Isichasiselo. Ukuhlolwa komtholampilo kunikezwa lapho sikhuluma ngakho “ubungqingili” endodeni, futhi ichaza indlela yokwelapha yokuguqula ayinikezwe kusetshenziswa uhlelo lwe-hypnosuggestive, olugcine lusebenza kahle kakhulu.

Njengamanje, kwenziwa imizamo engakaze ibonwe yokunqanda ukusetshenziswa kwendlela yokwelashwa (yokuguqula), ehlose ukuguqula isimo sobungqingili sesifiso sobulili sibe ngabobulili obuhlukile. Uyakhishwa inyumbazane futhi kumenyezelwa ukuthi akasebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi uyingozi enkulu emzimbeni womuntu. Ngakho-ke, ngoDisemba 7, 2016 iphalamende laseMalta ngazwilinye baphasisa umthetho owenqabela ukusetshenziswa kwelashwa lokulungisa. Ukuze "kuguqulwe, kucindezelwe futhi kuqedwe inkanuko yomuntu yezocansi noma ubunikazi bobulili," lo mthetho uhlinzekela inhlawulo noma isigwebo sasejele. [7] IBundesrat (emele izifundazwe zaseJalimane) ngoJuni 5, 2020 yavuma umthetho ovimbela lokhu kwelashwa. Deutsche Welle ibika ukuthi ukuziphatha kwayo kungajeziswa ngokuboshwa isikhathi esingangonyaka, nokukhangisa nokulamula - inhlawulo efinyelela kuma-euro ayizinkulungwane ezingama-30 [1]. E-US, izifundazwe eziyi-18 kuphela, iPuerto Rico neWashington DC, ezivimbele ukwelashwa kokuguqula izingane. Abantu abadala bangazinikela ekwelashweni kwezinguquko ezweni lonke [9]... I-Instagram neFacebook zimemezele ukuvinjelwa kwakho konke okuthunyelwe kulezi zinkundla zokuxhumana ezikhuthaza ukwelashwa kokuguqula [8].

Izimangalo zokuthi ukwelashwa kokuguqula akusebenzi nje kuphela, kepha kuzo zonke izimo zibangela ukulimala okukhulu emzimbeni zingamanga. Ukuphikisana okuhambisanayo kungatholakala kuzindatshana zethu [3; 4; 6]. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imisebenzi yethu eminingi iveze ukusetshenziswa ngempumelelo kokwelashwa kokuguqulwa [I-2; I-5].

Nali icala elivela enkambisweni yethu yomtholampilo, lapho ukwelashwa kokuguqula kuphumelele kakhulu ekulungiseni inkombandlela yesifiso sobulili kumuntu othanda abesilisa nabesifazane.

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Isiguli K., esineminyaka engama-37, sishade iminyaka engu-12, ngaphambi kwalokho bekusemshadweni "womshado womuntu" nonkosikazi waso wesikhathi esizayo iminyaka engu-7, unendodana eneminyaka eyisithupha, ithole imfundo ephakeme yezobuchwepheshe, isebenza njengompheki wotshwala endaweni yokudlela. Unkosikazi uneminyaka engama-6, unemfundo ephakeme kwezomnotho, usebenza nomyeni wakhe. Bahlala efulethini elinamakamelo ama-39, okungelomndeni wakhe, kepha maduzane leli fulethi lizobhaliswa kabusha esigulini nakumlingani walo. Ngafaka isicelo sokwelulekwa ngomhlaka 3/14.10.2019/XNUMX.

Izimpawu zocansi kanye ne-anamnesis. Ubika ukuthi unesifiso sobulili kokubili maqondana nabesilisa futhi maqondana nabesifazane esilinganisweni se-1,5 kuya ku-1,0 ebukhulwini baso.

Isizathu sokucela usizo ukuthi ngesikhathi unkosikazi wakhe ehlangana nephrofayili yakhe kwi-Intanethi, wathi ngeke besakwazi ukuphila kanjena, futhi kumele azitholele yena (“uzoba nabafana noma amantombazane”). Uma enquma ukuthi nabafana, uyavuma ukulondolozela wonke umuntu ukubonakala kobukhona bomndeni wakhe, kepha ngasikhathi sinye bazoba nobudlelwano obuvulekile, okungukuthi, uzoba nelungelo lokuya ocansini namanye amadoda.

Isiguli sikholelwa ukuthi ubungqingili yinto ejwayelekile, kepha siyavuma ukwenza ukulungiswa okuhlose ukuqeda ingxenye yobungqingili ye-libido, njengoba isaba ukuthi umphumela wokuqhubeka kokuziphatha kwayo ngokobulili kungahle kube nobunzima ekuxhumaneni nengane ngenxa yokuwohloka komndeni, ngoba "umshado wamahhala" mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi unkosikazi akhulume, akuvumi. Akakwazi ukuvuma ukuthi unkosikazi wakhe alale namanye amadoda.

Ngokusho kwesiguli, phakathi kwabantu Ama-99% abesilisa nabesifazane... (Mayelana nalokhu, ngamnika imininingwane yangempela ngobuningi bobulili obubili.) Lapho umkami ezwa ngobudlelwano bobungqingili bakhe, wethuka kakhulu waze wanquma ukusebenzisa amaphilisi anconywe ngudokotela wezifo zabesifazane ukuqeda ukukhulelwa ababekade bekuhlelela isikhathi eside. Wenze lokhu ngoba engaliboni ithemba lokuqhubeka nobudlelwano nomyeni wakhe.

I-libido kaPlato (yothando) uvuke eneminyaka engu-5-6. Lapho ngifunda enkulisa, ngangiyithanda intombazane engangixoxa nayo kakhulu.

I-libido evusa inkanuko... Ubudala bokuvuka kwakhe abukwazanga ukunqunywa.

Ngineminyaka eyi-12-13 kumagazini wezocansi ngabona isithombe sowesilisa nowesifazane belele benqunu. Ngemuva kwalokho wagxila kumthondo wesilisa. Kwakukhona ukuthakazelisa, uhlobo oluthile lokuthokoza kwangaphakathi, kwavela ukwakhiwa, "futhi bengingazi ukuthi ngenzeni ngakho." Kwakungekho ukuqaphela ngokocansi ngaleso sikhathi. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuqhubeke, kwaqala ukwakheka umbono wokuthi “nami ngiyawathanda amadoda,” yize ngaleso sikhathi ngangiwathanda amantombazane. “Kube nohlobo oluthile lokudideka. Ngabe angicabangi ukuthi ngingathanda abafana, futhi ngazibekela ukuthi ngithanda amantombazane. "

I-libido yezocansi wavela eneminyaka engu-17 kubantu bobulili obuhlukile, futhi wazibeka njengomuntu onobungqingili.

