Tag Archive: Chithandizo

Momwe asayansi a LGBT amanama zomaliza za kafukufuku wamankhwala obwezeretsa

Mu Julayi 2020, a John Blosnich wa LGBTQ+ Health Equality Center adafalitsa ina kuphunzira za "ngozi" ya mankhwala obwezeretsa. Pakafukufuku wa mamembala a 1518 a "anthu ochepa omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", gulu la Blosnich lidatsimikiza kuti anthu omwe adayesedwa kusintha malingaliro ogonana (omwe amatchedwa SOCE *) anena za kuchuluka kwa malingaliro ofuna kudzipha komanso kuyesa kudzipha kuposa omwe alibe. Zakhala zikutsutsidwa kuti SOCE ndi "kupsinjika kovulaza komwe kumawonjezera kudzipha kwa ochepa pakugonana". Chifukwa chake, kuyesa kusintha malingaliro ndikosavomerezeka ndipo kuyenera kusinthidwa ndi "kusiya kovomerezeka" komwe kungayanjanitse munthuyo ndi zilakolako zake zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kafukufukuyu amatchedwa "umboni wotsimikizika kwambiri wakuti SOCE imayambitsa kudzipha".

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Kocharyan G.S. - Bisexuality and Therapy Therapy: kafukufuku wamilandu

Mawu. Kuwunika kwachipatala kumaperekedwa pomwe tikukamba za "amuna ndi akazi” kwa mwamuna, ndikulongosolanso chithandizo chotembenuza chomwe adapatsidwa pogwiritsa ntchito pulogalamu ya hypnosuggestive, yomwe idakhala yothandiza kwambiri.

Pakadali pano, zoyesayesa zomwe sizinachitikepo zikuchitika kuti ziletse kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala obwezeretsa, omwe cholinga chake ndikusintha mchitidwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Amasalidwa ndipo samangonena zopanda ntchito, komanso zowopsa mthupi la munthu. Chifukwa chake, Disembala 7, 2016 nyumba yamalamulo ya Malta onse mogwirizana adapereka lamulo loletsa kugwiritsa ntchito njira zobwezeretsa. Pogwiritsa ntchito "kusintha, kupondereza ndikuwononga momwe amuna amagonana kapena amuna," lamuloli limapereka chindapusa kapena ndende. [7] Bundesrat (woyimira mayiko aku Germany) pa 5 June 2020 adavomereza lamulo loletsa mankhwalawa. Deutsche Welle akuti malowa atha kulangidwa ndikumangidwa mpaka chaka chimodzi, komanso kutsatsa ndi kuyimira pakati - chindapusa chofika ma euro 30 [1]. Ku US, zigawo 18 zokha, Puerto Rico ndi Washington DC, zaletsa chithandizo cha kusintha kwa ana. Akuluakulu atha kudzipereka kuchipatala m'dziko lonselo [9]... Instagram ndi Facebook adalengeza kutsekedwa kwa zolemba zonse patsamba lino zomwe zimalimbikitsa kutembenuka mtima [8].

Malingaliro akuti chithandizo chothandizira kutembenuka sikuti sichingogwira ntchito, koma nthawi zonse chimayambitsa kuvulaza thupi ndizabodza. Kutsutsana kofananira kungapezeke m'nkhani zathu [3; 4; 6]. Kuphatikiza apo, ntchito zathu zingapo zatiwonetsa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osinthira [2; 5].

Nayi nkhani yochokera kuchipatala chathu, komwe mankhwala otembenuka mtima anali opambana kwambiri pakukonza chiwongolero cha chilakolako chogonana mwa amuna omwe amakonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

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Gerard Aardweg pa psychology yokhudza kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso ankhanza

Katswiri wodziwika bwino wama zamagetsi wotchuka kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi Gerard van den Aardweg adasankha mwapadera maphunziro ndi chithandizo cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kwa zaka zambiri zomwe wakhala akuchita zaka 50. Membala wa National Science Advisory Committee of the National Association for the Study and Treatment of Hom ushoga (NARTH), wolemba mabuku ndi zolemba za sayansi, lero ndi m'modzi mwa akatswiri ochepa omwe amayesa kufotokozera zenizeni za nkhaniyi pamipingo yokhazikika, molingana ndi cholinga, osati malingaliro opotoka zosankha. Pansipa pali mawu ake "The Naturalization" Yogonana Amuna Kapena Akazi Amuna ndi Humanae Vitae "werengani pamsonkhano wapapa Sukulu ya Moyo wa Anthu ndi Banja m'chaka cha 2018.

