«Ngadinga usizo
ikhanda, hhayi umzimba wami. "

Ngokusho idatha yakamuva I-UK kanye ne-US, i-10-30% yabantu abasanda kuguquka bayayeka ukushintsha phakathi neminyaka embalwa yokuqala inguquko.

Ukuthuthukiswa kokunyakaza kwabesifazane kwanikeza umfutho ekwakhiweni kwemfundiso mbumbulu yesayensi "yobulili", ethi ukwehluka kwezintshisekelo namakhono phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane akunqunywa ukwehluka kwabo kwemvelo, kepha kukhuliswa kanye nezinkolelo-mbono umphakathi wobukhokho obubeka kubo. Ngokwalo mqondo, “ubulili” “ubulili obungokwengqondo” bomuntu, obunganciki ebulilini bakhe begazi futhi abuhambisani ncamashi nalo, maqondana nokuthi umuntu ophilayo ngokwengqondo angazizwa engowesifazane futhi enze izindima zabesifazane kwezenhlalo, futhi okuphambene nalokho. Abalandeli bomqondo babiza lesi simo ngokuthi "transgender" futhi bathi kuyinto ejwayelekile. Kwezokwelapha, lokhu kuphazamiseka kwengqondo kwaziwa njenge-transsexualism (ICD-10: F64).

Akudingeki ukuthi kushiwo, yonke "inkolelo-mbono yobulili" isuselwa emibonweni engenangqondo engenasiqiniseko nasekwenzeni imibono engenasisekelo. Kufanisa ubukhona bolwazi ngokungabi bikho okunjalo. Kodwa-ke, eminyakeni yamuva nje, ukusakazeka kwe- "transgender", ikakhulukazi phakathi kwentsha, sekube ubhadane. Kusobala ukuthi ukungcoliswa komphakathi ngokuhambisana nokuphazamiseka okuhlukahlukene kwengqondo nobuchopho kudlala indima ebalulekile kulokhu. Inani labantu abasha abazimisele “ukuguqula ubulili” selikhuphukile eminyakeni yamuva kashumi futhi yafika ezingeni lamarekhodi. Ngesizathu esingaziwa, i-3/4 yazo zingamantombazane.

Emazweni aseNtshonalanga, indlela evumayo kuphela evunyelwe ezigulini ezinokungazi kobulili; ukungathembi imizwa yesiguli noma umzamo wokumelana nayo uthathwa ngokuthi “ukwephulwa kwamalungelo abantu”. Odokotela abangabaza "umqondo wobulili" banikezwa isiyalo esiyisibonelo futhi balahlekelwe yimisebenzi... Ngakho-ke, abasebenzi bezempilo manje sebechaza ama-hormone abhekene nobulili obuhlukile nokudluliselwa ekusebenzeni kwezitho zomzimba kuwo wonke umuntu ngaphandle kwemibuzo.

Ngasikhathi sinye, ososayensi baseRussia bikaukuthi kuphela i-13% yalabo abafake isicelo "sokushintsha ucansi" abangenazo izifo zengqondo ezihambisanayo (okungasho ukuthi azikho). Ku-87%, i-transsexualism yayihlanganiswe nokuphazamiseka kwe-schizophrenic spectrum, ukuphazamiseka kobuntu nokunye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Kanjani iyavuma UWalt Heyer, owenza "ushintsho olubuyela emuva" ebulilini bakhe beqiniso eminyakeni engama-25 eyedlule, uma lezi zingqinamba zilungiswa kuqala, isifiso "sokushintsha ubulili" siyanyamalala. "IDysphoria yezobulili kufanele yelashwe ngokwelashwa kwengqondo, hhayi isikhumba.", - uqinisekile.

Ku-2017, ku bika E-Stonewall University yaseCambridge, kutholakale ukuthi ama-96% abafundi baseScotland abakhomba njengo "transgender" bazibandakanye nokuzilimaza ngendlela yokusikeka kanti ama-40% azamile ukuzibulala. Izibalo ezifanayo zatholakala ocwaningweni olwenziwe e-United States, naseSweden ebekezelela kakhulu: ithuba lokuthi “abantu abadlulise ubulili” bazibulale Izikhathi eziyi-19 ngaphezulukunabantu abaningi, noma ngemuva kokuhlinzwa kokuguqulwa komzimba.

I-Government Equality Bureau ilinganisela ukuthi kukhona phakathi kwama-200 kanye nama-500 "abantu abadlulayo" e-UK, kepha azikho izibalo eziqondile. Isibalo esiqondile sabantu abanganeliseki ngobunikazi babo obusha noma abanqume ukubuyela ebulilini babo begazi naso asaziwa. UWalt Heyer kuwebhusayithi yakhe usathompso.com ithi bakhona cishe ama-20% abo futhi inani labo liyakhula. Laba bantu bazibiza ngokuthi "abahlukumezi".

AbakwaDetrans bakhethe intulo njengophawu lwabo ngenxa yekhono layo lokuvuselela izitho nezitho zomzimba. Futhi noma ngabe abantu bakhohliswe yi-transgender propaganda abenze "inguquko" yokuhlinzwa abasoze bakwazi ukuvuselela izitho zabo ezilahlekile, kunethemba lokuthi bazokwazi ukuthola okungenani ubuqotho obungokomzwelo nangokwengqondo empilweni yabo enzima. Kulesi sihloko, sizobheka izindaba zabaningana babo.