Ukushaya indlwabu kusukela eminyakeni eyi-14-15 ubudala, inqubo "yesibhakela", kepha ngaphandle kokumboza ikhanda. Kwakuhambisana nemicabango yezocansi. Kule mibono, bekunezigcawu zokuthi uya ocansini namadoda. Kwakungekho zithombe zesifazane ezisobala ekhanda lami ngaleso sikhathi. Izenzo zokuqala zokushaya indlwabu zenziwa ngenkathi kubhekwa lo magazini oshiwo ngenhla, lapho azikhomba khona nowesifazane kwabashadikazi bezocansi. Ukujula kokuqala kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu kokuqala. Ngangilinda ukuthi kuboniswe amafilimu ezocansi (ubulili bendabuko) ku-TV, bese ngishaya indlwabu, ngigxile kule nqubo. Ngasikhathi sinye, akazange anake ukuthi udonswa kubani, abesilisa noma abesifazane ("Angazi, angazi nhlobo"). Esikhathini sokuqala, washaya indlwabu zonke izinsuku. Yize kusukela eneminyaka engu-18 walala nabesifazane, kodwa kwakukhona imicabango yokusondelana nabesilisa. Ngingaze ngishaye indlwabu "ngalesi sihloko." Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubika ukuthi kusuka eminyakeni eyi-18 kuya kwengama-25 ubudala kwakukhona ukushaya indlwabu kobungqingili, kodwa empilweni yangempela kwakukhona izenzo zobungqingili. Manje ushaya indlwabu nsuku zonke, ngoba emasontweni amabili edlule ubengazibandakanyi nowakwakhe noma namadoda. Ukushaya indlwabu ocansini nge-trio. Okujabulisa kakhulu ngabathathu ukuthi owesifazane uthola injabulo. “Ngigxile ekwenzeni owesifazane aneliseke ngangokunokwenzeka. Kulezi zigcawu ngizihlanganisa nendoda [isib. Ngizizwa sengathi ngithanda abesilisa nabesifazane], futhi angifuni ukuba nendoda. "

Kusukela ebangeni lesi-6 kuya kwelesi-8, ubengumngani nomfana ovela esikoleni, owabe eseyoqedela izifundo zakhe esikoleni samabanga aphakeme kwesinye isikole. Ngemuva kwalokho “ngangiphatheke kabi, kwaba nenhlamba,” ngoba lo mfana akazange amtshele nokuthi uzosishiya isikole. Lokhu kwamcasula kakhulu isiguli ngoba wayenothando ngalo mfana. Ubika ukuthi ngenkathi lo mfana "emhlula" ngesikhathi somzabalazo, wezwa uhlobo oluthile lokuzwa okukhanyayo. Sonke isikhathi sesikole, kwakukhona ikakhulukazi inkampani yamantombazane. Kudlalwa imidlalo yama-unisex. Lapho ngineminyaka engu-10, ngapenda izindebe zami ngomlomo ngomlomo izikhathi eziningana. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, washintsha izingubo zikamama izikhathi eziningana. Unina akazange amthole enjalo.

Umama wayefuna ukuthi yena (ingane yakhe yesithathu) abe yintombazane, ngoba unabafowabo ababili bomunye ubaba omdala kunaye (umehluko yiminyaka engu-9 no-11). Ngisho namanje, uma eza kuye, umbiza ngokuthi "sithandwa sami", futhi kulokhu, "uklinya". Ngangihlale ngizizwa ngingowesifazane. Kubonakala kuye ukuthi lokhu kubonakala ngokuziphatha, afuna ukukulwa nakho. Isiguli sangibuza ukuthi ngabe isifiso sikanina, lapho ekhulelwe yena, sokuba nengane yentombazane, singabonakala ekuqaleni kwesimo sakhe.

Isikhathi eside (kusuka eminyakeni engu-7-8 kuya kwengu-30), bekukhona ukubonakaliswa kwe- "syndrome yepipi elincane". Kwaqala ngemuva kokuthi abafana abasekamu lamaphayona bemtshele ukuthi unepipi elincane. Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30, waqala ukukholelwa ukuthi ipipi lakhe linosayizi ojwayelekile (esimweni esime kahle, ubude baso bungu-16-17 cm). Uyise wamhlazisa, ngoba wayebuthakathaka emzimbeni. Uziphathe kabi kumama wesiguli, wasithuka ngezinhlamba wasishaya. Ngakho-ke, isiguli saba nesimo sengqondo (inkolelo) sokuthi abesifazane kufanele baphathwe ngobumnene, futhi lokhu kwabe sekuthinta ubudlelwane nonkosikazi wakhe nokuziphatha kwakhe ngokocansi kuye. Ngemuva kwesikhashana, unina wakhononda kubafowabo abadala ukuthi uyise, owayengumlutha wotshwala, angambulala. Bese bethi akahambe ekhaya, okwenzekile. (Uyise) wayohlala nomama wakhe futhi wahlala lapho kwaze kwaba sekupheleni kwezinsuku zakhe.

Isiguli siqale ukuthandana namantombazane eneminyaka engu-18 lapho singena enyuvesi. Kwabe sekuqala “impilo ejulile yocansi nabesifazane. Waxosha kuye imicabango yokuthi abantu bangamthanda. " Kodwa-ke, ubudlelwane bobungqingili babandulelwa ngongqingili. Ngakho-ke, lapho ngineminyaka engu-17, kwakukhona ukuxhumana okubili okwenziwa ngomlomo-nezitho zobulili nendoda eneminyaka engu-25 ubudala eyayinezingane ezimbili. Umsunguli wokuxhumana ngocansi bekuyile ndoda, kepha "bekungadingeki ukuthi ancenge isiguli sethu isikhathi eside." Bese "eyi-sausage kakhulu", futhi bekungekho muntu ozohlanganyela naye. “Bengicabanga ukuthi akulungile, kepha bengifuna. Futhi kusukela eneminyaka engu-18 wayekhangwa ngabesifazane kuphela, futhi uma enaka abesilisa, wayekucindezela. " Ngenkathi efunda eyunivesithi, waqala wahlala nentombazane eyodwa isikhathi esingangonyaka, wase eba nesikhathi esisodwa socansi namanye amantombazane. Lapho eneminyaka engu-18 (ngo-2000) wahlangana nomkakhe wakusasa, futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi bebelokhu bezitika ngocansi naye. Bashade ngo-2007.

Ku-2008, isiguli besikwazi ukufinyelela kalula kwi-Intanethi. Ngemuva kwalokho wathenga ikhompyutha ukuze asebenze, waya ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ngangivame ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobungqingili. Uqale ukujwayelana nokuxhumana nabesilisa online (izincwadi zocansi). Ngahlangana nendoda eneminyaka engama-35. Oxhumana nabo ocansini babenemvamisa yesikhathi esingu-1 ngesonto - isikhathi esingu-1 ngamaviki ama-2. Bahlangana izinyanga ezimbalwa, benza ucansi ngomlomo nangendunu. Ngasikhathi sinye, isiguli senza umsebenzi wokwenziwa, owawuthanda. Ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo, wanikeza umlingani wakhe i-blowjob, kuyilapho yena eshaya indlwabu. Ngithandane nale ndoda iminyaka engaphezulu kwengu-0,5. Ngenxa yocansi lwendunu, isiguli saba nezinkinga nge-anus (i-fistula eyakhiwe lapho, kwaqala inqubo yokuvuvukala) futhi yayidinga ukuhlinzwa, eyayihlinzwa. Lesi sigameko yisona sizathu sokuthi ahlangane nabesilisa waze waba neminyaka engama-32. Mina nomkami sasiba nobuhlobo bobulili sonke lesi sikhathi. Imvamisa yokuya ocansini izikhathi eziyi-1-2 ngesonto. Uyaphawula ukuthi ngenxa emfushane, ngokombono wakhe, isikhathi sokuya ocansini, unkosikazi wayengenayo i-orgasm. Uthi akanawo amanye amadoda.

