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Kugonana komanso jenda

zomwe zimadziwika kuchokera kafukufuku:
Mapeto kuchokera ku sayansi yazachilengedwe, zamaganizidwe ndi chikhalidwe

Dr. Paul McHugh, MD - Mutu wa Dipatimenti ya Psychiatry ku Johns Hopkins University, katswiri wazamisala wazaka zaposachedwa, wofufuza, pulofesa komanso mphunzitsi.
 Dr. Lawrence Meyer, MB, MS, Ph.D. - Wasayansi mu dipatimenti ya Psychiatry ku Johns Hopkins University, pulofesa ku Arizona State University, wopanga mawerengero, katswiri wofufuza zam'mawu, katswiri pachitukuko, kusanthula ndi kutanthauzira kwa njira zoyesera komanso zowunikira pazokhudza zaumoyo ndi zamankhwala.

Chidule

Mu 2016, asayansi awiri otsogola ochokera ku Johns Hopkins Research University adasindikiza chikalata chofotokozera mwachidule zonse zofufuza zachilengedwe, zamaganizidwe ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu pankhani yazakugonana komanso kudziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi. Olembawo, omwe amathandizira kwambiri kufanana ndikutsutsa kusalana kwa LGBT, akuyembekeza kuti chidziwitso chomwe chingapatsidwe chitha kupatsa mphamvu madotolo, asayansi ndi nzika - tonsefe - kuthana ndi mavuto azaumoyo omwe akukumana ndi anthu a LGBT mdera lathu. 

Zotsatira zazikuluzikulu za lipotilo:

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Nkhondo yanthawi zonse - Gerard Aardweg

Chitsogozo cha kudzichiritsa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kutengera zaka makumi atatu zokhudzana ndi zochiritsa za wolemba amene adagwira ntchito ndi makasitomala ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha a 300.

Ndapereka bukuli kwa azimayi ndi abambo omwe azunzidwa ndi malingaliro ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sindikufuna kukhala ngati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amafunika thandizo ndi chithandizo chopindulitsa.

Iwo omwe aiwalika, omwe mawu ake adasungunuka, ndipo samatha kupeza mayankho pagulu lathu, lomwe limavomereza ufulu wodzilimbikitsira pawokha kwa otchova juga.

Omwe amasalidwa ngati angaganize kapena kuganiza kuti malingaliro ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso osasinthika ndi bodza lomvetsa chisoni, ndipo izi si zawo.

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Kodi onse ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?

“Gay” ndiye chizindikiritso chomwe munthu amakhala amasankha ndekha. Si amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amadziwika kuti ndi "gay." Anthu omwe sazindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo amakhulupirira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amafunafuna thandizo kuti adziwe zifukwa zenizeni zomwe amakumana nazo. Pa nthawi yamankhwala, alangizi ndi akatswiri amaganizo amagwiritsa ntchito njira zothandiza kuti makasitomala azindikire zifukwa zomwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo komanso kuwathandiza kuthana ndi zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Anthu awa, omwe ndi gawo limodzi lothandiza mdera lathu, amayesetsa kuteteza ufulu wawo kulandira thandizo ndi chithandizo kuti athetse kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, asinthe malingaliro awo ogonana komanso / kapena asungidwe osakwatiwa. Izi zimatheka pogwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu ophatikiza amuna ndi akazi, kuphatikiza upangiri ndi chithandizo cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe amadziwikanso kuti "Kugonana Kwachilichonse '

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Zolemba za munthu yemwe kale anali amuna kapena akazi anzawo

Wokondedwa wowerenga, dzina langa ndi Jake. Ndine wachiwerewere wakale wazaka makumi awiri kuchokera ku England. Zolemba izi ndi za iwo omwe amatsutsa lingaliro losintha malingaliro azakugonana. Akatswiri aphunzira zakugonana kwazaka zambiri ndipo apeza kuti kugonana kumakhala kosiyanasiyana mwa anthu ambiri. Umboni ukusonyeza kuti malingaliro azakugonana amatha kusintha pamoyo wawo wonse. Ndizowonetseratu kuti anthu ambiri amasintha malingaliro awo pakugonana. Ndine m'modzi wa anthuwa.