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USinead, oneminyaka engu-29. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okubuhlungu nobunzima okwamehlela ebusheni bakhe kwamholela ekubeni enqabe ubufazi futhi afise ukuba yindoda. Manje uyabona ukuthi "ushintsho" aluzange luxazulule izinkinga nokukhathazeka kwakhe. 

“Uya emtholampilo wezobulili bese kuthi ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa uqale ukuthatha i-testosterone, - Kusho uSinead... - Udokotela wezifo zengqondo wangitshela ukuthi ngingu-transgender. Bengicabanga ukuthi uma nginikezwe i-testosterone, khona-ke ngiyi-transgender ngempela. Ngaphandle kwemibuzo ejwayelekile, akekho noyedwa ophenye ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi kube khona ezinye izinto. Ngizamile ukukhuluma ngezinkinga zami nodokotela, kepha I-dysphoria yezobulili inconywe njengembangela yezinkinga zami, hhayi uphawu... Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, ngicabanga ukuthi izinkinga zami zobulili zisuselwa ezinkingeni zezempilo yengqondo, hhayi ngenye indlela. ” 

Ekuqaleni, uSinead uwuthandile umphumela wokuthatha amadiphozithi ka-testosterone asatshalaliswa kabusha, izwi laba liphansi, kwavela izinwele ebusweni, futhi amadoda agcina eyekile ukuwunaka. Kuye kwakubonakala sengathi ushintsho lwaluyinto enhle kunazo zonke ake wazenza. Kodwa akakaze aphuze kakhulu utshwala njengoba enza manje. Wayesayizonda imvelo yakhe njengowesifazane, futhi wayehlala ecindezelekile njalo, ngenxa yalokho kwakudingeka aphuze equlekile. Ekugcineni, konke kwagcina kungukuphazamiseka kwemizwa, okwathi ngemuva kwalokho wabona ukuthi ungowesifazane, futhi kwakungadingeki ukuthi anyathele indlela enonya yokulimala okungenakulungiseka. 

Manje uSinead uzama ukufunda ukwamukela isidumbu sakhe esonakele futhi esonakele. Ngaphambi kokuphuma endlini, uphuca ngokucophelela ubuso nesifuba sakhe futhi uhlala ethwala isigqoko ukuze afihle izinwele zakhe eziwohlokayo. Ukhona ezingxoxweni zeqembu nabanye abaphambukayo futhi uqobo uyazi cishe ikhulu elifana naye. Kepha kunabanye abaningi abangasebenzi ku-inthanethi. USinead ukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kumane nje kuyisiqongo seqhwa, futhi kuzoba nokuningi ngokwengeziwe kwabo. Ufuna abakwa-detrander bazi ukuthi ababodwa futhi bangathola abantu abazoxhumana nabo futhi babaseke. 

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ULucy, 23. Ukwenqatshwa komzimba wakhe kwaqala ebusheni bakhe. Ekuqaleni, wazama ukumshintsha ngokudla nangeziteleka zendlala, okwamenza waba ne-anorexia. Lapho isisindo sikaLucy sehla safinyelela kuma-39 kg, abazali bakhe bamthumela ekwelashweni okuyimpoqo. Ekugcineni, isisindo sakhe sazinza, kepha waba ne-bulimia, namanje asalwa nayo. Ngaphandle kokuthi amabele kaLucy ayesevele emancane, wayefuna ukuwasusa. Wafuna imininingwane online futhi wathola isayithi elalikhuluma ngokushintshana ngocansi. ULucy waqala ukufunda izindaba ezimayelana "nabantu abadlulayo" futhi kancane kancane wagcwala imibono yokukhohlisa yombono we-trans. Lapho eneminyaka engu-20, waqala ukuthatha ama-hormone. Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kamuva, kwenzeka imastectomy (ukususwa kwebele). Kwabe sekufika ukuphenduka kwe-hysterectomy (ukususwa kwesibeletho) kanye ne-oophorectomy (ukususwa kwamaqanda). Konke lokhu kwenzeke ngendlela eshesha kakhulu. 

"Uma ufuna ulwazi ngokushintshwa kokushintshwa, ungathola kalula uhlu lodokotela abasebenza nabantu be-transgender - etshela uLucy... "Bazosisekela kalula isifiso sakho, futhi noma ngomthamo wokuqala ungathola incwadi kadokotela ye-testosterone." 

ULucy uthi izingxoxo nabangane bakhe abasebunzimeni zimzuzise kakhulu ngoba useyekile ukuzizwa enesizungu. Kodwa futhi kwakunzima, ngoba abanye "abantu abadlulayo" babembiza ngokuthi ungumqambimanga, imbuka futhi bamhlazisa ngokubabukela phansi - "abantu be-trans real". 

