UGqr. Julie Hamilton 6 iminyaka efundise ubuchwephesha kwi-Dyunivesithi yasePalm, esebenze njengomongameli woMbutho woMtshato kunye noNyango loSapho, nanjengoMongameli kwi-National Association for Study and Therapy yoBungqingili. Okwangoku, yingcali eqinisekisiweyo kwimicimbi yosapho kunye nomtshato kwimicimbi yabucala. Kwintetho yakhe ethi "Ubufanasini: Ikhosi yokuZazisa" (ubufanasini i-101), uGqirha Hamilton uthetha ngeentsomi ezigubungela isihloko sobufanasini kwinkcubeko yethu kwaye malunga nento eyaziwayo kuphando lwezesayensi. Ibonisa ezona zinto ziqhelekileyo ezinegalelo kuphuhliso lokutsalwa kwesini esifanayo kubafana namantombazana, kwaye zithetha malunga nokutshintsha imeko engathandekiyo yesini.
• Ngaba ubufanasini buyazalwa okanye lukhetho?
• Yintoni ekhokelela umntu ekutsaleni umdla wesini sakhe?
• Kukhula njani ubufanasini?
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uphinde uphinde uphinde?
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Ngaba ubufanasini buyazalwa, okanye ngaba lukhetho?
- Akukho namnye okanye omnye. Kukho ulwazi olungelulo malunga nobufanasini kwinkcubeko yethu. Iintsomi esizivayo aziyonyani. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ubufanasini yinto nje yebhayoloji kwaye ayinakuguqulwa. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abazalwa bengamafanasini - le yintsomi nje esasazwa ngamandla kwinkcubeko yethu. Kwiminyaka yoo-90, bekukho umzamo omkhulu wokungqina isiseko sebhayoloji sobufanasini, njengoko sinokuba negalelo “kwi-Gay Rights Movement,” kwaye ke bekukho uphando olunzulu, kodwa akukho mntu wafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba kungenxa yebhayoloji. .
UDean Hamer wenza isifundo semfuza, kwaye amaphephandaba wabhengeza kwangoko ukuba kufunyenwe uhlobo lwesini, nangona umphandi ngokwakhe engazange atsho njalo. Akukho mntu unokuphinda uphando kwaye ke kurhoxisiwe. Xa iScientific American yambuza ukuba ingaba ubufanasini busekelwe kwibhayoloji kuphela, waphendula wathi, “Hayi. Sele sazi ukuba ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha sezinto eziguquguqukayo ekuziqhelaniseni nokwabelana ngesondo azizuzwa njengelifa ... Yenziwe zizinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanya nefuthe lezinto eziphilayo, ezendalo kunye nezentlalo.
Umphandi weBrain uSimon LeVay uthethe into enye kwaye wavuma ukuba akaphumelelanga ukunika ubungqina obuxhasa i-biology: "Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba andifumananga ubungqina bokuba izitabane zizalwa zinje- yeyona mpazamo ixhaphakileyo eyenziwa ngabantu xa kutolika umsebenzi wam. Nam andifumananga iziko lobufanane ebuchotsheni. Asazi ukuba umahluko endifumeneyo ubukhona ngokuzalwa okanye wabonakala kamva.
Uphononongo oluvavanya irejista yamawele ase-Australia equkethe ulwazi kwi-40 amawaka abantu abatshatileyo bafumanise ukuba amawele alingana angabungqingili, ke malunga ne-20 okanye iipesenti ezimbalwa zamatyala, elinye liya kubafanasini. Ukuba ubungqingili kubangelwa yibhayoloji, siya kubona ipesenteji enkulu ngakumbi yokuhlangana, kuba amawele afanayo anendawo efanayo yokuzalwa.
Ngapha koko, akukho namnye umphandi oza kukuxelela ukuba ufumene unobangela webhayoloji wokutsala umntu ongatshatanga naye. Uninzi lwabaphandi bathi umtsalane wesini esifanayo uhambelana nokudityaniswa kwezinto kunye nokusingqongileyo, ezinokuthi ziboniswe kule ndlela ilandelayo:
Nokuba i-APA, yenye yezona ntlangano zinempembelelo kwimpilo yengqondo, engahlali iseta ithoni yesayensi kwisayensi yezengqondo, yatshintsha isikhundla sayo kwi1998, apho bekuphikiswa ukuba izizathu ezibangela umdla wabantu abathandana nobungqingili ikakhulu zibangelwa yi-biology.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusasaza olu lwazi, kuba ubuxoki malunga nokumiselwa kwangaphambili kobufanasini bunezona ziphumo zitshabalalisayo. Uninzi lwabantu olunengxaki yokuqhuba abantu abathandana nobungqingili abafuni ukwenza okanye banalo, kodwa kwinkcubeko yethu baxelelwa ukuba: "Ngumxholo wakho lo, wamkele, wazalwa unje, akukho nto inokwenziwa ngayo." Kwaye obu buxoki bukhokelela kwintiyo enzulu kunye neengcinga zokuzibulala.
Ngendlela, phakathi kwamafanasini sibona ipesenti ephezulu yoxinzelelo, ukuzibulala, iziyobisi, njl. Bakucacisa oku ngento yokuba uluntu lungabamkeli, kodwa oku akuyonyaniso. Emva kokujonga amanani amazwe awanyamezelayo, anjengeDenmark, iNetherlands, iNew Zealand, iFinland okanye iSweden, apho ubufanasini sele kuyinto eqhelekileyo, asisayi kubona mehluko.
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba abantu abathandana besini esifanayo abazalwanga, akunakutshiwo ukuba umntu othanda abantu besini esifanayo “ukhetha” umtsalane kumalungu esini esifanayo (nangona zikho ezinye: http://www.queerbychoice.com/) Abantu banokukhetha izenzo zabo-nokuba bangangena kubudlelwane bobungqingili okanye cha, kodwa umdla ngokwawo, njengommiselo, awukhethwe.
Yintoni ekhokelela emntwini ukuba atsaleleke kwisini sakhe?
Nangona iimeko zokusingqongileyo zinokubandakanya amava obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo okanye ezinye izinto ezixhalabisayo, esona sizathu sokwaphulwa komthetho wokuchazwa kwesini, esithi kwi-80% yamatyala aphela ekutshateni kwabantu besini esinye. Isimo sesini yindlela umntu azibona ngayo evela kumbono wesini sakhe, oko kukuthi, umbono wobudoda okanye ubufazi bakhe. Yenziwa kubudlelwane bomntwana kunye nomzali kunye noontanga besini sabo.
