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Namuhla, lapho imfashini ye-transgenderism ithuthukiswa kakhulu emphakathini wanamuhla, abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe abazikhubazayo ngemisebenzi ebizayo bathola ukuthi ukushintsha ubulili akuzange kubasondeze enjabulweni futhi akuzange kuxazulule izinkinga zabo. Bangaphezu kwe-40% yabo abazama ukulungisa ama-akhawunti ngokuphila, kepha kukhona labo abavuma ukuthi babenephutha, babuyela ebulilini babo begazi futhi bazame ukuxwayisa abanye, ukuthi bangaphindi iphutha labo. Omunye umuntu onjalo nguWalt Heyer, osehlale iminyaka eyi-8 njengoLaura Jensen.

Ngaphandle kwalokho okuzwayo, umbono wokuthi abantu “bazalwa ngaleyo ndlela” ayitholi ukuqinisekiswa kwesayensi. Futhi, i-hypothesis ye-queer theorists yokuthi ubunikazi bobulili abuyi ocansini lwendalo, noma ukuthi umuntu angaba "yindoda enamathele emzimbeni wowesifazane" noma okuphambene nalokho, ayinabufakazi besayensi. Lezi zigameko azinancazelo emvelweni futhi zimane ziyisibonakaliso sokuphambuka enqubekweni esejwayelekile yokuthuthuka ebangelwa ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo kwasekuqaleni. Lo ngumzamo onganele wokunxephezela ubunzima babo bobuntwana futhi ubhekane nokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu komoya.

Ngokuphikisana nenqubomgomo yangaphandle, i-American Psychological Association ezincwadini zayo zangaphakathi uyaqonda ukuba khona “kobudlelwano obuhlangene noma obungenzeka obuyisisusa” phakathi kokuheha abobulili obuhlukile nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kwangaphambi kocansi. Ubuye avume ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kobunikazi be-transgender kungahle kuhlobane ne-psychopathology yabazali kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle komndeni ezinganeni.

I-Walt ingesinye seziqinisekiso eziningi ezidabukisayo zalokhu okungenhla. Lapho eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, ugogo wakhe wamgqokisa intombazane ngasese. Lapho eneminyaka engu-11, umalume wakhe waqala ukumnukubeza. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ubaba wanquma ukuthi wayengayikhulisi ngokwanele indodana yakhe futhi waqala ukusebenzisa isijeziso esinzima sokushaywa. Konke lokhu kube nomthelela omubi engqondweni kaWalt ​​futhi kwamenza wangabaza ukuthi ungubani. Lapho eneminyaka engama-39, eseqale ukuzwa okwengeziwe ngama-transsexuals, uWalt wahlangana nomcwaningi ohamba phambili we-transsexualism, uHarry Benjamin, okwathi, ekupheleni kwemizuzu engama-45 yokubonisana, wamtshela ukuthi une-dysphoria yobulili futhi udinga "ukunikezwa kabusha ucansi" ukuhlinzwa. Eminyakeni emibili kamuva, uWalt wahlukanisa nomkakhe, wakhipha izitho zakhe zangasese, wafaka izimila zebele futhi waqala ukuphila njengowesifazane. Nokho, izinkinga zakhe ezingokwengqondo nokuhlushwa akukapheli. UWalt waba umlutha wotshwala futhi ngokushesha walahlekelwa umsebenzi wakhe, indlu yakhe, futhi wacishe wazibulala. Kuphela ngokusekelwa abantu abanomusa ababemkhoselile, bemzungezile ngokunakekela nothando, wakwazi ukuqeda utshwala kanye ne-transsexualism. Manje uWalt useneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-30 engadakiwe futhi useneminyaka engu-18 eshadile. Imininingwane eminingi ku видео.

UWalt uthi: “Lapho ukuhlakanipha kuqala ukubuyela kimi kancane, ngaya eyunivesithi ukuze ngibe ngudokotela wezengqondo, futhi lapho ngifunda ubuchwepheshe bezengqondo ngaqala ukuqonda ukuthi ubulili abunakuguqulwa. Le yinganekwane, inganekwane, inkohliso, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. "Ngiqale ukubona ukuthi angisiyena umuntu wesifazane wangempela, ukuthi bengingashintshile ngempela, kodwa ngidale ukubukeka kwenguquko."

Omunye wodokotela bengqondo abasebenza noWalt (ngaleso sikhathi uLaura), umtshele ukuthi kusobala ukuthi unenkinga yokungahlangani, wameluleka ukuthi ahlolwe. UWalt waphendukela kochwepheshe abaningana, futhi bonke njengabakuqinisekisile lokhu kutholwa. Ngenxa yokuthi ubuntu bukaWalt ​​ebuntwaneni bufakwa ngaphansi kokugqoka, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili kanye nokushaywa, wazakhela ubuntu obuhlukile ngaphakathi kuye, okungekho lutho olubi olwenzeka ngalo. Ngokungafani nobuntu obuqhekekile, lapho umuntu engazi ngomunye umuntu, bekuyikho ukunqamulalapho ubuntu bukaLaura bahlanganiswa futhi babonwa khona.

