I-rhetoric yezombusazwe yezishoshovu ze-LGBT yakhelwe kuma-postulates amathathu angenasisekelo aqinisekisa "ukujwayelekile", "ukuzalwa" kanye "nokuhlaselwa" ukuheha ubungqingili. Yize kukhona imali eningi futhi nezifundo eziningi, lo mbono awutholakalanga isayensi. Ivolumu eyenziwe ubufakazi besayensi kunalokho kukhombisa okuphambene: ubungqingili buyi kutholiwe ukuphambuka kusuka kunqubo ejwayelekile yesifundazwe noma yenqubo yokuthuthuka, enikeze ukugqugquzeleka nokuzimisela kweklayenti, inika usizo ekukulungiseni okusebenzayo kwezengqondo.

Njengoba wonke umbono we-LGBT wakhelwe phezu kwezizathu ezingamanga, akunakwenzeka ukukufakazela ngendlela enengqondo. Ngakho-ke, ukuze bavikele umbono wabo, izishoshovu ze-LGBT ziyaphoqeleka ukuthi ziphendukele enkulumweni engenamizwa yokomzwelo, ubuDemoni, izinganekwane, izifakazelo kanye nezitatimende zamanga ezingazi, ngegama - ngomqondo. Umgomo wabo kule mpikiswano ukuthola iqiniso, kepha ukunqoba (noma ukubonakala kwayo) ezingxabanweni nganoma iyiphi indlela. Abanye abamele umphakathi we-LGBT sebevele beligxekile isu elimbona nje elifushane, bexwayisa izishoshovu ukuthi ngelinye ilanga lizobuyela kubo njenge-boomerang, futhi banxusa ukuthi bayeke ukusabalala kwezinganekwane ezilwa nesayensi, kodwa kwaba yize.

Okulandelayo, sizocabanga ngamaqhinga anengqondo ajwayelekile, amaqhinga, kanye nama-sophics, asetshenziswa ngabameli bemibono ye-LGBT.