Uvimba weDatha: Unyango

Unyango kwakhona. -Ukutshintsha kunokwenzeka

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Ukusukela ngexesha lemvukelo yesini, isimo sengqondo sobufanasini sitshintshe kakhulu. Namhlanje, kubantu abathandana abathandana nobungqingili eNtshona, umlo ubonakala ngathi uza kuphumelela: iiklabhu zabathandana abathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandanayo, umtshato wesini. Ngoku "gay kulungile." Isohlwayo solawulo kunye nokugwetywa okungazange kwenzeke ngaphambili kulindele abo bachasene nabantu be-LGBT, kunye neelebheli ezinomdla nezasekhaya.

Ukunyamezelwa kunye nokwamkelwa ngokubanzi kwenkululeko yesondo kusebenza kuwo onke amaqhekeza abantu - abo bafuna ukwahlukana nobufanasini kwaye baqale indlela yokuphila eyodwa. La madoda nabafazi banamava obufanasini kodwa abafuni kwamkela isazisi sobufanasini. Bakholelwa ukuba ubufanasini abumeli ubuntu babo bokwenyani kwaye bafuna ukuhlangulwa.

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UGarnik Kocharyan kunyango olubuyisayo kubantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabo

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Uncedo lwe-LGBT

I-Kocharyan Garnik Surenovich, Ugqirha weeNzululwazi zezoNyango, uNjingalwazi weSebe lezeSini ngezeSayensi yezeSondo, iNzululwazi yezoNyango, ezoNyango kunye nezoNyango zeZengqondo kwiKharkov Medical Academy. uhambise incwadi ethi "Shame and Loss of Attachment. Ukusetyenziswa konyango oluphindaphindwayo xa usenza ”. Umbhali yenye yeengcali ezigunyazisiweyo nezaziwayo kwihlabathi kwicandelo lonyango oluphindaphindayo, umseki woMbutho weSizwe woFundo kunye nokunyanga ubuNtu (NARTH) -Gqirha Joseph Nicolosi. Le ncwadi yapapashwa okokuqala e-United States ngo-2009 phantsi kwesihloko esithi "Shame and Attachment Loss: The Practical Work of Reparative Therapy".

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Idabi lokujonga izinto ngokufana - Gerard Aardweg

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Isikhokelo sonyango lobufanasini-Ukusekelwa kwiminyaka engama-30 yokufumana unyango umbhali usebenze ngaphezu kwe300 yabathengi abathandana abathandanayo.

Ndinikezela le ncwadi kwabasetyhini nakumadoda ahlushwa ziimvakalelo zesini esithandanayo, kodwa abafuni kuphila njengezitabane kwaye badinga uncedo olwakhayo nenkxaso.

Abo balibalekileyo, abanelizwi labo liphelelwe, kwaye abangazifumani iimpendulo kuluntu lwethu, eliqonda ilungelo lokuziqinisekisa kuphela kubantu abathandana nabanye.

Abo bacalucalulwayo ukuba bacinga okanye bavakalelwa kukuba umbono wobufanasini ongenabungozi nongaguqukiyo bubuxoki obubuhlungu, kwaye ayisiyabo le.

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Ukunyanga kwakhona kwakhona: imibuzo kunye neempendulo

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Ngaba bonke abantu abathandana besini esifanayo?

Igama elithi "Gay" sisazisi umntu Ukukhetha zam. Ayingabo bonke abantu abathandana besini esinye abachaza "njengezitabane." Abantu abangazichazanga njengezitabane bakholelwa ukuba bangathandani ngokwesini esinye kwaye bafuna uncedo ekuchongeni izizathu ezizezona zibangela ukuba bangathandani. Ngexesha lonyango, abacebisi kunye noochwephesha bezengqondo basebenzisa iindlela zokuziphatha ezifanelekileyo ukunceda abathengi ukuba baveze izizathu zokuba nomtsalane kubantu besini esinye kwaye babancede ekusombululeni izizathu ezibakhokelela kwiimvakalelo zobufanasini. Aba bantu, abayinxalenye yoluntu lwethu, bazabalazela ukukhusela ilungelo labo lokufumana uncedo nenkxaso yokuphelisa umtsalane wesini esifanayo, ukuba batshintshe indlela abathanda ngayo kunye / okanye bagcine ukungatshati. Oku kufezekiswa ngokweenkqubo zokubandakanya abantu ngokwesini, kubandakanya nengcebiso kunye nonyango lokuthandana kwabantu abathandanayo, okwaziwa ngokuba "kukungenelela koSondo kwezeSondo" (i-SOCE) okanye Unyango kwakhona.

