba kwenza umndeni wonke. Kudingeka usizo. Ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa kwangempela, kwesayensi. Izindlela ze-pseudoscientific ezisekela inguquko zenza inkinga ibe yimbi kakhulu futhi iholele ezinkingeni ezimbi kokubili nempilo engokwengqondo. Ngiyazi mathupha. Ngoba ngixhumana nabazali bami. Phakathi kwabantu engibaziyo nabangane bami kukhona izingane ezilimele. Futhi lokhu kuyinhlekelele. Ngibhalisa kuwo wonke amagama esikhalazo egameni labazali.
Ngidinga usizo ngempela!!!
Sawubona, ngemva kokuqopha uhlelo lwe-TV e-Perm NTV, lapho ngaphatheka kabi lapho ngibona indodana yami, okokuqala ngqa onyakeni, yilokho! Qonda? Yilokho! Umonakalo empilweni usuvele ungenakulungiseka! izihlathi, ukunikina ikhanda lentombazane .Wadla amaphilisi ayewanikwe odokotela bengqondo wachitha unyaka wonke edla amahomoni!ngeke ngibathole abazukulu kodwa uzoba nabantwana!
Ngaphendukela kuhulumeni kumuntu weziphathimandla ezigadayo ukuze ngithole usizo, njengoba ekhaya angikwazanga ukumisa ukuthenwa ngokuzithandela kwengane yami, ngangithemba ukuthi ngaphansi kokuqondisa kombuso lokhu kuzoyeka, kodwa akekho obona okubi kulokhu, bonke bangitshela ngokuzwakalayo (sk, guardianship, court,) ukuthi usesimweni esihle kakhulu, ingabe wonke umuntu unezibuko noma ngilahlekelwe ingqondo?
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwaqala kimina. Ikakhulukazi kwi Internet.Akekho owayelindele ukuthi ngizoyiveza lenkinga,bafihla yonke into,nginobufakazi lapho i-Guardianship ithi ziningi izingane ezinjena.Kodwa ziphendula izintatheli zithi uyedwa!Kunobhubhane olufihlwe ngamabomu ngamabomu. bhala usuka yonke indawo abazali abaneshwa!
Umuntu wabhidlika waphelela lapho, e-Center T, futhi baphathwa khona ngendlela efanayo, besaba ukuthi bazolahlekelwa ingane ngokuphelele, futhi bayavuma.. Bangibhalela eCrimea, Bashkiria, Kamchatka, Novosibirsk.
Akekho owaziyo ukuthi kufanele enzeni. Izingane zifana nama-zombies, zizonda imindeni yazo, zinqamula ubuhlobo, zidla ama-hormone.
Sicela uyeke lokhu! Lokhu kuyethusa kakhulu futhi kuyimfihlo!
Sawubona, indodakazi yethu nayo yaba ngaphansi kwethonya lehlelo, futhi kwaze kwaba yilapho ineminyaka engu-14 yayiyintombazane evamile. Lapho lezi zinkinga ziqala, kwavela ukuthi kwakungenakwenzeka ukulwa. Izingxoxo nengane zaholela ezingxabanweni kuphela; noma yiziphi izizathu zokuthi lokhu kwakuyinkinga enkulu, ukuthi mhlawumbe wayenephutha ngokuthi "i-transgenderness" yakhe, ingane yakubona ngobudlova. Kwakusobala ukuthi ingane “yayikulungele” ukungqubuzana nayo; yayilungiselele izimpendulo ezingezona ezesayensi kuzo zonke izingxabano zethu. Uma kungekho okuphendulayo uvele athi siyamhlukumeza. Odokotela bengqondo nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo basabela ezicelweni zethu zokuthi lokhu kuyindaba yokuzikhethela komuntu siqu, futhi thina bazali akufanele siyicindezele ingane, abanye bathi “lindani, izozihambela yona.” Akudlulanga. Ezweni lakithi, isitifiketi esisho ukuthi "ukulungiswa kabusha kwezocansi kwenzekile" singatholakala ngokushesha kakhulu ngemali, kusukela eminyakeni engu-18 !!!
Ukuthatha nokuthola ipasipoti entsha ngesitifiketi esinjalo nakho kulula kakhulu !!
Ngaphandle kwezinqubo, izivivinyo, ngaphandle kokuqoqa ama-anamnesis, ngaphandle kokubuza abazali ngengane! Ngakhokha ngahamba ngayozilimaza. Kulula kakhulu ukuthola incwadi kadokotela kanye nohlu lwemithi yokuthatha amahomoni avela kwababizwa “ngodokotela” abasebenza kulezi zikhungo bese uqala ukuzicwiya izitho zomzimba, noma umane uyale ukuhlinzwa kokukhishwa kwebele ngemali. njalo njalo. Futhi wazi zonke izinyathelo ngokucace kakhulu, lapho kufanele aye khona, yini okufanele ayenze, yini okufanele aphendule, indlela yokwenza yonke into ibe semthethweni, futhi unokusekelwa okunamandla kwe-LGBT kolwazi, kwezomthetho nengqondo.
Masekela athandekayo, kunombuzo omkhulu mayelana nokuba semthethweni kokushintshwa kweSitifiketi Sokuzalwa! Indodakazi yethu yazalwa, umbuso wayibhala phansi! Ungasishintsha kanjani isitifiketi sokuzalwa usebenzisa isitifiketi esingaqondakali esivela "emtholampilo", esivele sithengelwe imali!
Ngingumama wendodakazi. Manje kalula futhi kalula waba "indodana".
Ngifunde ezinye izindaba, zonke ziyefana. Konke ngokohlelo olulodwa.
Kubonakala sengathi yonke into iyafana. Akukho ukholo kunoma ubani nanoma yini.
100% kunenzuzo kumuntu
100% amabhizinisi amakhulu kanye nemali enkulu
I-100% ayinandaba nezakhamizi ezijwayelekile (ngaphandle kwalokho bekungeke kwenzeke)
100% izoqhubeka….
Kodwa naphezu kwalokhu, likhona ithemba. Ithemba kubantu abanesizotha abangakwazi ukumisa lokhu obscurantism. Ngikholelwa ukuthi abantu abanjalo bakhona. Ngikholwa ukuthi akulahleki konke. Ngikholelwa esibindini sabo sokuphikisa lokhu.
Ngiyakholwa.
Bahleli abathandekayo! Ngikuthumelele nge-imeyili indaba yami ngicela ukuthi uyishicilele! Ngicela ungiphendule, uma kungenzeka, uveze obala.