Mu Julayi 2020, a John Blosnich wa LGBTQ+ Health Equality Center adafalitsa ina kuphunzira za "ngozi" ya mankhwala obwezeretsa. Pakafukufuku wa mamembala a 1518 a "anthu ochepa omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", gulu la Blosnich lidatsimikiza kuti anthu omwe adayesedwa kusintha malingaliro ogonana (omwe amatchedwa SOCE *) anena za kuchuluka kwa malingaliro ofuna kudzipha komanso kuyesa kudzipha kuposa omwe alibe. Zakhala zikutsutsidwa kuti SOCE ndi "kupsinjika kovulaza komwe kumawonjezera kudzipha kwa ochepa pakugonana". Chifukwa chake, kuyesa kusintha malingaliro ndikosavomerezeka ndipo kuyenera kusinthidwa ndi "kusiya kovomerezeka" komwe kungayanjanitse munthuyo ndi zilakolako zake zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kafukufukuyu amatchedwa "umboni wotsimikizika kwambiri wakuti SOCE imayambitsa kudzipha".
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Kusinthasintha koyendetsa zogonana komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino mwa amuna
PHUNZIRO ENA AKUSINTHA KUGWIRITSA NTCHITO NDI CHITETEZO CHA MANKHWALA OBWERETSA.
Monga andale otsogozedwa ndi LGBT akukhazikitsa malamulo oletsa chithandizo chamankhwala kwa anthu omwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kafukufuku wina watuluka ku US womwe ukuwonetsa mwamphamvu kuti anthu otere atha kuthandizidwa.
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Kocharyan G.S. - Bisexuality and Therapy Therapy: kafukufuku wamilandu
Mawu. Kuwunika kwachipatala kumaperekedwa pomwe tikukamba za "amuna ndi akazi” kwa mwamuna, ndikulongosolanso chithandizo chotembenuza chomwe adapatsidwa pogwiritsa ntchito pulogalamu ya hypnosuggestive, yomwe idakhala yothandiza kwambiri.
Pakadali pano, zoyesayesa zomwe sizinachitikepo zikuchitika kuti ziletse kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala obwezeretsa, omwe cholinga chake ndikusintha mchitidwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Amasalidwa ndipo samangonena zopanda ntchito, komanso zowopsa mthupi la munthu. Chifukwa chake, Disembala 7, 2016 nyumba yamalamulo ya Malta onse mogwirizana adapereka lamulo loletsa kugwiritsa ntchito njira zobwezeretsa. Pogwiritsa ntchito "kusintha, kupondereza ndikuwononga momwe amuna amagonana kapena amuna," lamuloli limapereka chindapusa kapena ndende. [7] Bundesrat (woyimira mayiko aku Germany) pa 5 June 2020 adavomereza lamulo loletsa mankhwalawa. Deutsche Welle akuti malowa atha kulangidwa ndikumangidwa mpaka chaka chimodzi, komanso kutsatsa ndi kuyimira pakati - chindapusa chofika ma euro 30 [1]. Ku US, zigawo 18 zokha, Puerto Rico ndi Washington DC, zaletsa chithandizo cha kusintha kwa ana. Akuluakulu atha kudzipereka kuchipatala m'dziko lonselo [9]... Instagram ndi Facebook adalengeza kutsekedwa kwa zolemba zonse patsamba lino zomwe zimalimbikitsa kutembenuka mtima [8].
Malingaliro akuti chithandizo chothandizira kutembenuka sikuti sichingogwira ntchito, koma nthawi zonse chimayambitsa kuvulaza thupi ndizabodza. Kutsutsana kofananira kungapezeke m'nkhani zathu [3; 4; 6]. Kuphatikiza apo, ntchito zathu zingapo zatiwonetsa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osinthira [2; 5].
Nayi nkhani yochokera kuchipatala chathu, komwe mankhwala otembenuka mtima anali opambana kwambiri pakukonza chiwongolero cha chilakolako chogonana mwa amuna omwe amakonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
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Kodi ndingasinthe momwe ndimakondera zogonana?
Zinthu zambiri pansipa zimasindikizidwa mu lipoti la kafukufuku. "Zosangalatsa za mayanjano ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha molingana ndi mfundo za sayansi". do:10.12731/978-5-907208-04-9, ISBN 978-5-907208-04-9
Zotsatira Zofunikira
(1) Pali maziko olimba a umboni wamankhwala ndi zamankhwala kuti kukopa osagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kungathetsedwe.
