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2 izimvo

Yintoni eyaziwayo ngophando:
Iziphetho ezivela kwizifundo zebhayoloji, ezengqondo kunye nezentlalo

UGqr Paul McHugh, MD -INtloko yeSebe lezeMpilo yeZengqondo kwiYunivesithi yaseJohns Hopkins, ugqirha wezengqondo obalaseleyo kule minyaka ingamashumi idlulileyo, umphandi, unjingalwazi kunye notitshala.
 UGqr Lawrence Meyer, MB, MS, Ph.D. -Inzululwazi kwiCandelo lezeMpilo yezifo zeengqondo kwiYunivesithi yaseJohs Hopkins, unjingalwazi kwiYunivesithi yaseArizona State, ugqirha wezibalo, isazi ngezifo, uchwephesha kuphuhliso, uhlalutyo nokutolikwa kwedatha yophando kunye nokujonga kwicandelo lezempilo kunye nonyango.

Isishwankathelo

Ngo-2016, oosonzululwazi ababini abaphuma kwiYunivesithi yaseJohn Hopkins Yophando bapapasha iphepha elishwankathela konke okukhoyo kuphando lwebhayoloji, lwengqondo kunye noluntu kwicandelo lokuzibandakanya kwezesondo kunye nokuzazisa ngokwesini. Ababhali, abaxhasa ngamandla ukulingana kwaye bachasa ucalucalulo kubantu be-LGBT, bayathemba ukuba ulwazi olunikiweyo luya kuxhobisa oogqirha, oososayensi kunye nabemi- sonke - ukujongana neengxaki zempilo ezijamelene nabantu be-LGBT kuluntu lwethu. 

Iziphumo eziphambili zale ngxelo:

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Idabi lokujonga izinto ngokufana - Gerard Aardweg

2 izimvo

Isikhokelo sonyango lobufanasini-Ukusekelwa kwiminyaka engama-30 yokufumana unyango umbhali usebenze ngaphezu kwe300 yabathengi abathandana abathandanayo.

Ndinikezela le ncwadi kwabasetyhini nakumadoda ahlushwa ziimvakalelo zesini esithandanayo, kodwa abafuni kuphila njengezitabane kwaye badinga uncedo olwakhayo nenkxaso.

Abo balibalekileyo, abanelizwi labo liphelelwe, kwaye abangazifumani iimpendulo kuluntu lwethu, eliqonda ilungelo lokuziqinisekisa kuphela kubantu abathandana nabanye.

Abo bacalucalulwayo ukuba bacinga okanye bavakalelwa kukuba umbono wobufanasini ongenabungozi nongaguqukiyo bubuxoki obubuhlungu, kwaye ayisiyabo le.

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Ukunyanga kwakhona kwakhona: imibuzo kunye neempendulo

3 izimvo

Ngaba bonke abantu abathandana besini esifanayo?

Igama elithi "Gay" sisazisi umntu Ukukhetha zam. Ayingabo bonke abantu abathandana besini esinye abachaza "njengezitabane." Abantu abangazichazanga njengezitabane bakholelwa ukuba bangathandani ngokwesini esinye kwaye bafuna uncedo ekuchongeni izizathu ezizezona zibangela ukuba bangathandani. Ngexesha lonyango, abacebisi kunye noochwephesha bezengqondo basebenzisa iindlela zokuziphatha ezifanelekileyo ukunceda abathengi ukuba baveze izizathu zokuba nomtsalane kubantu besini esinye kwaye babancede ekusombululeni izizathu ezibakhokelela kwiimvakalelo zobufanasini. Aba bantu, abayinxalenye yoluntu lwethu, bazabalazela ukukhusela ilungelo labo lokufumana uncedo nenkxaso yokuphelisa umtsalane wesini esifanayo, ukuba batshintshe indlela abathanda ngayo kunye / okanye bagcine ukungatshati. Oku kufezekiswa ngokweenkqubo zokubandakanya abantu ngokwesini, kubandakanya nengcebiso kunye nonyango lokuthandana kwabantu abathandanayo, okwaziwa ngokuba "kukungenelela koSondo kwezeSondo" (i-SOCE) okanye Unyango kwakhona.

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Iidayari yomntu owayetshatile

Shiya i gqabaza

Mfundi othandekayo, igama lam nguJake. Ndingumntu olifanasini kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini ukusuka eNgilane. Le dayari yenzelwe abo bachasayo umbono wokutshintsha imeko yesini. Iingcali ziye zafunda ngesondo amashumi eminyaka kwaye ziye zagqiba kwelokuba isini siyahluka kubantu abaninzi. Ubungqina bucebisa ukuba iimvakalelo zesini zinokutshintsha ebomini. Inyaniso yokuba abantu abaninzi bayayitshintsha indlela abajonga ngayo ngokwesini yinyani eqinisekisiweyo. Ndingomnye waba bantu.

