Bonke ongqingili?

Igama elithi "Gay" lingumuntu ukukhetha okwami. Akubona bonke abantu abathandana nobungqingili abakhomba “njengobungqingili.” Abantu abangazivezi njengezitabane bakholelwa ukuthi empeleni bayathandana futhi bafuna usizo ekuboneni izizathu ezithile zokuthi kungani bathola ukukhangwa okungathandeki kobulili obuhlukile. Ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, abeluleki kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zisebenzisa izindlela zokuziphatha ukusiza amaklayenti ukuthola izizathu zokuhehwa ngabobulili obuhlukile futhi bawasize ngesineke ukuxazulula izimbangela eziholela emizweni yobungqingili. Lababantu, abayingxenye yomphakathi wethu obalulekile, balwela ukuvikela ilungelo labo lokuthola usizo nokuxhaswa ukuqeda ukuheha okungafunwa ngabobulili obufanayo, bashintshe indlela yabo yokuya ocansini kanye / noma balondoloze ukungashadi. Lokhu kutholakala ngezinhlelo ezibandakanya ubulili, okubandakanya ukwelulekwa kanye nokwelashwa kobungqingili, okwaziwa nangokuthi “I-Sex Oriental Intervention” (i-SOCE) noma i-Reoriorial Therapy.

Kungani izishoshovu ezingungqingili zizama ukuvimbela ukwelashwa okuvumelana nobungqingili?

Izinhlangano ezilwela amalungelo abungqingili ziyalela amalungu abo ukuba alahle abalingani abathandana nabobulili obuhlukile nabangafanelwe ukukhombisa ukuthi bangobungqingili, ngokuyinhloko ngoba abayisekeli inganekwane yokuthi abantu abathandana nobungqingili bazalwa. Ku-2008, i-American Psychological Association yathi: “Yize ucwaningo oluningi luhlolisisile ukuthonya okunokwenzeka kofuzo, i-hormonal, ezenhlalo, namasiko ekuphatheni ezocansi, abukho ubufakazi obutholakele bokuvumela ososayensi ukuthi baphethe ngokuthi ukuthambekela kobulili kunqunywa yinoma isiphi isici noma yizici ezithile.". Ubungqingili bunezimbangela eziningi, futhi abantu bazibona ngokuhlukile ezimpilweni zabo. Abanye abantu bancamela ukuphendukela ekubonisaneni okuzobasiza basuse idrayivu engafuneki yobungqingili, futhi lokhu kusongela i-ajenda yezepolitiki yezishoshovu zobungqingili.

Ingabe ukwelashwa okuvumela abesilisa nabesifazane abehlukile kuye kwesinye isidakamizwa esihlukile?

Cha. Abeluleki abasebenzisa ukwelashwa kabusha kwezingane bane-diploma futhi bahlinzeka ngezinsizakalo zengqondo ezinhlobonhlobo zezinkinga, kufaka phakathi ukuheha okungathandeki kobulili obuhlukile. Abagxeki baqamba amanga bathi ukwelashwa kabusha njengendlela engavumelekile noma eyingozi yokwelashwa, kanti abanye bakubiza njengokuzama “ukucindezela ubungqingili”, obuncike ezindleleni zokuziphatha. Izincazelo ezinjalo zingamanga futhi azivezi umsebenzi wabasebenzi bezempilo yezengqondo abaqinisekisiwe abasebenza ngokuvuselela izingqondo.

Ingabe izingane ziyokwenqatshelwa ukufinyelela ukunakekelwa okwanele kwengqondo uma ukwelashwa okuvunyelwe ngabobulili obuhlukile kuvinjelwe?

Yebo Izingane ezengwa abantu abadala bobulili obufanayo futhi abangaqiniseki ngokuthanda kwabo ukuya ocansini ngenxa yodlame lwezocansi, bazonqatshelwa ukufinyelela ekwelashweni ngenxa yokuthi akuqinisekisi ubungqingili. Eqinisweni, ingane ihlukunyezwa kabili - okokuqala yisigebengu, bese kuba yisimo sezepolitiki, esenqaba ukunikeza ingane ukwelashwa, uma kungeyona incwadi yokuvuma ukuthi iyisitabane.

Ungungqingilingiyavuma ingabe ukwelashwa kuyingozi?

Ezinye izishoshovu zezitabane zithi ukuthi ukwelashwa kabusha kuyingozi futhi kungaholela ebusheni ukukhathazeka, ukudangala kanye / noma ukuzibulala. Noma kunjalo, akukho noyedwa ucwaningo lwesayensi olubukezwe oontanga olulodwa olungahlola izingane ezihlaselwe ukuthola ukwelashwa kabusha, ngakho-ke zonke izinsolo zokuthi ukwelashwa okunjalo kuyingozi futhi akunamphumela akunasisekelo.