(2) Chofunikira pakuthandizira kwa kubwezeretsanso kwa chithandizo chamankhwala ndichoti wodwala azitenga nawo mbali komanso akufuna kusintha.
(3) Nthawi zambiri, chidwi cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, chomwe chimatha kutha msambo, chimatha popanda chododometsa pamsinkhu wokhwima kwambiri.
Jan Goland pothandizidwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (kuyankhulana kwapadera kwamavidiyo)
Maulosi
Koyambilira kwa 1990, olimbana ndi amuna okhaokha ku America adayesetsa kuti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha azindikire kuti ndi "gulu lotetezedwa" lapadera ku Khothi Lalikulu. Kuti gulu lina la anthu alandire chitetezo, liyenera kukhala loyambirira, lokhalokha komanso lokhalitsa (zomwe gay siili). Motere, olimbana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo amayambitsa nthano zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimatengedwa mosavuta ndikufalitsa ndi zofalitsa. Mosiyana ndi zenizeni za sayansi komanso malingaliro wamba, zidanenedwa kuti munthu m'modzi mwa khumi ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndipo kuti kukopeka ndi kugonana ndi khalidwe lobadwa nalo, ngati liwiro, lomwe limayambitsidwa ndi jini lapadera komanso losasinthika ngati khungu. Poyesera kuti adzifanane ndi magulu amtundu wina omwe kale anali oponderezedwa, ochita zachiwerewere mpaka adapanga mawu osayenera monga "zazing'ono zakugonana" komanso "anthu ogonana".
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Chithandizo cha zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zisanachitike zolondola zandale
Milandu yambiri yothandiza kuchiritsa kwa anthu omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kukopa akufotokozedwa mwatsatanetsatane m'mabuku akatswiri. Nenani Bungwe la National Association for the Study and Therapy of kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha likuwonetsa mwachidule umboni wopatsa chidwi, malipoti azachipatala ndi kafukufuku kuyambira kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 1800 mpaka pano, zomwe zimatsimikizira motsimikiza kuti abambo ndi amayi omwe ali ndi chidwi atha kusintha kuchokera pa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kupita amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Nyengo isanakhale yolondola pandale, zinali zodziwika bwino zasayansi, zomwe ndi zaulere analemba atolankhani apakati. Ngakhale American Psychiatric Association, kupatula kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pamndandanda wazovuta zamaganizidwe mu 1974, adalemba, izo "Njira zamakono zamankhwala zimalola gawo lalikulu la ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe akufuna kusintha malingaliro awo kuti atero".
Kutanthauzira kumatsatira zolemba kuchokera ku New York Times ya 1971.
Chithandizo cha akazi okhaokha
Dokotala wanzeru, psychoanalyst ndi MD, Edmund Bergler adalemba mabuku a 25 pa psychology ndi 273 m'magazini otsogolera akatswiri. Mabuku ake amakhala ndi mitu monga kakulidwe ka ana, ma neurosis, zovuta zam'banja, mavuto aukwati, njuga, kudziwononga, komanso kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Bergler adadziwika kuti anali katswiri wa nthawi yake pankhani ya kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Otsatirawa ndi zochuluka kuchokera kuntchito yake.
Mabuku aposachedwa komanso zopangidwa poyesera zayesa kufotokoza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngati osasangalala omwe akuyenera kuwachitira chifundo. Chidandaulo cha tiziwalo tamatumbo tachuma ndizosathandiza: amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zonse amatha kugwiritsa ntchito chithandizo chamisala ndikuchiritsidwa ngati akufuna. Koma kusazindikira kwa anthu ambiri kuli ponseponse pankhaniyi, ndipo kupusitsa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pongoganiza za iwo okha ndiwothandiza kwambiri kwakuti ngakhale anthu anzeru omwe sanabadwe dzulo anagwa chifukwa cha nyambo.
Zochitika zaposachedwa kwambiri zamaganizidwe ndi kufufuza kwatsimikizira kuti chiyembekezo chosasinthika cha anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (nthawi zina chimafotokozedwanso chifukwa cha kupezeka kwachilengedwe ndi mahomoni) kwenikweni ndikugawanitsa kwa mitsempha. Chiyembekezo chazovuta zam'mbuyomu pang'onopang'ono zikusowa: masiku ano ma psychothernamic malangizo omwe amawongolera amatha kuchiritsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Mwa kuchiritsa, ndikutanthauza:
1. kusowa chidwi kwathunthu pakati pa amuna ndi akazi;
2. chisangalalo chabwinobwino chakugonana;
3. kusintha kwamakhalidwe.