Imicabango ivame ukuza ukuthi akusekho amandla.
Uma ngolunye usuku ngingakwazi ukubekezelela, khona-ke ake
kuzoba yindaba yethu. Mhlawumbe othile uzosiza.
Futhi uma kungenjalo, makuhlale kungumlando
impilo eyodwa ephukile nezinhlungu zobuhlanya.

Sithintwe ngumama onendodana eneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala yavele yayeka inyuvesi ngonyaka wesine yabaleka ekhaya ukuze kungabikho noyedwa ongamvimba "ekushintsheni ubulili". Konke lokhu kwaqala eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule ngengxoxo nentombazane engajwayelekile kwi-Intanethi, enokuthambekela okucacile kokukhohlisa, ukuzithoba kanye ne-gynemimethophilia - okuheha abesilisa abagqoke izingubo zabesifazane nabesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane. Le ntombazane ayibizi indodana yakhe ngalutho ngaphandle kokuthi "ntombazane yami engiyithandayo." Kukhona ukuthonya kwengqondo kuye njalo kanye nesimo sengqondo ngokumelene nonina nezihlobo. Ngokwemiyalelo yentombazane, indodana yahamba edolobheni futhi yanquma bonke ubuhlobo nezihlobo zayo, yabavimba ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi yashintsha inombolo yocingo. Ngezansi sinikeza ngendlela efushanisiwe incwadi evela kunina egcwele ubuhlungu nokuphelelwa yithemba.

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ULenya unguthunjana ezinganeni zami ezimbili. Ubaba wakhe wasishiya eneminyaka emibili. Izingane zikuthathe kanzima. Indodakazi ikhale njalo. Baze bangibizela esikoleni, babuza ukuthi ingane ikhalelani ekilasini. Isikhathi eside, indodana ibimemeza kunoma yisiphi isigaxa esingaphandle komnyango ukuthi ubaba uze wagijima wayovula umnyango. 

Wakhula njengomfana ojwayelekile, akazange adlale imidlalo yamantombazane, akazange asho ukuthi uyintombazane. Ungalokothi. Ubethanda opopayi ngeSpider-Man neTeenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. Ngemuva kwalokho uNaruto, uPokémon. Kusuka kumathoyizi anjengamakhayithi, amarobhothi, isikeyiti, amasondo. Ngiphuphe ngesosizi endiza kuphaneli yokulawula.

Ebangeni lokuqala ngaya kwikarati. Wabe eseqala ukubandakanyeka ngokungathí sina e-skating skating. Lapho ikhula, yashintsha ukubhangqa i-skating. Lapho esevele efinyelele ezingeni elibi kakhulu kwezemidlalo, walimala onyaweni okwamvimba indlela yakhe yezemidlalo. Umhlaba wonke wabhidlika ngenxa yakhe. Konke ayekulima konke ebuntwaneni bakhe kwawa. Ubesesimeni esibucayi impela. Waqala ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi edlala imidlalo yekhompyutha futhi ebuka i-anime. Ngenxa yalokhu, wayengahlali kahle emphakathini - engahambiselwanga nemvelo yezenhlalo nokuxhumana okujwayelekile. Wayengenandaba kangako nomhlaba wangempela. Ngangihlala ikakhulukazi kumasayithi we-anime akhuluma isiNgisi. Wayesebenza kude. Ngokobulili, naye wayevinjelwe - engakhombisi intshisekelo nakancane ebudlelwaneni bezothando.

Ngemva kokuphothula ibanga le-11, indodana yaqala ukungena kulesi sikhungo. Njengomuntu omusha, wathatha isibongo saseJalimane. Ngemuva kwalokho wakhombisa ipasipoti eqediwe. Ngizenzele, ngingatshelanga muntu. Lokhu akusimangalisanga kangako, ngoba ubehlala ethi uphatheke kabi nguyise futhi angafuni ukuba nesibongo sakhe. Kodwa le kwakuyinsimbi yokuqala. Cishe maphakathi nonyaka wokuqala, ngiyakhumbula, indodana yami ebukeka ijabule ngokuphelele yathi uKatya, ababekhuluma naye kwi-Intanethi, bambhalela futhi bavuma uthando lwakhe kuye. Ukuzwa lokhu okokuqala ngqa empilweni yakhe, wahamba sengathi usephusheni. Cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo, kwaqala ukuxhumana naye njalo. Ngabona ukuthi njalo ebusuku indodana yami ayilali, kodwa yayihambisana noKatya. Ekuseni avukele esikoleni, bese eyolala ngo 4-5 ekuseni. Ngizamile ukukhuluma nendodana yami, kodwa konke kwaqhubeka njengakuqala. Yebo, bengicabanga, imizwa yokuqala. Ngaphambi kwalokho, wayengakaze abe nobuhlobo obunzima, ngakho ubaphatha ngokujulile nangokuhlonipha. 