Uthi: “Isipiliyoni sami nokuphila kwami ​​kufakazela ukuthi i-transgenderism iyakwazi ukulungiswa futhi akekho umuntu okufanele aphile kanjena. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi kuze kufike ku-70% yabantu abazithatha njenge-transgender bahlushwa i-comorbid (concomitant) yezinkinga zengqondo nezengqondo ezingakaze zitholwe noma zelashwe. Uma uqala ukubhekana nalokhu kuphazamiseka, khona-ke isifiso sokushintsha ubulili siyanyamalala. Ama-30% asele ahlushwa i-phobias nezinye izinkinga ezidinga ukulungiswa. Abantu abanjalo abadingi ukuhlinzwa, kepha ukunakekelwa okufanele komtholampilo nobuholi obuhle. Inkinga ukuthi imithetho yamanje iyenqabela ukuhlinzekwa kosizo kubantu abanjalo, ikakhulukazi abantu abasha. Ezimweni eziningi, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zomtholampilo zenqatshelwe ukusebenzisana nesiguli ukuqeda i-dysphoria yezobulili, ngoba lokhu kuphakamisa ukuguquguquka kwayo, kepha empeleni kuyaphenduka! Basaba nje ukuthi ekugcineni kuzovela ukuthi laba bantu bamane bahlushwa iziphazamiso, njengami nabanye abantu be-transgender. 

Uma ushintsho lwezocansi “lumangalisa”, “lusebenza ngempumelelo”, futhi nalabo abakwenze bajabule kakhulu, kungani i-41% yalabo abenze lo msebenzi wokuhlinzwa bezama ukuzibulala? ” Qaphela ukuthi abacabangi nje ngokuzibulala, kepha “bazama”. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abajabule. Abalutholi nje usizo abaludinga, futhi yilokho ngqo engifuna ukukudlulisela: ungacindezeli abantu abahamba ngama-transgender basendleleni yama-hormone nokuhlinzwa - lokhu ngeke kubasize. Abaningi babo bazoba nezindlela zokuzibulala, noma ngemuva kweminyaka bazothola ukuthi bamane baba nokugula kwengqondo okungalapheka. Abantu abaningi be-transgender bangibhalela bathi: “qhubeka, uqinisile!” Ngempela saphenduka emva kweminyaka eyi-8, noma iminyaka ye-12. Omunye wabo wabhala ukuthi kwamthatha iminyaka eyi-15 ukuthi avume ukuthi wenze iphutha.

Enye yezinto ezishukumisayo lapha ukuthi udokotela ohlinzayo owenza imisebenzi “yokubuyisela ubulili” uhola u-$1,200,000 ngonyaka. Akukona nje ukwenza inzuzo ngokwezimali ukuthi baphumele obala bavume ukuthi akusebenzi. Angiholi lutho ngalokhu. Angikhululiwe enteleni, anginazo izinzuzo zezezimali, ngifuna nje ukusindisa izimpilo eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ngiqinisekise ukuthi abantu bathola usizo nokwelashwa abakudingayo."

USolwazi uCamilla Paglia ukholelwa ukuthi ukukhula kwe-transgenderism eNtshonalanga kuwuphawu lokuwohloka kanye nokuwohloka kwesiko: “Ocwaningweni lwami, ngithole ukuthi umlando uwukuzungeza komhlaba. Ezikhathini zasendulo, yonke indawo sibheka isithombe esifanayo: lapho isiko liqala ukubola, i-transgender phenomena ichuma. Ngakho-ke eGrisi yasendulo, ngesikhathi sokudana kwabo, izifanekiso zazinesibindi futhi zinamasipha, kepha lapho umphakathi wawela ekuwohlokeni, yilapho izifanekiselo ziba buthakathaka futhi zingabesifazane, njengotshani obilisiwe. Lokhu kuwuphawu lokuwohloka kwesiko. Akukho lutho oluphawula ukuwohloka kweNtshonalanga njengokubekezelela kwethu ubungqingili obuvulekile kanye nale mania ye-transgender.

I-Transgenderism isibe ilebuli yemfashini nevumayo ukuthi abantu abasha ababekeke emphakathini bashesha ukuzilengisa. Uma kuma-50's, ukuvuselela baba ama-hitniks, kwathi kuma-60 baba ngama-hippies futhi baqala ukuthatha izidakamizwa ezikhulisa ingqondo, namuhla bayakhuthazeka ukuthi bacabange ukuthi ukwakheka kwabo kuhlobene nobulili obungafanele.

Ngikhathazekile ngokuduma nokutholakala kokuhlinzwa "kokunikwa kabusha ubulili". Abantu bayakhuthazwa ukuthi benze lokhu, kodwa nanamuhla, ngayo yonke intuthuko yesayensi, awukwazi ngempela ukushintsha ubulili bomuntu. Ungazibiza nganoma yini oyifunayo, kodwa ekugcineni, wonke amangqamuzana asemzimbeni wakho kanye ne-DNA yawo ahlala efakwe ikhodi ngokobulili bakho obungokwemvelo.

Ososayensi baseMelika abavela eBrown University kuphenywe izimbangela zokudlanga “kwe-dysphoria engazelelwe yobulili” phakathi kwabantu abasha futhi saze saphetha ngokuthi ukutheleleka kontanga, ngokusekelwe kuthonya elilinganayo nokulingisa kontanga, kudlala indima enkulu ekwakhiweni kwe-transgenderism yentsha.

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