“Ngesizathu esithile, akekho osola odokotela noma odokotela abahlinzayo Kusho uLucy. “Sengivele ngilahlekelwe ezinye izingxenye zomzimba wami, ngakho-ke amagama abantu abadluliswayo awakwazi ukulimaza ngempela. Zonke izinto ezimbi abazisho kubantu abagcinwayo azilutho uma ziqhathaniswa nobuhlungu engibuzwayo ngokulahlekelwa isitho sami. Ngishaqekile, ngiyaqaphela manje ukuthi lapho ngaya kohlinzwa isibeletho, akekho owangichazela ukuthi zibaluleke kangakanani lezi zitho. Isikhathi sesihambile manje. Ngineminyaka engama-23 futhi empeleni ngiyeka ukuya esikhathini, ngazo zonke izici zezempilo ezikhona. Angikwazi ukuthola ukuthi odokotela bakuvumele kanjani lokhu - abasoze bavuma ukuba nesibeletho ngokuphelele entombazaneni eneminyaka engama-21 ngaphandle kwezizathu zokwelashwa. Kepha uma le ntombazane iqala ukuzikhomba kubantu besilisa, ngokuzumayo ukuhlinzwa okunjalo kungatholakala kalula. Uma ngibheka emuva, angiqondi ukuthi kungani kungekho noyedwa owanaka inkinga yami yokudla, ukuthi ngangizizwa kanjani ngingungqingili kanye nezimpawu zokuphazamiseka ngokweqile. "..

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U-Lee, 62. NjengoLucy, waba nezinkinga ngombono womzimba wakhe kusukela esemncane. Wayezibheka njengomuntu okhuluphele kakhulu futhi ezonda nezingubo “ayehlohlwa” kuzo. Umama nogogo bakhonze umfowabo, ngakho-ke wayefuna ukugqoka izingubo ezifanayo nezitayela zezinwele njengezakhe, kepha wayengavunyelwe. Lapho eba neminyaka engu-15, ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi engekho, ubaba wabo waphinde waxhumana nabo. Uthathe izingane ezihambahamba, wathenga izipho, wanikela ngemali. Wabe esebamema ukuba bahlale endlini yakhe; umama wayephikisana nayo, kepha akashongo ukuthi kungani. ULi uhambe, ngobusuku bokuqala uyise wamdlwengula. Ekuseni konke kuphindaphindiwe ...

Lapho eneminyaka engu-44 ubudala, wabona ku-TV uhlelo mayelana nowesifazane owenza "ushintsho lwezocansi". Wacabanga ukuthi angaba sesikhundleni sakhe. Kwakubonakala kuyena ukuthi lokhu kwakuyimpendulo. U-Lee wenze isikhathi sokubonana nodokotela eLondon. Ngesikhathi ehambele okokuqala, wamtshela: "Masingachithi isikhathi" futhi wamjova nge-testosterone.

«Bengikufuna ngaleso sikhathi, kepha manje ngicabanga ukuthi bekungalungile - kusho uLee... - Engangikudinga ngempela kwakuyi-psychotherapy. Ikhanda lami belidinga usizo, hhayi umzimba wami... Kepha ngithande i-testosterone. Eminyakeni elandelayo, ngathola isibeletho kanye ne-oophorectomy, izimila zamasende kanye ne-metoidioplasty, efana nepipi elincane eliphuma kwi-clitoris. Kepha eyami ibinganele ngokwanele - cishe i-7 mm. Ekugcineni, ngaba ne-vaginectomy (ukususwa kwengxenye yesitho sangasese sowesifazane) kwase kuba ne-phalloplasty. Izindwangu zithathwe ezandleni zami. Izibazi zisabonakala. Le yinqubo ebucayi futhi enzima enesikhathi eside sokululama. Ngemuva kwalokho bekufanele ngiphuze ama-antibiotic isikhathi eside. " 

U-Lee uchithe isikhathi esiningi nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo futhi wabona ukuthi uyazisola "ngenguquko" yakhe. Ungathanda ukubuyela emuva ngaphambi kokuya kokubonisana nodokotela ngezindaba zobulili. Wacabanga ngokwenza "ushintsho oluhlehlayo," kodwa wanquma ukuthi ngokomzimba umzimba wakhe ngeke ume.

«Anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ngingasinda kukho konke ukuhlinzwa, ”kusho uLee. - Ngizolwa nomzimba wami impilo yami yonke. Kuzofanele ngikwamukele njengoba kunjalo manje. Ngaphandle, abantu babona umfana ogijimayo, kodwa ngaphakathi ngiyintombazane encane ehlukumezekile. Yize manje sengizemukela kakhulu kunakuqala. Ngifisa sengathi bangangisiza ukuthi ngamukele phambilini. "

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UThomasin, oneminyaka engu-20. Kusukela ebusheni, wayenomuzwa wokuthi abafana babengamhehi ngokocansi, futhi kwakusobala ukuthi kulokhu wayehlukile kwamanye amantombazane. Efuna impendulo, wabheka kwi-Intanethi, lapho athola khona igama elithi "asexuality". UThomasin uthathe isinqumo sokuthi uma engakhangwa abafana, kufanele "abe ngokobulili." Ngemuva kwalokho wadlulisela imizwa yakhe mayelana nezocansi "kobulili" - “Angibathandi abafana, kumele ngibe ngokobulili; Angizizwa njengamanye amantombazane, kumele ngibe ngumuntu osemusha. " Ngokushesha uthathe isinqumo sokuthi esikhundleni sezinkinga ezicashile ezingezona ezambini kuzoba lula ukusho ukuthi ungumfana, futhi kungakapheli iminyaka engu-2,5 waziveza njengo "transgender", eguqula yonke imibhalo.

UThomasin akakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi kungani imizwa yakhe ishintshile, kepha lapho eneminyaka engu-18, wavele wabona ukuthi angafuna ukuba nezingane. Waqala ukubona amaphutha kumazisi wakhe we "transgender" futhi waqala ukungabaza futhi.