NgoJulayi, uKatyya nonina basivakashela. Ngisho nangaleso sikhathi, ezinye izinto zazibonakala zingajwayelekile kimi. Isibonelo, iqiniso lokuthi umama ulethe indodakazi yakhe ebanga leshumi kulo mfana wayilalisa ndawonye egumbini elihlukile. Sengathi intombazane ayibuyanga nesipho ekhaya. Kwangimangaza futhi ukuthi lapho singena e-cafe, uKatyya waphendula ngonya umama wakhe nge-bass. Futhi emhlanganweni, wazenza isisikazi esinyakazayo, usezoquleka ngenxa yenjabulo, njengoba umngane edlula. Lapho-ke, ngokusobala, wabona ukumangala kwami ​​futhi wema. Kodwa kwangimangaza kakhulu ushintsho olukhulu kangaka. Futhi izwi lentombazane alilona elintombazane - alihambelani nokubukeka kwalo. Kodwa ngayixosha imicabango enjalo kimi. Ngabe ngisacabanga ukuthi uKatyya ungumakoti wendodana yami futhi ngokuzayo, ngemuva kokuphothula izifundo zabo, bazoshada. Indodana yami ingitshele kanjalo. Wabaqinisekisa ukuthi banothando.

Ngo-Okthoba, nginqume ukuhlanza igumbi lendodana yami ngabona amaphakethe wamaphilisi etafuleni lami. Eziningi besezivele zingenalutho, ziqalisiwe. Imiyalo yathi lawa ngamaphilisi okuvimbela ukukhulelwa ama-hormone abesifazane. Ngangizibuza ukuthi kungani indodana yami ikudinga lokhu. Impendulo yakhe ngesikhathi ebuya enyuvesi yangishaqisa. Mina, uthi, ngiphuza zona ukwenza ushintsho futhi ngibe ngowesifazane. Ngingumama we-transgender.

Lapho-ke bengingazi lutho ngakho, ngaphandle kokuthi laba ngabantu abangaphilile kahle ngokwengqondo abashintsha bagqoke izingubo zobulili obuhlukile futhi, mhlawumbe, bahlinzwa. Kepha uLenya wayehleli phambi kwami! Indodana yami, engiyibonile nengiyazi impilo yayo yonke. Futhi angikaze ngiqaphele lutho. Ngezwa ukuthi iziveza ebuntwaneni. Kodwa uLyonya ungumfana ojwayelekile owayengumngane nabafana, wathandana namantombazane. Undizise ama-kites, ahamba nge-skateboard. Bengihlala ngifuna ukuba yigreenhouse emdlalweni wami, futhi lokhu ukwesekwa, ukukhishwa - udinga ukuqina ngokomzimba, ngakho-ke wasebenza kuma-simulators, waphakamisa i-kettlebell. Kepha, noma kunjalo, uboleka ukuthonya kalula: ngemuva kokubuka uchungechunge lwe-TV "uSherlock", waqala ukulingisa iqhawe ekugqokeni nasekuziphatheni kwakhe; ngemuva kokubona uDkt House, waqala ukusho ukuthi wayengusociopath. 