Ekuqaleni, iintsana zizibona zizonke zinina, kodwa phakathi kweminyaka emibini ukuya kwemine yobomi, inkqubo yokumisela isondo iqala. Kweli nqanaba lokukhula, inkwenkwe iya kufuneka yahlukane nobunye bayo kunye nonina kwaye iseke unxibelelwano olunzulu notata wakhe, kuba kulwalamano naye ufunda ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba yindoda. Inkwenkwe iyazibuza: ingaba amadoda aqhuba njani? Bahamba njani? Benza ntoni? Utata uphendula le mibuzo ngolwalamano nonyana wakhe. Oku ukwenza ngokuchitha ixesha kunye naye, ebonakalisa umdla kuye nakwizinto azenzayo, nangokunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni. Ukunxibelelana okunothando kubalulekile, njengokumbambazela okanye ukubamba izandla, kunye nokukrala, njengokulwa okanye imidlalo enzima. Kungenxa yonxibelelwano lomzimba apho inkwenkwe iqala ukukhulisa ukuqonda komzimba wayo onesibindi kunye nobudoda bayo.
Kwiminyaka emalunga ne-6 yeminyaka, xa abantwana beqala ukuya esikolweni, inqanaba elitsha liqala: ngoku inkwenkwe ijonga oontanga bayo ukukhangela iimpendulo kwimibuzo efanayo neyayise ngaphambili. Ufuna ukwamkelwa kunye nokwamkelwa ngamanye amakhwenkwe. Ngombulelo kubudlelwane awabenza kunye nabo, uyaqhubeka nokukhulisa isimo sobudoda, efumanisa ngakumbi ngamanye amakhwenkwe kwaye, ke, malunga naye.
Kwiminyaka yokuqala yesikolo samabanga aphantsi, abantwana bahlala bengakuthandi ukudlala nabantu besini esahlukileyo. Bakhethe ukuchitha ixesha kunye nesini sabo. Eli linqanaba lendalo kunye nelifanelekileyo lokukhula, kuba umntu akanakuba nomdla kubantu besini esahlukileyo de aqonde esakhe. Ekugqibeleni, emva kweminyaka emininzi yokunxibelelana nabameli besini sakhe, le nkwenkwe ifikelela ebusheni, kwaye ngoku iqala ukubonisa umdla kunye nomdla kubantu besini esahlukileyo. Ngokuvela kweemfuno zesondo, lo mdla ujika ube ngumdla wesini kunye nomnqweno wokuthandana nomntu wesini esahlukileyo.
Kwinkwenkwe ethi ekugqibeleni iqhube idrayivu yokuqhuba ubungqingili, le nkqubo ingentla ihlala ihamba gwenxa
Njengomthetho, into iyamthintela ukwahlukana ngempumelelo nonina kwaye anamathele kuyise. Kungenzeka ukuba umlinganiswa wobawo wayengafikeleleki kuye, okanye kunokwenzeka ukuba wayengaboni ukuba utata wakhe uyafikeleleka, unokuthenjwa okanye uyalahlwa. Imbono yinto yonke. Into eyenzekayo kuthi ayibalulekanga kangako, kodwa yindlela esiyibona ngayo. Ke, lo mbandela usenokungabikho utata, kodwa kwinto yokuba umfana angakhange ambone njengowakho okanye onqwenelekayo ukuseka unxibelelwano. Imbono ichukunyiswa bubushushu bethu kwaye oku kulapho i-biology inokudlala khona indawo encinci, ngengqondo yokuba inkwenkwe enomoya obuthathaka ngakumbi inokuqonda ukwaliwa apho ingeyiyo nyani. Unokucinga ukuba utata wakhe akafuni ubudlelwane naye, okanye ezinye zezinto azenzayo zinokuthathwa njengokungakhathalelwa, nangona oku kungathethi ngokwenyani. Umzekelo, ubawo entliziyweni yakhe unokumkhwaza unyana wakhe, kwaye kumntwana oneminyaka emibini, indoda ekhalazayo ijongeka yoyikeka, kwaye ke ngenxa yoko akafuni kuyishiya intuthuzelo yobunye nonina aze anamathele kwisiporho sokuduma nokunkqangaza.
Makukhunjulwe ukuba ubushushu obuthambileyo bodwa abumenzi umntu abe ngungqingili, kuphela xa edibene nezinto ezithile zendalo anokuthi abe negalelo kuphuhliso lomtsalane wesini esifanayo. Ayibalulekanga kangako kubawo ngokwenani njengotata, ewe. Indoda enokuthi ichongwe apho inkwenkwe. Kubafana abakhula ngaphandle kotata, umntu oqeqeshayo, umfundisi-ntsapho, umalume, utat'omkhulu, okanye nommelwane angasebenza njengomlinganiswa onjalo.
Ke, ukuba inkwenkwe ivakalelwa kukuba utata wayo akafuni ubudlelwane naye, ke ekugqibeleni uyayeka ukuzama ukusondela. Kule nto, kukho igama "- ukhuselo langaphandle." Wayebonakala evala udonga kwaye esithi: "Kulungile, ukuba awundifuni, andikudingi." Kwaye ngaphakathi uyala utata, nayo yonke into emelwe ngutata, oko kukuthi, ukuba ngumyeni. Endaweni yoko, uhlala enxibelelana nonina kwaye efumana ubufazi, ngelixa kwangaxeshanye alangazelela, ezantsi, uthando lwendoda kunye nokunxibelelana nesini sobudoda. Ngokwesiqhelo, inkwenkwe enjalo inobunzima kwinqanaba elilandelayo lokukhula, apho kufanele ilingane namakhwenkwe angoontanga kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabo. Nokuba ukhululekile ngakumbi kubafazi abaqhelene ngakumbi naye, okanye woyika amanye amakhwenkwe. Ukuba ukhulise imbeko yamabhinqa, ke oontanga bakhe banokumenza kude kwaye bambize ngamagama. Ke, uhamba kwisikolo saseprayimari, ukugcina unxibelelwano namantombazana, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, elangazelela ukubonwa, ukwamkelwa nokwamkelwa ngabafana. Kwelo nqanaba lokuphuhliswa apho ukuhlangana kwamadoda kuyimfuneko, usondela kwihlabathi labasetyhini, elisebenza njengomthombo wakhe ophambili wolwazi. Akuba efikile ebusheni, akasayi kuba nomtsalane kwezamantombazana- zifana noodade kuye, azinamdla kuye, sele eyazi yonke into ngabo. Yintoni egutyungelwe yi-halo yemfihlakalo kuye, kwaye into ayifunayo kukudibana nabantu. Imvakalelo yakhe engafunekiyo yolwalamano olusondeleyo nesini sakhe, njengoko eshicilela, uqala ukuthatha ubume bezesondo. Inkwenkwe enjalo ngempazamo icinga ukuba yazalwa ngaloo ndlela, kuba bonke ubomi bayo obunengqondo uyazikhumbula zikhangela uthando lobudoda. Kuyinyani ukuba wayehlala elufuna olu thando, kodwa ekuqaleni yayingengomnqweno wesini, kodwa yayiyimvakalelo yesidingo sokuvuma nokwamkelwa, eyathi yaguqulwa yaba ngumtsalane wesini.