“Manje sengibonga ukuthi bengingenayo i-mastectomy, kodwa-ke ngadlula ekuzivikeleni futhi ngazizwa kabi, - uyaba Thomasin... - Manje ngiphatha umzimba wami wesifazane kangcono kunakuqala futhi sengifunde ukwamukela amabele ami. Ngenkathi ngithengisa, ngangivame ukugeza noma ngigeze kanye ngenyanga - ngangizonda umzimba wami kakhulu. Sengikwazi ukugeza manje nsuku zonke - futhi lokhu kungukuthuthuka kwangempela! Ngakwamukela ukukhanga kwami ​​kwabesifazane. Ngiyakuqonda ukuthi kunabantu abane-dysphoria ebucayi, kepha ngicabanga ukuthi esinye sezizathu esenza abesifazane benze lolu shintsho yingoba abakwazi ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi bangongqingili. ”..

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Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-28 yaseBrithani UCharlie Evans, okwathi iminyaka eyishumi azibheka njengendoda, kodwa waphinde wamukela ubulili bakhe bangempela, kwenziwe obala indaba yakhe, wagcwala imiyalezo amakhulu abantu abazizwa ngendlela efanayo naye. Lokhu kumenze wakha iphrojekthi. Inethiwekhi Yokumela AbakwaDetransitionosiza abanye abantu "bokugcina" ukubhekana nenzondo nokuhlukunyezwa okuvela emphakathini ongabekezelelani we-LGBT, obathatha njengabakhapheli.

U-Evans uqamba izici eziyinhloko zabantu abenza "ukucekela phansi": imvamisa baneminyaka engaba ngu-20 ubudala, ikakhulukazi ngabesifazane, imvamisa bangongqingili, okuthi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, bavame ukutholakala bene-autism.

“Ngikhuluma nezingane ezineminyaka engu-19 nengama-20 ezenze ukuhlinzwa okugcwele kwezocansi futhi ziyazisola. I-dysphoria yabo ayikapheli, abazizwa bengcono futhi abazi ukuthi benzeni manje, ” Kusho uEvans.

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Elinye "ibuya emadodeni" elwela amalungelo abesifazane elinguDagny lithi imithombo yezokuxhumana iyona ehamba phambili ekugqugquzeleni izingane ezineshwa ukuba "zishintshe ubulili", kodwa entukuthelweni yakhe, yizincwadi zobuKrestu ezilandelanayo kuphela ezinendaba nendaba yakhe, kanti izindaba ezisalele ziye zadlula kuye ukuthula.

Ngesikhathi sokuthomba, ehlangabezana nokudideka okukhulu kusukela ekuqaleni kokuya esikhathini kanye namabele akhulayo, uDagny wenza okuthunyelwe kwinsizakalo yemibuzo ye-Yahoo enesihloko esithi "Ngiyintombazane eneminyaka eyi-12, kodwa ngifuna ukuba ngumfana," lapho "abafisa okuhle" bemtshele khona ngale mpumelelo ephambili yempucuko yaseNtshonalanga. ngokuthi "ukwabiwa kabusha kobulili". Ngemuva kokusetha i-akhawunti yeTumblr futhi wabhalisela amaqembu e-LGBT, waqala washaywa wumqondo wokuthi "wayengeyena unambambili," wabe eseqiniseka ukuthi "wayengu-trans man". Ethonywe nguTumblr, waqala ukubheka abazali bakhe njengabantu abashiseka ngokweqile ngoba babengamvumeli ukuthi aqale "ukwelashwa" kwama-hormone. Wayezonda futhi ebhala njengesitha noma ngubani okhuluma naye njengowesifazane. UDagny wayenesiqiniseko sokuthi ngenxa yokuthi wayengu “trans,” wayebophezelekile ekuziphatheni, futhi noma ikuphi ukungabaza kwakhe kwakubangelwa "i-transphobia yangaphakathi".

Manje eneminyaka engama-22, uDagny akasafuni ukwenza "inguquko" futhi ukubheka kubalulekile ukuthi izingane ezine-dysphoria yobulili zazi ukuthi zinokukhetha.

“Sanikezwa inketho eyodwa kuphela, nengcuphe yemiphumela emibi kakhulu: uma intsha ifuna ukuba ngowobulili obuhlukile, kufanele ivunyelwe ukuthi 'iguquke' - le yindaba kuphela esathengiselwa yona. Abantu abanjengami babonisa ukungqubuzana okungahambi kahle kwale ndaba. ", Kusho uDagny.

Ngenxa yephrojekthi yakhe amadnazi.info, lapho amanye amantombazane amathathu enze "ukuhlukumeza" ehilelekile, okungenani abasha ababili benqabile "ukushintsha ubulili".

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UKira Bell, 23, waba nezinkinga zengqondo esemusha. Ngokumelene nesizinda sokudangala isikhathi eside, waba nezinkinga zobunikazi. Lapho eneminyaka eyi-15, uKira wanquma ukuthi isizathu sokunganeliseki kwakhe ngempilo sasikubulili bakhe "obungalungile", futhi waya eMtholampilo waseTavistock. Emhlanganweni wesithathu, wayesevele enqunyelwe ukuvimba ukuthomba. Intombi yabo yathatha cishe unyaka. Isigaba esilandelayo "soguquko" kwaba wukudla kwe-testosterone yamadoda, ngenxa yokuthi izinwele zaqala ukukhula emzimbeni nasebusweni, nezwi lakhe laba liphansi. Ngo-2017, le ntombazane yaya kohlinzwa okokuqala ngoplastiki yasuswa amabele. Kodwa-ke, ngokushesha ngemuva kokuphuma esibhedlela, uKira waba nomuzwa wokuthi wayenza iphutha. Ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, intombazane yayeka ukuthatha imishanguzo futhi ekugcineni yabona ukuthi ayifuni ukuguqula ubulili bayo. Kepha kuvele ukuthi sekwephuze kakhulu - iminyaka ende yokwelashwa kwamahomoni isiyenzile indima yayo, futhi izwi nomzimba wakhe manje sekufana nabesilisa kunabesifazane.