Ngabuza ukuthi ubedle amaphilisi isikhathi esingakanani. Uthe bekuvele kungunyaka! Chaza ukuthi ngangizizwa kanjani ngaleso sikhathi ... Umhlaba wasuka ngaphansi kwezinyawo zami. Ingane yami ephile kahle izenza ingasebenzi ngezandla zayo! Kamuva, nokho, wavuma ukuthi ubephuze izinyanga ezintathu ngaleso sikhathi, futhi wathi unyaka ukuze ngingangabazi ukuthi yonke into ibucayi. Ngamncenga ukuthi ayeke ukudla amaphilisi afune usizo kongoti. Wavuma ukuya kudokotela wezifo zengqondo. Lapho wathi uzikhomba njengentombazane. Udokotela wabuza imibuzo, futhi kwacaca ukuthi wayengaqondi ngokwenzekayo. Unikele ngokufana nesibhedlela sasemini. Wayethukile ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi i-schizophrenia iqale ukuqala - indodana yakhe yasho izinto ezingajwayelekile. Ungitshele ukuthi ubeqala ukubona lokhu. Awu, akuzwakali sengathi transsexualism. Uthe ubudlelwane bakhe noKatya buyamangaza kakhulu: nsuku zonke, noma kunalokho, njalo ebusuku, kunezingxoxo eziqhubekayo ngesihloko se-transgender. Akamshiyi umzuzu, uhlala elawula - lapho akhona, akwenzayo. Yebo, ngikubonile nami lokho. Sake sancokola ngaphambili - ngabe ucela uKatyya ukuthi naye aye endlini yangasese?

Odokotela bekhomishini abakaze bathathe isinqumo ngokuxilongwa. Bakhulume ngokukhathazeka, ukudangala. Udokotela ozibulala wasebenza naye, lutho futhi. Bancome ukuxhumana nomtholampilo wesifunda. Futhi lapho, futhi, odokotela abazange baxilonge i-transsexualism ngemuva kokubona kwenyanga. Bambuza imibuzo ekhohlisayo ukuze aqonde ukuthi wayezenzisa noma cha, futhi bathi futhi: kukhona okungahambi kahle lapha. Ukukhishwa wathi wayenenkinga yobuntu exubene ne-dysphoria yobulili (ngokwamazwi akhe) futhi wanikezwa nemithi yokulwa nokudangala. 

Ukuphawula: Ngingasho ukuthi indodana, ifuna ukusula okwedlule okuhlukumezayo, ifuna ukuqeda ubuntu bayo bangaphambili, ishiye bonke ubunzima obayifikela. Ukuguqulwa kwesibongo, empeleni, kungathathwa njengesinyathelo sokuqala. Ngeshwa, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezinobungane be-LGBT, esikhundleni sokunikeza usizo oludingekayo, zizomncenga ukuba abhubhise "ukuphinda anikezwe ubulili".

Ngazama konke okusemandleni ukulungisa izinto. Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngandlela thile uzokwehlisa umoya, ngoba odokotela abakwenzi ukuxilongwa okunjalo. Futhi wangitshela: masingakhulumi ngakho, sizophila. Ngenze njalo. Ngazama ukukhuluma naye kwezinye izihloko, ngipheka okuthile okumnandi, ngamgona futhi. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi kwakukhona umsebenzi ongapheli. Futhi muva nje, egumbini lendodana yami, ngithole idayari yakhe. Ivelaphi imicabango enjalo ekhanda lengane ethandekayo? Angikholwanga, ngifunda ukuthi ubiza kanjani indodakazi yami nomzukulu wami "laba bantu" futhi ubhala ukuthi "bayangizonda." Kepha umbhedo lo! Kwavelaphi? Ubani oshaye lokhu ekhanda lakhe? Ukwahlulela ngomongo, uKatya. Kepha kwenzekani? 

Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ngaphambi kokuba indodana yakhe ibaleke ekhaya, umfana othile wayibhalela online. Ngokusho kwendodana yakhe, wake wawela lo mfana emdlalweni we-inthanethi futhi akukho okunye. Wayenentshisekelo enkulu ngempilo yakhe, embhalela u-24/7. Indodana yami ihlanganyele nami futhi yathi ngokumangala: “Hawu, ubengibhalela usuku lonke. Akanazo izindaba zakhe, umsebenzi? Lapho nje ngimbhalela, uphendula ngomzuzu ofanayo. Ngikhathazeke kakhulu ngami. "