Sindimakondanso kugona ndi amuna; atsikana tsopano ali okongola kwambiri kwa ine. Poyamba sindinkaganiza choncho, koma tsopano ndikuganiza.

Nthawi ina, kugona tulo usiku, ndinadziyerekeza ndili m'manja mwa munthu wina, tsopano ndimatha kudziyerekeza ndekha ndi mtsikana wamkazi.

Ena sasangalala ndi izi. Sakhala otsimikiza za kugonana kwawo kotero kuti sangathe kuvomereza kuti pali ena omwe salinso ndi malingaliro awo. Amakhala osangalala kwambiri pamene anthu asinthana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sakonda izi zikachitika. Nthawi zina anthu ngati ine amatchedwa oyambitsa udani, ndipo chifukwa chake sindikufuna kugona ndi amuna! 

Akadakonda ndikangokhala chete osintha zogonana zanga, ndikukhala mabodza ndikukana zomwe zidachitika? Inde, zikuwoneka! Amafuna kundiletsa, kundilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo womwe ndimasankha, komanso kundikakamiza kuti ndizitsogolera moyo womwe amawona kuti ndi wofunikira! 

Sikuti ndinangosiya kugonana, komanso ndimakhala wosangalala. Ine ndekha ndiziwongolera moyo wanga momwe ndikufuna, osati momwe amandiuzira. Ndinaganiza zosintha kugonana kwanga ndipo ndinazichita.

Kugwira mawu ochirikiza ana:
Ndili pano!
Sindingatengenso ulemu!
Kuzolowera!

Kanema mu Chingerezi

Nkhani yonse m'Chingerezi: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man

Shemale wakale: Transgenderism - Chithandizo Chowopsa cha Maganizo

"Opaleshoni ya opaleshoni ya amuna ndi akazi amalandira $ 1,200,000 pachaka. Palibe phindu pachachuma kukavomera kuti sizothandiza ... "

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Masiku ano, pamene njira ya transgenderism ikulimbikitsidwa kwambiri mdziko lamakono, anthu ochulukirapo omwe amadziluma ndi zochitika zamtengo wapatali amapeza kuti kusintha kugonana sikunawabweretsere chisangalalo ndipo sanathetse mavuto awo. Oposa 40% aiwo amayesa kukonza ma akaunti ndi moyo, koma pali omwe amavomereza kuti adalakwitsa, amabwerera kuubambo wawo woyeserera ndikuyesa kuchenjeza ena, kuti asangobwereza zomwe adalakwitsa. Mmodzi mwa anthu oterewa ndi Walt Heyer, yemwe adakhala zaka 8 ngati Laura Jensen.

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Kodi zokopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zimapangidwa bwanji?

Dr. Julie Hamilton 6 zaka zophunzitsira zama psychology ku University of Palm Beach, adagwirapo ntchito ngati purezidenti wa Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, komanso Purezidenti ku National Association for the Study and Therapy of Hom usho usho. Pakadali pano, ndi katswiri wovomerezeka pamavuto a mabanja ndi ukwati machitidwe apadera. Mu nkhani yake "Kugonana Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha: Njira Yoyambira" (Kugonana Amuna Kapena Akazi Osiyana Pakati), Dr. Hamilton amalankhula za nthano zomwe zimafotokoza mutu wa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mchikhalidwe chathu komanso zomwe zimadziwika pofufuza kwasayansi. Ikuwonetsa zinthu zomwe zimathandizira kukulitsa kukopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kwa anyamata ndi atsikana, ndipo ikuyankhula zokhudzana ndi kusintha kwa malingaliro osayenera a kugonana. 

• Kodi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chilengedwe kapena ndikosankha? 
• Nchiyani chimatsogolera munthu kuti akopeke ndi kugonana kwake? 
• Kodi amuna kapena akazi amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakula bwanji? 
• Kodi kukonzanso kuyambika? 

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