Uninzi lwabo abathi, abakwishumi elivisayo, ngequbuliso bazifumane benomdla kumakhwenkwe baya kukuxelela ukuba esi yayisisiqhushumbisi kubo. Abantu abaninzi abafuni kuziva ngathi banomdla kwisini sabo, kodwa oku kuyabazalisa ngaphakathi kuba iimfuno zabo bezinganqweneleki. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba singabacaphukisi: "lolu khetho lwakho - uzikhethele ezi mvakalelo." Ulahla ukuzithemba ngokuthetha njalo kuba kuchasene namava abo-bayazi ukuba abayikhethanga.
Ukuphuhliswa kobufanasini kwabasetyhini kunzima ngakumbi
Abanye abantu basetyhini, ukukhula komtsalane wesini esifanayo kuyafana nokukhula kwamadoda ezichazwe apha ngasentla: baqala ubudlelwane notata kunye namanye amakhwenkwe, kodwa bengazani namantombazana, kwaye isidingo sokunxibelelana nabokwabelana ngesondo sabo asikoneliseki. Kwamanye amantombazana, ubufazi obufana kunye nohlobo oluthile lokukhangelwa luthando lobufazi, ukuzalisa isithuba esenziwe kwangoko. Kwamanye amantombazana, imbono yobukhomokazi inokugqwethwa kakhulu ngamava abo. Mhlawumbi babona utata wabo ebetha amanina okanye bemhlazisa, kwaye bafika kwisigqibo sokuba ukuba ngumntu obhinqileyo kuthetha ukuba buthathaka, nokuba lixhoba. Kwaye ke ngoko bohlukana nobunikazi babo njengabasetyhini, njengoko kuthathwa njengengafunekiyo kwaye imbi.
Kungenzeka ukuba nabo babandezeleka. Oku kunokwenzeka nakwindlela yokufikisa, efana nokudlwengulwa komhla, okanye olunye uhlobo lokuphathwa gadalala ngokwesini, okubabangela bahlukane nobufazi babo okanye ukuphepha amadoda.
Ngoku kwinkcubeko yethu, kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo nakwikholeji, sele iyinto efashini ukuyithetha into yokuba uyathandeka, kwaye amanye amantombazana aya kwesi sithethe ngakumbi kunakwinkcubeko. Phantsi kwempembelelo yolwazi olungachanekanga olujikeleza kwinkcubeko yethu, abanye abantu abancinci bazama ukuzilinga ngesondo labo kwaye le iba yindlela yobomi, kuba ngamava ethu, sidala umdla kunye neminqweno.
Enye into eyenzelwe abasetyhini yinto ebizwa ngokuba "kukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo". Abasetyhini banokuzijonga njengabathandanayo njengabatshatileyo kwaye batshatele, kodwa bangena kubudlelwane kunye nelinye ibhinqa eliye lingabi sempilweni kakhulu. Inokuqala njengobuhlobo, ethi idideke kakhulu, kwaye ukuxhomekeka okugqithisileyo kudalwe phakathi kwabo. Kubonakala ngathi: "Ndiyakudinga, nguwe wedwa oqondayo kwaye ovelayo kum, akukho mntu uhlangabezana nezidingo zam njengawe." Kwaye ke zijika zibe "Andikwazi kuphila ngaphandle kwakho, ndizakufa ukuba andikho wena. ”Obu budlelwane bunokubona izinto ezibuthathaka kakhulu kwaye bume. Kwaye kuba aba bafazi, ngokuxhomekeka kwabo ngokweemvakalelo, banqumle imida yoko kuvunyelwe ngokweemvakalelo, oku kunokukhokelela ngokukhawuleza ukuwela imida kwindiza ebonakalayo. Phambi kokuba babe nexesha lokufika ezingqondweni zabo, bazifumane bakulwalamano lwesondo.
Amandla okutshintsha
Zininzi izinto ezinefuthe kuphuhliso lwethu, ke unokubazi abantu abangaphandle koku kungasentla, okanye ezinye izinto ezinegalelo ezingakhankanywanga apha.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kubantu abahlangabezana nomtsalane wobungqingili ongafunekiyo, likho ithemba. Siyazi ukusuka kuphando ukuba utshintsho lunokwenzeka, kungekuphela ekuziphatheni, kodwa kuqhelaniso ngokwalo. Umbutho weSizwe woFundo kunye noNyango loBungqingili ubonelele ngesishwankathelo sobungqina obunamandla, iingxelo zeklinikhi kunye nophando lwezenzululwazi olwaqala ngekhulu le-19, olubonisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba amadoda kunye nabasetyhini banokuhamba besuka kubungqingili baye kubungqingili.
Kufuneka iqatshelwe ukuba ingxaki yokutsala umntu ongatshatanga ayifani nakwezinye iingxaki zonyango- "utshintsho" aluthethi ukuba ingxaki yakho inyamalala kube kanye. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu uguqukele kunyango ngengxaki yoxinzelelo kwaye walugqiba ngempumelelo unyango, ukuziva etshintshile, wanelisekile kwaye wonwabile, oku akuthethi ukuba akasayi kuphinda abe noxinzelelo. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kwixesha elinzima lobomi bakhe, unokubuyela, ngakumbi ukuba unengqondo kuyo. Iingxaki azitshabalali ngokulula, utshintsho luyinkqubo ende. Ke ukuba amafanasini athi atshintshile, kwaye aqhubeke nobunzima, oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Siyayiqonda le nto kwindawo yeziyobisi. Ke, abantu abasendleleni yokufumana iziyobisi okanye iziyobisi, bayazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kusafuneka bajongane nezilingo, kodwa ukuya kwinqanaba elincinci kakhulu, kwaye ukuba kulula kakhulu ukukhubeka nokubuyela umva. Ke sukutyhafiswa bubuxoki obuvayo kwinkcubeko yethu, utshintsho olo luqinisekisiwe sisayensi kwaye siyayazi ukuba ziyenzeka. Uninzi lwabo batshintshe iidrives zabo ezinobungqingili ngoncedo lwepsychotherapy bayazisola ngokungazange benze ngaphambili, njengoko inkcubeko yabo okanye usapho lwabo lwabakholelwa ukuba banokuthi okanye bangafanele bazame ukutshintsha.