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Iidayari yomntu owayetshatile

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Mfundi othandekayo, igama lam nguJake. Ndingumntu olifanasini kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini ukusuka eNgilane. Le dayari yenzelwe abo bachasayo umbono wokutshintsha imeko yesini. Iingcali ziye zafunda ngesondo amashumi eminyaka kwaye ziye zagqiba kwelokuba isini siyahluka kubantu abaninzi. Ubungqina bucebisa ukuba iimvakalelo zesini zinokutshintsha ebomini. Inyaniso yokuba abantu abaninzi bayayitshintsha indlela abajonga ngayo ngokwesini yinyani eqinisekisiweyo. Ndingomnye waba bantu.

Andisaziva nditsala amadoda; amantombazana ngoku anomdla ngakumbi kum. Nje ukuba ndingacingi njalo, kodwa ngoku ndiyacinga.

Kanye, ukulala kubusuku obunesithukuthezi, ndizicingele ngenye indoda ngenye indlela, ngoku ndinokuzithelekelela ndedwa nentombazana yesetyhini.

Abanye abonwabanga yile meko yemicimbi. Baqinisekile ngesondo labo kangangokuba abanakwamkela ukuba kukho abo bangasenazo kwaphela iimvakalelo zabo. Banoyolo ngakumbi xa abantu bejika baba ngamafanasini, kodwa abathandi xa kwenzeke into eyahlukileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abafana nam babizwa ngokuba ngabasebenzi benzondo, kwaye kungenxa yokuba andifuni ukuba neentlobano zesini namadoda! 

Ngaba bakhetha mna ukuba bathi cwaka ngokutshintsha ubufanasini, ndihlale kubuxoki kwaye ndikukhanyele kwenzeka ntoni? Ewe, kuyabonakala! Bafuna ukundithulisa, bandiphange ilungelo lokuphila ngendlela endiyonyulayo, kwaye bandinyanzele ukuba ndikhokelele indlela yokuphila abazibona ifanelekile! 

Andiyekanga nje ukuba ngungqingili, kodwa ndiziva ndonwabile. Mna ngokwam ndiza kulawula ubomi bam ngendlela endifuna ngayo, hayi indlela abandixelela ngayo. Ndigqibe kwelokuba nditshintshe isini sam kwaye ndiyenzile.

Ukucaphula iintshutshiso zesini:
Ndilapha!
Andisemgceni kwakhona!
Qhela kuyo!

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Ibali elipheleleyo lesiNgesi: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man

Wenziwa njani umdla wabantu abathandana abathandanayo?

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UGqr. Julie Hamilton 6 iminyaka efundise ubuchwephesha kwi-Dyunivesithi yasePalm, esebenze njengomongameli woMbutho woMtshato kunye noNyango loSapho, nanjengoMongameli kwi-National Association for Study and Therapy yoBungqingili. Okwangoku, yingcali eqinisekisiweyo kwimicimbi yosapho kunye nomtshato kwimicimbi yabucala. Kwintetho yakhe ethi "Ubufanasini: Ikhosi yokuZazisa" (ubufanasini i-101), uGqirha Hamilton uthetha ngeentsomi ezigubungela isihloko sobufanasini kwinkcubeko yethu kwaye malunga nento eyaziwayo kuphando lwezesayensi. Ibonisa ezona zinto ziqhelekileyo ezinegalelo kuphuhliso lokutsalwa kwesini esifanayo kubafana namantombazana, kwaye zithetha malunga nokutshintsha imeko engathandekiyo yesini. 

• Ngaba ubufanasini buyazalwa okanye lukhetho? 
• Yintoni ekhokelela umntu ekutsaleni umdla wesini sakhe? 
• Kukhula njani ubufanasini? 
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uphinde uphinde uphinde? 

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