Imithetho elawula ukuvimba ukwelashwa kabusha isuselwe kuphela kuzitatimende zezepolitiki ezivela kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi yi-psychologist kanye nosizo lwezempilo, njenge-American Psychological Association (APA), lapho i-2009 yakha i-Task Force ehlanganisa kuphela abasebenza ngongqondongqondo nobungqingili. Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi i-Task Force yenqabile ukwamukela izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo nabasebenza ngokusebenza kwengqondo abaqinisekisile ababesebenza namakhasimende njengengxenye yokwelapha kabusha futhi / noma ababengabungqingili, wonke amalungu ale Task Force aziwa njengabaphikisi besikhathi eside bezokwelapha kabusha ngezizathu zefilosofi nezepolitiki.

Ithimba elijutshwe yi-APA embikweni walo leluleka abazali ukuthi bangasebenzisi izindlela zokwelapha kabusha izingane zabo. Imithethosivivinywa evimbela ukwelashwa kwabesilisa nabesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane kuphela icaphuna imibono ye-APA nezinye izinhlangano "ezijwayelekile", ingazinaki izincomo ze-American Association of Christian Psychologists (AACC), iNational Association for the Study and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), i-Catholic Medical Association (CMA) kanye ne-American College of Pediatricians (ACPeds), bonke labo abasekela ilungelo leklayenti lokuxazulula ukukhanga okungafuneki kobulili obufanayo nelungelo labazali lokunquma ukuthi yikuphi ukwelashwa nokwelashwa okungcono emindenini yabo nasezinganeni zabo. Sekukonke, lezi zinhlangano zakhiwe ngaphezu kuka-50 abaqeqeshiwe bezempilo yezengqondo nabezokwelapha.

 Ingabe bukhona ubufakazi bokusekela ukuphumelela kokwelashwa okungafani nobungqingili?

Yebo, iminyaka ye-100 yocwaningo, empeleni. E-2009, iNational Association for the Study and Therapy ofungqingili yenza ukubuyekezwa okuphelele kwezincwadi ngesihloko sokuphinda kubhekwe phambili futhi yaphetha ngokuthi amanye amadoda nabesifazane bangasuka ebungqingili baye kobungqingili nokuthi izindlela zokuguqula isimo sokwenza ucansi zazingeyona ingozi kangako. Ngaphezu kwalokho, incwadi kaDkt James Phelan eyisisekelo eyakhishwa nge-2014 "Imiphumela ephumelelayo yokwelashwa kabusha"Lapho kwethulwa iminyaka ye-100 yocwaningo, kanye nokubuyekezwa okuphelele kwebhayibheli kwempumelelo ebhalwe phansi ekhombisa ukuthi ukwelashwa kusize amanye amaklayenti ukuthi aqede i-drive yawo engafuneki yobungqingili futhi azizwe ehlukile.

Ingabe abazali bezingane zabo bayakuvuma ukwelashwa okuvuma ubungqingili?

Ezinye izishoshovu ezilwa nezitabane ziye zakhokhisa ukuthi abazali baphoqa izingane zabo ukuthi zenze imisebenzi yokwelashwa kabusha, kubandakanya nasemakamu okusolwa ukuthi zisebenzisa izindlela zokuguqula abantu (isb. I-electroshock). Izinsolo ezinjengalezi zinganekwane eziphelele eziye zaphenywa futhi zavunulwa, kepha noma kunjalo zisetshenziswa njengecebo lokwesabisa lokukhuthaza abenzi bezomthetho ukuba benqabe ukwelashwa okuvumela ukuba umuntu angathandani naye, kanti ngasikhathi sinye bavumela umkhuba wokwelapha ovunywa yisitabane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma izishoshovu zezitabane zigxile kakhulu ekwelapheni okungaphambukeli, kungani ungavumeli ngokuphelele ukwelashwa okuhlukile esikhundleni sokuzama ukuvimbela kuphela ukwelashwa kabusha? (Uma kubhekwa, njengamanje mayelana neziguli ezingama-1 ezigidigidi ngonyaka zithola ukwelashwa kwe-electroshock ekwelapheni ukudangala, i-catatonia, i-manic syndrome, njll. - ngu. Per.)

Imithetho evimbela ukwelashwa kabusha isongela ilungelo labantu ngokomthethosisekelo lempilo, inkululeko, kanye nenjabulo, kanye nelungelo lokuhlangana nodokotela wezengqondo oqinisekiswe yi-Amendment Yokuqala yoMthethosisekelo wase-U.S. Ukusiza iklayenti ukuxazulula ukukhangana okungathandeki kobulili obufanayo ukuze ihlale ithembekile ezinkolelweni zayo ezingokomoya. Bonke abazali, izingane kanye nemindeni bafanelwe ilungelo lokuzinqumela futhi akufanele baphoqeleke ukuthi bakhethe phakathi kwengqondo nenkolo yabo.

Source: Ukulingana Nobulungiswa Kubo Bonke