Manje uKira umangalela lo mtholampilo, ethi njengoba esemusha one-psyche engazinzile, wayengeke ahlole ngokuqonda isimo sakhe, kanti ochwepheshe, esikhundleni sokunaka lokhu nokumkholisa, balandela ukuhola kwakhe. UKira nakanjaniukuthi, uma kufiswa, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zingaphonsela inselelo ekukhohlisweni kwakhe futhi zimnikeze ukwesekwa kokuziphatha. Kufanele bacabangele ubulili bomuntu bomzimba, hhayi nje ubunikazi babo "bobulili". Ufuna ukuthi odokotela benze okuningi ukutadisha izizathu zokuthi kungani abantu abasha befuna "ukushintsha ubulili" ngaphambi kokubanika ama-hormone nokuhlinzwa.

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U-Ellie, oneminyaka engu-21. Wazenza owesilisa okwesikhashana wabe esebuyela ebulilini bakhe beqiniso. U-Ellie ukhuluma ngokukhohliswa kukadokotela, okwamgqugquzela ukuthi athathe imishanguzo yamahomoni nomonakalo waphakade. Ubuye akhulume ngokushoda kwemibono yokulinganisela engamkhulula kulezi zinkathazo ezingadingekile. 

Ekuqaleni, lapho eneminyaka eyi-15, u-Ellie wanquma ukuthi wayengungqingili, kodwa waqhubeka nokusindwa umqondo wokuthi uzoba ngowesifazane lapho esekhulile. U-Ellie waya ezinhlanganweni ezaziyithumela kubadokotela bezengqondo. 

"Kungimangazile ukwelulekwa yibo - bakhulume ngokukhethekile ngokuba yindoda nokusebenza, - utshela u-Ellie. “Ngicabanga ukuthi bengifuna izimpendulo ezihluke ngokuphelele. Ngangidumazekile, kepha bafaka inhlamvu yokungabaza kimi. Ngemuva kokubuka amavidiyo e-YouTube amantombazane eba ngabafana abahle, ngaqala ukucabanga ukuthi umzimba wami uzobukeka ungcono uma ngithatha i-testosterone. Abazali bami bangiyisa kudokotela wezengqondo owathi angiyena umuntu oguqula ubulili futhi kufanele ngilinde ngize ngibe neminyaka engu-18. Kwakungiphathe kabi ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sangihlambalaze phambi kwabazali bami futhi sabakholisa ukuthi bahambe nami siye ezinhlanganweni ezazihamba phambili engangikuzo ngaphambili. Udokotela abasithumela kuye wayehluke ngokuphelele. Uthe: kungani ungalinda kuze kube yi-18 uma i-testosterone isebenza kangcono uma uyiqala manje? Uthe umphumela we-testosterone uyabuyiselwa emuva futhi anginalutho lokukhathazeka ngalokho ethukile mina, ngoba ngangazi ukuthi kungamanga. Kodwa ngangazi ukuthi yilokhu abazali bami ababedinga ukukuzwa ukuze bavumelane, futhi angishongo lutho. ” 

Ngemuva konyaka, kwasuswa amabele akhe. Uyise u-Eric uyakhumbula ukuthi wayenokungabaza, kepha udokotela wamqinisekisa ukuthi kuzoba ngcono ngale ndlela. "Ngingathanda ukuhlangana nomuntu ozongigqugquzela amagama bese ngithola izingxabano ezizomenza alinde futhi acabange ngakho kabanzi, kodwa bebengekho abantu abanjalo", - uyavuma.

U-Ellie ekuqaleni wayekujabulela ukuhlala futhi ebukeka njengendoda, kodwa ekugcineni wazizwa ukuthi kwakungeyona eyakhe, futhi isinyathelo esilandelayo empilweni yakhe kwakuzoba inqubo yokwamukela umzimba wakhe oguqukile. Uzohlala ene-apula lika-Adam, izintende zezandla ezinkulu nezihlakala ngoba waqala ukuthatha i-testosterone esemncane kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, akakhululeki ngezwi eliphansi nentshebe, ayohlala enakho njalo. Waphinde watholakala ukuthi une-atrophy yesitho sangasese sowesifazane, umphumela ohlangothini wokuthatha i-testosterone.

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Isithandwa sika-Ellie, uNele oneminyaka engu-24 ubuye abe "ngumuntu owayekade edlulisa izinto". Ngesinye isikhathi, kwaqala ukubonakala kuye ukuthi amadoda ayemnaka kakhulu futhi emgqolozela njalo emabeleni akhe. UNele waba nokuzonda umzimba, wathatha ama-hormone abesilisa nabesifazane futhi, ngokusekelwa ngu-Ellie, wenza i-mastectomy. Kodwa injabulo ayikaze ifike. UNele uphakamise ukubuyela emvelweni isikhashana bese ubona ukuthi kwenzekani, no-Ellie wavuma.