Cishe unyaka ngaphambi kwale micimbi, nginqume ukubheka ukuthi indodana yami inabangane abanjani kwinethiwekhi. Kwakunabangani abacashile lapho. Ukuthi kungani uzifihlile akucaci. Ngimangele futhi ukuthi omunye wabo uvimbe ukungena kwami ​​ngokungifaka ohlwini lwabamnyama, yize singakaze sikhulume futhi singabantu esingabazi nhlobo. Kwani? Kodwa kwakunguye, ngaphansi kwegama Kira, njalo ukuxhumana nendodana yakhe, futhi manje Sergey. Ngabuza nendodana yami, ngabe uKira uyintombazane? Futhi indodana yaphendula, cha, lo nguCyril ngamafuphi. Kodwa manje akusiye uKirill futhi. Okuthile akuqondakali ngalo mfana. Yena noKatyya bakhulume kakhulu nendodana yabo.

Ngizamile ukukhuluma nendodana yami inhliziyo nenhliziyo njengomama, ngabuza: ndodana, lapha uthi uzizwa uyintombazane. Hhayi-ke, kuthiwani ngoKatya, awukhangi kuye ngokomzimba? Indodana iphendule okuthile ngokungabaza kakhulu: "Cha, angikhangwa muntu." Ngabona ukuthi ubudlelwano buyamangaza, futhi asikho isidingo sokukhuluma nganoma yiluphi uthando ngomqondo ophelele wegama. Kungani bobabili bethi lolu uthando ngempilo alucaci. Futhi lapho sithola nje ngamaphilisi, ugogo wabuza indodana yakhe, bazoshada kanjani, ngabe noKatya unenkinga efanayo? Futhi indodana yaphendula: "Awu, ngokusobala."

Amazwana: Kungacatshangwa ukuthi uKaty unenye inkinga - i-gynemimetophilia. Lolu uhlobo lokuthakatha ngokocansi, into yalo okungamadoda alingisa abesifazane. AmaGynemimethophiles avame ukuhehwa amadoda angama-transgender. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, i-fetishist inesithakazelo kuphela emcabangweni wayo wezocansi, futhi ayinandaba nobuntu bangempela bomuntu - impilo yakhe, inhlalakahle, okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. Futhi yilokhu kanye esikubona ecaleni likaKatya: uLenya unesithakazelo kuye kuphela endimeni ka-Alice. Ngakho-ke asikho isidingo sokukhuluma nganoma yiluphi uthando ngaye - usebenzisa kuphela usizi lwensizwa esengozini yokwanelisa ukuthambekela kwayo okuphambene. Ngokushesha uLenya ekubona lokhu, maningi amathuba okuthi aphume kulobu budlelwano obungenampilo nobuncane bomonakalo kuye. 

Lapho ngithola ngamaphilisi, njll., Angizange ngiqonde indima kaKatya. Ngazama ukukhuluma naye. Ngicabange, njengoba ethi uyathanda, mhlawumbe uzongisiza ngikholwe yindodana yami. Ngambhalela ukuthi ngithinte udokotela wezifo zengqondo ku-hotline, kwathiwa angilethe indodana yami ngokuphuthumayo, ikakhulukazi uma iphuza amaphilisi ngokungalawuleki futhi izilimaza. Kodwa ukusabela kukaKatyya kwakumangaza kakhulu. Waqala ukungikholisa ukuthi ngingalufuni usizo. Uthe bazomenzela imifino, nokuthi odokotela abafanelekile, wafuna ukuthumela izibuyekezo zakhe ngeziguli zabo, wayedelela futhi ekhuluma kabi. Ngashaqeka.

Mayelana neqiniso lokuthi izidakamizwa zamahomoni zizokwenza indodana yakhe ibe yinyumba futhi ingabi namandla empilweni, uphendule wathi: “Kulungile, ake sishiye ingxenye lapho singazange sibuzwe nokuthi sihlela izingane. Ake sicabange ukuthi sihlela. Izinto zofuzo zingagcinwa egunjini le-cryochamber futhi kamuva zisetshenziselwe ukwenza izingane. Yilokho kuphela".

Vele, azilondolozanga noma yiziphi izinto zofuzo.