Ndothuka kancinci.
Ngokubanzi, inqaku lahamba ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo, kodwa ithuba lokutshintsha liye landibeka kwi-stupor.
Ukuba wenze isigqibo esiphosakeleyo malunga nokuzikhethela, oko kukuthi, isigqibo esisuka kwiimvakalelo zakho, ngoko ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva uqonde ngokwenene ukuba ubuphazama. Kodwa ingxaki kukuba lonke inqaku lityala elikhethekileyo (uxolo). Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho iingcinga ezikrelekrele apha, kodwa ukuba umntu umisela ngokuchanekileyo ukuqhelaniswa kwakhe, akukho naliphi na ithuba lokuyilungisa.
Ihlazo ukuba i-homo isathathelwa ingqalelo njengesifo. Isebenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Ngelishwa ukuba bambalwa abantu abayibonayo le nto.
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Inyaniso yindlela akhuliswe ngayo nemekobume yomntwana. Akukho jini yokukhetha isini esifanayo. Yonke into isentloko. Usapho lugcwele kwaye izithethe zentsapho zibalulekile! Kufuneka ulumke ngabantwana. Thobela imigaqo kunye nesimo sengqondo sokukhulisa abantwana. Inkwenkwe nentombazana abafani kwaye kufuneka bakhuliswe ngokwesini.
Ityala
A., indoda, iminyaka ye-32. I-Anamnesis: isuka kwintsapho engaphelelanga, ekuphela komntwana wabazali. Wabuya umama wakhe. Ukutyeba kakhulu. Ukufikisa ngaphandle kokuphambuka. Ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-10 wayenomdla kumantombazana, azama ukwenza ubuhlobo, kodwa ukunxibelelana noontanga ngokubanzi kunzima ngenxa yobunzima ngenxa yokuphelela. Ukusuka kwiminyaka ye-14, ukuphulula amalungu esini rhoqo usebenzisa i-erotica yowesifazane njengesikhuthazo se-erogenous. Ukususela kwiminyaka ye-16, imizamo emininzi yokwenza ubudlelwane kunye namantombazana, iphelisa ngokungaphumeleli. Ukuzihlukanisa wedwa kunye nokuthandabuza. Ngeminyaka ye-25: ukulungisa iphonografi. Andisazi ukuba masibukele ntoni, ndizijongile zonke iimpazamo ezinokubakho. Ukulungiswa okukhethekileyo kwimifanekiso engamanyala abesilisa ababhinqileyo. Ubudlelwane besini esahlukileyo bungasungulwa, kwakungekho mava ngokwesondo. Ukusuka kwiminyaka ye-25: waqala ukujonga iphonografi nge-transsexuals, wayenemincili kakhulu. Ukulungiswa komfanekiso we-phallic. Isizathu sokuvuselelwa kwabantu abathandana ababhinqileyo amafutshane siphuhliswe ngokuthe chu, emva koko sajonga "kunye ne-gay porn kunye ne-porn ethe ngqo", yaqala ukuziqhelanisa nokukhuthaza i-anus kunye nabalingisi "Ndifumene uvuyo, kodwa hayi ulonwabo." Ngeminyaka ye-27, ulungiselelo olomeleleyo kunxibelelwano lobufanasini, isimo sengqondo esijongene nabantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye, sasithathwa njengobungqingili. Kule minyaka, kwi-Intanethi, wanxibelelana nehenyukazi lesini, amava obufanasini bokuqala, kunye ne-orgasm. Emva koko, ukuzisola okunamandla. Kwiveki emva koko, umnxeba ophindaphindiweyo. Waqala ukutyelela imivalo e-gay ngoqhakamshelwano ngesondo ngeveki, ixesha ngalinye kunye ne-orgasm, kwaye emva koko waziqhatha. Ndayeka ukubandakanyeka kwimifanekiso engamanyala. Inani lamaqabane ezesondo malunga ne20 kwisithuba se27 - 29 iminyaka. Ufihle indlela yokuphila kubathandekayo. Waba neentloni ezinkulu emva kothungelwano ngalunye. Ngeminyaka eyi-30 yoxinzelelo olugqithisileyo, ukungoneliseki, ukudideka, ukungalali, iingxaki nge-erection. Kwiminyaka ye-30, intlanganiso yokuqala kunye nesalamane esikude, indoda yeminyaka ye-60, umqeqeshi wezemidlalo. Ukuseka ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nesalamane, kamva savulelwa kuye. "Wandixhasa kakhulu." Ukuvuselela inkuthazo evela kwisalamane, yaqalisa ukuziqhelanisa nendlela yokuphila yezemidlalo. "Ngonyaka we-31, ndaye ndaphelelwa yi-40 kg!" Ngokukhula kokuzivocavoca komzimba, walile ukunxibelelana nabantu besini esifanayo. Waqala ukusebenzisa umdla wabantu besini esahlukileyo. Kungekudala amava okuqala esini kunye nomntu wesini esahlukileyo, i-erection ngaphandle kobunzima, kunye ne-orgasm. Ngexesha i-4 inyanga isebudlelwaneni obuzinzileyo kunye nentombazana, iceba ukuqala usapho. Ayiziva iminqweno yobufanasini, ikhumbula ngokukhathazeka. Ixhala elinamandla malunga nokuvezwa kweenkcukacha zobomi bakhe kumtshakazi.
Ityala elichaze ukuba ayisihlali lodwa;
Ndiyoyika ukuba iya isiba mandundu, kuyakufuneka ndiqhelane nokunyamezelana, umtshato wabantu besini esinye, njl. Kuba akukho ndlela yakusombulula ingxaki yobufanasini. Esi sisiza esihle, kodwa oku kuncinci kakhulu ... inkqubo kufuneka itshintshwe.
Ngelishwa oku akunakwenzeka.
Wonke umntu kufuneka athethe ngayo kwaye ungoyiki! Akukho mfuneko yokujonga eNtshona naseUnited States. Kuyinzuzo kubo ukwenza abantu besini esifanayo. Ngoko kulula ukugqwetha nokutshabalalisa abantu. Nje ukuba baphambene,! kudala beyilungiselela iminyaka. Abantu abonwabanga. Umgaqo-nkqubo wesini esifanayo ukhokelela ekuwohlokeni, ngakumbi ukuba le mitshato yintsapho ye-GAY kwaye iya kuphakamisa isizukulwana esitsha!