Lapho eneminyaka engama-32-33, waqala ubudlelwano nabesilisa, kepha kulokhu babebonakala ngokuphelele: "wagxumela" ezinkundleni zokuxhumana (ukujola, ukuxhumana nakho konke okunye kwenzeka esikhaleni esibonakalayo: wayexhumana namadoda futhi eshaya indlwabu ngasikhathi sinye).

Kwakukhona abalingani bezocansi be-15, futhi eminyakeni engu-2-3 edlule ngaqala, okungenani, ukuhlangana nabesilisa empilweni yangempela. Ubudlelwano bezocansi babunamadoda ama-5. Omunye wabo, oneminyaka engama-39 kuya kwengama-40 ubudala, wayengowokuqala lapho ahlala khona nobudlelwano njalo. Isiguli ikakhulu senza indima yokungenzi lutho, enikeza umlingani wakhe i-blowjob, owamphindisela kabili kuphela, echaza ukuthi "unesimo sokuphila esisebenzayo." Ngahlangana naye iminyaka engu-2 edlule futhi ngangithandana naye. Abanye ozakwethu bavele lapho umlingani omkhulu ehambela kwelinye idolobha izinyanga ezingama-2-3. Ubanikeze ne-blowjob, kwesinye isikhathi abaphendula ngayo. Ngemuva kokuhlinzwa endaweni ye-anorectal eneminyaka engama-26, akazange avume ukuya ocansini lwendunu.

Ngenkathi unkosikazi wakhe esichaza isiguli, wacela umlingani wakhe omkhulu ukuthi amsize aziqonde, kepha le ndoda yathi imatasa kakhulu, inomsebenzi omningi, futhi asikho isikhathi salokhu.

Njengamanje (ngaphambi kokuba umkakhe ezwe ngobudlelwano bakhe bobungqingili), oxhumana naye ngokocansi ngokwesilinganiso u-1 ngesonto. Lokhu kwenzeka kaningi kakhulu emadodeni. Efanisa isikhathi sokuya ocansini kwakhe, uyabona ukuthi kuncane futhi kunokwengezwa kwemizuzu emi-5 (cishe izingxabano ezingama-40-50). Ngenhloso yokwelula isikhathi, usebenzisa ukwehla kokungqubuzana nokuma kwabo, ukuphazamiseka (ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini ucabanga ngebhola noma ngokunye), ushintsho esimweni sokuma. Ngamtshela ukuthi njengamanje kubhekwa njengokujwayelekile ukuba nobulili obuhlala isikhathi esingaphezu komzuzu. Kuyacaca ukuthi izingxabano ezingama-40-50 ngeke zithathe imizuzu emihlanu ngesikhathi. Lokhu kungenzeka kuphela uma bephuza kakhulu.

Uziphatha "ngomoya ophansi" nomkakhe, nokuyinto esebenza nasesimweni sokuziphatha kwakhe ngesikhathi enza ucansi naye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi unkosikazi unesimo esingesihle ngalokhu futhi ufuna abe lukhuni. Ngenkathi, ngesikhathi eselashwa, efunda kimi ukuthi abantu besifazane bavame ukucabanga ngodlame lwezocansi olubhekiswe kubo, waqala ukuziphatha ngokhahlo ngokusondelana nangaphandle, futhi umkakhe wakuthanda lokho. Akakaze akhohlise umkakhe nomunye wesifazane ngokuxhumana ngababili. Kwaba kanye kuphela lapho ahlanganyela khona kubathathu nomunye wesilisa nowesifazane abesilisa nabesifazane, lapho akhangwa khona yile ndoda ayelala nayo.

I-kurtosis ephezulu ngesikhathi sokwenza ucansi yayingamaphuzu ama-5-6 (okungukuthi, wake wenza izenzo zocansi ezi-5-6 ngosuku, ezagcina ngokujula).

Ngesikhathi eletha, kusetshenziswe isigaba sokuhlinzwa. Wazalwa ephilile futhi wakhula kahle. Esikoleni wafunda ngamaphuzu ama-4 (ngohlelo lwamaphuzu ama-5), wayebuthakathaka emzimbeni. Ngiphinde ngafunda kulesi sikhungo ngamaphuzu ama-4. Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30, waqala ukujima ejimini. “Ngifunda khona kathathu ngesonto. Ngiye lapho ngoba ngiqale ukululama. "

Angibhemi. Uphuza utshwala izikhathi eziningana ngesonto (ubhiya, i-whisky, i-vodka). Iziphuzo ze-whisky noma i-vodka izikhathi ezimbili ngesonto kusuka ku-2 kuya ku-150 amagremu. Uma amaholidi egqinsiwe, lokhu kwenzeka kaningi. Uzama ukungaphuzi ubhiya, kodwa njengoba esebenza njenge-brewer, uyaphoqeleka ukwenza lokhu (kanye ngesonto - izingilazi eziyi-200-1, futhi kwesinye isikhathi amalitha ayi-3-4). Eminyakeni yakhe yokufunda wayesebenzisa insangu, futhi eminyakeni yakhe yangemva kwesitshudeni - ama-amphetamine nokuthokoza (lokhu kwaba kaningana, wazama futhi wayeka). Kusuka kwensangu, ngokombono wakhe, waba nomlutha, ukuze "iminyaka engu-1-1,5 isulwe nje kwimemori yami." Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi insangu inikani, uphendule wathi ukuziphumuza ngokwenyama kuvele kuyo, bengifuna ukuhleka, "neigh," bese kuba khona isikhala obekufanele sigcwaliswe. Ngesikhathi ebuzwa ukuthi ukwazile kanjani ukuqeda lo mkhuba, uthe ngesikhathi ephothula kulesi sikhungo futhi eyeka ukuhlala ehostela, akazange afune izindlela zokuthola insangu (okungukuthi, mhlawumbe yayingekho imilutha).

Azikho izifo ezingamahlalakhona. Azikho izikhalazo zomchamo. 

Ngokuqondile: ukuphakama - 179 cm, isisindo somzimba - 78 kg. I-Normostenic. Uhlobo lomzimba wesilisa. Kukhona uboya obuncane ezingalweni nasemilenzeni. Azikho izinwele esiswini, esifubeni noma entanyeni. Ukushefa kuyaqabukela: 1 - ubuningi izikhathi ezi-2 ngesonto, nezinwele ezincane zobuso ziyakhula. Isiguli sithi ngakho-ke sinesakhiwo esincane. I-pubis igundiwe, kepha iyaphawula ukuthi "unendlela" yezinwele eya enkabeni. Ikhanda lomthondo livezwa kalula. Ipipi namasende kusayizi ojwayelekile, ama-appendage awanabuhlungu, awahlanjululwa. AmaScrotum fold and pigmentation mancane. Amasende afakwa kalula emgodini wesisu.

isiphetho: ubungqingili.

Kwabelwe (kunconyiwe): amathonya okuqonda, ukwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational ngokufaka izindlela zokuziphatha.