"Ngijabule kakhulu ukuthi angizange ngisuse isibeletho", - UNele uyakhombisa. - Lokhu kusho ukuthi ngingayeka ukuthatha ama-hormone futhi umzimba wami uzobuye ube ngowesifazane futhi. " Kepha iminyaka yokuthatha i-testosterone inemiphumela ejulile, engalungiseki. Izwi lami ngeke libuye. Bengikuthanda ukucula, manje angikwazi ukukwenza, ngoba izwi lami seliphenduke isidina kakhulu, selisebenza ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele manje. Uma ngifonela othile, bangithatha njengendoda. "

UNele uthi yize "ehlehlisiwe", akazisoli "ngenguquko" yakhe yokuqala, ngoba bekuyiyona ndlela eyodwa yokuzibulala ngaleso sikhathi, kodwa futhi kumholele ekutheni aqagele ngezimbangela zangempela zalesi sinyathelo esiqine kangaka.

Womabili la mantombazane aphethe iwebhusayithi namuhla Thumela-Trans.com, equkethe izindaba zabanye abesifazane abenze isinyathelo esibulalayo ngaphansi kwethonya le-propaganda ye-trans, kepha banquma ukubuya.

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U-Irina, oneminyaka engu-31. Wabuye wahlinzwa kabusha, wathola isitifiketi sokuzalwa esisha, ipasipoti enegama lowesilisa kanye nomazisi wezempi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, wabona ukuthi wayenze iphutha elikhulu kakhulu empilweni yakhe futhi manje usephokophela “ukuba ngowesifazane” futhi, okungenani ngokwemibhalo. Ngokusho kwentombazane, unina wakhe kuye ukungathandi konke okwabesifazane, ahlala naye waze waba neminyaka engu-19.

“Ngalesi sikhathi, kwaqhuma okuthile kimi, ngaqala ukufuna izindlela zokuxazulula inkinga nokwesekwa, - kusho u-Irina. Ngikuthole ku-Intanethi kusuka kwizishoshovu zomnyakazo we-trans. Bangichazele ukuthi angizithandi ngamabele ngqo ngoba ngingowesilisa ocansini, hhayi ngoba. ukuthi ngikhuliswe kabi. "

Izishoshovu zakwaTrans zameluleka ukuthi athenge ama-hormone abesilisa kwi-Intanethi, azame. Ngemuva kwenyanga ethathe, izwi lentombazane laqala ukonakala, kwavela amanothi wesilisa kuyo. Ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ethathe u-Irina, izinwele zakhe zobuso zaqala ukukhula, umzimba wakhe washintsha. Futhi ngemuva konyaka, i-apula lika-Adam lakhula. Kulesi sifundazwe, weza ukuzobona udokotela owamxilonga njenge-transsexualism yenukliya.

“Okokuqala, sishintshe yonke imibhalo, - U-Irina uthi, - kwabe sekuhlinzwa. Okokuqala, ukususwa kwesifuba, bese kususwa isibeletho namaqanda. Ngiyaxolisa kakhulu ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi akekho noyedwa ongoti owaphakamisa ukuthi ngiphinde ngicabange isimo sami sengqondo ngomzimba wami, ngiyeke ukuthatha ama-hormone ngithole ukwelashwa kwengqondo. "

U-Irina uqinisekisa ukuthi, empeleni, ama-hormone awakwazi ukumane azanywe bese eyeka ngaphandle kobuhlungu. Kuqala ukuba umlutha omubi.

“Eminyakeni emithathu ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, ngayeka ukudla ama-hormone. Ukuncika kumakhemikhali nokuba yindoda yokwakheka akujwayelekile futhi akujwayelekile. Njalo ngenyanga ukwazi kwakho kuyashintsha, uqala nokucabanga njengendoda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaqala ukuba nezinkinga ngezinso, isibindi, ukuvuvukala ezandleni zami, umzimba wami waqala ukukhuluphala, igazi lami laba likhulu. Lapho ubuso bami sebuphenduke baba phuzi amasonto amathathu, kwakuwumbono omubi. Futhi nginqume - kwanele! Kwakungasafuneki ngokuzichaza, kodwa kwakushiwo ngempilo yokuqala ngisho nempilo enjalo, ” - kusho u-Irina.

U-Irina uyakuqinisekisa ukuthi akasakufuni ukuhlinzwa: umzimba usuvele wonakele kabi.

“Awazi ukuthi kwakunzima kanjani ukuvuma kimi ukuthi ngenze iphutha futhi ngazama ukukulungisa. Into eyinhloko kwaba - ukunqoba ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi. Manje umsebenzi wami wokuqala uwukuthi - buyisela ipasipoti yowesifazane, thola umsebenzi omuhle bese uhlela impilo yomuntu uqobo. Bengihlale ngibathanda abesilisa. Ngazama namantombazane - hhayi eyami. Futhi noma nganginegama lowesilisa, ngangithandana nomfana othile. Ukube bekungeyona eyokuhlinzwa, ngabe kade ngashada ngabeletha izingane ”, - Kusho u-Irina.

Namuhla u-Irina uhlala efulethini elinegumbi elilodwa eMinsk nezilwane zakhe zasekhaya futhi wenza noma imuphi umsebenzi, ngisho okhokhelwa kancane. Uqinisekile: ukube imishanguzo yamahomoni ibingatholakali kangako, ushintsho olunjalo belungeke luqale emzimbeni wakhe, ubengeke alokothe ​​ahlinzwe futhi ubengeke abhekane nazo zonke izinkinga obekufanele abhekane nazo empilweni.