Ngazama ukukhuluma nomama kaKatya. Kukhona futhi okungaphezu kokuphendula okungajwayelekile. Noma yimuphi umama wentombazane angashaqeka, kepha lapha, sengathi ubekade azi konke isikhathi eside. Kwavela nokuthi uKatya wayengakaze aye eSt. Petersburg, yize indodana yakhe yathi yahlangana naye lapho. Kungani aqamba amanga, angazi. Ngokusobala kunokuthile okufihlwayo. Kwathi lapho befika kithi, umama kaKatyya wayesembize ngo-Alice. Wayeyazi yonke into isikhathi eside. Kungani uze nendodakazi yakho? Yini obuyidinga endodaneni yakho? Beka ukukhama, kholisa, khuthaza?

Ngiye ekhasini likaKatya. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngizobona ukuthi yini umakoti wakusasa anentshisekelo kuyo. Futhi kukhona i-LGBT, i-furries, i-BDSM, imidwebo yezocansi nokuningi.

Lezi yizintshisekelo eneminyaka eyi-16-17. Yini ongayilindela? Ngabhalela umama wakhe ukuthi sidinga ngokuphuthumayo ukukhipha izingane kulolu daka. Impendulo ivele yabulala: “Akukho ekhasini lendodana yakho, kungani udinga ukufunda konke lokhu? Udinga ukuba kakhulu nendodana yakho, uyinikeze imfudumalo. Futhi awudingi ukuyithumela kimi ”.

Mina nendodakazi yami saqonda ukuthi kukhona okubi kakhulu okwakwenzeka kuLyonka. Othile umcindezela ubuchopho futhi unzima kakhulu. Sithole ukuthi indodana yami yaphendukela ekusekelweni kwe-LGBT eMoscow futhi yacela usizo. Ngokusobala, akavunyelwe ukuphuma endlini, futhi uma efika eMoscow, bangamsiza. I-anime eningi yase-Japan engamantombazane amabili yagcinwa kuthebhulethi yakhe. Kwakukhona nokubhalelana noKatya, lapho isikhathi eside impela, ngisho nangaphambi kokuba afike edolobheni lethu, wambhalela imicabango yakhe evusa inkanuko, ebhekisa endodaneni yakhe ebulilini besifazane, embiza ngokuthi "ntombazane yami", "ntombazane yami engiyithandayo "," sengathi bengifuna ukubona imilenze yakho emasokisi amnyama. " Izinhlamvu zepeni zocansi. Ngokwezwi nezwi. Indodakazi yami yagula ngenhliziyo ngenxa yalokho ayekufundile, futhi safunda izincwadi kuphela ezinsukwini ezimbili. Bekufanele ngiyeke ithebhulethi bese ngidayisa indodakazi yami ngeCorvalol. Lokhu ngaphandle kokuthi ungumuntu onamandla impela, uneminyaka engama-27 ubudala. Kwethusa kakhulu. Konke abengakwenza ukuphinda athi: "Uyagula ekhanda lonke." Futhi manje konke lokhu kuqhubeka ngokwengeziwe - akekho ophazamisa. Ngenxa yalokhu, wamkhipha emndenini. Ukuze enze lokhu, umguqula amelane nonina. Ikhuthaza ukungakhulumisani, ukunqamula bonke ubuhlobo nomndeni. Angikwazi ukuxhumana nendodana yami nganoma iyiphi indlela, nganoma iyiphi indlela.

Phambilini, indodana yathi uKaty uhlanganyela nemibono yabesifazane abanobuqili, nokuthi naye uyabasekela. Ngaqala ukumtshela ukuthi iyini ngempela. Kodwa akazange afune ukulalela: "UKaty akangeke abe nephutha." Ngabe kuyinjongo yakhe ukubulala umfana okuye? Noma yena?

Manje uhlala efulethini eliqashiwe noKatya. Uyameseka kukho konke lokhu. Futhi ubazisa ngempela ubuhlobo bakhe naye. Lapho ugogo wakhe ekwazile ukufika kuye okokugcina, wamtshela ukuthi angabe esamshayela uLena, nokuthi wayesewashintshile amadokhumende abesifazane. Kulokho ahlala kukho, angazi - 16,500 kufanele ikhokhelwe izindlu. Ake sithi bamkhokhela ama-25 kude. Azikho izicathulo, azikho izingubo, akukho kudla. Utshele ugogo wakhe ukuthi umakhelwane uvame ukumvakashela futhi alethe izinhlanzi. Ngendlela, indodana ayikaze idle izinhlanzi, iphunga lenhlanzi kuphela elenze i-gag reflex yayo. Kuphela uma ebulawa yindlala ngokuphelele lapho angavunyelwa ukuthi adle izinhlanzi. Futhi uma ebulawa yindlala, kuzoba lula ukumncenga ukuba enze izinto ezingekho emthethweni ngenxa yokuhola. Nami ngiyakwesaba lokho. Ngemuva kwakho konke, bangangena esikhundleni.