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Chithandizo cha zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zisanachitike zolondola zandale

Milandu yambiri yothandiza kuchiritsa kwa anthu omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kukopa akufotokozedwa mwatsatanetsatane m'mabuku akatswiri. Nenani Bungwe la National Association for the Study and Therapy of kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha likuwonetsa mwachidule umboni wopatsa chidwi, malipoti azachipatala ndi kafukufuku kuyambira kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 1800 mpaka pano, zomwe zimatsimikizira motsimikiza kuti abambo ndi amayi omwe ali ndi chidwi atha kusintha kuchokera pa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kupita amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Nyengo isanakhale yolondola pandale, zinali zodziwika bwino zasayansi, zomwe ndi zaulere analemba atolankhani apakati. Ngakhale American Psychiatric Association, kupatula kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pamndandanda wazovuta zamaganizidwe mu 1974, adalemba, izo "Njira zamakono zamankhwala zimalola gawo lalikulu la ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe akufuna kusintha malingaliro awo kuti atero".

Kutanthauzira kumatsatira zolemba kuchokera ku New York Times ya 1971.

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Garnik Kocharyan pamankhwala obwezeretsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha

Thandizo la LGBT

Kocharyan Garnik Surenovich, Doctor of Medical Sciences, Pulofesa wa department of Sexology, Medical Psychology, Medical and Psychological Rehabilitation of the Kharkov Medical Academy. adapereka buku la "Shame and Loss of Attachment. Kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala obwezeretsa pochita ". Wolembayo ndi m'modzi mwa akatswiri odziwika komanso odziwika padziko lonse lapansi pantchito yobwezeretsa, woyambitsa National Association for Study and Treatment of Homosexuality (NARTH) - Dr. Bukuli lidasindikizidwa koyamba ku United States ku 2009 pamutu woti "Manyazi ndi Kutayika Kwachipangizo: Ntchito Yothandiza Yothandizira Othandizira".

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Thandizo lokonzanso: mafunso ndi mayankho

Kodi onse ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?

“Gay” ndiye chizindikiritso chomwe munthu amakhala amasankha ndekha. Si amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amadziwika kuti ndi "gay." Anthu omwe sazindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo amakhulupirira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amafunafuna thandizo kuti adziwe zifukwa zenizeni zomwe amakumana nazo. Pa nthawi yamankhwala, alangizi ndi akatswiri amaganizo amagwiritsa ntchito njira zothandiza kuti makasitomala azindikire zifukwa zomwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo komanso kuwathandiza kuthana ndi zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Anthu awa, omwe ndi gawo limodzi lothandiza mdera lathu, amayesetsa kuteteza ufulu wawo kulandira thandizo ndi chithandizo kuti athetse kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, asinthe malingaliro awo ogonana komanso / kapena asungidwe osakwatiwa. Izi zimatheka pogwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu ophatikiza amuna ndi akazi, kuphatikiza upangiri ndi chithandizo cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe amadziwikanso kuti "Kugonana Kwachilichonse '

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Zolemba za munthu yemwe kale anali amuna kapena akazi anzawo

Wokondedwa wowerenga, dzina langa ndi Jake. Ndine wachiwerewere wakale wazaka makumi awiri kuchokera ku England. Zolemba izi ndi za iwo omwe amatsutsa lingaliro losintha malingaliro azakugonana. Akatswiri aphunzira zakugonana kwazaka zambiri ndipo apeza kuti kugonana kumakhala kosiyanasiyana mwa anthu ambiri. Umboni ukusonyeza kuti malingaliro azakugonana amatha kusintha pamoyo wawo wonse. Ndizowonetseratu kuti anthu ambiri amasintha malingaliro awo pakugonana. Ndine m'modzi wa anthuwa.

Sindimakondanso kugona ndi amuna; atsikana tsopano ali okongola kwambiri kwa ine. Poyamba sindinkaganiza choncho, koma tsopano ndikuganiza.

Nthawi ina, kugona tulo usiku, ndinadziyerekeza ndili m'manja mwa munthu wina, tsopano ndimatha kudziyerekeza ndekha ndi mtsikana wamkazi.

Ena sasangalala ndi izi. Sakhala otsimikiza za kugonana kwawo kotero kuti sangathe kuvomereza kuti pali ena omwe salinso ndi malingaliro awo. Amakhala osangalala kwambiri pamene anthu asinthana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sakonda izi zikachitika. Nthawi zina anthu ngati ine amatchedwa oyambitsa udani, ndipo chifukwa chake sindikufuna kugona ndi amuna! 

Akadakonda ndikangokhala chete osintha zogonana zanga, ndikukhala mabodza ndikukana zomwe zidachitika? Inde, zikuwoneka! Amafuna kundiletsa, kundilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo womwe ndimasankha, komanso kundikakamiza kuti ndizitsogolera moyo womwe amawona kuti ndi wofunikira! 

Sikuti ndinangosiya kugonana, komanso ndimakhala wosangalala. Ine ndekha ndiziwongolera moyo wanga momwe ndikufuna, osati momwe amandiuzira. Ndinaganiza zosintha kugonana kwanga ndipo ndinazichita.

Kugwira mawu ochirikiza ana:
Ndili pano!
Sindingatengenso ulemu!
Kuzolowera!

Kanema mu Chingerezi

Nkhani yonse m'Chingerezi: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man