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UNatalia Uzhakova uyazi futhi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuhlala kowesifazane, "owesilisa" futhi futhi emzimbeni wesifazane. Uyazi nokuthi i-transsexualism iyelapheka. Namuhla, ngendaba yakhe, uNataliya usiza abanye abantu abadidekile ukuthi bangaphindi amaphutha akhe.

"Cishe iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili yempilo yami, nganginguDima ocansini, - Kusho uNatalia. - Le nkinga yaqala ukuvela kimi ngineminyaka emithathu noma emine. Abazali bami babefuna umfana futhi baze bangifaka nesifiso sami sokudlala indodana. Lapho sengiyibhobhodleyana, ngaqala ukuyilahla imvelo yami yokuba ngowesifazane. Ngazama ukushefa. Ngangibukeka kahle njengowesilisa, kepha nganginobuchopho obenele bokungaqali ukusebenzisa ama-hormone. Utshele abazali bakhe: Angikwazi ukuba ngowesifazane, noma ngihlinzwe ngocansi, noma-ke ngeke ngiphile. "

Lapho eneminyaka engu-19 ubudala, uNatalia watholakala enesifo socansi futhi wanikezwa imvume yokusebenza. Kodwa ngaleso sikhathi i-USSR yawa, futhi ngokusho kwemithetho emisha, ukusebenza okunjalo kwakungeke kwenziwe kuze kube yiminyaka engama-24. Ngenkathi uNatalia elinde le minyaka, izinguquko zenzeka kuye, futhi wanquma ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi ungowesifazane.

“Namuhla ngisiza abantu abanjalo ukuthi bangenzi iphutha elifanayo - Kusho uNatalia. - Ngikhuluma nabo ngazo zonke izinkinga ezibalindele endleleni. Futhi lezi zinkinga azigcini ngokwengqondo kuphela. Isibonelo, abesifazane abathandana nabesilisa nabesifazane bavame ukuhlala kuma-hormone wesilisa aze afike eminyakeni engama-45. Isizathu esivame kakhulu sokufa ukuqhekeka kwegazi. Nginomngane ovela kuFeodosia ngokukhubazeka ngenxa yamahomoni. Futhi akekho ovimbela abantu kulezi zinqumo, engabonisi lezi zibonelo ezimbi, engancengi abantu ukuthi bayeke. Ngenxa yalokhu, abantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo bahlala njengezifiso, njengabaxoshiwe. Ukuhlinzwa ukwabiwa kabusha kobulili akuyona inketho. Angikaboni noyedwa ocansini ocansini owahlinzwa engangijabule ngakho. Wonke umuntu engikhulume naye uthe: "siyaxolisa".

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UKatie Grace Duncan ukhulele emndenini ongasebenzi kahle lapho engazange anakwe khona, lapho ubaba wakhe ahlukumeza khona umama wakhe, kanti nomfowabo omdala ongumzali wakhe wamnukubeza. Konke lokhu kwamholela enkolelweni yokuthi abesifazane babuthakathaka futhi bayizisulu, ngenxa yalokho walahla ubufazi bakhe ngokungazi futhi waqala ukuphila njengendoda eneminyaka engu-19. Wathatha ama-hormone wesilisa waze wasusa namabele akhe.Nokho, lokhu akuzange kumlethele injabulo eyayilindelekile, futhi ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakhe wayazi ukuthi konke kwakungalungile. Emzameni wokucindezela okuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki, waba umlutha wotshwala nezithombe zocansi. Kepha lapho eneminyaka engama-30, ngosizo lokholo nokusekelwa ngabantu ababemzungezile ngokuqonda nokunakekelwa, wakwazi ukuqeda imikhuba yakhe emibi futhi aphume ebugqilini be-transsexualism, aqale indlela ende futhi enzima yokuhlangana kabusha nobufazi obenqatshiwe.

«Uma ngibheka emuva, ngiyabona ukuthi ngangihlala kumaphi amanga, - utshela uKatie- abantu bacabanga ukuthi bazalwa benjalo, ukuthi basemzimbeni ongafanele, ukuthi ubuchopho babo buxhunywe ngendlela engafanele, ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngamahomoni abo, kepha konke lokhu kungamanga! Sizalwe sijwayelekile, kungukuthi kwenzeka okuthile kithina ngemuva kwalokho, okuthile okuhlukumezayo, okuholela ekutheni siqale ukukholelwa la manga ngathi. Sakha uhlelo lokuhlunga lapho lonke ulwazi ludlula khona, futhi noma ngabe sibhekene neqiniso, siyalhlanekezela, siludlulise ngeso lamanga. Okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma kulokhu ukubhekana nezinsizi zakho zakudala, uzikhumbule futhi ubone okwenzekile. "

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Bonke ubufakazi obungenhla buqinisekisa lokho uWalt Heyer abekade ezama ukukudlulisela emphakathini iminyaka eminingi:
“Imiphumela yesikhathi eside yokuhlinzwa yokwelashwa kwe-transgender ayikacwaningwa. Kuze kube manje, asinalo ucwaningo olunenhloso nolukholisayo. Nginomuzwa wokuthi ukuzisola nokucekela phansi izinto kuzoba umngcele olandelayo wabantu abadlulise ubulili, ngakho-ke zilungiseleleni. "

SEGM - Iqembu lamazwe ngamazwe labahlengikazi nabacwaningi abangaphezu kwe-100, elikhathazekile ngokuntula kobufakazi obuphezulu bokusetshenziswa kwamahomoni kanye nokungenelela kokuhlinzwa njengokwelashwa kokuqala kubantu abasha abane-dysphoria yobulili, balwa nesimo samanje sesayensi. Kwakamuva isihloko amalungu eqembu aphikisa iningi lezinganekwane zenhlangano ye-LGBT emkhakheni we-trans ideology.