16.10.2019/1/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, okubandakanya izingxenye ezintathu zesakhiwo:

1. Ukukhululeka ekukhangeni kobungqingili. Iziphakamiso ezilandelayo zenziwe: «Enye... Umzimba wakho waqala ukuzikhulula ekukhangeni kobungqingili ... Okubili ... Inqubo yokukhululwa ekuthandweni kobungqingili iya ngokuya igqama futhi iya ngokuya ngokuya ngokuya ... Kakhulu ... Ngokuya ngokwengeziwe ususa ukukhangwa kobungqingili ... Okwesine ... Umlondolozi wengqondo wangaphakathi ungena ezingxenyeni eziyimfihlo kakhulu zengqondo yakho, yakho ukwazi nokwazi, kushanela izinsalela zokuheha kobungqingili lapho, kuziqoqela ndawonye futhi, njengodoti, kuzikhiphe emzimbeni wakho, zikukhulule kulolu hlelo lwezifo ... Ezinhlanu ... Umzimba wakho uzikhulule ekukhangeni kocansi uye kwabesilisa ngokugcwele ngangokunokwenzeka namuhla ...
2. Shintsha ekuboneni abesilisa. Kwenziwe iziphakamiso zokuthi kusukela manje isiguli sizobabona kuphela njengabantu esibajwayele, abangane, amaqabane kanye nabangane, nokuthi manje base bengenandaba naye njengezinto zocansi.
3. Ukwanda kwesifiso sobulili kwabesifazane (ngokujwayelekile), nangenkosikazi (ikakhulukazi). Isiphakamiso esilandelayo senziwe: "Ukuheha ngokocansi kwabesifazane kuyasebenza ... Ngakho-ke, kusukela manje kuyavezwa, kuqine, kugcizelelwe, okuzibonakalisa ngokulangazelela ukubanjwa, ukwangwa nokuya ocansini nabo ... Kusukela manje, ukubukeka kwenkosikazi, isimo sayo, izwi layo, ukuxhumana nayo lokhu kukwenza ufune ukumanga nokumqabula, okuphenduka isifiso sokuya ocansini naye ... Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, unkosikazi wakho useyisikhuthazo sobulili esivelisiwe, isikhuthazo sobulili esaziwayo. Uma uxhumana naye, uba nesifiso sobulili, esihambisana nokuvusa inkanuko ngokocansi, okwenza ukuthi uziphulule, uqabule futhi uhlangane naye ngokocansi ... ”.

I-19.10.2019 NgoLwesine (17.10.2019/4/3), esethathwe ngumkakhe, ekuseni waba nezindlela zocansi ezi-4, ezintathu zazo zaphetha ngokukhishwa. Isikhathi se-70th ejaculation asenzekanga, kepha ukwakhiwa kwakukuhle. Kusihlwa kwalolu suku nasekuseni kosuku olulandelayo, ngokuzithandela kwakhe, wenza olunye ucansi, olwaphela ngokukhipha umchamo. Ezikhaleni phakathi kocansi, kwakukhona imicabango yocansi lapho abona khona umkakhe. Amanothi wokuthi ukuya ocansini kwakuphelezelwa ukukhangwa "kwezilwane". Intshisekelo emadodeni kusukela ukuxhumana kwami ​​kokuqala kwehle ngama-2%. Ngokwesincomo sami angizange ngibuke i-porn noma i-masturbate. Ukholelwa ukuthi ukwanda kwe-libido kudalwa ukuthi uthathe i-tribulus amasonto ama-XNUMX (tribulus terrestris - creeping tribulus). Isithako esisebenzayo yi-protodioscin, esetshenziselwa ukondla kwezemidlalo futhi ithuthukisa ukukhiqizwa kwe-testosterone yemvelo emzimbeni. Ngaphandle kokukhipha ithonya le-tribulus, ngacabanga ukuthi ukuthambeka okwenziwe kudlala indima enkulu ekwandiseni isifiso sobulili sesiguli, ngoba ngaphambili ngangiqoqe ulwazi oluningi olubonisa lokho kungenzeka.

19.10.2019 Iseshini yesibili yokwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational yenziwa. Ukwakheka kwayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso bekufana nokwaseseshini yokuqala, kepha ekuqaleni, iziphakamiso zenziwa kuhloswe ngazo ukwenza ukulala kube okujwayelekile, okuphazamisekile ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho okuhambisana nomsebenzi.

I-23.10.2019 Ubike ukuthi unkosikazi wakhe wakunqamula ukukhulelwa ngosizo lwamaphilisi, yize kamuva acabanga ukuthi lokhu bekungafanele kwenziwe. Ngo-Okthoba 20.10.2019, 21.10.2019 noma ngo-Okthoba XNUMX, XNUMX, kwaba nokuxhumana okukodwa ngomlomo ngokocansi, njengoba unkosikazi ayephuma igazi ngenxa yokudla la maphilisi. Ngalesi sikhathi akazange ashaye indlwabu futhi akazange abuke i-porn. Ukuheha ngokocansi kwabesilisa kuyafana nangemva kweseshini yokuqala ye-hypnosis.

23.10.2019 Iseshini yesibili yokwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational yenziwa.  Iziphakamiso ezifanayo zenziwa ngesikhathi seseshini yesibili, lapho kwaqhathaniswa khona igama eli-12 elithi "ubungqingili" namanye amagama ayehlotshaniswa nemizwa engajabulisi, noma izindawo ezingathandeki, noma imiphumela emibi yezenhlalo yobudlelwano bobungqingili, noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kwanezelwa waphawula kobungqingili. Lezi zingqimba zamagama eziyi-12 (ama-FP ayi-12) zakheka ngenxa yengxoxo yokuqala.

I-27.10.2019 g... Unkosikazi usekwelinye idolobha. Kwakungekho ukuhlangana. Lapho eseshaye indlwabu ku-porno trio (ababambiqhaza: amadoda ama-2 nowesifazane ongu-1). Ngazihlanganisa nenye yamadoda eyahlangana nowesifazane. Ukuheha ngokocansi kwakungowesifazane, kwakungekho ukukhanga kobungqingili. Angizange ngigxile esithweni sangasese sowesilisa. Okwamanje, ukukhangwa ngokobulili kwabesilisa "kuncike ku-zero", okungukuthi, ngamagama akhe, akubathathi abesilisa njengezinto zocansi ezingaba khona.

Ngatshela isiguli ukuthi kufanele siyeke kancane kancane ukuxhumana nabobungqingili nabesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane. Njengomphumela ovuselelayo, kwabuzwa lo mbuzo olandelayo: "Ingabe umfazi obhemayo angaqeda ukubhema nokulangazelela uma ehlala nendoda eqhubeka nokubhema?"

Isiguli sathi ngaphambi kokuqala kokwelashwa, wasabela ngokushesha kunoma yiluphi ucingo oluvela kwabangqingili futhi yena uqobo wazama ukuxhumana nabo kakhulu futhi aqale ukuxhumana nabo ngokocansi. Manje akukho kulokhu. Futhi okokugcina wenqaba isicelo salaba abathathu sokuhlangana endlini yokugeza.

27.10.2019 Iseshini yesibili yokwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational yenziwa. Ukwakheka kwayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso bekufana nakwiseshini yesithathu, kepha ngaphambi kokumemezela i-12 PS, imiphumela eminingi emibi ebuhlotsheni bobungqingili nobungqingili bezempilo yengqondo neyomqondo yabizwa ngamagama. Iziphakamiso zokujwayela ukulala azange zenziwe.

