I-Tag Archive: ukwelashwa kobungqingili

Ukwelashwa Ngokuvuselela - Ukushintsha Kungenzeka

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Ividiyo ephelele ngesiNgisi

Kusukela ngesikhathi senguquko yezocansi, isimo sengqondo ngobungqingili sishintshe kakhulu. Namuhla, kwabongqingili eNtshonalanga, impi ibonakala iyanqotshwa: amaklabhu wezitabane, amaqembu ezitabane, umshado wezitabane. Manje "kulungile." Izijeziso zokuphatha kanye nokuqulwa kwamacala okungakaze kubonwe kulindelwe kulabo abaphikisana nabantu be-LGBT, kanye namalebula womuntu othanda ngokweqile ne-Homophobe.

Ukubekezelela nokwamukelwa okwandile kwenkululeko yezocansi kusebenza kubo bonke abantu kodwa ingxenye eyodwa yabantu - labo abafuna ukuhlukana nobungqingili futhi baqale indlela yokuphila ehlukile. Lamadoda nabesifazane banemizwa yobungqingili, kepha abafuni ukwamukela ubunikazi bobungqingili. Bakholelwa ukuthi ubungqingili abumeleli imvelo yabo yangempela futhi bafuna ukukhululwa.

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Ukwelashwa kabusha: imibuzo nezimpendulo

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Bonke ongqingili?

Igama elithi "Gay" lingumuntu ukukhetha okwami. Akubona bonke abantu abathandana nobungqingili abakhomba “njengobungqingili.” Abantu abangazivezi njengezitabane bakholelwa ukuthi empeleni bayathandana futhi bafuna usizo ekuboneni izizathu ezithile zokuthi kungani bathola ukukhangwa okungathandeki kobulili obuhlukile. Ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, abeluleki kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zisebenzisa izindlela zokuziphatha ukusiza amaklayenti ukuthola izizathu zokuhehwa ngabobulili obuhlukile futhi bawasize ngesineke ukuxazulula izimbangela eziholela emizweni yobungqingili. Lababantu, abayingxenye yomphakathi wethu obalulekile, balwela ukuvikela ilungelo labo lokuthola usizo nokuxhaswa ukuqeda ukuheha okungafunwa ngabobulili obufanayo, bashintshe indlela yabo yokuya ocansini kanye / noma balondoloze ukungashadi. Lokhu kutholakala ngezinhlelo ezibandakanya ubulili, okubandakanya ukwelulekwa kanye nokwelashwa kobungqingili, okwaziwa nangokuthi “I-Sex Oriental Intervention” (i-SOCE) noma i-Reoriorial Therapy.

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