Ngesikhathi kuqhubeka ingxoxo, ushintsha izwi lakhe libe ngesinono, kube sengathi ngowesifazane, ngaphansi kwesikibha ugqoke ubhodisi. Akukho lutho lokulugqoka, kepha noma kunjalo. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuthatha namahomoni. Ngokuvamile, kunokuncane okuhle. Angazi ngenzeni. Sidinga uchwepheshe. Naye uqobo akavumi ukuya ndawo. Uthi ubevele enesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo futhi wasizwa. Kepha luhlobo luni lwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo futhi yiluphi usizo olukhona uma izinzwa zakhe zifana nentambo? Ngiyesaba ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yi-LGBT. Kepha ukuthi angamtholaphi uchwepheshe azomuzwa? Ziyafana ne amahlelo... Okubi kakhulu. Futhi wayengangilaleli ngisho nasekhaya. Yonke imizamo yokuchaza - ngobutha. Ngibalekile ukuze bangaphazamisi.

Amazwana: Eqinisweni, ungasiza indodana yakho ngokunikeza usizo olungokwengqondo kuye nakuNadya. Mhlawumbe abashayamthetho kufanele bacabangele le nkinga futhi baqaphele ukuthambekela "kokushintsha ubulili" njengokubangela ukulimala empilweni yokuqina okulinganiselwe (I-Article 112 ye-Criminal Code. Ukulimaza ngamabomu ukulimala okulinganiselwe empilweni).

Ngibone indatshana ekwi-RIA Novosti "Izingane zixhunywe ku-anime nokuzibulala."... Izwi nezwi ngendodana yami. Ngangibheka njalo i-anime futhi ngidwebe kakhulu. Futhi yena noKatya. Futhi ngemuva kwalokho, izingane zethu ezincane ezinempilo zibalekela ekhaya ziyothatha izidakamizwa ze-hormonal. Shintsha ubulili. Kulokhu, ngokungenakuphikiswa baba ngabangenamandla wokuphila. Futhi lapho ubona ukuthi wenzeni kuwe ngezandla zakho, kwenzekani lapho? I-41% yemizamo yokuzibulala ye-transgender - ngani? Le yimpi ebhekene nentsha yethu. Izingane zezidakwa zidakwa zodwa, futhi lezi zingane ziphilile - zibhujiswa buthule. Futhi hhayi unyaka wokuqala. Futhi ngale ndlela zithinta nezingane ezivela emindenini ephumelelayo. Ngangimazi impilo yami yonke, futhi ngangihlala ngiqonda ukuthi wayengumfana ojwayelekile onentshisekelo yobuntwana. Kwakungekho lutho lwesifazane ngisho olusondele. Ngaphambi kwe-anime noKatyya.

Imiphakathi yama-Anime isendle. Kunamaqembu amaningi avaliwe. Indodana yami yayihleli kulezi, naye ngokwakhe wakhuluma ngayo. Izigidi zezingane sezivele zibambekile kulokhu. Izinwele ezinemibala zivela lapho. Ikhasi lakhe lonke, zonke izithombe ezigciniwe zingama-anime. Uze wazifaka esithombeni esikhombisa ukuthi uyintombazane enezinwele ezinsomi. Azikho izithombe zami ezivela empilweni yangempela. Kunjani ihlelo.

Sidinga ukuphakamisa lesi sihloko, sihehe ongoti, uma-ke sinabo. Lapho isithinte, empeleni, akukho lapho singaphendukela khona.