Into oyichazileyo iqhelekile.
Indoda, hetero. Ubunzima kunye namantombazana, ngoko unomdla kwi-hetero-porn, kodwa emva koko iqala ukukhathaza, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe unomdla kwi-gay / trance porn.
Konke oku kulungiswe njenge-reflex ene-conditioned. Ingqondo ibonakala ngathi "iyalibala" imincili yayo kwabasetyhini kwaye ixhomekeke kwiingcamango zobufanasini.
Iphathwa ngemeko efanayo Reflex. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ngokuthe ngcembe ubuyisele uvuyo kubantu basetyhini, kwaye yiyo.
Akukho zifundo zesayensi ezingqina ukumiswa kobufanasini kwinkqubo yemfundo.
Ithiyori malunga nokwenziwa kobungqingili ezinxulumene nokungakhathalelwa okanye ubudlelwane kunye notata-umbono oqinisekileyo wokuma kwengqondo nongenalo naluphi na uqinisekiso. Ikhuthaza umbono wokuba ubufanasini bunokuphathwa ngempumelelo, kodwa bafuna njalo. Ndizakutsho kwangoko ukuba le ayiphathwa nangayiphi na indlela. Kuba akukho nto iphilisayo. Le ayisiyi-pathology! Ewe, uluntu alubamkeli abantu abanjalo. Ingakumbi eRashiya. Yiloo nto ke inani eliphakamileyo lokuzibulala.
Ewe umntu wazalwa enjalo. Akanomdla kubafazi konke konke, akabathandi. Kwaye isibakala sokuba isizathu sifunyanisiwe akuthethi ukuba asikho okanye asiyi kufunyanwa kwixesha elizayo.
Kwakukho ixesha lokuzama "ukunyanga". Oku kukhokelele ekubeni kungabikho ziphumo. Umtsalane kwisini esifanayo wagcinwa ngokupheleleyo.
Into yokuba ungazi ngabo ayithethi ukuba azikho. Bachaziwe ngaphakathi ingxelo... Yintoni kanye kanye engekho bungqina bompembelelo yezinto eziphilayo, ezicacileyo uxelele APA.
Oku kungqinwe ngokupheleleyo kwinkqubo yonyango. Ukuba usebenza ukusombulula ezi ngxaki, utyekelo lobufanasini alunakuphumelela. Iinkcukacha ezithe kratya: https://pro-lgbt.ru/5195/
I-Demagogic "ingxoxo ngokuqinisekisa" kunye nokucinga okunqwenelekayo. Iinkolelo zakho azivumelani nezibakala.
Impazamo yengqiqo "Non sequitur". Izinga lokuzibulala kwamafanasini akuloo mazwe apho angafumani nanye isohlwayo esivela kuluntu lihleli liphezulu ngendlela engaqhelekanga, njengakwezinye iindawo. Okumangalisayo kukuba, ukwamkelwa ngokubanzi koluntu ngobufanasini kukhokelela ekwandeni kwezifo kunye nokubandezeleka phakathi kwabantu be-LGBT. Iinkcukacha ezingakumbi: https://pro-lgbt.ru/386/
I-APA ifuna ukuba izishoshovu ze-LGBT ziyilahle impikiswano engaphakathi, kuba ayinasayensi, ayisebenzi kwaye iyacalucalulo. Iinkcukacha ezithe kratya: https://pro-lgbt.ru/285/
Impazamo esengqiqweni "ukulindela isiseko." Nje ukuba bayifumene, siya kuthetha.
Ayisiyonyani leyo. Zingaphezulu kwe-100 iimpapasho zolwimi lwesiNgesi ezichaza iziphumo eziyimpumelelo zonyango kwakhona kwaye zishwankathelwe kule theyibhile ingezantsi. Iinkcukacha ezithe kratya apha.
Molo, kwaye ndingenza ntoni ukuba ndinengxaki efanayo nenqaku? Ndiludinga ngokwenene uncedo ..
Kufuneka ukuthande oko uThixo akuphe kona. Unezandla, amehlo, impilo, ulutsha - esi sisipho esivela kuThixo - ubomi. Yaye iBhayibhile ikuxelela indlela onokuphila ngayo. Inye kuphela indlela eyonwabileyo, zonke ezinye ziyinkohliso kunye nezomgunyathi ngenxa yeminqweno yethu yethutyana. Khumbula: kufuneka uphile kungekhona ngeemvakalelo, kodwa ngenyaniso, kwaye iimvakalelo ziya kuqina xa kukho inyaniso.
gaskiya nema ina bukatar taimako akan lamarin nima yashafeni
Ulwazi olulungileyo. Qhubeka nokwabelana ngamanye amanqaku.
Ngaba i-LGBT sisifo???