I-9.11.2019 Bengiseholidini nomkami isonto lonke. Isonto eli-1 ngemuva kweseshini ye-hypnosis, eyayiqhutshwa ngo-Okthoba 27.10.2019, 4, waqala ukunaka imigwaqo emadodeni. Lapho ngisuka ekhaya ngendiza ngisuka e-Italy, nganginaka kakhulu abaphathi kunabaphathi. Nginqume ukuthi akukho phuzu ekuqhubekeni nokwelashwa kokuguqulwa, yize nginezikhathi ze-XNUMX kuphela zokuluthwa. Iqale kabusha ukuxhumana nendoda ebingeyona eyezocansi. Unkosikazi wayithola le ncwadi, baxabana kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho, ekucingeni kwakhe, wakususa ukuxhumana kwale ndoda futhi wanquma ukuqhubeka nokwelashwa, ngoba wayesaba ukuwohloka komndeni nokulahlekelwa yithuba lokuxhumana nendodana yakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uphawula ukuthi manje ubona amadoda njengabantu abajwayele nabangane kuphela, hhayi njengezinto zokuheha ngokocansi. Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi kwenzeke ushintsho oluhle, kusukela lapho eza kimi, wababona kanjalo. Kumkakhe manje, lapho ekhululekile ezinqumweni zakhe ngenxa yobudlelwano bakhe bobungqingili, ubhekana nokuheha okuqinile kwezocansi, njengoba esaba ukulahlekelwa nguye.

Kusuka ngo-Okthoba 27.10.2019, 4.11.2019 kuya kuNovemba 10, 1, kwakukhona ukuhlangana ocansini okuphezulu kwe-9.11.2019 nonkosikazi wakhe (i-libido eqinile, ukwakheka okuhle, ukungabi "nokusheshisa" njengakuqala). Ngishaye indlwabu isikhathi esingu-XNUMX kuphela namuhla (XNUMX/XNUMX/XNUMX) ngaphansi kwemicabango eshaweni. Oshade naye wayeyinto yezocansi. Yena nomkakhe baba nengxoxo, futhi wamtshela, njengakuqala, ukuthi uma eqhubeka nobudlelwano nabesilisa, bangaba nobudlelwano obuhle futhi bagcine umshado osemthethweni, ohlinzeka ngamathuba okuthi ngamunye wabo abe nobudlelwano bezocansi nabanye abalingani. Kepha uthi akakwazi ukwenza lokho, akakwazi ukuvuma ukuthi umuntu uzolala nomkakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyadingeka ukulondolozwa kobudlelwano bomshado, ngoba bona, njengombhangqwana oshadile owazi okuningi ngokupheka, bamenywa ukuthi babambe iqhaza ebhizinisini likabhiya ndawonye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uphawula ukuthi isimo sakhe sezezimali samanje asimvumeli ukuba ashiye umndeni wakhe aqashe ifulethi.

9.11.2019 Iseshini yesibili yokwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational yenziwa. Iziphakamiso zenziwa okuhloswe ngazo ukukhululeka ekukhangisweni kobungqingili; umbono wabesilisa njengabadlali odlala nabo, abangane nabangane, hhayi njengezinto zocansi; imininingwane ngemiphumela emibi yezempilo yokuphila kwabantu bobungqingili yenziwa; imiphumela yayo emibi yezenhlalo yabizwa. Kwabizwa i-12PS, kwafakwa ikhono lokulawula izinkanuko zabo zocansi kanye nokuvela kwesicanucanu lapho kuvela imicabango nemibono yobungqingili, kanye nokwanda kwesifiso sobulili sabesifazane (bebonke) nangenkosikazi yabo (ikakhulukazi).

I-14.11.2019 Ubika ukuthi umkakhe akamniki ithuba lokuya ocansini, ngoba "wamlimaza", kepha ukhombisa izimpawu zokunakwa, azame ukumjabulisa, ukumenza azizwe ekhululekile. Ngalesi sikhathi washaya indlwabu amahlandla ama-2. Kanye ngokuhehwa yimicabango yocansi (yena nomkakhe baya ocansini). Okwesibili washaya indlwabu kwi-porn trio, lapho akhangwa khona ngowesifazane. Uthe waqina kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bakhe nonkosikazi wakhe. Uma ekhombisa ukunganeliseki naye, uzama ukubonisana naye ukuthi yini ngempela engamfaneli nokuziphatha kwakhe, bese bevumelana.

14.11.2019/6/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, okwakuyisakhiwo sayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso kwakufana nokwesihlanu.

I-17.11.2019 Angizange ngixhumane nomlingani wami wokugcina ngocingo. NgoNovemba 15.11.2019, 2, ekuseni, ngaba nezocansi ezi-1 nomkami. Ikhefu phakathi kwabo belingabalulekile ("mhlawumbe imizuzu eyishumi"). Isikhathi sokuya ocansini lokuqala sasicishe sibe yimizuzu emithathu, kanti eyesibili emihlanu (enenombolo eyanele yemihlwathi). Unkosikazi wezwa ama-2-16.11.2019 orgasms phakathi nalezi zenzo zocansi. NgoNovemba 17.11.2019, 100, kwakukhona nokuya ocansini, kanti namhlanje (6/XNUMX/XNUMX) bekunobulili obuthathu. Ukuheha ngokocansi nomkakhe manje sekuyi-XNUMX%. Ngilahlekelwe isifiso sami sobulili emadodeni. Ngesikhathi esidlulile ngemuva kweseshini ye-XNUMXth ye-hypnosis, owesilisa ongungqingili wake wamthinta ngeViber futhi wamthumelela isithombe somthondo wakhe omkhulu, kepha isiguli sethu saphendula sathi asinantshisekelo, ngoba useshintshele ngokuphelele kwabesifazane. Ngaphambilini, kwakukhona ukuxhumana okubonakalayo kuphela nale ndoda. Uyaphinda uyasho ukuthi uselukhuni kakhulu ekuziphatheni kwakhe nonkosikazi wakhe.

17.11.2019 Iseshini yesibili yokwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational yenziwa. Isakhiwo sayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso kwakufana nokwesithupha.

I-19.11.2019 Kwakungekho ukulala ocansini ngemuva kwalesi sikhathi, angizange ngibuke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, angizange ngizwe ukuheha ngokocansi kwabesilisa.

19.11.2019/8/XNUMX Iseshini yesi-XNUMX yohlelo lwe-hypnosuggestational lwabanjwa. Ukwakheka kwayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso kuyefana nalokhu okubili okwedlule.

I-22.11.2019 Kusukela lapho, kube nezindlela ezi-3 zokuxhumana: 2 ngomlomo nangendunu eyodwa, njengoba umkami abe nesikhathi sakhe. Ukuheha ngokocansi nomkakhe kungu-100%, kodwa emadodeni akukho. Angizange ngishaye indlwabu, angibukeli i-porn.

Isiguli sathi unkosikazi waso samtshela ukuthi ngangimenzela idrayivu yokuzibandakanya yocansi. Ngimphendule ngathi lapho abantu benezinkinga ezithile, khona-ke odokotela banikeza ukwelashwa okujwayele isimo sabo. Ngakho-ke, ngokwesibonelo, lapho umuntu enyuka umfutho wegazi, unikezwa amaphilisi okumnciphisa. Nakuye senza okufanayo.

22.11.2019 Iseshini yesibili yokwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational yenziwa. Ukwakheka kwayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso kuyefana nasezigabeni ezedlule.

I-25.11.2019 Kusukela lapho, azange kube khona ukuhlangana ngokocansi ngezizathu ezizwakalayo. Angizange ngishaye indlwabu, angibukeli i-porn. Ngaya kwelinye idolobha, lapho ngahlangana nendoda eshadile eyayike yalala nayo. Lapho ngixhumana naye, angizange ngikuzwe kungikhanga ngocansi kuye.