SIDINGA insizakalo yokusiza ngezikhathi zentsha kanye nabazali, lapho kuzoba khona ongoti abasenkingeni yezinkinga intsha ebhekana nazo namuhla, hhayi eminyakeni engama-20 eyedlule. Odokotela, izazi zokuzibulala, izazi zocansi azikaze zizwe nge-anime, inkulumo-ze ye-LGBT, inkulumo-ze elwa nomndeni, okuqukethwe ukuzibulala, noma ukuqashwa. Bangasiza kanjani? Ukumba ukuhlukumezeka kwengane ngendlela yakudala? Ngoba isitha sinamandla, ngoba akekho ophikisana naye - akekho. Ochwepheshe abanjalo abaqeqeshiwe noma ikuphi, kepha besekudingeka iminyaka eyi-10. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, ikakhulukazi abasha, bafunda ngokwezinhlelo namazinga aseNtshonalanga. Yithi, abazali badinga ukwamukela ingane enjalo nokusekelwa "ekuguqulweni", futhi bangayikhiphi kuleli phupho elibi. Nami ngabhekana nalokhu. 

Umbono wodokotela be-LGBT bangempela, hhayi obesabisayo ubalulekile. Ama-hormone ocansi (i-testosterone ne-estrogen) adala umonakalo ongalungiseki empilweni yengane, kufaka phakathi umfutho wegazi ophakeme, amahlule egazi, isifo sohlangothi nomdlavuza. Lokhu ukubulala buthule. Silahlekelwa izingane ezinhle eziphilile kulesi sihogo.

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Okuthunyelwe kweqembu leSayensi leQiniso

Ngaphandle kokuthi ososayensi basatshiswa impela futhi bacindezelwe ingcindezi eqondile yezishoshovu ze-LGBT, odokotela bengqondo kanye neminyango yezempilo yezifunda zeRussian Federation isikhalazo iqembu "Isayensi Yeqiniso" kososayensi, izibalo zomphakathi, kanye nosopolitiki.

Isikhalazo, esisekelwa abantu baseRussia abangaphezu kuka-50 000, siphakamisa izinyathelo ezingamisa ubudlova obusivele bukhona kwabaningi, lapho, ngokuya ngemicabango ebhekiswe ekwehliseni izinga lokuzalwa emhlabeni jikelele (lapho izinhlaka ze-UN zibandakanyeka khona), izingane zilinyazwa ngokwenyuswa nokuvunyelwa kokuziphatha okuholela ekungazali noma ukungafuni ukuzala izingane, kufaka phakathi ngosizo lwe "lumen sex".

Yini okufanele ngiyenze?

Ososayensi, odokotela bezengqondo, abasebenza ngocansi, uMnyango Wezempilo

1.Ukuhlanganisa imizamo yokwakha imibono enenhloso nethembekile ngokwesayensi mayelana nenqubo yengqondo ukuze ubungqingili, ubungqingili, ubudlova nokunye okuthathwa njengabantu kungathathwa njengenketho yezempilo. Dala iqembu elisebenzayo lochwepheshe abasebenza emkhakheni wezengqondo nezengqondo, ezomthetho kanye nesayensi yezomthetho ukwenza ucwaningo oludidiyelwe kanye nomsebenzi wesayensi emkhakheni wezempilo yezengqondo.

2. Shicilela amaphepha ocwaningo ngalezi zihloko ezincwadini zomhlaba wonke naseRussia. Thatha isikhundla esisebenzayo enkulumweni yomhlaba wonke.

3. Yakha imihlahlandlela yomtholampilo ucabangela okwenziwa yisayensi yaseRussia, kufaka phakathi isipiliyoni sokuqeda ukukhangwa kwabobulili obufanayo okungafuneki nokulungisa okunye ukuphambuka ekukhuleni kobungqingili. Dala ukuhlukaniswa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuguqulelwe iRussia Federation, njengoba kwenzeka nge-ICD-9 e-USSR.

4. Sungula izindlela zokulawula imisebenzi yezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nezazi zocansi ezephula umthetho ovimbela ukukhuthazwa kobudlelwano obungebona obendabuko phakathi kwabancane kulokho okubizwa kanjalo. Ukwelashwa kwe- "Gay / trans-affirming" kanye nemizamo yokwethula imibono eyonakalisayo ngaphansi kwesithi "lumen sex".