Andisaziva nditsala amadoda; amantombazana ngoku anomdla ngakumbi kum. Nje ukuba ndingacingi njalo, kodwa ngoku ndiyacinga.

Kanye, ukulala kubusuku obunesithukuthezi, ndizicingele ngenye indoda ngenye indlela, ngoku ndinokuzithelekelela ndedwa nentombazana yesetyhini.

Abanye abonwabanga yile meko yemicimbi. Baqinisekile ngesondo labo kangangokuba abanakwamkela ukuba kukho abo bangasenazo kwaphela iimvakalelo zabo. Banoyolo ngakumbi xa abantu bejika baba ngamafanasini, kodwa abathandi xa kwenzeke into eyahlukileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abafana nam babizwa ngokuba ngabasebenzi benzondo, kwaye kungenxa yokuba andifuni ukuba neentlobano zesini namadoda! 

Ngaba bakhetha mna ukuba bathi cwaka ngokutshintsha ubufanasini, ndihlale kubuxoki kwaye ndikukhanyele kwenzeka ntoni? Ewe, kuyabonakala! Bafuna ukundithulisa, bandiphange ilungelo lokuphila ngendlela endiyonyulayo, kwaye bandinyanzele ukuba ndikhokelele indlela yokuphila abazibona ifanelekile! 

Andiyekanga nje ukuba ngungqingili, kodwa ndiziva ndonwabile. Mna ngokwam ndiza kulawula ubomi bam ngendlela endifuna ngayo, hayi indlela abandixelela ngayo. Ndigqibe kwelokuba nditshintshe isini sam kwaye ndiyenzile.

Ukucaphula iintshutshiso zesini:
Ndilapha!
Andisemgceni kwakhona!
Qhela kuyo!

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Ibali elipheleleyo lesiNgesi: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man

Owayekade enguShemale: iTransgenderism-Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okunyangekayo

3 izimvo

"OoTyando abahlinzwa kufuneka bafumane i-1,200,000 ngonyaka. Akuncedi ngakwimali ukuphuma ngaphandle kwamkelwe ukuba ayisebenzi ... "

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Namhlanje, xa imfashini ye-transgenderism iphakanyiswa kakhulu kuluntu lwanamhlanje, abantu abaninzi ngakumbi abazikrokrisa ngokwenza imisebenzi yexabiso elikhulu bafumanisa ukuba ukutshintshana ngesondo akuzange kubasondeze kulonwabo kwaye akuzange kuzisombulule iingxaki zabo. Ngaphezulu kwe-40% yabo bazama ukulungisa i-akhawunti ngobomi, kodwa kukho abo bavumayo ukuba ngempazamo, babuyela kwisini sabo sebhayoloji kwaye bazame ukulumkisa abanye, bangaphindi impazamo yabo. Omnye umntu onjalo nguWalt Heyer, oye waphila iminyaka eyi-8 njengoLaura Jensen.

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Wenziwa njani umdla wabantu abathandana abathandanayo?

23 izimvo

UGqr. Julie Hamilton 6 iminyaka efundise ubuchwephesha kwi-Dyunivesithi yasePalm, esebenze njengomongameli woMbutho woMtshato kunye noNyango loSapho, nanjengoMongameli kwi-National Association for Study and Therapy yoBungqingili. Okwangoku, yingcali eqinisekisiweyo kwimicimbi yosapho kunye nomtshato kwimicimbi yabucala. Kwintetho yakhe ethi "Ubufanasini: Ikhosi yokuZazisa" (ubufanasini i-101), uGqirha Hamilton uthetha ngeentsomi ezigubungela isihloko sobufanasini kwinkcubeko yethu kwaye malunga nento eyaziwayo kuphando lwezesayensi. Ibonisa ezona zinto ziqhelekileyo ezinegalelo kuphuhliso lokutsalwa kwesini esifanayo kubafana namantombazana, kwaye zithetha malunga nokutshintsha imeko engathandekiyo yesini. 

• Ngaba ubufanasini buyazalwa okanye lukhetho? 
• Yintoni ekhokelela umntu ekutsaleni umdla wesini sakhe? 
• Kukhula njani ubufanasini? 
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uphinde uphinde uphinde? 

Malunga noku-kwividiyo esuswe kwi-YouTube:

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