Ukubuyekezwa okuhlelekile kobufakazi beziphathimandla zezempilo yomphakathi eFinland, eSweden naseNgilandi kuphethe ngokuthi isilinganiso sengozi-yenzuzo "yokwabiwa kabusha kocansi" entsheni sisuka kokungaziwa kuye kokungesihle.

Imihlahlandlela emisha yesiSwidi nesiNgisi yokwelashwa kwe-dysphoria manje ikubeka ngokucacile lokho ukungenelela kwengqondo kufanele kube umugqa wokuqala wokwelapha (futhi hhayi ukwelashwa kwama-hormone nokuhlinzwa). Futhi, imihlahlandlela yaseSweden ithi ukungenelela kwama-hormone akufanele kwenziwe kubantu abanazo Ukuqala kwe-post-pubertal dysphoria yobulili (manje lokhu kuyingxenye eyinhloko yabathengi bezitifiketi "zokushintsha ubulili", iningi labo aliwenzi umsebenzi).

Ngokusho kwedatha yakamuva evela e-UK nase-US, i-10-30% yalabo abasanda kuqala "inguquko ye-trance" bamisa inqubo phakathi neminyaka embalwa yokuyiqala.. Ucwaningo lwesikhathi eside lwabantu abadala abashintsha ubulili behlulekile ukukhombisa ukuthuthuka okugculisayo empilweni yengqondo, kanti olunye ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi kukhona ukulimala okuhlobene “nokwelashwa” okunjalo..

Isifiso somuntu sokusika izitho ezinempilo ezibonakala kuye njengomfokazi waziwa ngokuthi xenomelia futhi ifakwe "kwi-syndrome yokwephula ubuqotho bokuqonda komzimba" (BIID) kwaziwa njengokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Kepha lapho umuntu efuna ukusika hhayi isandla sakhe, kepha ipipi lakhe noma ama-mammary gland, sitshelwa ukuthi akusiyona inkinga, kepha ukuzikhulumela okufanele kusekelwe futhi kuvikelwe ...

Kwakungu kukhonjisiweukuthi ngaphambi kokuqala kwe-dysphoria yezocansi, i-62% yentsha eyahlolwa yathola ukuxilongwa okukodwa noma okungaphezulu kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo noma i-neurodevelopmental disorder. Kumacala angama-48%, ingane ihlangabezane nomcimbi ohlukumezayo noma onengcindezi, ofaka ukuxhashazwa, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, noma isehlukaniso sabazali. Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi isifiso sokuphinda unikeze ubulili obuvezwe yilezi zingane kungaba isu eliyingozi lokubhekana nalokhu. Futhi yize iningi lalabo abahlinzwa ukuhlinzekwa ngokobulili lathi "bajabule" ngalokhu kuhlinzwa, ukuzivumelanisa kwabo nomqondo okwalandela kwakungengcono kunalabo ababengenakho: ngaphezu kuka-40% wabo bazama ukuzibulala.

Izishoshovu zakwaTrans ziyashayela imiphumela yocwaningookukhombisa ukuthi kuze kufike kuma-98% abafana kanye nama-88% amantombazane anokukhubazeka kobulili agcina esamukela ubulili bawo begazi ekugcineni kokuthomba (uma umbono wabo oyiphutha ungakhuthazwa). 

Kunzima ukucabanga ngesibonelo esicace bha sokunqoba kwemibono yamahlelo edukisayo ngaphezu komqondo ophusile. I-psychosis enkulu esikhathini esedlule, efana nomdanso weSt. Vitus, ukubanjwa kwezilwane noma ukwesaba izangoma, yayenziwa ngokwasendaweni futhi yenzeka kancane; i-transgender psychosis iyaphikelela futhi isakazeka emhlabeni wonke. Singathemba nje ukuthi ekugcineni kuzosebenza umqondo ojwayelekile, futhi izizukulwane ezizayo zizosonta iminwe yazo ngokudideka, zifunde ezincwadini zomlando ukuthi kwenzekani namuhla.

"Ukuze kusizakale bonke, ngigqugquzela ukuthi ukuhlinzwa okuhlinzeke ngemiphumela engeke iguqulwe kufanele kube yinto yokugcina - kusho udokotela wezengqondo uBob Whiters obesebenza nezingane. Kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi siqale ukusebenza nesiguli ukuze shintsha ukuqonda ngokubheka kwezimpawu zomzimba, futhi ungashintshi umzimba ngokuhambisana nezimpawu zokuqonda. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngohlaka lohlelo lwanamuhla lwezokunakekelwa kwempilo, ochwepheshe baphoqa amakhulu, uma kungezona izinkulungwane zentsha, ukuba enze umsebenzi onzima “wokushintsha ubulili”. Eminyakeni ye-20, sizobheka emuva bese sibona ukuthi lobu buphukuphuku buye baba ezahluko ezimbi kakhulu emlandweni wezokwelapha wanamuhla. ”

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