5. Ukuthuthukisa izindlela ezintsha zokulungisa nokuvimbela ukuphambuka ekukhuleni kobungqingili.

6. Thuthukisa isu elisekelwe ngokwesayensi lokuvikelwa kwamagugu emindeni, ngokushicilelwa kwemisebenzi ezincwadini zamazwe ngamazwe nezaseRussia zomgogodla we-RSCI.

7. Vimbela ukukhishwa kwesitifiketi No. 087 / y "Isitifiketi sokushintsha ubulili." Buyekeza ukufaneleka kwezitifiketi ezikhishwe ngaphambilini.

8. Engeza amalungiselelo amahomoni asetshenziselwa ukubambezela ukukhula kocansi kanye nokudlulela ohlwini lwezidakamizwa ngaphansi kokubala kwe-subject-quantitative.

Okwezishayamthetho nezepolitiki

 1. Ukubheka kabusha izinga lokubambisana ne-UN kanye ne-WHO kanye nokuxhaswa kwazo mayelana nemisebenzi ephikisana noMthethosisekelo, umthetho waseRussia kanye nezinhloso zamasu okukhula okusimeme kwabantu baseRussia Federation ngokwanda kwesikhathi sokuphila kube yiminyaka engama-78. Sikhuluma ngenqubomgomo yenani labantu le-UN jikelele kanye nokugqugquzela ukujwayela kobungqingili ezinganeni emazingeni emfundo ye-WHO yezocansi ikakhulukazi. 

2. Ukuqinisa isijeziso sokukhuthaza ubungqingili, ukuthandana kwabantu bobulili obufanayo, ukukhipha isisu, ukungatholi izingane kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokuziphatha kwabantu ngokweqile esimeni senhlekelele yamanje yabantu. Nweba ukuvinjelwa kwenkulumo-ze yemibono yokuchithwa kwabantu kuyo yonke iminyaka yobudala.

3. Ukuqinisa isijeziso sokwephula umthetho "Ekuvikeleni izingane kulwazi oluyingozi empilweni nasentuthukweni yazo." Yazi ukuzibandakanya kwimpilo yobungqingili kanye "nokwabiwa kabusha ngokobulili" njengokudala ukulimala okulingene ngaphansi kwe-Article 112 yeCriminal Code of the Russian Federation.

4. Sungula uhlelo lokulawula ukusatshalaliswa kolwazi oluyingozi ezinganeni, kufaka phakathi nokubandakanyeka kwamabhizinisi azimele nezinhlangano zemindeni.

5. Ukuphoqa abezindaba abaningi kanye nokuxhumana nabantu abasebenza eRussia ukuvimba ngokuzimela imininingwane eyingozi ezinganeni, ephikisana nemibono yesikole sesayensi saseRussia.

6. Yethula imikhawulo ekusatshalalisweni kwemibono ecekela phansi nengqubuzana namasiko ngomculo nangezinhlelo zemidiya, lapho kunengeka "umculo", amafilimu nemisebenzi yama-blogger ezinkundleni zokuxhumana isebenza njengendlela yokwenza inzuzo.

7. Dala amasayithi ethu azimele okusingathwa kwamavidiyo, izinjini zokusesha ezizimele ngokubukwa kwezinkampani zaseNtshonalanga, kanye namanethiwekhi omphakathi asebenzisana nombuso ekulweni nokusatshalaliswa kolwazi oluyingozi ezinganeni.

8. Khulisa iminyaka yokuvuma kobudlelwano bobungqingili.

9. Ukunikeza ithuba ososayensi baseRussia ukuthi bazwakalise ukuma kwabo kwezesayensi ngaphandle kokwesaba ikhono lomsebenzi kanye nomholo. Ingxenye yebhonasi yomholo wososayensi incike emsebenzini wokushicilela. Ngaphansi kwemibandela "yokunemba kwezepolitiki" nokuvinjelwa, izincwadi zaseNtshonalanga nezaseRussia ezinomthelela omkhulu azishicileli imisebenzi ephikisana nenqubomgomo yokuphelisa ukuziphatha kwabantu (ipropaganda yobungqingili, transsexualism nokunye ukuphambuka kobungqingili), okufaka ingcindezi isethulo samahhala sesimo sesayensi. Ososayensi bayesaba.

Iqembu le-LGBT. Ngicela usizo!

Amasekela athandekayo we-State Duma yeRussian Federation!

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