25.11.2019/10/XNUMX Iseshini se-XNUMX se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, ukwakheka nokuqukethwe kweziphakamiso bekufana nokwakudala.

I-4.12.2019 Ezinsukwini ezintathu ezedlule ngiqale ukunaka abafana, kepha bekungekho ukuxhumana nokuxhumana kocansi namadoda. Angizange ngibuke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, angizange ngishaye indlwabu, ngangizama ukuya ocansini nomkami kaningi. Namuhla ekuseni kube nokuhlangana oku-3 nomkami, futhi izolo ebusuku - 2. Ngaphambi kwalokho kube nezinsuku ezi-4 zokuphumula, futhi ngaphambi kwalokho, ngemuva komhlangano owedlule nami, ukuhlangana okungu-1-2 ngosuku. Ukuheha ngokocansi kumkakhe namuhla kuvezwe nge-100%. Amadoda athandwa ngaphandle kuphela, kepha lapho ezama ukucabanga ukuthi uyabagona futhi abange, futhi futhi abe nobuhlobo bobulili nabo, usho ukungabi bikho kwezifiso ezinjalo. Ngaphambi kokuba ngiqale ukwelashwa, nganginemicabango ejulile yobungqingili nokuhehwa kakhulu kobungqingili.

4.12.2019/11/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, ngokuya ngesakhiwo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso, obekufana nokwangaphambili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengengxenye, kusetshenziswe isiphakamiso sokuthi uyakwazi ukulawula izifiso zakhe zobulili futhi anikeze nethuba lokufezeka kuphela kulabo abajwayelekile.

I-7.12.2019 Kusukela lapho, kube nezikhathi ezi-4 zokuya ocansini nomkakhe. Ukuheha ngokocansi kuye yi-100%. Ubuso besilisa abunandaba naye, manje akasabanaki.

7.12.2019/12/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, okwathi, ngokuya ngesakhiwo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso, kwaba okufanayo nokwe-11.

I-13.12.2019 Ngalesi sikhathi, ngichithe izenzo zocansi ezi-5-6 nomkami. Ukuheha ngokocansi kuye yi-100%. Angizange ngishaye indlwabu, angibukeli i-porn. Izikhathi ezimbalwa ngadonsela ukunaka kwabesilisa abanezintshebe ("Ngithanda abesilisa abanezintshebe"). Ubona kulolu hlobo oluthile lwentshisekelo yezocansi, kepha besingekho isifiso sokubazi. Imicabango yobungqingili nayo yayingekho. Indoda ayehlangana nayo njalo ngaphambi kokuqala ukwelashwa ayimubizi noma ayimbhaleli.

13.12.2019/13/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, okwathi esakhiweni sayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso kwakufana nokwe-12.

I-19.12.2019 Ngalesi sikhathi, kwaba nokuhlangana kocansi oku-5 nomkakhe - 2 ngomlomo (unkosikazi waba nesikhathi) kanye nezitho zangasese ezintathu. Angizange ngishaye indlwabu, angibukeli i-porn. Kwakungekho ukukhanga ngokobulili kwabesilisa. Sixoxe ngokuthi kungani ethanda abesilisa abanezintshebe. Ndawonye nesiguli, safika esiphethweni sokuthi lesi simo singenxa yalokhu okulandelayo. Izinwele zakhe zikhula kabi ebusweni bakhe, futhi akakwazi ukuzikhulisela intshebe enjalo, futhi uma engagundi, khona-ke "kungahle kube nokubi." Wamukela umona kuleli cala. Kwakungekho ukuxhumana nabantu abanemibala yezocansi. Ngalesi sikhathi, enye indoda eyisitabane yambhalela kuViber futhi yacela ukuhlangana ngocansi, kodwa isiguli saphendula sathi asifuni, futhi sasingenandaba.

19.12.2019/14/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa... Ngesikhathi seseshini, kwenziwa iziphakamiso okuhloswe ngazo:

1) ukukhululwa komzimba ekukhangeni kobungqingili;

2) umbono wabesilisa njengabangane, ama-comrade, abangane, isimo sokungakhathaleli kubo njengezinto zocansi ezingabakhona;

I-3) ikhono lokulawula izifiso zabo zocansi nokunikeza ithuba lokugcwaliseka kuphela kulabo okujwayelekile;

4) kugcizelelwa imiphumela engemihle yezenhlalo, yengqondo kanye neye-somatic yobudlelwano bobungqingili nobungqingili;

I-5) inyuse isifiso sobulili sabesifazane (ngokujwayelekile) nangenkosikazi yakhe (ikakhulukazi).

Futhi ngesikhathi seseshini, kwabizwa ngazimbili amagama ayi-12, elinye lawo ezimweni zonke kwakuyigama elithi "ubungqingili", kanti elelesibili lalingelinye lamagama ayehlotshaniswa nemizwa engathandeki, noma namathafa angajabulisi, noma nokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle, noma nabantu ababi noma imiphumela ye-psychopathological yobungqingili nobudlelwano bobungqingili.

I-25.12.2019 Esikhathini esedlule, kube nezindlela ezine zocansi. Ukuheha unkosikazi - 100%. Kwakungekho ukukhanga kobungqingili. Angizange ngishaye indlwabu, angibukeli i-porn. Isiguli sithe sithole ucingo luvela kowayeyaye sihlale sihlanganyela naye ocansini, esho ukuthi uhambile waya e-United Arab Emirates, lapho alala khona nabafana abahle. Yize engazange anikele ngqo ocansini, ngatshela isiguli ukuthi siyasibiza ngezikhathi ezithile ngoba sifuna ukusicasula ngezindaba zaso mayelana nobudlelwano bobungqingili ukuze sizivuselele phakathi kwabo. Ngakho-ke, ngincome ukuthi isiguli simise noma yikuphi ukuxhumana nale ndoda. Ngalesi sikhathi isiguli samtshela indlela ayekhulu ngayo ngokuya ocansini nomkakhe. Engitshela ngezinto ezikhethekile zobudlelwano obusondelene nonkosikazi wakhe, wathi uma emnika i-blowjob, ngasikhathi sinye ufaka i-phallus yokufakelwa esithweni sangasese futhi ayivuse. Unkosikazi uyesaba uma lokhu kungamsunduzela ebudlelwaneni bobungqingili. Ngithe cha. Mayelana nalokhu, ngimbuzile ukuthi ngabe ubona leli lungu elenziwa njengomuntu oncintisana naye, ngabe lokhu kululaza umuzwa wakhe wesithunzi futhi ngabe kwenza kube yinkimbinkimbi yokungabi namandla kwakhe. Isiguli siphendule ngokuthi cha.

25.12.2019/15/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa... Ngokwesakhiwo sayo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso, bekufana nokwangaphambili.

I-2.01.2020 Esikhathini esidlule, kube nezenzo zocansi ezinhlanu nomkami, ezintathu zazo bekuyizolo. Angizange ngishaye indlwabu, ngingabukanga izithombe zocansi. Ngangingakhangwa abesilisa. Ngomhla zingama-25.12.2019 kuZibandlela wezi-XNUMX, ngemuva kweseshini ye-hypnosis, wathintana nge-Viber indoda eyayijwayele ukuya naye ocansini ngaphambi kokuqala ukwelashwa, wathi udokotela wayemnikeza ukwelashwa, kodwa waphendula isiguli ukuthi wayethanda ukuba “ gay.” Ubuze isiguli ukuthi ukwelashwa kuyamsiza yini wathola impendulo eyakhayo. Khona-ke le ndoda yabhala: “Awu, qonda.” Isiguli sibe sesivala inombolo ebesifona ngayo, sathi umsolwa unenye inombolo yocingo angasithinta.