Namhlanje, ndiya kukutyhilela imfihlo eyoyikekayo. Ke apha. I-LGBT ayisona isifo, kodwa ilifa lemfuza yookhokho bethu, kwaye, ngaphezu koko, libi kakhulu. Kwaye ngaphandle kwayo, kuphelele apho, ukusuka kwisiqithi saseCeylon, (ngoku uFr. ISri Lanka), apho abaphambukeli bevela kwinkqubo yeenkwenkwezi yeTau Ceti, (ineexoplanets ezi-8 ezijikelezayo kwisangqa, kunye ne-asteroid eyi-1 ekude, ene-orbit engaqhelekanga, ethambekele, ngokunxulumene neLanga lomthonyama - Tau Ceti ), mandulo amaxesha, baye benza iimvavanyo zabo zofuzo apho, bezama ukuziqhelanisa neplanethi yethu, kwaye bawela abantu kunye nezilwanyana, ngenxa yoko, saba nezidalwa ezizintsomi ezifana nezi: satyrs, centaurs kunye ne-mermaids !!! Kodwa, malunga nayo yonke into, ngokulandelelana: kwiincwadi zeVedic, kukho ingcamango enjengokuthi: "Inani lokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukusinda komntu." Oko kukuthi, umntu, kuninzi, (abantu abamhlophe), umntu, ungaphantsi (abamnyama, baseLatinos kunye nesiTshayina), kodwa sonke sidityaniswe yinto enye: ngokukhawuleza ukuba le nto i-evolutionary inani, ukusinda komntu. , ifikelela, ngenxa yoko, i-hybridization, inqanaba, ngaphantsi, i-50%, ye-original, kumntu onjalo, (uhlanga lwabantu: HOMO SAPIENS), iqala: ngengqondo, yebhayoloji, kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, emzimbeni, inqanaba lamandla e-aura, ngenxa yoko, ngokupheleleyo, ubunikazi bakhe besini kunye nokuzibona kwakhe zilahlekile, kwaye yena, ezama ukuvala oku: "imingxuma" yengqondo, kwi-aura yakhe, iqala ukukhangela, (ngokungazi) , yena ngokwakhe, isibini esitshatileyo, ukwenzela ukuba umntu ophilileyo, ngokwe-aura, phantsi kwesondlo, amandla engqondo kwaye ngaloo ndlela, azinzise i-aura yakhe. Kwaye kwenzeka ngolu hlobo: 1. Iilebhile. Thatha, umzekelo, i-1 (enye) ibhinqa elinempilo, iScandinavian, (emhlophe), kunye nenani le-evolutionary lokusinda le-10 (ishumi). Kwaye simwela, kunye nendoda enempilo, evela kwintsapho yaseScandinavia, (emhlophe), nayo, kunye nenani le-evolutionary lokusinda, i-10 (ishumi). Kwaye siya kubatshata. Imithetho ye-RITA, ngexesha elifanayo, (iVedic), ayiphuli kwaye ukuba banabantwana, ngoko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba inani labo, baya kuhlala benabantwana abaphilileyo, ekubeni, ekukhawulweni nasekuzalweni, i-10 kunye ne-10 kwaye yahlula ababini (ngabazali bobabini) nabo bana-10. Oko kukuthi, ekuzalweni, umntwana onjalo, (intombazana), uzalwa: oqhelekileyo, ophilileyo, (wengqondo), umfazi ozayo. Kwaye ngoku, siya kuzama ukungenelela kule nkqubo kwaye songeze, kwikhonkco lomzali wabo womntwana, umthathi-nxaxheba wesithathu, (umphambukeli), kunye nenani lokusinda, (ngokwendaleko, kwiplanethi yoMhlaba), 5 (esihlanu) kwaye ubone. yintoni, siya kuphumelela. Sele sinabazali aba-3 (abathathu), kwikhonkco, ngokofuzo kunye nokongezwa kwe-DNA yasemzini, inani lokusinda, umntu, i-evolutionary, ekuzalweni, ngokukhawuleza lehla ngeeyunithi ze-1,666666666666667, ekubeni: 10 kunye ne-10 kunye ne-5 ilingana no 25 kwaye ukuba lento yahlulwe ngo 3 (ntathu), sifumana 8,333333333333333. Imithetho ye-RITA iphulwa ngokucacileyo, kwaye nangona, kumfokazi, oku kulungile, ekubeni inani layo lokuziphendukela kwemvelo, kwi-hybride enjalo, liye landa, kumxholo jikelele, kuhlanga lwabantu - oku kubi, kuba, ngokuqhubekayo ukuxutywa kunye nokuxuba, i-genetics, umntwana onjalo, kunye ne-Negroid, iLatinoid okanye i-Chinese genetics - inombolo yakhe yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukusinda, komntu, kuya kuwa kuphela (kwizizukulwana ezilandelayo). Kwaye ngenye imini, kuya kufika umzuzwana xa, inzala yakhe ekude (kwisizukulwana sesine okanye sesihlanu), iya kuziva ngokukhawuleza ukuba ilahlekile into ethile, ekubeni inani layo lokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukusinda komntu, liwile, ngenxa yoko, ihlabathi liphela. Ukuxutywa kweentlanga kunye nabaphambukeli, ngaphantsi kwe-50% ye-original, kubazali, i-10 kwaye yena, NGEXESHA LOKUQALA, UJONGA UMFAZI, ukuba adibanise, ngokwakhe, le "mingxuma" yengqondo kwi-aura (ngaphezu koko, ngokungazi) . Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, intombazana, (intombazana, ibhinqa), enenani lokuziphendukela kwemvelo lokusinda, i-4 (emine) okanye ngaphezulu kancinci, kunye no-0,5, iya kuziva, kakuhle, kunye nomfazi ophilileyo, kunye nenani lokusinda, i-10, (ngoko njenge, u-4 dibanisa 10 ulingana no-7 xa esahlulwe ngo-2) okanye, ngo-ngaphambili, umhlanganiselwa, (umntu nowasemzini), kunye nenani lokusinda lika-8,333, (ukusukela u-4 dibanisa 8,333 lilingana no-6,1665 xa lahlulwe ngo-2). Kwaye yile ndlela kanye ama-lesbians abonakala ngayo ngamaxesha onke, ekubeni, ngenani lokusinda kwabantu, ngaphantsi kweeyunithi ezi-5, (kwibhinqa), umfazi onjalo, (intombazana, intombazana), akatsalwanga kumadoda, ekubeni, ngokwemfuza nakwinqanaba lamandla e-aura, akakwazi ukwenza isibini esizinzile kunye nendoda !!! 2. Amafanasini. Thatha, kwakhona, umzekelo, i-1 (enye) umfazi ophilileyo, ovela kwintsapho yaseScandinavia, (emhlophe), enenani le-evolutionary lokusinda le-10 (ishumi). Kwaye simwela, kunye nendoda enempilo, evela kwintsapho yaseScandinavia, (emhlophe), nayo, kunye nenani le-evolutionary lokusinda, i-10 (ishumi). Kwaye siya kubatshata. Imithetho ye-RITA, ngexesha elifanayo, (iVedic), ayiphuli kwaye ukuba banabantwana, ngoko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba inani labo, baya kuhlala benabantwana abaphilileyo, ekubeni, ekukhawulweni nasekuzalweni, i-10 kunye ne-10 kwaye yahlula ababini (ngabazali bobabini) nabo bana-10. Oko kukuthi, ekuzalweni, umntwana onjalo, (inkwenkwe), azalwe: oqhelekileyo, ophilileyo, (wengqondo), umntu ozayo. Kwaye ngoku, siya kuzama ukungenelela kule nkqubo kwaye songeze, kwikhonkco lomzali wabo womntwana, umthathi-nxaxheba