Iingcinga zihlala zifika zokuba akusekho mandla.
Ukuba ngenye imini andinakumelana nayo, ke vumela wena
iya kuba libali lethu. Mhlawumbi umntu uza kunceda.
Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, masihlale siyimbali
ubomi obaphukileyo kunye neentlungu zempambano.
Sifikelwe ngumama ononyana oneminyaka engamashumi amabini ubudala ngequbuliso uyekile eyunivesithi kunyaka wakhe wesine wabaleka ekhaya ukuze kungabikho mntu unokumthintela "ekutshintsheni isini". Yonke le nto yaqala kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo ngencoko kunye nentombazana engaqhelekanga kwi-Intanethi, enotyekelo olucacileyo lokukhohlisa, ukungenisa kunye ne-gynemimethophilia -ukutsala amadoda kwimpahla yabasetyhini nakubantu abadlulayo. Intombazana ibiza unyana wayo kuphela "intombazana yam endiyithandayo." Kukho impembelelo engagungqiyo yengqondo kuye kunye nesimo sengqondo ngokuchasene nonina kunye nezihlobo. Ngomyalelo wentombazana, unyana wakhe washiya umzi kwaye wanqumla onke amaqhina kunye nezihlobo zakhe, ebathintela kwinethiwekhi yoluntu kunye nokutshintsha inombolo yefowuni. Apha ngezantsi sinika kwifom efinyeziweyo ileta ebuya kunina igcwele ziintlungu nokuphelelwa lithemba.