2.01.2020/16/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, ngokuya ngesakhiwo nokuqukethwe yiziphakamiso, obekufana nokwedlule.

I-8.01.2020 Ngalesi sikhathi, kwakukhona izenzo zocansi ezi-5 nonkosikazi wakhe. Angizange ngishaye indlwabu, angibukeli i-porn. Kwakungekho ukukhanga ngokobulili kubantu bobulili obufanayo. Angizange ngixhumane nanoma yibaphi ongqingili, futhi kwakungekho mizamo yokuxhumana naye ohlangothini lwabo. Uthi angathanda ukwenza ucansi oluthe xaxa, kepha unkosikazi "uyagodola".

8.01.2020/17/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa, ngokuya ngombhalo owawufana nowangaphambilini.

I-20.01.2020 Ezinsukwini eziyi-12 ezedlule, kube nezenzo ezi-5 zocansi nomkami. Kulezi zinsuku eziyi-12, i-4-5 iwele kumakhosikazi anyanga zonke. Kanye ukushaya indlwabu emaphusheni ocansi nesifebe esiyinsumansumane. Angizange ngibheke izithombe ezingcolile. Zazingekho izinkanuko zobungqingili, ukukhangwa abobulili obufanayo, ukuxhumana nabesilisa abathandana nobungqingili.

20.01.2020/18/XNUMX Isikhathi sokuqala se-hypnosuggestational therapy senziwa... Iziphakamiso ezifanayo zenziwa njengasesikhathini esedlule.

I-8.02.2020 Sibe nengxoxo nesiguli ocingweni, sabika ngokuphikelela kwemiphumela esiyitholile.

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi uma ekuqaleni kokwelashwa isiguli sikholelwa ukuthi i-bi- kanye nobungqingili kwakuyinto evamile, khona-ke ngesikhathi sokwelashwa washintsha kakhulu umbono wakhe. Uphinde waveza ukuthi nakuba ngaphambilini akhomba “njengobulili obubili,” manje usekhomba ngokugcwele njengomuntu othanda ubulili obuhlukile.

Ukufingqa leli cala lomtholampilo, okulandelayo kufanele kuqashelwe. Isiguli sazalelwa emndenini lapho umama wayefuna ukuthi indodakazi yakhe izalelwe khona, kodwa, ngeshwa, lokhu akwenzekanga. Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwakhe, wamphatha njengesidalwa esinezimfanelo zesifazane ayezifisa. Uyise wamhlazisa ngoba wayebuthakathaka emzimbeni. I-Plato libido ivuswe eneminyaka engu-5-6 futhi yayiya ocansini. Intshisekelo yezocansi kwabesilisa yaqala ukuvela esigulini eneminyaka eyi-12-13, lapho kumagazini wezocansi wabona isithombe sowesilisa nowesifazane abahamba nqunu. Iqhude lendoda ladonsa ukunaka kwakhe. Bese kuba nokuthakazelisa, uhlobo oluthile lokuthokoza kwangaphakathi, kwavela ukwakheka. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuqhubeke kwakhiwa umbono wokuthi uyabathanda abantu besilisa. Mayelana nalokhu, umyalezo wesiguli kufanele ucashunwe ukuthi kusukela eminyakeni engu-7-8 kuya kwengu-30 ukholelwa ukuthi isitho sakhe sangasese sincane. Ngakho-ke, singacabanga ukuthi intshisekelo ebudodeni besilisa (ezintweni zobulili ezingcolile kuvame ukuba yinhle) bekungumphumela womona wakhe (yena ngokwakhe angathanda ukuba nawo). Kusukela eminyakeni engu-13 kuya kwengu-15 ubengumngane womfana, futhi ngenkathi belwa naye, wezwa ukuzwa okukhanyayo okuncane.

Ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu ngokubuka isithombe esishiwo kumagazini wezocansi, wazikhomba ngowesifazane. Lapho ebuka amafilimu ezocansi e-TV futhi eshaya indlwabu ngasikhathi sinye, akazange anake ukuthi udonswa ngubani: kwabesilisa noma kwabesifazane. Lapho eneminyaka engu-17 ubudala, wahlangana ngokocansi okokuqala nendoda eshadile. Ngibe sengicabanga ukuthi akulungile. Ngangikhathazekile ngalokhu, kepha ngangifuna. Kusukela eminyakeni engu-18 kuye kwengama-25 ubudala, ukushaya indlwabu kobungqingili kwenzeka, kepha empilweni yangempela, kusukela eminyakeni engu-18, kwakukhona ukuxhumana kwabantu bobulili obuhlukile. Lapho eneminyaka engu-18, waqala ukwenza ucansi nenkosikazi yakhe yesikhathi esizayo, abashada naye ngemuva kweminyaka engu-7. Lapho eneminyaka engu-26 ubudala, kwavela amathuba okufinyelela kalula kwi-Intanethi, futhi waqala ukuhlangana ngokocansi namadoda, okwabe sekudlulela ekuxhumaneni nabo ngokocansi empilweni yangempela. Ngokufana, wayephila impilo yocansi nomkakhe. Ngesikhathi soxhumana nabo bobungqingili, wayedlala indima enkulu, ayithandayo. Kwathi-ke, ngenxa yocansi lwangemuva, isiguli sathola i-fistula ku-rectum kwaqala inqubo yokuvuvukala. Wahlinzwa, futhi ngenxa yalokho okwenzeka kuye, akazange alale nabantu besilisa kuze kube yiminyaka engama-32-33, ayiqala kabusha eminyakeni engu-2-3 edlule. Eminyakeni engama-37, unkosikazi wakhe wabanjwa ebudlelwaneni bobungqingili, okuyisizathu sokufuna usizo, yize engathathi ubungqingili njengokugula. Isidingo salesi sikhalazo sichazwe ukuthi umcimbi owenzekile emndenini wakhe ungawuchitha, futhi lokhu kuzokwenza kube nzima kakhulu kuye ukuxhumana nendodana yakhe. Yize unkosikazi wakhe emtshele ukuthi uma ekhetha ukuya ocansini namadoda, hhayi naye (inhlanganisela yabo bobabili ayamukeleki kuye), khona-ke bangagcina umshado ngokusemthethweni futhi bahlala efulethini elilodwa, kepha-ke uzoba nelungelo lokuphila impilo yocansi naye amanye amadoda. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akwamukelekile esigulini, akakwazi ukucabanga ukuthi unkosikazi wakhe unabanye abalingani bobulili.

Kudonswa ukunaka kulesi simo esilandelayo maqondana nokuxhumana kwakhe nonkosikazi wakhe, kufaka phakathi ukusondelana. Ubaba wakhe owayengumlutha wotshwala wayemphatha kabi kakhulu unina, wayevame ukuxabana naye, amthuke futhi amshaye. Isiguli sikubonile lokhu kabi kakhulu futhi ngenxa yalokho saphetha ngokuthi abesifazane kufanele baphathwe kahle. Le yindlela aphatha ngayo umkakhe, eyadlulela ebudlelwaneni babo bezocansi. Kodwa-ke, wayefuna ukuthi aqine kuye bobabili empilweni yansuku zonke nangesikhathi sokuya ocansini. Uphumelele ngemuva kokubika ukuthi abesifazane emibonweni yabo yezocansi bavame ukucabanga ukuthi badlwengulwa ngabesilisa.