wesithathu, (umphambukeli), kunye nenani lokusinda, (ngokwendaleko, kwiplanethi yoMhlaba), 5 (esihlanu) kwaye ubone. yintoni, siya kuphumelela. Sele sinabazali aba-3 (abathathu), kwikhonkco, ngokofuzo kunye nokongezwa kwe-DNA yasemzini, inani lokusinda, umntu, i-evolutionary, ekuzalweni, ngokukhawuleza lehla ngeeyunithi ze-1,666666666666667, ekubeni: 10 kunye ne-10 kunye ne-5 ilingana no 25 kwaye ukuba lento yahlulwe ngo 3 (ntathu), sifumana 8,333333333333333. Imithetho ye-RITA iphulwa ngokucacileyo, kwaye nangona, kumfokazi, oku kulungile, ekubeni inani layo lokuziphendukela kwemvelo, kwi-hybride enjalo, liye landa, kumxholo jikelele, kuhlanga lwabantu - oku kubi, kuba, ngokuqhubekayo ukuxutywa kunye nokuxuba, i-genetics, umntwana onjalo, kunye ne-Negroid, iLatinoid okanye i-Chinese genetics - inombolo yakhe yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukusinda, komntu, kuya kuwa kuphela (kwizizukulwana ezilandelayo). Kwaye ngenye imini, umzuzu uya kufika xa, inzala yakhe ekude (kwisizukulwana sesine okanye sesihlanu), iya kuziva ngokukhawuleza ukuba ilahlekile into ethile, ekubeni inani lakhe lokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukusinda komntu, kwawa, ngenxa yoko, ukuxubana kwehlabathi jikelele. iintlanga kunye nabaphambukeli, ngaphantsi kwe-50%, ukusuka kwi-original, kubazali, i-10 kwaye yena, NGETHUBA LOKUQALA, UYA KUJONGA UMNTU ukuba afake iplagi, yena ngokwakhe, le "mingxuma" yengqondo kwi-aura (ngaphezu koko, ngokungazi). Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, inkwenkwe, (inkwenkwe, indoda), enenani lokuziphendukela kwemvelo, i-4 (emine) okanye ngaphezulu kancinci, kunye no-0,5, iya kuziva, kakuhle, kunye nendoda enempilo, enenani lokusinda, i-10 , (njengoko, u-4 dibanisa 10 ulingana no-7 xa esahlulwe ngo-2) okanye, ngo-ngaphambili, umxube, (umntu nowasemzini), kunye nenani lokusinda lika-8,333, (ukusukela u-4 udibanise 8,333 ulingana no-6,1665 xa ulwahlulwe ngo-2). Kwaye yile ndlela kanye i-gays ibonakala ngayo ngamaxesha onke, ekubeni, ngenani lokusinda kwabantu, ngaphantsi kweeyunithi ezi-5, (kwindoda yomntu), indoda enjalo, (inkwenkwe, inkwenkwe), ayikhange kubafazi, ekubeni, ngokwemfuza nakwinqanaba lamandla e-aura, akakwazi ukwenza isibini esizinzile kunye nomfazi !!! 3. Abantu abathandana besini esinye. Apha, yonke into ilula. Aba bayinzala nje yaloo ngxubevange (abantu nabasemzini), ookhokho abathi, ekuhambeni kwexesha, babuyela ezingqondweni, babagxotha abameli bezinye iintlanga kunye neengxubevange kummandla wabo (njengoko, ngokomzekelo, kwiRus yaMandulo, xa abantu abanjalo bagxothwayo. ukusuka kuluntu , ukuya eYurophu, apho, emva koko, benza imimandla kunye namazwe, kunye nemithetho ye-LGBT eyakhayo) kwaye bayeka ukuxuba (ngokwemfuza) nabameli bezinye iintlanga, bafezekisa ukuba kwanabo babuthathaka, abantwana, (ekuzalweni), babenomntwana obuthathaka. ukusinda inani 5, oko kukuthi, into avareji, ngokwengqondo, phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, yaye ngenxa yoko - bisexuality!!! 4. Abantu abatshintshe isini. Eli lelona nqanaba ligqithileyo, ukuwa, inani le-evolution, ukusinda, komntu, kumntu oyindoda okanye obhinqileyo, xa, ngokwemfuza nangengqondo nangebhayoloji, kwinqanaba lamandla e-aura, umntu (indoda okanye umfazi. ), inenani, lokusinda, lomntu, elilingana no-1 (enye) kwaye umntu onjalo akasenawo amandla engqondo kwi-aura kunye namandla ayo (indoda okanye ibhinqa), ukwenzela ukuba, ngenxa ye-hybridization kwakhona. , umzimba wakhe, ukubuyisela, kuye ngokwakhe, umgaqo wesilisa okanye umfazi kwaye ngoko ke , kulula kuye (njenge-hourglass) ukuqala, kuye ngokwakhe, inkqubo entsha yokwakheka - indoda okanye umfazi (ukuthatha amahomoni), ngokubuyisela, kwi-100%, enye, imvelaphi, isini. 5.
Yamkela kwaye uyixhase imilinganiselo yosapho. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuvala iifilimu nge-propaganda ye-gay kunye ne-LGBT! Abantwana bafuna ukukhuselwa. Ngoku uDisney sele eqalisile ukukhupha iikhathuni kunye neemuvi ezinamabali ngokwesini. Kufuneka izikolo zibuyise indlela esafundiswa ngayo izifundo zabasebenzi kumantombazana nezamakhwenkwe. Ootitshala kufuneka baqeqeshwe ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye ukuqinisekiswa, okuninzi kuvela ekukhulisweni. Kuyimfuneko ukuhlonipha nokuxabisa omnye nomnye, akuyimfuneko ukulinganisa abafana namantombazana. Zininzi iindlela zokufundisa abafundisi abalungileyo eRashiya. I-Intanethi kufuneka ikhuseleke kubantwana bethu! Ikwachaphazela ngoku ngokwesiseko kwipsychology yomntwana!
"Kwaye konke kwavela kwisiqithi saseCeylon, (ngoku isiqithi saseSri Lanka), apho abaphambukeli, bevela kwinkqubo yeenkwenkwezi zeTau Ceti, (banee-exoplanets ezi-8 ezijikelezayo kwisangqa, kunye ne-asteroid eyi-1 ekude"
Uyavutha okanye yintoni?
Usenokubuza, kodwa ukuba intombi endandithandana nayo yayinolwalamano oluhle nomama wayo de yaneminyaka eli-13 ubudala. Kodwa kamva ulwalamano lwakhe oluhle nonina lwaqhawuka, ngaba inokukhangela indawo yothando lukamama? (ngoku uthi uchasene ne-lgbt)
Njengaye, angakwazi ukuba ngumntu we-lgbt ngokukhetha iimbono zabantu abathandana nabantu abathandana bodwa??
ukuba ubufanasini buzalwa okanye umntu wazalwa nabo akwaziwa ... kodwa inyaniso kukuba amadoda amaninzi kunye nabafana bathanda ukuvuselela idlala lesidoda nge-dildo .. ngaphambili, ngelixa iiSoviets zazikho, imfuneko enjalo yayikhona. bekungafuneki ..kuphela kuba bekukho ukutya okukumgangatho ophezulu nokusempilweni .. ngoku ichemistry and bioadditives ..abantwana bazalwa bengamaqili ..oomama abafumani amayeza afunekayo nemali yomntwana ..sinobugxwayiba kwilizwe lethu . .amapolisa kunye nomkhosi bafumana imali eninzi ngetanki edilikileyo yesigidi ..nomvuzo wama-200 amawaka ...emva koko nayiphi na indoda iya kuba yi-fag. indlu engamawaka ayi-7 .....
Ewe Ewe. Yonke into yayinjalo.
Ufanele ukuxhonywa ngenxa yenqaku elingenamsebenzi! Iintsomi, ezivunywe ngokucacileyo sisimo sengqondo sanamhlanje se-chauvinist samanzi. abaphezulu, akufuneki ukuba zivezwe njengophononongo lwezenzululwazi, ngakumbi malunga notshintsho ekucingelwa ukuba lunokwenzeka kulwazi. Ayisiyonto ilula kangako, musa ukuqhutywa yi-chauvinism!
Abasebenzi be-LGBT bahlala bebonisa i-homofascism kwaye babiza ukutshatyalaliswa kwabo bangahambelani neengcamango zabo. Ngale ndlela ubonisa ubungozi bentshukumo yakho kuluntu.
Ukuqwalaselwa kukaGerard Aardweg malunga nezizathu zokukhula kobufanasini kubonakala kum kuyinyani kakhulu. (ukuzisizela, ukujongelwa phantsi ngenxa yokungonelanga/ukucinezelwa kobudoda/ubufazi, ubudlelwane nabazali, i-egocentrism, njl.njl.)
Ndikonwabele ukufunda incwadi yakhe ethi “The Battle For Normality”. Izimvo zakhe zibanzi, ziyinyani kumatyala amaninzi ngexesha elinye kwaye zichaza kakuhle izizathu zokuziphatha kunye notyekelo lwamafanasini.
Kodwa, ngelishwa, uGerard "uyandilahla" xa kuziwa ngokuthe ngqo kunyango kunye nezizathu zokuqalisa unyango.
Akukacaci kum ukuba uthetha ukuthini kanye kanye xa ekhankanya “ukuziphatha,” “isazela” kunye “nobutyala.”
UGerard uyagatya ukuzithoba kokuziphatha (kunye ne "superego") kwaye uthi ukuziphatha kunye nesazela yinto engokwemvelo yengqondo yomntu.
UGerard uthi izinto ezinjengobuxoki, ukungcatsha, ukubulala kunye nokudlwengulwa zibonwa ngumntu njengento embi phantse "ngenxa nje".
UGerard udwelisa ubufanasini phakathi kwezi zinto, esithi bubangelwa “bububi obungaphakathi” “nokungcola,” ebhekisela kwisibakala sokuba amafanasini amaninzi aya kuziva enetyala. (umzekelo emva kokwabelana ngesondo)
Uthi amafanasini akanazo isazela, kodwa azama ukusicinezela.
Andiyikhanyeli le mbono, kodwa kum ibonakala ingaqinisekanga kwaye ayiphuhliswanga kakuhle - kukho ukunqongophala kokuqonda okunzulu, apho uGerard uthatha indawo yenkolo. (ngokukodwa ubuKristu, ezinye iinkolo aziqwalaselwa kwaphela)
Unyango, ngenxa yokuqonda okunjalo imilinganiselo yokuziphatha nesazela, lubonakala njengelinge lokubethelela ukuzithiya “nesazela esingokonqulo” kumafanasini, oko kukuthi, njengelinge lokubuyisela uloyiko endaweni enye. (wedge nge wedge)
Ndiyathandabuza malunga nokusebenza (kunye nokhuseleko?) le ndlela. Imbono apho ukholo lwenkolo kuphela lunokunceda ukunyanga ubufanasini kubonakala kum bububuxoki, buchasene nesayensi. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyaqonda ukuba inkolo inika impendulo elula kumbuzo othi "kutheni" (kutheni uqale unyango) okunzima ukuyifumana ngaphandle kwenkolo.
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Ubufanasini, njengokuphazamiseka kobuntu, bumisela imikhwa yomntu, umlingiswa kunye nezinto azikhethayo ngaphandle kokuziphatha ngokwesondo, ngakumbi ukuba kwenzeka ngokungabikho koxinzelelo lwangaphandle kunye nomoya "wokwamkela."
Oko kukuthi, ekuqondeni kwam, unyango lobufanasini luthetha ukuhlengahlengiswa, kwaye kwimeko yonyango oluziswa yinkolo, mhlawumbi nokutshatyalaliswa kwenxalenye ye-ego. I-ego iyancipha kwaye ithatyathelwe indawo yinkolelo yonqulo kumandla aphezulu.
I-"ego-lobotomy" yenzeka, apho inxalenye yobuntu isuswa kunye nobufanasini.
Uluvo lwam lobuqu, olunokuba bubuxoki: - “ababengamafanasini” abaphiliswa ngokuguqukela kunqulo banendlela ethile yokuziphatha engeyoyamvelo, ngokungathi badlala indima ethile. Ukubonisa ukuzeyisa, njengokunxiba iimpahla ezinemibala emnyama nethulekileyo, izimbo zomzimba ezicinezelweyo namabinzana alungiselelwe anjengathi “Ndimfumene uThixo,” alungiselelwe ukucinezela ukuzithiya okufakwe kunyango yaye kusikhumbuza izithethe “zehlelo” ezingenantsingiselo. athi lowo owayesakuba lifanasini azame ukufikelela “ukusulungekiswa” ngokupheleleyo. (ukutshintsha imithambo-luvo ngomnye)
Ayimangalisi into yokuba amafanasini esabela kumbono wonyango phantse ngokungathi kukubulawa. (ihambelana nengxaki yobuntu be-schizoid, uloyiko lokuzitshabalalisa)
Kambe ke, oku kujongwa ngakumbi kubufanasini nothando “lokuqokelela okungekho sikweni.”
Kwakhona, akumangalisi ukuba unyango olunjalo ngokuyintloko (?) lusetyenziswa kumafanasini asuka kwiintsapho zonqulo, oko kukuthi, ngokuzithiya okumiliselweyo okanye ukuziva unetyala, okungazange kuvumele ubufanasini ukuba bube yinxalenye yobuntu ngokupheleleyo.
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Спасибо.