Ngokuphathelene nobungqingili, ukwenziwa kokulungiswa kwengqondo okulandelayo kwenziwa. Kwenziwa umsebenzi wokuchazela isiguli ukuthi ubungqingili nobungqingili yizinkinga ezingaholela ezenzakalweni ezahlukahlukene ezimbi (izifo zomzimba nezengqondo, imiphumela emibi yomphakathi). Kwakukhona nezikhathi zohlelo lwe-hypnosuggative oluhlose ukuqeda ingxenye yobungqingili ye-libido, okwandisa isifiso sobulili sabesifazane (ngokujwayelekile) kanye nenkosikazi (ikakhulukazi), umbono wabesilisa kuphela njengezinto ezingezona ezocansi, ikhono lokulawula izifiso zabo zocansi nokunikeza ithuba lokutholakala kuphela kwalokhu, okujwayelekile. Futhi, isici sokuziphatha sifakiwe ezikhathini zokulutha, okubandakanya ukusetshenziswa kwamabili ngazimbili wamagama akhiwe ngemuva kwengxoxo yokuqala nesiguli. Elinye lalawa magama kubhangqa ngalinye kwakuyigama elithi "ubungqingili", kanti elinye kwakuyigama elalihlotshaniswa nemizwa engajabulisi noma izithombe ezibukwayo ezingathandeki, noma imiphumela emibi yezenhlalo yobudlelwano bobungqingili, noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okubonwa kwabangqingili.

Isiguli sathola amaseshini we-18 we-hypno-suggestive therapy. Ngemuva kweseshini yokuqala, ubike ukuthi selokhu kuqale ukwelashwa, idrive yocansi yabesilisa yehle ngama-70%. Kwahlala kunjalo ngemuva kweseshini yesibili. Ngemuva kweseshini yesithathu, waphawula ukuthi ukukhanga kwabesilisa "kuya ocansini." Ngemuva kweseshini lesine le-hypnosis, ngenxa yokuthi isiguli siye e-Italy siyophumula isonto lonke, kwaba nekhefu lezinsuku eziyi-12 ekwelashweni. Lapho ebuya ekhaya eholidini ngendiza isonto elilodwa ngemuva kwesigaba sesine se-hypnosis, wabona ukuthi unaka kakhulu abaphathi, hhayi abagibeli bendiza. Ngabe senginquma ukuthi kwakungekho sizathu sokuqhubeka nokwelashwa. Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kwengxabano nonkosikazi wakhe, amemezela kuye inhloso yakhe, uthathe isinqumo sokuqhubeka nokwelashwa ngenxa yokwesaba ukuhlukana komndeni. Ngemuva kweseshini yesithupha yokwelashwa kwe-hypnosuggestational, wabika ukuthi ulahlekelwe yintshisekelo yezocansi emadodeni, nokuthi isifiso sakhe sobulili somkakhe sasingu-6%. Isimo esifanayo saqhubeka ngemuva kwezikhathi ze-100, 7 kanye ne-8. Ngemuva kwalokho, ezinsukwini eziyi-9 ngemuva kweseshini se-6 se-hypnosis, waqala ukunaka abafana, kepha wathi amadoda athandwa ngaphandle kuphela, futhi lapho ezama ukucabanga ukuthi ubewanga futhi ebanga, futhi enza ucansi nabo, wathi ukungabikho kwezifiso ezinjalo. Ukuheha ngokocansi kumkakhe kuvezwe nge-10%. Ngemuva kweseshini le-100, wathi ukukhanga ngocansi kumkakhe kuvezwe ngo-11%, nokuthi abesilisa abanandaba naye ngokocansi. Ngemuva kweseshini le-100 le-hypnosis, waphawula ukukhanga okuqinile kwezocansi kumkakhe, kepha amahlandla ambalwa wanaka abesilisa abanezintshebe. Wathi uyabathanda. Ngemuva kweseshini le-12th le-hypnosis, kwakungekho ukukhanga ngokobulili emadodeni. Sixoxe ngombuzo wokuthi kungani ethanda abesilisa abanezintshebe. Ndawonye nesiguli, bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi lokhu kungenzeka kungenxa yokuthi izinwele zakhe zobuso zikhula kabi, futhi akakwazi ukukhulisa intshebe enjalo, futhi uma engagundi, khona-ke "kungahle kube nokubi." Wamukela umona kuleli cala. Ngenxa yale ngxoxo, ngifinyelele esiphethweni sokuthi kuleli cala akufanele kuthathwe njengokubonakaliswa kokuheha ngokocansi emadodeni. Kodwa-ke, kungacatshangwa ukuthi isifiso sabesilisa sokuthola lokho abangenakho, kepha lokho amanye amadoda anakho (esimweni okuxoxwa ngaso, ilungu elikhudlwana kanye nokukwazi ukukhulisa intshebe njengaleyo yamanye amadoda) kungasebenza njengesici esicindezela ukwakheka isifiso sobungqingili kanye nokuxhumana kobungqingili nabesilisa abanezimfanelo ezifunwa yilowo nalowo muntu. Ngemuva kweseshini le-13th le-hypnosis (sekukonke, njengoba sishilo phambilini, kwenziwa izikhathi eziyi-14) futhi kuze kube sekupheleni kokwelashwa, ukukhanga kwabobulili obufanayo akuzange kuvele. Izinsuku eziyishumi nesishiyagalolunye ngemuva kweseshini le-18th, isiguli sabika ngocingo ukuthi akwenzekanga.

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi uma ngaphambi kokuqala kokwelashwa isiguli sibheka ubungqingili obubili kanye nobungqingili njengento evamile futhi sazichaza ngokuthi "ubulili obubili," ngakho-ke ngenxa yokulungiswa komqondo we-psychotherapeutic washintsha umbono waso waba ngomunye ophambene kakhulu, futhi naye waqala ukuzibonakalisa njengomuntu othanda ubulili obuhlukile.

Futhi, ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, njengoba isiguli sabika, isikhathi sokuya ocansini nomkakhe sanda kakhulu, okungachazwa ngokwanda okukhulu kokuvama kokuxhumana naye ngokocansi njengomphumela weziphakamiso ezikhethekile esimeni sokulutha. Ukwesaba ukuwohloka kwemindeni nakho kungaba nomthelela ekuqiniseni ezocansi.

Kufanele kugcizelelwe ukuthi iziguli ezinjengalesi siguli zidinga ukubonwa okunamandla ukuze kuvinjelwe ukuthi kungenzeka ukuphindeka kobungqingili. 

Ekuphetheni, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi imizamo yokunqanda ukusetshenziswa kwendlela yokuguqula abantu abangavumeli ukukhangwa ngabobungqingili, bakhathazekile futhi bafuna ukuqeda lokhu kukhanga kungukuhlukumeza okunolaka futhi okungenakulungiswa kwamalungelo abantu.

Funda kabanzi: I-Kocharyan GS Bisexuality: imiqondo ejwayelekile nokuqaphelwa kwemitholampilo // Impilo yamadoda. - 2020. - No. 2 (73). - S. 71-80.